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6	Misandry running rampant at work Exactly.	/r/MensRights	10/01/26 11:22 PM
8	Misandry running rampant at work You're right. We can't speak up. I had our head of Finance being petty and petulant toward me. I would actively be helping her and she wouldn't answer my questions which meant I couldn't adequately help her. Then she'd get mad. We would be in meetings with other people and she would be making snide passive aggressive comments every time I spoke that didn't drive the agenda forward at all. At one point she started talking over me and just continued to talk at the same time as me as a power move a…	/r/MensRights	10/01/26 04:31 PM
81	Majority of women dislike men But part of the problem is weak men enable the behavior. I can't tell you how many times I've been in a position of authority with other men alongside me. Then we had women reporting to us just pushing boundaries hard and not carrying their weight. I'd try to hold them accountable, but they'd just flirt with another male supervisor who would give them a pass which would undermine our authority. I've even had men ask me, "Why do you care so much?" while a woman stood behind him dancing and making…	/r/MensRights	09/01/26 10:32 PM
1	Why do feminists try to gaslight male victims of suicide They just want everything all about them is all. They want to condition society to make it all about them so their needs are met over ours.	/r/MensRights	01/01/26 09:27 PM
11	The absence of men in society is being noticed It's entirely projection. There was a question in askwomen about how women would react to a man saying to them, "Whoa what are you doing?" as she left the house and when she asked what, the man said, "Leaving the house looking that good." There were several women clearly just SOUR they didn't have a man, let alone a man who gassed them up like that. They were working so hard to twist reality. One of them said something to just derail and OP asked, "So how would the scenario in the OP make you fe…	/r/MensRights	01/01/26 09:26 PM
34	"You're just like him" while you're still a kid. This is kind of related, but kind of not. But when I was a boy, I noticed that adults expected us to reason and rationalize like adults. They would explain things to girls or give them a pass on their first offense and explain things to them and how to reason and all that. But when a boy did something because he genuinely didn't know better, he got screamed at and punished. This gave adults and the people around us a way to take advantage of us. Because all they had to do was write us off and sa…	/r/MensRights	01/01/26 09:18 PM
20	If they are forcing companies to hire and promote more women into their workforce and balance the gender ratio why don't they force schools and daycare centers to hire more men? And why haven't I heard about any lawsuits being filed for this kind of anti-male discrimination? They are. When younger people go to find a job with no experience, white collar places are for more likely to hire women for things like receptionist. Because they want a pretty friendly face to represent them. Men often have to get work in construction and jobs like that. They have a much harder time getting some office admin job no experience.	/r/MensRights	01/01/26 09:13 PM
3	What makes you think society is gynocentric? Or what makes you think is it not? A big one is how no one holds anything against women. They are not judged like men are. They often don't have any shame because they know society will just forgive and forget or they'll find another man to go to bat for them. But a major one I have noticed since I was a kid is movies and television shows. When I was a young boy starting to like girls and learn about sex - movies baffled me. Because they were not realistic. There would be TV show where a man did something to a woman and the man s…	/r/MensRights	28/12/25 09:03 PM
6	Dating advice for men, from men threads? It's more about being confident. Women don't get invested as easily as men and one small thing will turn a woman off to you forever. Initially focus on them and making them feel special, then ease into getting them into who you are as a person. Women like a bridge between nice but not too nice. Be goofy about being nice. For example, if she's over and asks for a blanket - throw it at her. (Softly.) Have a hand towel and hand soap in the bathroom. Have clean towels and new toothbrushes in the pac…	/r/MensRights	28/12/25 08:43 PM
1	White Male Privilege - anti-racism? I ignore this stuff because it's see-through. I really feel like people try to hold white men of today accountable for white men of yesterday. White men of the past had advantages and profited. And they spin it into say we profited from the ones who came before us. A lot of previous white men profited by the times they were in. Kennedys being a good example. I was born at the start of the 90s. I came from nothing, joined the military to escape poverty. Interest rates for me my whole like we .001…	/r/MensRights	05/12/25 04:03 AM
16	Women Behaving in Toxic ways Maybe it is getting more brazen and I haven't seen it. But to me, women in society have always been brazen because society doesn't hold them accountable in the same way as men. It's very common in working environments. I've seen a woman in a meeting be condescending to a man speaking and no one said anything. Later that day, she sends an email wanting an ETA. He writes back, "It will be completed by the end of day." He had to answer to his boss on why he was being so short with and had a problem…	/r/MensRights	04/12/25 07:38 PM
1	Guy who coughed and moved seats on a bus labelled as a creep I would assume he moved closer to the door because his stop was coming up.	/r/MensRights	04/12/25 07:04 PM
1	Men who dismiss the Misandry of women as laughable are part of the problem. To those reading - please try and hear my point. Something that isn't talked about a lot is this - Toxic masculinity is something men do to other men. I don't like terms because they lead to people using them to generalize or be dismissive. OP is a good example of TM. One of the hardest things about being a man is navigating other men being weak in regard to women. You have environments where women get away with a lot because there are men who allow it. For example - I was a supervisor among a g…	/r/MensRights	25/11/25 11:49 PM
25	The Dark Side Of Dating: Another male bashing documentary on Channel 5 The angles are always one sided. If you ask women if they feel like makeup, push up bras, yoga pants with a back center seam designed to make their butt cheeks pop out is a form of compensating they will say no. Then when baked into a corner, they admit it is compensating but add, "But society makes them feel like they need to!" But when people talk about men - The bar to label a man is compensating is extremely low. A man drives a car he likes and that is twisted into "compensating." You point …	/r/MensRights	25/11/25 01:45 AM
3	Is femicide an unfair term? I don't pay attention to terms at all. They are just tools to skew or manipulate perspective. Look at the term female - the term "dude" is used with the same exact connotation as female a lot in movies, TV, the internet, etc. It is used to generalize, dismiss valid concerns, etc. But men don't throw a fit like women do when they hear the term "female". because at the end of the day there is no reason to give it or any other term power over you.	/r/MensRights	25/11/25 12:40 AM