| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Messed up tonight | Field Report | Plupert | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 06:12 AM |
| 0 | I messed up (I think) | Field Report | Plupert | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 11:21 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | First “success” in a whileOh yeah I know I’m not a bitch I guess that’s just how I talk sometimes 😂. A better word would be shy and introverted. Thanks for the advice/recommendations. She lives closer to the city center than I do so going multiple places should be easy if that’s where it goes. Edit: I’m also in therapy for the whole confidence thing but I haven’t gone in a month. Senior in college I got a lot of shit going on | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 06:34 AM |
| 9 | Is Giving girls a second chance a bad idea?I would give it another chance you never know what could’ve happened at work. Not a dating example but my boss was stuck at our work for 3-4 hours after the end of his shift because we had a pipe burst | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 06:29 AM |
| 3 | How to have fun doing new things/new places?You shouldn’t be going after others until you can take good care of yourself | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 04:33 AM |
| 7 | Girl texts "thinking of you :kissing_face:" What to reply?Even better send her the gif of Han Solo saying it to Leia in Star Wars link | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Dry spell has me feeling like a loserI’m 21M turning 22 next month. I haven’t had sex since the fall of 2017 (for a variety of reasons and I’m not really mad about it). Relax dawg 6 mo. Is nothing + we’re young we have pretty much our whole lives left | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 06:43 PM |
| 2 | This sub is delusional.I half agree, I don’t really use this sub much but from what I’ve seen most of the behaviors that should be changed are ones associated with low confidence so that’s something that should be changed. I do agree that people changing themselves specifically to get laid is toxic and some people on this sub promote putting on an act. But I don’t believe most people do. It might just be an issue of verbiage tbh. | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 06:25 PM |
| 2 | This sub is delusional.I think it’s a combination of shyness and low confidence and lack of experience for most of us. Like I have a fair amount of female friends I was just not interested in anything more than platonic bc of low confidence until very recently | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 06:02 PM |
| 2 | I messed up (I think)Yeah, probably. I have a problem if I get caught in the moment like that where I’m not expecting anyone to say anything like that to me it just catches me off guard. I see her hitting it off with some other dude rn, they may have been together from the start but I wouldn’t know unless I did something 🙃 | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 11:41 PM |
| 1 | A recap of college and a thank you.Technically I still can as I’m in college still but I graduate in 2 weeks so it’s not worth it. I’ve never been much of a ONS type guy | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 04:45 PM |
| 2 | how to act on first date? and how to make sure condom is being used properly so a girl doesn't get pregnant?I don’t know what I would do in that situation because I hate coffee. I guess I’d have to drink anything else they had 😂 | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 03:02 AM |
| 2 | how to act on first date? and how to make sure condom is being used properly so a girl doesn't get pregnant?Coffee doesn’t mean coffee, it means you’re getting laid. I gotta save that quote | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 02:48 AM |
| 4 | A recap of college and a thank you.I’m 21 and didn’t talk to girls my entirety of time in college you didn’t really start late lol. 19 is completely normal to start doing that shit | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 06:21 PM |
| 1 | How does one start dating? Is not having experience a turn off?Oh I’m aware, that mindset was just drilled into me when I was younger and I didn’t really snap out of it until like a month or 2 ago. Which by that point I just wanted to focus on getting school done before I go for anything | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 04:26 AM |
| 1 | I find myself not that goodlooking but women say different. Why is myself image so bad/low?I’m the same way man, now I’m not extremely good looking but my female friends have said I’m above average. I’ve always thought I was ugly because my old “friends” gave me a lot of shit when I was younger. I was the butt of 99% of the jokes, I’m still working on getting my self esteem back and I basically never approached women from age 17 to now (21 about to turn 22) because my self esteem was so low. But I have started going to the gym and trying to be more sociable with my friends when I’m ou… | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 01:22 AM |
| 2 | How does one start dating? Is not having experience a turn off?Coming from someone kind of like OP, I also don’t really plan on starting to try to date until after college. I’ve never really intrigued into ONS which is most of what my university (or all of them) are. And if I did find something serious I didn’t want to be in the position where I’d have to pick between a job that’s far away and the girl. And I wouldn’t want them to do that for me either. Note: I literally graduate college next week hence why I browse this sub from time to time. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Messed up tonightOh I know I wasn’t even intending to hit on anyone that night. I just got caught completely off guard. | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Messed up tonightYeah I try to do that, I’m very comfortable with talking to most people or like a friend of a friend. But my nature is very introverted so I won’t really try to talk to completely new people unless I have a reason to. But I’m working on it. | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Messed up tonightYeah, I really just got caught off guard, cuz like I said I wasn’t really looking for anything I was just tryna vibe with my friends. “Hindsight is 20/20” | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 06:49 AM |
| 3 | Messed up tonightYeah I know, I’m bad at talking to people just overall. Pretty much as soon as they said that I laughed with them and the bartender gave me my drink and I just left. Believe me I know my communication skills are bad, it takes me weeks to get comfortable with people lol. | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 06:30 AM |
| 1 | What are you working on to improve your attractiveness? How's it going?I have GERD, which is basically heartburn. But the GERD itself is also on crack. It’s kinda gross but I basically puke like 50%, of what I eat. Some days it gets so bad I can’t even keep down water. I’ve been dealing with it in varying severity for 5 years and I’m seeing my 3rd specialist soon 🙃 | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 05:27 AM |
| 2 | What are you working on to improve your attractiveness? How's it going?Yes, I agree. For me gym is especially tough bc I’m skinny and have a stomach problem that makes eating the required amount for it to do anything physically nearly impossible. Having one of my jacked friends show me the ropes tmrw tho | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 03:57 AM |
| 13 | What are you working on to improve your attractiveness? How's it going?Gym, confidence and social skills. Everything else I’ve got covered pretty much | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women are aware of the skillset guys have to have to be successful at datingThis is true in 99% of cases but for me personally I have a medical condition that makes eating very hard for me. As such I am very skinny and the "minimum requirement" of a decent body for me is 10x harder to achieve. But people don't know that so I'm probably rejected before I say a word. Like I probably would do with a girl who is obese. | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 10:35 PM |
| 1 | It’s time to start the journeythank u | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 08:37 PM |
| 2 | If you were in college again what mistakes would you avoid making and what would you do differently?As a senior college student who got no action (partly due to low sex drive but mostly due to me being a bitch) 1. Lift weights, I’m very small and just starting to lift now I wish I did earlier 2. Realize my low self confidence was an issue and get therapy for it (doing that rn) 3. Realizing that the women all had flaws and not just being gobsmacked about how good they looked 4. Not being scared of rejection (still working on it) 5. Actually speak to people and not be afraid or whatever could ha… | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 08:21 PM |
| 42 | Whats your biggest fear about talking to women?yeah mine is basically the harshly being rejected or saying something like “lol you thought you had a chance” some college girls are ruthless | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Is it weird to go out to dinner on a first date in the US?I don’t have much experience going on dates but both of those things are perfectly acceptable first dates. But I’d say of the two dinner is perceived to be more serious | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 12:56 AM |
| 3 | Unpopular opinion: not gauging your level of attractiveness off of how many women you’re currently talking to but instead your success in your own lifeYeah 100% I don’t have much success with women in real life or on Tinder. But the mindset for me needs to be truthfully I am bad at taking pictures and I usually end up being way too shy to approach a girl in person. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 06:02 PM |
| 27 | How often/much do you guys shave your privates?I do every 2 weeks usually and I just trim it down to the 1 guard | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 03:20 AM |
| 1 | My mind doesn't let me get out of my comfort zone and it's killing me.Yeah, working out is a lot easier said than done for me cuz I have a stomach issue that makes consuming a lot of calories hard. But I’m gonna work with a nutritionist | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 06:22 PM |
| 1 | My mind doesn't let me get out of my comfort zone and it's killing me.Oh I was for the longest time bc my sex drive was pretty much off from meds. I mean I’d like to get laid but it’s not the end of the world if I don’t get sex soon. I just need to be better at flirting/seduction in general. | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 04:55 PM |
| 1 | My mind doesn't let me get out of my comfort zone and it's killing me.I think I do, I have a fairly large group of friends in comfortable around, and if someone new or someone I know not that well initiates conversation with me I’m fine. But going up to someone makes me so uncomfortable for some reason | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 02:22 PM |
| 1 | My mind doesn't let me get out of my comfort zone and it's killing me.Agreed, girls where I am don’t really do that much though. At least to me lmao | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Daygame At the BeachWhat did u say to em? I’m going on a trip tmrw for a week and might just say fuck it since I’ll likely never see any of those people ever again | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 04:16 AM |
| 1 | My mind doesn't let me get out of my comfort zone and it's killing me.Yeah feel that, I’m not even necessarily looking for just sex. I kinda just need to get better at it for later in life bc I have the seduction experience of a 13 year old lmao. One thing I’ve been doing is if I’m out in public and I see someone with a cool shirt I’ll tell em it’s cool and ask where they got it. | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 04:05 AM |
| 3 | What are some nicknames I can use to tease her?I can second this, I’m not dating the girl but I’m good friends with one of my friends fiancé. We were all in a group chat one of our friends drunk tried to type her name and swapped two of the letters. That typo is now her nickname when we’re around | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 04:00 AM |
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