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Then stay off OLD. You can walk around any busy center in a city and see attractive women with average looking men(by those OLD standards). Women aren't purely physical creatures, and you can 100% improve to look above average when the average is literally dressing decent and showering daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:38 AM
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Yes, and she was used, and now she's lashing out. Look at post history. It's nothing but spite over a man she claimed used and manipulated her for months only to abandon her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:22 AM
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You asked a question and got an answer, and you're upset?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:20 AM
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Channel is down. It's on the internet forever. Can't scrub when these different blogs and react channels have hundreds of videos across multiple sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:44 AM
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100%. Kids seriously have no gauge on how much a small action they had when they were 6 will affect them in the future. There was a girl I met who was a part of one of those family blogs. She said she still struggles to get a job, because when recruiters look her up, they see a ton of embarrassing stories of her that her mother posted. Seriously messed up to exploit kids for short term financial gains
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:35 AM
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Most don't, but you never hear about the "Nice, chill housewife" of your favorite NFL/NBA/Other player, because the media only reports on girls who make a big stir off the field(Patrick Mahomes wife is a perfect example, she got torn by the media for her behavior). The vast majority are women you'll never hear about. Obviously, when you have national media with eyes trained and laser focused on a group of a couple hundred to thousands, there's bound to be a few that stand out as especially bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:33 AM
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I mean, your post history suggests you're just a bitter, sad person who can't move on even though that man was apparently just "so bad" for you that you're still posting about him 8 months after a breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:38 AM
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Start reporting the cases of women perpetrators who, by the CDC's own words, commit rape at the same rate as men(or as they call it "Forced to penetrate"). Bad people commit crimes. Difference is, women are, statistically speaking, significantly less likely to actually be held responsible for those crimes. https://www.nsvrc.org/sites/default/files/2021-04/NISVS_Report2010-a.pdf Here's a link to the 2010 national report, which states that women and men were both raped at similar rates, but women …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:20 AM
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They cannot stand to see a brother happy. It's a evil world we livin in
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:19 PM
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They never told me they wanted casual, they wore a mask and were a completely different person. This is someone who was nosying into my life even though I kept them at arms length, always wanted to know what I was doing, checking in on me — they clearly knew I was vulnerable. Then proceeded to court me for months on end, “missing puzzle piece” and all gassing up behaviour, making me think I was the one, as they would purposely show texts from other girls signifying they aren’t speaking to them a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:18 PM
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That's just flat out wrong. Sofia Vergara, Alina Baraz, Ana De Armas, Kim Kardashian. There are so many women who are older who look great. Brittany Renner got a reputation as someone you don't want to be around, but I can flat out guarantee there are multiple attractive, successful men that would absolutely date her. She's focused on raising her kid, but there are still plenty of dudes that would date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:15 PM
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Even if I were to remove the equivalent of my ex out of this and speak on a more generalised note. If we circle back to hookup culture, “situationships” and all this common nonsense, grass is greener syndrome is very rampant in this generation. Therefore discard and moving on is so common, it’s also masked under; “avoidant” which is another common push. You do realize you don't need to go into these kinds of relationships, right? I mean, if a guy tells you he only wants casual, then you pushing …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:49 PM
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Agree to a certain degree. Men absolutely should be more about men's rights nowadays, and I'm seeing more and more men be bitter about the whole market and how things have turned out for them. These aren't bad looking guys either, they were just in their 20s and now that they're doing even better in their 30s its flipped for them. Beating him over the head, by calling them autistic, weird, or anti-social, when the men no longer care because they feel unsupported in society will only push men fur…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:44 PM
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They absolutely can be above average. Average looks are easy in the short term. Above average takes a lot longer. That's why women who are average generally have all the short term stuff down, but not the long term stuff. Men can easily go from below average to average in a month, but it'll take like, a year or two for either gender to go from average to above average, because what you need to do to get there takes a hell of a lot more effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:35 PM
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I think nowadays due to how social media has riddled everyone’s brains (grass is greener syndrome, more accessibility like Tinder and love being so devalued like people seemingly forgotten the proper meaning of what it’s like to be in love or to love someone) this is why it’s harder to believe that it’s deeper than that, and that they’re coping; often imo they aren’t. I think that’s where the lines get blurry nowadays but a couple years ago it was likely to understand it was coping. Not everyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:33 PM
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It actually becomes a lot easier when you're in a relationship as a man. When you're a man and you get into a relationship, all of a sudden it's like all the women who never paid any attention to you want to ruin things for you. Just can't see a man happy I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:58 PM
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It's a double standard. They often don't really want a "traditional wife", they want to exercise their spending power to have easy sex with women. It makes sense; if you have no success with women in the states(Seeing the UK a lot more), go somewhere you'll be appreciated. This comes with obvious downsides. There have been a lot of reports of men being drugged, robbed, and killed in places like the Philippines and Colombia. Most of these men simply cannot get sex in the west, so they go elsewher…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:57 PM
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Putting themselves out there more. Most average men fail because they put themselves in the worst places. Apps, bars, and clubs are all places where people are generally the most on guard and only looking for looks. Meeting through friends or social settings that are more relaxed are generally all better indicators. The girl I'm currently seeing I met in a coffee shop, and she has literally told me she probably wouldn't have paid a ton of mind to me if I was on an app because I would've been fil…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:49 PM
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I read that men get over a breakup quicker but then down the road actually process their feelings later. While women take longer initially but when they move on they are moved on. Sometimes, but generally it's just avoiding putting the work to reflect on why things ended. It's a defense mechanism. It happens for both genders. Rest of your post I fully agree with. OP is just a narcissist who sees women as sex objects that you can trade in when you get bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:46 PM
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I don't know if that's really true. A lot of men and women use bounce backs as a way to avoid introspection. Basically, they say "Well, my last relationship ended poorly, but this one is going great, so it must be them!". Sure, there are men that didn't care and move on fast, just like how there are women who do the same, but generally both genders need an amount of time to actually process their own emotions. They aren't affected, and they found you diposable. They're with someone else immediat…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:44 PM
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A 190 score suggests some error in the test. It's because you cannot use a universal test to understand IQ. The woman with the highest IQ(somewhere around 228) said the test is useless because, once you fall outside of a statistical range and push into outliers, the math doesn't make sense and you start to get extreme numbers that don't make sense, which makes perfect sense to me. Also, being good at math is not a great indicator of intelligence. PDE and SDE are math that are used in my workplac…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:20 PM
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The biggest manifestation of men's self-worth being tied to sex-having is struggling men being told to self improve. And sure, what else could we tell them? And THAT'S my point. What else could we tell them. That's men's reality. Men can be in a position where you are "not good enough", however you wanna spin why, and many are. Women don't have a 1:1 equivalent to this, not to this degree, and their libido is different so they don't really get it. Although I do agree, in defense of women I have …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:58 PM
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While that is true, the amount of single fathers making great money without a ton of options is really small. I work in an industry with a lot of highly paid men. They can get divorced tomorrow and be dating within a short amount of time. The fact of the matter is most of these men aren't really getting divorced because they don't have any reason to get divorced. Income is actually one of the biggest indicators of divorce, as men with higher incomes tend to be ambitious, driven, sociable, and ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:51 PM
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But most of the films based on true stories of people wrongly imprisoned are from the USA. Because it's a US audience watching and US viewers. I speak fluent Spanish, and I can tell you there are about 10x the amount of content about wrongful imprisonment and wrongful convictions in other countries. Difference is, you don't see it. It is in this same country that Republicans fought against slavery, and today it is governed by a Democrat. Terrible correlative. That happened centuries ago, and sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:56 PM
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if a man wants to define the relationship, he will. If a woman wants to define the relationship, she will. Tired of men always being expected to be the initiators of everything. Most men would probably appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:31 PM
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I'm speaking about THE FREEDOM COUNTRY UUUUUURAAHHHHHH
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:29 PM
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My previous partners all said I have good tasting cum(I guess in comparison) because I take really good care of my health. Make sure to eat some salads here and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:29 PM
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Men think women are bad at sex too. A lot of the population sucks at sex. Difference is, men don't complain about it because then they wouldn't get it. If a woman tells a dude he sucks at sex, that won't mean he'll never do it again. Hell, he might even try to improve. You tell a woman she sucks at sex...good luck trying to get sex again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:27 PM
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Using someone as a human fleshlight for 10 minutes isn't fun. Sure, you can get off, but then you're like "Man, I put in all this effort for that??? Fuck that"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:26 PM
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and cum tastes gross. Gotta make them eat their celery, stay hydrated, and DON'T SMOKE. Apparently that's a big no no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:25 PM
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It's just an example of "Grass is always greener". Men think women have it easier, women think men have it easier. You can probably pull 100 different statistical analysis's out to support either side. There's way more nuance to this than you're allowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:23 PM
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I mean, you are right, but that example probably isn't the best one, because generally the percent of people that defend the woman in that instance is incredibly low. I went to a gym where a woman did this to another guy. She got perma banned from all gyms in the area after the TikTok went viral. Other women in the gym defended the dude, saying he was literally just looking around. It's a gym, it's a public space, and you're recording yourself for the whole internet to see, so someone maybe gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:22 PM
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I used to have this problem. You're probably not connecting with people on common interests or really showing them who you are, which is a defense mechanism. Eventually, you have to let people in if you want to see if they're really friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:16 PM
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Doesn't mean you should look in the casual bin for serious, because you'll find a lot more crap than gold
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:32 AM
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Make. Him. It is demanded.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:31 AM
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It's not dating advice. It's literally what catches women's attention. This is one of the only areas women can actually help.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:27 AM
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Yeah, of course men are attracted to young women There are some things that will generally be attractive I said this in the original post. I didn't think it needed to be emphasized. Both genders are attracted to some sort of youth and health. That doesn't mean men don't also find older women attractive. Selma Hayek still looks incredible. Age isn't the only indicator. Men generally find attributes that are most common with young people(clean skin, good hair, no wrinkles, healthier) but that does…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:57 AM
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They had a stroke on a post Single women are the most self actualised demographic. The most intelligent women I know from uni are all in long term relationships because they can properly communicate and learn from their mistakes. OP is so delusional it's actually hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:32 AM
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I don't have access to my privmed from uni which is where I found it. I went to a school where I could get a ton of research papers. I'll ask a friend who works at a uni if he can find it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:30 AM
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Women have more access to dating while young, so when a woman is young she gets attention and gets the world showering her in praise and attention and love. Men, meanwhile, get absolutely nothing in their 20s. You've gotta work for every inch. That lines up well with relationship status, rates of depression, loneliness, and reported lifetime regret. Men in their 20s have higher rates per 100,000 for being worse in all of those categories. However, once you look at the data for 30 year old's, it …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:51 AM
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Because it's your gut telling you to "run away and never look back" because there's some trait the man has that your gut is trying to tell you about, and it's designed that way to make sure women don't get pregnant from a man who won't give the best possible offspring. Men don't have it because men don't need to worry about the downsides of choosing the wrong partner to mate with. They can have multiple children from multiple women, and never have to worry about having picked the wrong mate. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:41 AM
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She's mainly right because it puts you in a bad crowd of people. Generally, promiscuous people tend to group, and in that group you're more likely to have people who assault others. It sucks, but it is a fact of life that most women are not randomly assaulted, but rather by people they know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:23 AM
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My profile got about 2x the response rate after I had 2 women review it. It's pretty typical advice from people who actually get success on the apps. I don't use them anymore bc I don't enjoy them, but when I did it wasn't terrible when I had good photos and prompts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:19 AM
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You make a good profile and follow someone, maybe DM based on a story. You kinda get a feel for it after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:17 AM
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Just get a sister/brother and make them make you one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:16 AM
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How is that overriding any biological instinct? And what double standard are you talking about? The only one I can think of is the body count one, which is men listening to their instincts to procreate with more women, which men are hardwired to do, and women are hardwired to seek out men with higher body counts. Mate choice copying is a heavily studied topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:35 PM
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That's just fundamentally untrue. I believe whoever has the most downtime should be the one doing most of the housework. If I have a project at work and my GF is at home, I expect most of the chores to be done. If I'm at home and my GF is working on something, then I'll get whatever needs to be done, done. You're projecting because you pick men who don't put effort into relationships with you and you want to blame the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:33 PM
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That's so wrong it's comical. The number of domestic abuse cases police follow up with where the man is getting abused is in the single digits. If a woman says her husband is beating her, the first thing everyone says is to leave him. Vice versa is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:30 PM
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If you define equality as everyone doing exactly the same then it's obviously harder to achieve. That is the definition of equality I find it odd that you wouldn't want an equal partner. But then I define it differently. I do have equal partnership, but everyone has their strengths and weaknesses, and to deny that a man who brings in twice the income is somehow not more important to the household is absurd. True 100% equality is near impossible, but women want equality in the stuff that benefits…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:28 PM
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That is a wildly different situation. CB was driving, and Rihanna was full on trying to kick him. It's not even comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:23 PM
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These nerds are absolutely not socially unsuccessful. 2 of the people in my team are dating women working in the modelling industry. We all have pretty large social scenes. These people are absolutely not failing socially, as the job requires you to be very social. There's people constantly talking. The difference is, we don't generally find a lot of joy spending money on something that actively kills us for a short term benefit to mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:55 PM
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I never said I want equality. I was responding to you asking what equality is for men. I've never thought true equality would work. Both people have their strengths and weaknesses. I love to cook, so I do most of the cooking. I don't like to do deep cleaning of bathrooms, so my partner does them. If I see a chore needs to be done and I have free time, I do it. This whole 50/50 thing is just another way to attack men when women pick guys that never put effort in So you want less responsibility fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:53 PM
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Let me ask you this. When you want to be a great basketball player, do you read books on how to be a great basketball player? Do you watch basketball games? No, you go out and play the damn game. What this guy is saying is that men need to wait to actually get skin in the game, when that's how you're meant to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:50 PM
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Those men aren't worth dating. If it's 50/50, that means 50/50 in everything. That means the man might plan for the first date, the woman has to play the second and so on. That means the woman has to approach men just as much. That means women have give as much emotional support as men often have to give. If a woman does all these things, then realistically she shouldn't ask, but should expect a man who does half the housework and childcare. Every time a woman has put in effort with me on the fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:48 PM
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Men don't really have those instincts. They have the "she's hot, I'm horny, I want to have sex with her". That's about our upper limit on instincts. The rest has to be purely logical. Edit: I can't read. Point is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:44 PM
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I don't. I don't think they work. Other men do. That's what I mean when I describe a 50/50 relationship. Some men do want true egalitarianism. Problem is, these men rarely ever get actual egalitarian relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:43 PM
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Because Costco is cheap. I never said they were eating there, but they do go there like once a week to buy big things of chicken and crap to cook. They're smart people, and don't throw money around easily. Being smart and well paid doesn't mean you look down on an institution that provides solid value and good food at affordable rates. Plus, Costco is just fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:26 PM
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Has that happened to you often? It's not about how often it happens, it's about if it happens. And it's happened twice to me, once in SF and another in Chicago. One of those times I was with my then GF, and she basically used me as a shield. So men need to want to do half the housework and childcare. They have to go part time to facilitate it. Give up hobbies. I have 2 friends who did this. They went part time to help support their families. One of them got divorced 2 years later because the wif…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:24 PM
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They're nerds. I work in quant. It's not the same as typical finance. Most of the people I work with went to STEM schools and have advanced degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:10 PM
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If a mugger comes up and holds a gun to a couple, or a group of men start harassing us, it's almost always on the man to do something about it. When we say equality, we mean you either split everything 50/50, or you aren't equal. You split money 50/50(or however based on income). You split bills. You split responsibility. You split how much effort goes into plans and who is engaging with the other partner. Most women aren't equal. They want equality when it benefits them. They want men to do hal…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:09 PM
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You give all the investment, but none of the attraction. Basically, you give a woman all the benefits of a relationship(emotional support, kindness, time, attention) while never needing to sleep with you. The reason that woman intervened in your relationship was because you were no longer giving her this stuff. We all know the girl that friend-zones a guy, but as soon as he gets in a relationship she's all of a sudden super jealous and tries to get in between them. Well, it's because she's no lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:01 PM
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Just balls to the wall. Forget the crowd. Find one person and only talk to them for 45 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:54 PM
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The thing that's tricky with abusive relationships is that the concept of "mutual abuse" is still widely debated. When two people in a relationship seem abusive, one of them is acting out through "reactive abuse." Generally, these are situations where I just think it best that both sides break off. It's never worth it over the long term. Both sides hurt each other. Maybe they just aren't meant to be. Even if it doesn't hurt, it's more about the act itself. It's an attempt to intimidate and contr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:53 PM
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Most men need to get their profiles reviewed by a woman. Hell, most people need to get their profiles reviewed by someone of the opposite gender. It'd fix so many issues, and people just don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:40 PM
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I got slammed in another thread for saying that women want to be approached outside of bars and in grocery stores. They want to be approached when they want to. That's fine, but I don't go to bars. Neither do most of my colleagues. A lot of my colleagues are exactly the guys that women fawn over. I work in finance, and none of my coworkers make less than 250K a year. Most of them dress nice(because finance has dress codes and all), smell nice, take good care of themselves, and generally are real…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:39 PM
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I actually think men are pretty clear about what men want. First, men are much more varied in their preferences. Studies generally back up that men find a wider range of women attractive than women to men, so it's not really like every woman will be attractive to every man. I, for example, really am not attracted to blue eyes. It's something I've never been attracted to. Plenty of other men are attracted to it. So it's fairly difficult to say for looks. There are some things that will generally …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:34 PM
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I've never seen a public speaker try to learn in inner depths of someone's personality and make a deep connection for 30 minutes straight. Public speakers aren't connecting to one person. They're connecting to an audience, which is generally very different than connecting to an individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:25 PM
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They aren't incentivized to get you into a relationship, they're actively incentivized to PREVENT you from getting into a long term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:24 PM
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It's very different. When in a group setting, you never go super deep into conversation with one person. Everything is either a debate or surface level. One-on-one is way more about getting to know the individual. It's a completely different ball game. It's like saying a person who's really good at basketball must be a great free point shooter, when we know that's false, because they're different skillsets that require different angles to work at.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:13 PM
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This is true. Most men have awful OLD profiles. Hell, most people in general have terrible OLD profiles, it's just that women don't think they do because they still get matches. In general I just don't think OLD is good. People who are on those apps are A) People who have been in the dating pool for a long time so they don't frequently get picked B) Just looking for hookups or casual C) Just downloaded the app. Women who stay on the apps for a long time get overly jaded to dating and have a nega…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:11 PM
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We gotta stop with the approaching thread. Women have made it clear that they only want to be approached when they want to be approached by who they want to be approached by. Simple. Approaching women is different because you're not making some speech. You're not presenting. You're trying to make a genuine connection with a person. It's like a standup comic being able to talk one on one. Sure, on stage they might be funny, but it'd really grind down on you if they never turned it off and went se…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:06 PM
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The whole problem with the CB relationship was that they both admitted they were in the wrong, yet no one ever criticizes Rihanna for her role in it. They both openly said they brought out the worst in each other, and that it was best that they don't see each other. They had an adult conversation about the topic. Yet, the internet just completely ignores this and attacks CB. I think the biggest reason as to why we "feel" like it's okay for women to attack men is because we don't immediately asso…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:00 PM
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It has to do with biology and anthropology. The part of the brain responsible for that "ick" is much larger and more active in the female brain than the male brain, while the part responsible for the logic part is much less. It evolved this way so women would be able to "ick" away potentially bad partners to mate with back in caveman times. It's why women get stronger gut feelings about something being bad than men. Evolutionarily it made a ton of sense, because picking the wrong partner could e…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:44 PM
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No, because I've put in the work to be better than this. I'd date(and have dated) someone with average looks but a great personality. I wouldn't date someone with great looks but a meh personality. I think if someone is average and stops thinking about what they want and rather looks at what they can give, it makes it a lot easier to find people at your own level. I used to want want want, but I started thinking about what I could give, thought it wasn't much, and changed my own actions, and now…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:26 PM
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No removing the patriarchy means also ridding men of the gender expectations. Otherwise you havent removed it and only some of it... You can remove societal expectations, but you can't remove biology without centuries of evolution. You know the whole "Ick" thing? Yeah, that happens because a man wasn't upholding the typical gender expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:23 PM
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In basically every sitcom over the last 2 decades there are examples of women shamelessly slapping men across the face played off for laughs. You can pull a lot of shows that display this. If I remember correctly, everybody hates chris started with Rochelle slapping Chris across the face. Now, imagine if Julius had slapped a woman. Or when in modern family Gloria slapped Jay for A DREAM. A DREAM. It was played off as comedy. That's not even mentioning celebrity situations. Remember when the whol…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:59 PM
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Yes. You seem to have fallen into a trap where you think men are publicly with each other like women. What's actually odd, is that it is normalized in tv, movies and any media to berate men. Kinda unexplainable... as the "top" successful men are in charge of companies that own the channel television companies, the ones that own Instagram, Facebook, etc... These men do not care about the common man, because it is not only acceptable to berate men on national television, but it gets laughs. Men do…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:36 PM
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Women have significantly easier access to relationships earlier in life so they're able to get a model of what a good relationship and a bad one is much earlier and easier than a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:22 PM
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What does that even mean? Does that mean everyone has to always mind their mouth? Should a woman be shamed on the internet for calling a man short, or fat, or ugly, or poor? I don't see anyone going after these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:20 PM
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It's a evil world we livin in
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:41 AM
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That...that's not what an incel is, factually speaking. You don't need to dislike the opposite gender to be an incel. You just need to not get laid. These people were never informed that it takes an average of X rejections for a guy to find a GF. This is just not true at all. An attractive guy can approach 10 women and get the phone number of maybe 3(dependent on type, single, etc.) while an average or below average guy can approach 100 and get none. There is no "secret formula" it's just being …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:40 AM
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Oh god I actually think that would be the worse smelling room on the planet. I mean, that just sounds insufferable in every way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:34 AM
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I mean the fact that there are probably 20 videos for men to every 1 for women. Most women don't need pickup books or anything like that. Most women can literally just learn a skincare and makeup routine, not be overweight, and they'll find a BF
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:33 AM
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Spam approaches? Dude, you know most of those videos are fake, right? And no, it absolutely is not a big indicator. I've seen multiple threads of dudes with 500+ approaches and 0 punani.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:12 AM
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I felt that way for a long time until I met my first partner in college. She made me feel a lot more comfortable in compliments and feeling mutually adored. It helps a lot to experience compliments and being able to give them in a way that isn't hostile. A lot of the issues around men being unable to express themselves sexually literally just comes from the lack of any sexual experience and, therefore, a lack of a real model on how to treat women. It's like asking a random guy to play basketball…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:09 AM
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It would create less incels by...making the barriers to entry harder? Incel means involuntary celibate. By not going out into the dating world, you are becoming an incel(or I guess volcel would work here too)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:05 AM
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Right, but society never allowed for a middle ground. We were told from a very young age that any objectification is wrong. If a girl is wearing a nice dress, you CAN'T comment on it, otherwise you're a creep. Just forcing young men to be unable to express anything arguably leads to more of the "for fun" discussion, as people are unable to properly know how to respectfully talk about the other gender. Also, how do you want men to refer to women they'd only sleep with and not commit to?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:57 AM
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I used to feel that way, and I know a lot of people who used to feel that way. It mainly comes from households where there was a lack of affection or real model of what a relationship should look like. I know 5 guys that at least used to be like this, and every single one of their parents are divorced without a new partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:54 AM
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The difference is, when women have purity culture men still approach. When men have purity culture, women complain about not getting approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:53 AM
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While I do agree that men need to put in more work, why are we not allowed to date until we've done a fucking CER on dating? Seriously, no one tells women "You need to watch these 5 videos on how to attract men or you're gonna die a virgin" but with a dude you say we need to "research the marketplace" like, what does that even mean? Do I need to go get peer reviewed research or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:51 AM
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As I said from the beginning, it's not about who's hooking up with who, it's about treating people with the same standards. I treat every woman with the same standards and set of rules. If I find out a woman does not, I don't want to date her. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:11 AM
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It's not about LTR and when you sleep with them in an LTR. That's different. What I'm speaking about is making a guy wait because he's "boyfriend material" while allowing other men easy hookups. I've never slept with a woman on the first or second date, and never done a hookup. They don't align with my values of wanting a long term partner who doesn't aspire to hookup culture. If 2 people are clear about a LTR, and have sex on the first or second date and go on to date after, that's different fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:36 AM
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Because it isn’t “giving sex” to someone. They felt comfortable with that person in that moment to have mutual sex. No one was given a gift while you get coal. That has nothing to do with you. It isn’t about you. It could take a couple dates to know you. Do you prefer she discount you right off the bat? You don’t ever feel differently with new people? You like them but aren’t quite there yet? Or do you meet someone you like and go to full blown monogamous relationship in 24 hours If you found ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:40 AM
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So, why would I want to date someone where they're comfortable enough to give sex to someone else early, and comfortable enough to be a fuck buddy to someone else, but somehow I don't make her comfortable and safe. If a girl is not comfortable with me but is with another dude, she can go have the other dude. I, like many other men, am not interested in women who make us feel like they're somehow vetting us or like we need to go through an 18 round interview process while they let another candida…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:36 AM
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That's not the point being made. The point being made is that you make the guy you want to be serious with wait, because you want to use sex as a bargaining chip to gain access to a relationship. Yes, boundaries evolve, and people change, but the implied reasoning was that OP was only giving sex up early in hookups but not to guys that are genuine. If you find out you don't like casual sex, then don't have it. No one is telling you you can't. But don't make a guy wait because you want serious wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:01 AM
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No, I mean American women are way less touchy feely and passionate in everyday life. Latin women court you and expect to be courted. It's like there's no "comfortable" for them, which is really nice. It forces both partners to constantly be on their A game.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:45 PM
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Oh, I was more saying the whole "intense" thing is generally a negative stereotype. Passionate is, however, one word you would definitely use to describe it. Guessing the message you were trying to say just got lost in internet translation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:39 PM
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Women are overly attracted to men they can't get. I've never gotten more attention from women than when I was in a happily committed relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:49 PM
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I never said they could get with those men, I just said they were attracted to those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:44 PM
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They can be intense, This is definitely not true. The whole "spicy Latina" thing is a stereotype that only comes from the fact that American men don't understand the cultural differences. Also, Latin America spans hundreds of different cultures and has a little under double the population of the US. It's such a broad spanning continent. Some cultures are way more "spicy" than others. Caribbean's and Argentinians are VERY different in terms of demeanor. Same with Mexicans and Brazilians. That ste…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:41 PM
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Oh, yeah, I agree with your point. For a lot of older women it's the thrill of it all. A lot of younger men are more horny and less experienced. For them, it's like getting to "show them the ropes" if that makes sense. It's just that older women are told by society that being outward with sex is a bad thing, so they aren't as vocal. You rarely see it publicly because it's kinda taboo in society, which does also add a bit of fun to it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:33 PM
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Yeah but those men are rare and the ones that exist don’t want the kind of partnerships women want. Not necessarily. When you're in your 30s and 40s income peaks. That's more attractive than a man coming out of college that can't afford a lot. I haven't heard of many women who actively seek to date younger men past sex, because women just prefer a lot of the traits of older men. I'm not saying that younger men can't have it, and I'm not saying men in their 30s have all these traits, but I am say…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:31 PM
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No one is angry that women aren't picking them. They're angry that society tells them to do X, they do X, and nothing good happens for them. "Go to college" "Be kind and respectful" "Just be yourself" all things society tells young men, yet they don't get the results they've been promised. They're angry that they see a small percent of men getting all the attention. They're angry that, as they get into their 30s with more money and status and stability, all of a sudden the women who got ran thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:15 PM
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Yes. Just sex. That's pure desire to have easy, strings free sex. Doesn't mean they'd ever want to settle with these guys. It's kinda a win win. Young men are horny, older women are horny, neither wants to settle down. Done deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:09 PM
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While I do agree that over-promiscuity is a serious modern problem, a lot of these things are just because of a minority of the population. Even high status 20% men are generally in relationships more often than not. It's just the small minority of the small minority that's doing all the fucking. Also, that title is, like, so wordy. Sounds like the title of a study I'd read on PubMed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:08 PM
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That's also online dating, where all you can really go by is looks. A lot of guys become a lot more attractive in person. Women literally say "A guy who can make me laugh" because it's genetically hardwired into their brains to like that. How can you make a girl laugh in a photo on a dating profile?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:05 PM
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Every guy hates option 2. Why do we have to wait for what you gave to another guy early? Fuck that, either you make every guy wait or you make no guys wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:02 PM
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Women are bad at dating advice because their emotional, subconscious brain has a lot more control than they like to admit. We, as humans, cannot control how we feel. We can only react to those emotions. According to research, men feel less emotions and generally have much more of their thinking grounded in the very logical, conscious part of the brain. This is why, when a woman tells us problems to vent, we're trying to come up with solutions. We don't really think with the subconscious part of …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:01 PM
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My biggest problem with women's communication is that they get mad at a guy for doing the same thing they do. If a girl gives me the cold shoulder, I'm expected to just figure out what's making her angry. If I do the same, all of a sudden I'm the problem for not clearly communicating my needs. It's also really tough for men who are neurodivergent in some manner. Men are significantly more likely to be diagnosed and hit harder by the symptoms of conditions such as autism, ADHD, OCD, and other con…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:51 PM
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It's uncommon because women are attracted to guys with money, status, stability, maturity, and traits that take time(muscles and facial hair to name a few). Women mostly see these young guys as easy sex, but they wouldn't really want to settle down with them long term because of their lack of many traits outside of youth and youth attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:46 PM
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I agree, solely because people are more scared of a Trump presidency again than people think. In 2020, Trump won 94% of the Republican vote, with Biden winning the same amount for Dems. Trump, in the exit polls for the states with primaries, has only managed to rake in about 88% of Republican voters saying they'd vote for him come November. He's alienated too many people IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:44 PM
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What's also a big difference is that Latin women HATE dudes that aren't romantic. It's give and take. American women are fine with a dude who never opens doors and buys them flowers as long as they're 6ft. Latin women are not. Honestly, latin dating culture sounds a lot nicer
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:41 PM
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"I'm fine" 2 words every man dreads
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:22 AM
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I never said they were clear. Women have somehow managed to perpetuate the lie that they're great communicators when that couldn't be further from the truth. Both women and men are scared of rejection. The difference is, one gender is coddled and the other is thrown into the flames.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:00 AM
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That's just fundamentally false. First, I've been approached probably 20 odd times by women. It happens, but only when you look good. It took years of time to get there. Second, if you never get the "fuck me" eyes from women, you might just not be very attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:50 AM
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This is the fundamental problem. Women make the first move...by looking in your general direction. Choosing signals are a real thing. If a girl isn't staring you down or giving you some sort of "Please please please approach me" signals, you have basically no chance. Guys will just approach anyone, rather than the people who directly want to be approached. Do I think it's dumb, for these stupid little games to be played? Yes, but dating is a stupid little game.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:40 AM
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Well, people on here aren't neurologists, and the way you formatted your whole post was overly academic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:01 AM
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I don't think this is the best place to ask. Most people on here don't have the same insight as reading research papers will give you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:43 AM
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All this science of hormones stuff is not something I really know what to do with. Like, I guess there's different styles of love and hormones dependent on stage of dating, but I really don't know what all this means in the grander scheme of things
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:18 AM
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It depends. I've had European girls say that American women are terrible for not paying the bill and being more supportive as a whole. I've had Latin girls tell me that American women are overly obsessed with height. I've had Chinese women who are some of the most materialistic people you'll ever meet. I will say that straight up saying they're more toxic is not true. They're just different. The difference is that American women are pushed into English speaking media and SM more often, so you se…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:15 AM
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Dude I make silly puzzles on the computer for a living. This is way to confusing for me to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:12 AM
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I don't know what you're trying to argue anymore. Your whole point is just "Sexual compatibility isn't important, until it is" like, yeah, women aren't straight forward about sex. Women aren't straight forward about jack shit. They dance around shit hoping dudes pick up on miniscule hints rather than be good communicators.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:25 PM
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Not once did I say it's not important. No one is obligated to do what they don't want to do. I take issue with men using 'sexual compatibility' as a tool to CONVINCE women to have sex with them by exploiting the empathy gap. I did address this. If I walk away because a woman won't have sex with me, I get called a pig and someone who's just interested in sex. If a woman won't have sex with a man, she's "holding off to see if he's right" while if a man won't have sex with a woman he's generally se…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:52 PM
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You see women complaining about dick size, 'inexperienced men' and men being terrible in bed a lot more than you see men complaining about women being awful in bed or 'star-fishing'. This could lead one to the conclusion that unpleasant sexual experiences are more likely and common for women than men. Most guys are just happy to be able to have sex. We don't complain because we don't get it very often. It'd be like us complaining about a woman cooking and putting in effort for us. We don't compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:30 PM
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Men love to go on about how it's necessary to sleep with someone before entering into an exclusive relationship with someone or marriage but this is just men exploiting women's lack of understanding for the male sexual drive to get their way. Women will never be able to understand what it's like to be a male with significantly higher testosterone and androgen levels and therefore take men's word for it when they tell them how important sex is for them early into a relationship. It's akin to some…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:30 PM
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I do somewhat agree with the sentiment. The people who aren't gonna vote for a woman were never gonna vote for Kamala either. Clinton lost because she failed to secure the all important rust belt and came off as a terrible candidate. No one really liked her. People liked Trump less, but when your options are crap and more crap, people don't want to vote. Harris, on the other hand, has been much better received by the public. There haven't been any major scandals of hers unlike Clinton. Harris do…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:12 PM
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Okay, so, let's just make this clear: IQ is one of the worst judges of actual intelligence. It's not compared across databases or has one universal standard. I've gotten my IQ tested by a neurologist and neuropsychiatrist, and even they said it's not the best judge. Most scores are inflated by individual factors, so most people need to chop about 20-30 points off before even beginning to see their actual IQ. I work in a place where there are genuine geniuses from MIT and CalTech. One day, they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:08 PM
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Yeah I actually have to generally agree with this. I work in finance, and the women in that industry are so stuck up about their partners not making more than them. I worked in tech for a while, same thing with the women there. It's one of the only things women aren't like "Well, I like X and not all women like X and blah blah blah" It's actually one of the only thing I've seen women across subreddits and real life actually say: They want a man who makes more than them, and they don't really res…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:58 PM
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Well, that's because, at least according to research from Columbia University, men tend to favor attraction and youth, while women tend to favor ambition, wealth, leadership, and certain parts of the body(muscles, facial hair) that take years to fully develop, while men favor a lot of features that women naturally have, and deteriorate over time. Older women are attracted to younger men, but only for hookups. My gym has a spin/Pilates class where a lot of these older women congregate, and someti…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:54 PM
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What happened to body autonomy? My body, my choice, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:16 AM
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Those posts and comments are almost always downvoted to shit. It's kind a mute point, because cheating is bad flat out period, and anyone who defends it is just dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:15 AM
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Then for a lot of man that's a deal breaker, just like how women exclude men for being obese, ugly, short, broke, etc. Why is it such a hard thing to imagine a man would have standards past purely personality? It's unrealistic to say looks play no part, because they do, for both genders. For some people looks matter less, while for others they matter more. It really depends a lot on context and the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:55 AM
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That's just objectively untrue. I've never met a guy who valued himself in any way who thought personality wasn't more important than looks in a long term relationship. Short term, sure, but long term? Hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:22 AM
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It's like a race. Being at the starting line requires looks, but you'll never win the race without great personality. Why lie and say that looks don't matter? The other 4 things matter more in a long term relationship, but you'd never get to that point without physical attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:53 AM
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Something like 85% of commercial/consumer purchases are from women, so your statement is verifiably false.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:50 AM
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Even as a dude who thinks dating is harder for men nowadays I can openly admit that half the guys I see everyday have absolutely zero game. The problem is that, instead of talking to the woman like they're a person, it feels like they're trying to hit skill checks on conversation where the most skill checks gets you some punani.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:21 PM
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They legit don't know how to act. Especially the divorced ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:06 PM
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Top tier women != Top tier men. A lot of top tier men aren't interested in relationships, preferring the casual dating. I've seen it time and time again. A 9/10 man playing a 9/10 woman because he prefers his options and free dating market to settling down. Most top tier men who are interested in dating are already in committed relationships, because they're bombarded with options, and can pick whoever they want. Plus, we don't even know if she is a top tier woman. Most men don't rank money and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:58 PM
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General experience. Usually, women lack in one area. I will say that, as women age, they tend to gain more in the bottom 4. They're a lot more respectful and loyal, while younger women are more immature. Maybe that number is off, but in my experience from talking to women and men, generally there isn't a huge percent of women that check off these boxes. Maybe NYC is just a bad market or something
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:54 PM
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The problem is that a lot of women expect men to be emotional rocks and supportive. They expect us to support them being debbie downers. It's true that any amount of vulnerability, from a man, can be a major turnoff to women. End of the day, maybe they will let you be vulnerable, but what if they won't? Are you really risking your relationship to see? And a lot of men aren't being debbie downers. I had a friend get dumped because his mom died and he was crying and his GF got the ick from it. Not…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:03 PM
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How to be a good partner as a woman Be attractive Don't make my life more difficult Be nice Respectful Loyal Yet, somehow, like 80% of women can't do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:00 PM
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Why do you feel this is the case? Do you think women seek to better themselves, or only men? Maybe this is anecdotal, but every time a man says he fails at dating, the first piece of advice given is always "Go to the gym, make more money, fix your hygiene, wear better clothing" etc. With women, I almost never see the same emphasis on how much looks matter in attracting a partner. Every time I go into a gym, I'd say 80-85% of the gym is men. Of the 15-20% that are women, only around 5-10% are doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:58 PM
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I'm one of those guys. I make ballpark 500-1m a year dependent on bonus. Problem is, I, like many of my coworkers, likely also don't fill in another box. She's 5'10, which means she likely wants a guy taller than her. I'm 5'9. The average height in the office is somewhere around 5'7(lot of shorter asians). We all make really good money, but we also likely don't check off another box. Even if 20% of men in said city make 6 figures, you can count out half of them by not filling in one of the other…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:52 PM
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Women initiate divorce more than men. Men are walking away from the idea of marriage because we gain little from it. We make more money, we spend our efforts, and end of the day a woman can walk away for any reason and we have to give them our assets and likely give up custody of our children. Divorce courts have long screwed over men, and that is something which is statistically verifiable. I'm open to marriage, but I also fear what happens if that marriage ends. I live in a no fault state, so …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:47 PM
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No. One of the biggest things in dating is women want what other women have, while men want what other men don't have. Mate choice copying usually means that, even if every man looks the same, the one who gets one woman's attention would end up getting more and more attention. It's simply the law of the land.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:35 AM
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This is like, the fifth post in a row about paternity test. No one is gonna gain something new from this post that wasn't already said in the other 4 posts. Yes, it usually is pretty crappy to ask for one, especially if the woman is post labor. If you know you're gonna want one, you have to have that discussion before trying. I know guys who have been hurt in the past and feel that they need to be 100% sure. Any time trust erodes in a relationship it's already over. It's like asking for an open …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:11 PM
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Ah yes, we are creatures that serve the sole purpose of working and fucking. We have no other needs or desires. It is only sex and work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:03 PM
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I like to think of rejection like a startup would. Startups need to develop a product(A man) and sell it(approaching women). If a person develops a bad product and goes to sell it, it won't sell. Do you keep trying to sell the bad product? No, you fix based on feedback. You sell to people who are more likely to buy. In startups, they teach that, initially, maybe 2% of people will want your product, and it's your job to find those 2% and develop the best product possible. What this means in datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:54 PM
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I've never done a hookup. Usually for me it's a red flag when a woman wants a hookup. That's telling me that she values sex very low in a relationship, and doesn't see it as an intimate act between 2 partners. I wouldn't hook up with someone until the 3rd date, which is usually when I decide if someone is a person I'd be willing to see long term or if it's better to cut losses and move on. Also, it reduces the risk of STDs, unwanted pregnancies with strangers, and putting your dick in crazy. Had…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:49 PM
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As a man with ADHD and PTSD, yeah. The dating market is so skewed that, as a man, you basically have to be perfect to even have a chance in many instances. That said, I try to use it to my strength. Some women love the fact that I can ramble on about random topics for hours because they once became hyper fixations. I've oriented my career around what my ADHD is best for, and that has allowed me to excel in my craft and make a hell of a lot of money. We, as men, can never look at our own deficien…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:42 PM
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Bronx. SO MUCH PARK SPACE. You gotta see the whole city, not just Downtown/North BK where all the transplants live. Real NYC is 10x better than the circle of gentrification
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:36 PM
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I probably wouldn't unless she locked eyes with me first. There are millions of women out there, so I'm not desperate to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:00 AM
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It's a figure of speech. You don't take something that is pretty clearly not meant as a literal and take it as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:04 AM
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I'd argue it has more to do with the unexpectedness than anything. If a girl smiles at you or gives you solid eye contact, it means she sees you and is likely open to a conversation. A lot of guys will see a girl and just straight walk up, catching a girl off guard. It happened to me. I was just standing in line to get food and a random girl walked up and just asked for my IG. It was a bit startling, and I didn't really know how to react. That girl was at least 5 inches shorter than me and I had…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:16 AM
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Not saying they aren't more compatible with age, as it does take until 25 for the brain to finish development, but rather that they're equally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:11 AM
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A) you still needed to read in 1970. You act like there wasn't a very comprehensive education system that made it so that everyone got a base B) you can still do a lot of trade and blue collar work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:09 AM
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TBF uggos that are rich tend to get to date hotter women, but at the same time do you really think those women would date those men if they didn't have money? Money should be a bonus to an already loving and trusting relationship, not the base of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:08 AM
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Man, you just never lived in Queens. Queens is where it's at. Once I have kids I'm getting TF out of Manhattan and moving out to the outer boroughs. Way more space, cheaper food, tons of different cultures ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:07 AM
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1 anecdote does not make for actual evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:06 AM
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There isn't a lot of evidence to suggest that. There are theories that women cheat due to emotional reasons vs men due physical, but it's all theory. There hasn't been any major peer reviewed studies to show either effect, and all we have is theory. End of the day, you are inherently selfish if you cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:05 AM
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Argentina lookin nice this time of year
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:14 PM
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When did I say not seeing obese people was a plus? I said not needing to do cardio and living in a walkable area is a plus, and lower obesity rates are a result. Also, why call NYC a shithole and great in the same post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:12 PM
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I've actually found that most of the people who I know who've cheated literally don't give any thought to what their partner would do if they found out, which is the problem. If they thought about what their partner wanted, then they wouldn't cheat, but they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:10 PM
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I believe it was something like 56% of people who cheat say they are in a happy relationship. Basically, they're hedonistic and think about the short term gain without ever thinking of the long term consequences. They literally don't even think about their partner, which is the problem. They're inherently being selfish by cheating, and they really want to fuck their cake and eat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:09 PM
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I think they're thinking the money and status boosts SBF more, but they're kinda just disregarding how their relationship started when Alameda was barely a thing yet, so SBF had very little money or status. It's also pretty hard to convince someone to commit multiple felonies for you, so I don't think SBF was exactly eager to get rid of someone who knew he had committed a LOT of crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:06 PM
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The "commitment less attractive" typically only happens when a girl theoretically hits "the wall". Vast majority of women I know who got with and settled in their mid to late 20s have husbands that are pretty much perfectly aligned with their wives. The few 35+ women I've met looking to settle have to get a bit less picky, but it's usually a result of not taking care of health or body in your 20s that leads to the whole "wall" concept(which I don't even know is a real thing or not)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:03 PM
3

I never have to do cardio because I can walk everywhere. It's really rare to see morbidly obese people in Manhattan because you literally walk everywhere. That's one of the biggest issues. Car culture has made it so people walk less, and that means way more people are obese
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:59 PM
0

No I meant the person doing the cold approaching. Sorry if I phrased that wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:56 PM
1

What about someone who's so tall they wrap around the earth so you can be eye level with them and they're still tall
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:34 PM
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Idk why you wouldn't do the ancestry test instead of a paternity test. It gives way more plausible deniability and is actually pretty cool. The problem women have with it is when a man asks after the child is born, which is literally the worst possible time, because a woman is probably the most pumped up on hormones right after a child is born. Have the discussion early.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:01 PM
1

3'0. Completely different end of the scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:58 PM
3

Do you know how much rent is? My god man, just flushing money down the toilet for nothing. I can't even imagine paying extra in Manhattan for my girl to "Have her space" like go tf outside or something. I don't want her perfumes and scents in my bedsheets I'm convinced this dude doesn't even like women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:57 PM
3

You really think Clarice wouldn't smash if he wasn't in that cage? She was ready for it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:55 PM
1

8'0 tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:53 PM
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Ego? Nah, you're just unemployed or need to make those weird TikToks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:53 PM
9

Just hand them your phone on the contact screen would get a better response
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:34 AM
11

"Sorry, not interested" "Oh, so you're gay" "No" "So you're in a relationship?" "no" "What, am I ugly?" "meh. Can I go now" Actual conversation between a coworker and a girl who approached him in the subway
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:19 AM
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hey this is way out of character for me but life is short, you're beautiful and you have a friendly aura so on the off chance that you're single I would love to get to know you over a drink sometime if you're interested No seriously though. This is the type of crap only 6'3 guys can get away with. "This is way out of character for me" dude, please stop. No. Don't ever do this. Actually, if you're super attractive you can do this, but otherwise don't do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:18 AM
3

It's either in situations where you have some easy conversation starter(in a class, with friends, in a dog park, etc.) or with strong choosing signals(eye contact, playing with hair, smiling at you)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:15 AM
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So here's the whole problem: For an average guy, even if they are great at approaching, they will find that 5% who are like you say more often than the 2-3% that find them attractive. It is a bit cringe to bring up the whole "choosing signal" theory, but it is true. Cold approaching without any choosing signals is just never worth the time or effort. Also, have you even seen Silence of the Lambs? I know this is an odd point to make, but you bring up Hannibal Lector, and that dude was easily one …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:14 AM
1

I never even mentioned cheating. I said randomly divorce. That's not a random divorce reason. I consider a random divorce to mean both sides know it's not working and end up deciding it. Also, why only call out men, when women also cheat for reasons at similar rates of justification
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:09 AM
2

That's still a 75% more likely chance to have a father figure, and that's of the already half of the population that gets divorced, so if you have children in a 2 parent household there's just a 12.5% chance of abandonment. Also, there is absolutely NO ONE supported men abandoning their children. Like none. Everyone calls out parents for abandoning children, for both genders. That isn't even close to the point being made here; using a fallacy to back up a point just makes your argument weaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:41 PM
3

Not if you're just tryin to smash.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:36 PM
8

You can just wear a ring. I'm pretty sure adam sandler made a goddamn movie about this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:25 PM
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It has to be both. Sexually compatible is really important in the start, and it can really help a relationship. I've never heard of a marriage between 2 people who regularly have sex randomly divorce. End of the day, sex is probably one of the 5 most important things in a relationship, along with things like life goals, shared love and attraction, open communication, and an attitude that it's us v the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:04 PM
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First, that was completely random and odd to bring up. How do you know she didn't have a wedding ring, and it was stolen, or pawned for extra money? How do you know she just doesn't wear her ring everywhere? Hell, I don't even think homeless people would spend the money filing for marriage. Second, if you think someone is "the one", get married. It's always worth it. Most of the 50% of marriages end because both sides never had the hard discussions about what they both wanted out of life. I've s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:00 PM
2

There have been multiple studies that have found around 30 is the best time to have kids, which makes sense. You've basically fully grown up, likely are in a career, and have had time to settle into life, but you also have a good amount of life and energy left in you. Late 30s is rough. I know guys that did it in their late 30s/early 40s, and they never have the energy to do ANYTHING.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:52 PM
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There have been multiple studies that have found around 30 is the best time to have kids, which makes sense. You've basically fully grown up, likely are in a career, and have had time to settle into life, but you also have a good amount of life and energy left in you. Late 30s is rough. I know guys that did it in their late 30s/early 40s, and they never have the energy to do ANYTHING.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:52 PM
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It's just not really right to knowingly deprive a child of a father figure in their life. 2 parent households are one of the key indicators of life success and fulfillment. A lot of young men nowadays are lost because they lacked a strong male figure, a lot of young women are unable to properly assess men because they have "daddy issues" due to a lack of proper role modeling of how a man should treat a woman, and both genders have issues with what a good relationship looks like without 2 parents…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:47 PM
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I wasn't meaning that in a judgmental way, more of an awe at something like that. I do agree, having children late means the life of the child will be significantly impacted and isn't fair to the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:56 AM
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Honestly, when I see a woman with a child late, I don't really think of it with shame, and more of "why and how would you do that to your body at this point in your life?"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:48 AM
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That just isn't really fair to your child. You'll be nearing or in your 70s when your kid goes to college. Your body will already be breaking down. I had older parents who were in their mid 30s when they had me and it was already challenging for them to have the energy to take care of everything. My parents are both nearing their 70s, and in their 60s both of them had all sorts of medical and other issues, and generally life was already tough for them. I couldn't even imagine throwing a kid in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:47 AM
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Maybe I wasn't very clear in my point. I meant more that a man won't make a woman feel bad about not having a higher or comparable income, and most guys aren't super highly focused on women making and contributing. It's a plus, not a must. Women, in relationships, will tend to look down upon a man who makes less than them, which leads to an imbalance in relationship dynamics that doesn't work. I do see the point you're likely making, which is financial manipulation, which is different from what …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:40 AM
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Women do a lot of things that keep pushing men to want higher body counts. I personally don't believe in sleeping around, but when women actively say they want a guy who is experienced and has options. Women don't like to admit it, but I've never seen more women flirt with guys than the second they put on a wedding ring. Women want what other women have. I think it has more to do with caveman brain than we think. Men can have multiple children and multiple partners at once, so having a high body…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:04 AM
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This is mad disrespectful. Reminds me of the whole Chris Brown tour thing. Even as a joke, it's just not that funny to your man. It's like, "I'll have sex with you and leave my husband teehee" Like, no. That's not funny. There's nothing cool or even ok about drooling over a celebrity that you've never even met before, who likely won't even come close to matching the ideal you have of them in your mind. I'd honestly probably divorce over this. It's not just disrespectful, it's also so immature to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:59 AM
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as long as the gov. gets their bread buttered that is all that matters. That's the problem. The government doesn't get their money or happy people when there are no families. Families are needed to support the older generation through things like social security and medicaid. These things require children and family units. We are already seeing both Harris and Trump support tax cuts for families, which will continue. Polyamory tends to die once men age out of the "fun" time. I've found that almo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:03 AM
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Things will eventually come back down. It's basically impossible for heighted periods of economic imbalance between supply and demand to continue forever. There is a breaking point. I don't think we've reached the height just yet, but we're getting close. There's gonna be a rude awakening for a lot of women when the government starts passing laws to try and get people to start families and those 20% of top men everyone wants finally settles down(because if the taxes are good enough, they will).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:48 AM
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Eh, that's a bit more true. Height shaming has become too damn common nowadays. I'd say he'd struggle more nowadays, but maybe if he was 5'7 he'd still do fine. It's a evil world we livin in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:44 AM
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I don't know man, I'm just saying that being insecure is like a big fat stain on your ability to get women. He made it work. This was back in like, 2011 or something, so modern jokes are definitely gonna work better. But when you come off as insecure, it only hurts you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:36 AM
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It's always been so dumb that people blame men for societal issues. No, that's the 1%. It's always been the 1%. You really think women married to these powerful men are complaining about the patriarchy and their lack of power? No, because once you make it up there you have just as much power as your husband. It's like blaming all drivers for global warming instead of the oil companies. You're attacking a straw man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:43 AM
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I actually disagree, and it's for one purpose. I met a 5'4 guy who was amazing with women. Why? Because he was the first to crack a joke about it. He once got a 5'10 girl to go home with him because he said "When I eat you out later, would I be going up on you?" She literally spat her drink out. The biggest thing is to show that it doesn't make you insecure. A 5'5 guy saying he's "Never thought about it" when it comes to height will obviously be lying, but if he says he's fun sized or some crap …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:40 AM
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The whole "men are intimidated" thing never made any sense. The problem is that most men have had bad experiences with women emasculating them or wanting them to foot massive bills(because high earning women are some of the most materialistic people I've ever met, and I work in finance) and men not wanting relationships like that. I have no problem with a woman making more than me as long as she pays her share and doesn't hold income over my head. Men don't do that to women, so women shouldn't d…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:37 AM
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So why can't women do the same? Why can't they provide men with what we need? If we need a woman who can cook, and do chores, and manage the household why can't we need that? And also, I'm not saying that women can't be attracted to both, as it is fully possible, but if I lost all my money tomorrow I'd likely lose a ton of female attention. Women often want a father, not a partner. Imagine a business partner saying "I want you to do all the work, and provide all the initial capital" and somehow …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:34 AM
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Because it's a part of health? Giving someone an IUD for a couple thousand is a lot cheaper than paying tens of thousands for a pregnancy. Not really sure what the point you're trying to make here is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:51 PM
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This is really true. I know a few guys that have never worked a day in their life, and are able to bounce from partner to partner living the good life. Being an attractive man is so easier than being an attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:49 PM
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There is a very strong difference between "Loving me the way I want to be loved" like you said and "Loving what I provide". Men are fine being providers. We like being able to treat a woman right. We don't like being your father. It's not about being loved the way we want to be loved, it's about the fact that these women DON'T love us, they love our money and status. They love the idea of what we can provide. Women can provide sex, but no women wants to be loved for providing sex, so most self r…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:48 PM
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That is a completely different situation. You're meant to trust and love your partner. You aren't meant to be trusted and loved by an insurance company. There isn't a need for insurance here because everything is within your control. If your partner cheats, that sucks, but it's not even close to the same thing as a car crash, or a housefire. You have to trust that your partner won't cheat on you. You don't have to trust that every person on the road won't hit you, or that you won't somehow get c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:43 PM
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The problem with bars and clubs is that the kind of people you meet there are not representative of the wider, better dating population. What it takes to attract a party girl and what it takes to attract a girl in a Target at 9AM are drastically different. These also are just not places where I really want to be. Girls expect you to buy drinks for them, expect you to only want sex, expect you to try something. Men expect to need to constantly be on their A game, expected to act in a very "tough"…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:20 PM
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Maybe, but these are real edge cases. Extremely rare cases of infant switching or mostly sterile men getting a woman pregnant. The chances of this actually being the case are so far and few between that it's almost not even really a factor most people would consider. It's really difficult on the woman because, even if she is fully faithful, if she is asked to provide a paternity test it can put an extreme amount of strain on the relationship, for what is effectively a less than 1% chance at some…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:17 PM
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Basically what it comes down to is conscious and subconscious thought. We like to think that we've evolved to the point where monkey brain no longer affects us, but that just isn't true. You can't undo millions of years of evolution. Women(Due to differences in the brain synapsis, here's an article from Stanford med https://stanmed.stanford.edu/how-mens-and-womens-brains-are-different/ ) tend to think more emotionally that logically when recalling events. This is why we hear women talk about the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:59 PM
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Hard disagree. Top 20% means good earner, strong personality, solid looks, solid hygiene, and generally being well put together. Women chase guys that are like that. I've seen it happen. Guys who aren't absolutely insanely attractive(maybe like a 7 on a scale) getting tons of women to approach them just because guys that have everything put together is pretty rare nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:46 PM
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Beauty is a lot more objective than you make it seem. There are a lot of things that are biologically proven to be more attractive, and saying "Beauty is subjective" is almost always something you say to an unattractive person to make them feel better. You'd never say "Beauty is subjective" to someone who looks like Alina Baraz or something
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:04 AM
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By that same logic, it should be rude not to tell every man he is 6'0, or that every man is ripped even when they're fat. You can either live in reality or be delusional. Also, she completely opened herself up to that comment by being like "I'm 39, but I don't look like your typical 39 year old" as if that isn't a massive insult to the other massive amount of 39 year old women. She completely deserved that reality check. Why is it that society expects women to be protected and coddled but men ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:21 AM
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Bro made a tier list
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:58 PM
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Bruh you taking this way too seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:16 PM
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monkey branching, looking for better and better provider, while sucking resources out of the men she's dating. Women like this eventually hit a wall. They lose out on their looks and ability to get men to look at them, and end up in terrible situations when they get older. They're also a smaller percent of the population than you'd think. The majority of women do want a provider type man, and money is simply a sign of being a provider. Just don't date women that expect you to pay for everything
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:37 PM
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"You built the patriarchy" B I wasn't even a sperm in my dad's nuts when it was created.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:11 PM
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This is only partly true. What's more concerning is the fact that we've had programs for decades pushing women into higher education and STEM, yet now that the pendulum has swung to the point that women are dominant in higher education men aren't getting those same programs. Men who get college degrees tend to earn more than women because men go for degrees in fields that pay better and have better employment(Finance, tech, engineering, consulting). I mean, in my college 70% of the humanities de…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:26 PM
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Playing rough, embracing what makes men manly, being loud and confident, ect. Schools have sought to contain men and their ability to let loose and explore their masculinity. Sitting quietly and reading is generally something that is easier for the young female mind, not the young male mind. Men want to be active, get out and do crap. Schools suppress this. Also, generally you cannot please everyone when it comes to being protective. We can't tell women that wearing certain types of clothing wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:20 PM
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First, top 20% is just based on looks and general stuff. I do agree that millennials and gen X make up WAY more of the population of top men than Gen z because most Gen z men haven't had the time to build up, but it still is about 20% of the population that gets most attention. Second, while some of this is true, there are also more access to more beautiful women than ever too. Fitness and beauty culture amongst young women is making its way into every corner of the nation. Take one walk along M…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:14 PM
3

Not exactly. A lot of women are attracted to money in a more subconscious way. There are, of course, gold diggers(just take one look at the raiders owner's GF) but the majority of women are attracted in a more gut feeling of "this man is a provider" than anything
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:10 PM
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My question is how do you even know there's a fart in there? Like, is there some sort of professional agency checking the validity of said farts? Or are we supposed to rely on the acumen of the one selling these fart jars?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:07 AM
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There is a breaking point to everything. Men are offing themselves at alarming rates. That could be conflated to the boomer generation dying. Eventually, there won't be a big enough base to support the creaky tower, and it'll all come crashing down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:05 AM
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Incels didn't really exist in the same way in the past. Men were, by in large, given way more tools when they were younger to actually grow up. We make jokes in the modern day about "boys being boys", but for many young men that was actually how they bonded, and young men back then were just more likely to embody masculinity. Nowadays, everything is tailored around what's best for women. Schools, and the education system as a whole, is not designed around the natural strengths of men, but is now…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:03 AM
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While that is true, it's also true that the 20% get 5X more attention than almost any other group. It's also worth saying that most of these men will be much better off in their 30s, when, unfortunately, these women realize they can't break the laws of supply and demand, and need to find someone to settle down with. It really does suck for a lot of guys in their 20s, because they're basically told "wait your turn" by society, and they're just expected to be okay with that while women and the top…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:55 AM
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There is more PUBLIC support for women. I've never heard someone talk more shit than a woman about another woman behind closed doors. Women all say what will get them put at the top publicly, and speak harshly privately. Men are somewhat the other way around. If a guy talks crap about you to your face, it likely means he respects you and will defend you if someone attacks you privately.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:18 AM
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That's only partly true. Women are more valued on average by average men. Above average to top men are probably in the best position they've ever been in. Previously, a huge chunk of the dating market was married, so these top men wouldn't get nearly as much attention or benefits. Now, with more single women(and more access to these women) top men are having a hell of a time, and everyone else is losing for it. The top 20% of men are probably valuing women the least out of any point in history, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:16 AM
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That's fair. I've heard of a few people that I knew from college who ran into relationship problems because the pure amount of partners they had made their partners insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:28 AM
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No one wants to be someone's plan B. It's the worst feeling in the world when you know that you're only getting attention because you have something that you didn't use to have. Ultimately, if young women aren't looking out for themselves and finding a life partner, then they will likely face a harder dating pool as they age(unless they have those Hollywood genetics, then they're probably fine)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:11 AM
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I'd actually have to disagree. Men almost have a strong drop off curve for women, like a heavily positive skewed curve, while women rate men on much more of a strong bell curve. It's just seen as more acceptable for men to have 50+ bodies than women. I'm not saying that is the way it should be, as the risks of STDs, pregnancy, and general mental health problems down the line(anyone who's done hookups/casual for long enough knows that eventually it becomes empty and meaningless) are always really…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:09 AM
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It's almost comical that women complain about the double standard of men wanting low body counts but not being expected to have low body counts when they actively go after guys with more experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:37 PM
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One reason I always see left out is resentment towards older women. One of my friends is now 33, dating a 24 year old. He was never someone women looked at when he was in his 20s, even though he worked on himself and did a lot of things you're meant to do. Now that he has a very good job(VP at a bank) and has grown fully into his features, all of a sudden the women who never wanted to date him(a lot of which he had previously asked out/shown interest in) all of a sudden want him. He literally to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:08 PM
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Though, IME, it's heavily dependent on the sub culture, and what has happened to the person. But generally I think he's right, terrible things happening to white middle class people makes headlines (in the west), but the kind of terrible things that happen in low income ares is generally never mentioned on the news. It's because middle class white people getting killed is considered "Out of the ordinary" everyone expects there to be dead bodies in the southside chicago, but no one expects it in …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 05:44 PM
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A poor hardworking single mom getting raped doesn't garner the same sympathy as a pretty suburban housewife getting raped. Similarly an academically excellent student getting murdered more sympathy than an average student who got murdered. This is pretty extreme, and it usually just has to do with circumstances and media. Who watches television the most? A lot of housewives and people with disposable income. That means the media attention is pointed there, because it hits with the core demograph…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:57 AM
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No, that's not true at all. Most of the cases of mass rape and assault during wars are because higher command actively encourage scorched earth policy. They indoctrinate soldiers into thinking that the enemy is not human, and that rape, murder, and all other crimes are necessary to win the war.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:48 AM
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Women have it hammered into their heads from a young age that you don't do anything alone with a guy without at least knowing them first. What can be even sadder is that most assault cases are from people you know. As a man, I know our SA and rape doesn't get talked about nearly enough, even though the CDC literally stated in the 2010-2012 study that men get forced at similar rates but less reported, but it still has never felt like I was at the will of a woman or like I couldn't use my strength…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:46 AM
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You're on reddit. That's asking a lot of most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:00 AM
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War is particularly bad. A lot of rape and assault in wars is not about the act, but rather the "revenge" on the enemy. Rape is really bad in instances of terrible wars that seep down the ranks. Just take one look at the accounts of how women were treated by western soldiers vs soviet soldiers during WW2.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:42 AM
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It's completely messed up that women genuinely have to fear walking around in public. I really didn't understand how bad it was until I was with a group of girls who said that the number one reason they won't go on a date with a guy is fear of being assaulted. Even if it's just a minority of the population that does anything like this, it ruins things for everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:41 AM
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Tiktok doesn't show videos of people talking about their great experiences splitting the bill with a guy in their league where they're planning another casual date. It only shows the extremes. This is why a big red flag is someone who spends hours of their day on SM
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:38 AM
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It really does make dating so much harder for men. I have a friend who asked a girl out, took her out, paid for everything, kept the conversation going, brought her home, and didn't even get a thanks, or a "this was nice, why don't we do it again" or a hug, or literally any appreciation at all. Man just felt so unwanted and unseen. It sucks so bad to bend over backwards when a girl could literally make a guys day by doing something so small to make them feel wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:36 AM
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Often, I find the "we should hang out" line is used as a nice "this was okay, but I really am not interested in talking again". If a person said we should hang out, and didn't do anything more to get the number or make any plans, I'd just assume that they were saying it out of courtesy rather than actual interest in doing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:33 AM
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