TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

PlzHelpMeWithDating Archive

View 0 posts and 31 comments by PlzHelpMeWithDating on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
2

So what you are saying is that they want… actual abundance over just abundance mentality?
/r/seduction08/07/26 03:14 AM
–

I am saving this comment. Please don’t delete it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:21 AM
–

A lot of outcomes in our life are determined by factors beyond our control. A huge portion IF NOT the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 02:04 PM
-1

True. All of this drama and debate begins for sexually unsuccessful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:24 PM
1

Ma’am, if you read my comment, I wrote > (assuming that this person is open to both casual and serious relationships) I wasn’t talking about people who wouldn’t hookup no matter what. Point number two: Even if relationships can start with instant chemistry and instant attraction, that is not enough for it to turn into something official and committed, but for those who are into the casual life, instant attraction and chemistry can be sufficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 11:28 PM
5

I think that the matter is about speed. It takes long for someone to prove that they are relationship-worthy. Hookups are based more on instant attraction and instant chemistry, so just because you were able to get into a relationship with someone, it doesn’t mean that you would have been able to get into a casual fling with them (the VERY SAME person (assuming that this person is open to both casual and serious relationships)) because you have to strike them instantly with your looks, your heig…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 10:32 PM
1

Man
/r/seduction06/06/26 10:34 PM
1

😔
/r/seduction06/06/26 10:13 PM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:12 PM
1

It’s a 2-year-old throwaway account that is not my main Reddit account. I had to create a separate account because if you have struggles with dating as a man and seek advice or share complaints about it, a lot of irreparably negative labels will apply to you, so I needed to quarantine all of that lethal and poisonous stigma into one throwaway. I have enough help now, and I am helping myself most importantly (but I appreciate you asking to offer help (if it was not sarcastic)). Just need a little…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 03:35 AM
6

Men understand balance (many do, at least). The fact remains that for the majority of men with the majority of women, if they cry even once or say something very personal even once, they are not seen as the same ever again (regardless of how long they both have known each other). The frame shatters and the image of what a man is flips in just one moment of emotional vulnerability. This is why men guard their minds more than they guard their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:51 AM
3

If you were always sexually rejected and considered an inferior option, you would be just as painfully horny, but you are probably White, so it is not common for Whites to experience this. Whites are loved for existing.
/r/seduction31/05/26 08:58 AM
23

He was being serious
/r/seduction26/05/26 12:09 PM
1

Coworking spaces?
/r/seduction15/05/26 06:15 AM
14

I still don’t understand what taking the lead means. Do I have to move every step of the plan forward and let her be passive and lukewarm?
/r/seduction09/05/26 08:53 AM
11

Not a red flag but surely a disadvantage.
/r/seduction07/05/26 09:49 PM
1

No focus on the money after you graduate. Just keep the grades up, but don’t miss out on the girls because a social and romantic opportunity like college will never show up again in life.
/r/seduction26/04/26 02:27 AM
1

Desire for which you don’t pay. Genuine desire is when someone is genuinely drawn to your looks and your personality and not to your money, fame, status, power, and corporate position.
/r/seduction23/04/26 09:51 PM
1

I would say so.
/r/seduction22/04/26 08:04 AM
1

Read interesting books?
/r/seduction21/04/26 02:06 PM
3

College parties and classes. Hobby groups seldom work.
/r/seduction21/04/26 11:35 AM
1

Nothing “men” or “women” about this. If you are not being sought, you are not desired enough.
/r/seduction20/04/26 07:25 PM
6

I am Brown. My plan is to bleach my skin (and perhaps do a leg-lengthening surgery if the risk is worth it). I will then be closer to the White man in the dating market.
/r/seduction13/04/26 01:28 PM
2

Oh wow. That is genius AF. Have to try that.
/r/seduction13/04/26 12:16 AM
1

For mitochondria, exercise and creatine. For telomere length, meditation and perhaps a microdose of shrooms? Idk where to start with the cellular health stuff.
/r/seduction12/04/26 02:00 PM
25

My favorite childhood memory was having energy.
/r/seduction11/04/26 01:23 PM
1

Why them in particular?
/r/seduction11/04/26 11:13 AM
1

Did you do all three? Or just what works the most for you? Disregard any advice about not doing things to get girls. Logistics matter. Agreed.
/r/seduction08/04/26 10:48 AM
1

Wow. That’s crazy. It seems that only people working in high-paying desk jobs are uppity about why workplace dating is a bad thing.
/r/seduction06/04/26 03:10 PM
6

Wdym by warehouse? Working at some Amazon storage?
/r/seduction06/04/26 11:13 AM
9

The funniest answer here 😂 (not that it is untrue).
/r/seduction06/04/26 11:12 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter