PlzHelpMeWithDating Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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8	Some toxicity is so prevalent in women that questioning it seems sexist/bad taste. Women want none of their choices questioned but want to question every thing, every part, every opinion, and every choice of a man. You all are okay with this one-sided hypocrisy and also heavily justify why it should be this way. You all think that it is okay for feminists to tell women that they can be whatever they want to while they lecture men by telling them that cannot be the one thing that they are (viz. a man).	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/26 12:51 PM
2	Women can't even take a fraction of the snark they have for men collectively. But it is to a man. Most men find being lusted after as the highest honor that they could receive. It’s way more awesome than being liked for having a bajillion qualities and playing umpteen roles in someone’s life. Since men themselves don’t find lustful behavior (done to them) as objectifying, they feel more regarded and respected when seen as sexual flesh rather than when seen as a hundred other things. We are literally opposites. Us men don’t feel that someone lusting us reduces us to anythi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/26 11:37 PM
1	BOTH men and women are VISUAL creatures however men don't need to like her personality when it comes to sex Women’s shallowness excludes 95% of the male population. Men’s shallowness causes at most (and I really mean AT MOST) 30% of the female population. The least shallow woman in the world would consider MORE percentage of men undateable, unfuckable, and un-marriageable than the most shallow man would for women. In other words, men (regardless of whether they are deep or shallow, regardless of whether they are lustful or in love, regardless of whether they are handsome or ugly, and regardless of whe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/26 08:25 PM
2	Women Responding in Bunches So what you are saying is that they want… actual abundance over just abundance mentality?	/r/seduction	08/07/26 03:14 AM
–	Do most women feel they have to restrain their sexuality to find a compatible man? I am saving this comment. Please don’t delete it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 04:21 AM
–	Men who have a hard time getting laid, do you read romance novels? A lot of outcomes in our life are determined by factors beyond our control. A huge portion IF NOT the majority.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 02:04 PM
-1	Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men. True. All of this drama and debate begins for sexually unsuccessful men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/26 11:24 PM
1	Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men. Ma’am, if you read my comment, I wrote > (assuming that this person is open to both casual and serious relationships) I wasn’t talking about people who wouldn’t hookup no matter what. Point number two: Even if relationships can start with instant chemistry and instant attraction, that is not enough for it to turn into something official and committed, but for those who are into the casual life, instant attraction and chemistry can be sufficient.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/26 11:28 PM
5	Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men. I think that the matter is about speed. It takes long for someone to prove that they are relationship-worthy. Hookups are based more on instant attraction and instant chemistry, so just because you were able to get into a relationship with someone, it doesn’t mean that you would have been able to get into a casual fling with them (the VERY SAME person (assuming that this person is open to both casual and serious relationships)) because you have to strike them instantly with your looks, your heig…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/26 10:32 PM
1	Is everyone getting laid? Man	/r/seduction	06/06/26 10:34 PM
1	Is everyone getting laid? 😔	/r/seduction	06/06/26 10:13 PM
1	If women say they want emotional honesty and vulnerability in men, why do so many still lose attraction the moment a man actually stops pretending to be emotionally invincible ? Huh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/26 09:12 PM
1	If women say they want emotional honesty and vulnerability in men, why do so many still lose attraction the moment a man actually stops pretending to be emotionally invincible ? It’s a 2-year-old throwaway account that is not my main Reddit account. I had to create a separate account because if you have struggles with dating as a man and seek advice or share complaints about it, a lot of irreparably negative labels will apply to you, so I needed to quarantine all of that lethal and poisonous stigma into one throwaway. I have enough help now, and I am helping myself most importantly (but I appreciate you asking to offer help (if it was not sarcastic)). Just need a little…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/26 03:35 AM
6	If women say they want emotional honesty and vulnerability in men, why do so many still lose attraction the moment a man actually stops pretending to be emotionally invincible ? Men understand balance (many do, at least). The fact remains that for the majority of men with the majority of women, if they cry even once or say something very personal even once, they are not seen as the same ever again (regardless of how long they both have known each other). The frame shatters and the image of what a man is flips in just one moment of emotional vulnerability. This is why men guard their minds more than they guard their bodies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/26 12:51 AM
3	25 year old virgin in NYC, I need help If you were always sexually rejected and considered an inferior option, you would be just as painfully horny, but you are probably White, so it is not common for Whites to experience this. Whites are loved for existing.	/r/seduction	31/05/26 08:58 AM
23	I'm told female nurses and air hostesses are promiscuous. But how do I use this information? He was being serious	/r/seduction	26/05/26 12:09 PM
1	Places To Meet Women? Coworking spaces?	/r/seduction	15/05/26 06:15 AM
14	My dating life recently I still don’t understand what taking the lead means. Do I have to move every step of the plan forward and let her be passive and lukewarm?	/r/seduction	09/05/26 08:53 AM
11	is not having instagram a red flag? Not a red flag but surely a disadvantage.	/r/seduction	07/05/26 09:49 PM
1	How do I meet women in university? No focus on the money after you graduate. Just keep the grades up, but don’t miss out on the girls because a social and romantic opportunity like college will never show up again in life.	/r/seduction	26/04/26 02:27 AM
1	Genuine desire is overrated? Desire for which you don’t pay. Genuine desire is when someone is genuinely drawn to your looks and your personality and not to your money, fame, status, power, and corporate position.	/r/seduction	23/04/26 09:51 PM
1	How do I meet women in university? I would say so.	/r/seduction	22/04/26 08:04 AM
1	how to have interesting convos with women Read interesting books?	/r/seduction	21/04/26 02:06 PM
3	How do I meet women in university? College parties and classes. Hobby groups seldom work.	/r/seduction	21/04/26 11:35 AM
1	i just can't man i just can't Nothing “men” or “women” about this. If you are not being sought, you are not desired enough.	/r/seduction	20/04/26 07:25 PM
6	What can an Indian looking guy do in Australia to better his chances ? I am Brown. My plan is to bleach my skin (and perhaps do a leg-lengthening surgery if the risk is worth it). I will then be closer to the White man in the dating market.	/r/seduction	13/04/26 01:28 PM
2	Why you have no energy to go out and meet women Oh wow. That is genius AF. Have to try that.	/r/seduction	13/04/26 12:16 AM
1	Why you have no energy to go out and meet women For mitochondria, exercise and creatine. For telomere length, meditation and perhaps a microdose of shrooms? Idk where to start with the cellular health stuff.	/r/seduction	12/04/26 02:00 PM
25	Why you have no energy to go out and meet women My favorite childhood memory was having energy.	/r/seduction	11/04/26 01:23 PM
1	Sex is not happening to me at all! Why them in particular?	/r/seduction	11/04/26 11:13 AM
1	Best hobbies or jobs to get girls? Did you do all three? Or just what works the most for you? Disregard any advice about not doing things to get girls. Logistics matter. Agreed.	/r/seduction	08/04/26 10:48 AM
1	Best hobbies or jobs to get girls? Wow. That’s crazy. It seems that only people working in high-paying desk jobs are uppity about why workplace dating is a bad thing.	/r/seduction	06/04/26 03:10 PM
6	Best hobbies or jobs to get girls? Wdym by warehouse? Working at some Amazon storage?	/r/seduction	06/04/26 11:13 AM
9	Best hobbies or jobs to get girls? The funniest answer here 😂 (not that it is untrue).	/r/seduction	06/04/26 11:12 AM