PlzSavePolarBears Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ? Not even. Those type of reputations are really just a Hollywood thing. Girls don’t really track who’s good in bed. But someone who pays attention to others needs, is polite but confident, and in general is emotionally mature are all good signs that they’re going to bring the same energy in bed. At the end of the day, you want to sleep with someone that excites you. If a guy seems boring or a douche, we’re going to assume he’s that way in bed too	/r/seduction	20/08/22 03:13 PM
–	If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ? Women like good sex. When women can get sex somewhat easily, we don’t want to choose someone who seems like it won’t be fun with	/r/seduction	20/08/22 06:26 AM
–	Anyone else get almost no results despites being attractive? This. I’m a single woman, and I’ve gone on a lot of dates with men who tick the boxes but the element they seem to miss is just that slice of reasonable boldness. It ends up feeling more like an interview than a date, and they come off one dimensional and a bit dull when I’m sure they have more personality than they show	/r/seduction	09/08/22 04:30 PM
76	Denying that females can’t create toxic relationships... Seriously tho we need to start having the conversation about how it’s “cute” for teenage girls to be abusive in relationships	/r/PussyPass	06/05/20 07:13 AM
2	Easy Confidence Hack, Yet Most Don't Do It I'd reccomend following this advice but please try to get a professional service (or something close to it). Re-doing your wardrobe is a lot of work, and if you ask a friend to "help" you, you're probably going to end up with their style instead of yours. Professionals are trained to help YOU find what you like and what fits best on your body. If you use a friend instead, not only is it a lot to ask of a friend, but you're likely going to be unhappy with the results :(	/r/seduction	24/09/19 09:08 AM
2	What's wrong with starfish, ie maintenance sex? I think I agree with you there. Asking for 100% high energy and high enthusiasm every time is honestly a lot for a partner to shoulder. I love how you gave me a perspective I never really thought of	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 05:22 AM
2	What's wrong with starfish, ie maintenance sex? Honestly this post and all the comments made me completely rethink this whole scenario. There’s a lot I could comment on, but I’ll limit it to this one thing I realized as I’m about to jump into bed. So I realized how much energy I feel like I HAVE to put into sex in order for my partner to have a good time. Then I started thinking about how a lot of my partners don’t put on the show that I feel like I have to do. What I’m saying is that even though I’m not doing [most of] the thrusting, sex is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/19 09:41 AM
1	CMV: Women rejecting guys for height is no less sexist than men rejecting women for sexual past. I'm a feminist, and I [somewhat] agree. The only thing is I'm not sure it's sexist but I'm strongly of the opinion that you shouldn't be ~forced~ to date someone you're not attracted to. And if you're someone who's not attracted to women with high numbers or short men then don't date them. Easy. Now, there's a difference between saying that you don't want to date someone with a sexual history and saying that women with a sexual history are trash. Similarly, it's fine for a woman to not date sh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/19 10:30 AM
6	About catcalling... I definitely agree with everyone here -- it depends on where you are. When I was in Boston, it really didn't happen unless I was in this one specific area. Most people kinda kept to themselves, and I appreciated in. I also didn't have a problem in DC, but I wasn't there long. NYC is really bad though. Especially at night. I will also say you're more likely to get cat called if you're walking alone. You won't get cat-called as much when you're with other girl friends and you really won't get cat-…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/18 11:56 PM
3	Female attention to beauty doesn't seem to add up So this is a concept from anthropology. You typically have a showier sex and the opposite sex is the sexual selector. Females are typically considered the showier sex in humans which would make males the selectors. In anthropology though, humans are very complex and a lot of times you can't apply a standard for other animals to them, something that i feel more people in this sub should probably understand. Also, the term sexual selector in this case may be warped because in this sub a lot of peo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/18 09:26 PM
1	For those of you who argue N count doesn't matter, why can't your wife/gf have sex with other people? sorry if this comment has already been made but I'm not bothered by the physical act of my partner having sex, so long as they don't catch anything or accidentally make a baby. The issue is I DO care about the emotional aspect of it, and would be bothered by the thought that my partner may like/love the other person more than me. If there was some way to definitively separate sex from emotions I'd be fine with it; it's just the fact that they somewhat go hand-in-hand that bothers me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/18 03:57 AM
1	If the right to have an abortion is a woman's right because its their body why should a man pay child support for a decision of a woman? Ahh. Troll. Got it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/18 12:46 PM
1	If the right to have an abortion is a woman's right because its their body why should a man pay child support for a decision of a woman? You still have a solid 50 years of life left haha 28 isn't old.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/18 12:38 PM
1	If the right to have an abortion is a woman's right because its their body why should a man pay child support for a decision of a woman? 28 is old?????? Yikes	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/18 12:28 PM
12	If the right to have an abortion is a woman's right because its their body why should a man pay child support for a decision of a woman? Just a side story -- not trying to say that my anecdote is integral to the argument. I (female) was seeing a guy while I was in college. I was in my early 20s and he was in his late 20s and started wanting a kid. He REALLY wanted me to carry his baby, even if I didn't care for it, but I didn't want to do that (for a LOT of reasons), but mainly because I was on an athletic scholarship and obviously I would have lost it if I was pregnant. I [horrifically] found out one night that he had been pokin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/18 12:22 PM
1	Toxic Masculinity is bad for men and leads to depression and higher suicide rates I think the situation of trying to "date-up" happens both ways. The grass is always greener. And don't attack me, I just only pointed out that yes, you are indeed generalizing as much as OP. This is an argument when you're going to have to speak in generalizations. You're attacking arguments using fallacies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/18 11:37 AM
1	Toxic Masculinity is bad for men and leads to depression and higher suicide rates aren't you arguing in generalizations too though?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/18 11:21 AM
2	Q4ALL: Will fat acceptance ever cease? Honestly, I think the root of the fat acceptance movement is supposed to be telling people (mainly women) that they are worthwhile and worthy of love despite being fat. It means telling people that their worth is more than their looks and that you can be ugly but happy because you understand that your weight is not your sole judging factor. So instead of looking at yourself as just fat, you could look at yourself as smart, funny, clever, sporty, etc... BUT i think it got mistranslated somewhere …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/18 10:40 PM