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Mine blocked both responses but for what it’s worth it did block the men response instantly but for the women one it wrote something generic out and then blocked it. Not sure if OP is disingenuous or doesn’t realize how you can make it respond the way you want by saying other things earlier in the conversation. Also possible this is from a older version
/r/MensRights14/10/23 06:59 PM
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"In line with previous research, we found considerable individual differences in individual attractiveness preferences. Furthermore, our results showed that men had a bias towards attractive faces and preferred dating partners in the immediate attention task, while results for women were mixed. In the voluntary attention task, however, both men and women had an attentional bias towards attractive faces and preferred dating partners." This is pretty much what I would expect. The first part is imp…
/r/BlackPillScience11/02/23 11:31 PM
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They were comparing "incels" to non incels, not to anyone who doesn't have sex but having that 3rd group would have been interesting to compare to.
/r/BlackPillScience29/09/22 04:06 PM
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Damn #1 is brutal, in many countries the average isn't even 5 in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:50 PM
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It can also allow you to take higher paying jobs that are a little bit further away from you that you wouldn’t be able to commute to without a car. Depends on the area though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:57 PM
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That's definitely is it for some girls. I think that's a main reason and that you aren't looking at other girls that she thinks you are comparing her to on you feed. I also think it does add a layer of mystery to you assuming you have hobbies/friends in your life and things that can surprise her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:20 AM
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I've never had an Instagram and I've been fine in dating. There was one girl that thought it was odd but for most it seemed like they liked it or were somewhat intrigued. Most people are frustrated with something with social media and understand why someone wouldn't use.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 05:24 PM
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They don't even read the abstracts let alone the paper
/r/BlackPillScience27/08/21 08:36 PM
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What does this have to do with this I'm confused?
/r/BlackPillScience01/08/21 03:40 PM
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Which is kind of surprising to me I would have thought the opposite. That in high stress times they would be looking to fuck as many women as possible because they might all be dead soon but instead to find a stable one, i.e. it's survivor Syfy romance basically.
/r/BlackPillScience01/08/21 02:05 AM
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Based on if you are attractive or not
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:57 PM
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You have a source for your theory? I haven't looked too hard but this seems to point to both genders generally following the same happiness pattern with males just shifted down a little. USA also has females increasing more later in life than males but I doubt that's significant. https://www.economist.com/graphic-detail/2019/04/12/do-people-become-happier-after-40
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:58 PM
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I'm not sure the happiness part is true, at least on the extremes. The age group of men who have the highest suicide rate is the oldest group vs for women the highest suicide rate is the youngest group. And the ratio of male:female suicides is highest at the older ranges https://medcraveonline.com/FRCIJ/who-commits-suicide-most-suicide-by-gender-and-age.html
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:07 PM
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I'm assuming she means all things be equal, a virgin is ok or maybe even preferred by some. But this is rarely the case unless it's truly by personal choice of the man and have had opportunity to. If you're a virgin at around 26+ and have tried to have sex, you're very likely lacking in looks/have severe social flaws or something else unless you have just been extremely unlucky throughout life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:53 PM
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I wish this was acceptable to say to women when they say they are assaulted as well instead of just being called "victim blaming". It's always possible you're one of the unlucky ones and it happens several times to you beyond your control, but often like you're saying there are behaviors you can do to at least decrease your chance of it happening again. I'm sure it's more comforting to op to just blame the whole opposite gender (as I see female sexual assault victims do as well) as the problem b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:46 PM
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This is way different than what I did with the person I'm with now, we both told each other what we make in the first date. We both make about average so maybe doesn't matter as much as if I was making way more than her (she makes a little bit more than me currently even).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:48 PM
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Yes of course weight isn't only factor, wasn't saying it was. Was just relating to what the OP was talking about. Again, yes there are plenty of exceptions and if you're working out regularly and test your bf percentage under 25% then you're fine. But this is true for very few of the 42% of people in the US who are obese. BMI is used because it's a test that anyone can do for free for something that gives a decent correlation. Far from perfect but useful.
/r/MGTOW12/06/21 08:25 PM
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Well in the 60's the over weight rate was ~30% and obesity rate was around 12%. Again, if you are one of the people in the obese category because of muscle then you're fine. But for most people in that category they are just lying to themselves if they think they aren't negativity effecting their health from their weight. And someone 6'2" can weigh up to a little over 190lbs and still be healthy according to the guidelines. Yes it's not perfect and someone who's borderline overweight probably is…
/r/MGTOW12/06/21 06:23 PM
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I agree there, I hear people using bulking as an excuse to eat what ever they want as long as they exercise 1 or 2 times a week and gain a lot of fat with the muscle. Then they stop working out and they are left in worse shape they where they started as they lose the muscle and keep the fat. Women have to deal with the whole body positive moment and being lied to about "healthy fat" being a thing (you would know if it applies to you, it doesn't unless you're incredibly fit). People going as far …
/r/MGTOW12/06/21 05:59 PM
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The last claim is a little off, more men are obese (43% vs 42%) and overweight than women are in the US. This is true for the younger generation as well, but more women are severely obese (11.5 vs 7%) than men. And before you think maybe it's because of men being more likely to lift weights, the amount of people who are "healthy obese" by having a below 25% bf is very small.
/r/MGTOW12/06/21 04:18 PM
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The evidence that really made me doubt a lot of the genetic component of IQ was that the IQ of different countries in Europe used to be fairly stark and while there are some differences still today, they are all much closer. I think it's obvious that there is some genetic component (after all, learning disabilities which are genetic we know can be passed down) just not a very large one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 03:28 PM
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This is the way I felt about the lockdowns, they wanted us to forgo the most important time to get work experience and actually set ourselves up for an okay life to save themselves. I guarantee if covid was disproportionately killing younger people they wouldn't care about it at all just like all the issues that effect the younger generations today. It's for the collective good when it's helping them but rugged individualism when it's us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:56 PM
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Yep, my friend who's 5'1", Indian, and works as a janitor started lifting last year and has great results. Now he's 6'2", white, with good bone structure and is getting plenty of dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:10 AM
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But there are very few femcels, the vast majority of very ugly people are men. We don't even need OLD site data to prove this point. History shows us you have twice as many female ancestors than male ancestors through most of human history. In addition, most people struggle to "be useful". If you're low IQ, good luck trying be successful in the world. Even if you're relatively smart, your chances are pretty low if your parents treated you horribly or grew up very poor. I do feel for the women wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 06:32 PM
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Yes this is real life, but the post is in a parody subreddit
/r/MGTOW03/06/21 07:10 AM
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He's probably tall
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:58 AM
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It's slightly more likely for gay men to get married than lesbians (It was like ~53% of LG marriages were gay vs 47 for lesbians)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:38 PM
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Right, even most people who are for Medicare for all/full public system have a private part of the system as well. If you want to pay for what you think is better treatment then by all means you can, it's just that people who need routine procedures/medication should feel secure knowing they won't go bankrupt if they lose their job and health insurance. Not the mention the large number of people with health insurance that won't cover an immediate medical need or health insurance that won't cover…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:12 PM
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I think you're under estimating the just be category of men. I've found women prefer them over the become category. I know I'm lucky with genetics, and can never relate to the golddigger/statusdigger people say women are. I'm not at all wealthy or have particularly high status but have never had trouble with women, while I know several rich low attractive males that struggle a lot with dating or have been divorced. Obviously celebrities do fine but when women are choosing between the ugly rich h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 03:46 AM
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Depends if these women are reciprocal and helping him move etc, but I think we all know that the answer is probably no.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 03:57 AM
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It's not only mental problems but literally just most problems that exist don't really care if you're attractive or not. You're at best buffered slightly from some social problems but even that brings up different problems like people just liking you for your appearance. Don't get me wrong it's still much better to be attractive but people on the outside definitely over rate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 07:31 PM
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No way unless you count surgery. So many guys are short/have recessed chins or just deformities that will hold them back. Also genetics will play a role in workout progress. Everyone can look better than they do right now but won't necessarily be even a little bit attractive. I've seen the way girls respond to my attractive friends and my less attractive ones and it's night and day.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/21 10:36 PM
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Especially considering they both went to Harvard and met in college
/r/MGTOW206/05/21 06:12 PM
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If someone leaves a Christian religion, nobody of the that faith would want to kill that person
/r/MGTOW204/05/21 09:22 PM
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Yeah the effect of not exercising is much much larger
/r/BlackPillScience24/04/21 08:48 PM
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This is good advice for moderate to high value women looking for their male counterpart but more desperate men will be willing to lie for a couple months just to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 06:55 AM
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Or were ugly when they were a kid/teen and didn't become super attractive till later
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 03:37 AM
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Good way to filter out a girl you wouldn't want to date
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 10:36 PM
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Finish up that program so you'll become DrChad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 02:59 AM
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I agree with most of what you said and yeah 'similar' is really relative, but the fact that the average man could find a woman who had basically the exact same personality as him (assuming he's not a complete outlier) relatively easily speaks to how similar we are. Yes, I do think you should have a sex specific strategy when it comes to certain things but I often see the pills get carried away with research showing a sex differences where the differences aren't very large and I think they are do…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 09:01 PM
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I think you guys are splitting hairs a little, the studies clearly show there are differences between men and women in personality, but most of differences are pretty small most of the time. Some exceptions like agreeableness but even the difference there is less than a standard deviation. This causes issues when talking about other problems in society but when talking about trying to date an average member of the opposite sex I don't think it's super relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 07:47 PM
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Look up obesity percentage by state and you see a pretty large difference, the north east and western US is around 20-27%, mid west 30-35% and parts of the south are 35-40%. Not incredibly different but if nearly 40% of the people you instantly filter out plus the probably 20% who are overweight then it would definitely be harder to find dates there than in other states.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 05:08 PM
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Very few people will love you for who you actually are is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 07:28 PM
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This is again the same problem of mapping male sexual pleasure onto female sexual pleasure. Their orgasms are different. And for the record I would be ok with a 20% chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 09:04 PM
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Right, or sometines child birth. Even the biggest dick is nothing compared to a baby and they will usually constrict back after birth so she had to be really going at it with very large stuff
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/20 08:48 PM
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Height is positively correlated to a small degree with dick size and women obviously select for that but yeah I do agree most people have average dicks. Unless she had a very high N count or you have a very small dick it probably wouldn't be too much of an issue even if it was something she really cared about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 01:04 AM
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Yeah this is what I first thought as well, almost every STD, besides HIV, women are much more likely to contract the STD from men than men are from women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/20 04:12 AM
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Just get rich bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 09:40 PM
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Yeah if you look up the few studies on cleanliness that have been done, woman generally have clearer rooms on average than men
/r/MGTOW204/12/20 11:00 PM
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Yep they'd be my guess as well. If you're in the obese category you would know if you're one of the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 09:56 PM
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Good luck with that, and fyi many studies show the same effects on men as far as pair bonding goes later in life (less marriage satisfaction, higher divorce rate, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:35 PM
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If all you can find is polluted water, maybe you should not look for water at a chemical waste site. Yes there are a lot of bad people but you have to learn how to look in the right places and really think about what you want and how you're filtering people in or out of being potential matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:11 PM
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Nevermind it's actually a little better than I remember https://static01.nyt.com/images/2015/08/28/science/bodyfat-bmi/bodyfat-bmi-jumbo-v2.png Only 3% of women and 12% of men are healthy obese
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:11 PM
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Everyone shits on the BMI yet it's a pretty good predictor. Sure if a person is going to the gym everyday and has a large amount of muscle then yes it will be off. From what I've found searching this only applies to about 10-20% of people in that category. Also about 10-20% who have a healthy BMI aren't actually healthy. But in general your BMI is a very easy thing to measure and a fairly accurate predictor and people are probably lying to themselves if they think they're one of the healthy fat …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:58 PM
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That sea animal with the flippers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 10:45 PM
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A large percentage of women in the dating market have that pretty privilege (someone would love them without great accomplishments) and a very small percentage of men have those accomplishments though. Not everyone can be a CEO/doctor/lawyer, the majority of people are just average.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 10:26 PM
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So you think answers like this are wrong? https://www.reddit.com/r/AskHistorians/comments/5aban4/were_ancient_romas_actually_as_sexually_liberated/d9f7hfw/?ampcid=1*143fdbv*cid*YW1wLTVXaS1BMmJQRUdEY2d1UlhkTi1xa1E Doesn't sound super liberated .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 10:54 PM
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I think part of the problem is these girls are disproportionately are to find. They're not on tinder and rarely in the bars so you're unlikely to just randomly meet them. The main way would be through friends so having a large friend circle helps but it would still basically just be getting lucky. Also a lot are locked down in high school/college.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/08/20 12:18 AM
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I think they are "against" single parents as well. Most believe in marriage as a lifelong commitment and trying all means possible in order to fix it. Usually wouldn't believe in procreation without marriage as well. Single parents are usually after the fact though, very few plan on being single parents and sometimes you become one for reasons beyond your control in contrast to gay couples straight up adopting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 02:33 AM
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The problem with that is you might turn off the girl who is actually virgin/low n count as a lot of those girls I find don't want a high n guy. Worse, a low n might lie and say she was a slut too to fit in because you say you are and she'll think that you'll like that. Of course if she is actually high n then yes you will find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 04:35 PM
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Yeah it's a bmi of 29 (overweight) and about 5lbs from being clinically obese.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 06:17 PM
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Yep, nobodies gonna correct a girl when she tells you your dicks bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 02:17 AM
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I see this disconnect all the time in people. Another one is dick size. Some girls say they like 8"+ but then someone thought mine was like 9" (its not) so what they actually mean could be very difficult size/height than what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 01:57 AM
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Which would be helpful information
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 11:51 PM
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I agree that the facilities are marginally better only, but having a strong support system (which a rich girl is much more likely to have than some bum on the street) is the way out of addiction. The point is on average the rich girl is going to be successful more times than the bum. But I disagree on your point that everything is just subjective, some things are actual problems. Sure, the guy on the street could very well have depression and addictive tendencies, but being kicked out of your ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 12:58 AM
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The point is it would be a lot worse if you were an addict and you didn't have access to a nice recovery place. Let alone the reasons that drove you there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 12:25 AM
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It's right in the middle according to how the study did it. 3 star was 40-60% desirability.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 06:55 AM
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Coomers usually
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 11:40 PM
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So you judge a potential mate solely on looks? I'm sure that's turned out super well for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:08 AM
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I would have believed it until the last paragraph
/r/MGTOW15/05/20 04:46 AM
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If you're face is normie or below then being tall just makes you at best a Chad light
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 12:54 AM
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Do you not remember your meme op? You're saying woman would become hookers, and guys would be more equipped. Therefore, guys would be better hookers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:22 PM
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No offense but you're clearly not over her. What are you trying to prove by making her want you back? That you are above her? Stop wasting time on her. Just ghost, nothing good comes from keeping previous LTR girls around.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 07:51 PM
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If you marry at 24, then you basically found a young woman in her "prime" since you started dating most of the time at least a couple years already.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 02:31 PM
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Yeah I generally agree with that, but I do think people with mental and physical issues preventing them from relationship's can bring interesting prospectives. I'm not an incel, purple/blueish pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 12:00 AM
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Adapt how?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 09:24 PM
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What? The fact that someone is an incel doesn't magically change reality...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 08:23 PM
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That's why I always sleep at -20C
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:03 PM
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You're also not trying to get a guy to sleep with you so the situation of them judging your attractiveness would never come up with another guy (assuming heterosexuality).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 12:20 AM
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The best I heard it stated was "take all women seriously." Just like how reporting any crime should be taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:28 PM
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Agree, I found the girls on bumble were more serious in general and about having a relationship. Dates I set up from tinder had a much higher no show percentage to the point where I would only go places or do things that I would have done anyway so I wouldn't be disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 12:56 AM
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Goddammit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 03:45 AM
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No, I would say the equivalent for a man is the guy after getting broken up that stocks their ex and continues to chase and scare her as he slowly become a overweight depressed alcoholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 12:55 AM
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I don't think many would for a LTR/marriage in their 40's (even the reverse is not as common as people seem to think, most marry in the same social class). If they were both in their 20's I would think so due to the obvious implication that he wouldn't be still an associate at target in his 40's, especially if he had other passions going like being in a band or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 06:35 PM
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Isn't this a repost from a long long time ago? Swear I read this in like 2010.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/20 07:51 AM
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The studies that show that men leave there wife at a much higher rate than woman do for there husband when faced with a serious medical issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 09:41 AM
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I think it's a joke?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/20 05:45 AM
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Don't you at least walk around town after getting coffee? Best dates I've had are walking around parks/stores and it usually helps me if they're someone who I could see dating in the future. Just getting coffee sounds so formal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/02/20 11:03 AM
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If I remember correctly, the blind peoples preference was smaller than non blind people (less correlation and for not as large of ratio). Possibly shows that it's somewhat genetic but also influenced by other factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:32 AM
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Mostly likely he was that ripped in a high school and so is just going back to where he was before. It's much easier to go back to where you where than an inexperienced lifter starting for the first time. Even if he was doing steroids I don't think those gains would be possible in 4 months for most new lifters (though there are of course extreme genetic exceptions). For a new lifter this would be impossible. In addition, basic frame/bone structure makes most people not look nearly this good even…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 01:18 AM
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Surely you'd change your mind for Chad /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:05 AM
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Group activities gyms such as rock climbing/yoga classes ect are probably better for meeting people. In regular gyms, it's generally not very socially acceptable to randomly start hitting on people compared to at Rock climbing gyms I'll regularly meet new people through discussing routes/methods with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 07:34 PM
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A little bit picky I know, but only 52% of men voted for trump in 2016. And if the person is under 44 then it's much lower (37% of men below 29 and 45% of men 30-44). In addition, only 61% of people voted so only ~31% of 18+ men would be disqualified. Though I 100% agree that this is probably a bad filter. Even as someone who is very liberal, I would much rather date a very conservative girl than someone who is apathetic to politics. Though even this isn't necessarily if we share other hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:01 PM
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Alpha Bucks, Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks. I think they're kind of stupid categories and are way to rigid but would say as an ideal, women want an alpha and a beta in a relationship (an attractive, assertive guy who can also give commitment/protection, especially for starting families)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 12:13 AM
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Yes, the right to privacy is the rationale they used for it but how it pertains to abortion laws is what the case is all about. As I'm sure you know, this wasn't first case to grant marital and personal privacy so to say that this case is all about privacy is being blatantly obtuse. You seem to be doing exactly what you're accusing me of doing, using a cylinder (the rationale) in a square (rational + context of rational + law being discussed) hole
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:31 PM
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I do agree in general that the most accurate prediction is the status quo, not a continue of a trend. However, I think in this case the polarization of our politics (that has already been happening) is causing more of these highly restricted abortion laws to come up and increase the chance of a SC challenge, and hence increase a chance for more restrictions allowed. A prime example was seen in Ohio. The Republican state legislature had been trying to enact a abortion bill for a while but was vet…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:07 PM
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Huh? Have you even read the case summary? The case is mostly about abortion. From Wikipedia: "The Due Process Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment to the U.S. Constitution provides a fundamental "right to privacy" that protects a pregnant woman's liberty to choose whether or not to have an abortion. This right is not absolute, and must be balanced against the government's interests in protecting women's health and protecting prenatal life. Texas law making it a crime to assist a woman to get an ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:18 PM
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I don't think they will completely overturn it but instead continue to chip away at Roe vs Wade like planned parenthood vs casey did.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 08:55 AM
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The problem is this is almost impossible since nobody can really know where peoples rating would fall in a population of billions of people. The best anyone could really do is to be able to say that they think someone is approximately in the middle relative to the people they've seen. How anyone possibly articulate the difference to those terms in this question is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:46 AM
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Well statistically she's showing it's true after the first marriage, only 1/3 survived after that which is a higher divorce rate than the average persons first marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 09:39 PM
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If you can grow it completely, it can make your chin appear more masculine. Also the ability to have one is obviously a masculine trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 07:46 PM
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Still waiting unfortunately :(
/r/MGTOW06/12/19 10:34 PM
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Agreed, sounds like a manic bipolar episode...
/r/MGTOW06/12/19 09:16 PM
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I always think the whole "men and women can't be just friends" thing is so funny. They take the fact it's impossible for them to do it without wanting sex and assume it's the same way for everyone else. And I agree with the second part as well, think it might have to do with the sexualization of society and unlimited porn access because looking around it sure seems like sex is all that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 08:26 PM
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Or maybe recently got fit and still has low self worth
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:55 PM
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Oh it's definitely not a bad way of doing it, was just pointing out that by that system ~50% of guys would be around a .1/10
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 09:52 PM
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The percentages of who would be interested would definitely not be linearly if you definitely the rating system linearly (i.e. the top 10% of men are 10/10). Sure the 10 will probably find that they are attractive to most but 5/10 would probably be attractive to <10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 08:56 PM
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"They see women the same way that women have been seeing men and other women the whole time. They've just simply removed a psychological bias that disproportionately affects men and now they're on the same playing field as everyone else." If you looked at the Wikipedia link you posted, you'd see that the effect is 4.5 times stronger with women than men. From wiki: "This research found that while both women and men have more favorable views of women, women's in-group biases were 4.5 times stronge…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 07:37 PM
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I like how the black guy was photoshopped in
/r/MGTOW30/10/19 08:16 AM
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Is it possible that females are just being more honest about the ex? I've known 2 guys who on the surface are like "yeah it's fine, just didn't work out" but when they get drunk their negative attitude about the ex comes out.
/r/BlackPillScience25/10/19 08:41 PM
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I wish more people realised that being a hypocrite doesn't make you wrong. For example, I think we would all agree that you can hate Comcast despite using their service. And when it comes to making changes to society, they'll hit you from both sides. If you are poor, they'll just say you're jealous of the rich. And if you're rich you are a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:23 PM
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I'll admit, I had to read the whole thing and some comments to realize it was sarcasm. Well done 👍 or maybe I'm just autistic. Unfortunately I've seen people make this point and be 100% serious. Edit: To contribute, male podcast like Joe Rogan use real bro science and talk about deep stuff like dmt but female podcasts are often about murders/serial killers and they only listen to get off to hearing about them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:31 AM
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Guess the ban brought all the incels here now...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 11:24 PM
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Please stop spreading bullshit, it's not close to 50-50 for many groups. One of the main factors is education. For example, even if one of them have a college educated, it's down to 70-30. If both, it's 80-20. If one has a masters+ it's around 85-15, continuing down with more education. Which honestly makes complete sense, smarter people can figure out ways to make a marriage work in addition to also having less monitary stress. Don't marry that dumb 18 year old catholic virgin but the 24 who ju…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 05:36 AM
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Has there been a similar study with men? Wonder if it would hold true as well
/r/BlackPillScience20/08/19 05:10 PM
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Hey in case you didn't already figure out, don't take people in this sub too seriously...
/r/MGTOW09/08/19 09:05 PM
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I'm an idiot
/r/MGTOW09/08/19 07:16 PM
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Does he say somewhere they are not his kids? Some have kids together outside of marriage.
/r/MGTOW09/08/19 06:36 PM
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That's sorted by comedy, overall in the US it's 8th. The true crime ones probably score very well with women. And the more I look at that podcast, I'm not even sure if the listeners would be more female, the most recent episode is called "how to eat pussy", seems like something that would be directed to males. No where does it break down the gender. https://chartable.com/charts/itunes/us-all-podcasts-podcasts
/r/MGTOW30/06/19 06:37 PM
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Can someone link a source on this? Looked around and can't find anything on the gender breakdown of podcasts listeners, only that men in general listen to podcasts at a slightly higher frequency.
/r/MGTOW29/06/19 10:59 PM
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I think that's just because men are more likely to be addicted/over use porn than women. Men are just more prone to addiction as this is also seen when you look at the gender breakdown of drug abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 10:33 PM
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How are they gay? If they like girls and transwomen they would be at most bi. Would you say a guy dating a passable transman is straight?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 12:47 AM
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I believe that and abortion being more allowed. The abortion case matches very well as men 17-30ish commit by far the most murders and the rate declines rapidly about 18 years after abortion became much more accessible. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Legalized_abortion_and_crime_effect The case for lead is a good one as well as people during leaded gas time had magnitudes more lead in their bodies than today. Lead is absorbed through the lungs much better than say lead paint or even small amoun…
/r/BlackPillScience14/05/19 08:42 PM
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The opposite seems to be true (more educated women are married than less educated women), I know I saw an article with more recent years but can't find it right now but this one shows that trend. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.brookings.edu/blog/social-mobility-memos/2016/08/19/the-most-educated-women-are-the-most-likely-to-be-married/amp/ I think education is a way to change men's polygamous and women's hypergamous tendencys. You just as easily make the case that more educated couples should …
/r/BlackPillScience03/05/19 03:00 AM
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This is also why I think sociopaths and very narcissistic guys do better with women. Not because women love these kinds of guys but because they will say or do things that others won't to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 09:13 PM
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I think people need to realize that there is a basically infinite number of hierarchies that you could be one of the best at that would make a woman much more attractived to you. I sometimes think music/art etc came about to make your own hierarchy that you would of course be the best at. I agree with everything but intelligence is strongly correlated with making someone attractive
/r/BlackPillScience21/04/19 09:36 AM
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Also to add on to this idea, police districts where they required the officers to leave their guns at the station had a much lower rate of suicide than one's that didn't (think it was like 3 or 4 times but don't remember exactly). I really think the more inconvenient it is to do it just gives people a little more time to think and hence a chance to change their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 08:51 AM
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Yes since it's still by far the norm. Went to look it up and it appears there is some difference ~10% gap in 2012, 2016, and 2018 but only a 2% gap in 2014 so there is a lot of noise and I'm not sure if it would even be significant (didn't run any tests though). In addition, that's mostly due to more women saying they were married and living with their spouse (which is strange since polygamist marriages aren't legal).
/r/BlackPillScience24/03/19 10:36 PM
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I'm pretty sure it'd be half and half each sex (since this is about relationships)
/r/BlackPillScience24/03/19 07:53 PM
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Nothing wrong with having deal breakers in dating. I personally think it's due to a combination of things. First being if you have had sex before, you're generally more attractive and better at getting sex (yes I know an ugly girl could get sex but a more attractive girl would have probably thousands of more opportunities to). So when you're in the relationship, you will have to deny others while a not as attractive girl/guy won't have to nearly as much. It could also just be that being in more …
/r/BlackPillScience17/03/19 03:32 AM
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There are none to my knowledge (someone correct me if I'm wrong). There's just a correlation between n count (more so for women but with both genders in some studies) and lower marriage success. I honestly think it's made way to big of a deal here, but even studies that control for education and religion still do show less successful marriages across the group. However, things like being highly educated and having enough money from both of the parties to live middle class seem to be more importa…
/r/BlackPillScience17/03/19 01:31 AM
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Projection
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 10:44 PM
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Yeah the title makes it sound like women trash talk more proportionally as well. By OP's phrasing, you could say women are more likely to say positive things about their friends/relatives basied on the study.
/r/BlackPillScience26/01/19 09:28 PM
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Just curious why you think it's a woman only thing? Most women I know use adblockers too and some social media sites (such as reddit) are even male dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 04:45 AM
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50/50, either she was cheating or she wasn't
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 08:10 AM
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I sometimes have this problem and I'm a guy. I don't like hooking up and want to be dating at least a couple months (and know them much longer) before having sex. It seems at my college most girls are just interested in sex and I usually have to decline. It makes me feel like I'm missing out on potential good matches just because we have different time frames of when we want sex. If you're religious (I'm not though) then looking in those groups would probably find people who share those ideas. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 09:25 PM
1

Kinda ironic that your user name is "humansockpuppet"
/r/TheRedPill06/01/19 12:13 AM
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I think it would depend on phrasing. If you said "the princess wants to most attractive/desirable mate", then I think most would agree with that (I'm not RP and I agree with that) as we all generally want the best we can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 01:32 AM
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I agree, as this has been my experience and what I've observed from my parents/relatives. But you also bring up an interesting point about class. Reading though the red pill, a lot of the posts seem to involve issues that would be much less likely to happen to me due to growing up middle class and now being educated. I'd be curious about research on it, but from my experience the difference in goals/values of lower class VS middle class men and women (when it comes to dating/relationships) is ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 09:57 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 06:29 PM
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Agree, though it's not like it's some revolutionary idea that if you're more attractive you will have better success with women. Same with approaching as a guy. I would say all of these ideas are generally consistent with the blue pill as well but maybe others disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 06:10 PM
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TRP--come for the self improvement, stay for the women hating. Seriously though, you can make all the positive changes without being "red pill". Some suggestions for you as a mostly blue pill person if you want to get girls to notice you more: First, max out your looks. Get a good haircut, wear nice clothes, take a shower and smell good. Start working out if you're not already will help you in the long run. Count calories and lose weight if you're overweight. Act more assertive. You don't have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 09:44 AM
1

Do you just do anal?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 10:06 PM
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I think he's talking about social anxiety, obviously having a non social phobia wouldn't be related to be timid. I will also say that as someone with social anxiety, most people at my work just think I'm serious/passionate about work (which as a guy can be seen as sexy) when in reality on bad days I'm unable to socialize with anyone (which could be interpreted as not attractive for being timid). I think a lot depends on how you and the person are able to frame things
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 06:29 PM
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Porn addiction
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 12:49 AM
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