PoMansDreams Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	CMV: Men greatly over-complicate dating. Please tell us what the right woman looks like. We’re all dying to know	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 01:30 PM
8	CMV: Men greatly over-complicate dating. This whole post is laughably ignorant to what dating as a man is like. You can’t fathom what dating women is like until you do it for years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 01:00 PM
3	One of the reasons why men check out from society is because there is growing, unjustified hostility, disrespect and depreciation against men in general. This tells me that you read the post with the intention to feel offended rather than actually understand. This post has nothing to do with “men having harder lives”. It’s has everything to do with society treating men like worthless drones. I’ll tell you this truth, and I’ll leave it there: Society values women and children far more than men. Honestly men accept this, since it’s the way society has ALWAYS been. But so many women say “this isn’t the Stone Age, we’re in 2021” so maybe there’s a li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/21 04:48 PM
3	One of the reasons why men check out from society is because there is growing, unjustified hostility, disrespect and depreciation against men in general. Calling it a “sob story” tells me you don’t care at all about the feelings men have. Automatically dismissed	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/21 04:35 PM
2	One of the reasons why men check out from society is because there is growing, unjustified hostility, disrespect and depreciation against men in general. It did actually	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/21 05:02 AM
22	One of the reasons why men check out from society is because there is growing, unjustified hostility, disrespect and depreciation against men in general. This needed to be said so badly. Thank you brother	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 08:10 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Who you fighting?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/21 01:34 AM
17	As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be picky Thank you captain obvious for pointing out…the point	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/21 01:29 AM
22	As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be picky Yeah bc women aren’t out here being lazy, selfish, thotish, gold diggers. Everybody ain’t perfect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/21 11:36 PM
75	As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be picky I wish there was some way for women to understand the hurdles men have to jump through to make a date go well. We have to be damn near perfect because even the slightest wrong thing makes it a “bad date”	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/21 10:00 PM
1	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? It’s not the only way. It’s just the most important way	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 02:19 PM
4	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? A man needs to feel necessary just like a woman needs to feel desired. It’s really that simple. You can call it whatever you want or deny it however much you want. Reality will keep proving me right	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 03:41 AM
4	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? No I’ve met plenty of exceptions to the rule. Women who are able to actually take what I say for what it is without throwing assumptions on top of it. You, however, aren’t one of those exceptions. I’ve read plenty of your comments and given you the chance to respond without assuming I’m the type of person to excuse men for cheating. You failed every one of them. So now it’s not an assumption, it’s fact: you can’t debate without emotions and it shows. Have a nice night little girl	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 03:30 AM
7	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? I never claimed men were Saints. You just couldn’t read my comment without letting your emotions overrun you. Which is understandable since you’re a woman. Y’all feel first then think later	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 03:00 AM
7	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? It’s more like explaining. After all, you did ask me WHY they do it. If you know you’re not gonna like the response, just don’t ask the question. Let me ask you this. Why do women cheat on men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 02:37 AM
5	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? I’ve never defended a man for cheating	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 02:36 AM
5	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? You’re right. As a man it’s hard to be objective on this. But you should still take something from my response. There’s some truth to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 02:33 AM
8	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? No man will complain about being a provider if his wife is submissive to him. But when he isn’t getting the respect/response he thinks he should get, then he’ll start questioning why he’s putting in so much effort for her. Classic example, a man who works for his family but gets no sex from his wife. Men see women as an investment. If he’s putting money into this investment and doesn’t get what he wants out of it, he’ll complain. Just like any normal human. Honestly it’s kinda common sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 02:26 AM
4	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? Well now U know that’s not what I was saying	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 02:20 AM
2	Alternative to the Key/lock analogy. You’re either delusional or trolling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 02:16 AM
6	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? The point is that I’m not really blaming anyone. A woman out earning her man typically means that both parties aren’t fulfilling their traditional gender roles. And as much as society hates to admit, that USUALLY ends the relationship sooner or later. Women hate providing for men, and that’s just the truth. Men hate feeling unnecessary, and that’s just the truth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 02:13 AM
10	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? It’s not blaming women. It’s just being objective. If a woman starts out-earning her man, it’s a good assumption to make that she’ll treat him with less respect and he’ll treat her with more resentment. It’s a case of which comes first, the chicken or the egg. It doesn’t matter in the end. It just is what it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 02:08 AM
2	If high n count men are hypocritical for wanting low n count women - does the same apply to wealth preferences in women? Definitely hypocritical. But women will never admit something like that. Personally I don’t mind them being hypocritical tho. Everyone is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/21 06:26 PM
1	Women have taught men to pump and dump them and not commit etc… Your sentence made it so obvious you’re not a man. U have no idea what we deal with in the dating market and it shows	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/21 05:12 PM
2	For Women: Do you feel that you misunderstood/misunderstand TRP or do you feel you understand TRP loud and clear? Personally as long as both parties are getting what they want, I don’t see the issue. If the woman is being provided for, protected, and kept comfortable, why does it really matter if the man is doing it for his or her benefit? That’s just being human. No person will invest anything if they aren’t getting anything out of it. So of COURSE the man is looking out for his benefit. Are you saying the man should provide all his time and resources for a woman who is giving him no sex and he should be h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/21 02:33 AM
1	For Women: Do you feel that you misunderstood/misunderstand TRP or do you feel you understand TRP loud and clear? In that regard, these two ideologies are similar. I have no delusions about that. But that’s hardly enough of a similarity to say they’re both the same but just opposite sexes. PLEASE READ WHAT IM ABOUT TO SAY NEXT VERY CAREFULLY. Then read it again slowly just to make sure you get the point. PLEASE. This is the main point here. TRP, whether it’s for the woman’s benefit or not, teaches men that they MUST provide value to the woman in order for a relationship to even begin. Women look to disquali…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/21 02:06 AM
3	For Women: Do you feel that you misunderstood/misunderstand TRP or do you feel you understand TRP loud and clear? Yes exactly. TRP teaches men that women won’t even look their way if they’re not bringing some type of value before any date, relationship, whatever happens. Women look to disqualify, men look to qualify. In this regard, it’s kind of asinine to say that TRP doesn’t consider women’s needs. Because in order for the relationship to even begin, a man has to have already met those needs. It’s only after the man finally gets what he wants (sex) that it’s the woman’s job to provide value to HIM to get …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/21 01:49 AM
1	For Women: Do you feel that you misunderstood/misunderstand TRP or do you feel you understand TRP loud and clear? Well let’s clear one thing up. Both the TRP and FDS are about what’s best for their respective gender audiences. That isn’t specific to TRP. FDS does NOT emphasize their partners needs. In fact, they act like they don’t matter at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/21 01:40 AM
0	For Women: Do you feel that you misunderstood/misunderstand TRP or do you feel you understand TRP loud and clear? Yes. However where FDS takes a wrong turn is, they don’t advocate for the women to service their man at all. At best it’s a 90/10 split if they had it their way. TRP is the opposite. They teach us that WE have to bring value FIRST. FDS tells women they don’t have to bring ANYTHING to the table except their vagina. And honestly, it’s ludicrous and they deserve to be a meme	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/21 12:46 AM
1	For Women: Do you feel that you misunderstood/misunderstand TRP or do you feel you understand TRP loud and clear? Personally I benefited greatly from TRP which is why I go so hard for it now. Literally helped me get a GF I am extremely happy with. Not everyone will agree 100% with an ideology. We all take away from it what we choose to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/21 12:36 AM
1	For Women: Do you feel that you misunderstood/misunderstand TRP or do you feel you understand TRP loud and clear? “so I don’t see FDS saying “if they’re not of service to you, discard them” Yeah so clearly you have a heavy bias here bc the whole point of the FDS rating men as high/low value is predicated on how men “service” them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/21 12:32 AM
1	Do womens level of intelligence mean nothing? Who wants a dumb chick? Submissive maybe, but that’s totally different from not being intelligent. I can’t imagine the majority of men like unintelligent women	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/21 04:41 PM
1	Question about your thoughts on this strategy (NOT an advice post) They admit it all the time actually. Well, the ones that I learned from do anyway. One of their main points is that reality is sexist, and double standards exist for both sexes. I agree with this sentiment, since I see it all the time	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/21 12:10 AM
2	Women, how would you prefer to be pursued in real life? Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/21 10:19 PM
1	Women, how would you prefer to be pursued in real life? Ok but go into detail. How did he approach you? What does “directly but respectfully” mean? Bc women find different things disrespectful	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/21 10:10 PM
1	Question about your thoughts on this strategy (NOT an advice post) I live in reality ma’am	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/21 11:39 PM
1	Question about your thoughts on this strategy (NOT an advice post) You almost got it. The full point is that both men and women are hypocrites. But only men will ever admit it	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/21 11:37 PM
2	Redpillers: What’s the most simpy thing you did for a girl pre-TRP? If it’s a girl I’ve been on a couple dates with and know well enough, I’ll buy her flowers. But I will NEVER do it on a first date. And telling a guy it’s a good idea to do so is horrific advice	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/21 09:57 PM
7	Redpillers: What’s the most simpy thing you did for a girl pre-TRP? It’s not about being too insecure or afraid to do it. It’s about understanding how women generally think and how not to appear desperate/emotionally invested. It’s the same reason many women won’t have sex on the first date. You have to make your partner show they’re worthy of what U have to give. Last point, idc if you think I sound unattractive; I’m not attracted to you ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/21 09:51 PM
0	Redpillers: What’s the most simpy thing you did for a girl pre-TRP? No it’s never ok to bring flowers on a first date. Women will expect that effort or more	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/21 09:34 PM
2	Redpillers: What’s the most simpy thing you did for a girl pre-TRP? Brought flowers on the first date 😂. Oh man I was so naive	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/21 09:01 PM
0	Question about your thoughts on this strategy (NOT an advice post) No, men aren’t naive. We know that a lot of us lie/manipulate to get what we want. We only shit on women who do it bc a lot of women act like they’re the most loyal creatures on earth when they’re not	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/21 08:52 PM
39	What is something you're "supposed" to be physically attracted to but actually turns you off? Clown face makeup is a no for me	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 03:00 PM
8	What are the ways in which women enforce Toxic Masculinity? As a man, it is what it is. We will adapt	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/21 06:30 PM
15	What are the ways in which women enforce Toxic Masculinity? Men standards for sex (generally) are not that high. The proof is that there are ugly women with multiple men trying to fuck them	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/21 06:29 PM
3	Men, does this sound logical to you? Never out a woman on a pedestal. Her and the ones after will expect no less	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/21 07:59 PM
3	Whether you are pro vax or not this is funny science bad	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/21 02:27 PM
8	Guess she's "tired of games" now and need$ a good man. Some of the most iconic TV moments are from that one show "You are NOT the father" Yall know the one	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/21 01:49 PM
1	good job guys you made me subconsciously hate women To each his own. GL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/21 01:42 PM
-1	Can't believe this one hasn't been posted yet sounds like a win win	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 08:17 PM
2	Most of you are embarassing and I laugh at your posts every day I'm sure AnnoKanno is one of those FDS types. I wouldnt waste any more time here unless you enjoy the troll	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 07:42 PM
28	The sub r/askwomen drops the blackest pills You act like OP made these up. These are real responses from what I assume to be real women in AskWomen	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 06:45 PM
1	Men look at women who ask them out as “options“ Lol U need to get out more	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/21 06:20 PM
3	Men look at women who ask them out as “options“ Is the reverse not also true? Is it not a losing game for men who approach women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/21 03:59 PM
2	Men look at women who ask them out as “options“ Women also look at men who pursue them as a side option. I think that’s just the way it goes, regardless of gender	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/21 03:57 PM
4	TRP has some specks of truth to it but has largely become a money making cult for sociopathic dating/red pill coaches TRP is accurate af. My game with women went up tremendously	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 08:41 PM
3	I’m starting to believe FDS is right, men really do have an inherit disdain for women You say “we’re used to it” as if this exact post isn’t complaining about men not being nice enough to women	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 05:17 PM
12	I’m starting to believe FDS is right, men really do have an inherit disdain for women Oh you poor victim. All the men hate you? It must be their fault not yours. Sweet little ugly duckling, you'll be a swan one day	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 04:01 PM
1	Why are pick me girls criticised? Yessir. That’s my favorite kendrick song	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 02:31 PM
2	Why are pick me girls criticised? Nothing. It’s not actually wrong it just “feels” wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/21 08:06 PM
2	I want to hear everyone else’s opinion on who they feel is a better spouse: Red Pill Men, “Red Pill Men”, Blue Pill Men, “Blue Pill Men”, Traditionalists or Semi-Traditionalists? That's my first time ever hearing that so I wont speak on it	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 04:09 PM
2	I want to hear everyone else’s opinion on who they feel is a better spouse: Red Pill Men, “Red Pill Men”, Blue Pill Men, “Blue Pill Men”, Traditionalists or Semi-Traditionalists? but what? Some of them are? thats some real groundbreaking news	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 04:08 PM
2	I want to hear everyone else’s opinion on who they feel is a better spouse: Red Pill Men, “Red Pill Men”, Blue Pill Men, “Blue Pill Men”, Traditionalists or Semi-Traditionalists? Red Pill men are not male supremacists	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 03:03 PM
2	CMV: no one is sexually attracted to money, accomplishments or intelligence. ok well i'll say this. Theres a reason why ugly rich men have an abundance of women and it's NOT because of their personality or (this is redundant) their good looks	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 01:22 PM
2	CMV: no one is sexually attracted to money, accomplishments or intelligence. I'm not sure how to explain common sense	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 12:32 PM
-1	Pros and Cons of Marrying a Red Pill Man or “Red Pill Man” its not actually common sense. A lot of guys are think they'll find love, even if they don't get in shape. This is a lie and TRP explains this	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 12:26 PM
1	CMV: no one is sexually attracted to money, accomplishments or intelligence. Nah I'm sorry but this is just cap	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 12:12 PM
12	What do women really gain from being in LTRs or relationships with men? what is this weird new narrative that me benefit much more from marriage than women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/21 01:31 PM
11	[Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs? Men actually dont care as much as you think about where women work. The internet doesnt reflect real life	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/21 04:56 PM
1	Men of this Subreddit, what would/will you do after a Girl/woman has rejected you after you've asked them out on a date/confessed your feelings? Delete her from your mind	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/21 01:16 PM
1	A confident loser is often more successful than a doubtful gentleman. I apologize. Moment of weakness	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/21 10:35 PM
2	Why do women seem to not acknowledge the sheer amount of power they hold over straight men? OP on that simp pack	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/21 08:36 PM
1	Because most men haven't figured it out yet, the reason most 'advice' seems a bit cuckoo... And I have to ask again, what country are you from?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/21 11:22 PM
2	Because most men haven't figured it out yet, the reason most 'advice' seems a bit cuckoo... Ok and since when do little boys get praised for throwing tantrums?? Maybe we're from different cultures? I'm from the US, hbu?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/21 08:06 PM
1	Because most men haven't figured it out yet, the reason most 'advice' seems a bit cuckoo... Are you joking? You have to be. You're telling me that society allows males to be more emotional than women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/21 07:06 PM
3	Women are justified in being reluctant to give men compliments. What privilege is he referring to? Not looking for a debate, just a quick answer	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/21 02:12 PM
-1	Do you think a lot of women just aren’t physically attracted to most of their partners? Show them good men are superheroes	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/21 11:37 PM
5	Do you think a lot of women just aren’t physically attracted to most of their partners? I said: "I'm just here to hear your sales questions"	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/21 10:33 PM
1	Do you think a lot of women just aren’t physically attracted to most of their partners? Don't mind me. I'm just here to hear your sales questions	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/21 10:20 PM
1	Testing how many girls i need to DM on IG before i get laid Yes. Men have always known that dating is a numbers game. These results are not surprising to me	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/21 10:09 PM
1	Redpill need to stop the traditional vs modern women debate Seems like quite the claim. What justifies your assumption?	/r/ExRedPill	29/08/21 03:04 PM
15	What do you do when you realize that you are a Femcel? First, im a guy, so you can value my advice as much/little as you please. Second, just to keep it simple, butterfaces get cuffed all the time. And I mean ALLLLL the time. 3/5 of my childhood friend group are married/engaged to a butterface (btw beauty is hugely subjective). So my point here is that you should just have patience, since some guy will likely shot with you. You don’t need to change anything. With that out the way. What should you do? I say do whatever makes you feel more confident. …	/r/RedPillWomen	27/08/21 01:57 PM
1	Why are men so persistent? Alrighty	/r/seduction	22/08/21 11:14 PM
0	Why are men so persistent? Your question "why are men so persistent" was a generalizing question, so why are you trying to play into specifics now???	/r/seduction	22/08/21 10:55 PM
3	Why are men so persistent? It does work occasionally, at least for me. Women might wanna get on the same page with this if its really that big a deal	/r/seduction	22/08/21 10:42 PM
1	Red Pill Fanboys Change chick to dude then XD. But nah man I’m just fuckin with ya. No beef 🤟🏾	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 11:07 PM
1	Red Pill Fanboys Will do fellow POS. You can go back to being the fat smelly chick nobody wants to be around :)	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 10:10 PM
1	Red Pill Fanboys that was genuinely a hilarious response. Good job :)	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 09:54 PM
1	Red Pill Fanboys Sounds like we got a blue pill advocate here	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 09:52 PM
1	Girls outperform boys every year. Yet, nothing is done. Conclusion? Girls just smarter. Explain the “white boys” part for me please?	/r/MensRights	19/08/21 08:42 PM
1	Thoughts on Fresh & Fit? Clearly he said something that hurt your feelings XD	/r/askTRP	14/08/21 04:43 PM