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–	Not having sex is an acceptable outcome Years ago I asked a girl out on a date. She turned me down and, not wanting to be coercive, I didn't ask again. A while later she contacted me, asking why we never went on that date. Apparently her no wasn't really a no and it was just my cue to show effort and keep asking until she said yes. OP gives no context or timeframe here. A random in a bar asking for sex 10 times in 10 minutes is a lot different to a husband or boyfriend asking 10 times in a month. The former is of course of a creep. In…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 08:09 AM
13	Women handle rejection worse then men Woman shot man dead because he wouldn't kiss her Rejected woman kills boyfriend Woman kills boyfriend in jealous rage Personally, I've been physically assaulted by a woman I rejected. Another reacted to me breaking up with her by destroying some of my possessions. More than once I've witnessed a full grown woman have a full on tantrum because I didn't want sex at that particular moment and she did. Women generally have very little respect for a man's "no" or any concept of obtaining his consent …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 08:52 PM
2	Why don't men speak up more about male rights? At the start of the 19th century most men couldn't vote either. Often the men sent to war were not even eligible to vote. In America women got the vote before certain groups of men (blacks, Chinese). In Britain the gap between universal male and female suffrage was 10 years. In various places, like Canada, Finland, Hungary, Russia etc, universal male and female suffrage was granted at the same time. Also bad example since women can join the army in USA. Only American men are compelled to registe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 12:02 PM
3	Why don't men speak up more about male rights? Circumcision is south east asia, where i live cannot be done before the age of 2 and after the age of 10. Indeed this is why circumcision is done as a child. The boys in my family do remember due to that. I assume they weren't sexually active before they were 10. I mean idk why your asking me how exactly do they do these studies. You're claiming circumcision doesn't impact sexual pleasure. Apparently men who are old enough to remember believe otherwise. I did say if it's to improve life and will…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 11:07 AM
2	Why don't men speak up more about male rights? Women are a majority of the electorate. They elected those male politicians. A majority of white women voted for Trump. Being able to elect politicians who start wars that only men will be forced to fight in is definitely a privilege.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/26 03:22 PM
2	Why don't men speak up more about male rights? Studies show it does not affect sexual pleasure. Most men don't even remember being circumcised, so how would they know? Notably, men who were old enough to remember it do report a reduction in sensitivity. For the glans penis, circumcised men reported decreased sexual pleasure and lower orgasm intensity. They also stated more effort was required to achieve orgasm, and a higher percentage of them experienced unusual sensations (burning, prickling, itching, or tingling and numbness of the glans p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/26 03:14 PM
1	Why don't men speak up more about male rights? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suffragette_bombing_and_arson_campaign Sending mail bombs, planting bombs in public places and setting fire to public buildings. At least four people were killed in their attacks and dozens injured. By any reasonable definition, the Suffragettes were terrorists. Secondly female circumcision has absolutely no medical benefit and destroys any pleasure the girl is meant to feel within sex. One of the purposes of male circumcision is to reduce sexual pleasure. There is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/26 03:07 PM
2	Why don't men speak up more about male rights? Many died, many were tortured but in the end it was worth it Which women died and were tortured fighting for their rights? The Suffragettes were treated very leniently considering they were terrorists. Male privilege exists almost everywhere. ~ 60 countries worldwide still have a male only military draft. Needless to say, no country has a female only draft. So not much privilege there. In scores of countries it is illegal to mutilate a little girl's genitals. Meanwhile in every country on the pl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 03:03 PM
2	Women aren't as innocent as the crime stats make you believe See this study of spousal homicides. Husband convicted of killing his wife, average sentence: 16.5 years. Wife convicted of killing her husband, average sentence: 6 years. 87% of convicted husbands received a prison sentence, compared with 70% of convicted wives. 15% of convicted wives received a sentence of 20 years or more. For convicted husbands, it was 43%.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 10:59 AM
8	Why don't men speak up more about male rights? Why don't men organize and campaign more to bring true equality? What makes you think they don't? Adoption of default joint custody and alimony reform is largely the result of campaigning by men (always fiercely opposed by women's groups). In 2021, the National Coalition for Men took their case against Selective Service to the Supreme Court. Incidentally, a female SC justice authored the opinion tossing the case. In 2011 male anti-circumcision campaigners got a proposal to ban circumcision onto …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 09:15 AM
2	The Red Pill Will Never Have Good Prescriptions Because Its Historical Claims About Gender Are Wrong. Women have always worked. They farmed, traded, managed businesses, ran estates, made economic decisions, and sometimes fought. Yet simultaneously feminists will claim the "patriarchy" prevented women doing all of those things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 02:44 PM
4	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do I can guarantee that any study which claims ~90% of rape victims are women and ~99% of rapists are men is using a definition of rape which excludes female on male assaults. The CDC is a prime example. They record female on male rape as "made to penetrate" and it therefore doesn't appear in their rape stats. Combine rape and forced to penetrate numbers and the gender gap in victims and perpetrators narrows considerably.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 12:18 PM
14	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do 67% of staff-perpetrated sexual abuse of male prisoners involves female staff In juvenile facilities, 89% of staff sexual misconduct involves female staff	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 09:53 AM
3	Men don't have a natural instinct to protect women And get drafted when a war starts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 12:35 PM
1	Men don't have a natural instinct to protect women https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elgin_v._Department_of_Treasury	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 09:45 AM
-3	Men don't have a natural instinct to protect women And yet it still exists and gets renewed every few years. Failure to register can result in fines and imprisonment and loss of certain federal benefits. That's not "nothing".	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 09:33 AM
-2	Men don't have a natural instinct to protect women Selective Service still exists and it's only for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 09:28 AM
5	Women are right: It's not all men, but it's always a man. Children murdered by a parent: 71% female perpetrators Children abused by a parent: 53% female perpetrators Non-reciprocal domestic violence: 70% female perpetrators	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 02:36 PM
9	Women are right: It's not all men, but it's always a man. Women kill, women rape, women abuse, women assault and women steal. It's never "always a man". Most infanticides are committed by women. Safe havens were literally established because women had a tendency to murder their unwanted infants. Most mass murderers of babies, from Amelia Dyer to Lucy Letby, have been women. In most forms of sexual abuse of men and boys, women are the primary perpetrators. Incidentally, when it comes to paternity fraud, not all women, but always a woman does apply.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 08:12 AM
1	What should the punishment be for false accusations of paternity fraud? A woman wrongly accused of paternity fraud will not spend years raising a child she wrongly believes is her own. Nor will she have thousands of dollars stolen from her by the state under the guise of child support or potentially be imprisoned should she be unable to pay. And even in this alternative reality where paternity fraud is a punishable crime, no woman will be wrongly dragged to prison (or whatever the punishment is) since her innocence is still easily proven anyway. So essentially it's …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 10:15 PM
1	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. So if she fails to keep her end of the bargain, they divorce and she is still rewarded despite her not rendering any services, while he is penalised anyway despite keeping his end of the bargain. This is so lopsided that the best option for a man is simply not to marry. Rhe difference is only that, in the event of a divorce, the government will enforce that obligation to her be paid out, In other words, her obligations as a housewife are optional while his as a husband are enforced at gunpoint. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 02:49 PM
1	What should be the appropriate punishment for a paternity fraud? Child support is in fact a legal grey area where defendants can face criminal punishments while only having civil protections. A woman lying about her kid's paternity can ultimately get a man imprisoned. In any case, your point about intent is moot. If you drive while intoxicated and kill someone, you will still face criminal charges even if you never intended to kill them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 02:27 PM
1	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. The longer the SAHP setup lasts the larger the total sum of money would be, so it scales directly in relation to services rendered. So if she does sit on her ass all day, she gets nothing, right? No dinner this week, no money in the account this week? You still haven't addressed why she is entitled to compensation for her contribution to the marriage but he gets nothing for his. Essentially, why does he owe her for cooking dinner but she doesn't owe him for paying the rent or mowing the lawn?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 03:24 PM
1	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. I posted the link in response to a complaint about women doing most of the childcare/housework when men clearly counterbalance this by doing the lion's share of paid work and more work overall, and being primary or sole breadwinner in a majority of households. Naturally, you didn't actually give men any credit for this and just complained about something else. Considering the gist of this thread is that women should get alimony after divorce in recompense for their labor during the marriage whil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 02:55 PM
1	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. So are we talking about unpaid labor or divorce/breakups?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 02:47 PM
1	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. Your labor is not unpaid if you clean a house you live in rent free.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 02:13 PM
0	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. The most 'accurate' system would be for him to be required to meet these obligations at the time of services rendered, by putting the appropriate percentage of his paycheck into an untouchable account of some type and it being paid out in a lump sum in the event of a divorce. Where's his protection against her simply divorcing him and taking the money? He received dinners and laundry on credit during the course of her housewife tenure and in the event of a divorce he must repay over time until t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 01:57 PM
0	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. I said work, housework and childcare combined.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 01:44 PM
0	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. The man is the one taking the risk here, because his obligations are enforceable by law. If she does sit on her ass all day or she cheats on him, he still pays alimony. Nobody can force her to do housework or not cheat him. Any sacrifices he made for the marriage (like working long hours in a shitty/stressful/dangerous job to support his family) are of course ignored while hers are just assumed without question. So she "sacrificed" her career (let's face it, for most women this means some crappy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 12:45 PM
0	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. You're framing this as women making a sacrifice when frankly being able to stay at home while someone else works and pays your bills is preferable to spending your week doing a dreary 9 to 5 job in an office somewhere. There is a reason why a lot of women actually take this option if it's there (and why feminists like Simone de Beauvoir said they shouldn't even be allowed the housewife option). The other issue here is that the man's obligations are enforceable by law while no one can actually fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 10:56 AM
-5	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. Men do more work, housework and childcare combined than women. Men are also the sole or primary breadwinner in ~60% of households.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 08:36 AM
8	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. So women need guaranteed protection but men just need to choose better and accept the risk? Right. This is why men have to protect themselves by not getting married or at least getting a prenup.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 08:30 AM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Women have a dozen birth control options but somehow it's still the man's fault if she gets pregnant. Responsibility for thee but not for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 03:41 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 It's to be expected, considering the movie is based on Emily Wilson's "modern" translation of Homer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 03:34 PM
2	What should be the appropriate punishment for a paternity fraud? Non-payment of child support carries criminal penalties. If strict liability applies to men in child support cases, then it should also apply to women in paternity fraud cases. That is fair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 02:34 PM
–	Saying asking for prenup means you dont trust your partner is hypocritical because the entire marriage system is based on lack of trust. If women want marriage then they should sign a prenup guarateeing they will provide regular sex, stay slim, not pass off affair babies as their husband's and not divorce him a year later because she's bored (or if she does, she gets nothing). If the man is the primary or sole breadwinner (as is still the case in ~70% of households), then she also agrees to do proportionally more chores around the house to compensate for his labor paying for all/most of everything. But it seems to me women just w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 11:58 AM
1	For the most part, the idea of "unpaid domestic labor" either doesn't exist or isn't relevant Do women actually expect to be paid for doing chores in their own house? Name a household task done by women that actually takes an hour. Note that taking 5 minutes to load the washing machine, an hour scrolling on your phone, another 5 minutes transferring the clothes to the dryer, another hour watching TV and then 15 minutes to put clothes away does not count as I spent three hours doing laundry. And incidentally men do cook. I do most of the cooking in our house. But I don't put a frozen lasa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 09:28 AM
1	For the most part, the idea of "unpaid domestic labor" either doesn't exist or isn't relevant Total work time all adults 18-64 (paid work + housework + childcare): Men 45.6, women 45.2. In fact according to that table men spend more time doing anything than women (79.3 vs 74.2). What are women doing during the 5.1 hour gap, sleeping?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 02:23 PM
0	For the most part, the idea of "unpaid domestic labor" either doesn't exist or isn't relevant Women spend an average of 7 hours a week on cooking alone. 1 hour a day cooking? The horror. The average American woman shoves a frozen pizza into the oven and calls it "cooking".	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 02:09 PM
-1	For the most part, the idea of "unpaid domestic labor" either doesn't exist or isn't relevant Your own link says that men do more work, housework and childcare combined than women. Studies which claim men have more leisure time than women usually play fast and loose with the definition of "leisure", defining typically female hobbies as work while work typically done by men is classified as a hobby.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 02:03 PM
2	What should be the appropriate punishment for a paternity fraud? Intent always matters in law regardless No it doesn't. A man can be held liable to pay child support whether or not he intended (or even consented) to impregnate the woman. Heck men are still held liable for child support when they didn't impregnate the woman. The same principle should apply here. There is no intent to deceive here Why are you just assuming this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 02:12 PM
5	Debate: women are allowed to distrust men, men are not allowed to distrust women This is just the usual Reddit double standards for men and women. It's been demonstrated loads of times with gender swapped posts. I recall a post ages where a guy found out his wife poked holes in a condom to get pregnant. The top comments were forgive and forget, go to therapy, she made a silly mistake etc when if he'd done it they'd all be howling that he was a rapist and to divorce him immediately.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 10:41 AM
–	Do women feel entitled to men's bodies? Of course the common answer here is "everyone should intervene" when in reality no one really expects a woman to intervene to help a man. It's on a par with "whoever asks for the date should pay" or "no one should be drafted" - just a lazy answer to avoid addressing the obvious double standards of societal expectations. Years ago I read a piece written by a feminist - the type who uses straight white man as a pejorative - who'd been mugged on subway. She was unironically whining that all the str…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 07:59 AM
1	If you have to use Money or Status to attract a Women she just doesnt like you that much. This is just a roundabout way of saying of women date/marry men they don't like purely because they have money and status.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 11:34 AM
2	Older men don't understand how undesirable they are to younger women eviscerated, humiliated, annihilated by his much younger partner, Amber Heard Strange way to describe a victim of domestic violence and abuse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 11:30 AM
-2	Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSG The women’s AWDTSG groups are designed to keep women safe as a primary goal Why would you trust a bunch of online randos with your safety? In any case, they always hide behind the safety excuse, but in reality it's just an excuse for women to take revenge on their exes and men who rejected them, doxxing, sharing images without the man's consent and making unverified defamatory allegations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/26 07:50 AM
3	Fair feminists exist and they get hate from both men and many feminist women This a bit like telling a gay person they should support a particular group known for the anti-gay rhetoric of its adherents just because there's a few people within the movement who aren't homophobic. I don't really care if there's a subset of the man-hating cult that doesn't hate men. The majority, including the most prominent, like published authors, academics, those who appear on TV or in politics etc, flaunt their misandry like a badge of honor. If women have a problem with this, then it's …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 11:45 AM
2	Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t Create I said men's spaces. Women have had their own social and educational spaces for centuries. Why do they need men's? What women are trying to get in men’s locker rooms? 40 years ago a female reporter sued for the "right" to enter men's locker rooms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 06:41 AM
5	Gendered expectations for men are only retired in word, not reality Feminists are only anti-draft for women and are very much anti-choice for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 06:20 AM
0	Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t Create One more thing, we have a rapist president. A friendly reminder that a majority of white women, the single biggest demographic in America, voted for him. The votes of women also twice put Hillary's sleazy sex pest (and probable rapist) husband in office, so apparently women don't care very much about that kind of thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/26 09:41 AM
2	Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t Create If women are so fearful of men, why are they always so desperate to get into men's spaces: clubs, bars, gyms, locker rooms, colleges etc? I'm all for having male only and female only trains. But certain groups of women would hate it and would loudly demand to be allowed into the men's coach. And simps would cave and let them in, of course.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/26 09:35 AM
0	The "problem" with paying is that men here don't like the types of women willing to pay for themselves on dates. Desirability has nothing to do with it. The real issue is that the man should pay is even a thing in 2026.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 11:39 AM
–	Many men feel that there is such a thing as female privilege. I would like to argue that over a broader scope it does not exist. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marybeth_Tinning Murdered nine of her children before someone finally suspected that maybe they weren't all dying of SIDS.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 10:41 AM
1	The "problem" with paying is that men here don't like the types of women willing to pay for themselves on dates. Decades of feminism and enforced equality and yet there are still a sizeable number of women who insist that a man should pay for dinner because he's the man. This demand quite often comes from women who would freak out if I said she should do my laundry because she's the woman. Now do you see the problem here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 10:34 AM
–	Many men feel that there is such a thing as female privilege. I would like to argue that over a broader scope it does not exist. Very convenient that a woman murdering her baby is explained away as "psychosis".	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 10:12 AM
3	The ideal human society is 80% female and 20% male. This society would collapse pretty quickly. Western economies require a sufficient number of male taxpayers, especially married men, paying in more than they take out to prop up the welfare system. Without those men, all goes to hell.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 08:06 AM
1	The "problem" with paying is that men here don't like the types of women willing to pay for themselves on dates. Judging from what you said, they want women who normally make men pay for them pay for herself because he’s so special. I never said anything like that? You seem to think it's exclusively feminists/ugly chicks who are happy to split the bill while pretty girls expect men to pay. Well, I've encountered ugly chicks and self professed feminists who thought they deserved the princess treatment and pretty girls who were humble and happy to go Dutch. Honestly, if this issue bothers you so much then wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 07:47 AM
6	The "problem" with paying is that men here don't like the types of women willing to pay for themselves on dates. In my experience a woman's willingness to split the bill does not align with how attractive she is. Quite the opposite in some cases. The real answer is actually simpler. By splitting the bill, men are giving women the equality they claim to want. It's fascinating how many women don't seem to like it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/26 02:39 PM
10	The "problem" with paying is that men here don't like the types of women willing to pay for themselves on dates. Why are you assuming that only ugly/undateable/feminist women are happy to split the bill while desirable women want the man to pay? Because I've personally encountered the opposite. If a grown woman in the 21st century still expects a man to pay for her dinner (because he's the man) then she's not an adult, she's a child. Or just a mooch.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/26 01:35 PM
0	Many men feel that there is such a thing as female privilege. I would like to argue that over a broader scope it does not exist. There's not much worse than murdering your own baby. Most baby murders are committed by women, yet very few women have ever been executed for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/26 08:46 AM
1	Men not wanting to pay for the date indicates lack of interest and low aggreeableness Tell you what, when she births my children I'll pay for her dinner. Until then, I want to date an adult, not a mooch.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/26 07:53 AM
2	The manosphere thrives because society has failed to provide an alternative. "Men are pigs", "men ain't shit", "kill all men", "I choose the bear", "toxic masculinity" etc etc. Boys get lower grades for the same standard of work and get punished more harshly for the same infractions. Most college scholarships are closed to them. Boys and men have worse outcomes than girls and women by all kinds of metrics, yet the bulk of attention and resources are directed towards helping the latter. Young men have grown up immersed in feminist-pushed hatred of men and anti-male state …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/26 07:46 AM
3	Men not wanting to pay for the date indicates lack of interest and low aggreeableness So childfree and infertile women should split the bill?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 01:44 PM
4	Men not wanting to pay for the date indicates lack of interest and low aggreeableness Are you going to do my laundry after I've paid for your meal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 01:38 PM
4	Men not wanting to pay for the date indicates lack of interest and low aggreeableness Are you for equality? Do you reject outdated gender norms? Do modern women have jobs? If your answers to the above are yes then pay for your damn meal. You aren't a child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 01:23 PM
7	Who cares about men being expected to pay on dates? Why care? I’m just trying to figure out why there’s so much complaining about men being expected to pay. Because a sizeable number of women expect men to pay. A sizeable number also love to use men for free meals. Then they whine when a guy wants to split the bill. Or when he suggests a coffee date. Just one of many areas where women (not all, but enough) demand men follow old gender norms whilst rejecting theirs. It can be quite galling considering the women bleating about men splitting the bill are inva…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 11:29 AM
1	A lot of men do not believe women as a whole should have bodily autonomy, which can be proven by a simply hypothetical. Woman pokes a hole in a condom or lies about using birth control and becomes pregnant - man still pays. Woman forges her ex's signature at a fertility clinic and becomes pregnant - he still pays. Woman lies about who kid's father is - the non-father still pays. Woman sexually assaults an underage boy and becomes pregnant - he still pays. Woman abandons her kid at a fire station without even notifying the father - that's just too bad for him. Women deprive men of their reproductive autonomy all t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 02:01 PM
2	A lot of men do not believe women as a whole should have bodily autonomy, which can be proven by a simply hypothetical. The last 10 men are all gay and happily hang out with and screw each other, ignoring the women. The women complain that men not wanting to date/marry/procreate with them is patriarchy and misogyny and demand laws be passed to stop it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 01:41 PM
3	Fear of automatic cheating or getting an STD aren't the biggest reasons why women won't date bi men. Their reasoning is mostly due to their idea of masculinity. But most of these reasons for why women won't date bi men are easily non-issues though. Gay and bi men are to women what n count is for men. A man doesn't want a woman who's fucked 50 guys before him, and a woman doesn't want a man who's fucked other men. Yes there are exceptions to both but in general it holds true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 09:29 AM
1	Many men feel that there is such a thing as female privilege. I would like to argue that over a broader scope it does not exist. Whether you agree with it or not, many do not see male circumcision as mutilation. There are also people who don't think female circumcision is mutilation either. Incidentally, it is primarily organized and carried out by women. Any word on the disproportionate spending on women's health compared to men's?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/26 07:43 AM
1	Many men feel that there is such a thing as female privilege. I would like to argue that over a broader scope it does not exist. All this cut and pasting hasn't addressed the disproportionate spending and attention given to women's health: Why does the NIH spend 70% of its sex specific health research budget on women? Why does it allocate twice as much funding to breast cancer as prostate cancer? Why does the Affordable Care Act offer 17 sex specific care programs for women (not including pregnancy- that's another 11) and only one for men? Why do NRSA, DHSS, FDA and CDC et al have specific offices for women's health and n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 10:01 PM
1	Many men feel that there is such a thing as female privilege. I would like to argue that over a broader scope it does not exist. https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/louisiana-woman-says-rapist-was-custody-child-ongoing-court-dispute-rcna34140 She claims he raped her. The father denied it and was never charged with anything. Also note that the father didn't even know he had a kid until she was 5. The mother denied him five years of a relationship with his kid, as is her privilege to do so. She could have taken the kid to an adoption agency and walked away that day and there would have been nothing he could do about it. A …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 10:58 AM
3	Many men feel that there is such a thing as female privilege. I would like to argue that over a broader scope it does not exist. A man can rape a woman, get her pregnant where there are no abortions allowed and then sue for custody of the child from the woman if she plans for adoption. Unless he's Josef Fritzl and commits a dozen felonies, no man will be able to do this. What's he going to do, imprison her in a basement for 9 months? Most places also have laws in place to prevent rapist fathers gaining custody of the kid (but less frequently if the rapist is the mother, because female privilege). The point is that woman w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 03:22 PM
5	Many men feel that there is such a thing as female privilege. I would like to argue that over a broader scope it does not exist. Women attempt suicide at 4x the rate of men. This is a myth. Men and women have comparable rates of suicidal thoughts, plans and attempts: Serious Suicide thoughts: Men 4.5%, Women 5.2% Made any suicide plans: Men 1.2%, Women 1.4% Suicide attempts: Men 0.4%, Women 0.6% (Link)	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 02:06 PM
2	It is infantilizing to women to say that women who have drunk alcohol cannot consent to sex, while nothing is said about men who drank alcohol Much more - like anyone actually caring about male consent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 12:57 PM
1	It is infantilizing to women to say that women who have drunk alcohol cannot consent to sex, while nothing is said about men who drank alcohol The last 1000 years of human history.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 12:47 PM
2	Many men feel that there is such a thing as female privilege. I would like to argue that over a broader scope it does not exist. female privilege really does not exist. A woman can poke holes in condoms or lie about using contraception and if she gets pregnant the man is blamed for not being more careful and told to take responsibility. He will have to pay child support because a woman's convenience overrides male consent. Female privilege. A woman can rape a man or boy or forge her ex's signature at a clinic and if she gets pregnant, he is told 'too bad, you still have to pay'. She won't be charged with rape or fraud bec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 11:13 AM
5	It is infantilizing to women to say that women who have drunk alcohol cannot consent to sex, while nothing is said about men who drank alcohol Male consent is either assumed by default or just ignored altogether. If you disagree then feel free to counter with examples.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 09:29 AM
36	It is infantilizing to women to say that women who have drunk alcohol cannot consent to sex, while nothing is said about men who drank alcohol Because no one cares about male consent. Two drunk people have sex but only the man is considered a rapist. Heck, if the man is blackout drunk and the woman stone cold sober, it's still not rape. Women grab and grope men they think are hot without thinking twice, yet will scream and cry rape when it's done to them. Straight women are notorious for this behavior in gay clubs and bars. Every day little boys have their genitals mutilated without their consent, and it's perfectly legal. ~60 countrie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/26 09:55 AM
2	What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender? Men often sabotage or at least undermine men's issues. Case in point: it's guaranteed that in any circumcision discussion, some douche will pop up and say "But I was circumcised and I'm fine, what's the big deal?" Also gotta love that the worst trait in women, according to PPD women, is women picking shitty men... heh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 03:39 PM
2	Most men don't understand what rape is because they think of women as less. Considering women and especially feminists are forever trying to expand what constitutes rape, it seems to me that many of them don't even know what rape is. That infamous Mary Koss survey was only the most egregious example. Had drunk sex with someone who was also drunk? Rape (but only of her, not him). Changed her mind a week later despite consenting at the time? Rape. Kissed or touched her without explicit permission? Rape. Completely fabricated the whole encounter? Still rape. And of course …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 02:04 PM
3	Misandrist feminists do not exist. A baby is strapped to a gurney and a piece of his penis is sliced off without anesthetic for no health benefit. That's a violation of bodily autonomy. A grown ass adult who chose to have sex and chose not to use contraception bleating that she might have to support a kid she didn't want? I'll give them the same answer feminists love to give men in that situation: shoulda kept your pants on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/26 05:13 PM
2	When it comes to chores, it's not that men won't help out/pull their weight. Women just hate to see men relaxing. One of my exes hated me playing video games when "there are things you could be doing". I pointed out that I didn't complain when she spent an entire evening watching some crappy series when there were things she could have been doing. Male labor is invisible to most women while theirs gets exaggerated. I could cook dinner 7 nights a week in addition to myriad other household jobs and she'd still complain that she had to do the laundry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/26 04:39 PM
4	Misandrist feminists do not exist. An adult woman only requires an abortion after myriad choices she made of her own free will. ~99% of circumcised men in America had no choice. Their genitals were permanently mutilated without their consent. So you're right, it's not the same. Circumcision is far worse. When American women stop circumcising their sons, maybe I'll actually care when they bleat about my body, my choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/26 03:09 PM
4	Misandrist feminists do not exist. The right to do with their body as they wish - bodily autonomy, in MOST states of the USA. Male infant circumcision is legal in every country worldwide. Female infant circumcision is banned or restricted in many places. American women will bleat about "my body my choice" then get their son circumcised without even thinking twice. About 60 countries worldwide still have a male only military draft. No country has a female only military draft. Bodily autonomy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/26 01:49 PM
2	If men benefit from marriage more, why do women pressure for it? First link: Our first hypothesis was that individuals who transition to marriage would report increases in general health. This hypothesis was not supported. Individuals who transition to marriage were expected to report increases in life satisfaction. This hypothesis was not supported. Second link hedges so much ("marriage may...") that it's impossible to draw any conclusions. There's also this: Many studies have pointed to a strong relationship between marriage and longevity, but this research…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/26 03:49 PM
1	If men benefit from marriage more, why do women pressure for it? Do you have links to these studies?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/26 02:03 PM
6	If men benefit from marriage more, why do women pressure for it? Studies claiming men live longer when they are married have cause and effect backwards. Invariably such studies also never break down single into "never married" and "divorced".	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/26 12:46 PM
11	If men benefit from marriage more, why do women pressure for it? Men don't magically live longer because they are married. Women just marry men with better careers and prospects and they tend to live longer than their poorer counterparts. Studies which claim married men are happier almost never break down single into divorced and never married. Divorce is also a major predictor of suicide in men, and ~50% of marriages end in divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/26 11:17 AM
1	The stay at home wife is not traditional and is mostly a myth. So you got six years of not working while someone else financially supported you. The horror. The only way I'd do (and any woman really) it permanently is if I had full access to bank accounts AND he contributed to my own retirement account AND a pre-nup would be required to ensure everything he earns while I stay home is equally mine in the event of a divorce. Anything less is playing with fire. And what are you offering in return for him agreeing to all this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/26 03:00 PM
2	Are you actually turned on by 'traditionally feminine' BEHAVIOURS from women? Submissiveness doesn't mean you want a doormat, it just means you don't want to come home to an argument because you put the dishes back the wrong way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/26 09:15 AM
3	Misandry is more prevalent than misogyny Woman kills her baby. Father to blame. Classic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/26 07:32 AM
2	The stay at home wife is not traditional and is mostly a myth. She was the originator of second wave feminism. Just because you've never heard of her doesn’t mean she wasn't an influential figure. Would you like to stay at home all day while someone else works and pays the bills? There is a reason why women will take this option if they get the chance. It's also why SdB said they shouldn't even be given the choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/26 07:31 AM
1	No one told men marriage was gonna be a nonstop fuck fest. No man would ever get married if the wife-to-be told him up front there'd be no more sex. It's a cliche at this point that women will offer sex long enough for the guy to marry her, then once the ink is dry on the vows dead bedroom ensues. Of course you shouldn't get married just for sex, precisely because your spouse can turn the tap off for any reason they like and then your choice is to either suck it up or go through a costly divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 01:29 PM
1	Q4M: Would you step in and support a single mom if the reason why she ended up in that situation is a noble, respectable reason? Would you be happy stepping in to support? Why or why not? No - I'm not interested in raising children I'm not related to. Dating single mothers is too much additional drama you don't get with a childless woman, and there is always the feeling that you're being used as a convenient ATM.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 10:37 AM
5	Misandry is more prevalent than misogyny A person's greatest risk of an unnatural death is not being murdered by a man as an adult, it's being murdered by their mother in the first few weeks of life. Most of these get reclassified as infanticides or are misattributed to SIDS or PPD and thus absent from homicide stats. The gender gap among sex offenders is not as big as you might think. Female abusers still largely fly under the radar. In some countries a woman cannot even be charged with rape. A disproportionate number of the worst mal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 08:30 AM
-3	The stay at home wife is not traditional and is mostly a myth. Women wanted to stay at home rather having to work in a factory or on a farm And feminists hate, hate, hate it when women, given the choice, take this option today. There is a reason why the feminist heroine and sex offender Simone de Beauvoir said women should be prevented from becoming housewives even if they want to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 08:08 AM
1	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys No evidence whatsoever that women pushed to stop circumcision. In the UK at least it was a male paediatrician who was probably most responsible for stopping it. Women do as much as anyone to perpetuate it. The final decision rests with the mother in a majority of circumcisions. Feminists in Germany opppsed a circumcision ban because it would hurt their feelings: Women still use skin cream made from little boys' foreskins.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 07:22 AM
0	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys The same governments deprive men of any reproductive rights, typically with the full backing of women and especially feminists. How would you feel if you were a man living in one of the ~60 countries which still force men, and only men, to do military service?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 10:13 PM
-3	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys You'll find feminists on this very sub defending circumcision. And frankly feminism has so many man-hating sociopaths who unironically advocate genocidal policies against men that it's actually hard to tell when it's being done for satire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 07:36 PM
-5	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys Women on here frequently complain that they couldn't get a credit card 50 years ago or vote 100 years ago, but as soon as an injustice done to men is mentioned, the response is that was in the past, bro. As for the supposed loss of abortion rights (which isn't actually a right), maybe I'll care when American women stop mutilating their sons at birth or show any support for men's reproductive rights.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 06:40 PM
1	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys Have any young boys been given vasectomies against their wills? Have any legal steps been taken to have this happen? It was actually done in India in the 1970s. Millions of young men were forcibly vasectomized, by the Government led by a female Prime Minister.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 05:50 PM
1	Feminine men or non-traditional men are hated due to misandry, not misogyny. The comment you responded to was about women bullying men. You brought attacks on LGBT people into it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 02:03 PM
1	Feminine men or non-traditional men are hated due to misandry, not misogyny. If we’re talking about actual dangerous bullying and hate crimes it’s usually committed by men. Women commit about 500 homicides per year in the United States and are the majority perpetrators of non-reciprocal domestic violence, so lets not act like this only goes one way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 01:54 PM
–	"Liberal feminism" subsidizes extremism, claiming that feminism wants equality is fraudulent, and if you associate all men with violence, you are hypocritical You are aware that Betty Friedan eventually backed away from NOW precisely because she was "unable to openly fight the man haters and unwilling to front for them any more"? "To call a man an animal is to flatter him; he’s a machine, a walking dildo." - SCUM Manifesto. Hilarious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 08:33 AM
–	"Liberal feminism" subsidizes extremism, claiming that feminism wants equality is fraudulent, and if you associate all men with violence, you are hypocritical Fired three shots at Warhol at point blank range, missed twice and failed to kill him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 08:14 AM
5	"Liberal feminism" subsidizes extremism, claiming that feminism wants equality is fraudulent, and if you associate all men with violence, you are hypocritical The National Organisation for Women called her "one of the most important spokeswomen of the feminist movement". The Scum Manifesto even made the top 100 on Goodreads' "best feminist books". But I'm sure they're all just reading it for "analysis".	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/26 02:41 PM
3	"Liberal feminism" subsidizes extremism, claiming that feminism wants equality is fraudulent, and if you associate all men with violence, you are hypocritical Men are given those opportunities and women aren’t. Women can work 60 hours a week digging ditches or working in a logging camp if they so desire. They are free to take fewer holidays and work more overtime. Name any job where a woman does exactly the same work as a man under the same conditions and is paid less for it? Also men don’t have as many caring responsibilities outside of work. Maybe because they are too busy working? No but the government data still finds an effect even when you contr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/26 02:31 PM
3	"Liberal feminism" subsidizes extremism, claiming that feminism wants equality is fraudulent, and if you associate all men with violence, you are hypocritical The gender pay exists because men work longer hours, work more overtime, take fewer holidays and predominate in the most dangerous and demanding jobs. clearly some women are being paid less for the same job despite it being illegal Do you have any actual examples of this? I’m from the UK, and SA and DV rates are especially high here, and conviction rates for rape are very low. Meanwhile the conviction rate of female rapists in the UK is 0, because the law is so written that a woman cannot be cha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/26 01:28 PM
0	"Liberal feminism" subsidizes extremism, claiming that feminism wants equality is fraudulent, and if you associate all men with violence, you are hypocritical As for Solanas (the SCUM example you gave), she was just a lunatic. And yet she remains a feminist heroine and her book is required reading in gender studies classes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/26 01:20 PM
1	If red flags are so easy to spot, then there's no need for prenups and paternity tests Prenups and paternity tests are utilised because men are held legally accountable not only for their choices but for women's choices. Oh she lied that the baby was yours? That's too bad, you shouldn't have trusted her and you still have to pay. Wife was abusive and cheated on you with a dozen men? That's too bad, she still gets half of everything. So I shall continue to tell a woman to choose better if she fails to notice the junkie/drunken/jobless/violent/criminal man she picked had more red fl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/26 01:32 PM
5	The phrase "men are afraid of other men" is just a feminist way of calling men bitches or pussies. "A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle." "I choose the bear." Then they bleat that some random dude didn’t step in to rescue her when she got mugged. If I'm not related to you, you're on your own, sister. Ask the bear for help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/26 08:27 AM
1	If you don't disclose what you want sexually before commitment, you have no one to blame but yourself if the woman doesn't like it. I'd actually say it's rather common. See r/deadbedrooms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 10:08 PM
1	If you don't disclose what you want sexually before commitment, you have no one to blame but yourself if the woman doesn't like it. Of course it should go without saying that you should be honest with someone before committing. The flip side of this is those women who offer up sex or specific sex acts only until the guy commits, then pulling up the drawbridge the moment they marry. That is also manipulative and dishonest, and probably more common than some guy hiding his BDSM fetish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 07:39 PM
–	How did you acquire your GF / wife / casual relationship? (or your last one) We met at work, we hit it off immediately and it progressed from there. Started meeting outside of work and ultimately decided we both wanted to be a couple. No strategizing, no steps executed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/26 10:07 AM
4	Hookups for women would amazing if it actually guaranteed safety. Women love hookups, though for appearances they have to pretend they don't. Hookups are more common now than at any time in history, and that's because women want them. Heck, about 2% of children are being raised by a man who has no idea he isn't their father. That doesn't happen by osmosis.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/26 06:15 AM
6	Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men. Same way men murder women because of "misogyny"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 10:44 AM
2	Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men. Women murdering their sons = "negligible"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 10:03 AM
2	Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men. Now you're moving the goalposts. More women than men kill their own children, and more often kill their sons. But mISanDry DoeSN't hURt ANyoNE.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 09:34 AM
-2	Every western "misandrist" can only safely be one thanks to the infrastructural support of a vast network of men. One is complaining, one actually results in harm. Woman murdered a teenage boy because she hated men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 09:22 AM
2	Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them A man's choice is irrelevant to a child support obligation. If your argument is that consent stops at conception then stop whining about abortion rights, because she chose to let him deposit his sperm in her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 08:55 PM
3	Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them The mother has no obligation to give the father's name. At safe havens she isn't even required to give her name. So how would he even know his kid has been adopted? This case is a good example of how it plays out in practice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 08:03 PM
0	Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them He can choose where he deposits his sperm And when he doesn't choose, he still pays: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Forced_fatherhood https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/talking-about-trauma/201902/when-male-rape-victims-are-accountable-child-support	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 07:49 PM
5	Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing them In practice she can just can just drop the kid off at an adoption agency or safe haven, and there's nothing the father can do about it. There is no obligation to even tell him. The father can't do either without the mother's consent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 07:35 PM
14	Boys are not being treated like defective girls (because girls shouldn't be treated that way either). Boys certainly get a rawer deal in schools than girls. They are punished more severely for the same infractions. The vast majority of corporal punishment in American schools is inflicted on boys. Various studies have also shown that boys are given lower grades than girls for the same standard of work (see here or here). There are schools in the UK teaching "toxic masculinity", promoting the idea that young men are inherently bad. And this school in Australia made its boys stand up and apologise …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/26 09:59 PM
5	Women Do Not See Men as Victims Especially When It Makes a Woman a Perpetrator Also, women are making at least half the family income. Not even close. In 55-70% of households men are the primary or sole breadwinner. On average, a woman in the United States spends approximately 316 hours per year on cooking. That's .88 hours per day. 50 minutes a day? Oh the horror. The average American woman shoves a frozen pizza into the oven and calls it "cooking". And a friendly reminder for you that men collectively do more work, housework and childcare combined than women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/26 03:44 PM
13	Women Do Not See Men as Victims Especially When It Makes a Woman a Perpetrator Appx 50 countries worldwide still have an active male-only military draft.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/26 10:06 AM
1	You can discuss the incredible feats of women athletes without having to say that men are stronger and better One of the oldest axioms in boxing is: a good big man beats a good little man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 09:06 AM
3	You can discuss the incredible feats of women athletes without having to say that men are stronger and better Marriage adds 1.7 years to a man's life Cause and effect backwards. Men don't magically live longer because they are married. Women just marry men with better long-term earning potential and those men typically live longer than their poorer counterparts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 09:01 AM
2	You can discuss the incredible feats of women athletes without having to say that men are stronger and better It’s not like men have to be the benchmark for any sport or athletic endeavor. Men are the benchmark in every sport or athletic endeavor you care to name. In 28 out of 29 track and field events, the women's Olympic champion would lose to a boy high school champion. This is simply the reality, but for some reason we are required to indulge the delusion that it is not. Hence why the interviewer kept pushing McEnroe to claim Serena is the best ever and why such vitriol was unleashed against him whe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 08:52 AM
2	Women ghost because it's convenient, not because they're afraid of men getting violent Vetting What are the chances anyone on some random online group even knows the guy? In reality "vetting" is just an excuse for women getting revenge on their exes/men who rejected them, doxxing, character assassination and posting defamatory allegations without any burden of proof.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 11:17 AM
2	The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not women You used kids not washing themselves properly as a justification for circumcision. Bringing up ear piercings is an irrelevant deflection. What did you do with a kid who didn't wipe his ass properly, amputate his buttocks?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 05:17 PM
1	The majority of criminals are not raised by single moms. That’s just propaganda to blame women for the actions of men. In many cases the guy doesn't even know the kid exists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 03:44 PM
0	The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not women The Council of Jerusalem held c. AD48 established that circumcision is not a requirement for Christians. Catholics, Protestants and Eastern Orthodox (appx 90% of Christians worldwide) adhere to this. The only exceptions are minority groups like the Coptics in Egypt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 10:30 AM
5	The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not women OP claimed circumcision is down to men. Clearly that isn't the case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 10:18 AM
2	The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not women 51.47% is a majority last time I checked. I'd also hazard to guess that of that 51.47%, the dad just said, "do whatever you want hunny". Given the sizeable number of boys being raised by single mothers with no father around, I'll hazard a guess that dad wasn't even asked in many cases. In any case, a strong independent woman ain't gonna change her mind about mutilating her son even if dad objects.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 10:14 AM
2	The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not women How many boys did you get who died or were left permanently mutilated as a result of having a foreskin?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 10:07 AM
2	The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not women This rationale is akin to having your kid’s fingernails or earlobes amputated because they don't clean them. I've also encountered a number of women whose genitals were, shall we say, in less than hygienic condition. Perhaps they need surgical intervention too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 10:04 AM
1	"Woman is killed every 10 minutes" is a meaningless number, and intimate-partner-homicide ≠ gender-based-violence or femicide or misogyny Also, I already explained to you why black on black crime isn’t even comparable to male on male violence. All your explanations are beside the point. Most black men are killed by black men is used to shut down that issue, just as most men get killed by other men is used by feminists to shut down that issue. That is the point you are refusing to acknowledge. Also, your stats are wrong the rate at which men and women kill children is about 50/50 women do not kill children more than men, but they k…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 04:21 PM
1	"Woman is killed every 10 minutes" is a meaningless number, and intimate-partner-homicide ≠ gender-based-violence or femicide or misogyny The difference is you are trying to dismiss and minimise the murder of men because it's by other men. As if somehow a man killed by a man is worth less than a woman killed by a man. Try using the main people killing men and boys are other black men and boys as way of ducking the issue of homicide among black men. So in the case of gender the distinct problem are the men. More women than men murder their own children and abuse their own children.. The vast majority of baby killers are women, and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 02:47 PM
18	The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not women circumcision for example. A majority of circumcision decisions are made by the mother Women could also stop using skin creams made from little boys' foreskins Back in 2020, Democrats tried to get women to sign up for the draft and guess who opposed it? Conservatives. The National Coalition For Men took their case against male-only Selective Service to the Supreme Court. Democratic appointee Sotamayor authored the opinion tossing the case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 01:56 PM
1	"Woman is killed every 10 minutes" is a meaningless number, and intimate-partner-homicide ≠ gender-based-violence or femicide or misogyny This is because far more men than women are killed by a stranger or an unidentified perpetrator. Almost half of intimate partner homicides involve a male victim. 41% of victims in spousal homicides are men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 01:27 PM
1	"Woman is killed every 10 minutes" is a meaningless number, and intimate-partner-homicide ≠ gender-based-violence or femicide or misogyny 41% of spousal homicide victims are men, so let's not go acting like this only goes one way. The stats also get skewed because a woman who wants to kill her husband is more likely to involve a third party (boyfriend, hitman) so it gets recorded differently, and more likely to use a method less likely to be detected, such as poison. Also, put the word "black" in front of "men" and see how your argument goes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 01:24 PM
-1	"Woman is killed every 10 minutes" is a meaningless number, and intimate-partner-homicide ≠ gender-based-violence or femicide or misogyny A person's greatest risk of a unnatural death is not being killed by a man as an adult, it's being murdered by their mother in the first few weeks of life. Presumably men are to blame for that too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 01:17 PM
2	If Men Possess No Obligations to Care for Their Children, Then They Possess No Rights to Those Children If there is no child, there can be no obligations to that child. So you'd be okay with men walking away while it's still just a clump of cells? It is not a unilateral abrogation of obligations to care in the same sense that people in this subreddit are demanding. In the sense that people in this subreddit are demanding?? It is. You are just dodging the obvious inconsistencies in your position. I haven’t been justifying anything. I’ve been explaining the logical implications of the position “men …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 11:51 AM
3	If Men Possess No Obligations to Care for Their Children, Then They Possess No Rights to Those Children So it doesn't count as avoiding your parental obligations provided you are able to dump the kid on someone else? If you don't have an abortion, you have a child. Abortion is absolutely severing your obligations to that child (by terminating it). Going into a fire station and unilaterally dropping off your baby - for literally any reason and with no requirement to even give your name or inform the father - and leaving the state to find someone else to look after it is, by any definition, avoiding…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 08:49 AM
2	A lot of men marry women because they want constant access to sex, not because of her personality Being married doesn't guarantee regular sex. r/deadbedrooms is full of married couples who haven't screwed in years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 10:34 PM
7	If Men Possess No Obligations to Care for Their Children, Then They Possess No Rights to Those Children How does a father take possession of a newborn against the mother's wishes and then give it up at a fire station, against her wishes, without committing a felony?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 10:12 PM
4	If Men Possess No Obligations to Care for Their Children, Then They Possess No Rights to Those Children You have no answer, I take it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 10:09 PM
5	If Men Possess No Obligations to Care for Their Children, Then They Possess No Rights to Those Children Kidnap the baby from the hospital and dash to the fire station before he gets arrested?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 10:04 PM
5	If Men Possess No Obligations to Care for Their Children, Then They Possess No Rights to Those Children How does a man obtain custody of a week-old baby and take it to a fire station, without the mother's knowledge or permission?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 10:02 PM
5	If Men Possess No Obligations to Care for Their Children, Then They Possess No Rights to Those Children Anyone who advocates for the right of men to sever their obligations to their children—whether through financial divorce or simply walking away from the child and its mother—is implicitly arguing for men to have no rights to their children. Ergo, anyone who argues for the right of women to have abortions and use safe havens and adoption agencies - unilaterally severing their obligations to their child/children - is implicitly arguing that women have no rights to their children, no?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 10:00 PM
11	If Men Possess No Obligations to Care for Their Children, Then They Possess No Rights to Those Children Current child support law follows the principle of strict liability, ie the man pays no matter what and there is no avenue for him to unilaterally opt out after conception. If you are proposing to transfer all rights and responsibility to women, then the same principle should apply. She is responsible no matter what, and that means no avenues to weasel out of it because raising and paying for a child just isn't convenient right now. It seems to me you just want women to have all the rights whils…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 12:52 PM
20	If Men Possess No Obligations to Care for Their Children, Then They Possess No Rights to Those Children Women have the inalienable right to sever their obligations to their children, via abortions, adoption and safe havens. Literally the same people who rage about men avoiding responsibility are perfectly okay with a woman dropping off her baby at a fire station and walking away from her responsibilities with zero legal repercussions. Does it therefore follow that women should not have rights to their children?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 12:04 PM
0	Children Possess Rights to Parental Care Why should a man pay for a woman's choice?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 12:00 AM
2	Children Possess Rights to Parental Care I said they are not responsible for subsidising someone else's choices.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 11:57 PM
-2	Children Possess Rights to Parental Care Then those women shouldn't get a cent of child support from the father, because why should he pay for her choice? It's almost as if women should stick to having babies with men who actually want to be fathers rather than baby trapping men or letting deadbeats impregnate them. If only women had some influence over this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 11:31 PM
1	Children Possess Rights to Parental Care They have to fight for them. Women have them by default.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 10:44 PM
-3	Children Possess Rights to Parental Care Sex only results in parenthood when the mother chooses not to use emergency contraception, chooses not to have an abortion, chooses not to use a safe haven and chooses not to give up the kid for adoption. At any point she could just choose not to have a kid with a deadbeat, and there is nothing he could do about it. Her choice, her responsibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 10:10 PM
-3	Children Possess Rights to Parental Care Maybe women should just, you know, take responsibility and not have children with men who don't want to be fathers? This is entirely within their power. Feminists will rage about deadbeat dads, completely ignoring that it's women who made those deadbeats dads.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 12:58 PM
2	Children Possess Rights to Parental Care What you are ignoring is that as soon as the baby is born, the mother has physical custody of the kid. She can just fuck off and leave the kid at a safe haven or an adoption agency and there is nothing the father can do about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 12:11 AM
2	Children Possess Rights to Parental Care If a man is the sole custodial parent How does a man obtain sole custody of a week-old baby?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 12:00 AM
3	Children Possess Rights to Parental Care How does a man give up a child for adoption against the mother's wishes (and without committing a felony)?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/25 11:48 PM
3	Children Possess Rights to Parental Care A woman can leave the kid at a safe haven or an adoption agency against the father's wishes or without even telling him. A father cannot do this against the mother's wishes. Stop pretending this is equal when it isn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/25 11:42 PM
–	If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punished In parts of Europe at least, stealthing by a man is punishable as rape. In such places, the same standard should also be applied to women. A woman in Germany was convicted of poking holes in a condom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/25 08:43 AM
2	CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for less Sure you don't have to settle for a simple Honda when you pack shelves at Walmart. Hold out for that $70k Ferrari, you go girl!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 09:30 PM
–	“Male loneliness crisis” gets the attention it does because society fears lonely discontented men more than it fears lonely discontented women For the most part, it's just another stick to beat men with. The attention mostly seems to be coming from op-eds written by feminists or videos posted by women on YouTube and TikTok, either revelling in the schadenfreude of it, or offering their faux sympathy. I suspect there's also a bit of copium in there, to deflect from the rate of female loneliness. In any case, I think the "male loneliness crisis" is a myth that stems from conflating being alone with being lonely. Some of the most lonely p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 09:49 AM
1	The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worse We're specifically talking about suicide, not men who die doing a parachute jump. Your attitude seems to be: well if men choose to shoot themselves, there's nothing anyone can do about it. There are in fact various practical steps that could be taken to help men before they get to the point where they have a gun in their mouth. First, stop pedalling BS like men just need to cry more, men don't ask for help and men just use more violent methods. There is a correlation between default 50-50 custod…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 10:55 PM
0	The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worse So, "women's problems" = "everyone's problem". Strange that when the above issues affect men, it doesn't count. It's one of men making bad decisions. So presumably you are also against govt resources being used to prevent women committing suicide because, y'know, it's their choice to engage in risky behavior. Or indeed, any other issue which is the result of women's bad decisions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 06:56 PM
2	The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worse Women had to be “enslaved” in patriarchy and made dependent on men in order to provide every man with a woman If that's the case then why did 80% of women who ever existed reproduce, compared with only 40% of men? Far from the patwiarchy forcibly pairing off every woman with a different man, the elite men just monopolised multiple women, as has always been the case and always will be. Moreover, forced marriage has been illegal in Christendom since the Justinian Code. Voluntarily unmarried and ch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 04:42 PM
1	The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worse Women are more likely to attempt suicide than men The difference between men and women is actually negligible. Report from the National Survey of Drug Use and Health: Serious Suicide thoughts: Men 4.5% Women 5.2% Made any suicide plans: Men 1.2% Women 1.4% Suicide attempts: Men 0.4% Women 0.6% So, I'm struggling to understand what it is you'd like society to do about it Funny how whenever something affects women, it's society's problem requiring legislation and costly govt programs to address, b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 03:59 PM
1	The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worse The “male loneliness epidemic”, a phenomenon where men are experiencing profound social isolation It's a myth. That's not to say there aren't lots of lonely people around, but this notion of a specific "male loneliness epidemic" is not supported by any empirical evidence I've seen. For the most part it seems to be pushed by women on TikTok and YouTube either revelling in the schadenfreude of it or expressing faux sympathy. This report from the US Surgeon General gives decreased social interactio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 03:43 PM
1	If a man with options will cheat because he can, a man with no options is only with you because he's desperate Enjoy!	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 03:49 PM
0	If a man with options will cheat because he can, a man with no options is only with you because he's desperate I ❤️ “open marriage regret” So do I. Wife wants to fuck some chad without having to leave the marriage and blackmails the husband into agreeing. Enjoys herself until she gets dumped and, then, completely to her surprise, hubby meets another woman, at which point she wants to close the marriage again. Hubby says fuck that and leaves her for the other woman. Oops.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 03:40 PM
–	Why are men nowadays avoiding marriage like a virus? Marriage benefits women, not men. ~50% chance of failure, and most divorces are initiated by women. You don't need to be married to have children. If the relationship goes sour, it's much easier (and cheaper) to walk away than if you are married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 03:20 PM
–	The gender disparity in crime isn’t a conspiracy against men Even if you control for provocation, there is still quite a disparity. Average sentence for an unprovoked wife: 7 years. Average sentence for an unprovoked husband: 17 years. Interestingly enough, the race of the victim and the perpetrator had very little impact on the chances of conviction or the sentence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 11:30 AM
–	The gender disparity in crime isn’t a conspiracy against men Here's the full article. 1276 men and 2310 women in the study reported being victims of childhood sexual abuse. Of those, 40% of the men (510) reported sexual abuse involving female perpetrators, as did 6% (138) of the women. 10% of men and 2.4% of women did not state the perpetrator's gender. So 18% of the sexual abuse in that study was by women. The "5 years older" standard is pretty common in these reports. It's used so they can weed out consensual Romeo and Juliet relationships where one is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 11:15 AM
32	The gender disparity in crime isn’t a conspiracy against men It's undeniable that men are treated more harshly in the justice system. See this study from the UK Home Office, which found gender to be a bigger factor in sentencing disparities than race. It also found that a man is 88% more likely to receive a prison sentence than a woman. Or this study of spousal murders. Wives accused of killing their husband were less likely to be convicted (70% vs 87%), and less likely to be imprisoned if convicted (81% vs 94%). Average sentence for a wife convicted of k…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 11:06 PM
–	On “Financial Abortions” and Unequal Rights to “Walk Away” from Parental Obligations some men already abandon their children Women abandon their children all the time. Why is it okay for her to drop the kid at a fire station but not okay for him to walk away? Baby Moses laws literally came about to discourage women from murdering their newborns and leaving them in dumpsters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 05:07 PM
–	On “Financial Abortions” and Unequal Rights to “Walk Away” from Parental Obligations It is not. How does a father obtain custody of a child and give it up for adoption against the mother's will (without committing a felony)? He can't. There are myriad examples of women doing it. It's disingenuous to keep pretending this is equal when it isn't. This is untrue in much of the world, including in parts of the US. Almost every state has safe haven laws and most countries have adoption agencies. Not through consensual sex, he can’t. The man's consent is irrelevant to a child support o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 01:09 PM
–	On “Financial Abortions” and Unequal Rights to “Walk Away” from Parental Obligations When men are sole custodial parents, they similarly can place children up for adoption. This is disingenuous and you know it. You have not articulated any right that women possess that men don’t. A man can be forced into fatherhood against his will. A woman cannot be forced into motherhood against her will. A woman can rape a man or boy and he will be forced to pay child support. A woman can forge her ex's signature at a clinic or lie about using birth control and he will still have to pay. She …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 12:08 PM
–	On “Financial Abortions” and Unequal Rights to “Walk Away” from Parental Obligations A lot of the non-profits that provide legal counsel to women have been caught encouraging women to do this. Adoption agencies have also been caught advising women not to name the father, warning her that if he contests the adoption and wins custody, she will end up paying child support.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 10:45 AM
–	On “Financial Abortions” and Unequal Rights to “Walk Away” from Parental Obligations Let us imagine that, one night, you are driving a car while intoxicated and cause a terrible collision Now let's imagine two people are in the car, a man and a woman. The woman is driving: The woman assured him she knew how to drive when she did not. The man was asleep in the passenger seat at the time. It was a 14 year old boy in the car with her. The woman lied and it was actually a different man with her. The court says tough. He still has to pay. Meanwhile, the woman holds three Get Out of J…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 10:36 AM
3	Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than Women Given the choice between a draft for both sexes or just men, you'd rather it was just men, wouldn't you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 12:26 AM
5	Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than Women In Ukraine right now, there is no option to not have a draft. If men are drafted, then women should be drafted. Agreed or not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 11:46 PM
4	Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than Women Why should I pay for her choice? I do think circumcision should be illegal but men don’t want that because porn only has cut dicks and now it’s aesthetic. Or are you waiting around for women to do that for you too? Yes - mothers can stop circumcising their sons, women can stop using skin cream made from little boys' foreskins and feminists can stop opposing circumcision bans because it hurts their feelings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 11:43 PM
3	Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than Women Ok, so you agree with financial abortion for men then? Get ready for the mental gymnastics as she explains why this only applies to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 11:22 PM
6	Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than Women Her body, her choice, her responsibility. If y’all could carry a child abortion would be a sacrament lmao. You mean like if genital mutilation was done to little boys it would be illegal? Oh wait.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 11:18 PM
4	Men Are More Prepared for Feminism Than Women If men are drafted, then women should also be drafted. Agreed? Women in Ukraine had the opportunity to stay behind and volunteer for the military along with the men (who were all forced to stay). Very few chose to do so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 11:13 PM
0	Men are not more upfront than women be for real She admits to baby trapping him and he accepts it and becomes a model husband lol. I can guarantee it would have played out very differently if he'd violated her and trapped her into motherhood. Anyway, if you think any man desires a woman who loves football, beer, belching and wolfing down hot dogs, then best of luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 12:33 PM
2	Men are not more upfront than women be for real “Men always say that as the defining compliment, don’t they? She’s a cool girl. Being the Cool Girl means I am a hot, brilliant, funny woman who adores football, poker, dirty jokes, and burping, who plays video games, drinks cheap beer, loves threesomes and anal sex, and jams hot dogs and hamburgers into her mouth like she’s hosting the world’s biggest culinary gang bang while somehow maintaining a size 2, because Cool Girls are above all hot. Hot and understanding. Cool Girls never get angry; t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 11:39 AM
0	Policies/ideals/laws don't have to explicitly mention sex in order to be sexist The written law is only the starting point. That doesn't cover how it is enforced and interpreted by the police and the courts. Criminal law is gender neutral. It doesn't prevent men getting longer prison sentences than women for the same crimes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 08:16 AM
9	On gender issues, progressives have already won. Staying in fight mode is now counterproductive Yes, there are men stuck in fight mode as well. Because men are pushing for equality in areas where feminists don't want it. Like: 50-50 custody becoming the default, treating female criminals as harshly as men in the justice system (or if you prefer, treating male criminals as leniently as women), equal protection and support for male victims of female abuse, proper acknowledgement and addressing of male homelessness and suicide, abolition of alimony, protected male reproductive rights, crimina…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 11:18 PM
2	Women complain about men lacking commitment, yet society allows women to always have one foot out the door while putting all the risk on men if they do commit If the man got the kids he'd also get the house but men rarely fight for that right. Because they don't expect to get it. Why waste inordinate amounts of time and money fighting it when you already know the outcome anyway? Divorce laws are genderless. So are criminal laws. It doesn't prevent men getting harsher punishments for the same crimes. Even when men are entitled to alimony and child support payments from the mother, they are less likely to get it. He's penalized if he doesn't contribute …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 05:22 PM
15	Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathology they’re finally waking up, essentially blaming women for men’s growing misogyny. No, they're blaming women for women's misandry and the systemic anti-male sexism championed by women's groups. For example, girls learn very young: Meanwhile, boys learn very young that: Teenage girls ignore boys their own age and fawn over older guys with a job, a car, money etc. Assholes always, always get plenty of women. Women lie and feign interest in men to use them for their labor and resources (free meals, f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 09:36 AM
7	Male-Only Ukrainian Draft is the Ultimate Proof of Selective Gender Equality (i.e., Equality in Rights, but Not in Lethal Obligation). The #1 reason for non-payment of child support is "inability to pay". How many men paying child support even consented to the pregnancy? Bearing in mind that 1 in 10 American men report having had a partner who tried to get pregnant without their consent. Men are forced to pay child support even if they were raped as a minor or their ex-wife forged a signature at a clinic. They're even forced to pay when a DNA proves they aren't the father.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/25 03:42 PM
6	Male-Only Ukrainian Draft is the Ultimate Proof of Selective Gender Equality (i.e., Equality in Rights, but Not in Lethal Obligation). Women are a majority of voters in most countries. Perhaps if they were drafted too, they'd think more carefully before electing warmonger politicians.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/25 03:15 PM
8	Male-Only Ukrainian Draft is the Ultimate Proof of Selective Gender Equality (i.e., Equality in Rights, but Not in Lethal Obligation). Feminists are only against conscription whenever someone suggests that women be drafted too. They're quite happy for men to go on dying in wars. In Switzerland over the last few years women have had the opportunity in two referenda to abolish the male only draft and to extend it to women. Needless to say, there is still a male-only draft in Switzerland.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/25 02:40 PM
8	Male-Only Ukrainian Draft is the Ultimate Proof of Selective Gender Equality (i.e., Equality in Rights, but Not in Lethal Obligation). You mean like this woman, who literally just showed up at a safe haven and gave up the baby, against the father's wishes, and there was nothing he could do about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/25 02:32 PM
1	Male-Only Ukrainian Draft is the Ultimate Proof of Selective Gender Equality (i.e., Equality in Rights, but Not in Lethal Obligation). Without the mother's permission? Good luck with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/25 02:28 PM
10	The Grim Future of Men and Dating? Then they're puzzled why they didn't get the A like the girls did. They didn't get the A like the girls because man-hating female teachers give boys lower grades for the same standard of work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/25 11:52 AM
–	Men, would you date a woman that’s expressed she’d never pay for anything? No - I want to date an adult, not a child. Typically, any woman who claims something is "a man's job" would also go nuts if you ever suggested that it's the woman's job to go make you a coffee or scrub the floor. Avoid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/25 09:30 AM
1	Access to sex is a terrible reason to form any serious kind of relationship So when a man lies to get access to a woman's body, it's rape, but when a woman lies to get access to a man's body, it's "an assault of some sort"? Do you see the issue here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/25 08:46 AM
6	Men, could you go without love if all other traditional desires were met? No - in this scenario you may as well just get a sex robot, because everything else she offers (apart from birthing children), I can do for myself anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 04:11 PM
1	Access to sex is a terrible reason to form any serious kind of relationship Speaking of dishonest strategies to secure a relationship. Things like: Settling, ie pretending to love someone just so you can get access to their resources. Offering regular sex long enough for someone to commit to you, then turning the tap off the moment the ink is dry on the nuptials. Which gender is known for doing this? If you don't want regular sex to be a part of the relationship, then make that clear before you get married. See how that goes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 03:40 PM
1	Access to sex is a terrible reason to form any serious kind of relationship r/femalesexpredatornews Apparently women need more policing than you think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 02:54 PM
5	are men being mentally abused by redpill influencers....? "Toxic masculinity" is just a phrase used by misandrists to demonise men. I'll hazard a guess that most who wail about "toxic masculinity" have never in their lives used the phrase "wholesome masculinity".	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 01:42 PM
2	Access to sex is a terrible reason to form any serious kind of relationship A woman lies about using the pill or being infertile to convince a man not to use a condom. Is that rape?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 01:38 PM
6	are men being mentally abused by redpill influencers....? Toxic masculinity: 4.4million results on Google. Wholesome masculinity: 11k results on Google. The same people who talk about toxic masculinity talk about wholesome masculinity Clearly not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 11:43 AM
3	are men being mentally abused by redpill influencers....? Toxic masculinity is just another way of saying "men bad".	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 10:04 AM
4	are men being mentally abused by redpill influencers....? "Kill All Men", "Men are pigs", "Men ain't shit", "toxic masculinity", "the future is female", "boys are stupid". It ain't the red pill saying these things. And of course the red pill doesn't influence public policy to overtly discriminate against men and boys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 08:57 AM
–	Would You Take a Man's Treatment Without Becoming One? A lot of men haven’t felt that sensitivity has decreased, nor do they feel that they’re muted a little. How would they know? 99% of circumcised men don't even remember what it was like before. And that's the real point of this debate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 08:50 AM
2	Would You Take a Man's Treatment Without Becoming One? doesn’t hinder the quality of pleasure or the ability to feel pleasure. There is evidence that it does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 12:10 PM
2	Would You Take a Man's Treatment Without Becoming One? it’s only inhumane for the female because it hinders her ability to feel pleasure One of the purposes of circumcision is to reduce male sexual pleasure. Maimonides admitted this almost 1000 years ago. It got a renewed push from 19th and early 20th century quacks in America and Britain, who pushed it as a way to stop boys masturbating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 08:45 AM
1	Would You Take a Man's Treatment Without Becoming One? Mothers mutilate their sons at birth ("because it looks better"). Men to blame.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 02:43 PM
2	Would You Take a Man's Treatment Without Becoming One? Circumcision is a male problem. In more than half of cases, the decision to circumcise was made by the mother. American feminists will rage my body, my choice and then get their son circumcised without even thinking twice. And a friendly reminder that little boys foreskins are used to make ladies' skin cream.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 02:20 PM
4	Would You Take a Man's Treatment Without Becoming One? It's always fascinating to read the experiences of ftm trans. After growing up immersed in feminist mantras about patwiarchy and male privilege, they get a cold, hard dose of reality when they start presenting as a man. In particular: they are treated as a predator by default and no longer trusted around children; cops are much quicker to assume wrongdoing and get out the tasers and handcuffs; they find they are much lonelier, no one will help them and few people even give a shit about them. The…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 02:01 PM
1	The patriarchal agenda: setting up men and women up to fail and be unhappy. Many of the people pushing metoo were either sexually harassed or victims of rape perpetrated by men The originator of metoo was a statutory rapist who paid off her underage male victim to keep him quiet. She also spent two years in a consensual sexual relationship with Harvey Weinstein. She has zero credibility. Even if you think metoo started out with good intentions, it quickly became a vehicle for women to get revenge on men or make money with false allegations. It's culminated in crap like …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 11:37 AM
2	The patriarchal agenda: setting up men and women up to fail and be unhappy. There's a fascinating book on this subject: Super Imperialism by Michael Hudson, who explains how America makes the world pay for its wars by virtue of making foreign govts hold US treasury bonds. This is steadily coming to an end, and has been accelerated since the Russian war in Ukraine, with non-US aligned nations de-dollarizing. The seizure of $200bn of Russian foreign assets will be seen as a catastrophic mistake in years to come.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 10:38 AM
1	Single mothers should put their kids up for adoption en masse. A better solution would be to encourage women to stop having children with men who don't want to be fathers, and removing the incentives they have to become single mothers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 09:54 AM
1	Single mothers should put their kids up for adoption en masse. The third most common reason for divorce is unequal distribution of labor in the household. Which is more than compensated by the unequal distribution of labor outside the household. About a quarter of married women have no job. In anywhere from 55-70% of households, the man is the primary or sole earner. Men's labor is invisible to women. It's funny how the female definition of household labor never includes things done by men, like: taking out the trash, fixing the car, mowing the lawn, luggin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 09:46 AM
2	The patriarchal agenda: setting up men and women up to fail and be unhappy. I think men need to realize that blaming feminists or feminism for everything doesn't work because it's not based on facts and reality. Who is responsible for the #believeallwomen mantra which results in innocent men being incarcerated or their lives destroyed? Who is responsible for the deliberate erasure of male victims and female perpetrators from rape and sexual assault stats? Who pushes misandrist education policies which discriminate against boys and give the vast majority of scholarships …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 09:14 AM
22	Even if a research proved tomorrow that women's standards are 110% delusional they are still entitled to it You can have whatever standards you like. By all means demand a brand new $400k Ferrari when you stack shelves at Walmart. Just don't whine and expect sympathy when you end up with nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 11:15 PM
1	The red pill is driving women away from men and is central to why modern dating sucks Go back through your post, swapping over the words 'men' and 'women', and replacing red pill/manosphere with 'feminism' and 'misogyny' with 'misandry', then you'll have a good explanation as to why we are where we are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/25 09:38 AM
9	Q4M: Why do you ignore obvious social cues inviting you to approach? Three seconds of eye contact is about as lazy and low effort as it's possible to get. She may as well have just sneezed in his direction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/25 09:18 AM
1	Men rarely if ever care about birthrates and childbearing irl In the real world men contribute as little as they possibly can to childcare Men with children under 18 do more work, housework and childcare combined than women. If they don't change more diapers it's because they're too busy working to support their families. they try to avoid responsibility for kids in any way they can. Women have collectively terminated some 100,000,000 pregnancies over the past 50 years, most of them for mere convenience. That's in addition to the thousands of infants aband…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/25 04:03 PM
-1	Men rarely if ever care about birthrates and childbearing irl It isn't men complaining that women won't marry them...	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/25 03:41 PM
1	What do both sides think about castration as a form of legal punishment? There have been cases where individuals continued to commit crimes even after being subjected to it, so it's actual utility is questionable. There is also the possibility that it will be inflicted on a man who is later exonerated (say, Brian Banks or Anthony Broadwater, both of whom spent years in prison for rapes they didn't commit). And I daresay there will be no equivalent punishment for female sex offenders, of whom there are many more than most people are willing to acknowledge.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/25 12:52 PM
1	What standards should men and women actually look for in someone they want to date? Look past looks and consider more practical stuff. Do they have a steady job? Are they in debt? Can they cook and clean for themselves? Do they take care of themselves (diet, exercise etc). Do they show violent or unstable behavior? Are they a heavy drinker or drug abuser? Do they already have kids with multiple partners? These should be obvious red flags for men and women but it's amazing how many people will look past them because horniness. Ask the question, "if I/you got pregnant, what would…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/25 11:15 AM
1	"Both women and men believe that their gender disadvantages them. When so many men feel underappreciated and so many women feel mistreated, it creates a vicious cycle of resentment." → Research Women have babies because they want to, not as some favor to humanity. In the 21st century West, it is very rarely life-threatening.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/25 10:44 PM
2	"Both women and men believe that their gender disadvantages them. When so many men feel underappreciated and so many women feel mistreated, it creates a vicious cycle of resentment." → Research A gender studies degree won't keep the lights on. Men are net contributors to the system via taxation. Women are net receivers from the system (money forcibly redistributed from men to women by the state). Without the taxes of men, the system collapses. All the essentials that keep society functioning, the power grid, the sewage system, clean water supply, etc are designed, built and maintained by men. It's men who mine coal and copper, its men who build houses, cars, roads and bridges, it's men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/25 11:39 AM
28	"Both women and men believe that their gender disadvantages them. When so many men feel underappreciated and so many women feel mistreated, it creates a vicious cycle of resentment." → Research They have much more access to firearms Men commit suicide at a much higher rate than women even in countries where firearms are heavily restricted. are far less likely to use mental health resources Most male suicides are not linked to mental health issues. This study found that 90% of men who committed suicide had sought help in the past few months. One of the biggest factors for suicide in men is divorce. Another is false allegations. But for obvious reasons, nobody wants to dig too deeply int…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/25 10:55 AM
2	Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them? They also discover things like: they are no longer trusted around children, and cops are much quicker to get out the tasers and handcuffs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/25 01:28 PM
0	As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison Population Also at one point they tried to close women’s prisons in the UK. Good luck to anyone who tries to release Rose West, Beverley Allitt or Lucy Letby.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/25 11:58 AM
2	CMV: There are no laws or regulations in the civilised world that discriminate against women - but many that discriminate against men. Baby girls across the world are protected from having their genitals mutilated for "cultural" or "religious" reasons. Baby boys are not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 03:01 PM
1	CMV:Men who don’t align with feminist values shouldn’t fear the rise of feminism. Not being drafted is a privilege.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 12:48 PM
4	If misogynists want to create a fake narrative that number of women committing SA on men is higher or equal to men SA on women, then why don't men demand a seperate land away from women? The moment men moved to their own island, a bunch of women would immediately begin whining that they should be allowed onto the island too. And the men would be forced to let them in. Just like they did with every other formerly male-only space, from bars and colleges to gyms and clubs. When men actually want to get away from women, abusive or otherwise, by establishing spaces away from women, they are legally prevented from doing so, thanks to decades of efforts by feminists. Even the Boy Scout…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 12:01 PM
2	CMV:Men who don’t align with feminist values shouldn’t fear the rise of feminism. No one is killing babies, a handful of non sentient cells aren't babies. It's only a "handful of non-sentient cells" when it's convenient for the mother. It's very much a baby when she's keeping it. The killing of a pregnant woman is also invariably treated as a double homicide. As to your question, 40% of defendants in spousal homicide cases are wives, so lets not act like homicide only goes one way. Women, incidentally, are also the primary killers of babies (post-birth).	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/25 03:22 PM
2	CMV:Men who don’t align with feminist values shouldn’t fear the rise of feminism. Now you're shifting the goalposts. The issue was the writings of famous feminists. Considering women have collectively terminated ~100,000,000 babies in the past 50 years, the vast majority for non-medical reasons, the homicide rate is a drop in the ocean by comparison.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/25 03:02 PM
4	CMV:Men who don’t align with feminist values shouldn’t fear the rise of feminism. Countries in 2025 with a military draft for men only: Greece, Turkey, Finland, Switzerland, Austria, Brazil, Croatia, Georgia, Estonia, Latvia, Lithuania, Russia, Ukraine, Egypt, Brazil, South Korea, Cyprus, Singapore, Colombia, Algeria, Azerbaijan, Taiwan, Thailand and Vietnam, amongst others. Countries in 2025 with a military draft for women only:	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/25 02:21 PM
6	CMV:Men who don’t align with feminist values shouldn’t fear the rise of feminism. Norway is one of the few countries in the world which drafts men and women on the same terms. Feminists there hate it. Germany is considering reinstating a military draft. Note that it is to be compulsory for men and voluntary for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/25 02:02 PM
10	CMV:Men who don’t align with feminist values shouldn’t fear the rise of feminism. The Scum Manifesto is staple of gender studies classes. The author is a feminist heroine despite being a loon who tried to murder Andy Warhol. maybe read famous feminists instead of digging for the trash "I want to see a man beaten to a bloody pulp with a high-heel shoved in his mouth, like an apple in the mouth of a pig." -- Andrea Dworkin “The proportion of men must be reduced to and maintained at approximately 10% of the human race.” -- Sally Miller Gearhart If your movement attracts man-hati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/25 01:56 PM
3	"DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable. It's been known for decades exactly what Polanski is, yet scores of famous actresses still willingly worked with him. The likes of Meryl Streep and Whoopi Goldberg have defended him. A bunch of them even signed a petition calling for his release after he got arrested in Switzerland.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/25 11:12 AM
2	Being a stepdad is legit good strategy for some guys Tell me you've never dated a single mother without telling me. You get all the fatherly responsibility (ie paying for everything) but none of the authority ("you're not my father"). If the baby daddy (or daddies) are still in the picture, you have to deal with them. If they aren't in the picture, you risk being on the hook for child support if she can show you played a fatherly role in their lives. Your entire life (dates, nights out etc) are basically at the mercy of someone else's kids. And th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/25 12:15 PM
1	Male spaces are infected with the “Men are victims” complex. The most popular example is when guys claim “society sees women as victims and men as the perpetrators because of feminism”. Why do so many women hate, absolutely hate, the idea that a man can be a victim of something, especially if a woman or women are responsible? There are women on this very sub who will deny male victims with a vengeance, especially if it involves a female perpetrator, and will do their best to minimize it. It's as if they can't bear the idea that a man could be more of a vi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/25 11:54 AM
5	Male spaces are infected with the “Men are victims” complex. Funny how when an issue affects women, it's society's problem that everyone needs to fix, usually with legislation, govt programs etc. But when men have a problem, men are told they need to solve it themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/25 11:07 AM
3	Men would you use a long term birth control if it was available? But you know what's more awful than condom sex? Getting up at 2am to feed a baby neither of you wanted. Until something better comes along, I'll stick with condoms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/25 09:43 AM
1	Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalf Did you read your article? Yes, did you? We found that 32 percent of custodial fathers didn't receive any of the child support that had been awarded to them Ergo, 1 in 3 custodial fathers doesn't get a penny from the mother. How many of these women get imprisoned for not paying? Almost none, compared with the number of fathers who get incarcerated. If you want to go by just raw numbers then that works both ways and about 90% of child support is being paid by men. The number 1 reason for non-paym…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 10:39 PM
3	Akaash Singh (or any rich guy) losing "half his wealth" in divorce Getting half is fair. A marriage is a partnership women support their husbands in important ways that enable them to be successful. Yet there is never an obligation on her part to actually demonstrate how she supported him and what she contributed to the partnership. It's always just accepted without question. What if the wife just sat on her ass all day while he was building a Fortune 500 company in his garage?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 04:52 PM
4	Men would you use a long term birth control if it was available? Despite what they claim, I suspect a lot of women would actually hate a male birth control pill and the loss of control it represented. A man deciding when, or if, he would have children, and which woman or women he'd have them with (and not have them with)? No more baby trapping or oopsie pregnancies, no more poking holes in condoms or forgetting to take the pill. Back in the 1970s, a well known Brazilian doctor was trialling the male birth control drug gossypol and announced it to a largely fe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 04:23 PM
9	Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalf It's also amazing how quickly they'll become apologists for reproductive abuse when faced with cases where the father didn't consent either to sex or to unprotected sex (he was a victim of sexual assault, the ex-wife forged his signature at a clinic or she poked a hole in the condom/lied about using birth control), or discovers later he isn't actually the father at all. Gee that's terrible but the child is innocent and needs support, so the father should still pay. He's probably making it up jus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 11:19 AM
7	Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalf Imagine being so self-centered that the thought of their children starving wasn't motivating enough to stay current. Women are worse at paying child support than men. 1 in 3 custodial fathers never receive a penny from the mother. Don't they care about their children?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 11:01 AM
0	Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalf "Best interests of the child" is just a cover for what the mother finds more convenient. Nobody really gives a shit about the child. It's not in a child's best interests to be aborted or left at a fire station, but both exist for the mother's convenience. It's not in a child's best interests for the mother to drink, smoke and use drugs while pregnant, but women who do are almost never prosecuted. Nor is it in a child's best interests to be raised under false pretenses by a man who wrongly believ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 09:40 PM
0	A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically. Which is irrelevant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 05:59 PM
6	A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically. So, paternity fraud is exclusively done by women to men, which is why women on here always try so hard to downplay it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 12:32 PM
5	A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically. That's actually irrelevant. Paternity fraud is exclusively inflicted on men by women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 12:15 PM
7	A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically. Women can also get in legal trouble and go to jail for not paying child support. Women are far less likely than men to be imprisoned for non-payment of child support, even though 1 in 3 custodial fathers don't receive a penny from the mother. Going to prison for not paying is extremely rare though. A few years ago, 1 in 8 South Carolina inmates were in prison for not paying child support.. We don't let any parents abandon their kids financially unless the child is adopted legally by others. A wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 12:05 PM
5	A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically. It is dehumanising to assume half the population is either to stupid or too much of a slut that they don’t know who the father of their children are. To borrow a common feminist slogan, not all women, but always a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 11:51 AM
5	MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues. Trump evidently got support from a lot more than just MAGA. So did the majority of white males, hispanic males, and 50% of young men. Not sure you understand what "women are a majority of the electorate" means. If a vote for Trump was a vote against feminism, then were millions of women voting against feminism?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 02:18 PM
7	MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues. Women are a majority of the electorate. If enough women vote for a particular candidate, then he or she wins, regardless of how men vote. A majority of white women voted for Trump. If you have a problem with the man in the White House, then take it up with the women who put him there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 02:10 PM
1	Feminism Was Necessary. But It Shouldn’t Be the Final Stage Do you expect a movement that attracts man-hating sociopaths like flies to a dung heap to suddenly stop hating men and fight for equality? Feminism has never, ever been about equality. It has always been about demonising men and acquiring and protecting female privileges. Education Before the 19th century, there was no such thing as universal education. Education was determined by wealth. Parents who could afford a tutor, paid one to educate their children. Margaret Roper, Thomas More's daughter…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 10:14 AM
1	Feminism Was Necessary. But It Shouldn’t Be the Final Stage The child's best interests take a back seat when it isn't convenient for the mother. It's not in a child's best intetests to be aborted or abandoned at a fire station, yet both options exist for the woman's convenience. It's not in the child's best interests for the mother to smoke, drink alcohol or use drugs while pregnant, yet women who do are very rarely prosecuted for this. A woman who doesn't want to be a parent has several avenues to walk away, with zero legal repercussions. A man is force…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 09:30 AM
2	Feminism Was Necessary. But It Shouldn’t Be the Final Stage Women's health gets a ton more attention and expenditure than men's health. Breast cancer recieves twice as much funding as prostate cancer, for instance. The US Government has ten offices and committees dedicated to women's health and none for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 09:12 AM
3	We are ignoring the reality of gender roles here on PPD I don't know where all these women are in the 21st century West that spend their days cooking and cleaning, but I've never encountered them. Of the various women I've lived with, I did about 90% of the cooking, I doubt any of them had ever used an iron and I rarely saw them use a vacuum cleaner. And a friendly reminder that men do more work, housework and childcare combined than women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 04:09 PM
–	Speed dating events are as big as scams as dating apps These events exist to boost the egos of average women. No man with any self-respect would attend, which is why, increasingly, they don't bother.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 02:57 PM
1	Happy International Men's day everyone! How was IMD celebrated in your life? This woman fell from a plane at 33,000 feet and survived. Doesn't mean its commonplace or that everyone who does it is equally lucky. Men aged 18-60 were explicitly banned from leaving. Those who got out were rich enough to bribe someone or managed to sneak across a border. Women were allowed to leave via the front door. In the first months of the war, 90% of Ukrainian refugees were women and children. As of last year, appx 80% of Ukrainians living in the EU were women and children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 10:37 AM
1	Happy International Men's day everyone! How was IMD celebrated in your life? Poland and western Europe are now full of Ukrainian women. Men were not allowed to leave. Meanwhile there are press gangs driving around Ukraine looking for random men to kidnap and send to the front.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 08:49 AM
–	Q4M: When dating, do you only spend money if there's something in it for you? That doesn't seem generous at all - it seems a little selfish. I'm not a charity there to provide free food and drinks for women I don’t know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 11:28 PM
9	A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward men I've been physically assaulted by several women. One slapped me, pretty hard, for the crime of rejecting her. It was definitely more than a shoulder check or making a point. It's amazing the mental gymnastics some folks will go through to excuse female wrongdoing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 10:14 AM
2	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. I'm not lying about anything. It's not my problem if you can't accept reality and prefer to hide behind misleading feminist-pushed stats. RAINN relies on surveys by the Bureau of Justice Statistics, which defines rape as: Forced sexual intercourse including both psychological coercion as well as physical force. Forced sexual intercourse means penetration by the offender(s). Ergo, forced to penetrate, which is the majority of female on male rape, doesn't get counted. NISVS 2010: 1.4% of men repor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 10:01 AM
2	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. NISVS - 80% of male rape is by women A 2014 study of 284 men and boys in college and high school found that 43 percent reported being sexually coerced, with the majority of coercive incidents resulting in unwanted sexual intercourse. Of them, 95 percent reported only female perpetrators. A 2012 study using data from the U. S. Census Bureau’s nationally representative National Epidemiologic Survey on Alcohol and Related Conditions found in a sample of 43,000 adults little difference in the sex of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 08:59 AM
2	Men issues and female privilege are connected. Many women support ending the draft or adding women to it Very few women support the drafting of women and typically only take an interest in abolishing it whenever someone proposes including women. In Switzerland a few years ago they had a referendum on abolishing compulsory military service and women voted to keep it. Keep it for men, that is. In Norway, one of the very few countries which does force men and women to do military service on the same terms, feminist groups hate it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 02:24 PM
1	The average person is clueless when it comes to how physically strong men are. Men are most likely to be the offender with female and male victims. This is a myth: 80% of male rape is by women NISVS - men reported majority female perpetrators of being made to penetrate (79.2%), sexual coercion (83.6%), and unwanted sexual contact (53.1%). More than half of boys who contacted Childline to report sexual abuse said they were being abused by a woman Of male students reporting sexual coercion, 95% had female perpetrators Of male prisoners who reported sexual abuse by staff, 67%…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 12:38 PM
7	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. It's amazing how quickly feminists will unironically resort to old rape apologies when the issue is female assaults on men. It doesn't happen He enjoyed it so it wasn't rape He was just drunk so it doesn't count It was just inappropriate contact These men are just making it up for revenge A bit like how the pro choice crowd become vehemently anti-choice as soon as someone suggests the man should have a choice too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 11:21 AM
2	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. "Believe all __" is a nonsense. Women lie. Men lie. Children lie. Our judicial system is, or should be, based on facts and evidence. The ability to be believed, without question and irrespective of evidence or plausibility, is just ripe for abuse and in the MeToo era there have undoubtedly been women who took advantage of it for personal gain or just to settle scores with men. Critically I don’t think this means the movement should stop or be shrunken down MeToo should absolutely be shut down an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 10:43 AM
4	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. Few men are raped by women. According to the NISVS surveys, about 40% of nonconsensual sex is perpetrated by women against men. In just about every category, the majority of sexual abuse against men and boys is by women. There's actual far more female-perpetrated abuse that goes on than you'd ever be willing to believe. But only now is it finally being taken (semi) seriously. Damn near every day there's another news story about a woman teacher who's been caught sexually abusing an underage boy. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 09:18 AM
1	The average person is clueless when it comes to how physically strong men are. In most track and field events, the women's Olympic champion would lose to the male high school champion. https://boysvswomen.com/	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 07:05 PM
1	The average person is clueless when it comes to how physically strong men are. Feminists will say women are being killed because of their gender Just their way of downplaying female wrongdoers and erasing male victims. Women in America commit about 600 homicides per year and their victim is usually a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 06:53 PM
–	The average person is clueless when it comes to how physically strong men are. Feminists will say women are being killed because of their gender, while men aren't killed for their gender. Just their way of downplaying female wrongdoers and erasing male victims. Women in America commit about 600 homicides per year and their victim is usually a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 04:47 PM
1	The average person is clueless when it comes to how physically strong men are. Women as sex offenders aren’t taken as seriously, you’re right, but that doesn’t make them more threatening or more prevalent than male offenders. It also doesn't mean they should be ignored or their actions treated less seriously. About 1 in 5 sex offenses is committed by a woman, yet only about 1 in 100 incarcerated sex offenders is a woman. Why is that? The majority of perpetrators of sexual abuse against men and boys are women. Female offenders don’t often make victims feel as afraid as male…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 04:02 PM
9	CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truths 18 year olds across the world are allowed to work, vote, marry, gamble, smoke, drink alcohol and can join the military.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 03:36 PM
3	Have you ever forgiven a cheating girlfriend or would you ? If so how did the relationship turn out ? Cheating is not just a single lie or betrayal, it's lots of them. The planning, the deception, the lies. Going forward, why should I ever again trust the word of a proven liar? Additionally, she risked my health by potentially passing on a STI to me without my knowledge. There is also the possibility of her becoming pregnant and trying to pass off some other man's baby as mine. If she cheats, we're done. No forgiveness, no second chances, no therapy. Zero contact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 11:26 AM
3	Men are delusional about how many bad men are out there It's like women cherry picking bad men out of many good ones. Yes, because women disproportionately pick these men. Criminal men literally have a reproductive advantage over non-criminal men. Feminists love to rage about deadbeat dads, but never acknowledge that the reason deadbeat dads even exist is because women keep screwing deadbeats and having their children. Men think that vetting is so easy Red flags in men are generally not hard to spot: violent behavior, criminal record, lack of gainful…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 10:11 AM
1	If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage? health, longevity, and money. This is cause and effect backwards. Men don't magically earn more money or live longer because they are married. Women choose to marry higher earning men or men with higher earning potential, and those men typically live longer and healthier lives than their poorer counterparts. happiness Long-term happiness studies are based on couples who married in the 50s and 60s, before the no fault divorce bridezilla era. Studies which claim married men are happier than single…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 07:51 AM
1	If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage? Unpaid labor and household management are another. Why should someone be paid for raising their own children or doing their own laundry?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 07:43 AM
1	If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage? otherwise they will string you along taking all the upsides and you will have no protection if they decide to leave. You just described what marriage is for men. I bet if an engagement ring was required before sex that sort of behavior would stop quick. If she wants an engagement ring before we have sex then she needs to prove her virginity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 07:43 AM
1	Men committing majority of violent crimes consumes more tax payer money that single moms Male criminals disproportionately come from single mother households. A disproportionate number of serious male sex offenders have a history of childhood sexual abuse, by a woman. If you have a problem with male criminals, then at least some of the blame should go the women who raised them. Incidentally, if male criminals were incarcerated at the same rate as their female counterparts, there'd be far fewer of them in prison.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/25 06:52 AM
2	Men choose to have half their stuff taken in divorce It's overwhelmingly women who push for marriage and women who whine endlessly that men won't marry them. Most men couldn't give a shit about marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 01:53 PM
1	Prison for non-payment of child support should be abolished, and if someone can't or won't pay it, the state should just pay it instead of prosecuting the non-payer 32% of custodial fathers don't receive any child support from the deadbeat mother	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 12:39 PM
–	It makes biological sense to be impregnated by a hot guy then have a average provider fund it And its a great thing ebcause it means the government has to pay for less kids because random men end up paying for other mens children. Until they get a DNA test and fuck off, leaving the kid fatherless and the govt with another single mother to support.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 12:14 PM
-1	Prison for non-payment of child support should be abolished, and if someone can't or won't pay it, the state should just pay it instead of prosecuting the non-payer The vast, vast majority of men will not spend any time in prison (or jail) for delinquent child support. A few years ago 1 in 8 South Carolina inmates was in prison for not paying child support most of the people who are delinquent have no reason not to pay 66% of unpaid child support is due to inability to pay	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 12:03 PM
3	Men choose to have half their stuff taken in divorce http://journalofinterdisciplinarysciences.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/4.-Shared-Parenting-in-the-Modern-Family-from-a-Feminist-Views.pdf The author of this piece even acknowledges widespread feminist opposition to joint custody: Strong objections to shared parenting have been expressed by the chairwoman of Na’amat, the largest women’s organization in Israel (Livni, 2008); The Israeli Women’s Network (2006) and Karmon (2017) as well as by female Members of the Israeli Parliament (M.P. Shuli Mu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 11:44 AM
-1	Men choose to have half their stuff taken in divorce alimony is rare Court mandated alimony is rare, because most couples reach a settlement before getting to that point. That doesn't mean the other 90% of divorces don't result in one party, usually the man, paying money to the other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 11:04 AM
0	Men choose to have half their stuff taken in divorce They didn't They did and still do. Florida recently introduced default 50/50 custody and abolished lifetime alimony, both of which were vehemently opposed by feminists. Karen DeCrow was a rare exception among feminists in supporting default 50/50 custody and was ostracised by her feminist chums as a result.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 11:02 AM
2	Men choose to have half their stuff taken in divorce Because men choose to be with women who earn less than them You have it backwards. Women choose men who earn more than them. They almost never marry men who earn less than them. After all women are always told to CHOOSE BETTER why cant men? Absolutely, and an increasing number of men are choosing better: by not marrying at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 10:46 AM
–	If you want to spread genes without effort, it’s a sensible strategy to abandon pregnant mothers since women won’t vote against themselves and since bluepill men will always cheerfully clean up your sloppy seconds. That’s a wild take considering that nazis and leftists were literally opposite enemies during WWII. They were also literally allies for the first two years of the war.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 08:17 AM
–	If you want to spread genes without effort, it’s a sensible strategy to abandon pregnant mothers since women won’t vote against themselves and since bluepill men will always cheerfully clean up your sloppy seconds. Genetics is one-half of the equation. Would you say that to a woman who finds out there was a baby switch at the hospital and the kid she has been raising isn't hers?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 07:53 AM
10	Despite its history, women are the major winners of polygamy and average men are the losers. The taxes of married men are also what basically props up the economy. Not enough married men paying in and everything goes to hell.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 02:39 PM
6	Vincent doesn't represent men's struggles, she represents trans people's Transmen are the best case study on how much harder men's lives are. Especially when they discover things like: they are no longer trusted around children; cops are much quicker to assume wrongdoing and get out the tasers and the handcuffs; and far fewer people are willing to help you or even give a shit about you. Incidentally, there's a much higher detransition rate among FTMs than MTFs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 10:49 AM
4	Why does the redpill ignore passport sisters and only focuses on passport bros? It's common enough that locals in places like Gambia complain about elderly British women travelling there for sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 10:45 AM
1	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. That incident is interesting and upon reading about it, there seemed to be concerns about the wording allowing men who are accused to turn the accusation back on the woman accusing them. Funny how false allegations are suddenly a concern when women might be on the receiving end of them lol Israel is a western nation by most definitions. It's also incidentally a more feminist nation than America is. Second, Mary Koss isn’t some prolific figure. She designed the Sexual Experience Survey used by CD…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 08:13 AM
0	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. Feminists in Israel successfully lobbied against gender neutral rape laws. The CDC records "made to penetrate" stats but does NOT classify it as rape. This is by design, because when you add "made to penetrate" stats to rape stats, the results paint a very different picture to the one pushed by feminists. If you don't believe me then believe feminist Mary Koss, who designed the Sexual Experience Survey used by the CDC, and can be heard explaining how a woman drugging and raping a man should be c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 02:08 PM
0	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. Feminists are the reason the FBI changed their definition of rape so it could include men… This is disingenuous at best. Feminists did not push for anything to help men. They pushed to change the law to better help female victims. Also note: The new terminology says rape is "penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim." (link) So it still excludes female on male rape…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 11:39 AM
2	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. All those studies use a definition of rape which excludes male victims and female abusers, so of course they come up with stats like 99% of rape victims are women and 99% of rapists are men. The gap is much narrower when a gender neutral definition of rape is used, which is why members of the man-hating cult try so hard to suppress it. a 2012 study using data from the U. S. Census Bureau’s nationally representative National Epidemiologic Survey on Alcohol and Related Conditions found in a sample…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 10:56 AM
4	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. If women really believe that all or most men pose a threat to them, then why are they always so desperate to get into men's spaces? It would be impossible to even list all the golf clubs, gentleman's clubs, colleges, bars, barbers, men in sheds, gay nudist resorts etc which have been forced to let in women, at the behest of women. All these places are, y'know, full of men. Do they have a death wish?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 09:06 AM
–	What are some secrets men dont tell women? What are some secrets men dont tell women? Can you keep a secret? So can I.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 07:49 AM
2	economy profits from male loneliness and benefits when men stay single When men remain single, they become high-yield individual consumers. I'd say the opposite is true. Women are the main drivers of consumer spending, whether married or single. Married men are the highest earners and collectively pay more tax than every other group, to the point where they're basically propping up the economy. And their money is largely spent on or by their wives. Meanwhile, single men can support themselves on a pittance. That meme about a single man's living room being completel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/25 09:39 AM
18	Would you be better than women at vetting guys? Yes, because red flags, like criminality, violent tendencies, kids with multiple women, lack of gainful employment, heavy drinking or a history of drug abuse, are generally not that hard to spot. The issue is when tingles cause her to look past all the red flags.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 11:05 AM
3	Are there stats about how women could actually "stop whining and do shit themselves" before feminism ? None of them prove that 50 years ago, single women could open a bank account. If you have evidence that a single woman's right to open a bank account was taken away at some point between the 1890s and 1960s, then feel free to share it. Given that women have been a majority of the electorate in most western democracies since the early 20th century, it's highly improbable. My great grandmother had her own business in the 1930s, before she got married, and yes she had a bank account too. We found s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 08:53 AM
1	Are there stats about how women could actually "stop whining and do shit themselves" before feminism ? 40% of American slaveowners were women (and most slaves were men, so...).	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/25 02:40 PM
1	Are there stats about how women could actually "stop whining and do shit themselves" before feminism ? No they didn't. Did you even read those links? [The San Francisco Savings Union’s] early published pamphlets confirmed the rights of women depositors, advertising that “Married women and minors, making deposits in their own name, can withdraw them themselves.” Less than two months after its incorporation and shortly after opening its doors, Saving Union directors approved the first loan to a woman customer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/25 01:49 PM
2	Are there stats about how women could actually "stop whining and do shit themselves" before feminism ? I was responding specifically to your claim that women could not open a bank account fifty years ago, which is repeated on here ad nauseum despite being completely untrue. And just to add in some parts of the world it still goes on today for example in Afghanistan women aren’t allowed to go to university Meanwhile men in Afghanistan get beheaded for heresy and homosexuality. Yes, life is generally shitty for most people in a Middle Eastern theocracy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/25 01:38 PM
2	Are there stats about how women could actually "stop whining and do shit themselves" before feminism ? Just 50 years ago a single woman couldn’t open her own bank account. A myth. Hoare's bank in London had female customers in the 1700s. Women in California gained the right to open their own bank account, irrespective of marital status, in 1862. Women even owned banks. One of the first ever Ponzi schemes was run by a woman through her women-only bank, which opened in 1879.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/25 09:39 AM
–	More men should be standing up for the free speech of AWDTSG and Tea app Doxxing, harassment, revenge porn and defamatory allegations, all of which are widespread on AWDTSG/Tea are not protected by free speech. That's why we have laws against them. The Tea app hasn't been banned in any case, so where is the free speech issue?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/25 08:14 AM
4	If you hate women nagging about cleanliness, just date slobs. One of my exes was particularly bad for this, and yet the mess she was always complaining about was her own damn mess. It wasn't me who left the bathroom looking like a car wash after having a shower, it wasn't me who required an entire drawer full of cutlery to make breakfast, and it wasn't me who kept buying useless dust-magnet ornaments. My place magically became much tidier after she moved out. If the dishes need washing, how about the radical solution of actually washing them yourself like …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 12:20 PM
1	The Shannon Sharpe situation proves that theres a significant proportion of older man-young woman relationships that are kept out of public eye and we don't know about who tf supports brigitte macron? Swap the genders and consider how that relationship would be perceived. A 39 year old man and a 15 year old girl? anyways, i’ll tell you why madonna and cher are praised: because it happens way less! Translation: it's only a big deal when men do it but perfectly okay when women do it. A bit like slapping your spouse in public, which Brigitte Macron also did recently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 07:52 PM
–	People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women. Correlation does not equal causation. It doesn't mean the two factors are unrelated either. I guess it's an accident that sons of single mothers are more likely to be criminals, unemployed, less educated, commit suicide etc etc. Because bad fathers dont want nor get their kids. And good fathers want them and get them and evidently do a better job than single mothers. Because the mother is either on drugs or in jail, so what money? And you know this how? As opposed to, you know, just being a dead…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 02:37 PM
–	People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women. Im not just talking about fatherlessness. Considering the children (especially sons) of single mothers do worse by just about every metric, fathers evidently do more than you think. Check the metrics for children of single fathers by way of comparison, and those dudes rarely get any child support from the deadbeat mother.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 11:49 AM
2	The Tea App proved the vast majority of men are bad man, women have no choice but to accept polygamy/settle or stay single. There is 0 reason for women to lie to one another Women lie to each other and throw each other under the bus all the time, including their so called friends. So what makes you think a bunch of anonymous randos on an app, who owe you nothing and have no obligation to be truthful, are going to give you honest and reliable advice? Single women dating in your locality are not allies, they're your rivals. On the Tea app they're likely just a bitter dumpee more interested in sabotaging their ex than h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 07:56 AM
4	The Shannon Sharpe situation proves that theres a significant proportion of older man-young woman relationships that are kept out of public eye and we don't know about Look at how Leo is constantly berated and called a pedo because of his dating behaviour being publicized. Funny that this is only a problem when men do it. When Madonna or Cher are seen dating some stud 30 years younger than them, it's "you go girl!" It's okay for Jada Pinkett to screw her son's friend. Apparently it's even okay for a 39 year old Brigitte Macron to "fall in love" with a 15 year old boy in her class.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 06:49 AM
1	“Women should take accountability more” until it inconveniences men. Women: Use apps and subs to warn women about abusive men and red flags. Proceed to use it for revenge porn and doxxing men who dumped them, then whine when the men doxxed them back. The epitome of unaccountability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/25 11:41 AM
4	Male thirst is men's greatest enemy Metoo isnt about repressing men... The originator of MeToo was a statutory rapist who paid off her underage male victim to keep him quiet. Like the Tea app, something which may have started out with good intentions quickly became a vehicle for women to fleece rich guys and settle scores with men in their lives without any due process. Believeallwomen is why men like Brian Banks end up spending years in prison for rapes they didn't commit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/25 09:37 AM
2	If a vast majority of men got laid easily, the United States would be a quasi socialist country right now What makes you think the men of western Europe are much more satisfied than their American counterparts? Many of those countries have high unemployment, high levels of immigration, low birth rates and declining marriage numbers, and not coincidentally extremist parties are polling record numbers. They're also places where members of the man-hating cult have a lot of sway, so they have their share of anti-male policies and rhetoric.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/25 03:30 PM
2	Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinity Social power my ass. Financial power is everything. Women had nothing. 40% of slave owners in America were women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 09:49 AM
1	TEA app is not a big deal, men do it all the time in vanilla spaces Again, if they are lying, sue for defamation. Suppose someone makes serious, defamatory allegations about you, posting your photos, even your nudes, and your contact details on an app with several million subscribers. But apparently that's okay, because you can just sue them later. Never mind that suing them entails spending thousands on legal fees, and by the time you see a courtroom the damage has been done away.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 03:50 PM
2	TEA app is not a big deal, men do it all the time in vanilla spaces It's 90% women settling scores with exes and men who rejected them. Judging by the recent data leak, there was a lot of revenge porn too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 03:30 PM
1	TEA app is not a big deal, men do it all the time in vanilla spaces A lot of men go on about how "if there was male equivalent of such an app, people would be up in arms" A male equivalent app was taken down almost immediately.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 03:25 PM
1	If you dont realize that bad men come in all forms, you are incapable of lecturing women to “choose better”. It's pretty hard for someone to hide all their red flags, especially in a relationship. Things like: violent tendencies, short temper, compulsive liar, obnoxious and criminal behavior, criminal record, recreational drug addiction, heavy drinker, kids with multiple women, history of infidelity, no record of gainful employment, and so on. I've seen enough real life instances of women choosing and staying with guys who have obvious red flags (if I know he's an unemployed felon with kids by 3 differ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 12:38 PM
2	If you dont realize that bad men come in all forms, you are incapable of lecturing women to “choose better”. 'Hybristophilia' is the word for falling in love with a criminal, and the number of love letters that violent male criminals receive from random women they've never met is astounding Ted Bundy had a frickin' fan club. So did Richard Ramirez. One of Ramirez' female groupies even married him while he was in prison.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 10:53 AM
11	Did the Tea App prove the Redpill? It's not currently available in the EU, probably because it would fall foul of data protection laws there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/25 06:15 PM
6	How can men avoid rape allegations? Take a look at the Innocence Project. The majority of overturned convictions are for sex crimes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/25 09:12 AM
5	How can men avoid rape allegations? Tell that to Brian Banks and Anthony Broadwater.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/25 08:57 AM
1	Women are excluded far less than men are in the modern West Thank you	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/25 09:49 PM
0	Thoughts on the “Tea” app? It's inadvisable to publicly accuse a man of rape if you can't prove it and don't want to be sued for libel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 09:11 PM
0	Women are excluded far less than men are in the modern West Literally on the front page of their website: "Come and train at Nelson Fitness. We are within walking distance from Nelson Town Centre. We are open 7 days a week and offer separate opening hours for both men and women"	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 07:21 PM
1	Women are excluded far less than men are in the modern West They're just initiatives and projects rather than clubs, bars and gyms. And even some of those listed have female execs. And here's an example of a womans group having to admit men Why knew feminist lawfare would have a downside? Hoist by their own petard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 03:33 PM
0	Women are excluded far less than men are in the modern West No - Gym X in downtown LA does not accept female members would be a specific example. The Garrick Club in London had to let in women. 40 years ago women were given the "right" to enter men's locker rooms. A womans scholarship was forced to take men Good. Considering most scholarships still go to women, despite women already being a majority of college-goers, many more should be going to men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 11:14 AM
2	Women are excluded far less than men are in the modern West They aren't specific examples. The Men in Sheds, a male support group, was forced to let in women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 09:39 AM
0	Women are excluded far less than men are in the modern West Do you have specific examples? Even male gay clubs have been forced to let in straight women. Why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 09:30 AM
8	Thoughts on the “Tea” app? Why would you expect a bunch of anonymous psychos online to provide useful or reliable information about anything? You don't know them and they have no obligation to be truthful. If anything, being a single woman in your locality makes them a rival, not an ally. Amongst all the women settling scores with their exes/men who rejected them (who comprise about 90% of the AWDTSG groups) and those who are just there to shit stir and revel in the online drama, you'd be very lucky to find a genuine post…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 09:15 AM
1	Thoughts on the “Tea” app? If, as is often the case, the post also includes information the guy has not put in the public domain, like his full name, private photos, where he works, contact details etc or includes defamatory allegations, then individual posters would be liable for it. In the UK for instance if you make a defamatory public statement about a person and they sue you, the onus is on you to prove every single word is true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 08:45 AM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Always look on the bright side of life...	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 08:15 AM
5	Thoughts on the “Tea” app? what do you think? If AWDTG is anything to go by, the app will be 90% bitter women getting revenge on men who rejected them, making defamatory and hamful allegations without proof, and encouraging each other to stalk and harass innocent men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/25 10:57 PM
–	Misandry creates MORE misogynists. Yet I never see feminists campaigning for women to be drafted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/25 04:34 PM
1	CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining dating It covers the many sexual assault allegations against Clinton.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/25 03:13 PM
–	What are the real tangible examples of society becoming anti male? An adult woman can sexually assault an underage boy and if she gets pregnant, she can sue him for child support. She is then allowed to raise the kid. This situation exists because it's convenient for women (and the state), even though it is decidedly shitty for the children involved. it's impossible to compel people to take care of kids (what are you going to do, lock them up?), The state already does this with men who can't afford to pay child support. We should start doing the same with deadb…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/25 11:34 AM
–	What are the real tangible examples of society becoming anti male? Why not just make deadbeat women support their children like we do with men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/25 11:25 AM
–	What are the real tangible examples of society becoming anti male? First link: of Paying Parents using Collect and Pay, 68% paid some maintenance, Second link: 37% of parents not complying with child maintenance payments. Ergo, a majority do pay. I’d actually like to see a case ir evidence of a judge forcing a man to pay for random kids Florida man forced to pay child support despite DNA test proving he is not the father	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/25 07:46 AM
1	CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining dating Read 'No One Left to Lie To' by Christopher Hitchens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/25 07:32 AM
–	What are the real tangible examples of society becoming anti male? Actually most bio fathers dont pay child support either. Do you have a source for that? The number one reason for non payment of child support is inability to pay. Incidentally, non-custodial mothers are notoriously bad at paying child support. I would be very curious to see the law or the case why a judge would force a man to pay for a child they all know isn’t his. When it comes to paying child support, as far as the state is concerned, any man will do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 02:35 PM
–	What are the real tangible examples of society becoming anti male? "Pro child" is just code for what is more convenient for women. Getting an abortion or abandoning a baby at a fire station are not exactly good for the child, but they exist because the woman thinks being a parent would be inconvenient right now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 02:24 PM
3	Instead of resenting the Sisterhood Uber Alles, men should blame their fellow men who refuse to be supportive Men are bad friends to their fellow men. Women throw each other under the bus all the time. I've known women to end friendships over extremely petty things, like forgetting a birthday or because they couldn't handle "fat friend" becoming "slim friend". There are myriad women who will gladly steal another woman's husband or try to sabotage a happy relationship out of pure bitterness. Sisterhood? If a woman got cheated on like that, 99% of female friends would side with her and be loyal. They woul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 01:26 PM
2	CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining dating Bill Clinton. 55% of women voted for him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 09:25 AM
–	Men are drastically overestimating how badly the average young woman wants commitment. It ain't men who are always complaining that a woman won't marry him. The entire multi billion dolllar wedding industry (expensive rings and dresses, fancy venues) is propped up by women. There's literally a subreddit dedicated to women whining that their partner won't commit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/25 12:22 PM
2	Female extremists and male extremists mutually push each other away What organization? How do I join? Do they have a headquarters? You keep saying manosphere yet you haven't defined what it is or how you know one is or isn't a member of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 02:25 PM
2	Female extremists and male extremists mutually push each other away How do you know who is or isn't a member of the "manosphere"? Do they have badges or wear special uniforms? Or do you in fact have no idea about the affiliations of individual men involved in those campaigns?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 01:50 PM
2	Female extremists and male extremists mutually push each other away Does the manosphere have a members list?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 01:33 PM
2	Female extremists and male extremists mutually push each other away Florida recently introduced default 50/50 child custody and abolished lifetime alimony, both a result of longstanding campaigns by men, in the face of fierce resistance from members of the man-hating cult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 01:28 PM
2	The future is polygamous - rich men have harems and male slaves Imagine guys like Elon Musk just running through women non-stop and leaving nothing for anyone else. Elon could spend every minute of his day scouring the world for women and still only bang a fraction of the total female population.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 09:40 AM
1	The future is polygamous - rich men have harems and male slaves the rich have the military on their side. Militaries can revolt too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 08:12 AM
1	The future is polygamous - rich men have harems and male slaves 3 billion women and a few thousand billionaires means roughly a million women per billionaire. Most of those women won't ever be seeing a billionaire. There'll still be plenty of prole women for the prole men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 08:00 AM
2	You can't argue for a female hivemind and conformity to the societal expectations and insist that women are just as deviant as men Don't have much to hand at the moment, but this study concluded that 75% of SIDS cases are actually homicides. See also this British study, which actually recorded, covertly, new mothers trying to smother their infants, who then denied doing any such thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/25 10:12 AM
2	You can't argue for a female hivemind and conformity to the societal expectations and insist that women are just as deviant as men Women can’t be just as deviant as men, and crime statistics will tell us that Women are every bit as deviant as men. The crimes they commit either aren't classed as crimes or are just not taken seriously. Baby murder (mostly female perpetrators): gets classified as infanticide and is blamed on SIDS or PPD. Baby abandonment: Perfectly legal when the mother does it. Paternity fraud: 100% legal and 100% female perpetrators. Suing an underage boy for child support after you raped him: 100% legal and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/25 05:26 PM
1	Men are completely delusional about who their "equals" are. I see a lot of dudes on here complain that their perceived female "equal" doesn't want them Friendly reminder that even the pig-woman got matches from men on a dating site. On the other hand, obese average-looking women who will settle for nothing less than a stud are so commonplace it's a cliche at this point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/25 01:44 PM
3	I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions. Just making it clear that when you talk of "free" stuff, it's paid for by the taxation of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/25 12:40 PM
3	I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions. Men also do free labor raising kids, in addition to myriad other unpaid domestic chores. Do you expect someone to pay you for raising your own kids?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/25 12:38 PM
1	Why do women seem to dislike men who like fishing? Yet if he became available tomorrow, smoking hot women would be queuing round the block to date him. It's amazing what being a multimillionaire Hollywood a-lister can do for one's attractiveness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/25 11:24 AM
6	I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions. Men, as a whole, pay more tax into the system than they receive in benefits. Women, as a whole, receive more from the system in benefits than they contribute in tax. British women pay 60% less tax than men See also this graph showing the net fiscal contribution of men and women in New Zealand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 07:08 PM
2	What ways do you condone women using to choose better? Choose better means stop putting tingles over more practical considerations. Not dating (or screwing) criminals, deadbeats or men with a history of violence would help a lot. using groups like "Are We Dating The Same Guy," which is intended to get information and experience This is nothing to do with choosing men. It's a vehicle for pursuing personal vendettas against men, doxxing and sharing personal details, and defaming them without proof. There is a reason why many of these groups are now be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 05:26 PM
1	Modern relationships don’t fail because of one gender, both have lost their sense of duty Or that feminists are a group of rabid man haters. That isn't what feminism is. For a movement that supposedly doesn't hate men, it sure does attract a lot of man-hating sociopaths. "The proportion of men must be reduced to and maintained at approximately 10% of the human race" -- Sally Miller Gearhart Feminism is just Marxism with gender warfare substituted for class. It exists to sow discord between men and women, and more generally to promote hatred of men. The idea that feminism could have a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 02:44 PM
15	We should start sexualizing men Anyone who thinks women don't already sexualize men and boys just can't have been around many women. I couldn't even tell you how many lewd comments I've heard from drunken women over the years. There are plenty of women who have very little respect for male boundaries and think nothing of grabbing and groping men they find hot. I've also heard women make comments about underage boys that would get a man arrested if he said them. A few years back the feminist icon Germaine Greer even released a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 09:51 AM
6	I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions. So women are much more financially minded and looking for someone else for security to provide the things other nations provide for free. No social safety net is free, it's paid for primarily by the taxation of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 06:46 AM
4	Most people, regardless of political affiliation, believe men who date trans women are gay or bisexual. And "pregnant people". The phrase makes my teeth itch.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 03:31 PM
0	Most people, regardless of political affiliation, believe men who date trans women are gay or bisexual. Why can't people just be open with their true opinions on certain topics. You either think trans women are women or they are not. Because there are elements in the trans movement who are extremely hostile (sometimes violently so) to anyone who questions the basic tenets of their ideology. People decide it's safer to stay quiet and play along. From a different perspective, I know a couple of gay dudes who, unequivocally, would not date a transman, because they don't match their genital or physica…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 03:25 PM
5	No women should be excited to get married in 2025 "Women are still doing the lion’s share of housework years into their relationships, revealing an uneven gender divide that continues to linger, according to new University of Alberta research." It's almost always the case that these studies play fast and loose with the definition of "housework", like classifying typically male domestic chores like mowing the lawn, putting up shelves, mending the roof or servicing the car as "hobbies". I also can't say I've ever encountered any women in the 21st…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 10:56 AM
1	Why do women ghost a man during regular, amicable conversation after both parties have shown interest? Why does anyone ghost? Maybe she got a better offer, maybe she was never interested anyway, maybe she got bored, maybe her phone broke, or maybe she's dead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 10:29 AM
–	Men being single isn't a problem to be solved It's funny how whenever an issue affects women, it's society's problem that we all have to fix urgently, typically requiring special programs, govt departments and millions of taxpayer dollars. But when men have a problem, the response is "get over it"/"deal with it yourself"/"that's not even a problem".	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 02:26 PM
4	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Who gets #KillAllMen and #MenArePigs trending on Twitter? Misogynist subs get banned. Misandrist subs are still alive and well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/25 09:14 PM
2	Women are not sharing men. Men are sharing women. Say there are 300 men and 100 women on Tinder. Considering women who use online dating typically rate 80-90% of men as unattractive, that leaves no more than 60 men for the 100 women. The pool of men doubtless shrinks further once things like height and career are taken into account. Ergo, the women are sharing the small number of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/25 08:03 PM
2	Wife goggles can definitely exist for some men I've been seeing comments on Instagram telling women to avoid marriage because supposedly all men hate their wife gaining weight. It depends on the circumstances. A baby pouch after pregnancy isn't a big deal. Putting on 100lbs is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/25 07:33 PM
2	Q4Men: an average or below average looking woman matched with you on tinder. She messages you that she is trying to escape an abusive boyfriend and wants to crash with you in exchange for sex. What do you do? I'd never let a random woman I met online into my house. For a start, why not just go to a DV shelter? Moreover, she could refuse to leave, accuse you of abuse and get you arrested, let her pals in to rob you, or her psycho husband might show up and beat the crap out of you. No sex is worth that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/25 06:54 AM
0	Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women The laws that are used to deny women their own stuff were lobbied for by women, to deny men their own stuff, from golf clubs and bars to gyms and colleges. Even male gay clubs have been ordered to let women in. So forgive me if I'm not very sympathetic that women can't have their own ubers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/25 11:53 PM
0	Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women sued and shut it down What women have been doing to men's groups for over half a century. You reap what you sow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/25 06:46 PM
1	Father’s Age and Fitness Linked to Placental Health and Pregnancy Risks The mother's age is a far bigger factor in fetal development than the father's age. That's simply the reality. Were it not the case, then folks who really hate that reality wouldn't have to rely on disingenuous and misleading 'research' like the links above.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/25 06:01 PM
3	Q4Men: how would you feel if your wife made these typically “male” comments/ posts online? During the pandemic, an award-winning feminist writer Clementine Ford famously said that "the coronavirus isn't killing men fast enough". I hope collective memory preserves this fact long enough for her son to see it when he's sufficiently grown up. The feminist writer Julie Burchill once wrote a piece for the Guardian mocking young men who commit suicide ("That young men succeed in suicide more often than girls isn't really the point. Indeed, the more callous among us would say that it was quit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 12:53 PM
2	There is a double standard where it's socially acceptable for women to be rude and controlling with their male partners. The issue here is female double standards. Do you believe women respect male bodily autonomy? You can see any vasectomy discussion on here for how it goes when she wants him to get a vasectomy and he does not. Heck, American women routinely deprive their sons of their right to bodily integrity at birth but I guess that doesn't count either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 10:33 AM
2	There is a double standard where it's socially acceptable for women to be rude and controlling with their male partners. I mentioned women's lack of respect for male bodily autonomy and you never addressed this, you just deflected by talking about abortion. I just responded in kind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/25 11:31 PM
0	There is a double standard where it's socially acceptable for women to be rude and controlling with their male partners. In how many states are men allowed to opt out of parental obligations after conception?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/25 10:58 PM
5	There is a double standard where it's socially acceptable for women to be rude and controlling with their male partners. "My body, my choice" also only applies to women. You can observe how much respect women have for a man's bodily autonomy when she wants him to get a vasectomy and he does not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/25 07:21 PM
-1	There is a double standard where it's socially acceptable for women to be rude and controlling with their male partners. Until woman commit or celebrate violence against men It’s not nearly the same thing r/femalesexpredatornews	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/25 07:04 PM
1	Why do you like "bro" spaces? Men need space away from women's drama. Women change the dynamic of any group, they just do. Guys start competing for their attention. And you can't speak as freely, knowing that anything you say will probably be repeated to everyone they know. There is also the fact that guys hang out to do stuff women generally don't like, like drinking beer, playing video games and watching sports.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 10:01 AM
11	Why do you like "bro" spaces? Do you think women have women-only spaces? There are no women only jails, there are no women-only gyms, women-only sports, women-only apps, because they have also been infiltrated by trans women. Whether you agree with it or not, those spaces are not women only. You reap what you sow. Women, especially feminists, systematically destroyed any and every formerly all male space: bars, gyms, golf clubs, colleges, hobby groups, even the boy scouts had to let girls in. It wasn't really because hordes …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 09:46 AM
3	CMV: Hiding money and assets in a divorce should be illegal It already is illegal in many places and courts will usually take a dim view of anyone who tries it. It also isn't something exclusive to men. See this woman who divorced her husband after she secretly won the lottery and didn't disclose it during the divorce hearing. In the end the judge awarded the entire sum to her ex-husband. The best way to protect your assets is just not to marry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 11:55 PM
1	How should child support work? Rebuttable 50/50 custody should be the default, unless one party specifically opts out, and child support should be linked to visitation rights. No more fleecing him while refusing to even let him see his kid. Child support amounts should by capped at what it reasonably costs to financially support a child. In no universe does it cost $2000 per month to raise a 2-year-old. The amount of money the non-custodial parent spends on the kid should be taken into account. The recipient parent should be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 06:06 PM
2	How should child support work? There are plenty of women who dodge childrearing responsibilities. But when they do it, with or without the father's permission, it's perfectly legal and nobody calls them a deadbeat. The courts protect women even when she is in the wrong. She can rape an underage boy and he will have to pay. She can lie about who the father of her kid is and the poor sap she suckered will still have to pay. She can forge her ex's signature at a fertility clinic and he will have to pay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 03:26 PM
1	The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western Countries He’s non religious, a convicted felon who doesn’t respect women, a moral failure The votes of women twice put Hillary's sleazy, lying, sex pest husband in the White House, so it's no longer even a novelty by this point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 02:59 PM
2	The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western Countries Feminists themselves can't even define what the patriarchy is, or was. It's an ever-shifting goalpost depending on what is currently being argued. It's apparently even the patriarchy's fault that millions of women chose to vote for Trump instead of the giggling idiot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 02:56 PM
1	You cant claim “Men take responsibility more” in a sub where men cant be blamed for anything. when they choose a bad baby mama. Men don't choose their baby mama. Baby mama chooses the man. For some reason, many folks on here prefer to blame the man who got chosen rather than the woman who chose him, even though she had full control over that decision. Cant blame men when they ruin their relationship for assuming their baby mama is a lying whore for no reason. If women didn't trick men into raising someone else's bastard (and also if the state didn't protect the women who do it), this wou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 12:41 AM
18	What do you mean you can’t be vulnerable?? This is never something I, nor any of my friends, would ever do, and didn’t even think this was an avenue during arguments. Women will often vehemently deny that they do this, and yet whenever the question what happened when you opened up to your wife/girlfriend? has been asked here and on subs like r/askmen, the most common answers are: "she lost respect for me", "she used it against me", and "she left me".	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 12:14 AM
2	Perhaps women no longer being attractive to men as they get older is a good thing. Which doctors go around warning women their husbands will leave them? The source of your claim is the discredited study listed above. Feel free to list any others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 10:54 PM
2	Perhaps women no longer being attractive to men as they get older is a good thing. except when the wife is sick, then a lot of husbands leave The study which claimed that has been debunked and its own authors disowned it. Essentially, every couple who left the study were recorded as husband leaving the wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 07:10 PM
4	CMV: Males avoiding women at work are sexist Males gotta protect themselves, and to hell with any females whose feelings get hurt as a result. If you have a problem with that, then take it up with the feminists who brought us here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 05:35 PM
3	Q4Men: what does a society that prioritizes men do? A legal code to punish wrongdoing and provide redress for victims is not the same as the modern conception of rights, which only came about at the end of the 18th century with Paine's Rights of Man, the American revolution and the French revolution, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 04:22 PM
2	Q4Men: what does a society that prioritizes men do? Men are net contributors to the system via taxation. Women are net receivers from the system.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 04:09 PM
4	Q4Men: what does a society that prioritizes men do? The concept of "rights" was not even a thing until the end of the 18th century. Before that, nobody had them, and certainly not men. In any case, most of the things you listed above were determined by wealth rather than gender. unless specified, women fell under “dad’s problem” or “husband’s responsibility” or even “only with eldest son’s consent” A husband was also responsible for paying his wife's debts, and could be imprisoned for a crime she committed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 09:56 PM
1	Q4Men: what does a society that prioritizes men do? Specific Govt depts to address men's issues with more support, attention and higher rates of funding than those for women's issues. Most college scholarships to go to boys. Enforced female quotas in any jobs that involve digging, shoveling, heights, lifting heavy things, getting covered in crap and working outdoors in all weathers. Incarcerates fewer men and more women. Punishes the perpetrators of paternity fraud like with any other fraud and compensates the victims. Abolishes the male only dra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 09:48 PM
3	Q4Men: what does a society that prioritizes men do? When education, voting, bank accounts, lines of credit, medical decisions, jobs, houses, legal autonomy and property are only allowed for one gender, that gender is prioritized You are aware that throughout history most men did not have access to those things either (while some women did)?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 09:36 PM
–	It's bad to reduce men to statistics. Should women who make false rape allegations be punished?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 03:29 PM
–	It's bad to reduce men to statistics. So why are women's interests more important than men's? If women are less likely to report rapes or be believed as a result of false allegations, then the fault lies with women who make false allegations, not the men who are victims of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 03:04 PM
29	The empathy gap is real: A photo of an enslaved woman in Libya rocks Reddit When something affects women, it's society's problem. When something affects men, they get told to deal with it themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 12:24 PM
–	The empathy gap is real: A photo of an enslaved woman in Libya rocks Reddit There was also that TV show The Talk, when Sharon Osbourne and a bunch of other women were in hysterics over a man who was castrated by his wife for the crime of wanting a divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 12:21 PM
–	Subtle misandry is rampant in feminism and it really does contribute to gender divide. If you own slaves, or even just have the right to own them, then you are not oppressed. In the 19th century, women could open bank accounts and even owned banks. Voting rights were determined by property ownership rather than gender, hence most men could also not vote, while some property-owning women could.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 05:56 PM
–	Subtle misandry is rampant in feminism and it really does contribute to gender divide. Feminism has always been about obtaining and protecting female privileges, as well as being a home for man hating sociopaths.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 04:33 PM
2	What's wrong with taking care of your kid? Men can't do any of them without the mother's consent. Women can without the father's consent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 01:09 PM
5	Downplaying men fear of false allegations, make women fear of men is inconsistent. He doesn't refuse to communicate with women, he just won't be in a room alone with a woman. In the era of "believe all women", irrespective of evidence or plausibility, it makes absolute sense for a prominent man to protect himself from false allegations. If you have a problem with that, then blame the feminists who brought us here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 12:54 PM
2	What's wrong with taking care of your kid? Child abandonment is a felony, at least in my state. I said legal abandonment. Most states have Baby Moses laws where women can leave their newborns at a fire station or similar. Fucking off and letting the other parent do everything does not ensure the child is cared for. But fucking off and leaving an adoption agency to find someone else to take care of your kid is okay? And you can't put a child up for adoption if the other parent disagrees and wishes to take custody of the kid. Women can and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/25 12:12 AM
-1	What's wrong with taking care of your kid? I see a common sentiment here getting upset that men who do not take care of their kids or pay child support are deadbeat dads. Why should I be obliged to support a child someone else decided to have? Invariably, the same people who rage about "deadbeat dads" are perfectly happy with a woman aborting, adopting or legally abandoning her own flesh and blood for any reason she likes, and nobody calls them deadbeats for doing so. Why can't a man do the same?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 06:57 PM
–	Many women want to be liberated feminists and trad conservatives at the same time A lot of women these days like to cherry-pick the most beneficial parts of traditional social norms and modern feminism to gain optimal advantage. This is nothing new. The purpose of feminism from the outset has been to secure and protect female advantages under the guise of equality whilst shielding women from any negative aspects of equality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/24 01:59 PM
1	How have women evolved with hypergamous selection if they haven’t had a choice in their mate until modern era? However, until very recently, they had no choice in who they mated with. Rape has been a punishable crime for millennia. Forced marriages have been illegal in Christendom at least since the Codex Justinianus of the 6th century. There have also always been a sizeable number of women who chose not to mate with anyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/24 12:40 AM
2	Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers. I also tell them biology doesn't matter, so stop whining and carry on raising the kid you have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/24 12:26 AM
1	Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers. 4% is not very very very low. Would you fly on a plane if there was a 1 in 25 chance it would crash?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/24 12:21 AM
1	Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers. When there is an estimated 3.7% incidence of paternity fraud where paternity confidence is relatively high, such cases are definitely not unique.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 09:23 PM
2	Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers. I tell that to women who discover there was a baby switch at the hospital.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 09:20 PM
1	Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers. You mean between "suck it up and pay" and "suck it up and pay"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 09:19 PM
1	Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers. No, they don't. If you can prove the child isn't yours, you don't pay child support. https://www.chron.com/news/houston-texas/article/Houston-man-must-pay-child-support-for-kid-that-s-11305261.php This guy was actually imprisoned for not paying child support for a kid that wasn't his.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 09:10 PM
1	Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers. In some places, a married man is automatically presumed to be the father of his wife's children, regardless of a DNA test. There is also typically a statute of limitations on challenging paternity, so the man is penalised for trusting his wife/girlfriend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 09:09 PM
7	Male mental health and victim blaming The question "what happened when you opened up to your wife/girlfriend?" gets asked periodically on here and on subs like r/askmen. The answers are invariably: "she used it against me", "she lost respect for me", and "she left me".	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 08:57 PM
13	Male mental health and victim blaming What I read is that men don’t ask for help based on assumptions. They perceive mental health is only for women without entering into the process. This study found that 90% of men who committed suicide had sought some kind of help within the previous three months. Evidently the help they got wasn't very helpful. See also the conclusions of this Australian study of men who did try therapy: The overall dropout rate from therapy was 44.8% (n = 855), of which 26.6% (n = 120) accessed therapy once and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 08:53 PM
7	Q4M: for those males struggling with dating, would you marry Lily Phillips? She gets tested bi weekly Several STIs are incurable whether or not you know you have it, and many are undetectable. Her fans willingly paying her money are victims. Do I have that right? No man with any self-respect would have taken part in her stunt, only the desperate and the lonely. At least one of the guys she screwed lost his virginity to her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 04:13 PM
5	Q4M: for those males struggling with dating, would you marry Lily Phillips? Would I marry a sex worker who is probably riddled with STIs and has a history of exploiting vulnerable men for fame and monetary gain? Not even if I was desperate, and I don't find her particularly attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 03:56 PM
5	Men who don't want to get married, why? As Charlie Sheen said to a judge who expressed surprise that a man like him would have need of prostitutes: "I don't pay them to have sex with me. I pay them to leave afterwards."	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 12:59 AM
4	Men who don't want to get married, why? Here in the USA, men live longer when married. Cause and effect backwards, just like the "married men earn more" line that is often rolled out. Men don't magically live longer because they are married, women just pick fitter and healthier men with a good job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 12:30 AM
1	Q4M: Males like women who stress them out? Just a woman who knows nothing about men pretending to understand men. No, men do not like women who stress them out. Perhaps she thinks otherwise because too many men tolerate stressful women, without considering why they do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 08:27 PM
2	TRP is basically mainstream and most men are waking up to reality, despite women claiming it is still some fringe minority of embittered rejects I don't think Red Pill itself is going mainstream. If you mentioned Red Pill to the average person, they'd probably think you were referring to The Matrix. But some of its tenets are mainstream. See the plummeting marriage rate, and the growing awareness among men that feminism is both hostile and harmful to men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 05:22 PM
6	Men who don't want to get married, why? Men who don’t want to get married, what are your reasons? I have no interest in legally committing myself to someone who can break said contract any time she likes, for any reason she likes, and still be rewarded for it. You don't need to be married to be in a relationship and cohabit with someone, have sex with someone, or have children. There is also the fact that appx 50% of marriages end in divorce, and appx 80% of divorces are initiated by women. Divorce literally doubles a man's suicide ri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 03:44 PM
3	Men who say they don't care She could have a well-paying job and still be a gold digger.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 01:38 AM
–	The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating Do you think the end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and dating? It has made zero difference to men, who have the same reproductive rights after Roe vs Wade as before: none. Maybe if the "pro-choice" crowd were not vehemently anti-choice for men, I could actually take them seriously. My sympathy for arguments women's about bodily autonomy is limited considering men alone are still subject to the military draft, and the torture known as circumcision is still perfectly legal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 10:10 AM
1	It's pure BS that some Feminists make it a big deal when it comes to men trying to interact with women less because of false allegations. Yes, even back then women were making false allegations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 01:25 AM
1	It's pure BS that some Feminists make it a big deal when it comes to men trying to interact with women less because of false allegations. How many examples do you need? Take a look at the Innocence Project. Two-thirds of the men on there were wrongly convicted of sex crimes. Note how many had what is euphemistically called "eyewitness misidentification" as a contributing factor in their conviction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 12:28 AM
1	Expecting the man to pay is abusing outdated gender norms The solution is simply to go for a coffee on a first date. No arguments over who pays, and if it's not going well you have an easy excuse to leave after 10 minutes. If she insists on going to an expensive restaurant, then you dodged a bullet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 12:15 AM
4	Are "Ladies Nights" at bars sexist? Should they be abolished? Reminded me of this Swiss dude who legally changed his gender to female so he could retire and get his pension earlier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 12:09 AM
1	It's pure BS that some Feminists make it a big deal when it comes to men trying to interact with women less because of false allegations. Brian Banks spent six years in prison after a rape allegation his accuser later admitted she made up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 11:58 PM
2	It's pure BS that some Feminists make it a big deal when it comes to men trying to interact with women less because of false allegations. False allegations aren’t really an issue or something to fear when you’re not a rapist. Tell that to this guy, or this guy or this guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 11:51 PM
25	Changing the genders in the stories gives you different answers from women See any vasectomy discussion for this in action. When a woman wants an abortion/refuses an abortion, it's her body, her choice and don't you dare question it, you misogynist pig. But when a man refuses to get a vasectomy when she wants him to get one? Observe how little respect there is for male bodily autonomy as the commenters dogpile him for being a selfish asshole. Anyone who actually defends his right to bodily autonomy without caveats like it's your choice, but... will be heavily downvoted…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 02:51 PM
2	Many men are fine with “misandrist” stereotypes as long as it targeted towards men they view as an out group. It's nothing to do with misandrist stereotypes, some folks are just opposed to damaging and unsustainable levels of migration from Third World nations (male or female). If I recall, there was also quite a bit of female angst at the prospect of large numbers of young and attractive non-feminist women showing up in their country and providing them with competition for the men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 02:18 AM
–	Can you honestly claim modern feminism is about equality, or is it just about power? Feminism is not, and never was, about equality. It's been a man hating-cult from the beginning, and its purpose is to obtain and protect female privileges.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/24 10:28 AM
3	Men treat men worse than women do Men don't open up to women because they know from experience that she will lose respect for him, use it against him, or leave him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/24 09:49 AM
–	Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to women He also has to know that she is giving the kid up and where she is doing the adoption. There is an additional motive for her to not tell him, because she would be liable to pay child support if he gained custody (and the agency would almost certainly tell her this just to nudge things along). And she can still just show up at a fire station, refuse to give her name, and there's nothing he can do about it. It's very inaccurate to imply there is any kind of equality here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 10:30 AM
–	Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to women When a woman wants to abort or legally abandon/adopt the kid to avoid the obligations of parenthood it's a sacrosanct human right, but when the guy wants to do the same he's deadbeat. The ability of individuals who calls themselves "pro-choice" to become vehemently anti-choice as soon as someone suggests the man should have a choice too (and unironically borrow pro-life rebuttals) is why I can't take their movement seriously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 01:00 AM
–	Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to women Once a child is born, men and women have equal obligations to the person whom they caused to exist without that person’s consent. One person decides whether or not that child will exist. That is not equality. As stated above, once the kid is born, women have additional options to avoid the obligations of parenthood, while men can have it imposed on them against their wishes. That is not equality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 11:09 PM
–	Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to women A woman alone decides whether sex results in a child being born. Why should he be legally and financially responsible for her decision? Once the kid is born, she has a further avenue to avoid her parental responsibilities by abandoning the kid at a fire station or giving it up for adoption. Despite what is often claimed here, she can in practice do either without the father's knowledge or permission.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 11:00 PM
–	Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to women This presupposes he knows she is putting the kid up for adoption. She can just say she doesn't know who the father is and they won't quibble. If she uses Baby Moses laws she doesn't even have to give her name.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 10:49 PM
–	Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to women I don't know a single dead beat dad who's actually in jail A few years back, 1 in 8 incarcerated men in South Carolina was in prison for not paying child support.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 10:48 PM
–	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD He cooks, cleans and pays the bills and she's pissed because he has a hobby she doesn't like?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 08:37 PM
–	Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalism Why is supporting your own flesh and blood such a hard concept for you to understand? If you're okay with the mother aborting her own flesh and blood or abandoning her own flesh and blood at a fire station, the sudden concern for its wellbeing rings a tad hollow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 07:52 PM
–	Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalism You still haven't addressed why he should pay for a decision she alone made?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 04:05 PM
–	Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalism She made the choice to let him dump a load inside her. And then made the unilateral choice to carry the baby to term. Her choice, her responsibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 03:57 PM
–	Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalism Unenforceable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 03:22 PM
–	Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalism Your solution is literally worthless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 03:19 PM
–	Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalism They agree in advance, but she changes her mind (or just lied). What happens next?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 02:52 PM
–	Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalism Then stop whining about abortion rights.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 02:28 PM
–	Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalism Then women's choice ends when they decide to let a man deposit his sperm in them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 02:08 PM
–	Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalism The fairest solution is for both parties to get an opt out after conception. But too many women want to have their cake and eat it on this issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 12:56 PM
–	Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalism What's unreasonable about objecting to paying for a choice someone made?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 12:52 PM
–	Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalism Welcome to equality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 12:21 PM
–	Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalism As soon as any state doesn't force men to support children they didn't father, or extract child support from men who were tricked, coerced or sexually assaulted into fathering children, then I'll support women's abortion rights.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 12:20 PM
–	Without paper abortions there is no equality. Especially under capitalism Then the same applies to women. Don't have unprotected sex and you won't need an abortion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 12:16 PM
1	Feminists fearing and resenting men they never met is called sexism (II) Because they didn't want the state to pay, or because the only options they were given was "the woman does it alone" or "the two pay?" Single motherhood en masse is only possible if men are made to subsidise it at gunpoint. That's why feminists pushed for strict child support laws. Do you think male rape victims should pay child support? Should men be forced to support children they didn't father? No, but it does skew the statistics when things aren't reported. Unless you have any evidence to su…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 10:12 AM
1	Feminists fearing and resenting men they never met is called sexism (II) Oh? Which feminists and women's groups lobbied against the state assisting in paying for children? They lobbied for men to pay no matter what the circumstances. Potentially, but I would imagine it would be way harder to report abuse by male guards/male prisoners Men to blame for high reported level of female abuse From the BJS surveys of male prisoners, mandated by the Prison Rape Elimination Act. In male prisons, a majority of staff-perpetrated sexual abuse is by female staff In juvenile facili…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 01:16 AM
1	Feminists fearing and resenting men they never met is called sexism (II) It is a case of rich men taking advantage of poor men, because the state doesn't want to pay for a child if they can make someone else do it. If the state doesn't make the man pay, the state will be required to assist the woman. The state is enforcing child support laws lobbied for by feminists and women's groups. Her body, her choice for women, but for men it's you play, you pay, even if you got raped. meaning women are primarily a threat to boys, not men. A lot of sexual abuse of male prisoner…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 01:01 AM
0	What would actually make a positive change for you men? If it is upbringing, then why does every country on the planet have higher male than female suicide rates? Are they all raising boys in a way that makes them uniquely vulnerable to suicide? This issue is not men not asking for help so much as knowing they won't get it. The biggest risk factors for male suicide are unemployment and financial troubles, divorce, and legal issues. Not the kind of stuff that can be helped by going to therapy. There is also a high rate of suicide among military vetera…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 12:07 AM
1	What would actually make a positive change for you men? Because there is currently and epidemic of male suicide, and a discomfort (believed to stem from the way men are raised) with asking for help. This is just lazy victim-blaming. Eight times more divorced men than divorced women commit suicide. In other words, a man's suicide risk relative to women literally doubles after divorce. That's nothing to do with upbringing. Moreover, according to a recent British study, 90% of men who committed suicide had sought help in the previous three months. Why d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 07:25 PM
1	The Lily Phillips situation proves AWALT is just confirmation bias and gender flipped “Yes All Men”. Not sour at all. She already said she caught an STI.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/24 09:22 AM
–	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD What if the tape shows him being pegged by a man? That's the real female ick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/24 04:23 PM
10	The Lily Phillips situation proves AWALT is just confirmation bias and gender flipped “Yes All Men”. I don't give a shit who she slept with. She's an adult making her own choices, and she can deal with the consequences of those choices, starting with gonorrhea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/24 02:05 PM
1	Do you think a younger woman is entitled to leave an older man she's been dating after he's spent? You can be judged or criticized for anything, so I don't really see what the issue is here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/24 12:48 AM
0	Do you think a younger woman is entitled to leave an older man she's been dating after he's spent? You are entitled to leave someone whenever you like and for whatever reason you like. She can trade him in for a 35-year-old, and he can trade her in for an 18-year-old.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 07:30 PM
1	Telling women that they’re not entitled to protection or human decency shows a sense of entitlement. Depends on what you mean by protection. You're not entitled to me risking a bullet or a knife to save you just because you were born with a vagina. At best, I'd call the cops if it was safe to do so. If I see a woman I'm related to in trouble, then of course I'd steam in to help them. Anyone else, you're on your own, sister. Maybe a bear will come and help you. I recall there was a feminist who got mugged on the subway and then wrote a blog post whining that the straight white men she hates so m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 04:42 PM
1	Telling women that they’re not entitled to protection or human decency shows a sense of entitlement. The result is stuff like this: men refusing to perform CPR on women because they don't want to be accused of sexual assault. You can't demonise men as rapists and predators and then complain when they don't rush to your aid when you're in trouble.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 04:33 PM
1	Why Do Men's Issues Often Get Overlooked Friendly reminder that the Suffragettes were terrorists who sent letters bombs to people, planted bombs on trains and in public streets and set fire to public buildings. They killed at least 4 people and wounded several dozen. Stop romanticizing them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 11:44 PM
2	Q4M- Hypothetical- your child's friends parent is accused of in appropriately touching another child but doesn't get convicted, what do you do? It's a leading question designed to get a particular answer, and deliberately uses alleged child abuse (rather than adult on adult abuse) to ensure a more emotive response: This guy's an accused child molester. Do you let your kid stay at his house?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 10:12 AM
4	How many of you would be prepared if a draft was called up? Do you regard women as physically on a par with disabled men? How much fitness and physical strength does one need to fire a rifle or pilot a fighter jet?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 09:18 AM
8	How many of you would be prepared if a draft was called up? Perhaps if women had skin in the game (ie eligibility for the military draft), they'd think more carefully before electing politicians who start wars which only men are compelled to fight in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 09:08 AM
0	Q4M- Hypothetical- your child's friends parent is accused of in appropriately touching another child but doesn't get convicted, what do you do? While the question is clearly a trap to try and paint men as hypocrites over false rape allegations, the OP has inadvertently highlighted how destructive false allegations can be, especially to men. A mere allegation, unproven in court, and everyone is treating him like a convicted sex offender. It's why false allegations should be punished with the same severity as the alleged crime. The answer is C. I wouldn't let my kid stay with any unrelated adult unless I'd met that person and they'd convi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 10:10 PM
1	How many of you would be prepared if a draft was called up? My willingness to go would depend on the war. If my homeland has been invaded by a foreign enemy, then sure. If it's to prop up a failing proxy war in Eastern Europe or fight insurgents somewhere in the Middle East, then I'm a conchie.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 09:39 PM
3	How come feminsm treats men as having easy cushy lives when they are victims of the patriarchy too? Because feminism is a man-hating cult. The more sociopathic adherents (who are generally the more prominent) openly call for men to be killed. They aren't going to acknowledge male victims.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 06:33 PM
1	Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard? The red pill/manosphere doesn't tell men to force women to lower their standards, it tells men not to lower theirs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 03:18 PM
–	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD Kind of a downer though when an icon of your movement was a sex offender. Feminists should find better heroines.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 02:40 PM
–	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD Just live in a filthy house if washing a few dishes is too much for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 11:30 AM
–	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD Why should you be paid for cleaning your own house and your own mess?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 11:24 AM
–	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD Some men don't realise that feminism was never about "equality", it was an anti-male hate movement from the outset and has remained so ever since.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 11:20 AM
–	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD She sexually abused her students and groomed them for Satre. She and her life partner also defended convicted pedophiles and wanted to abolish the age of consent. Feminist icon indeed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 11:13 AM
1	Lily Philips films the aftermath of her sleeping with 100 men in a single day. It's basically an advertisement to bring back Patriarchy/Religion Nobody tried to stop this woman. Why would they and how could they? Any man who even dared to intervene would be flayed alive. For sure, there are compelling reasons why sleeping with 100 dudes in one day is probably not a good idea, but she is an adult, it's not a crime, and ultimately it's a choice she is free to make. The results, whatever they may be, are hers to deal with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 11:08 PM
4	Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in dating Best not to lie about stuff someone can easily find out some other way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 08:03 PM
1	Only 14 countries have full legal protections for women There's feminist history and then there's actual history. Feminist history: women couldn't get a bank account until 1974. Actual history: Hoare's bank in England had women customers in the 1700s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 10:46 AM
5	Only 14 countries have full legal protections for women I'll hazard a guess that this study took no account of things like: Compulsory military service and which gender is subject to it. Retirement/pension age and which gender gets it at a younger age Male and female life expectancy The number of govt sponsored services and programs specifically for men and women (and their budgets). The gender sentencing gap. The legality and social acceptability of male and female infant genital mutilation	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 10:17 AM
2	Only 14 countries have full legal protections for women Is it still the case that Iranian men have a legal obligation to support their unmarried female relatives?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 09:20 AM
3	Only 14 countries have full legal protections for women How many permit the torture of infant boys known as circumcision? Oh that's right, every single country on earth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 09:09 AM
–	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are The young men of today have mainly been raised by single mothers and mainly taught by female teachers, subjected to an endless tide of "toxic masculinity", patwiarchy and #KillAllMen, in a society which uses "straight white male" as a pejorative. And then they find the Manosphere, which actually acknowledges their issues and gives them practical advice. It's hardly surprising they sign up. It's pretty telling that the few efforts that have been made to actually support young men are not motivate…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 09:42 PM
-2	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 https://www.hrw.org/news/2022/01/19/new-language-requirement-raises-concerns-ukraine Friend, there was a deliberate policy of eradicating the Russian language, which is the mother tongue of about 25% of the prewar population of Ukraine, and lingua franca for a lot of it, from at least 2016. Official communications at airports and train stations were restricted to English and Ukrainian, laws were passed stipulating that print and radio media had to be in Ukrainian etc etc. The city of Lviv even b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 08:38 PM
5	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 the main drivers of war. The men who start wars aren't the ones who get drafted to fight them. Moreover, when female leaders start wars the composition of the army doesn't change. Because the latter does get drafted while the former does not. Disabled men are not very effective in combat. Strong and independent able bodied women, on the other hand, would do just fine. Do you think childless women should be drafted?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 06:53 PM
1	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 The people doing the fighting don't want them there, then imho their opinion on it matters a lot more than what women or men who aren't fighting think. Hiding behind "men don't want it" is extremely disingenuous when women have a long history of 1. opposing the drafting of women, especially into combat roles, and 2. disregarding men's opinions when they are trying to force their way into a formerly male only domain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 06:06 PM
3	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 The world agrees with me, which is why men are subject to the draft and women are not. Men get drafted because men are seen as disposable, otherwise the millions of women who never have children would also be subject to it. Based on your rationale, there's no reason why childless women should not be drafted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 05:59 PM
-3	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 there was no provocation at all. Other than a decade of ethnic cleansing of Ukraine's Russian-speaking population in the Donbass. As Poroshenko put it back in 2014, "our children go to school, theirs are hiding in cellars." The Ukrainian army was about to launch yet another assault on its own citizens when the Russians invaded.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 05:51 PM
6	Are the men here mostly on the younger side and single? You can just date and not marry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 10:42 AM
–	It's bad idea to let your wife be a SAHM.. Drastically speaking men cheat mote than women. Older men are more likely to cheat then older women. Women cheat more in the 18-29 category.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 08:41 PM
12	Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed. I’m willing to bet a vital organ I’ve given women more orgasms than you Don't make bets you wouldn't like to lose. You might be surprised how far knowing the basics of clitoral stimulation and cunnilingus can get you. Going in with the attitude that you know what she wants without even fucking asking her is a great way to crash and burn. But you do you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 02:12 AM
7	Red-Pill needs to put more stock in teaching men how to be good in bed. This is a sledgehammer to crack a walnut. Just learn what a clitoris is (and where it is) and appreciate that most women rather enjoy receiving oral sex. A little effort and it's really not that difficult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 01:53 AM
0	Child support should be an optional contract similar to a prenuptial agreement. On todays episode of "Its so unfair that I can't abandon my own flesh and blood!" If you're okay with women aborting their own flesh and blood or leaving it at a fire station, then this argument is kinda hollow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:00 AM
1	Child support should be an optional contract similar to a prenuptial agreement. Or people who call themselves "pro choice" but become vehemently anti-choice whenever someone says the man should have a choice too. They even shamelessly borrow pro-life arguments.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 09:56 AM
-2	Child support should be an optional contract similar to a prenuptial agreement. what about the much more common cases where the man is a dead beat loser? Because deadbeat women get myriad options to avoid parental obligations even after conception and after birth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 09:56 AM
1	Women had nearly flawless PR until social media which has inadvently led to the Redpill But then social media happened, and it shattered the illusion. Red Pill's emergence was nothing to do with social media. Tom Leykis was saying a lot of this stuff years before anyone had heard of Rollo Tomassi. It's a (natural) response of men to the realities of no fault divorce, dating, biased family courts and the widespread misandry in society generally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 09:41 AM
10	Why do men have this perception that going after financial stability = women finding a man ugly? I don't understand why guys here keep aspiring to be the guy that a woman only wants to sleep with and not commit to. Because men want to be desired, not just used for their resources.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 01:13 AM
10	Mandatory paternity/DNA testing It's real easy to invalidate an issue when you know you won't ever be meaningfully affected by it. Funnily enough, women care a lot when a baby switch happens at a hospital and it's a woman who ends up unwittingly raising the wrong kid. That's why hospitals take footprints and use tags, and why there's a media shitstorm whenever switches happen. Try telling her DNA doesn't matter, so shut up and carry on raising the kid you have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 10:46 PM
9	"Bar for men is on the floor" - Is this a real statement or just a tongue in cheek phrase meant to aggravate men? If women weren't allowed to access banks, how exactly did Nell Gwyn open a bank account in 1686? If women weren't allowed to access banks, how did a woman manage to open her own bank and how were women allowed to open accounts there? Try Googling it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 10:33 PM
1	Mandatory paternity/DNA testing A legally valid paternity DNA test cost around 300 dollars on the cheap end. In many places, the husband is automatically presumed to be the father of his wife's children, irrespective of a DNA test. Most places also have a statute of limitations on challenging paternity, so the poor sap who naively trusted his wife/girlfriend will be on the hook regardless. It shouldn't even have to be stated that men should not be liable to support children they didn't father. If the Government can seize your …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 10:22 PM
4	Mandatory paternity/DNA testing It's a 3.7% incidence where paternity confidence is "relatively high". The % is much higher where paternity fraud is suspected.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 10:09 PM
1	CMV: Women dropping out of the workforce to embrace the "soft life" is dangerous The message that women can choose to do whatever they want with their lives? As opposed to spending the next 40 years working in some shitty job they hate but they can't afford to leave because they need to pay the mortgage? What freedom. Independent women making sovereign decisions about their lives = bad for equality? It's funny how quickly feminists turn on the women who don't do what feminists want them to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 07:05 PM
8	CMV: Women dropping out of the workforce to embrace the "soft life" is dangerous Statistics show that women are far more likely to end up in poverty or severely struggling after divorce than men. Meanwhile, 8x more divorced men than divorced women commit suicide.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 06:53 PM
11	"Bar for men is on the floor" - Is this a real statement or just a tongue in cheek phrase meant to aggravate men? A barbaric and completely unnecessary procedure that has been inflicted on tens of millions of baby boys (and is still perfectly legal in every country in the world) puts an abortion ban in a handful of US states in perspective, no? I wonder how many American women who say 'my body, my choice' had their son circumcised without even thinking twice. Nell Gwyn had her own bank account, in England, in 1686! Sarah Howe opened a women-only bank in 1884 (and then scammed her customers).	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 06:03 PM
4	"Bar for men is on the floor" - Is this a real statement or just a tongue in cheek phrase meant to aggravate men? Women take great pride in the fact that they are more selective and have upped their standards. So they tell us. Then I look at the inordinate number of losers, deadbeats, thugs and criminals who end up with wives, girlfriends and often multiple children with multiple women. Deadbeat dads exist because so many women choose to fuck deadbeats (and have children with them), irrespective of their alleged high standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 04:14 PM
10	"Bar for men is on the floor" - Is this a real statement or just a tongue in cheek phrase meant to aggravate men? Please tell me which medical procedure for men is regulated and refused after a time period A handful of states restrict abortion. Meanwhile every state, indeed every country on earth, permits the torture of infant boys known as circumcision. My body, my choice? Also, Google, when women could hold a bank account or get credit, these were all 40 years Women had bank accounts in the 19th century. Women owned banks in the 19th century.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 01:17 PM
5	CMV: Women dropping out of the workforce to embrace the "soft life" is dangerous WDYT? If she can find some sap willing to pay her bills, and she'd rather spend her days doing yoga and hanging out at Starbucks than a life of a drudgery in a crappy office somewhere, why shouldn't she? It's kinda funny seeing feminists complaining about decisions made by independent women of their own free will, just because they opted for the non-feminist option. But that's nothing new. The feminist icon and sex offender Simone DeBeauvoir wanted women to be prevented from becoming housewives,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 12:27 PM
1	CMV: Women dropping out of the workforce to embrace the "soft life" is dangerous Friendly reminder that men do more work, housework and childcare combined than women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 12:12 PM
1	How did or would you react if your partner said he was born without testicles? I had to have a ball removed years ago. No woman I've dated was bothered by it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 11:59 PM
–	Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and Society It does happen to dude, not denying that, but unfortunately it mainly happens from other men. Not true: 82% of male rape victims (or "forced to penetrate") had a female perpetrator. 95% of college men who reported being sexually assaulted said the perpetrator was female. Over half of boys who phoned Childline to report sexual abuse said they were being abused by a woman. Among male prisoners reporting sexual abuse by staff, 67% involved female staff. In juvenile detention centers, 91% of staff s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 11:25 PM
–	Only acceptable response to when asked for paternity test is 'Yes Absolutely' For men? Then for women too. You either have equality or you don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 09:28 PM
–	Only acceptable response to when asked for paternity test is 'Yes Absolutely' So deciding to have sex = agreeing to be a parent?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 09:13 PM
–	Only acceptable response to when asked for paternity test is 'Yes Absolutely' https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/8544783/Woman-had-two-children-after-secretly-taking-ex-husbands-frozen-sperm.html	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 05:19 PM
–	Only acceptable response to when asked for paternity test is 'Yes Absolutely' The same thing that happens when the dad wants the baby and the mom doesn't. It's equal under the law as it should be to both parents. If dad wants the baby and she doesn't, she'll just abort it. Or give birth and just disappear with the kid and drop it off at an adoption agency and say she doesn't know who the father is. It's not equal and you know it. Women have the unilateral right to impose fatherhood on men, or deny them it. Rapists get custody and visitation rights too. Show me the woman w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 12:33 PM
–	Only acceptable response to when asked for paternity test is 'Yes Absolutely' He most certainly can use the safe haven law too. He wants to drop the kid at a safe haven and she doesn't. What do you suppose happens? He fucked her. And she fucked him, so stop complaining about abortion rights. This is why I can't take the pro-choice mob seriously, given how they become vehemently anti-choice whenever someone says the man should have a choice too. They even borrow pro-lifer arguments. Male rape victims shouldn't have to pay support Well, they do. A woman can lie about using …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 11:19 AM
–	Only acceptable response to when asked for paternity test is 'Yes Absolutely' Vasectomies can fail and condoms can break (or be sabotaged). She can still use emergency contraception, get an abortion, use a safe haven or an adoption agency. He can't do any of that without her approval. Stop expecting men to pay for women's decisions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 10:57 AM
–	Only acceptable response to when asked for paternity test is 'Yes Absolutely' If the Govt can seize your assets and throw you in prison for not paying child support, then the Govt can prove the kid is actually yours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 10:48 AM
–	Only acceptable response to when asked for paternity test is 'Yes Absolutely' Women alone decide whether a child is born. Maybe don't have children with men who are unable or unwilling to support them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 10:44 AM
1	What screams wife material to you? I don't do marriage, but relationship material? Good with money (no debts and regular spending splurges), kind and good natured, enjoys sex, emotionally stable, not lazy, not a feminist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 09:45 AM
1	Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says. Stop brushing them off. Grow up & take initiative and stop asking your wife-manager for a to do list. Or just don't nag and pick fights over simple jobs she could easily do herself. Especially when the mess she's moaning about is 90% of her own making (somehow my place magically became much tidier when I was between girlfriends...). It's not really about emptying the dishwasher, it's a flex, to make him do what she wants him to do, when she wants him to do it (like in the middle of the game). I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 10:55 PM
1	Why does the redpill advocate men not get married but berate and mock women who also choose not to marry or have children? Choosing to have sex is not consenting to parenthood, unless you're against abortions too? A woman alone decides whether a man becomes a father. women are raped by some men, then get pregnant. So that is forced motherhood A woman who is raped still has myriad options to avoid becoming a parent. A man has none.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 11:14 AM
1	Would you date a broke woman? No, I want an adult, not a dependent. I don't really care what job she does or if she makes less than me, provided she contributes her fair share. Being debt ridden and unable to control her spending habits are major red flags.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 01:46 PM
2	Why does the redpill advocate men not get married but berate and mock women who also choose not to marry or have children? Let's not act like men have no agency when it comes to reproducing children. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Forced_fatherhood	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 01:37 PM
1	Why does the redpill advocate men not get married but berate and mock women who also choose not to marry or have children? Do RedPill even care about women who choose not to marry or have kids? Mockery is usually stuff like r/whereareallthegoodmen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 10:53 PM
1	If you are a smart, hard-working, and kind man, that didn't receive much attention or support from women growing up, you should start a business to protect yourself from exploitative women There are no laws that say women get alimony and child support and men do not. There is no law which states women should receive more lenient punishments than men for everything from murder down to petty theft, and yet it's a matter of record that they do. The written law and how it is interpreted and enforced are often two different things. Hence, 90% of alimony and child support is still paid by men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 10:34 PM
4	Do you have ideas for policies that will address mens' issues? Feel free to read the fine print on those surveys and prove me wrong. Incidentally, the same study found that men do more work, housework and childcare combined than women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 06:15 PM
3	Do you have ideas for policies that will address mens' issues? I can guarantee that any survey which found this is playing fast and loose with the definitions of work and leisure activities, ie men fixing the car is a hobby while women crocheting is work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 05:58 PM
6	Do you have ideas for policies that will address mens' issues? Re-establish male only spaces. The response will be, "why don't men just create them?" but they do already and that's not enough. Their right of men to have their own space away from women should be protected by law, because women, especially members of the man-hating cult, have a nasty habit of showing up at men-only groups and events and disrupting them, forcing them to admit women, or getting them deprived of funding or closed down. Make joint parental custody the default, unless one party vo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 03:53 PM
2	Men have to vote as a block because they can't rely on generosity of feminists. No one has been drafted in 50 years. In 1939 people said "there hasn't been a war in 21 years..." Incidentally, the maximum penalty for failing to register for Selective Service is five years imprisonment and a $250,000 fine, plus ineligibility for certain federal jobs and student loans. Women would be wailing to high heaven if they had to enlist and men didn't. then get out there and campaign against it damn. In 2019, the National Coalition for Men took the case to the Supreme Court, who ducked…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 02:29 PM
1	If you are a smart, hard-working, and kind man, that didn't receive much attention or support from women growing up, you should start a business to protect yourself from exploitative women “When looking for a life partner, my advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 01:52 PM
1	What’s a good way to bridge the gap between men and women? The easiest way to handle it I think is just to agree that men need man spaces to talk to other men, and women need women spaces to talk to other women, Agreement isn't enough. Single sex spaces need to be backed up by legislation, because too many women, especially adherents of the man-hating cult, feel they are entitled to be in any and every all-male space, whether it's a club, bar, hobby group, gym etc, and will either get it banned or force their way in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 01:01 AM
1	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD The Burt Reynolds version was better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 12:35 AM
1	I choose the bear. As a man myself I know what men are capable of. Debate me It's a hypothetical. You are locked in a room with a random bear or a random man. No weapons allowed. Which room are you taking?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 10:02 PM
5	CMV: Husbands should not feel entitled to touch their wives My girlfriend regularly touches me without seeking my explicit written consent in advance. I assumed this was just what couples do, but it turns out it's sexual assault. Who knew?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 01:38 AM
3	When Will Start Recognizing Womens Sexual Abuse I have NEVER heard or seen a woman dismissing sexual abuse against male minor "Women don't do that sort of thing", "a woman can't rape a man/boy", "he must have manipulated her", "it's not as bad as when men do it". A few years back elderly feminist icon Germaine Greer released a book fetishizing pubescent boys. The cover featured a picture of a shirtless 15 year old boy, which was used against his wishes. Courtesy of Wikipedia: She continues by saying that the ideally attractive boy must be "ol…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 01:20 AM
19	CMV: Why are males more likely to stay in miserable marriages? Because the alternative is leaving your home (which you'll continue to pay the mortgage on), paying spousal and child support, and seeing your kids once a week if you're lucky enough to have an ex who doesn't falsely accuse you of abuse out of spite. There is a reason why eight times more divorced men than divorced women commit suicide.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 12:42 AM
1	Would you be opposed to a public "Cheaters List"? It works the other way too, as things that really ought to be illegal have slipped through the net. Bestiality is still legal in West Virginia and it was only recently criminalized in a few other states, including Washington following the infamous Enumclaw horse sex case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 09:40 PM
1	You are not oppressed for being a woman, or a victim Just like poor people vote against their interests. More accurately, they vote against what other people perceive to be their interests. Just like women do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 07:40 PM
1	You are not oppressed for being a woman, or a victim Women are a majority of voters. They elected the people who passed those laws. The Alabama governor who signed the bill was a woman. She had the option to veto it. The bills in Texas and Alabama were authored or sponsored by women legislators. Are women oppressing women? Men in every state are already forced to support to children they were deceived, trapped or sexually assaulted into fathering. Men are forced to support children who aren't even theirs. The stock response to this, from women, wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 07:04 PM
1	You are not oppressed for being a woman, or a victim Women live longer than men because females live longer than males. The difference in male and female life expectancy before the advent of modern medicine and healthcare was negligible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 06:53 PM
3	You are not oppressed for being a woman, or a victim Underage boys who were raped by adult women have to pay child support if she gets pregnant. Name me the woman who has been raped, denied emergency contraception, denied an abortion, denied the use of a safe haven, denied an adoption, lost custody to the rapist and been forced to pay child support to the rapist. I'll wait.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 05:57 PM
5	You are not oppressed for being a woman, or a victim cold, systematic obliteration of their rights and bodies. Little boys in the United States are denied this right at birth when the torture known as circumcision is inflicted on them, often by the same women who rage about "my body, my choice". My sympathy for the reduction of female reproductive rights is limited considering men don't have them anyway. The United States makes male rape victims pay child support, the result of a system lobbied for by women. Doesn't matter if she lied about using …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 05:53 PM
2	You are not oppressed for being a woman, or a victim Voted in by the female-majority electorate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 05:33 PM
22	The 4B movement is just female MGTOW. You see utterly vile stuff on toxic misandrist subs like r/TwoXChromosomes and r/FemaleDatingStrategy and both are still here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 02:57 PM
0	Red pill men want tradwives but not gold diggers? Alimony is temporary and awarded in 10% of divorce cases so youre fear mongering. That doesn't mean the other 90% of divorces didn't result in one spouse paying off the other. It just means they settled before it got to court. Some places do still have lifetime alimony, by the way. Florida only recently abolished it, to much howling from women's groups. In any case, child support is just alimony by another name.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 12:51 PM
1	Why does therapy fail men on a large scale and what alternatives are there? Therapy is female-dominated and primarily for women. While there are exceptions, it generally doesn't help men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 10:11 PM
2	Red pill men want tradwives but not gold diggers? RP and the Manosphere don't want trad wives. RP and the Manosphere don't want any wives and generally recommend that given marriage has few if any tangible benefits for men, they shouldn't get married at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 07:20 PM
2	Red pill men want tradwives but not gold diggers? How? Can't get divorced and double your suicide risk if you don't marry at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 06:54 PM
3	Red pill men want tradwives but not gold diggers? Married men are happier, live longer and are more likely to be promoted and earn more. You get married and there's a 50/50 chance you'll get divorced. 80% of divorces are initiated by the woman. A man's suicide risk doubles after divorce, while it stays the same for women. So there's that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 06:48 PM
3	CMV: Dating as a cishet woman can be exhausting While she was on those FOUR dates some dude sent 100 messages on a dating site and didn't get a single response.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/24 11:33 PM
-3	Women with at least one son: Did having a son make you more sympathetic to men's issues and more disturbed by the prevalence of mainstream open misandry? So mom makes the decision but it's still dad's fault?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/24 07:27 PM
-2	Women with at least one son: Did having a son make you more sympathetic to men's issues and more disturbed by the prevalence of mainstream open misandry? Given the high level of single motherhood and absentee fathers, a lot of moms are clearly making the decision. You'll find women on this very sub defending the practice. Moreover, studies such as this found the mother's decision was final in a majority of cases.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/24 07:06 PM
-3	Women with at least one son: Did having a son make you more sympathetic to men's issues and more disturbed by the prevalence of mainstream open misandry? If she's American, probably the first thing she did after her son was born was subject him to genital mutilation. So probably not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/24 06:46 PM
18	What are your thoughts on why men aren’t attending singles events? I’ve read a number of Reddit posts, including a few from this sub, where a number of ladies complain about there being few men attending speed dating events and the women are always frustrated that no men appear. Because these events exist solely to stroke the egos of over-entitled women. No man with any pride or dignity would attend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/24 06:13 PM
2	I choose the bear. As a man myself I know what men are capable of. Debate me It makes perfect sense. Anyone who feels safer amongst bears than men is free to go live with them. When will you be relocating to the forest?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/24 12:29 AM
7	I choose the bear. As a man myself I know what men are capable of. Debate me A bear does not rape, coerce, drug, pressure, blame, black mail, kidnap, or torture their victims. They only defend themselves from danger, and hunt for food. I daresay, while you're being mauled and eaten by an angry grizzly, the thought "at least he won't kidnap me" probably wouldn't be much comfort. The main problem with your thesis is that most people don't interact with a bear on a daily basis. Indeed, most people will live their entire lives without coming face to face with a bear in the w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 12:59 PM
3	I choose the bear. As a man myself I know what men are capable of. Debate me And women who kill are more likely to kill a man than a woman. Women who murder their own children are more likely to kill their son than their daughter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 11:45 AM
3	Feminists call for "vulva diversity" but shame small dicks in mainstream media The Bible explicitly states that circumcision is not required for Christians, so I'm not sure why you would blame the church. After 50 years of female empowerment and given the high level of single motherhood and absent fathers in America, who is making the decision to inflict genital mutilation on their sons if not women, of whom about 2/3rds identify as feminists? On this very sub you'll find women defending it ("it looks better!", "it's cleaner!" etc etc).	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/24 08:10 PM
–	Cheating is better than pornography. The simple solution is for men not to marry. It's beyond lunacy to marry a woman in the hope that she'll continue to have sex with him when she can turn off the tap at any moment she likes and for whatever reason she likes. If you aren't married there's no need to cheat on anyone. Don't want to have sex with me any more? No problem, I'll find someone who does. Goodbye and good luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/24 07:41 PM
5	CMV: Dating is harder for women because we have to judge if the male is safe and can protect She basically says that all the male has to do is demonstrate that he's reliable, trustworthy, dependable, has structure, can plan things, discipline, focus, direction, he can protect and provide. Given that criminal men are more likely to reproduce and have more sexual partners than non-criminal men, women evidently are attracted to qualities other than how safe he is. But the woman has to lean back and observe to make sure the male is safe. Believe it or not, men also value their safety, espec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/24 07:30 PM
6	CMV: Dating is harder for women because we have to judge if the male is safe and can protect I spent a lot of time in gyms and the one thing I hear from every single trained fighter is that if the other guy has a knife, turn around and sprint away. If there's more than one of them, turn around and sprint away. Remember the immortal words of Brave Sir Robin: "when danger reared its ugly head, he bravely turned his tail and fled."	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/24 06:59 PM
22	Feminists call for "vulva diversity" but shame small dicks in mainstream media Feminists don't give a shit about the mutilation of infant boys. I've seen feminists rage about FGM and then admit they had their son circumcised.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/24 01:09 AM
7	Reddit is misandrist to an absurd degree. You're basically putting your comfort and fear of not being a man above her preference to have low risk to both of you, highly effective birth control. Tbh it sounds like you are scared, selfish and your wife is right. Right now, you are being completely selfish about birth control. you won't even do something as minor as a vasectomy for her. Putting your own wants over the needs of your marriage is pretty concerning. You're just being selfish here. You're allowed to have your fears and hesitati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 07:18 PM
0	Reddit is misandrist to an absurd degree. There is no logical explanation for this degree of hatred. Its highly irrational Because both men and women are naturally biased towards women. See also the women are wonderful effect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 06:48 PM
7	Reddit is misandrist to an absurd degree. See any vasectomy discussion where the woman wants him to get one and he doesn't (like here or here) and the commenters will invariably pile into the guy for being selfish and a coward.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 06:33 PM
1	Red Pill has ruined the current dating and marriage scene. Modern red pill has ruined dating and marriage and the relationships between men & women. Red pill is the result, not the cause. Red pill just spelled out what a lot of men were already working out for themselves anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 03:31 PM
2	Do Male Victims Receive Equal Justice in Cases of Sexual Misconduct? This made me think about cases where female teachers have inappropriate relationships with male students. If such a situation occurred in a high school, middle school, or elementary school, how do you think it should be addressed? A good start would be calling it what it is: not an "inappropriate relationship ", but rape and sexual assault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 10:11 AM
2	Do Male Victims Receive Equal Justice in Cases of Sexual Misconduct? Women absolutely defend and enable it: "Women don't do that sort of thing" "Only men rape" "He must have manipulated her" And if she gets pregnant, the boy will be forced to pay child support, thanks to child support laws lobbied for by women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 09:05 AM
2	Why do cheaters beg to keep the relationship? A lot of cheating is opportunistic. They're happy enough in their relationship, but they get a chance of a quick thrill at a party, a bar etc when their spouse isn't around, and of course they don't expect to get caught. Then the shit hits the fan and they're faced with the end of the relationship, something they never anticipated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/24 12:03 AM
3	Paternity tests are weak infidelity checks No man wants to unknowingly raise someone else's child. Incidentally, no woman does either, which is why they usually go berserk whenever there's a baby switch at a hospital. But for some reason those two things get very different reactions when they happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 11:56 PM
1	Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why? This wouldn't even be an issue if women didn't lie about who fathered their children (and if the Government didn't protect and enable those who do). I know, not all women, but nevertheless it happens (typically to guys who naively trust their wives/girlfriends rather than the properly paranoid red pill types, who will get a test anyway) and when it involves shelling out thousands for a kid that isn't yours and non-payment of child support can result in a prison sentence, even if you can prove yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 07:36 PM
3	Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why? Yes, paranoia about something that happens to a small minority of people is absolutely emotion rather than logic. A bit like women who think there are murderers and rapists lurking on every street corner?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 07:20 PM
1	Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why? If Daddy Government can throw you in prison for not paying child support, Daddy Government can prove the kid is actually yours. In many states, the husband is also automatically presumed to be the father of any children born to his wife, irrespective of a DNA test.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 07:18 PM
1	Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why? Well the best thing for SOCIETY is to ban all paternity tests, Provided we also ban all measures taken to prevent baby switches happening in hospitals. Let women experience what it's like to be scammed into raising someone else's kid because it's good for SOCIETY.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 07:15 PM
1	The problem with the paternity test debate Yes, imagine the horror of raising a child who doesn't carry your DNA If that really doesn't matter, then why do hospitals put tags on newborns and take the baby's footprints? When a baby switch happens, there's a media shitstorm, the hospital gets sued and the mother invariably wants her child back. DNA matters a lot when it's the woman who ends up raising the wrong kid, and no one dares tell her to shut up and carry on raising the kid you have. Only men get gaslit and shamed into accepting it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 12:18 AM
1	The problem with the paternity test debate Indeed asking for a paternity test just mean the woman doesn't deserve to be trusted to begin with It's no more distrustful than a woman objecting to her husband/boyfriend having female friends, or even just female coworkers (and regardless of what excuse she gives, it's really because she's worried he might sleep with them). Why can't I have dinner with my girl best friend tonight? Don't you trust me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 12:10 AM
1	If men are against OnlyFans why are they consuming it? Never been on OnlyFans. Never been interested in using it. You might also ask if women are against OnlyFans, why are women on it? It literally wouldn't exist without them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 10:41 PM
2	Question for the Red Pill about Paternity So if a man doesn't get suspicious and ask for a DNA test, it's his fault, if he doesn't get suspicious and marries a fraudster, it's his fault, and if he does get suspicious and asks for a DNA test, it's also his fault? At what point do we blame the women who perpetrate it and the Government which supports and enables them, and hold them accountable? The issue with that study is that it doesn’t look at married couples only. I don't see any reason why there should be a difference. If anything th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 07:52 PM
1	Question for the Red Pill about Paternity a person would have to be an idiot to step out on their spouse and have a baby. And yet it happens. There is an average 3.7% incidence of paternity fraud where paternity confidence is relatively high. So to me, it seems like the more important thing here is not marrying a woman who you can’t trust to have your kids and ONLY your kids. This is blaming the victim for the perpetrator's actions. Let's face it, most people who were ever harmed or deceived or cheated on by a partner probably trusted t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 02:42 PM
4	Question for the Red Pill about Paternity No one is telling women to keep getaway bags or secret bank accounts There was a discussion on this recently. If you need to verify the paternity of your children you should just leave. I'm sure all the guys who blindly trusted their partners not to cheat on them and ended up raising another man's kids thought this too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 12:19 AM
-1	Question for the Red Pill about Paternity I tell them long before children are in the picture. If it results in a tantrum or gaslighting then that's a bullet dodged. Fortunately, my current partner is emotionally stable and fine with it. It is in her interests too, since baby switches do also happen (and women do care when they might be the one who goes home with the wrong kid, even if nobody gives a shit about a baby having the right father). I also tell women from the outset I won't be getting married, which tends to piss them off mor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 09:43 PM
–	The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most men I do, and women sure get mad when they lose their privileges.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 08:30 PM
–	The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most men When equality feels like oppression, you know you’ve been privileged In Britain, women could retire and get a state pension at age 60 (for men, it was 65). A few years ago, the Government passed a law raising the retirement age of women to be the same as men (in other words, equality). And yet women are still protesting bitterly about this and have the nerve to call the new policy "inequality"! See also the reaction of women's groups in Norway when the Government added women to the mandatory mil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 08:10 PM
5	If you demand a paternity test, you are calling your baby mama a cheating whore. You can't have paternity fraud if there's no baby to begin with. You wouldn't have paternity fraud if women didn't lie to men about who knocked them up (and if the law stopped protecting and enabling the women who do it).	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 09:38 PM
–	Men suffer from paternity fraud because they are not willing to cheat on their wives. Yes - by taking away an advantage a woman gains by doing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 09:09 PM
1	Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child alone neither condoms nor birth control are 100% effective and only a minority of men already wear condoms knowing these risks. A man not wearing a condom would only result in a baby if: She still agrees to have sex with him despite no condom. She doesn't use any birth control herself. She doesn't take the morning after pill. She doesn't get an abortion. So I don't buy this idea that there would be an explosion of pregnancies when it is still entirely within the woman's power to avoid it. What it woul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 12:57 AM
1	Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child alone They'd still wear one if they didn't want an STI. There are also about a dozen different forms of contraception available to women regardless of whether he wears a condom. Otherwise, just don't have sex with men who refuse to wear a condom?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 08:32 PM
2	Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child alone Yes (once I'd confirmed it was actually mine, of course). I also have three nieces, and would take care of them if anything happened to their parents.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 07:31 PM
1	Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child alone By contrast, in America 60% of infanticide victims are boys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 07:22 PM
2	Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child alone I dont see an alternative to women having autonomy over their own body Let them have it. Just don't force men to spend the next 18 years paying for her choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 06:31 PM
4	Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child alone which reproductive rights do men not have? A woman can make a man a father against his will or without his consent. A man cannot do likewise to a woman. Men and boys have been raped and forced to pay child support for the resulting baby.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 06:21 PM
2	If you demand a paternity test, you are calling your baby mama a cheating whore. In some places the husband is automatically presumed to be the father irrespective of a DNA test. See this recent ruling by the Indian supreme court: Where the husband and wife have cohabited together, and no impotency is proved, the child born from their wedlock is conclusively presumed to be legitimate, even if the wife is shown to have been, at the time, guilty of infidelity. There is also typically a statute of limitations on challenging paternity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 02:22 PM
3	What is the appropriate response for a gamer bf/husband to his woman that protests his hobby? Amazing how many folks will casually advocate for behavior by women that if done by men would be seen as controlling and abusive. Find a hobby to do while he's gaming, or if you really can't handle him getting enjoyment out of something that does no harm to you, then leave. Or better yet, he should leave.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 07:40 AM
4	Men suffer from paternity fraud because they are not willing to cheat on their wives. For paternity fraud to happen, few conditions needs to be met. Men suffer from paternity fraud because it's convenient for women, doesn't affect women and women face zero legal consequences for doing it. Moreover, far too many people protect and enable women who do it, and will instead shame men for walking away. And of course insist he has to continue paying for the welp.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 07:26 AM
3	Paternity Test vs. Escape Fund It's like when rich women like Halle Berry and Britney Spears get divorced and have to pay millions to their feckless exes. Then you get articles written by feminists whining about how unfair it is, when feminists literally lobbied for those rules.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 11:29 PM
14	Paternity Test vs. Escape Fund If you're okay in principle with a woman keeping secret bags and bank accounts (to protect herself, just in case), then you can have no objections to a man getting a paternity test (to protect himself, just in case).	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 10:30 PM
1	Would you take back someone who ghosted you? I would probably hear her out. But it really depends on the circumstances she ghosted, what kind of relationship we had previously, and how convincing her explanation was.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 09:57 PM
1	I DON'T buy that men who date a younger woman do it because they're easier to manipulate Money does not make an ugly man or an older man sexually exciting or physically attractive. A six figure salary, big fancy house and the Ferrari out front will help see past that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 06:06 PM
–	Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids? About 80% of present day women eventually have children, so 'childfree by choice' is still a minority position. That proportion also hasn't changed much compared with times past. Despite feminist mythology about the patwiarchy forcing women to have children, there have always been women who opted not to have them. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Single_women_in_the_Middle_Ages	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 10:38 AM
3	Men are worse off than women in all developed countries. This is so controversial that UN falsifies the Gender Development Index to hide this fact It is absolutely a major factor. No pay is worth the shit that male teachers have to put up with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 11:21 PM
9	Men are worse off than women in all developed countries. This is so controversial that UN falsifies the Gender Development Index to hide this fact Men work in all kinds of low paying jobs. They avoid teaching jobs because they don't enjoy being treated like sex offenders and they don't want to risk having their life destroyed by one allegation from a kid or parent. It would have to be a helluva big pay packet to make it worth the risk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 06:04 PM
14	Men are worse off than women in all developed countries. This is so controversial that UN falsifies the Gender Development Index to hide this fact The UN still doesn't recognise International Men's Day. They also deliberately made the same day International Toilet Day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 11:23 AM
1	Women who think hating all men is ok, what is your justification? A person's greatest risk of a violent death is not being murdered by a man as an adult, it's being killed by their mother in the first year of life. The infanticide rate in the US is 8/100k (versus a homicide rate of approx. 5/100k) and the real infanticide rate is probably considerably higher, as they often go undetected or get attributed to SIDS. It's an open secret among investigators that a lot of SIDS cases are just undetected infanticides. And most infanticides are committed by women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 12:07 AM
7	Women who think hating all men is ok, what is your justification? women who hate men don’t seek to rape and murder them, UNLIKE men who hate women I guess cases like this and this are nothing to do with hatred of men and boys. And women murdering their sons is nothing to do with hatred of men and boys. And women who brag about aborting their male babies is nothing to do with hatred of men of boys. And the epidemic of adult women raping underage boys is nothing to do with hatred of men and boys. Incidentally, a large number of men who rape women have a history …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 10:04 PM
1	Women who think hating all men is ok, what is your justification? Add together the infanticide and homicide rates and then we can discuss which gender kills more people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 09:35 PM
1	Should the man tell his partner that he is going to get a paternity test? A "go bag" is preparing for a potentiality; i.e. something that has not happened. Both amount to the same thing: protecting yourself from abuse. If you're okay in principle with a woman keeping a go-bag "just in case", then you can have no objections to a man wanting a DNA test "just in case".	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 07:49 PM
–	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD I tell her a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle. Best of luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 06:15 PM
–	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD You mean fewer wars?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 06:12 PM
–	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD Or Australian football, rugby football (of which there are two codes)...	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 05:59 PM
–	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD Someone who was born in 2004 recently joined my workplace. Yikes!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 05:57 PM
1	Should the man tell his partner that he is going to get a paternity test? No - a woman has no obligation to be honest about who her kid's biological father is (not least because there are people out there who will defend and enable women who lie about this), so a man is under no obligation to tell her if he has chosen to confirm it for himself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 05:26 PM
6	You're on a date & everything is going well, then they tell you they were falsely accused in the past... I'm sure there'll be a bunch of posts claiming false allegations never happen. But tell that to Brian Banks or Matt Araiza or the Duke lacrosse team and the thousands of men exonerated of sex crimes by innocence projects. More than 20 million Americans have been falsely accused of abuse. The FBI also backtested 25,000 rape kits and found that 1 in 4 excluded the primary suspect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 09:33 AM
1	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD Most female Olympic champions would lose to the male high school champion in their event.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 01:31 AM
7	Q4M: What goes through your mind when you hear "The sexiest thing a man can do is XYZ"? The sexiest thing a man can do is: Be 6ft tall with a 6 pack Be rich At that point who he votes for and how often he does the dishes are irrelevant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 10:02 PM
5	Expecting your partner to pay a larger portion of expenses just because they earn more is parasitic Of our combined income, I earn about 60%, so I pay 60% of the expenses. I don't consider that parasitic. She works hard and has a full time job and never balks at paying her way, so I'm fine with that. If someone had no job nor any inclination to get one and expected me to pay for everything, that would be parasitic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 12:17 AM
1	Formula of successfully attracting females at a high % The formula to successfully attracting females that I have observed is as follows All of which becomes a moot point if he has a six figure salary, a mansion and a Lamborghini in the driveway. It's amazing what they can do for a guy's attractiveness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 05:46 PM
–	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD Or choose carefully and don't marry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 02:00 PM
–	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD A lot of sexual abuse of male prisoners is done by female guards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 01:49 PM
–	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD B. I'd endure her for year until I could divorce her and claim half her fortune and lifetime alimony. Then I'd be rich enough to attract A.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 10:52 PM
2	CMV: SAHMs should always have an exit plan Secret bank accounts, stealing your money, spying and keeping tabs, the go bag, retaining male orbiters ready to take her in at a moment's notice. Then watch her go berserk when you DNA test the kid just in case it isn't yours. Or when you insist on using a condom even though she assures you she's on the pill (because, you know, women cannot be trusted to be truthful about such matters.) Don't you trust me??!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 08:16 PM
1	CMV: SAHMs should always have an exit plan The man's equivalent of a go bag is not getting married. You can have your exit strategy, and I'll have mine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 08:08 PM
5	Men on here complaining that "women will call the police for talking to them" are not neurotic, they're fairly accurate, the problem is they project this (true about themselves and their experience) fact out into wider society when it isn't true for 99.99999% of men. Then another well meaning and correct commenter will go "This is insane and neurotic, men are not being arrested for talking to women, just go talk to women, it will be fine, you will be OK." A bit like women who think there are murderers and rapists lurking on every street corner, no?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 11:52 AM
1	The me too movement was a moral panic that fundamentally overreached and caused new issues for regular men Why is it that lots of individual women saying “this very bad thing happened to me” scares you? Men aren't scared of women speaking out about abuse. They are scared of having their life destroyed by a false allegation. When the accompanying mantra was "believe all women", irrespective of proof, plausibility or credibility, then a mere allegation was basically the same as a guilty verdict. And there were undoubtedly women who saw MeToo as an opportunity to settle scores and make money off wealthy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 11:29 AM
8	Misandrist is justifiable. Misogyny isn’t. Men commit nearly 99% of all rapes It's more like a 60-40 split. Any study which claims 99% of rapes are committed by men is either using a definition of rape which excludes female on male assaults (the CDC insists on calling it "made to penetrate") or they just ignored female perpetrators altogether. See also the National Epidemiologic Survey on Alcohol and Related Conditions: of those who responded yes to the question "have you ever forced someone to have sex with you against their will?," 43.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 01:21 AM
4	Misandrist is justifiable. Misogyny isn’t. a misandrist is not going to kill you Self-proclaimed man hater stabbed a boy to death	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 10:48 PM
11	Men are underepresented as sexual abuse victims, women underepresented as sexual aggressors and misconception about men as eternal aggressors and women as eternal victims influence the formation of trauma for similar acts. it is important to note that even among male sexual assault and rape victims, the perpetrators are predominantly male. 43% of male college students reported being sexually assaulted, 95% had female perpetrators NISVS: Of the men reporting they were forced to penetrate someone (which is rape even if the CDC refuses to call it that), 82% reported a female perpetrator. More than half of boys who phoned ChildLine to report sexual abuse said they were being abused by a woman Of male prisoners reporti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 07:34 PM
–	Men are underepresented as sexual abuse victims, women underepresented as sexual aggressors and misconception about men as eternal aggressors and women as eternal victims influence the formation of trauma for similar acts. See the women are wonderful effect. When women commit sex offenses (or indeed any crime), it is more likely to be ignored, disbelieved, go unpunished, or treated more leniently. Hence about 1 in 5 sex offenders is a woman, but only about 1 in 100 incarcerated sex offenders is a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 09:38 AM
4	Why men should open up to women emotionally. Why men should open up to women emotionally. See threads like this for why men don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 06:39 PM
1	Does Pete Davidson prove that size actually does matter? Pete Davidson is a wealthy celebrity, which puts him above 99% of men in the world. If he was a janitor then I guarantee the likes of Kate Beckinsale and Kim Kardashian wouldn't go near him no matter how funny he was or how big his dick was.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 03:10 PM
1	Sex stopping after marriage The problem with these studies is they just assume abandonment (men bad) without giving any evidence of who initiated the divorce or the reasons for it. That information would be especially pertinent given that women initiate about 80% of divorces, with the number 1 reason being "husband lost his job/earned less money".	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 08:15 PM
1	Do you choose your s/o according to her SMV? Do you choose your s/o according to her SMV? Attraction is important but there are other considerations, like personality and sexual compatibility. A 10/10 woman becomes less attractive if she's also obnoxious or lazy or a feminist, while a 6/10 woman becomes more attractive if she has a sense of humor, is pleasant to be around, hardworking and wants to bonk every night. How many years left for her to be beutiful? If you gave each other your prime years this doesn't matter as much. In any case I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 12:33 AM
13	If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be? Including by women. Very few women are prepared to acknowledge this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 11:50 PM
1	In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against men 13 countries in Europe still allow women to retire and get a state pension at a younger age than men. Needless to say, there is not a single European country where men retire and get a state pension earlier. In Britain, where the pension ages were equalised a few years ago, women protested bitterly and are still demanding compensation. They even have the cheek to call the equal pension policy "inequality"! When you're used to privilege equality feels like an injustice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/24 07:46 AM
12	Men: what are some ways that women have treated you "horribly"? I've been physically assaulted by a woman I rejected. Another dumpee smashed my laptop and threatened to go to the police and claim I assaulted her. Anyone who says men are the ones who don't take rejection well has never seen a woman being rejected. When I worked in a bar I couldn't even tell you how many times I got grabbed or groped by a drunk woman. But women don't do that sort of thing. Yeah right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 10:36 PM
3	Men: what are some ways that women have treated you "horribly"? “97 of Every 100 Rapists Receive No Punishment, RAINN Analysis Shows” About 1 in 5 sex offenders are women, yet only about 1 in 100 incarcerated sex offenders are women. Why is that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 10:24 PM
0	In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against men Should be abolished It will never be abolished. Every country in the world reserves the right to draft its citizens into the military. And if it came to a choice between a male-only draft and men and women being drafted, we all know which one women would pick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 05:54 PM
10	In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against men Scores of countries across the world prohibit female circumcision. Not a single country on the planet prohibits male circumcision.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 05:39 PM
7	In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against men Why do women receive 15 year sentences for killing their partners when men receive 2-6? A myth. See this study of spousal murders in the 75 largest American counties. Husbands who killed their wives received an average of 16.5 years in prison, while wives who killed their husbands got an average of 6 years. Women are treated more leniently than men in pretty much every crime category.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 05:36 PM
2	In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against men Selective Service in the United States. Only men are required to register, and failure to do so carries a maximum penalty of a five year jail term and a $250,000 fine, plus various other penalties like being ineligible for student loans and federal jobs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 05:28 PM
26	In democracies, there are no laws that discriminate against women, only laws that discriminate against men A few years ago Swiss women actually voted to keep the draft, for men! https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2013_Swiss_referendums#September_referendums This Swiss dude legally changed his gender to female so he could retire and get a state pension earlier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 05:26 PM
7	Is male anger towards women just a result of men not getting laid enough? See also this study by the UK Home Office, which found that in similar criminal circumstances, men are 88% more likely to be incarcerated for a crime. It also found that gender is responsible for a bigger sentencing gap than race.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 11:58 PM
1	Is male anger towards women just a result of men not getting laid enough? A surprising amount of those things are done by women, they just get away with it more often or get a more lenient punishment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 11:54 PM
–	Why aren't males attending singles events anymore? Why aren't males attending singles events anymore? Evidently they aren't as desperate for the company of females as many people seem to think. No self-respecting dude would want to attend events which exist solely to validate average women with well above-average levels of entitlement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 06:51 PM
–	Men don’t care about men’s mental health Why does divorce or joint custody have a strong correlation to suicide among men? Like what is it specifically that creates that pipeline? Men get financially ruined in divorces and are far more likely than women not to see their children after a divorce. A divorced man is living in his car because, between tax, child support and paying the mortgage on a house isn't allowed to set foot in, he cannot afford to support himself. Just for good measure, his ex-wife made up an allegation of abuse, so …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 12:13 AM
4	Men don’t care about men’s mental health Meh, another woman who thinks she understands men but doesn't, which is why so many discussions about men's mental heath never progress beyond lazy victim-blaming: men don't go to therapy, men don't ask for help, etc etc. Any discussion of men's suicide rates is meaningless unless it includes divorce, which literally doubles a man's suicide risk (while it stays the same for women). There is also a correlation between joint custody and the lowering of male suicide rates. But most folks don't real…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 11:53 PM
1	Men don’t care about men’s mental health what have you, yes YOU, specifically done TODAY to show this? Sorry, couldn't help but think of Heather Small when I read this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 11:24 PM
2	Women don't want to be breadwinners, or do domestic labor. This occurred to me after I split with one of my exes. That mess she was always complaining about was her fucking mess. It wasn't me who needed 28 spoons and 12 bowls to make a cake. My place grew substantially tidier in her absence and the amount of tidying required dropped significantly. And it's funny how the stuff I did, like mowing the lawn, fixing the car, setting up the new stereo or mending a window, never seemed to count as housework.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 01:25 PM
4	Do you really believe men were happier in their romantic relationships in the past, according to current standards? The same study found that a woman's number one reason for staying with a sick partner is money. Money is also the number one reason woman kill their partners (rather than self-defense, as is often claimed). Who says romance is dead?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 02:29 PM
1	All things considered the best suggestion for men in USA dating wise is to be sociopathic A quick internet search will turn up plenty of examples. Why do you suppose a man's suicide risk literally doubles after divorce while it stays the same for women? It's not because divorced men don't get therapy, it's because they get ruined financially and they lose access to their children. I'm not sure you appreciate just how much men get screwed over in divorces and family courts, or how damaging a false allegation can be to a man, irrespective of evidence. Add up tax, child support and alim…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 12:58 AM
1	Paternity tests should be banned As a trade-off, we should also abolish all measures taken to prevent baby switches in hospitals. Give men and women an equal chance of getting the wrong kid. Heck, just hand the mother any baby and if it turns out she got the wrong kid, well, that's just tough. No whining about compensation and wanting your kid back. The child comes first, so quit complaining and raise the one you were given.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 10:51 PM
1	All things considered the best suggestion for men in USA dating wise is to be sociopathic A divorced man is living in his car because between tax, child support, alimony and paying the mortgage on a house he isn't allowed to live in, he can't afford to support himself. Then his wife claims he's abusive and he isn't allowed to see his kids any more. So he kills himself. A teenage boy is falsely accused of rape by a girl in his class. As a result, his life is destroyed, he is kicked out of college, and he gets bullied and harassed in public. So he kills himself. These are both more com…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 10:38 PM
–	CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted. If you want to die for someone you don't even know, feel free. But Brave Sir Robin was wiser: When danger reared its ugly head, he bravely turned his tail and fled.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 10:00 PM
2	If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phone If she wants to use sex as blackmail, then he is within his rights to look for it elsewhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 09:58 PM
6	Modern relationships don’t benefit women Please direct me to all these women in the 21st century West who spend their days slaving away at the stove and scrubbing floors, because I've never encountered them. Most of the women I dated or lived with were untidy, had never used an iron or a mop in their lives and I can guarantee I did more cooking than any of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 03:56 PM
–	CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted. There was a guy named Michael Bankston who thought like that too. Now he's dead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 10:01 AM
–	CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted. If it's a woman I'm related to, absolutely. Anyone else? No chance. Chivalry is dead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 09:55 AM
2	On the topic of who pays for dates I agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 10:17 PM
2	All things considered the best suggestion for men in USA dating wise is to be sociopathic They’re less willing to seek help, they won’t go to therapy This is just lazy victim-blaming, on a par with 'men just use more violent methods'. In this study, 90% of men who committed suicide had sought help in the three months prior to killing themselves. Moreover, therapy is predominantly by women and for women, and men largely do not find it helpful. The single biggest predictor of suicide in men is divorce. Eight times more divorced men than divorced women commit suicide. they don’t have ro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 05:01 PM
15	If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phone Look at any vasectomy discussion (like here) where invariably the wife wants the husband to get one and he doesn't. 90% of the responses will pile into him for being selfish and cowardly and advise the woman to leave him or blackmail him by withholding sex. 'His body his choice' and 'no means no' don't apply to men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 04:34 PM
1	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD small hands She never had the makings of a Varsity athlete.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 09:30 PM
–	It is worth sacrificing a marriage for a paternity test. The obvious solution is for hospitals to abandon all the steps they take to avoid baby switches (tags, footprints) and just hand the mother the nearest baby, thus giving men and women an equal chance of raising the wrong kid. After all, biology doesn't matter and the child's best interests come first. I know because I always see it on PPD. If you're that worried, get a test before you leave the hospital. Otherwise, suck it up, quit complaining and raise the kid you got given.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 08:18 PM
–	It is worth sacrificing a marriage for a paternity test. The obvious solution to all of this is just making paternity tests mandatory. No child support order should be made without a DNA test. If the Government can throw you in prison for not paying child support, they can prove the kid is yours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 08:07 PM
–	It is worth sacrificing a marriage for a paternity test. That’s why they don’t care about these issues And yet they care a lot when a baby switch happens and the mother wants her child back. Try telling her that biology doesn't matter and that she should have checked before leaving the hospital. The child comes first, so shut up and raise the kid you have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 08:05 PM
1	On the topic of who pays for dates The first date should be coffee (or similar). Not only is it a good way of wheedling out women trying to use you for a free meal, but it avoids any arguments over the bill and you both have an easy excuse to leave if it's not going well. And if it is going well, you can always head somewhere else together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 06:21 PM
–	CMV: (long) You'd see less guys flocking to the ''manosphere'' if people were honest about the unfairness of dating. The Suffragette bombing and arson campaign: At least four people were killed in the attacks, and at least 24 were injured	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 04:35 PM
-1	CMV: (long) You'd see less guys flocking to the ''manosphere'' if people were honest about the unfairness of dating. It's funny you bringing up male violence and then lauding the suffragettes, who were literal terrorists who bombed and torched public buildings. They were also operating at a time, when in England at least, many men still did not have the right to vote either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 03:01 PM
2	CMV: (long) You'd see less guys flocking to the ''manosphere'' if people were honest about the unfairness of dating. I'd say the endless tirade of normalized misandry and anti-male public policy draws more men to the Manosphere than dating grievances.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 12:06 PM
2	The opposite side of the War Bride dynamic is that men are natural rapists under certain circumstances Men here say they would never rape. If you were a female guard in a male prison, can you say with 100% certainty you would not abuse your position to rape or sexually exploit the inmates? Because a lot of sexual abuse of male prisoners is actually perpetrated by women guards. In juvenile facilities, the sexual abuse is overwhelmingly perpetrated by women. Incidentally, a majority of the worst male sex offenders have a history of sexual abuse... by a woman. Yet radfems will vehemently deny that w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 11:33 AM
–	In your opinion how do we bring the sexes back together? Until recently we literally weren’t allowed to “pull our own weight” when we couldn’t own credit cards, property or get paid the same for the same work, get a grip. Recently? Women have had the right to own property for centuries. They owned banks in the 19th century and 40% of slave owners were women. And virtually nobody had a credit card before the 1980s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 01:46 AM
5	The moment a guy finds out a kid isn't his, he should be able to waive all paternal responsibilities The same places which stone women to death also behead men for heresy or homosexuality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 12:20 AM
5	The moment a guy finds out a kid isn't his, he should be able to waive all paternal responsibilities If the Government can throw you in prison for not paying child support, they should at least have to prove the kid is actually yours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 02:01 AM
7	The moment a guy finds out a kid isn't his, he should be able to waive all paternal responsibilities So does India: the Supreme Court has ruled that when husband and wife cohabited together, and no impotency is proved, then the child born from their wedlock is "conclusively presumed to be legitimate", even if the wife is guilty of infidelity and in such cases DNA test of child is not to be done.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 01:58 AM
8	The moment a guy finds out a kid isn't his, he should be able to waive all paternal responsibilities If she wants her child back, then she is implicitly rejecting the child that isn't hers. The point is that society cares a lot about ensuring babies are raised by the correct mother. Try telling the mother of a baby switch that 'biology doesn't matter' and to stop whining and just carrying on raising the kid she has.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 01:12 AM
10	The moment a guy finds out a kid isn't his, he should be able to waive all paternal responsibilities The mother also invariably wants her baby back. When baby switches happen, it typically results in a media shitstorm and the hospital getting sued and an outpouring of sympathy for the mother. No one will tell her tough luck. It's only men who get told 'biology doesn't matter' and 'the child's interests come first'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 12:08 AM
9	The moment a guy finds out a kid isn't his, he should be able to waive all paternal responsibilities Perhaps hospitals should not bother making sure that mothers are not accidentally separated from their newborns with tags, footprints etc. Just hand her any kid and if she finds out a couple of years later that she went home with the wrong one, well, that's just tough. After all, biology doesn't matter. You should have checked before leaving the hospital. The child's best interests come first, so shut up and carry on raising the kid you have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 11:54 PM
2	The moment a guy finds out a kid isn't his, he should be able to waive all paternal responsibilities best interest of the child This is just code for what is more convenient for the state and the mother, and justification for the abuse of men. If anyone really cared about what was best for the child then abortions, no fault divorce and infant circumcision would be illegal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 11:47 PM
–	Would you want to be a man? You can walk outside safely at night like you said. As if men just casually wander through the ghetto at 3am without a care in the world...	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 11:33 PM
2	"Child support is the right of the child" is stupid argument against financial abortion Sure, and let's spend the next 100 years drafting women, and not men, into the military to be slaughtered in wars, prioritize men's healthcare at the expense of women's to close the gender life expectancy gap, incarcerate three women for every man to close the prison sentencing gap. Just for giggles, we could even swap around newborn babies in hospitals to give women an equal chance of unknowingly raising someone else's welp. Methinks equality wouldn't be the sunlit uplands you are expecting. Th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 07:55 PM
3	"Child support is the right of the child" is stupid argument against financial abortion Nothing has changed for the fathers. They can still be forced to support a child someone else chose to have. It's just now women are in the same position.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 10:53 AM
-1	the argument given against men's refusal to raise children that arent theirs is at its core, identical to the pro-life stance against abortion, and ironically, the pro-fraud stance, is nearly identical to the pro-choice stance on personal autonomy, which reveals blatant hypocrisy for one reason Do you believe taxes are against bodily autonomy? Taxation is essentially legalized theft by the Government. 'Give us your money or we'll throw you in prison' is no different in principle to a guy jamming a gun in your face and demanding you hand over your wallet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 10:02 AM
9	the argument given against men's refusal to raise children that arent theirs is at its core, identical to the pro-life stance against abortion, and ironically, the pro-fraud stance, is nearly identical to the pro-choice stance on personal autonomy, which reveals blatant hypocrisy for one reason Always makes me laugh how people who call themselves "pro-choice" become violently anti-choice as soon as you suggest the man should have a choice too. They even use the exact same arguments as the anti-abortion crowd.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 09:57 AM
3	"Child support is the right of the child" is stupid argument against financial abortion the right state. Ironically, Texas and co now have absolute gender equality in reproductive rights. Funny how women don't seem to like it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 09:49 AM
5	"Child support is the right of the child" is stupid argument against financial abortion Perhaps we should make random women financially support children they are not related to, as we do with men. Perhaps we should make female rape victims pay child support to their rapist, as we do with men. Then we can talk about muh unfairness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 09:47 AM
3	"Child support is the right of the child" is stupid argument against financial abortion Forcing a man to pay for a child he never consented to have is nothing to do with biology.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 06:18 PM
0	"Child support is the right of the child" is stupid argument against financial abortion Either don't have sex or use birth control and you won't have to worry about abortions or childbirth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 06:15 PM
10	"Child support is the right of the child" is stupid argument against financial abortion We're talking about rights, not biology.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 06:08 PM
2	"Child support is the right of the child" is stupid argument against financial abortion And now in some states a woman's choice ends when she lets a man deposit his sperm inside her. That's equality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 06:06 PM
5	"Child support is the right of the child" is stupid argument against financial abortion Or just have plain old equality. Either both sides are consenting to parenthood the moment they have sex, or both get the chance to opt out. That is fair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 05:54 PM
6	"Child support is the right of the child" is stupid argument against financial abortion The best and most reliable way of not becoming a parent is not getting pregnant. No more bitching about abortion bans, just tell women not to have sex or get their tubes tied.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 05:44 PM
5	"Child support is the right of the child" is stupid argument against financial abortion Then women should stop complaining about abortion rights and just make sure they don't get pregnant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 05:35 PM
1	"Child support is the right of the child" is stupid argument against financial abortion "Best interests of the child" is just a euphemism for what is more convenient for women and the state. It is used to justify all kinds of abuses of men, like forcing them to support children they didn't father, or making underage male rape victims financially support their rapist (yet nobody cares when that exact same child is left to be raised by a sex offender).	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 05:01 PM
3	Women should get unfettered access to their baby daddies' bank accounts. Why should he have to pay for her choice?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 09:15 AM
7	CMV: The women on Bear Grylls' The Island would have created a better place to live than the males' island bear grylls himself sent pigs on the island to help women A random fisherman who just happened to be passing by the island also stopped and gave the women a fish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 08:41 PM
1	CMV: The women on Bear Grylls' The Island would have created a better place to live than the males' island There was another show which put 10 men on one island and 10 women on another island. The men fared pretty well, while the women spent most of their time quarreling and sunbathing. They also burned through all their emergency food rations in about a week, so the series producers decided to send three men to the female island and three women to the male island. The three women on the men's island suddenly had the time of their lives, sitting around sunbathing while the men vied for their attentio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 08:31 PM
3	CMV: The women on Bear Grylls' The Island would have created a better place to live than the males' island Had the cast and crew not kept interfering with the women Had the cast and crew not interfered, the women would have all died of exposure and starvation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 05:20 PM
1	Men. The boy and The Man It's a good man who takes on responsibility. It's the boy who avoids responsibility. "Responsibility" in this context invariably means "doing what women want him to do."	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 08:51 AM
3	Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thing You rarely see a man complaining that his partner won't marry him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 08:48 AM
–	Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup? unpaid shit work in the house. If you live rent free in a house paid for by someone else, consume food purchased by someone else and spend money earned by someone else, your work in that house is hardly unpaid. But if you're that bothered by unpaid vacuuming, you could always just opt to live in a dirty house.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 11:10 PM
–	Do women take it personally when men don't want to marry/want a prenup? how would a woman legally have a man's children without his consent? Legality is irrelevant and so is his consent. A woman can become pregnant as a result of raping, assaulting, defrauding or deceiving a man and the state will protect her and force her victim to pay. Even if the guy later discovers he isn't actually the father, the state will still protect her and force him to pay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/24 10:19 PM
2	A real man wouldn't avoid single mothers when dating HVMs want children, so a single mom actually is bringing MORE to the table automatically Men want their own children, not someone else's. Males who avoid single moms are just looking at women as a piece of meat They look at single moms as additional cost and drama that a childless woman doesn't bring. Males who avoid single mothers likely don't have the means to provide for the child because they're broke Men don't want to be used as a ATM.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 05:37 PM
1	Women are not entitled to anything from men Women in Switzerland had the opportunity to abolish the draft and instead voted to keep it. For men. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2013_Swiss_referendums#September_referendums	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/24 05:03 PM
8	Women are not entitled to anything from men Same with “women and children first”. It’s not 1912 anymore. When the cruise liner Costa Concordia sank a few years ago, the women on board expected the men to step aside and let them get off first. However, the men showed no inclination to do this and there was lots of complaining from the women afterwards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/24 12:10 AM
11	Women are not entitled to anything from men They're only against the draft when someone proposes that women be added to it. Given the choice between a male-only draft and men and women being drafted, we all know what they'd pick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/24 12:06 AM
3	The paradox of male friendship and it's link to desirability And how many of those can you say you know their birthday? Or even their middle name? This is just projecting female perceptions of friendship onto men. Dudes don't care about stuff like that. They care about which team you support, your opinion of the fight last night, what beer your drink or what video games you play. I've been friends with guys for years without knowing when their birthday is (nor they mine). On the other hand, I've known women to end friendships because someone forgot their …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/24 06:41 PM
3	The “men get other men, that’s why we don’t trust men with our women” and “women are unfairly judging men” dichotomy Meanwhile fathers make that choice Why not go after the fathers who choose genital mutilation? The final decision of newborn-circumcision depended on the mother in 51.47% In the overwhelming majority of studies, women expressed a preference for the circumcised penis Incidentally, in countries with a high prevalence of female circumcision, it is almost always done at the behest of the mother or other female relatives, and has lower support among men and boys than women and girls. So when will you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/24 03:30 PM
2	The “men get other men, that’s why we don’t trust men with our women” and “women are unfairly judging men” dichotomy “we know how men are, so we don’t trust other men”, This is not because we think most men would hurt you given the chance. It's because we think most men would screw you given the chance. Yes, that includes anyone you think is "just a friend". Similarly, women don't like their husbands or boyfriends having female friends, because they understand women, and don't trust other women not to try and steal him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/24 11:41 PM
3	Only way for a man to win in a war is to dodge the draft.. It's not about statehood so much as Ukraine's neutrality. Russia isn't even interested in the majority-Ukrainian areas in the west, they'll just take the mostly Russian eastern borderlands and also ensure that the Ukrainian state which remains will never join NATO or the EU.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/24 09:18 PM
1	CMV: if he doesn't fight for you when you break up, he's not the one Some years ago at college I was in a relationship with a girl who one day told me (via text) that she was ending things. We went back and forth but in the end I just said "fine", blocked her number and moved on with my life. Years later I bumped into this girl again. She actually admitted that she didn't want to break up, but was worried about where we were going, so one of her friends advised her to do it as a kind of shit test. The friend assured her that "he'll beg you to take him back". Play…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/24 12:28 AM
1	Virtually 0 women get in trouble for sexual misconduct You realize that you are comparing apples to oranges here, right? You can compare female inmate/female guard to male inmate/male guard. You can compare male inmate/female guard to female inmate/male guard. We're talking about female-perpetrated abuse. Whether the abuse is done by guards or other inmates is beside the point. According to those stats, about half of prison sexual abuse is perpetrated by women. That's quite an astonishing statistic, given the prevailing "men are the abusers" narrati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/24 07:00 PM
4	Virtually 0 women get in trouble for sexual misconduct What is the proportion of male guard on female prisoner sexual assault? What’s the proportion comparatively? It's in the same report: Inmates reporting inmate-on-inmate sexual abuse: Male 6.7% Female 11.6% Inmates reporting staff sexual misconduct: Male 7.8% Female 8.1% Sex of perpetrator of staff sexual misconduct: Male inmates: Male only 14.9%, Female only 68.8%, Male + female 16.3% Female inmates: Male only 71.8%, Female only 9.3%, Male + female 18.9% Crunch the numbers and a female inmate is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/24 12:35 AM
8	Virtually 0 women get in trouble for sexual misconduct Far more children are abused by teachers than priests. Remind me which gender predominates in teaching? You might also want to take a look at this BJS report into sexual abuse in prisons. A majority of staff-perpetrated sexual assaults on male prisoners involves a female member of staff. As for juvenile detention centers: In most-serious incidents of staff sexual misconduct, an estimated 91% of incidents involved only female staff, while 6% involved only male staff But men are the problem, right…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 11:32 PM
15	Virtually 0 women get in trouble for sexual misconduct "Women don't do that sort of thing" / "only men rape" / "all abusers are men" / "men are the problem" That's what women say about female-on-male abuse. This idea that women don't excuse and enable abuse is nonsense. Damn near every week there's another news story about a female teacher caught sexually assaulting an underage boy in her case. A lot of sexual abuse of male prisoners is also perpetrated by female guards. Have a read through threads like this and then try arguing the problem has alwa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 11:12 PM
2	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology Lol apparently it never occurred to you that they weren't trying to kill people. The Suffragettes set fire to crowded theaters, planted bombs on busy trains and railway stations and put a nail bomb in St Paul's Cathedral. They sent letter bombs to politicians and firebombed David Lloyd George's house. One of them threw a hatchet at Herbert Asquith and they tried to push a magistrate off a cliff. Yeah, they weren't trying to kill anyone. LOL right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 10:13 AM
2	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suffragette_bombings That's well over 50 bombs planted. Why should they get a pass just because they were a combination of incompetent and lucky? The Suffragettes were terrorist pioneers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 02:05 AM
2	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology Since women have had some roles in politics wars have lessened, even without parity. Tell that to Catherine the Great. America bombed a record number of countries while Hillary was Secretary of State.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 02:00 AM
1	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology The suffragettes did not kill or harm anyone. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suffragette_bombing_and_arson_campaign At least four people were killed in the attacks, and at least 24 were injured. The first terrorist bomb in Ireland in the 20th century wasn't planted by the IRA, it was planted by the Suffragettes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 01:56 AM
3	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology Specifically for the right to vote, people with innate lifetime immunity to the draft have no business making up the majority of voters for supreme military commander. Especially when it results in absurdities like Swiss women voting to impose the military draft on men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 01:46 AM
5	Why are male celebrities so succesful when it comes to attracting young women with a massive age gap? Because being rich and famous turns a man from a 1 to a 10...	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 01:10 AM
1	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology When it comes to voting, in the grievance narrative of men oppressing women and denying them their rights, it is typically ignored that for most of history, men were denied the vote too. Across the world universal male suffrage was usually granted only shortly before universal female suffrage or in some cases actually at the same time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 10:19 PM
0	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology Feminists don't want the draft for men or women (source: I'm a feminist) If men are drafted, then women should be drafted too. Do you agree?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 10:18 PM
1	"Men would fuck anything" is just female fantasy for them to feel more attractive than they really are A lot of it is projection, cover for the fact that the standards of most women are not particularly high, considering the vast number of losers, deadbeats and criminals who manage to find a woman to father children with. It's akin to the the alleged "locker room" talk that women tell themselves men participate in, but in reality is done much more by women. Is it true? Not universally. Personally, a lot of women fall into the category "not even if I was desperate". Going in with this belief resul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 07:21 PM
–	In the manosphere men aren’t being held accountable for the violence they commit. Men have done and said worse and not been cancelled. Show me a clip of a group of male celebrities in hysterics about a woman whose breasts were cut off by her husband, and weren't blacklisted immediately. A Nobel prize-winning scientist was recently fired for telling a joke about women. Wasn’t R Kelly just raping kids and singing about it for decades? R. Kelly recently started a 30 year prison sentence and I don't see many people defending him. Very few female sex offenders get imprisoned. Asia…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 09:18 AM
1	In the manosphere men aren’t being held accountable for the violence they commit. But she was held accountable for one people dragged Sharon for that comment and the woman who did the crime was punished for it. If I recall, the female audience laughed along with her. Then all she had to do was smirk her way through an apology a week later. A man would would have lost his job. Um what? For one PPD and SIDS are real conditions. A sizeable number of SIDS cases are suspected to be homicides. They basically just attribute an infant's death to SIDS if there are no obvious signs of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 08:56 PM
1	4b movement isn’t so bad Men treat women like absolute garbage. Men treat women better than they treat other men. Men who harm women are punished more severely than women who hurt men (who often aren't punished at all). Laws and customs exist specifically to advantage and protect women at the expense of men. Scientific discoveries and advances in medicine pioneered by men are the reason why the chances of a woman dying in childbirth went from a coin toss to negligible. These crimes rates don’t lie and 90% of violent cri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 11:37 AM
2	In the manosphere men aren’t being held accountable for the violence they commit. Men aren't being held accountable for the violence they commit Last I checked, male prisoners are about 95% of the prison population in any western nation you care to name. No group is held less accountable for their violence than women. Watch the clip of that TV show where Sharon Osborne and co are in hysterics over that guy who was castrated by his wife because he filed for divorce. Victims of female-perpetrated domestic violence and sexual assault are deliberately erased from official stats. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 09:40 AM
–	Why does society only entertain the idea of choice when it's comes to women?? And the one whose sole decision it is to have a baby can take sole responsibility for that decision. Don't expect someone else to pay for their choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 11:09 PM
–	Why does society only entertain the idea of choice when it's comes to women?? Two chose to have sex. One chose to have a baby.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 10:33 PM
–	Why does society only entertain the idea of choice when it's comes to women?? It's her sole decision whether to have an abortion or give birth to the baby. Her choice, her responsibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 08:33 PM
–	Why does society only entertain the idea of choice when it's comes to women?? Meanwhile a woman who doesn't want to be a parent can get an abortion, give it up for adoption or abandon it at a fire station and walk away with zero legal consequences. No one will be chasing her for child support or imprisoning her for not paying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 08:20 PM
–	Why does society only entertain the idea of choice when it's comes to women?? Sure, she can decide what happens to her body. So why should he pay for her sole decision?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 08:11 PM
7	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD You're the one complaining about the feminist-inspired tactics of transwomen. I just find it entertaining watching feminism eat itself over issues like this. Pray tell what unfair fiscal, political or institutional advantage the Augusta golf club afforded men that required them to be forced to admit women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 05:44 PM
10	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD About a dozen countries in Europe still allow women to retire and get a state pension several years earlier than men. Needless to say, there isn't a single European country where men get to retire and claim a state pension at a younger age. In Britain the law was changed a few years ago and women were told they would only get their pension at the same age as men. But it would appear they don't like equality in this area and a group of them are now demanding compensation!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 05:37 PM
8	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD 50 years of feminists erasing male-only spaces and shouting down any and every male issue with buttttt wymen, and now you're aggrieved that another group higher up in the oppression pyramid is doing the same thing? That's irony.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 03:12 PM
9	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD A woman should be able to discuss menstruation without a transwoman co-opting that not all women deal with menstruation. Sure but right now we're talking about the women who are. Have a back seat Karen. The trans groups are doing what radfems have been doing to men for the last 50 years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 02:50 PM
6	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD the belief that women should be allowed the same rights, power, and opportunities as men and be treated in the same way That's just the sanitized definition. Feminism has always been a vehicle for man-hating sociopaths.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 02:36 PM
6	Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness? A lot of ftm stories highlight the difficulty of daily care and daily interactions once they begin to pass as a male Things like: no longer trusted around children, cops are much quicker to get out the tasers and handcuffs, a lot of casual sexism that is virtually invisible to women, and people in general are much less sympathetic and willing to help. It's interesting that a majority of detransitioners are FTMs, even though there are far fewer FTMs overall.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 10:31 PM
7	Women can't have agency while also being perpetual victims When a man and a woman commit a crime together, almost without exception the female accomplice will be offered a deal to cooperate, blame it all on him, claim she was threatened or scared, and get a more lenient sentence. See the case of Karla Homolka for probably the most egregious example. A lot of people, especially feminists, are all too happy to deny female agency whenever it's convenient. She killed her husband? He must have been abusive. She killed her baby? It was PPD. She sexually assau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/24 04:45 PM
1	How will WW3 effect the SMP? All independent military experts agree that an attack on a nato ally would have Russia defeated within 72 hours I've no doubt the dolts in NATO militaries believe this. That's what has me worried.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 10:40 PM
4	We need to stop lumping together sexual assault and sexual harassment The worst cases are the ones where the female rapist gets pregnant and the boy ends up paying child support.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 11:16 PM
1	(Primarily) A Mod-Question I guess Marital rape was punishable as an assault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 08:52 PM
15	There is honestly no need to have kids, enter a long term relationship or become married anymore as a man By one estimate, 80% of women reproduced compared with 40% of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 07:21 PM
4	(Primarily) A Mod-Question I guess Rape has been a punishable crime for millennia and a mere accusation could result in a man being murdered or mutilated by a mob before he even made it to a trial. Not sure when or where these "good ol' days" were when men could just rape with impunity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 09:54 AM
1	Society looks the other way a lot more with women's toxic behavior in heterosexual relationships than with men's Believe it or not, no man wants to die or get assaulted any more than you do. We don't make a habit of walking through dark alleyways alone at night. Both men and women are more likely to assault or kill a man than a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 11:43 AM
1	Can you be red pill and not bash women Yes, really.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 11:31 AM
3	Relationship expert says men shouldn't date if they're broke pay for all their dates before they're in a formal relationship and buying them gifts and flowers. I'll hazard a guess that she would wail about patriarchy if he in turn demanded that she cook, clean, wear pretty dresses and have sex with him whenever he wants. Don't expect a traditional man if you aren't prepared to be a traditional woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 01:02 PM
4	Can you be red pill and not bash women I've literally done more cooking than any woman I've ever dated or lived with. It doesn't bother me at all. On the other hand, this week it's her turn to mow the lawn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 09:17 AM
–	Do you think this audience reaction is representative to how society sees domestic violence against men? They had the chance to prove it's about equality but decided to become a " sexist " one sided movement . Feminism didn't suddenly become a sexist one-sided movement. It is anti-male to the core and has been since Year Zero. It always amazes me how many people still swallow that BS that feminism was ever about equality or that feminists give a shit about men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/24 01:03 AM
–	Do you think this audience reaction is representative to how society sees domestic violence against men? Here's a similar clip from a British TV show where a guy describes being abused by his girlfriend and the (predominantly female) audience starts laughing. At least the host called them out on it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/24 12:56 AM
-3	Everything you use is invented and built by men is a faulty argument. Stop using it lol I love the moving goalposts And you lied. Twice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/24 11:33 PM
2	Everything you use is invented and built by men is a faulty argument. Stop using it Women were locked out of the masculine (now the only legitimate) form of knowledge in Universities until the 1800s. Italian universities had female students in the 1300s. Women were kept out of work until the Second World War. Women have worked since the dawn of time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/24 11:18 PM
1	If men go away women would not look back You think a single dude needs to work 60 hours a week just to support himself? Single men are very good at living cheaply. No debt (usually), a tiny apartment will suffice and a few video games aren't going to break the bank.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 11:05 PM
1	If men go away women would not look back Women are opting out of having children in general This just means their social security is ultimately paid by men they aren't related to. When you add up who pays taxes and who the Govt spends it on, men are the only net contributors to the system.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 10:44 PM
1	What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic? the distribution of wealth has always been between each other https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_most_expensive_divorces	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 10:36 PM
2	What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic? Just stating the reality. You can say women don't need no man but in fact they need men a lot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 12:20 PM
6	If men go away women would not look back Single men can support themselves on surprisingly little. Why kill yourself working 60 hours a week in a stressful job when you don't need to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 12:15 PM
10	What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic? Women need men less. Great, then we can stop the enormous forcible transfer of wealth from men to women in the form of taxes, state funded welfare programs, child support payments, divorce settlements etc etc. And if your car breaks down, your toilet won't flush, your house catches fire, or you get mugged in the street, go find a woman to help you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 11:20 AM
3	If men go away women would not look back They sure would miss the child support and the alimony. There is also the fact that married men outearn every other demographic (because they have to) and their taxes fund all those welfare programs that mostly benefit women. If a sufficient number of men opt out then the economy would basically collapse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 10:40 AM
4	"50% of marriages end in divorce" but divorce rates are the lowest they've been in 50 years, which one is it? Some stats from the UK (2019): There were 213,122 marriages between opposite-sex couples (link) and 107,599 divorces between opposite-sex couples (link), so roughly one divorce for every two marriages. 2019 was also the UK's lowest marriage rate on record, dating back to 1862.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 07:20 PM
3	"50% of marriages end in divorce" but divorce rates are the lowest they've been in 50 years, which one is it? It's women, not men, who typically push for marriage. Considering divorce puts men in the highest risk category for suicide, not marrying at all seems the safest choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 06:59 PM
1	Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debate The UK Ministry of Justice did a study on this a few years ago. They found that under similar criminal circumstances the odds of imprisonment for males were 88% higher than for females. Crunch the numbers and about three times more women would be in prison if they were treated as harshly as men. Or if men were treated as leniently as women, 2/3rds of them wouldn't be in prison. Depending on the study, about 1 in 5 sex offenders is a woman, yet the male-female ratio for incarcerated sex offenders…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 06:36 PM
26	Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debate Far more sexual abuse is perpetrated by women than most people realize, or are willing to acknowledge. An estimated 91% of victims of rape & sexual assault are female and 9% male. Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male. I can pretty much guarantee that any study which finds 99% of rapists are men is using a definition of rape which excludes female on male assaults, because those numbers narrow considerably when a gender neutral definition is used. The CDC's definition of rape excludes female on mal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 02:17 AM
1	What is happening to men? I am concerned We’re literally fine being drafted. Congress recently debated adding women to Selective Service and feminists opposed it. Feminists in Norway, one of the very few countries that does draft women, are always complaining about it. You don’t get a say in whether my body becomes an incubator, but we do support formally legalizing absolution of parental rights before the kids born if the woman wants to keep a kid and the sperm donor doesn’t. You are very much in a minority with that opinion. There ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 12:33 AM
1	What is happening to men? I am concerned If feminism isn't about hating men, then it's odd that so many man-hating sociopaths find a home there. Feminism is about equitable rights for all Feminists will typically fight tooth and nail to oppose anything equitable if the status quo happens to benefit women, whether it's equal custody rights for fathers, support for male DV and SA victims, abolition of lifetime alimony, women being drafted or male reproductive rights.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/24 11:30 PM
0	CMV: Forcing people who don't want children/marriage to do it anyways doesn't always make a better society About 100 baby boys die in the US every year as a result of botched circumcisions. So there's an immediate bump to the mortality gap because we allow risks to be taken with boys that are Illegal if done to girls. Young men committing suicide is also not some unchangeable biological fact. It's a direct result of social conditions and how young men are treated. Young men who need help are less likely to get it. Abuse is a major risk factor for suicide but the vast majority of help for abuse victim…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/24 12:29 PM
1	Men of this sub, do you believe that most men have practically no standards? Can only speak for myself, but a lot of women fall into the category not even if I was desperate. Conversely, given the number of losers, criminals and deadbeats who manage to snag a wife or girlfriend and father a bunch of children, the famous high female standards are evidently not as high as everyone thinks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 12:27 AM
–	What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted? Open up any girlie magazine and you won't find many pictures of fat hairy guys with good personalities. It'll be shirtless muscly chads.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 12:39 PM
–	What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted? Pills are not a good substitute for condoms. Pills don't protect from STDs and unless you're exclusive and you got tested (preferably twice with a 6-month gap in between two tests), you should use condoms even if you're on a pill. Even condoms don't protect against all STIs (some can be passed through skin to skin contact). Unless there is a compelling reason why they can't, both parties should be using some form of contraception. All heterosexual people having sex should also be having the foll…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 12:34 PM
1	Mandatory paternity testing - a redpill dream law almost became a reality in one state Most women don't earn enough in their lifetime to pay back what they receive in state handouts. Men on the other hand are net contributors to the state.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 07:50 PM
3	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Men have all reproductive rights. No one forces them to get vasectomy. But women are forced to have babies. They can’t have rights over their own body. In the West, no woman is forced to have a baby. A woman can get an abortion against the father's will and she can keep the baby against his will. She can legally abandon the baby or give it up for adoption with zero legal consequences. He cannot walk away without her consent. Doesn't matter if it was an accident or she lied about birth control, t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 12:04 AM
3	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD You’ll be surprised to know many cultures still discriminate against women You'd be surprised how many cultures still discriminate against men. Half the countries of the world still operate a male-only military draft. Men have no reproductive rights. Men are still punished disproportionately for crimes. Every country in the world permits male circumcision. Male victims of rape and sexual abuse are routinely erased, especially when the perpetrator is female.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/24 08:32 PM
3	Why are female “red pillers” called pick me’s? “ People often ask me how women can be man-haters. And I wonder, how can we be anything else.” – Pat Mainardi “All men are scum and must die.” – Clementine Ford “Men are the enemy.” – Germaine Greer I want to see a man beaten to a bloody pulp with a high-heel shoved in his mouth, like an apple in the mouth of a pig." – Andrea Dworkin “I feel that 'man-hating' is an honourable and viable political act." – Robin Morgan “The proportion of men must be reduced to and maintained at approximately 10% o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/24 05:38 PM
1	Men are not blindsided by breakups/divorce as much as they think Financially, women are more likely to be worse off after divorce than men. Meanwhile a divorced man is eight times more likely to commit suicide than a divorced woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/24 12:10 PM
-1	Why are female “red pillers” called pick me’s? Internalised misandry. There's nothing morally correct about an ideology that preaches hatred of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/24 09:19 AM
1	Mandatory paternity testing - a redpill dream law almost became a reality in one state No it's men's money taken by the Government under threat of imprisonment and given to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 08:53 AM
1	Can we talk about the phenomenon of childless stepdads who are actually good? So she doesn't decide not to use birth control, and she doesn't decide not to take the morning after pill, and she doesn't decide not to get an abortion, and she doesn't decide not to use legal abandonment, and she doesn't decide not to give the baby up for adoption? The man has no say after option 1, by the way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 11:26 PM
1	Mandatory paternity testing - a redpill dream law almost became a reality in one state The men who end up paying child support for children they didn't father.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 11:26 PM
1	Can we talk about the phenomenon of childless stepdads who are actually good? Meanwhile you are blaming men for women's lack of personal responsibility. Whose sole decision is it to bring a deadbeat's child into the world? And then complains when the guy bails because SHE alone decided to have a kid when he didn't?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 07:19 PM
10	Why do a lot of straight men have a hard time accepting their partner's sexual experiences (especially when it comes to an extended amount of casual sex)? Women dont seem to have an issue with this, almost not at all Try telling a woman that you used to have sex with men and see how that goes down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 12:59 AM
1	Mandatory paternity testing - a redpill dream law almost became a reality in one state How many children who aren't related to you are you financially supporting?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 11:17 PM
1	Mandatory paternity testing - a redpill dream law almost became a reality in one state But if you get scammed by a Ponzi scheme or a fraudulent insurance policy, the Government doesn't protect the scammer, forbid you from being reimbursed, force you to keep paying and throw you in prison if you don't. You are also overlooking that there is typically a statute of limitations on challenging paternity. A guy who has suspicions will just get the DNA test and then bail if it's a negative. But if the alleged father isn't immediately suspicious that the kid isn't his, then you end up lik…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 09:35 PM
1	Mandatory paternity testing - a redpill dream law almost became a reality in one state You think we should protect people from every possibility of they are naive? If it results in an 18 year financial obligation and the possibility of imprisonment for non-payment? Men have gone to prison for not paying child support for children who aren't even theirs. We protect victims of fraud and punish fraudsters in other circumstances.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 09:03 PM
1	Mandatory paternity testing - a redpill dream law almost became a reality in one state A 2% incidence would mean millions of men around the world are unwittingly raising children who are not theirs. That's not a small number. Would you get on a plane if there was a 1 in 50 chance it would crash? Various studies where paternity confidence was relatively high suggest an incidence ranging from 1-12%.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 09:00 PM
3	Can we talk about the phenomenon of childless stepdads who are actually good? If he was a thug/deadbeat/criminal before he nutted in her, it's highly unlikely he was going to turn into father of the year afterwards. Take away all the men who became fathers as a result of a woman lying about using birth control, sabotaging condoms etc and your list suddenly gets a lot shorter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 08:56 PM
1	Mandatory paternity testing - a redpill dream law almost became a reality in one state They should if it’s in the best interest of the child, which is the whole point of the process Easy to say when you aren't the one whose money is taken under threat of imprisonment to support a kid that isn't yours. "Best interest of the child" is just cover for what is more convenient for the mother and the state.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 08:50 PM
1	Mandatory paternity testing - a redpill dream law almost became a reality in one state Of course they’re admissible in court — if the court orders them. A court-ordered test is admissible. Home tests are not. Some courts will even disregard or refuse to order a test if the statute of limitations has passed. In any case, a man who suspects the child is not his will just do as you suggested and get a private test done, and if the kid isn't his, he'll bail. Those guys aren't getting scammed. It's the ones who don't suspect and only find out years later. unless they can argue that you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 06:53 PM
2	Mandatory paternity testing - a redpill dream law almost became a reality in one state Over the counter tests are not always reliable, and they are not legally admissible in court. Your position also presupposes that all men do not trust their wives and girlfriends. Alas, many still do. In many cases, the guy didn't even have a suspicion until years later, by which point the damage has been done. What of him? Too frickin' bad?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 12:44 AM
3	Mandatory paternity testing - a redpill dream law almost became a reality in one state Any woman who commits fraud and tricks a man into raising children who are not his deserves to be shamed. And frankly she ought to be punished like any other fraudster and made to compensate her victim, not enjoy the benefit of 18 years of financial support.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 12:37 AM
-1	Mandatory paternity testing - a redpill dream law almost became a reality in one state When you do random testing on the larger population the numbers range from less to 1% to 3% in most studies. That means about 1 in 50 fathers are unknowingly raising children who aren't theirs. That's not a small number.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 12:31 AM
3	Mandatory paternity testing - a redpill dream law almost became a reality in one state The taxes of men are already used by the Government to give all kinds of free crap to women. It's about time they were spent on something that benefits men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 12:21 AM
3	Mandatory paternity testing - a redpill dream law almost became a reality in one state If the Government can throw you in prison for not paying child support, they should at least have to prove the kid is actually yours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 12:15 AM
1	Can we talk about the phenomenon of childless stepdads who are actually good? I blame women for women's actions. Women have full control over who fathers their children. They want all the choice, they can have the responsibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 10:41 PM
4	Can we talk about the phenomenon of childless stepdads who are actually good? Perhaps women should stop picking deadbeats to father their children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 09:25 PM
1	Men shouldn't dismiss so quickly the idea that unequal distribution of housework/childcare contributes to divorces I can pretty much guarantee that any study which finds men have more leisure time is playing fast and loose with the definitions of leisure and housework.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/24 12:09 PM
4	Why do people pretend the only thing men had to offer was a paycheck? And yet women could and did open bank accounts well before 1974. Women even owned banks in the 19th century. Prior to 1974, almost every bank in the United States refused to issue credit cards to women Virtually nobody had a credit card prior to the 1980s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/24 07:51 PM
2	Have you ever been abused, sexually assaulted or harassed by a woman? Used to work in a bar. Couldn't even tell you how many times I got grabbed or groped by a drunken woman, usually an older woman, or saw it happen. Groups of drunk women are the worst. I've found a lot of women have very little respect for male boundaries or the need to obtain his consent, probably because they know there will be few repercussions if they don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/24 06:42 PM
2	Why do people pretend the only thing men had to offer was a paycheck? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sarah_Howe_(fraudster) Who do you suppose was making deposits at her women-only bank if not women? Nell Gwyn had a bank account in her own name in 1686.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/24 06:36 PM
-8	Why do people pretend the only thing men had to offer was a paycheck? Man it wasn’t even till 1974 that women were legally allowed to open a bank account in their name Women had bank accounts as far back as the 17th century. One of the first ever Ponzi schemes in the 19th century was run by a woman through her women-only bank.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/24 06:15 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Fair enough, only wording it like this: a trial which prioritized his right to be viewed as innocent Makes it seem like you have a problem with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/24 07:09 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread If you are ever accused of a serious crime, would you like to be presumed innocent?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/24 06:56 PM
2	Do relationships where a woman is with a man for his money have really dead bedrooms? This is one of the less likely relationships to have a dead bedroom. If she's only with him for his money, then he's only with her so he can have regular sex with a hot woman. The moment she stops putting out, he'll just ditch her for someone else and he won't be short of options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/24 09:15 PM
1	Q4M: Would you date a broke woman? I saw this TikTok where a woman was explaining that males making $50k/year should bow out of the dating pool. This is because they wouldn't have expendable income to treat women when out on dates. She's an immediate nope from me. She can go find another ATM. Would you date a broke woman? It depends why she's broke. I don't expect her to be earning mega bucks, I don't even care if she's working as a janitor, but no job of any kind is an immediate red flag. Why is she in debt? If it's consumer deb…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/24 06:35 PM
4	what would happen if 1 average guy and 100 attractive women were stranded on a desert island I mean when society collapses feminists decide that self-preservation takes precedence over the sisterhood.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/24 09:45 PM
4	what would happen if 1 average guy and 100 attractive women were stranded on a desert island Like in Venezuela. When everything was going well they had the biggest feminist movement in Latin America. When the shit hit the fan and everything collapsed, the blue-haired man haters threw out their "men are pigs" placards and disappeared rapidly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/24 03:28 PM
0	what would happen if 1 average guy and 100 attractive women were stranded on a desert island If he has any sense, he'll build a raft and head to the next island to play Robinson Crusoe. The women can build their feminist Valhalla without men and all thrive in peace and harmony. Or, as is more probable, all die of exposure and starvation within a few weeks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/24 12:21 PM
–	'Better than real men': Young Chinese women turn to AI boyfriends Just another wealth transfer from men to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 08:18 PM
–	'Better than real men': Young Chinese women turn to AI boyfriends Single men can support themselves on surprisingly little. It isn't men who have racked up billions in consumer and student debt. Every tax-paying man is paying for women in one way or other, and often several ways at once. When AI is ready to step up and foot the bill, let me know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 07:58 PM
–	'Better than real men': Young Chinese women turn to AI boyfriends I suspect the AI won't be better at paying her bills than a real man though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 07:32 PM
–	Why don't more struggling men join conservative religions? Struggling men don't become Christians these days. They become Muslims. There's a particularly high conversion rating among prisoners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 06:41 PM
4	She isn’t “withholding” sex from you. She simply doesn’t feel like having sex. It's funny because women do NOT take it well when they get turned down for sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/24 12:47 AM
1	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD But if women do better in a subject than men, it’s that we need to coddle and handhold men If women do better at something, like being a majority of college-goers, it's because girls are awesome and who cares if boys don't go to college, it's their own fault anyway. But if men do better at something, like continuing to dominate STEM, it's muh sexism and we need even more female-only scholarships, internships, hire quotas and fast track schemes. I don’t mind if we coddle and handhold men more esp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/24 12:13 AM
11	My explanation of the manosphere popularity It’s popular because men still haven’t figured out that attraction cannot be negotiated Yet it's amazing what a big salary and a fancy house and car can do for one's attractiveness, which is exactly what the manosphere teaches.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/24 03:36 PM
20	My explanation of the manosphere popularity Who typically joins the manosphere? It’s a guy in his teens who tried to initiate something with girls but failed repeatedly. Who was probably raised by a single mother and primarily taught by female teachers. Who has grown up hearing up that men ain't shit. Who, being male, has little chance getting a college scholarship. And then he discovers the Manosphere, the only place which actually recognises his issues and offers practical advice that might solve them. Hardly a surprise he signs up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/24 03:36 PM
3	“Be nice” was NEVER code for “Being nice to women gets them wet for you”. Nice guys lie to themselves. You admitted yourself that assholes get laid and that being nice doesn't attract women. As Bill Hicks put it, chicks dig jerks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/24 01:16 PM
5	“Be nice” was NEVER code for “Being nice to women gets them wet for you”. Nice guys lie to themselves. TLDR: Women and society did not tell men to be nice guys. These guys hear what they wanted to hear and came to their own bad conclusions. These guys WANTED to believe being nice would get them laid, even when NO ONE told them that was the case. At worst they are guilty of naivete. They should know that women love jerks and disproportionately pick criminals to reproduce with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/24 01:08 AM
2	That Time Someone Asked "What Makes a Female Creepy?" The way some women behave towards gay men, often the very behavior they would claim was creepy if done to a woman by a man. There is a reason why some gay bars now ban bachelorette parties.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/24 10:48 PM
2	If females want so much trust in a relationship, then they should be fine without no-fault divorce laws. If paternity fraud is no big deal, then hospitals shouldn't bother putting tags on newborn babies and taking the baby's footprints. Just hand the mother the nearest baby and if she finds out a few years later that it's the wrong one, well that's just too bad. You shouldn't have been so trusting! Biology doesn't matter! Oh and of course you'll have to carry on paying child support for the kid that isn't yours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/24 01:15 AM
0	If females want so much trust in a relationship, then they should be fine without no-fault divorce laws. She just shouldn't marry someone she doesn't trust not to have children with someone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/24 12:54 AM
1	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD i'm looking for a husband not an assistant So why should you get to take the credit for his work?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/24 10:43 PM
2	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Because it isn’t about reproductive rights once the child is born and already alive. You do realize this attitude is why men and boys who have been sexually assaulted end up paying child support for the resulting children? In any case, if she can terminate that exact same child for any reason she likes just a couple months earlier, complaining about a man not wanting to financially support it rings a tad hollow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/24 01:19 AM
3	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD No they just marry someone who is incidental to their work. Or they get married after earning their billions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/24 12:20 AM
2	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Biology isn’t fair. What does any of this have to do with reproductive rights? Why should a man have to pay for a child you alone chose to have? And if you would deny me my reproductive rights, why should I care about protecting yours? Most men can murder or severely injure most women with relative ease. In America about 500 homicides are committed by women each year and most of their victims are men. And if she can't do it, she gets another man to do it. There was a passport bro here who said h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/24 12:06 AM
3	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Mary Koss designed the widely-used Sexual Experience Survey, which measures sexual violence but deliberately excludes female on male assaults from its surveys. She's also an advisor to the FBI, CDC etc, who define female on rape as the benign-sounding "made to penetrate". Lest there be any doubts about her position, she can be heard here explaining that a woman drugging and raping a man bareback is merely "unwanted contact".	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 05:49 PM
5	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Feel free to name successful men whose wives propped them up, as opposed to sat on her ass doing nothing while he was building a billion dollar company from his garage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 05:41 PM
3	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Start with Mary Koss.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 05:33 PM
5	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Terminating a "fetus" is pretty cruel too, no? Women already have the right to abandon or give up that child for adoption after it is born without the father's knowledge or permission, and with zero legal consequences, so why are you denying men the same right? Perhaps women should take responsibility and not have children with men who don't want them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 05:32 PM
4	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Women have different bodies. Get over it. It’s not fair, but we are the ones who grow a fetus. Men aren’t. We have the ability to decide what happens. Men don’t. Sure, you decide whether or not to keep the baby. Just don't expect me to pay for your decision. Your body, your choice, your responsibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 04:46 PM
3	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Erasing male rape victims and defining rape as exclusively a male-perpetrated crime.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 04:45 PM
7	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD the men who do this stand on the shoulders of their wives It's a miracle that Newton, Michelangelo and Tesla managed to accomplish what they did as lifelong bachelors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 04:38 PM
1	Is there any legitimate argument to be made for the superiority of women over men? Sure, you name the specific ones caused by women to men based on their male biology, Let's start with the six million forced vasectomies ordered by the Government of Indira Gandhi, India's only female Prime Minister, in the 1970s. Medical research is primarily done on male tissue, meaning most medications that could help women are thrown out because they didn't help men. The primary reason medical experiments are first done on men is because they are considered more disposable (and because more …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/24 01:16 AM
3	Is there any legitimate argument to be made for the superiority of women over men? Would you like me to name current western things? I can do that, but doing so in my original post would have detracted from the conversation, since the point of my original post was not "look at how oppressed woman are", it was "look at what women have dealt with for thousands of years without snapping. Would you like a list of the things men have had to deal with for thousands of years? I limited myself to two which still exist today. There is a difference between supporting something and ackno…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/24 01:19 AM
–	Every time a male celebrity's nudes are leaked - women and gay men spread it, laugh about it, discuss it, critique it, shame it etc. with zero blowback. Has to be said, a lot of women think violations of men are funny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/24 11:40 PM
2	Is there any legitimate argument to be made for the superiority of women over men? You named two things, one of which also affects women (not as much as it used to, but still) I mentioned two things which still happen across the world to this day, even though you seem to think stuff that harms or inconveniences men gets outlawed immediately. You mentioned things that were either outlawed centuries ago or never prevalent in the West to begin with. Dozens of countries outlaw or restrict female circumcision. Every single country in the world permits male circumcision. doesn't hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/24 11:13 PM
7	Is there any legitimate argument to be made for the superiority of women over men? And from my personal experience: patience. If men got pregnant or commonly got endometriosis, we would have figured out cures for those issues ages ago. If men had to put up with the thousands of years of foot binding, breast ironing, dry sex, being given the rights of children based on their sex, marital rape, honor killing, etc, etc, men would have snapped ages ago. Women seem to be a lot more patient and forgiving and accepting, which again, are prosocial even if they detriment the specific w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/24 09:31 PM
4	Do you agree with Redonkulas' assessment of what to expect in case of divorce? Don't get married, chaps. It's the best way to protect your health, your wealth, your property, and potentially your life: a divorced man is eight times more likely to commit suicide than a divorced woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/24 12:23 PM
74	"Enjoy the decline" is a perfectly viable strategy History is chock full of people who imagined they were untouchable only to learn the hard way that they were, in fact, touchable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/24 01:37 PM
5	Do men require more support than women? A man in poverty is homeless. Or in prison for being unable to afford child support.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/24 11:57 PM
1	The gender war is not just an online thing Gee, I wonder why boys would be hostile to a movement that promotes hatred of men and favors discrimination against them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/24 10:22 PM
2	The gender war is not just an online thing Also, you need to keep in mind that those surveyed people also voted for BREXIT, because they thought being in the EU has done more bad than good :) What good did being in the EU do? Brexit corrected a 40 year old mistake.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/24 10:14 PM
2	If paternity tests were to become mandatory, we would also need a database with every man's DNA to compare them to. Ask women to take personal responsibility for their actions? Who makes deadbeats dads? The women who let deadbeats nut inside them without a condom, choose not to use birth control, choose not to have an abortion, and choose not to leave the kid at a safe haven or give it up for adoption. If women want all the choices, they can have all the responsibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/24 09:12 PM
3	Women are just as redpilled as men. All the misandrist subreddits have been banned. A lot of them were banned for transphobia rather than misandry though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/24 08:30 PM
2	If paternity tests were to become mandatory, we would also need a database with every man's DNA to compare them to. I'm fine with consequences for paternity fraud as long as both parties are held accountable accordingly. Only one party is responsible for paternity fraud.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/24 06:30 PM
2	If paternity tests were to become mandatory, we would also need a database with every man's DNA to compare them to. As you say, it depends where you're from. In some places the husband of the mother is automatically presumed to be the father. Most places also have a statute of limitations on contesting paternity, so if you only find out five years later, it's basically too frickin' bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/24 06:26 PM
-2	If paternity tests were to become mandatory, we would also need a database with every man's DNA to compare them to. How about men should have to face the consequences of being irresponsible fuckboys? And how about women face the consequences of committing fraud? Your database would soon identify the guilty parties. Less than half of owed child support is paid in full. They're clearly not doing a very good job at it. The number 1 reason for non-payment of child support is inability to pay. Govt policies like incarcerating non-payers and suspending their driving licenses also tend to reduce the likelihood of it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/24 12:55 AM
2	If paternity tests were to become mandatory, we would also need a database with every man's DNA to compare them to. What happens if the real father turns out to be dead, or has left the country, or they just can't find him?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/24 12:50 AM
-2	If paternity tests were to become mandatory, we would also need a database with every man's DNA to compare them to. Or how about women just shouldn't deceive men into raising children who aren't theirs? And actually punishing women who commit fraud. Every child support order should be subject to a mandatory DNA test. If the Government can throw you in prison for not paying child support, they should at least have to prove the kid is actually yours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/24 12:26 AM
1	It’s become socially acceptable in America for women to lie about sexual abuse That doesn't mean 96% of rape accusations are true. The vast majority of rape accusations are unproven/unverifiable. Going by the FBI's Uniform Crime Report: 3% convicted, 2% acquitted, 12% admitted false, 83% no probable cause. Then take a look at the Innocence Project, which overwhelmingly consists of men wrongly incarcerated for sex offenses, and also consider the fact that prosecutors and police have been caught deliberately withholding evidence that would have exonerated rape suspects. As f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 12:03 AM
1	I genuinely think people underestimate female toxicity All men over the age of 18 were able to vote Suffrage was extended to all British men over 21 only in 1918.** The same act gave the vote to women for the first time. I wont agree that these means to get the vote is the same as the incel groups that stab people because they can’t get sex Do you think planting bombs on trains and sending letter bombs to people is justifiable if it involves the right cause? Regardless, you wanted a female group who killed and injured people, and now you have one. Y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 07:31 PM
3	What year did women achieve equality? Sperm donors are also exempt from paying child support...	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/24 09:02 PM
4	What year did women achieve equality? A woman can also choose not to have sex. 0% risk of pregnancy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/24 09:01 PM
2	I genuinely think people underestimate female toxicity 4 men were accidentally killed as a result from the fires started by the suffragettes If someone dies in a fire you deliberately started in a public place, that's not an accident. If someone gets injured handling a letter bomb you sent, that's not an accident. It's astonishing that you are trying to defend the actions of literal terrorists who killed and maimed innocent people. I daresay you would not give such leeway to any men's group who did that. the suffragettes didn’t intend to hurt anyone…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/24 06:36 PM
4	I genuinely think people underestimate female toxicity nobody was hurt or killed Why persist in this when you clearly don't know what you are talking about? Courtesy of Wikipedia: At least 4 people were killed in the attacks, and at least 24 were injured	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/24 09:43 PM
0	I genuinely think people underestimate female toxicity I'm saying there isn't an entire subreddit dedicated to women murdering men for saying no. Probably because no one cares enough to start one. It's a matter of routine to ignore or downplay the suffering of men. It's why we get headlines like "70 killed in explosion, 12 women among the dead" or "1 in 4 homeless people is a woman". Men get murdered and assaulted every day (more often than women, and sometimes by women) and no one bats an eyelid. One woman gets murdered and people take to the stree…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/24 04:58 PM
0	I genuinely think people underestimate female toxicity Men are physically stronger then women. Means nothing if she decides to shoot or stab you, or kill you in your sleep, like happened to Phil Hartman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/24 04:25 PM
5	I genuinely think people underestimate female toxicity Men still pay even if they had no choice in creating the child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/24 03:58 PM
8	I genuinely think people underestimate female toxicity Toxic femininity isn’t advocating for putting men in camps or raping them when they reach 13 or violence against them They just abort them before they are born. There are literally no female groups that commit violence The first terrorist bomb in Ireland in the 20th century was not planted by the IRA, but by the Suffragettes. Between 1912 and 1915, hundreds of bombs were left on trains, in theatres, post offices, churches, even outside the Bank of England; while arson attacks on timber yards, ra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/24 03:35 PM
4	Is it seen as ungrateful or a bad choice to decline sex? Imagine hearing all your life that "men always want sex" and "men will screw anything", and then being the woman who is turned down for sex by a man. I imagine it must be quite a blow to the ego. More than once I've witnessed a woman have a tantrum because she wanted sex when I did not. Believe it or not, sometimes men also get tired, get headaches, are not in the mood or just doing something else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/24 01:20 PM
-2	Serial killer infatuation As Bill Hicks put it, chicks dig jerks. Hitler had Eva Braun, Manson had Squeaky Fromme, Ted Bundy got lots of dates, I wonder what I'm doing wrong	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/24 12:31 PM
1	Prenup a red flag? Messages, apps, call logs, photos, emails None of which would prove they had sex, and that's assuming you acquired the above legally and they didn't just delete them before you did. I don't know about you, but if I had an infidelity penalty in the pre-nup and I was cheating, I'd make damn sure there were no texts or emails in existence that proved it. Secret recordings and photos would probably be deemed inadmissible on grounds of privacy. Most lawyers would advise against an infidelity clause f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/24 12:46 AM
1	Prenup a red flag? An infidelity clause is not as cut and dried as you think, and most lawyers would probably advise against it. You still have to prove it in court. Hidden recordings are not always legal and your spouse is hardly going to confess when there's $1m on the line. And what constitutes infidelity anyway? An emotional affair? A blowjob? Are you going to put that in the pre-nup? I get wanting recompense from a cheating spouse, but in the end it drags out the divorce and makes the lawyers richer, and you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/24 12:23 AM
1	Prenup a red flag? You can put one in, but you still have to prove the infidelity took place, which is more difficult than it might seem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/24 12:16 AM
2	AD HOC WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Define "built them up".	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 12:18 AM
2	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD How would you stop women being fearful of men? I don't think the sexes should never mix, but there should be places where they are not forced to mix. Men and boys in particular would benefit from having a safe space away from women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/24 08:23 PM
1	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD I'm surprised you didn't know this, but people wanted these elite clubs for rich men taken down because they were for snobby old money nepo babies to do shady business/political deals and act like they were better than everyone else. I'm surprised you didn't know this, but snobby old money nepo babies will continue to do shady business/political deals whether or not their golf club is men-only. If you're curious, you can look up why "gentlemen's clubs" were disgusting and the public were against…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/24 07:54 PM
18	The DHS paid almost 700k to a counter-terrorism NGO to intercept and divert Twitter traffic away from people in the “manosphere” and those who take issue with promiscuity. Do you agree with these actions and the funding of this report? They are worried that men will stop dating, getting married, having kids, overproducing value, etc if manosphere groups get popular. And supplying cannon fodder for their wars. Even a mandatory draft is only viable if a sufficient number of men go along with it. Imagine enduring of decades of mAlE pRiViLeGe, iNcElS, men are pigs, men ain't shit, #KillAllMen, and then being asked to go die in a war to save the women. Even so, it's hilarious they think banning video games will increase the birth r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/24 01:53 PM
1	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD I didn't say public life and education. I said male spaces. Women have had their own clubs, schools and colleges for centuries in some cases. The Seven Sisters colleges have been around since the 19th century and most still refuse to admit male students. If women live in mortal fear of men, why are they so determined to get into every male-only space in existence when they either already have their own equivalents or could establish them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/24 11:48 PM
1	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Years ago my dad belonged to a men-only golf club. Literally just a bunch of old dudes drinking whiskey in between rounds of golf. Now and again, there'd be a bunch of women outside protesting that they weren't allowed to join. This pattern was repeated up and down the land at male clubs, bars, colleges and so on. Why, if women fear men so much, would they be so determined to get into a private golf club full of MEN if they believed they would murder them at the first opportunity? If they wanted…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/24 11:20 PM
2	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Who said anything about the world? I'm talking about specific men's spaces that women demanded (and got) entry to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/24 10:29 PM
–	Men don't really want male issues to be solved , they want power men are half of the voters Men are less than half the voters. A crucial difference. . This is why it's fundamentally disingenuous to say stuff like "feminists/women don't care about male issues." Not only do they not care, they actively oppose those who do. Start a male homeless shelter, DV or sexual assault group or a campaign against paternity fraud and see who is lined up against you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/24 12:19 PM
1	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD idk why do sex predators flock to christianity? Far more teachers than priests are sex predators, and we all know which gender predominates in teaching.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/24 12:34 AM
–	Women are afforded a lot more leeway in what they can get away with A British Ministry of Justice study found that under similar criminal circumstances, a man was 88% more likely to be imprisoned than a woman. It also found that gender caused a greater disparity in sentencing than race.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/24 12:31 AM
4	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Women apparently feel unsafe around all men. So why are they so desperate to get into spaces that are full of... MEN?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/24 12:09 AM
6	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD If women want to be safe from men, then might I humbly suggest they keep away from men instead of continually invading their spaces.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 08:59 PM
–	Women are afforded a lot more leeway in what they can get away with We should stop putting women in jail. For anything. Why we should close women's prisons and treat their crimes more fairly	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 08:56 PM
–	Women are afforded a lot more leeway in what they can get away with The difference is that this is primarily male judges and male-dominated legislatures who are infantilizing women due to their own sexism. Men who pander to the female-majority electorate who keep them in office. There are feminists who argue that women should not be incarcerated for any crime. Are they infantalizing women too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 08:49 PM
9	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD They wanted to be safe from men. Strange then that last century has seen women endlessly demand that formerly all-male clubs, bars, gyms, colleges etc be forced to admit women. Do you want to be safe from men or don't you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 03:36 PM
0	Falling fertility rates seem to be a problem of falling marriage rates, which in turn seem to be due to lessening of the gap between male and female privilege. Hence it might be impossible to raise fertility rates unless egalitarianism is challenged. I have only ever heard men mention how concerning birth rates are and, somehow the only solutions always involve removing the autonomy of women in some way. I've only ever heard women express a concern for bodily autonomy when it concerns women. They're just fine with male circumcision, a male only draft, pressuring men to have vasectomies and forcing men to support children they never wanted or consented to have. Feel free to suggest solutions that would increase the birth rate by reducing male…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 12:30 PM
1	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Hmm, I wonder why feminism might appeal to a deranged man hater.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 12:34 AM
1	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD an insane murderer lmao Also a radical feminist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 12:29 AM
1	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD The SCUM Manifesto by Valerie Solanos. It should be required for all boys in school, so they understand exactly what they are fighting against. A long time ago I also waded through something by the sex offender/feminist icon Simone DeBeauvoir.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/24 11:34 PM
1	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Are you suggesting there are any feminists who call out misandry? Feminism is home to far too many man-hating sociopaths for me to regard as it anything other than an enemy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/24 11:24 PM
1	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Karen DeCrow, former head of NOW, was ostracized by her feminist colleagues for daring to support joint custody. She also defended Frank Serpico in his unsuccessful suit against paying child support to a woman who baby trapped him after lying about using the pill. a ton of feminists have been trying to get men out of signing up for the draft Feminists only care about the draft when someone suggests adding women to it. If there has to be a draft, they will fight tooth and nail to keep it male-onl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/24 11:21 PM
1	Would you leave a man you love if he refused to marry you? It wasn't all that long ago It was over a century ago in pretty much every Western nation. Honestly, how long can women go on milking that one?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/24 10:29 PM
9	Why do Red Pillers find it so hard to admit that men can be horrible people? Why do women outnumber men in nursing and teaching? Such cosy girls clubs should not be acceptable in this day and age, and the recruitment of more men to these jobs should be a priority.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/24 04:31 PM
11	Why do Red Pillers find it so hard to admit that men can be horrible people? Male politicians pander to the female-majority electorate. As regards current abortion legislation, bear in mind this is supported by a sizeable number of women. The governor who signed the anti-abortion bill in Alabama was a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/24 01:44 PM
6	California Online Dating Safety Act: Thoughts Would you be okay with a man taking a photo of your ID so he can do a background check? Just for good measure, bring along your medical records too so he can check your STI history.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/24 01:01 AM
4	California Online Dating Safety Act: Thoughts Heh, a few women find out they're dating the same dude on Tinder, and suddenly legislation is required to deal with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/24 11:58 PM
1	Why do all feminist subs block most discussions that aren't positive of them? As with all cults, they do not tolerate dissent and contrary opinions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/24 11:13 AM
–	Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do? Infanticide laws and safe havens literally came about because people were reluctant to actually punish women for murdering their babies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 11:55 PM
1	Q4M: When it comes to “education around consent,” do you feel like boys and men “don’t understand consent” or that “they don’t care if they have consent”? the CDC’s nationally representative data revealed that over one year, men and women were equally likely to experience nonconsensual sex, and most male victims reported female perpetrators. Over their lifetime, 79 percent of men who were “made to penetrate” someone else (a form of rape, in the view of most researchers) reported female perpetrators. Link The National Epidemiologic Survey on Alcohol and Related Conditions found in a sample of 43,000 adults little difference in the sex of self-repor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 12:14 AM
1	Q4M: When it comes to “education around consent,” do you feel like boys and men “don’t understand consent” or that “they don’t care if they have consent”? And we can start by teaching women not to rape underage boys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/24 09:11 PM
2	Q4M: When it comes to “education around consent,” do you feel like boys and men “don’t understand consent” or that “they don’t care if they have consent”? Why would say people who rape when it’s predominantly one over the other? When a gender neutral definition of rape is used (ie not one purposely designed to exclude female perpetrators and male victims), the ratio is much closer than you think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/24 09:10 PM
0	Q4M: When it comes to “education around consent,” do you feel like boys and men “don’t understand consent” or that “they don’t care if they have consent”? She knows. And yet she still does it. Either she thinks she'll get away with it or she doesn't think it's wrong. Given the proliferation of these type of cases in recent years, something is clearly going wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/24 08:52 PM
0	Q4M: When it comes to “education around consent,” do you feel like boys and men “don’t understand consent” or that “they don’t care if they have consent”? No need to teach. We absolutely should teach women not to rape underage boys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/24 07:58 PM
-1	Q4M: When it comes to “education around consent,” do you feel like boys and men “don’t understand consent” or that “they don’t care if they have consent”? Speaking of schools, do you think we should teach female teachers that a 13 year boy in your class cannot legally consent to any sex act with you? Because a helluva a lot don't seem to know about it. r/teacherswhorape	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/24 10:30 AM
17	Q4M: When it comes to “education around consent,” do you feel like boys and men “don’t understand consent” or that “they don’t care if they have consent”? Because plenty of girls and women seem to understand the concept just fine. In my experience, women have very little concept of obtaining or respecting a man's consent for anything sexual. Women in bars and clubs are extremely grabby and gropey with attractive men. And try being a man who says no to sex when she wants it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/24 12:50 AM
–	Debate A Man should be allowed to opt out being a father if he says it enough early in a pregnancy. The double standards here are hilarious. Literally the same people who wail about abortion rights for women will turn around and tell a man who's been forced to support a kid he never chose to have: "shoulda kept your pants on then!" To all those who hold that position, I say this: If you would deny me my right not to have parenthood forced on me, why should I care whether you can get an abortion?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/24 03:55 PM
–	Debate A Man should be allowed to opt out being a father if he says it enough early in a pregnancy. If men were forced to have and look after kids, abortions wouldn’t even be debated You mean like if it was men who were drafted into the armed forces against their will or had their genitals mutilated at birth, it would be outlawed. Oh wait...	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/24 03:48 PM
–	Debate A Man should be allowed to opt out being a father if he says it enough early in a pregnancy. "If she can kill the motherfucker, I should be allowed to abandon it."	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/24 03:45 PM
3	Do you think women should be able to be sued or convicted of a crime for paternity fraud? Genuinely curious to know in what circumstances a woman could mistakenly misidentify her kid's father.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/24 11:56 PM
9	Do you think women should be able to be sued or convicted of a crime for paternity fraud? "Am I the father?" "Yes." That's not a mistake.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/24 08:12 PM
8	Do you think women should be able to be sued or convicted of a crime for paternity fraud? Would make a nice change if money from male taxpayers was actually spent on men for once.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/24 08:07 PM
3	Should paternity tests be mandatory? Um, yes they are. And I daresay the cases that make the media are just the tip of the iceberg. And LOL @ "all sorts of safe-guards in place". Might want to look up default judgements and the Bradley Amendment too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/24 06:33 PM
2	Should paternity tests be mandatory? It depends on the jurisdiction. A lot of child support orders are made by default judgement. Some places still don't require or recognise a paternity test, and others won't reconsider a judgement already made even if there is a test eliminating him as the father.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/24 06:24 PM
8	Should paternity tests be mandatory? Cases like that are reported all the time. The former DA of LA county admitted their only interest is in collecting the money and they don't give a shit if they have the right father. That guy won't be reimbursed a penny either. Nor will the mother be punished for lying under oath.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/24 06:22 PM
11	Should paternity tests be mandatory? No it isn't, as cases like the above demonstrate. It should also apply to married men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/24 04:02 PM
16	Should paternity tests be mandatory? Hence, as I said, every single child support order should be preceded by a mandatory DNA test. If the state imposes legal and financial obligations on fathers which carry criminal penalties, then the state can prove he's actually the father and pay for the test.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/24 03:47 PM
19	Should paternity tests be mandatory? I have never heard of a case where a paternity test was performed yet a guy still had to pay child support. Now you have. Believe me, there are many more cases like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/24 03:19 PM
19	Should paternity tests be mandatory? Not always. Once a child support order has been given, some courts will even disregard the results of a test.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/24 03:06 PM
12	Should paternity tests be mandatory? Because paternity tests should be mandatory for every child support order.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/24 02:56 PM
2	Should paternity tests be mandatory? On the other side, arguments can be made that society and children at large would suffer if this was to take place. The only pain and suffering will be felt by the women who can't trick men into raising and paying for someone else's kid. On that note, hospitals shouldn't bother with tags and footprints when a baby is born. They should just hand the mother the nearest baby and if she finds out a few years later that she's raising a kid she didn't give birth to, tell her tough. Should've had a tes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/24 02:33 PM
42	Should paternity tests be mandatory? If the Government can throw you in prison for not paying child support, they should at least have to prove the kid is actually yours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/24 02:06 PM
8	Why are men so anti marriage nowadays compared to 100 years ago? So why is marriage so repulsive to men now but still desirable for women? Because marriage benefits women. It doesn't benefit men. You wouldn't fly on a plane that had a 50% chance of crashing, so why marry when there's a 50% chance you'll end up divorcing? Why marry someone who can unilaterally change the terms of the relationship at any point for any reason they like (stop having sex with you, cheat, get fat) but you'll still have to pay to be rid of them. If they do those things when you aren…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/24 12:27 AM
2	How many men here would agree to be homemakers, caregivers AND breadwinners as many married women are? According to Pew, men do more work, housework and childcare combined than women. Women also get more sleep than men. These studies are also often skewed by the definition of "housework", which conveniently omits household jobs typically done by men, like mowing the lawn and fixing the car.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/24 06:22 PM
7	Many women are actually quite distrustful of other women, they just defend the sisterhood in front of men A few years ago I was manager in a workplace that had mostly female staff. I actually liked most of them and never had any serious issues, but jeez, half my job was dealing with their squabbles with each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/24 11:17 PM
2	Reproducing older is creating a generation of disabled kids, and it is morally abhorrent My grandmother had her first child at 36 and her last at 42. They all turned out fine. Also bear in mind when making comparisons that autism and similar disorders was far less likely to be diagnosed, even in the recent past.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/24 03:28 PM
–	Females are way creepier towards males than vice versa, but society mostly looks the other way A female inmate is more likely to be sexually assaulted by another female inmate than a male guard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/23 07:32 PM
6	Females are way creepier towards males than vice versa, but society mostly looks the other way Actually I'd expect a woman to say women don't do that sort of thing. She'd probably add that even if it happened it's still not as bad as when men do it to women. I'd expect a man to say it has happened to him too. You'd be surprised how many men have experienced unwanted sexual contact, because now and again someone actually bothers to ask.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/23 02:15 AM
7	Females are way creepier towards males than vice versa, but society mostly looks the other way I'd expect it from both genders. How would you expect a woman to react if a man complained that he'd just been groped by a woman? Sympathy? Insist he should report the sexual assault? Or laugh and tell him to man up?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/23 01:36 AM
12	Females are way creepier towards males than vice versa, but society mostly looks the other way Probably because they don't expect to be taken seriously. Or face a counter-accusation. Who do you suppose would be believed? women don't do that sort of thing you should be proud she groped you	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/23 12:34 AM
–	Females are way creepier towards males than vice versa, but society mostly looks the other way women have slapped the butts of me and lots of other men (but I know they wouldn't have been okay if we slapped them back) I'm sure most men who have ever been in a pub or club have been groped by a drunk woman at some point. I worked in a bar, groups of drunken women are particularly bad and have zero respect for male boundaries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/23 11:54 PM
2	What do you think of the study showing 71% of men have been sexually victimized by a woman? Do you think female on male rape is underreported, and even downplayed by society? If you're watching a movie and a man ties up a woman and rapes her, it'll be a dark psychological drama. But if the scene is a woman tying up a man and raping him, it'll be a romcom. Female rape is bad. Male rape is funny. Don't drop the soap! In Britain, where your example is from, only a man can be convicted of rape. Legislation specifically requires the victim to be penetrated by a penis. A woman who rapes a ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/23 03:15 PM
10	What do you think of the study showing 71% of men have been sexually victimized by a woman? Worse, they find it funny and protect women who do it. A few years ago there was a daytime show where Sharon Osbourne and co were in hysterics about a guy who had been castrated by his wife for the crime of wanting a divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/23 02:54 PM
1	Will AI boyfriends make males obsolete? Won't be a thing until there's some way of making AI pay child support and alimony. And pay the majority of the taxes that prop up the welfare system that primarily benefits women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/23 11:45 PM
–	The Rise Of Male Subcultures is Disheartening. This is exactly why have no sympathy when it comes to protecting women-only spaces. They can go complain at the formerly all-male Augusta golf club.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/23 06:32 PM
–	The Rise Of Male Subcultures is Disheartening. Ignore what they say, just watch what they do, because many feminists speak with forked tongue when it comes to men's issues. On the one hand they'll say we're with you, we support men too, but in reality, whatever the men's issue may be, you'll invariably find feminists in the other corner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/23 06:28 PM
-2	Avoiding the Coming Demographic Collapse Heh, if you don't want to be baby trapped, go and get permanently sterilized. Might want to have a look at r/postvasectomypain if you think vasectomies are safe and simple. What's disingenuous is whining about having to be in charge of birth control when 90% of the options are female-only and there's only one male option that doesn't involve a scalpel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/23 12:30 AM
-4	Avoiding the Coming Demographic Collapse What a world we live in where a man has to mutilate his genitals to protect himself from entrapment...	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/23 12:00 AM
1	What’s the deal in regards to woman on women sexual abuse being completely ignored? Erin Pizzey opened a DV shelter for men. Read up on what feminists did to her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/23 11:57 PM
4	What’s the deal in regards to woman on women sexual abuse being completely ignored? The CDC's numbers also align pretty well with this: A 2012 study using data from the U. S. Census Bureau’s nationally representative National Epidemiologic Survey on Alcohol and Related Conditions found in a sample of 43,000 adults little difference in the sex of self-reported sexual perpetrators. Of those who affirmed that they had ‘ever forced someone to have sex with you against their will,’ 43.6 percent were female and 56.4 percent were male.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/23 11:15 PM
2	What’s the deal in regards to woman on women sexual abuse being completely ignored? Not just in women's prisons. According to surveys done by the BJS, 60% of male prisoners who reported sexual abuse while incarcerated said it was perpetrated by a staff member. Of them, 40% said the staff member was female. Link. In male juvenile detention centers, 91% of the most serious incidents of staff sexual misconduct involves only a female member of staff. Link. While male and female inmates are now better protected from potential assaults by male staff and inmates, far less has been don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/23 11:09 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Men predominate at the very top, in politics, big business etc, but they also predominate at the very bottom of society, a majority of the homeless and they do most of the dirtiest and most dangerous jobs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/23 09:48 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Reminded me of an episode of Yes, Minster when they appointed a chain smoker who coughs constantly as health minister.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/23 09:45 PM
–	Women hate age gap relationships because they are scared of being tossed aside in favour of young women Women hate age gap relationships because they are disgusted at the predatory nature of male sexuality. Yet they never seem so disgusted when it's an old woman like Madonna or Cher dating some Chippendale young enough to be their son (or even grandson). There's no talk of them being predators or creepy. More like you go girl!	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/23 09:46 PM
6	Why do men leave their sick wives? Why do men leave their sick wives? They don't. The study which produced those results was heavily flawed and has been debunked so many times. The researchers themselves disowned the study. Essentially, any man who stopped participating in the study for any reason was marked as having left his wife. Incidentally, the same study found the top reason women stay with their sick husbands is financial. How romantic. Link	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/23 05:16 PM
2	What are some examples of Blue Pill Media that lied to you about women? There was a study done which showed that women cheat more in their 20s but men overtake them as they get older. I'll try to find it. Edit: Just realised you posted it. Women aged 18-29 cheat more than men aged 18-29. Then men overtake them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/23 12:30 PM
2	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD A woman can sexually assault a man or even an underage boy, get pregnant with his kid and sue him for child support. She can have an abortion without even informing the father, refuse to name the father, or disappear to another state with his kid and put it up for adoption without his knowledge. Heck she can lie that he's the father and if he finds out later on, he'll be told too bad, still gotta pay. Some women, especially feminists, love telling men who complain about being tricked or trapped …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/23 12:09 AM
2	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Men have to die before benefiting from a reproductive right. What a world we live in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 06:24 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Men are not paid more, they earn more because they work more hours, do more overtime and are more willing to take the most demanding and dangerous jobs. If you have an example of a woman doing exactly the same job as a man (same hours, same level of responsibility and experience, etc) and being paid less for it, then feel free to share it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 12:55 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread And every mother who discovers her baby was switched at the hospital should just suck it up and carry on raising the kid she has.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 12:38 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread An immensely stupid idea that destabilised the Middle East and ultimately has weakened American power and prestige in the region. Also set a dangerous precedent that the likes of Putin took note of. After all, if America can invade Iraq, why can't Russia invade Ukraine and China invade Taiwan?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 12:34 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Radical idea, but why not actually ask her what she'd like? It makes life a lot easier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 12:21 PM
3	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD There have been cases where a man's sperm was used to conceive a child after his death.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 11:49 PM
2	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Not sure why that's relevant?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 10:42 PM
6	Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did? I never said that. Were some men drunkards who beat their wives? Sure. Were some women emotional abusers who beat their children? Sure. Many more were probably perfectly decent human beings who did their best by their families. Not sure what your point is, unless it's that all men are pigs and all women are wonderful?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 10:28 PM
5	Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did? Presumably some did and some didn't. I daresay many of their wives were not angels either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 09:14 PM
11	Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did? Yeah I think a lot of PPD women have spent so long in the folksy feminist narrative they forgot that men in the same time period were literally being drafted to get slaughtered by the millions. And those who escaped being killed or maimed in a world war spent their lives working in mines, shipyards and factories in appalling conditions, before dying in their 50s. Male privilege indeed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 07:24 PM
6	FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Bear in mind that in the US (and most other places), men have zero reproductive rights, but are nevertheless held accountable for the woman's sole decision to keep the child. Men and boys have been tricked, cheated and sexually assaulted into becoming fathers and still forced to financially support the resulting child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/23 10:38 PM
1	Never-married single moms, even if they are good moms, took a very selfish decision There isn't a 50-50 chance you'll crash your car every time you drive it though. Marriages have a 50% failure rate. Much safer for men not to bother.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/23 12:08 AM
1	Men are NOT protectors Wow 1872 and we've still never had a female president Women are a majority of voters. If all women had voted for Hillary in 2016, she'd have been President. But they didn't. Women voters twice put Hillary's sleazy sex pest husband into the oval office, but not Hillary. Think about that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 11:49 PM
1	Never-married single moms, even if they are good moms, took a very selfish decision If you feel you need a prenup then you probably shouldn't be getting married anyway. It's much safer for men to avoid marriage altogether.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 11:43 PM
2	Never-married single moms, even if they are good moms, took a very selfish decision It's better for men to just not marry at all. An increasing number are taking that option too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 12:01 AM
0	Never-married single moms, even if they are good moms, took a very selfish decision Women have full control over who fathers their children. If women stopped having children with deadbeats, there wouldn't be any deadbeat dads.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 11:28 PM
0	Never-married single moms, even if they are good moms, took a very selfish decision Or perhaps she expects to benefit from divorce whereas he does not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 11:26 PM
2	Men are NOT protectors For most of human history, education was the preserve of a small, wealthy elite. The average peasant woman did not receive an education, but guess what? Neither did the average peasant man. The idea of universal education has only been a thing since the 19th century. That being said, women were never barred from education, provided their parents could afford it. Italian universities had female students in the Middle Ages. See also Thomas More's daughter, Margaret Roper, who was a noted scholar i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 07:36 PM
2	Men are NOT protectors More children are murdered by their mother than their father. Children are also more likely to be abused by their mother. Good job there are men around to protect children, otherwise things could be even worse. When you use a gender neutral definition of rape, about 40% of rape perpetrators are women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 06:55 PM
2	Men are NOT protectors Men are the ones who start the wars. Never heard of Margaret Thatcher? Catherine the Great? Elizabeth I? Isabella of Castille? How many countries did America bomb while Hillary was secretary of state?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 06:17 PM
3	Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive? You said women don't grope men. Well, they do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 03:41 PM
0	Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive? I have no problem with it, provided we can also have a men-only coach. Which would last about as long as it takes for a bunch of women to demand they be allowed into the men's coach because something something patwiarchy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 03:31 PM
4	Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive? I've worked in bars and a night clubs. Women, especially drunk women in groups, are extremely hands-on with men. I suspect that most men who have ever been in a pub, club or bar have at some point been groped by a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 03:28 PM
–	Q4M: what are the benefits of marriage you are willing to acknowledge? Married men have a 50-50 chance of becoming divorced men. A man's risk of suicide more than doubles after divorce. If you don't get married then you can't get divorced.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 01:39 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread There are many places where women are treated better than men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 12:16 AM
–	Q4M: what are the benefits of marriage you are willing to acknowledge? lower suicide risks Divorce is one of the biggest risk factors for suicide in men. And if you're married, there's about a 50% chance you'll end up divorced.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 11:52 PM
4	Which gender double standards and hypocrisies do you think are justified… and which are genuinely a result of cultural sexism and need to change? Perhaps think of that before having children with men unwilling or unable to support them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 12:12 AM
7	Which gender double standards and hypocrisies do you think are justified… and which are genuinely a result of cultural sexism and need to change? Then the person who made the unilateral decision to develop the fetus into a sentient human child can financially support it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 12:02 AM
6	Which gender double standards and hypocrisies do you think are justified… and which are genuinely a result of cultural sexism and need to change? Then the man can have the option to abandon it while it's still a "fetus".	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 11:45 PM
3	Which gender double standards and hypocrisies do you think are justified… and which are genuinely a result of cultural sexism and need to change? But it's okay for a woman to abort her baby because she doesn't fancy looking after it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 11:39 PM
1	Which gender double standards and hypocrisies do you think are justified… and which are genuinely a result of cultural sexism and need to change? Sounds cruel, but it would be crueler for the child to suffer than an adult man to suffer. Pity the court didn't consider whether it was cruel to leave a child to be raised by a sex offender. Any woman who becomes pregnant as a result of raping or sexually assaulting a man or boy should not be allowed to raise that child, and she should not benefit financially from her victim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 11:36 PM
1	Men should choose better women Most of mens relationship problems can be solved by them choosing better. Absolutely, men should choose better. And actually be prepared to enforce their boundaries and walk away if she isn't what they want. She cheats on you? Goodbye. Not interested in having sex? Goodbye. Gains 75lbs? Goodbye. She's abusive? Goodbye. Becomes a feminist? Goodbye.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 10:41 PM
–	CMV: In nearly every metric we can measure in the west, the average woman is outperforming the average man Circumsicion - unusual in most countries now a days except the USA and even there it’s usually men still wanting it for their sons because they had it done. Most women will go with whatever the dad wants for the penis The final decision of newborn circumcision depended on the mother in 51.47%. Abuse shelters- women started most dv shelters for women, why haven’t men ? Eriz Pizzey started a DV shelter for men. She was literally chased out of the country by feminists. Earl Silverstein also set up …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 05:07 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Because there are women out there who believe they are entitled to anything that belongs to men. So any women who are unhappy with the loss of female spaces should take their complaints to the formerly all-male Augusta golf club.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 06:44 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Women are just as violent as men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 05:15 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread France got this right and built a load of nuclear power plants. They actually export electricity to other countries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 05:08 PM
1	How has your ex partner's life turned out compared to your own? I never stay in contact with exes, so no idea. Don't really care either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 05:03 PM
8	Woman Claims It’s Hard To Get Sex, Is That True? What she means is she can't get sex with the men she wants to have sex with. Leo isn't interested because he's busy dating 25 year old supermodels. If she stopped filtering out fat guys, short guys, bald guys, broke guys and guys her own age, she'd find it easy enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 11:41 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread The domestic violence ones are always particularly egregious. When the husband hits the wife it's "leave immediately", "call the cops", "file for divorce", "phone a helpline" etc. When the wife hits the husband, it's "did you provoke her?", "you shouldn't overreact", "she couldn't have hurt you anyway".	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 11:16 PM
1	CMV: "Protection" against false raep accusations is misogynistic If she's drunk then just don't have sex with her at all. Of course, if he's drunk, she shouldn't have sex with him either, but we all know this stuff only goes one way. Third one isn't a bad idea. It's harmless and it is some kind of proof that the sex was consensual. False rape allegations happen all the time and in the believeallwomen/metoo era especially men have every right to protect themselves. Men have had their lives destroyed by this. There are guys who have spent years, if not decades,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 10:59 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread This attitude is why Lucy Letby, who is now among the top 10 post-war British serial killers, got away with it for so long.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 10:27 PM
3	Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinent I doubt it. Married men out-earn every other demographic. Why? Because they have to, to support their families. No young single guy is going to slog for 60 hours a week in some dangerous job when he doesn't need to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 11:05 PM
1	Women would be straight up miserable if their partner refused to have sex with them, yet because it usually happens the other way around they find excuses that sex is not important Women would be straight up miserable if their partner refused to have sex with them I can confirm from experience that women do get miserable (to say the least) when their partner refuses sex with them. This is actually more gender neutral than you might think. That Deadbedrooms sub is just proof of why most people shouldn't get married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 10:59 PM
3	Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinent Financial burden on the father isn't even comparable to what mothers go through. More men die in workplace accidents earning money to support their families than women die in childbirth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 10:15 PM
-1	Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinent The conversation about financial abortion is wild to me considering abortion is currently illegal in over half of the US right now. Welcome to equality. Strange that women don't seem to like it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 10:12 PM
3	Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinent It really doesn't though. It really does. You can't say "it's your flesh and blood" when the man wants to abandon it but then be okay with her terminating that self same flesh and blood. y'all leave out the damaged kid who's gonna grow up with "daddy issues" Then women shouldn't have babies with men who aren't willing or able to support them. It's not fair that women have the uterus, it's not fair that we're the ones who's bodies get stretched out during pregnancy, who have to deal with the cons…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 01:56 AM
7	Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinent There will never be true equality with the sexes I suggest you tell that to Western lawmakers of the last fifty years. A woman can have a penis these days, don't you know? Like I said, current reproductive laws are incompatible with gender equality. They will change eventually, one way or another. No. My stance is not why. Rape is very clearly a specific case to which nobody should be subjected to carry or finance a child against their will. Yes it is - current strict liability child support law…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 01:44 AM
8	Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinent I never said you were a feminist. Unlike you, I am an egalitarian and believe in absolute gender equality. It will either be that both parties are consenting to parenthood from the moment they have sex (which is now the case in some US states), or both get an opt out after conception. The current position is incompatible with gender equality. So take your pick. Incidentally, your stance is why male rape victims end up being forced to pay child support for their rape babies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 01:27 AM