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I enjoy discussions of sex, dating, and relationships, mainly. Seeing different perspectives is also good for broadening my worldview. However, as good as it can be to have dialogue around dating, I do think there should be some understanding men should have about becoming more attractive to the opposite sex and being able to better relate to and with them. This is what would be good for men, especially those who struggle. ... I know some would say this isn't an advice sub, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:51 PM
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Hmmm ... I'd say that not every man is comfortable in his own skin. Truthfully, body image issues are quite common among men, they just haven't been vocalized until recently. Here's one article which discusses it: https://www.newportinstitute.com/resources/co-occurring-disorders/male-body-issues/ As a man who is comfortable in my own skin, it was something I had to work for. I used to be pudgy as a kid, then thin as a rail in my teens/early twenties. It wasn't until I started eating more protein…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:38 PM
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Currently single. Have had a couple of relationships in the past. Most of my encounters with women lately have been short-term and/or nonmonogamous. I used to be red pill some years ago. Some info, particularly that of self-improvement, is useful. However, the misogyny and various -isms and -phobias turned me off. That, and some red pill relationship views can be quite cynical and devoid of nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 01:49 PM
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Some men don't have an issue marrying women who may have a "promiscuous" past. That word is subjective; what one man may view that way, another won't. Depends on the person speaking. If I may make a somewhat bolder assertion, a number of men are averse to forming relationships with women who are overly anxious about or negative towards sexual activity. One can infer women who may be "sluts" are more sex positive, which is a trait quite a few men want. It isn't so much that the "sluts" win, per s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:50 PM
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Believe it or not, if a woman shows up on time or even early, she's already starting with some points on the board. That shows me she regards my time as highly as she does her own. Also, I like her to know and partake in things I enjoy. For example, I like bodybuilding, music (hip-hop and R&B), and some video games. She doesn't have to be an NPC/IFBB pro competitor who knows every rap and R&B lyric who can win EVO, but go to the gym, listen to music, and play some games with me. That's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:21 AM
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My ideal relationship would be one where both parties work and financially contribute. It's unlikely I would date a woman who wouldn't pay for anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:47 AM
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I'd say no. While that offer seems enticing on the surface, I'd prefer a woman who does the aforementioned things because she has genuine romantic interest in me, as opposed to doing them based on what I can do for her. Also, what happens if, in the scenario you mentioned, I can no longer provide the lifestyle she's accustomed to? What if I were to lose half of my income? Would she still give me all of those things? Reduce the frequency or quality? Leave altogether? ... Nothing is certain, but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:28 PM
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I'm almost always willing to do romantic gestures, such as writing poetry, remembering birthdays/anniversaries and buying gifts, cooking dinner for them, going on dates, or any other "couples" activities for a woman I'm interested in romantically. It may not be on the first date, but I'm not one to shy away from romance if I have my heart set on a woman, and she has either reciprocated my expressed interest or been very overt in her own romantic intentions towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:27 PM
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I've said this in a different topic, but I firmly assert men need to be honest and upfront about their interests, especially as it pertains to casual sex. You may not know if you're compatible with someone for a long term, monogamous relationship if you're looking for one (and I can see that requiring more extensive vetting), but you do know if you aren't looking for anything serious, and that should be communicated clearly and straightforwardly. If that woman rejects you, so what? You save your…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:30 PM
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So, you're saying to be more indirect, or as Alan Roger Currie would say, Mode Two? Only reveal your intentions when you're certain they'll be reciprocated? That can work, but there are problems with that: One, if you spend time with a woman and eventually tell her you want casual sex and she declines, you've wasted valuable time. Two, if you become intimate with a woman and reveal you only wanted to hookup a ways in and she wanted something serious, technically ... you didn't allow her to give …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:20 PM
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This might be true for some women; i.e, those who would prefer to be partnered than single, but in more recent years, I believe a growing number of women are choosing to be unpartnered instead of settle. This is likely for a number of reasons, but many may not want what they perceive to be mediocre romance. Some may be queer (more of Gen Z identifies as such). I'm using what's mentioned here for my claims. To be fair, I don't think this is a problem. If women are choosing not to settle for men, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 06:04 PM
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I can't speak for all men, but for me, lack of discipline and consistency would be a trait which disqualifies a woman for marriage or serious relationships. If she doesn't seem to be able to stick to anything and rejects established structure, that could be an issue. I have to ask, though: why is getting married your only goal in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 08:49 PM
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My guess would be some men genuinely don't like high-maintenance women (not into or indifferent towards various beauty treatments or procedures). They may not like some, most, or all of the things you mentioned in the third paragraph of your post. I'm sure plenty of men would be fine with dating a high-maintenance woman if they didn't have to pay for anything, though. I'm sure there are plenty of men who expect a woman to be "glammed up," but he wants her to do it on her own dime. Perhaps that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:20 PM
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Who should high-earning women date? Whomever they're attracted to and enjoy being around. I can't and don't speak for all men, but I wouldn't be resentful of a woman who earns more than me, even if it was double to dectuple my salary. If she wanted me to stay home with any children we'd have, I would have no problem being a housedad/stay-at-home-husband. I'd have a clean house and hot meal ready when she returned from work if she needed it. No issues here. Where I would be resentful is if both o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:25 PM
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What I like about dating nowadays: people are, to some extent, free to choose to pursue whatever types of relationships they want. Short-term non-monogamy, short-term monogamy, long-term non-monogamy, or long-term monogamy are all available to pursue. I also like that both men and women, generally speaking, are able to choose to date those who they generally like and are attracted to. This is especially true for women, who may have had to sacrifice compatibility for stability, which is a choice …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:04 PM
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No, not really. I'd likely do as she asked. It has happened before once or twice to me, surprisingly. That said, I understand why women feel the way they do when random men tell them to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:44 PM
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I think it depends on what it is. It would be hypocritical of me to judge; I like fighting games, JRPGS, anime/manga, and other nerdy activities which I know a lot of women don't like. Even being into bodybuilding and fitness could be a red flag for some women. There might be some issues I have (more so with the reality TV), but in general, it isn't a problem. More a yellow flag, if that. (The fanfiction might be interesting, though. I'd read what the hypothetical woman wrote--I enjoy writing. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:05 PM
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Not red pill, but since you've opened up the question to all men, I'll contribute if I may. I''m not too sure about femininity, to be honest. I'm not too big on traditional gender roles. Do you mean in appearance and style? Demeanor? Hobbies? Aside from consistent and/or frequent sexual intimacy (this is somewhat obvious, haha) along with an overall healthy attitude towards sexuality, I would love to have a woman who shares the load, so to speak. Both of us would contribute to household expenses…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:51 PM
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I don't believe that most men want that, at least I don't. I can't speak for all men, but I would want a woman to settle with me as opposed to for me. The former implies genuine attraction and interest, the latter does not. There's validity to your premise, but I think the "you should lower your standards" is really for women who are having difficulty getting men to commit and are thus unpartnered. One possibility (albeit not the only one) is that such a woman is dating men who are reluctant to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:45 PM
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This would have been over ten years ago, when I saw a woman who was in great shape and very well-dressed (tall high heels, pencil skirt, hair done, etc.) walking in the grocery store. I wanted to talk to her and was actually about it, but for some reason, I froze up. Still kicking myself about it even a decade later. With respect to the YouTube link, I have done number three most often. In my less-confident days, I would look a woman I found attractive and make frequent eye contact with her, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:24 PM
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Respectfully, I would disagree. Self-improvement encompasses many areas. Therapy is one of them, and I do believe that if a man has some sort of mental health issues or unresolved traumas, going through that may improve a man's long-term desirability. If given the choice between a man who has dealt with issues versus one who hasn't, I'm sure most women will choose the former. Most men tend to mean self-improvement in the context of regular exercise, which will definitely make men more desirable …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:28 PM
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I can't speak for other men, but I would prioritize a woman's enjoyment if she chooses to have (casual) sex with me. I also do not believe in slut-shaming and criticize men who do it. If a woman does something with me outside the confines of a serious relationship or marriage, and she's deserving of castigation, then I am as well. The only women who should have casual sex are the women who want to have it, which is what's already happening in the real world. I don't encourage women who have no i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 01:27 PM
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I've seen the term "emotional labor" floating around. I Googled it, and the first definition was: "The mental activity required to manage or perform the routine tasks necessary for maintaining relationships and ensuring smooth running of a household or process, typically regarded as an unappreciated or unacknowledged burden borne disproportionately by women." Is this your definition of that term? If not, how does your definition differ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:42 PM
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Sadly, I haven't had a woman buy me gifts, though I haven't spent much money either. Some nice things here and there, but I haven't broken the bank. I have had some of the women whom I've been serious about sing for me and leave songs on voicemail, though, which is nice. I don't usually require/expect women to buy gifts for me though; I don't think most women know what I really like. Bizarrely enough, the women whom I've had casual encounters with have done things like that, and have given massa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:29 PM
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I didn't know my father very well. He was a funny guy on the occasions he'd visit, and from what my mother says, he was intelligent, but not hardworking. He bounced from job to job for a number of reasons, even being a househusband a few times. My mother did say that when she was working, and he wasn't, he did make sure the house was clean, and she had a hot meal ready when she got home on most occasions. He had a drinking problem, though, which was the main factor in why my mother left him (he …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:37 PM
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“The way my mother always explained it, the traditional man wants a woman to be subservient, but he never falls in love with subservient women. He’s attracted to independent women. 'He’s like an exotic bird collector,' she said. 'He only wants a woman who is free because his dream is to put her in a cage.' --Trevor Noah There's some validity to this. Some men do make romantic and sexual decisions based on ego, and I think this may be more pronounced as men get older. This doesn't apply to all me…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:23 PM
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You asked a question, but based on the tone of your post, it doesn't seem as though you're looking for an answer. However, I'll attempt to respond. If we look at it from one, more positive angle, I think that some women probably ignore those good men because they may not be attracted to them. It is possible that women could understand a man is good, but they may not feel the spark (read: find him sexually attractive). Alternatively, they may not be compatible in some other way, an example would …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 03:16 PM
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It's a bit odd for a man to say, but I do not believe that women should "give guys a chance," or date men who they aren't really attracted to. My reason is that most men complain about disparate treatment in romantic relationships, or as some men might phrase it, "they don't want to pay full price for when someone else gets it for 50% off." I believe that happens because some women date men they aren't strongly attracted to (settling). If a woman has a "type," I think she should stick with that …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:11 PM
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I wouldn't say "flooded," but I have gotten more, though this also coincides with years of working out, dressing better, touching grass, and getting rid of toxic, limiting, and pessimistic beliefs, which started in my mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:46 PM
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I took the tests and got INTJ on both of them. That sounds about right
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:59 AM
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Absolutely not; that's a big W, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:39 PM
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In a capitalist world, people have to make money the best way they can. For some, that can mean sex work. My issue with it is that it's largely illegal in the USA, except for certain rural counties in Nevada where legal brothels exist. In parts of the world where sex work is legal and/or decriminalized, there's no issue as long as all parties involved are consenting, protecting themselves, and following all rules involved. I don't have an issue with online sex work such as OF; I just don't spend…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:51 PM
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The "prefontal cortex at 25" thing has, for the most part, faced a lot of scrutiny. This is one such article that talks about it: https://slate.com/technology/2022/11/brain-development-25-year-old-mature-myth.html There are a lot of unfortunate implications if we follow that rule. As discussed in the above article, if someone's prefontal cortex isn't developed until 25, does that mean that trans people should have to wait until then to receive hormones or surgeries? And that's just one example.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:45 PM
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I haven't seen much of this at all, but then again, I live in a major city. I would assume that most of those women live in the 'burbs. The sole time I see them would be the women who are in the pro-life organizations, and they're interesting, to say the least. That, and they probably aren't that interest in dating men of color. I can't see any of those conservative extremist types on the arms of a black man, let alone a left-leaning one. It would be ... odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:26 PM
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