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Pointwest418/r/seduction03/10/13 05:15 AM
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2

It's the same when you like a girl and she's not interested. You need mutual attraction
/r/seduction09/02/17 05:41 PM
4

Frats are pretty fun. Just don't be "that guy" who turns into the stereotypical frat daddy (each pledge class has one...)
/r/seduction04/01/17 05:05 PM
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No, but everyone ages along with you in your dating pool.
/r/seduction12/09/16 02:15 PM
3

I mean, even still, there is a big overlap between those two kinds of girls.
/r/seduction12/09/16 01:24 PM
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One more lesson to take here was that the girls who are 10 today will eventually lose their beauty and if you are looking for a commited relationship you should look for more than looks. The last half is true, but not the first half. Sometimes it happens, othertimes not really. Once you get into the habit of working out regularly and caring for yourself, you generally don't drop it very easily
/r/seduction12/09/16 12:50 PM
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Forget negging A good rule for any guy, anywhere.
/r/seduction13/07/16 11:39 PM
2

It's not. Either a girl will like you or she won't based on your interactions. There's no secret code that works on every girl. The goal is to find the girls that match with your personality and lifestyle. Not force an early connection then have them bail on you
/r/seduction08/07/16 12:33 PM
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My point was that a girl isn't a superficial bitch if you don't fit her age range for a guy
/r/seduction02/07/16 08:38 PM
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Any girl who rejects you based on age doesn't sound like the type of superficial bitch I want to be with, but hey to each his own. Or, you know, girls night not just be into guys younger or older than them by X amount of years?
/r/seduction02/07/16 06:38 PM
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The only itinerary you need are your flights or train tickets. Everything else is up to you as long as you make those. You can plan events yourself, you know? Last weekend I made reservations at a restaurant, it was wild.
/r/seduction06/05/16 03:32 PM
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How is that different than traveling around the world with strangers?
/r/seduction06/05/16 03:11 PM
3

/r/mallninjashit
/r/seduction10/03/16 11:57 PM
3

Everyone sucks at bowling though. You don't have to be great, but just not be obviously bad (or be able to have fun with it)
/r/seduction27/01/16 04:34 AM
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Rainbow Street (the bar district), it's directly off First Circle to the SE (it has wide sidewalks and lots of bright signs, you can't miss it at night), and picking up an expat, Jordanian student, or study abroad college student is your best bet. Good luck, you'll need it since one night stands are extremely difficult with people abroad as they're usually on higher guard than when they are in their home city.
/r/seduction10/01/16 03:54 PM
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Like everything on this sub, it definitely depends on the girl and context. I will say that a girl who says she is looking for a one night stand or nothing serious tends to get harassed on Tinder because of it
/r/seduction01/12/15 10:54 PM
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Which is what I said. College is generally the dividing line for this kind of thing. Near the end of college most people become more mature in their actions and start to think of the big picture.
/r/seduction06/10/15 12:58 PM
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I will be graduating college as a virgin because I was not in a fraternity I had sex before I was in a fraternity in college. Also, so was everyone was who wasn't in a fraternity. In college, you can get away with hooking up just by being a fellow student. Post-College, if you don't have a job or a solid plan, many women will categorize you as a loser with no future.
/r/seduction05/10/15 10:30 PM
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That was easy
/r/seduction01/10/15 06:53 PM
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They think it's cute
/r/seduction23/09/15 10:24 PM
1

If you are going to do a number system, then you need to lower the amount of categories. The 1-4 system is an example: 1: Not interested in under any circumstance (like when drunk) 2: You'd hook up with her, but not tell any of your friends or hang out with her in public 3: Normal/cute/attractive girl. The kind you'd happily date and have hang out with your friends 4: Objectively attractive. Heads turn when she walks around. 4 easy to identify categories with definable characteristics. Also, I f…
/r/seduction15/09/15 02:09 AM
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1% is extremely low. It's not that hard to hook up with a girl, at least in college. Also, I do wait for favorable circumstances and try to capitalize on unusually strong opportunities rather than just spamming. It keeps my confidence up. Probably has something to do with this. Hooking up is entirely a numbers game, dating is entirely a numbers and luck game. More girls you meet, the more you will hook up with and the better chance that you'll have dating-level chemistry with one of them Also, r…
/r/seduction15/09/15 01:40 AM
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I used to dress exactly like you did, and then I updated my clothing choice to nice looking, but slightly more casual (nice T shirts and henley shirts), with slim cut or straight cut jeans of like 10 colors. Instantly I started getting compliments from friends at parties saying that they love my new "look" and that I look so much more relaxed and at ease.
/r/seduction04/09/15 02:59 AM
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A clean room =/= an empty room. Decorate it enough to make it look lived in and not sterile
/r/seduction03/09/15 01:09 PM
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Yeah, but you'd still get over the awkwardness by approaching and actually talking to them. As opposed to purposefully being awkward
/r/seduction01/09/15 10:18 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/132j76/confession_ive_been_lurking_for_over_a_year_and/c70h3lf Is this the video? I can't find the second one, but I'm pretty sure this is what you're looking for. I had the comment saved so I can find the video easily
/r/seduction31/08/15 03:30 AM
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Definitely not for date #1. I think she'd feel extremely uncomfortable being in a remote area with a guy for the first time.
/r/seduction29/08/15 10:19 PM
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"Nice guys" generally live in their own world and blame others for their social shortcomings. Girl's don't want a slave who is instantly at their bidding, they want a companion who is their equal.
/r/seduction25/08/15 09:30 PM
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What? That's not "Inception", that's just called flirting.
/r/seduction23/08/15 02:19 AM
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Usually that kind of stuff is covered on the first date as part of the small talk and getting to know each other. You don't need a confirmed job, but you should have a solid idea of the industry you want to work in (depending on your age)
/r/seduction23/08/15 02:18 AM
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You have the right to approach any guy or girl, just like they have the right to approach you. Physical attraction is only the very first way that two people can be compatible and generally, for obvious reasons, physical attraction is the first thing that determines whether you will approach or not (since it is hard to be emotionally, socially, etc attracted to someone first since for that to happen, you wouldn't be able to see them)
/r/seduction20/08/15 10:18 PM
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Damn, that was brutal.
/r/seduction20/08/15 09:35 PM
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Women are allowed to have preferences. Whether you realize it or not, you also prefer women who look a certain way. That's just how the very first attraction between people works
/r/seduction20/08/15 08:51 PM
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I'm saying that legally, it is considered that
/r/seduction19/08/15 10:33 PM
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In the court room, any "soft no" means there is no consent. A "soft no" can mean that she is into you, but she doesn't want to have sex with you that night. You can probably push her into it, but that's a huge risk and not worth it.
/r/seduction19/08/15 05:52 PM
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Well, yeah. Either she's on her period and no one wants to have sex on a girl's period, or she doesn't want to have sex with you that night.
/r/seduction19/08/15 01:44 AM
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Yeah, even a soft "no" means no. Any no, especially during escalation or sex, means stop. That's how consent works Your kind of mentality will get you a nice rape charge and jail time
/r/seduction19/08/15 12:05 AM
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Pick up lines are cheesy. Just talk to them like a person. "Hey, you look great in that outfit today?" "What book are you reading?" "Wow, what didn't you order? I'm going to get that!" Etc
/r/seduction06/08/15 05:54 PM
2

They got the saying from the 80s-90s.
/r/seduction01/08/15 01:10 AM
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I was thinking of the Seinfeld episode where George turns down that offer because it's too late for coffee, but yeah
/r/seduction31/07/15 11:45 PM
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This is our generation's "would you like to come inside for a cup of coffee" past 9pm
/r/seduction31/07/15 11:28 PM
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Post a few convos that haven't gone well. On the future, try to only text to confirm dates and times and maybe one or two comments to keep her engaged a bit. Set up the first date sooner too, so instead of waiting for 4 days for the weekend, just set it up for the next day
/r/seduction29/07/15 04:03 PM
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Go up to everyone and talk to them, guys, girls, bartenders, etc That way people see you as the social butterfly as opposed to the guy approaching every girl to try and get laid
/r/seduction26/07/15 03:30 PM
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Yes, but you are assuming the girl is into it. The girl would let her friends know that she is with the guy
/r/seduction19/07/15 06:15 PM
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Wow, uhh those numbers are definitely made up. There are definitely some girls on there just are total sluts, which isn't a bad thing. They can do what they want. Most girls on Tinder, just like in real life, don't instantly jump into bed with someone because: it is real life and it is the same population of women that you see in your area. It's not some magical Tinder population, it is girls who live than 100 miles from you. I bet most of the girls you ask out in person have a Tinder profile or…
/r/seduction19/07/15 04:53 PM
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Usually it's because the girl has given "the signal" to her friends to get her out of there. Maybe OP was getting too handsy too quickly?
/r/seduction19/07/15 12:48 PM
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How is that a red flag? We texted for a bit, realized we clicked, set up a date, and we went from there. It's not much different than meeting someone on an online dating site. Tinder is basically that, but more streamlined and geared towards younger people Tinder only has a bad rap because it combines the anonymity of the internet with the prospect of actually meeting up and it can have people act in creepy ways. Otherwise, it's just a great way to meet girls you normally wouldn't run in to. And…
/r/seduction19/07/15 09:43 AM
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Tinder is great if you use it correctly. It is a way to reach a lot of people quickly who you normally wouldn't reach. I dated a girl for almost two years that I met off Tinder, and I have also had a few hookups from it. Just don't rely on it as your only source of approaches or as a way to avoid your fear of approaching. That's not how to use Tinder. Just having going on in the background, and try to have normal conversations with the girls even if you have no intentions of seeing them
/r/seduction19/07/15 07:46 AM
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Yeah, but this is good for two reasons: it can help him recover from a relatively "sexual tension-less" date and it also works on the "1-2-3: do it" rule that might work for someone nervous like him
/r/seduction14/07/15 03:38 AM
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When you are walking back to your car or to her house after the date, hold her hand, then stop (mid-conversation even) say, "wait" then go in for the kiss
/r/seduction13/07/15 04:16 PM
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Don't worry so much about rules to follow. It will come off as awkward. Use a few guidelines, interact with people, then reflect on that and improve yourself for next time
/r/seduction12/07/15 11:48 AM
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You don't just turn asexual. Also, if you think you're ugly, then you are ugly to girls. Improve your self confidence and you'll be fine
/r/seduction08/06/15 05:59 PM
2

Ask questions that you want to answer. If you have traveled somewhere cool over the Summer, ask her what she did this past summer or where she has traveled this past year. Do this once or twice and make sure you comment and talk about their answer before answering their "and what about you?" Follow up, otherwise it seems like you're trying to one-up her answers
/r/seduction30/05/15 02:01 AM
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I'll watch it just for the name alone. That's amazing. Is it reality TV or complete friction?
/r/seduction27/05/15 03:51 PM
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What were their reactions? I've always wondered how a conversation like that would go down (not in a, "I should try that" sort of way)
/r/seduction27/05/15 12:05 PM
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Don't just try to hook up with them. Get to know them, engage them physically throughout the night, make them laugh, etc. Then move in for the kiss and invite to your place at the end.
/r/seduction18/05/15 02:23 AM
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Yeah I did in College. It's a lot of fun. You pretty much gain a pipeline of girls (her friends) to hit on or befriend (to hit on their friends).
/r/seduction15/05/15 04:24 AM
1

Act drunk. Fake it, 'til you make it
/r/seduction07/05/15 02:55 AM
1

Meet up for an activity in public, like ice skating or meet up for lunch. If dating is a numbers game, then Tinder is a slot machine
/r/seduction07/05/15 02:51 AM
1

Imagine the problems you have with a relationship (when it works well) now also imagine the problems you have in a relationship when it ends poorly. Now give the girl, who you see everyday for 8ish hours, actual power over your schedule and finances. There are 3+ billion girls in the world. Find one who is not your boss
/r/seduction01/05/15 03:32 PM
1

Literally the worst person to date is your boss
/r/seduction29/04/15 12:15 AM
1

It's not just the drug's safety though. You can't base your social life on a drug. What if you run out of it before a big meeting or date? You'll have become mentally and physically reliant on it that you'll be socially inept.
/r/seduction25/04/15 05:55 AM
3

Yeah, but then you base your social life on a drug.
/r/seduction24/04/15 11:59 PM
4

Yeah, don't do this OP. You're going to need to overcome this anxiety naturally. You can't be taking this your whole life
/r/seduction24/04/15 10:37 PM
1

I'm most likely going to sleep with some of them I'm not planning on sleeping with any of them, What?
/r/seduction14/04/15 08:03 PM
1

Undeniably so. I used to have a similar BF% as you, just a few inches shorter. I've gained 45 lbs of mostly muscle and look great. The benefit of our naturally thin body types is that any muscle growth is visible and we can easily become really strong for our bodyweight
/r/seduction12/04/15 03:18 AM
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6'1", 165lbs, and 6% body fat is like a stick body type. You're basically Ross Gellar from Friends
/r/seduction11/04/15 10:36 PM
2

Always assume attraction initially
/r/seduction25/03/15 05:44 PM
23

You don't have to, but then it's not the wait method.
/r/seduction25/03/15 05:42 PM
0

That's the problem. Why did you ask her out on a date when you wanted to take her to prom?
/r/seduction20/03/15 10:13 PM
2

Change something about yourself after each rejection to improve yourself. It can be either directly or indirectly related to the rejection. If you stumbled over the introduction, work on introducing yourself and starting conversations with people. Improve your wardrobe. Hit the gym more often. Try a new approach or place to approach.
/r/seduction20/03/15 04:32 PM
1

I'd try to set up one more date. If she isn't receptive or offers a time she's available, move on
/r/seduction20/03/15 04:31 PM
0

You asked her to prom and not on a date, right? Why would she respond with "I'm not ready for a relationship"?
/r/seduction20/03/15 03:19 PM
4

Don't hold grudges or make it awkward. Not everyone will be attracted to you in every way enough to date you.
/r/seduction20/03/15 03:11 PM
8

Just don't make it pervy. Basically, if a Gonewild comment would say it, don't say that if you are in the early days or weeks of a relationship
/r/seduction20/03/15 06:04 AM
1

Go out and meet more girls. Don't invest yourself or "think ahead" until you have gone on a few dates with a girl
/r/seduction10/03/15 12:36 AM
2

Whenever I go out I think of a date to ask a girl to if I connect with one. I don't make it up on the spot. So tonight when I head to the coffee shop to study I'll ask a girl I connect with if she wants to go ice skating and out to dinner on Thursday.
/r/seduction10/03/15 12:33 AM
3

The card is already above the standard, anything more is going to be a bit much
/r/seduction10/03/15 12:11 AM
1

No, because she'll get competitive and want to be the girl you choose to flirt with
/r/seduction03/03/15 11:08 PM
2

Don't single one out, just go up to them and talk with all them. Try to start a group conversation that you can be a part of too. See if you have chemistry with one,it may be the girl you were eyeing, or it may not be
/r/seduction27/02/15 11:13 PM
1

Anything more than a brief (1 or 2 times) hook up with a roommate is a pretty big no go
/r/seduction23/02/15 03:36 AM
2

You don't have to ask them out on a date the first time you see them if it makes you uncomfortable. Ask them out to lunch or a night out to the bars with friends then ask them out during that if it will enable you to ask more girls out. However you decide to do it, quantity is better than quality when it comes to asking girls out on a date, numbers-wise. Dating is a numbers game after all
/r/seduction29/01/15 03:48 AM
1

I usually go with a TV show like The Office personally. Funny, lighthearted, and it's not 90 minutes long unless you watch like 5 episodes
/r/seduction25/01/15 07:05 PM
1

Usually they don't like it when a guy gives them their number and leaves it at that. At least in my experience
/r/seduction25/01/15 03:15 AM
0

HER favorite song
/r/seduction09/12/14 05:03 AM
2

I know, if they offer you a friendship, you don't have to accept it. If you don't think that you could handle a friendship with her without being able to let go of the romantic feelings for her (honestly any male/female friendship has some amount of that and sexual tension, but you know what I mean) then you shouldn't hang out with her in that context.
/r/seduction29/11/14 06:05 AM
1

Just gradually increase the amount of physical attraction and touching you two do while getting drinks and feed off her acceptance of it. If she goes with it, then keep escalating. Before you sleep with a girl, if you only want to get a FWB situation, then make sure you tell them or else you'll be leading them on.
/r/seduction29/11/14 02:13 AM
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Girls don't friendzone you, you friendzone yourself. Girls don't owe you a relationship, if they don't want to pursue a romantic relationship with you but want to keep hanging out with you (or vice versa, I've done it to a few girls), then that's fine and pretty common. You friendzone yourself if you can't let go of your romantic feelings for her and get "One-itis" or whatever the term is where you get tunnel vision for a certain girl. But yeah, basically ask her out on a date and you'll know if…
/r/seduction29/11/14 02:07 AM
2

The McDonald's in my town has a study room with couches and sound dampening doors to separate from the main section. A lot of people, including cute girls, study there
/r/seduction28/11/14 04:25 AM
2

Basically it turns into Hot Seat, except you have to answer your own question before asking a new one
/r/seduction12/08/14 03:35 AM
1

Can you further explain the first half of the post, before the second list? Especially this line: And that this relationship rises above the girl in questions past experiences, biases, and preconceptions
/r/seduction04/10/13 01:22 AM
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