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2	How to initiate sex in a long-term relationship? If she wants you to bite her always play it safe and start super gently. Like a playful nibble. Most girls are going to like that. I dated a girl who asked me to bite her. I asked “how will I know what’s too hard?” She replied “if you feel blood starting to ooze between your teeth, that was too hard”. Got it.	/r/seduction	08/04/25 02:36 PM
1	How to initiate sex in a long-term relationship? Even though she’s now your girlfriend, keep flirting with her. Make flirty sexual references, sexual innuendos, say things that let her know you want her, touch her (non-sexually). Never stop. That’s how.	/r/seduction	08/04/25 02:31 PM
4	How to go from cuddling to sex Read the above carefully, it’s good advice. I’d also add that since you’re both virgins don’t hesitate to communicate with her since you’re both in the same place. You’ve both never done it. I think it might help you relax if you tell yourself that shes trying to figure this out too. Obviously consent is critical though. In terms of how to physically escalate, start with gently kissing her and gradually up the pace/intensity to full tongue kissing making out. At some point start to use your hand…	/r/seduction	08/04/25 02:36 AM
1	Where do you guys get the endurance? I’m in a similar spot too. I’m on the older side, so have been studying and practicing this stuff for a couple decades. Never been a Superman with it but have had a lot of success. But I’m really struggling lately. Feels like something’s in the water or the air that’s making them significantly more flaky and fickle. Clearly great first dates leads to no second date. Significant physical escalation during first date/ending in make out session and girl saying “when can we go out again!“, yet could…	/r/seduction	03/02/25 07:48 PM
2	How do you guys keep going? I feel like something is definitely going on in a broader sense with more flaking, and more flaking in situations where it shouldn’t be happening. I’ve recently gotten flaked after an extremely successful (make out close) first date. Also got flaked from another after two phone calls (intentionally avoided excessive texting) where I felt like tremendous rapport was built. She enthusiastically agreed to go out and now won’t respond to set up the date. Assuming she’s either pursuing someone else o…	/r/seduction	15/11/24 03:46 PM

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