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Numbers of porn induced erectile dysfunction are rising in young men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:12 PM
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I am one of these women who aggressively pursue men. Always have been. Because of this, I have been vulnerable around men and ended up being assaulted many times. I still pursue men, my drive is that high. I am much more selective now, it wasn’t worth giving ugly guys chances because they were just as lame and abusive as hot ones
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:46 PM
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Many pills were given to women historically. ECT was used as a treat, punishment, and very rarely an effective treatment for women. Lobotomies we’re also an option. All of these were VASTLY more commonly used on women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:26 PM
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Many pills were given to women historically. ECT was used as a treat, punishment, and very rarely an effective treatment for women. Lobotomies we’re also an option. All of these were VASTLY more commonly used on women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:26 PM
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Many pills were given to women historically. ECT was used as a treat, punishment, and very rarely an effective treatment for women. Lobotomies we’re also an option. All of these were VASTLY more commonly used on women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:26 PM
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Women were still on antidepressants, many other drugs, and getting straight up lobotomized back then. Or getting sent to an institution. Many women today suffer from depression. Could you possibly conceive that just because we were allowed financial freedom in the 70s, and (subjectively) the ability to out abusers and rapists after metoo, our problems and trauma didn’t automatically disappear? Also, with the nature of mental illness, not all of it is situational. A rich woman or woman living in …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:22 PM
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You think a lazy woman can casually run a business with 4 locations?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:40 AM
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Do you have stats on sex crime going down?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:53 PM
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Being gazed at by gay men in a club is different than a lifetime of harassment by adult men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:47 PM
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I would believe that it goes either way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:03 PM
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I have a theory it is also coping from actually being assaulted, as a good amount of women have been
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:11 PM
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There are literally teen and tween magazines telling girls how to be more beautiful and improve their bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:22 PM
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Once ai becomes more advanced and use for romantic partners is widespread, corporations will monetize it and put it behind a paywall. Imagine getting locked out of your robo pussy because you didn’t pay your monthly fee.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:51 PM
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I’m sorry you’re going through this. I’m going through it too, again. You’re not alone ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:50 AM
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Just google statistics on volunteer work by gender. It’s widely documented that women volunteer more in general, and the areas they are help both men and women. Men who volunteer help for scientific research, economics, and politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:49 AM
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Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:30 PM
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Damn he so badly wants there to be an actual reason you were lower value when you were younger
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:25 PM
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He was exonerated and won a huge settlement. Even if he was only cleared, it would have been illegal to not hire him or provide housing based on the allegations.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:56 AM
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Brock turner was convicted of rape and he changed his name and is living a normal life after serving 6 months. He was caught raping an unconscious woman. Your claim has no basis in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:27 AM
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What’s the point of making marriage more attractive for men and then promoting the nuclear family? So undesirable dudes can get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:44 AM
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Got a reference to any women actually saying these things?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:18 PM
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But that’s the opposite of what I just said? I think you’re reading what you want to read. I said male family annihilators are driven by psychosis/mental health issues (even if some of them are misogynists, they’re not claiming to do it as a statement towards those ideas). The problem is mass shooters LITERALLY WRITING MANIFESTOS citing their misogynist and incel ideas as their reasons for killing multiple people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 12:25 AM
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I feel like it’s any woman who’s not necessarily super young looking, is curvyish, has a strong energy but seems like she could be nurturing. Ever since I turned 30 I have younger guys on tinder trying to call me mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:26 PM
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Looking forward to being sisterwives. Actually now that I think about it, I met a guy fitting your description (as far as i can tell) the other day at work. He invited me to an event in a few weeks, if it goes well and the dick fits the bill we may have a winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:43 PM
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Most women drowning their kids in bathtubs are suffering from post partum psychosis, and don’t act or on claim any ideology. That would be like saying any male family annihilator (which are far more common) is a misogynist. It’s a possibility he has those views but his actions are more likely tied to mental illness not ideology. Also, most women that kill their children go to jail?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:39 PM
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According to the rules of ppd all women share the top tier men!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:33 PM
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Hell yeah I’d marry him
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:36 PM
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Woman here- ideal partner: 6” and up (2” taller than me. Irl this isn’t a big deal and I date shorter than me, but we’re talking ideal) Masculine face, sharp jaw and stern eyebrows, black or dark brown hair on the more muscular side but not bodybuilder jacked, a layer of fat (not too cut) 7”-8”, pretty girthy hooked upwards basically Henry Rollins post black flag but slightly taller. Needs tattoos that align with my tastes- punk tattoos ok, no new school or hyper realism, no like pocket watch/li…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:32 PM
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This is an exaggeration, just like the claim that any random girl can make bank off of only fans, when in reality the top 1% does and the average creator makes like $200 a month, doing significant work. There may be average women with more viewers than an average man would get but they’re not making a living
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:30 PM
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I’m not saying it’s right, but plenty of women and girls do it to varying degrees
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:31 PM
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Plenty of lifetime anorexic girls do it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:18 PM
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Commenting takes seconds. Hoarding memes and making posts jerking yourself off takes more effort
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:15 PM
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After a year of pretending they’re not that bad, they don’t hate women, they deserve “love”, they get to blissfully hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:45 PM
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Noooo! We’re here to rejoice and revel in specific women’s pain!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:35 PM
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I had a Hasidic Jewish man ask my friend and I to turn on his lights on the sabbath and he would only let my male friend do it (even though he was confused and didn’t know what was going on so said no)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:49 PM
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I’ve already explained I don’t view men negatively by default, but I approach all people with caution. I give men compassion and empathy. I’ve helped men on the street. Sometimes they were appreciate, sometimes they rejected help because I am a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:45 PM
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Arrested again for those allegations. It’s pretty well known he has ties to organized crime, that’s probably why he got out the first time. He literally brags about this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:43 PM
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Except for the girls he had to rape
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:04 PM
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Forcing women to do sex work on camera from his house in Romania
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:03 PM
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Your initial view of broken women being at fault for not having overcome their trauma, without a hint of admonishing the men or culture that did it to them, was enough to flag you as a man to be wary of. If you were posting a cake recipe and I called you a bad man, maybe my default view of men is negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:35 AM
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It’s a safe way to live. Random strangers on the street, Nigerian princes on the internet, don’t just get my trust by default. I have and will talk to strangers, help them out if I can, but I’m not going to blindly trust them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:10 AM
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It’s still happening enough though, that there must be a significant amount of men that are pieces of shit. Your “revelation” is just your opinion is that most men aren’t like that. I don’t think it’s a majority, but I think the number is big enough plus even more men remain ignorant and dismissive of the problem. I don’t think its disheartening to see women working through issues putting themselves out there. It’s part of personal growth, learning to trust and take chances again. I don’t think …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:07 AM
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My default view of all people is cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:54 AM
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Even out of the reported assaults, very few get punished.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:41 AM
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If you look at rape statistics you’d see that most rapes go unpunished
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:31 AM
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I never said all men should be condemned. But it should be acknowledged that some men cause this great hurt and even more allow it to happen with ignorance and downplaying the problem. The same way I don’t think every one in the army is bad but I’m anti military. I don’t think soldiers with ptsd are broken. They may be at some point but people aren’t static. Even if they don’t overcome, I don’t think it’s their fault. Would I date a guy with intense ptsd that hasn’t moved passed it? I wouldn’t g…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:23 AM
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It’s barely punished. Rapists with tens of victims can still barely get any time. The average sentence is 1-5 years. For something that changes peoples lives, and “breaks” them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:16 AM
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I agree that what you make of yourself through adversity shows the kind of person you are. But like if someone survives a school shooting and is traumatized, or comes back from war with PTSD, it’s normal to have some sort of disapproval and animosity towards the causes of that trauma (school shooters, war). Is it not rational to acknowledge some men’s bad behavior as the cause of huge amounts of pain in survivors lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:14 PM
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I guess what I was getting at originally though, is do you see the root of this problem as the actions of some men that perpetuate the traumatic events and even more men that belittle or ignore the frequency of such events. Personally, my frustration on PPD comes from the narrative that dating for women is so easy and wonderful. Yes, it’s easy to get dates and companionship. But without work and vetting those dates aren’t just fun sexy romps. Meeting with a strange man can be a dangerous thing, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:16 PM
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I’m working on it. Been in therapy off and on for a long time. Started EMDR therapy this year and was making progress on old trauma. It’s weird because my experiences have been borderline- coercion, assault attempts, only once was I yelling and fighting. I’m hard on myself because I know it could be so much worse, and I feel so deeply for people that have shared their experiences with me. And then two months ago I was violated by someone I trusted deeply, and just went along with it out of confu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:00 PM
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Sounds like you have some trauma from people having their walls up around you dude. I do plenty of work on myself. I’m honest with people and open about my experiences but try not to trauma dump on friends and dating prospects. I’m not in a place to fully trust someone anytime soon because most recently I was assaulted in my sleep by an ex, who I trusted more than anyone in the world. But I’m open to letting others earn trust in small ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:34 PM
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It’s not a huge part of my identity. It is a part of what has made me who I am. But I see myself as much more than those incidents and the disease I have (which I had before any sexual trauma). I keep the incidents in mind when dating so I can learn from them at least. The guilt and self doubt after sexual trauma is huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:51 PM
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My trauma is not a huge part of how I see myself. But it is relevant information when it comes to the emotional hurdles I’ve overcome and work through to this day. It stays in the back of my mind when dating, for my own safety. Because when I didn’t have these worries, borderline violations and actual assaults were more likely to happen and afterwards I blamed myself for not being more aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:44 PM
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What do you see as the cause of this? For me it’s multiple sexual assaults and a lifetime of depression
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:15 PM
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For relationship: Ideology- anti capitalism, leftist views Passion- something they care a lot about that drives their life. Doesn’t have to be a money maker. Age- around 30, mature, and ready to start a life with someone Body- some sort of health and fitness, lean or muscular Income- enough to be able to support themselves, not mooch off of me, responsible spending and has their shit together Similar interests in music/media or an appreciation and openness to each others interest Doesn’t want ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:14 PM
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You like hamburgers? Why don’t you want to eat all these hamburgers smeared in shit?? Before men go off, some dudes literally don’t wipe their ass or wash their hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:29 PM
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And career advancement isn’t a thing for women? Women are graduating college at higher rates. But I see career as separate from self.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:09 AM
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The average or below average woman has been doing these things since she was a tween. I’m a woman who actively avoids a lot of feminine grooming habits and expectations and I still spend more on hair, gyms, vitamins, makeup than the average man does on self improvement. Especially over a lifetime
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:06 PM
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But the want it to be real. Flesh and blood. Just delete the consciousness so it has no autonomy, and they don’t have to feel bad about enslaving it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:37 PM
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You think if incels had robot wives that women would suddenly want them? Isn’t it always repeated here that women would rather be alone than with these shitty men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:32 PM
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I have never seen or heard any woman defending r Kelly. Especially if she knows the depth of the depraved things he did- grooming underage girls and keeping them as literal sex slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:49 PM
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Isn’t it well known that the hott popular dudes in highschool usually peak back then and become balding beer belly men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:50 PM
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Congratulations on your journey! I feel like men here will complain well you did all this and there’s STILL no GUARANTEE you’ll get laid or a girlfriend so what’s the point!! But at least with improvement your life at large is better and more enjoyable, and doesn’t revolve around seething over lack of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 11:43 PM
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I’m sure she did that because she felt like it, not because she was getting paid to do so
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:31 PM
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I think men have a warped sense of femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 10:25 PM
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Do you find a medium/large/ boxy shaped woman feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:39 PM
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So what is it? Do woman want a project (meaning they will allow flaws) or do they want the best man?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:02 PM
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3-4 times a day
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:46 PM
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This whole conversation was about how women put time and effort into their looks. Plenty of women run for free at the park or on the streets, go to cheap gyms. You brought up fat soccer mom work out classes which is a specific small category
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:08 PM
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The classes I go to have lots of fit young women. Higher level ones are full of ridiculously hot women. I think you’re thinking of ymca classes. With the cost of these things it’s not something you go to and blow off socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:30 PM
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I wouldn’t disagree, I think woman give chances to men they don’t find immediately find irresistible. However it’s possible to find a person attractive, start having sex with them and they turn out to be gross and weird, and you just zone out and let it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:17 PM
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Basically, depends on the partner. If I were partnered I’d want him to be slightly more dominant than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:40 AM
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I’m a masculine woman, I love making men submissive, but also I enjoy when they beat me at my game and make me submit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:58 PM
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During starfish sex men still get to cum. They don’t stop because it’s too boring or too painful. Men really tell on themselves with all this starfish sex. If a woman was that into you, she would act more excited.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:32 PM
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Intimate partners can reject each other. I know reading is hard but it said those partners were estranged. And the article cites many studies and databases. Of course rejections are going to happen most frequently with partners. Google rejection murder 2022 and see how many of them are of men and by men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:29 PM
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Men are killing thousands of women per year for saying no
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:41 PM
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Men are killing thousands of women per year for saying no
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:41 PM
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statistics for you 1 in 5 homicide victims are by an intimate partner. Over half of female homicide victims in the U.S. are killed by a current or former male intimate partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:39 PM
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I was an extremely horny teenage girl. I fantasized a lot. Mostly the fantasy would be interacting with a boy leading to passionate kissing, in excruciating detail. I was extremely enthusiastic to experience things. Unfortunately, once I got started, I was routinely pushed beyond my comforts and boundaries, and lambasted as a slut for wanting to explore sexually. At some point I just did what I wanted because I had the reputation anyway. It didn’t stop boys from being disrespectful, or making up…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:11 PM
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How many men end up dead at the hands of women they rejected though? It happens to women all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:03 PM
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You are an outlier, in random hookups the average man doesn’t care even if you tell them what makes you feel good, or take pleasure in doing only what feels good for them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:23 PM
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I went to a bar on Halloween and I swear the dance floor was like 15:1 women to men. It wasn’t even a gay bar. As a 95% straight woman I was wholly uninterested but I remember thinking how the fellas on the internet would love to be here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:04 AM
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Occasionally yes, but all the time no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:01 AM
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Fat fetishists don’t represent the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:02 AM
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Yeah men don’t always realize that gaining weight doesn’t just automatically give you big cans
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:00 AM
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I agree that there are ideas of masculinity held over from that time as well. I don’t think it’s right. Can you now imagine that there are societal expectations of women as well, and after oppression of women for centuries/millennia they are much more rigid and engrained? Just because there’s been a “you go girl” attitude since the 90s doesn’t mean things are perfect and liberated as women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:30 AM
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Source on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:51 PM
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Lol there were literally books in the 50s telling women how to be ideal prospects and housewives with these features. It prevails today. Even the polygamous forced wives of warren Jeff’s were reminded to “keep sweet and obey” I know plenty of easygoing women, including myself. Most women can sense misogyny and avoid people like yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:20 PM
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No, by men. Men blame womens periods, being crazy for any show of emotion
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:17 PM
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What about coercion, rape and assault? Again it’s not about what you’re doing, you say ALL women are responsible for incels lack of sex. Therefore you’re to blame for all of mens sexual wrongs towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:16 PM
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Has any men here literally been yelled at that he’s a predator or criminal? Or is it just a feeling because women aren’t being as friendly as they would like? Women literally get told to smile AND also get yelled at called bitch, slut, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:15 PM
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You realize you’re literally doing the thing I’m talking about right? I’m telling you about a problem and you’re dismissing it and telling me we all exaggerate Also, media outlets sympathetic to women are what? Tik tok comment sections of primarily women??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:06 PM
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So you’re just going to stick to your unfounded belief or listen to the women here with lived experiences showing otherwise? I have lived with depression, sexual assault, physical assault, harassment. The average man doesn’t want to hear about it. Women will offer a sympathetic ear. Literally yesterday at work a customer said something vile to me, sexually harassing me. I try to tell my coworker he was a creep and he wouldn’t even let me finish the story before brushing it off. This is not uncom…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:49 PM
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Women are expected to be happy, positive, accommodating, easygoing, low maintenance. Anything other than that gets you labeled crazy, erratic, difficult, hysterical.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:46 PM
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Literally women can’t walk down the street with a neutral or mad look on her face without being told “smile!” “You’d be prettier if you smiled!”. You think men want to hear about womens problems??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:38 PM
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Nah man. They are dismissed as hysterical or neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:37 PM
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I only like massage videos when I’m taking a break from dating and completely touch starved, and just want to imagine physical closeness
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:36 PM
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It’s not great and still through the male perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:35 PM
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Focus more on male bodies, sounds and faces during sex. Have actual good looking healthy men performers, and a variety of types easily searchable. More respectful and connected interactions between performers instead of violence and degradation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:34 PM
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Women create incels by not fucking them? And all women are responsible? I guess then men create overcautious, wounded women by giving terrible sexual experiences, crossing boundaries of consent, raping and assaulting. All men are responsible and should pay for women’s therapy. I disagree with your premise that incels are owed sex by women. They can work on themselves, stop feeling entitled to women, and curate sexual value, work on social skills with both genders (the only men they’re probably f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:32 PM
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No, as long as he’s not addicted to porn or using the toys over me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:24 PM
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*Some women act this way towards men in positions of power. It is not the majority of women who do this. There are bad people of either gender who cheat on people for someone perceived as better. Men shouldn’t be mad that any random woman they desire isn’t going to be their personal slut. If they want these morally corrupt women, they can do the work to earn the status that attracts them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:04 PM
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Where’s the retraction of the 2009 one though?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:05 AM
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The 2009 study wasn’t retracted as far as I can see? And there’s a 2016 study
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:19 AM
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But they tend to at least be muscular. I was just on a cross country road trip, swiping on tinder out of boredom, and every time we went near a military base it was like a 6 pack factory.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:22 AM
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Oh yeah I’m vocal as well. I try to just make whatever sounds come natural and live in the moment. Not too porny. I think another reason dudes can be so quiet is because most porns have quiet/silent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:17 AM
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As a very straight woman, I hate when a man is so quiet during sex and cumming. It gives big “I watched porn as a kid and had to cum silently to not get caught” vibes. Also just seems too repressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 11:59 PM
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I think there’s a big difference between mentioning that adults can do different things for sexual pleasure/non procreation such as genitals in mouth, so long as both are comfortable and not pressured, and “teaching kids how to suck dick” When I was in 7th grade I heard about a “blow job” and what it was. I was confused because I only knew the mechanics of sex for baby making. I was baffled why a penis would go in the mouth, thinking maybe the sperm could enter through the stomach and served som…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 11:56 PM
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I know a guy that dresses like this, especially the hat. He’s like known for it. It’s kinda like peacocking, it works for him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 11:47 PM
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Idk where you get the idea that women can only see from there perspective. When a man tells me their issues I imagine how I would act if I were a man or if I were him. I’m there for a listening ear and offer advice if requested.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:18 PM
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I think they do it because it can get them an inkling if female attention, even if it’s just disdain or fear. An experienced catcaller can probably tell the ones that secretly enjoy it, although they may be delusional and think that percentage is higher than reality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:24 AM
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I do agree with men who complain if they’re cute/handsome women don’t mind, it does make it more tolerable. It doesn’t mean I want to fuck them because if they do that a lot they’re pretty pathetic unless they’re super charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:22 AM
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You look like a major slut! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:18 AM
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Not if he’s truly dedicated
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:17 AM
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I mean in a city where most poor people don’t have a car, that’s the equivalent of shouting it out of a Honda civic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:17 AM
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I like it when they’re happy and respectful. Complimenting a dress, you look great, etc. but crude noises, anything too graphic, or anything said with aggression and vitriol is not fun. Like I was in dirty sweatpants and had a guy scream across the street “damn white girl you got a FAT ass ASS”. I didn’t look good, he’s just aggressively turning me into a sex object.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:13 AM
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Nope not fun
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:09 AM
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I agree, you can build a relationship off 4 dates a month ish and then if it’s serious there’s potential for more time together if you hang out with the kid around.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:27 PM
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The odds are in your favor the more people you are attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:29 PM
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Also I don’t think it’s common knowledge he was a virgin, and people talking about it with disgust are probably men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:27 PM
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Principal skinner meme- no, it’s the women who must be wrong!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:40 PM
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Show me a feminist forum that refers to their spouse as a bitch and an underling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:41 PM
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Yeah I don’t get how just having sex with a guy somehow gets a women money, protection, and companionship. A lot of guys using someone for sex don’t want her hanging out indefinitely after. If there’s not emotional connection or affection he’s not going to protect her unless someone literally breaks in while they’re fucking. And casual sex partners don’t like tip you after you’re done.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:56 PM
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Yes! I’m the same, just need to ride a little bit I’m pretty easy. But I’ve had guys turn into a dead fish and pout when on top, and refuse to be enthusiastic until they’re doing their favorite. Luckily the majority of partners are thrilled with my riding but there’s been a few that refused.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:40 PM
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I have to because my ass is so big
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:52 PM
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I like the look of them and enjoy the creativity some artists have but I cannot imagine functioning in life with even very modest length acrylics
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:36 PM
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I like hot, muscular men. If that’s all they’ve got, I just like them for a night. If he treats me respectfully and does chores and has the same worldview, he’s a keeper
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:28 PM
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Even married people and up dying alone because you don’t magically die at the same time as your spouse. Elderly women are either fed up with being a nurse maid when their husbands were dying or happy they didn’t marry and have to go through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:06 PM
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Exactly. Aside from literal addictions (to sex or booze or drugs), it’s usually just a lifestyle that most people grow out of
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:38 PM
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I agree and my experience aligns with this. I was promiscuous when I became sexually actively as a teen and throughout my 20s but as I approached 30 things have slowed down. Not for lack of opportunities, just last night at a wedding I had at least 3 guys trying to pick me up. I put myself out there less on apps and at bars because I have my life’s work I’m focused on and dating isn’t a priority, but if I did I could get laid. I am much more picky about who I’ll sleep with now, after having many…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:31 PM
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bruh you couldn’t even process that being assaulted is a thing completely different from a sexual opportunity, and tried to point out how I could enjoy it and revel in the fact that I was desired enough to be desired
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:44 PM
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Lol not all abusers and moochers are hot. Sometimes there’s an emotional connection or history.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:05 PM
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Guys that mooch, guys that abuse and degrade, ugly dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:03 PM
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But how else can you combat loneliness? Either be happy with who you are as a person or do something to build social relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:49 PM
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It’s not directly to combat loneliness, it’s to live a more fulfilling life. Some men here are so inexperienced that they don’t realize that just having any old relationship doesn’t automatically fix your life. That’s why the women that they think are “privileged” still experience pain and loneliness. It takes a lot of trial and error to even find someone compatible. Just any random person spending time with you is not fulfilling. It can be uncomfortable, draining, or even toxic if it’s not righ…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:39 PM
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I think we have more self control but also socially we are forced to grow up faster and not feel entitled to everything. We also don’t have 97% watching pornography regularly with every single preference and perversion catered toward us. Like if I feel like masturbating to a certain kind of guy (in a straight porn), I have to get lucky or have knowledge of male porn stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:30 PM
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He is angry towards women- he is of the opinion that women who are sexually assaulted are lucky to have been physically intimate with someone and have someone sexually desire them. (Source: I dmed him trying to reach out and encourage him)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:10 PM
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Just because a very famous artist “went mad with loneliness” doesn’t mean there weren’t countless other artists that lived balanced lives. Art itself attracts people with mental illness which is not the same as loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:04 PM
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Men here always claim sex and intimacy are vital needs, but if you compare it to actual needs it just doesn’t add up. Everyone needs food and water, but if someone over consumes and becomes obese it’s an obvious health issue. If you can’t afford good food and obsess about it, but are unwilling to do the work to earn it, why should we be empathetic? Even when women with high libidos try to empathize they insist we don’t know a MANS hunger, as if women don’t have testosterone and a reproductive cy…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:00 PM
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A lot of women get scared away from the “male dominated” games because of harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:46 AM
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I agree, same with reproduction
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:06 PM
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Where’s the source women choose the “hot” ones? Other than it’s what you’d do in our shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:06 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC411126/ This was the article I was referring to. It is a global problem, third world countries have less healthcare and more child brides so it is more common. It is a widely agreed upon fact that adolescent pregnancy is dangerous. I don’t know why you are so adamant to disprove it In first world countries there is better healthcare so the risky conditions are less likely to be fatal but they are still risks that occur because the body is not mature. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:48 AM
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Yes this is appealing. I would love to have sex with two or more men and I fantasize about it. I have a huge sexual appetite and a lot of men can’t keep up. I have had the opportunity to do it but didn’t go through for personal reasons. I will do it someday, I am just very picky about partners. There needs to be passion, lust, and desire but also mutual respect. I don’t want to be degraded, but worshipped and enjoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:00 AM
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Not all teens have access to birth control and abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:53 AM
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Pregnancy is the leading cause of death for girls 15-19. Adolescent pregnancy is extremely risky for both mother and child. The fact men don’t know or consider these things is staggering.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:50 AM
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I reached out to an incel I had seen posting in ppd that seemed well meaning and I’m need of encouragement, but pretty quickly had to stop because he had this opinion about my sexual trauma (that I was lucky to be touched and have someone desire me).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:31 AM
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Yes! I’m the same, be hard and let me get on top and I’ll get myself there multiple times. I’ve had the same problem with guys only wanting to do their preferred positions, when I ask to get on top the act so disinterested and want to go back.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:12 PM
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Nope. He needs an actual life, interests, experience, and personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:49 PM
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You’re entitled to have this preference, but I think it’s funny that all the sexless dudes on here are suffering and complaining because a lot of women are basically taking this stance as well. If he’s not handsome and nice to look at, you don’t instinctually want to give him a chance. Sometimes personality and niceness can make up for that (although the guys complaining don’t seem to have that), but not everyone will ignore bad looks for personality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:46 PM
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When you smoke weed it isn’t hurting anyone except sometimes yourself. The same can’t be said for porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:03 AM
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Denying the harmful effects isn’t helpful either
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:14 PM
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I mean beggars can’t be choosers. But thats a pretty defeatist mindset you have. If a man can’t keep a woman sexually excited and involved thats his own fault. Also you’re saying these men never ever will have luck with relationships, now it’s if they do they’re not having enough great sex. Sounds like no matter what you’re going to have something negative to say. I guess I should just concede that women are bad and evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:45 PM
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I agree that the profit over everything mentality of capitalism leads to exploitation everywhere. However, other industries have regulations, unions, workers comp, hr people, lawsuits and payouts to deal with injury and injustice. It doesn’t fix everything but some people get repaid and there’s a chance and effort to help others and deterrents to prevent more harm. Plus, we don’t see exploitation in other arenas and think things are just swell. Amazon workers pissing in bottles and dying in fire…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:38 PM
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The odds are zero if you never try. There’s a chance of having some sort of connection or improve their life eventually if these men didn’t waste so much time and energy on porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:54 PM
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There is such thing as too much weed just like there is too much porn. Too much weed isn’t going to kill you. But it will make you an unproductive, boring, sad, shell of a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:49 PM
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All of those services take a cut. And then there’s taxes. There’s marketing, advertising, and a saturated market. The average OF performer makes like $200 a month. A lot of work is done through agencies who will notoriously press woman beyond what’s agreed upon in their contracts and threaten to not pay. Most are not making the kind of money for good healthcare in the us. And they have no advocates looking out for their safety, no workers comp for when they get brutalized- which isn’t an acciden…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:43 PM
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Pornstars do not have the salaries or medical services of NFL players and it’s disingenuous to compare the two. I don’t think TBIs are a laughing matter and I think pro athletes should have more protection against repeated brain injuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:29 PM
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But that’s someone doing things to themselves. They aren’t hurting someone else for their own pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:25 PM
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Maybe if there are so many exceptions popping up, your idea of what is normal may not be as universal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:24 PM
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Also, you said throw away “your dildos”, implying this was a me issue, making me a hypocrite. Sorry it was a swing and a miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:09 PM
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The scandals in other industries don’t regularly involve the use and abuse of peoples bodies. Bodily injury with large corporations usually leads to huge payouts. OSHA exists to protect workers bodies. There are unions to give workers power to be less exploited. I’m not ok with corruption and exploitation of other industries either. There are plenty articles about sweatshops and exploitation in fast fashion, I avoid buying those brands. If there was ethical tech I would buy that. Do you really t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:07 PM
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Sex toys don’t hurt people. They are inanimate objects. I’ve never heard of women spending hours in the bathroom to use sex toys the way men do with porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:05 PM
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The scandals in other industries don’t regularly involve the use and abuse of peoples bodies. Bodily injury with large corporations usually leads to huge payouts. OSHA exists to protect workers bodies. There are unions to give workers power to be less exploited. I’m not ok with corruption and exploitation of other industries either. There are plenty articles about sweatshops and exploitation in fast fashion, I avoid buying those brands. If there was ethical tech I would buy that. Do you really t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:03 PM
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Just because you see cam girls filling themselves with huge dildos doesn’t mean it’s the norm for every woman. Some women do use toys. They’re not obsessed or addicted to them like men are with porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:41 PM
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I don’t use them actually. But I think it would be healthier for men to just use sex toys and not porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:11 PM
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Men ☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:28 PM
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Why don’t men masturbate without porn? It’s healthier
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:27 PM
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Lol defining “mens sexuality” as their porn consumption is pretty sad, I guess that’s all some guys have though. It’s not like most women have problems with men masturbating. Even looking at a photo or two. But flipping through 50 videos, having multiple screens pulled up, it’s unnatural.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:27 PM
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I like how people are listing valid and clear reasons to dislike porn and some man will respond quoting their reason with question marks after. Like??? What is that?? I’ve never heard??! Like act incredulous, keep your head in the sand. If you take a second to look into it there are tons of examples. Like any industry in a capitalistic world, if you look into it there’s bound to be abuse. But when the industry requires intimate access to human bodies the abuse has the capacity to be intense and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:25 PM
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The premise of this post is that there are obviously so many women against porn. You argue that women are into this stuff. But obviously a lot aren’t, hence the general disdain for porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:22 PM
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There also it no guarantee that amateur porn is consensual or uploaded with woman’s permission. There was at least one dude who was raping homeless GIRLS, uploading it to a porn site as “acting”, and getting away with it. https://amp.theguardian.com/global-development/2020/mar/09/worlds-biggest-porn-site-under-fire-over-videos-pornhub https://fightthenewdrug.org/pornhub-reportedly-profits-from-nonconsensual-videos/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:07 PM
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It is extremely common once a woman (and some men) leave the industry they have stories of non consent and being forced to do things outside their agreed upon contract https://jezebel.com/a-flood-of-sexual-assault-allegations-in-the-porn-indus-1844039798/amp https://amp.france24.com/en/europe/20220614-french-porn-site-owner-arrested-over-rape-pimping-allegations https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/reports/a30806689/james-deen-porn-me-too/ https://fightthenewdrug.org/10-porn-stars-speak-openly-about-…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:02 PM
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Is rape common in multiple industries?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:05 PM
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My story is an ex but I still have feelings lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:02 PM
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My ex came to me unexpectedly late one night after attempting to go to a bar by himself and socialize- something he had never done but I told him how I do it sometimes. He had chosen a bad time to go, it was too packed for mingling and everyone was in groups. He was crying and upset because he felt so awkward, anxious, and outcast. I comforted him and explained it wasn’t him, just him being in his own head and the situation being wrong. The one person he talked to even texted him and they hung o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:01 PM
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I’ve been with bigger guys and they were always SO selfish in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:55 PM
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I gave a (male) barista my number after flirting for months and talking about playing pool. It took him a month to text me. We hung out but at that point I wasn’t into him. His reason for waiting so long? He was nervous about what to say. Really shot himself in the foot, i was super into him at one point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:54 PM
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I never said he was attractive lol! I was attracted to him but I have unusual taste, now that the love has worn off I can see he’s pretty average but with the rocker style (and laziness)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:08 AM
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Yeah, he majorly benefitted from mooching off me but would never admit it. I was just out of the worst depressive episode of my life and just appreciated someone giving me some affection and comfort. I’ve learned since then, my most recent ex was helpful and supportive, an amazing person but too young to be ready for the commitment I am. The moocher ex is now engaged and I’m thankful I’m not her!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:09 PM
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Yep at the same place as me, making more per hour
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:04 PM
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Yeah, work ethic is also big on the list for a potential partner. My ex and I worked the same amount but I still found the time to pursue my side hustle, while he just ignored his “passion” and complained about not making it big. Like weekends he’d be in bed watching shows, distracting me while I worked on my projects, paid and unpaid to keep the hustle going. The kicker that I’m still salty about to this day- he basically lived with me for a year. He didn’t pay rent because my roommate didn’t w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:35 PM
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Oh you read the comment about my ex. Yeah, it was very draining, I felt like his mom. I would get up before him, attempt to wake him up with kisses and touches and sweetness, make breakfast, walk the dog, shower, get dressed, then go to kiss him goodbye (we worked at the same place but could set our own hours more or less). And he would be like wait wait I’m coming and try to get ready, I was understandably impatient because I would always attempt to wake him up multiple times throughout the mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:19 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:05 PM
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I used to fight with my ex over groceries, he swore up and down we spent the same amount ( we counted receipts and I spent more). And when he got groceries it was his favorite beer, a frozen pizza and random stuff he knew I didn’t eat. When I did it was food for the week including meals I packed for our work, cleaning supplies, essentials. The kicker was he basically lived with me for free despite working the same job with me and making more per hour. Never making that mistake again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:52 PM
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Well said. I can take care of myself and live a high level life. Why would I want someone who doesn’t bring the same that I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:48 PM
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I appreciate the straightforwardness of men. It’s something I identify with and can get frustrated with women for lack of. I do appreciate their intense sex drive, I just wish consent teaching was done in schools and more of the bad ones were held accountable by the good (or neutral) men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:35 PM
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I get a rush of focus and clarity, but I don’t feel remorseful or shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:57 AM
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The horror! It’s funny bc I’ve seen multiple guys here refer to the degeneracy of modern society and how it’s womens fault of course. These are the same guys that aren’t getting laid the way they want to. Like sexually liberated women makes it more likely they’ll get sex! Except I guess no women would choose them of free will so women need to be shackled to babies and kitchens and passed out to the undesirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:42 AM
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Another approacher here. We should do a poll so men will believe is that there is a significant amount of women that do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:10 AM
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Or you could try for an ugly girl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:08 AM
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Yep, men live off their parents in higher numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:36 PM
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There’s more men living off of family than women. Looks like they’re either supporting themselves or ~~in a mutually beneficial relationship ~~ found a betabuxx
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:35 PM
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Women enjoying themselves and having agency
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:31 PM
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Shhh get out of here with facts. You’re going to ruin these guys justification of ephebophilia
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:30 PM
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Imagine calling a womens rapist her “chad”. Chad, the guy that everyone reveres and is jealous of. The ideal man. A rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:26 PM
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The implication of this perception of sex is that it can be enjoyed by everyone (including gasp women) with much lower risk or pregnancy or death. Before this men were allowed to enjoy sex all they want, with wives and at brothels. The husbands could legally rape their wives. And the woman would be forced to bear the child. The husband may or may not stick around and provide. Now she is free from that obligation and able to enjoy sex as a man (except for the government and conservatives shaming …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:22 PM
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I appreciate that. Women do have plenty of options, there’s just not a lot of good ones. Any having been preyed upon our whole lives usually, there’s not a lot of motivation to give a huge amount of chances. I used to humor men so much, give them the benefit of the doubt, and it screwed me over so many times. So if a man wants my time and attention he has to show it, I’m not expecting that from any and every man, except the niche type that would appreciate what i have to offer. If they put in an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:14 PM
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Would you genuinely take this advantage over the trauma of being assaulted that a huge amount of women have from dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:52 PM
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It’s especially offensive because the implication is if he just shallowly is nice to a young woman he’ll be able to charm her into being alone with him where he can have sex with her with or without her consent. There is 0 desire to actually befriend or know the woman, it’s all an act. It’s like he sees her as a dumb child.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:23 PM
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Because when was younger I was more polite and would allow a longer conversation to happen. It was never a polite ask on a date. It’s come back to my place, let’s relax, come see my records or some dumb shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:04 PM
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He has enough sense of reality to treat men like humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:03 PM
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These men aren’t trying to date. “Get to know you” means talk enough and be alone to get in your pants. By simply stepping on the street we shouldn’t be hassled to sleep with random men, and then shamed for ignoring or rebutting them, including yelling and harassing. And don’t say this doesn’t happen, women literally get murdered for rejecting men. These are not men being respectful, they’re being sleazy, every woman knows the difference because they’ve been approaching us since we were children…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:00 PM
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Some men say they want this but there’s a portion that are put off by a forward woman. Kind of the thinking you’ll like something til it actually happens effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:57 PM
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It’s not just completely unhinged people. Had a man jump scare me trying to freak me out, like lunge at me and yell, then greet a normal group of people and shake their hands
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:55 PM
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How am I blaming men? For not talking about it? That’s not their fault, I’m saying society should be more encouraging and supportive to them. I brought up men in DA because by you’re logic they could be choosing their situation as well. You can cite “men and women are different” all day long but abusers are abusers, one gender isn’t a victim while the other is just a dumb drama enjoyer asking from for it. You realize how much higher murder rates of women are by intimate partner violence right? Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:32 PM
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Are you a man? This happens to women all the time. It’s such a thing that women wear headphones without music so men won’t approach them I do not think women should feel obligated to give a random man their time out of politeness. Why? Because the 99% of the time he’s not doing it just because he’s being kind and social. He’s doing it because he likes the way the woman looks and wants to shoot his shot. He’s not doing it to the men, or middle aged or older women. When I was younger and less jade…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:21 PM
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I’m wondering if your opinion of domestic abuse victims is for both genders or if it’s just a disdain for women that makes you think they choose to be abused. Im all for talking about men in domestic abuse, it does happen and it’s awful. Men should feel more open to talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:11 PM
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So I guess the men that survive domestic abuse are drama enjoyers living out a fun fantasy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:07 AM
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Yet somehow there are plenty of weight loss and fitness success stories. Sure, there’s gimmick diets and scam pills, but there are plenty of real life examples of success. Where are the successful red pill men simply living their lives, not trying to sell you more?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:01 AM
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You realize men could control their urges and choose to have less sexual partners, right? If they have such a problem with the state of society? Before you say it’s their biological urge- if anything womens urge is to discriminate as you said. Birth control allows that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:59 AM
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But men are participating in this degeneracy. Surely women aren’t forcing them to have noncommittal sex with them. What’s the problem with women having the sex they want? Society would be better off if they were forced to be baby factories and stayed in the kitchen?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:57 AM
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It proves that “never” is untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:54 AM
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My man has told on himself, as if the clit isn’t a huge organ that wraps all around the vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:17 AM
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Where are the red pill success stories? I’ve never seen one. Just endless excuses
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:10 AM
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I do it all the time in bars. I start a conversation. I buy them drinks. I see someone at a show and start talking. And get this- I’ve been rejected too. It does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:56 PM
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I have approached and asked out men my whole life. I contribute a lot to relationships as well. But you seems to have a narrow and pessimistic view of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:28 PM
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But the women aren’t the ones struggling to get sex. The men are. If they want to be more desirable they should fix that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:50 PM
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Working out and seeing results gives you endorphins and confidence like you wouldn’t believe. It’s still not going to deliver women to you on a plate. You have to develop social skills. Practice just casually talking to people without the end goal of sex. I know it seems insurmountable to be a virgin at your age but it’s not. You’re not that old. Women don’t know you’re a virgin. Some wouldn’t even care, especially if you’re going after a real connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:47 PM
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I approach men regularly. It’s not the norm but it happens. And it’s not chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:44 PM
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I would come to that problem when it happens. Ask any man that had a fitness transformation and he’ll tell you how differently he is treated. If you get into shape and women still recoil when you speak to them, I would seek therapy to work out whatever social problem there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:43 PM
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But it’s worth it for free and easy access to terrible sex, right? Right?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:40 PM
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I mean there are enlargement surgeries. There have been since like the 80s. Average men (who would swear up in down they’d do surgery if they could) just don’t take it seriously bc money and the potential to mutilate your dong. But if it’s micro there’s not much to lose. Personally I have a theory that the demand for FTM gender affirming surgery (and their willingness to be operated on down there) will probably lead to the improvements of these operations. In my situation, it was a guy I had a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:22 PM
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Yeah, these men that claim to be “average” and struggling are definitely below average in noticeable ways. They’re delusional about their looks, shooting out of their league, or have some huge deficit, which I would assume is something to do with personality and defeatism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:19 PM
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Felt weird upvoting this. I’m sorry you had to go through that. My worsts are rapes/assaults and attempts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:16 PM
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Damn that sucks. I had a micro experience as well but I was nice about it and basically pretended it was normal and pantomimed sex. I think he was still embarrassed though. But yeah all my worsts are rape and rape adjacent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:15 PM
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Yeah, it’s bs that only men can completely separate sex from emotion. Although women more frequently romanticize sex, plenty can separate it. Also, we’re able to love a partner and respect them and sexually desire someone else (and pursue it if you’re in an open relationship).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:37 PM
3

Based take
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:34 PM
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Women have to pay for tampons, pads, cups, when men don’t have to. Women risk their physical and mental safety when being alone with a man. Sexual assault can fuck you up beyond belief. I know from experience. Then comes all the therapy bills to make it so you actually want to live life again. Women have to take birth control with major side effects or deal with the aftermath of sex. All of this, just for a 4% chance to cum. And “sex is sex” is bullshit, bad sex is terrible. Yeah we have a “buff…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:12 PM
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Do you have any proof these top guys are getting all the sex or is it just a conspiracy? Why don’t average guys go to sex workers if they need easy sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:21 PM
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I don’t think that birth control is to blame for the problems with society. Technology from a young age, social media, individualism/narcissism being encouraged, capitalism all seem more destructive. How do you see birth control effecting society negatively?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:01 AM
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Go to a sex worker? That’s pretty easy Putting myself into an intimate situation with 100 random guys would be extremely unsafe. That is the main reason women are selective. We have to be sure we can trust the man, yes for someone better looking it’s easier to take a risk but we suffer the consequences. The fact that you think it’s worth it to be with 100 guys for 4 measly orgasms proves how little you empathize with woman’s safety risks. That’s an absurd suggestion. As for sex being like water,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:09 AM
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Would you be happy having sex if there was a 4% chance you would cum? Do you have proof that this tiny population of chads is fucking all the women and no average guys are getting laid? I do have empathy, I know how it feels to not be desired. I know what it’s like to feel lonely. It’s hard for that empathy to last when men throw around chad boogeymen and blame women for not making sure every single guy gets laid. Average guys do get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:57 AM
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I think for some men, the thought of being equals with a woman rather than her superior basically means he’s subservient
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:36 AM
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It would be better to say just be the best version of yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:33 AM
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What a bratty teen thing to say /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:31 AM
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I think it should be the opposite, if anything having more partners is just the logical route to eventually have an orgasm with sex. In first time hook ups only 4% women cum. Gotta rack up numbers to finally bust a nut.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:51 PM
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As if being motivated would make women able to find these mythical men that can actually give orgasms! Are you saying subchads are like more average men they need to give chances to? Men in this sub seem pretty motivated to have sex but that’s not changing anything to make women give it to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:48 PM
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Yes women can easily get sex. It’s proven the quality is likely to be shitty and she won’t even cum. No proof that it’s only with “chads”. I’ve given plenty of average guys chances. I see average guys pulling their match or higher all the time. The mindset that “chads” get all the sex and never the average man is just statistically impossible. There are many more average men for NONE of them to ever get laid. But if you adopt this mindset it’s a cop out rather than having to admit average guys d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:19 PM
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Because I’d mostly be in an echo chamber, or disagreeing and getting angry with coworkers that I need to be civil with
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 09:22 PM
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This is complete fanfiction
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 09:18 PM
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Yes. It’s so disgusting and degrading. I remember I went from chubby, ugly, and awkward and being invisible to boys or bullied by them, then I hit puberty and the first gesture of attention I got was the rumor a boy in my class saying he “wants to fuck me in the ass”. In 7th grade. Like not a crush, not compliments, not trying to get to know me. Rumors and insults. And even worse were boys that actively bullied me and made me cry trying to suck up to me in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:21 PM
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I know what you mean. I’ve gained a little bit of weight as I was coping from SA using food lol. I still get harassed but not nearly as much. I’m losing it again for my health and I’ve already noticed the looks coming back, even as I’m showing less skin with the weather.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:16 PM
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Was it aggressive, relentless, and demeaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:14 PM
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I mean I’m all for polyamory but you’re ignoring the other questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:10 PM
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How does the man know the baby is his if he’s letting his friends have sex with her? Where’s your anthropological evidence for early human passing around of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:06 PM
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Just because you’re raped by someone of the sex you are attracted to, does not mean you’re in ANY way attracted to your rapist. Also you don’t get to choose who rapes you. It is insane this has to be spelled out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:04 PM
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Those sentiments are not the subjects of multiple popular posts or comments
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:03 PM
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But I thought woman having multiple sexual partners is repulsive to men biologically? And also you’re skipping my question, how can he confirm the baby is his? Do you have any anthropological evidence for what you just wrote?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:00 PM
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Just because someone is a heterosexual woman does not mean she should find assaulters and harassers attractive and be thankful. They are usually vile and if they happen to be ok or good looking they still are gross bc they obviously have bad character. Before you cry “you’d love it if chad did it” just no. Not going about it in the disrespectful way these men operate. You can’t seriously say you’d be happy if this happened to you? That’s how we see these gross dudes. If anything you should imagi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:56 PM
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But if the woman is fertile the kids could be the other guys if they really did have sex (which I don’t believe)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:48 PM
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So that means those thoughts are not indicative of the majority of feminist or “blue pilled” people
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:33 PM
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Why would the dominant male allow a rival to have “lots of sex” if it would reduce the likelihood of the child being his? Also I thought a woman having lots of sex is naturally repulsive to men because it lowers the chance of him being the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:30 PM
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What are some despicable woman views you’ve seen?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:32 PM
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Don’t say that! Then that means biologically these guys should be sexless!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:32 PM
1

Have you sucked a dick before? It’s not easy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:20 PM
1

Basically full bush but maybe trimmed a bit if you’re overly hairy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:34 AM
1

I’m eating blueberries right now and loving it 😤😤
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:23 AM
2

hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:07 AM
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I wish more dudes would lift. Sure, I’m an annoying feminist, but I love muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:57 AM
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Damn, I walk 4-6 miles a day and go to Pilates. I don’t see myself that highly but also when I walk my dog in the morning I’m passed by probably the most fit people in my city running every morning so my perception is skewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:55 AM
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mens sex drive peaks in early 20s while womens is late 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:48 AM
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By peak I mean biologically, with the amount of sex hormones. Not how much they get to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:11 PM
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it’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:59 PM
2

Women blaming? Here??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:51 PM
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I’m fine with dating younger men. I wish more women would consider it. Mens sexual peak is early to mid 20s and womens is late 20s early 30s so those ages paired together work for a sexually satisfying relationship (I know, I was in one)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:50 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:00 PM
2

Isn’t that a complaint that MRAs have though? Men failing and committing suicide at high rates and no one cares. And in their mind it’s feminisms fault because women don’t want to help these men. But neither do other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:34 PM
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All my girl friends and other women on the internet have many stories about random hookup men being terrible at sex, absolutely incompetent and selfish in bed. I guess it must be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:20 PM
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That’s not very compelling. It’s much more likely you have a type.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:08 PM
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Where is your evidence women cheat because their boyfriends were emotional? Besides anecdotal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:01 PM
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What I said is let’s say it is true women don’t state their preferences openly. If you as a man had access to tons of women looking to fuck, would you not choose the hottest? In regards to that study, I don’t thing you can draw the conclusion that it indicates women lie about what they’re attracted to. There could be many explanations for the results
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:40 PM
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Just be gay then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:37 PM
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Even if that is true, would you not do the same thing if given the chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:22 PM
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I think only like 40% of child support gets paid
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:11 PM
2

Sorry I mistakenly thought you were OP
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:08 PM
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If you’re peaceful you do nothing? That has very “don’t be sad choose happiness” energy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:40 PM
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That person isn’t making generalizations about all men, but the subset that post things like this in ppd. You make generalizations about all women as if they are evil and subhuman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:39 PM
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I feel like most milf pornstars are early to late 30s. That’s not very old
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:35 PM
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Men can do surgery, skincare, and exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:34 PM
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Would you be happy with a wife who takes care of the house and kids, makes some of her own money but spends it on a male escort to satisfy her sexually?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:23 PM
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Or maybe after the 2nd “no” men should stop
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:15 PM
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I don’t see myself ever being in a completely monogamous relationship, I think it’s wild that it’s the norm. Especially with how often people cheat and carry on extended affairs. Like why don’t you just be honest with yourself and your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:28 AM
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I’m fully behind more older women pursuing younger men (with a non predatory age gap). Men are have their highest sex drive early to mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:35 PM
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I agree it’s at least 35 for women if she has a decent lifestyle, maybe later if she’s very health conscious. Women are at peak fertility late 20s early 30s. I think mens “wall” being later is entirely due to societal standards. Men are allowed to age and look “distinguished, rugged” when their faces show it to a point. For women it’s all youth worship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:58 PM
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21 is ancient for a woman, everyone knows peak attractive is on her 18th birthday and not a minute earlier- please don’t call the police on me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:55 PM
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Consent should be enthusiastic. You shouldn’t have to pester a girl to get her agree to sex. If she wants it badly it will happen eventually. The only motivation to be so persistent is because someone fears she will decide against it if given more time. And the fact you refer to agreeing to sex as “give up” sounds like a predatory mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:21 PM
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Lol “people pleaser” does not not mean “puts out for anyone and everyone”. You can be a people pleaser and have little to no sexual experience. Many young women do have some incidents sexual trauma because of being people pleasers. 1 in 6 girls have a coercive first sexual experience where they say no many times in many ways but the man relentlessly pressures them until they feel like they have to. Some women withdraw sexually after this and remain inexperienced, others act out sexually to cope …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:17 PM
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Random men including older men also just approach women to talk on the street. It’s mostly annoying, sometimes it’s someone of close age and cultural group (students, hobbies, race etc) and it’s appropriate, if she finds him attractive it could lead to something. The original comment I replied to said young women are OBVIOUSLY attracted to older men but just have no access to them. But they present themselves everywhere- on the street, online, and the majority of the time women reject them. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:48 PM
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Possibly. But this guy was arguing that younger women have no access to older men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:45 AM
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This is a crazy concept, but older women used to be young women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:11 PM
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There was a thread today about older men harassing young women on the streets, they make themselves apparent and women actively reject them, routinely.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:05 PM
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Plenty of men approached and harassed me as early as 13. I looked older. Men either don’t care if girls are underage or they’re too thick to tell the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:09 PM
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I mean yes life is suffering. It’s a given for me and most other people. In a discussion it’s not very productive to be bringing up though. Kind of just a nihilist trump card. Why discuss anything, life is suffering and we’ll be dead soon enough. I think it’s humorous and convenient to bring it up in the instance that women are shown to do something positive for men. It’s like there’s no where to point the finger at women for being bad in the scenario. Better huff and puff and say life is pointl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:15 PM
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What is the truth you’re getting at?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:03 PM
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It’s the connection that many scientists have made, it seems obvious to me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:02 PM
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Lol imagine if any time men here brought up high suicide rates in young men and men in general and I’m like where’s the negative? Life is suffering! But when it comes to women being bad and wrong, proven links between prolonged male lives are suddenly a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:45 PM
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I’m aware correlation does not equal causation. However studies show married men are more likely to get health screenings, and that married men also happen to live longer. Those things are pretty directly linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:42 PM
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Maybe if you live in a basic bachelor pad by yourself. But any home requires cleaning and maintenance, plus grocery buying and planning, plus managing health appointments and bills. You know how men live longer when they’re married?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:47 PM
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Sexually voracious woman here, I’ve never heard someone else describe it so well. I can wear out most men but also I’m not masturbating to porn multiple times a day. I’ll go weeks or months without sex but when I do it with someone I’m deeply attracted to I have a huge appetite.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:44 AM
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Here. Ppd. Women are always saying it and then men come asking what they should do to improve their scenarios, and always include “don’t just nag me to go to therapy”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:34 AM
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Ah yes, the classic man knowing what women actually want over what they actually say
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:33 AM
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Try taking pictures that are actually flattering, groom yourself, clean your surroundings. If the hottest girl posts a pic with a dirty mirror she gets roasted for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:46 PM
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I think he won’t be happy until we concede to drastically lower our standards and date any man, including him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:38 PM
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Kurt Metzger Jo Marney and many other people online. In this case the rapist had FOURTY SEVEN other offenses but he finally was jailed for life after raping a mother and daughter in front of each other Read tweets about any rape case in the news and there are plenty of non religious people victim blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:36 PM
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Men literally say that though. They say “not all men are like that” or even blame the woman for allowing it to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:24 PM
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It’s a joke, I linked a Klingon coming of age ritual
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:38 AM
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If you’re afraid to intervene because a couple might be play fighting and both be mad at you, why is it ok to take the man’s side and tell the woman to calm down?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:43 PM
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Lol if you’re going on a date to hooters I feel like it’s likely to be a bad time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:40 PM
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Rite of ascension
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:26 PM
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I mean I literally described how they do it, they keep saying to hold still or they don’t participate if they don’t like the position. Or they actively hold you down. How to you make a guy stop telling you to hold still? How to you make a man touch your clit or tits even after guying their hands or saying it out loud? Obviously I didn’t ever have sex with these guys again. But I’ve encountered them many times. And don’t say “wElL your should vEt” because the premise is that it’s awesome that wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:47 PM
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I’m a sexually aggressive woman and I am an active participant when having sex. However, I have had enough of these”quick easy sex” encounters to corroborate this trend of men basically wanting to masturbate with your body. Enough men have encouraged me to not move, hold a position, be still, or they refuse to do positions other than the ones they want (if I asked to do what I wanted they would begrudgingly do it for a few seconds and look SO disconnected and unhappy). It’s about them having pow…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:38 PM
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There are people who manipulate to get free stuff, but seeing as he is still on good terms with u/Lysa_Bell after moving out and she speaks so highly of him, I don’t think he was being kind just to finesse something
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:54 AM
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People don’t welcome you to live rent free if you’re not extremely pleasant to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:35 AM
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Right? The men and women he sleeps with must be crazy, it can’t be that he’s actually charming
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:34 AM
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Maybe for you they are
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:44 AM
3

W*men preforming mind tricks to infiltrate your brain and assault it with psychic emotional labor
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:07 PM
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Men can easily avoid spending too much time with a woman so she can’t demand emotional labor from him. Women can’t completely avoid the threat of sexual assault unless they completely withdraw from society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:05 PM
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The same reason it’s not satisfying to go to escorts
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:27 PM
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It still won’t be as desirable and an ego affirmation as having a real, live woman desire you corporations will find a way to squeeze every last penny once a subset of men are dependent on these bots as their only chance. Think getting locked out of your wife’s pussy unless you upgrade. See your point if you see relationships as completely transactional and love as conditional. It can be, but I disagree that the majority of relationships are this way. Actual love plays a big component, but the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:07 PM
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I hope y’all have fun paying a subscription for access to your sexbot wife
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:48 PM
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I’m sure they’re working as hard on it as they do for mens DV shelters and to get custody of their kids
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:16 PM
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It’s funny bc whenever I post the 1 in 6 statistic (or 1 in 4 now), dudes here go ballistic because it’s a self reported survey and therefore junk science
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:44 PM
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If you had a male doctor with abs that posts shirtless beach pics, would you think less of him?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:32 PM
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Got stats on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:27 PM
1

Men can be offered the same when they bear equal amounts or even the majority amount of childcare
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:26 PM
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Getting asked on a actual date is rare, meeting up with the expectation of sex (having your body used as a fleshlight) is easy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 08:32 PM
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Damn what did he do to get banned? I hope they did this to the dude I reported for SA but I have little faith
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 08:27 PM
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Tinder kind of tries- it detects crude words or phrases and says like woah slow down but it’s just a warning you can bypass. If there was an app that was advertised as no hookups, the onus would still be on the women to report men violating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 08:20 PM
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There’s a big difference between familial nudity and seeing sexualized nudity in art or at brothels, and having millions of videos of any imaginable scenario available at your fingertips, which most men view daily and train themselves like pavlovs dogs to desire more and more depraved things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:04 AM
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But how long term can the relationship be if they eventually become a 30 something with a jaded attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:23 AM
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The mens preference is literally comparing women to an object
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:27 PM
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Have you ever considered that maybe women don’t think they deserve rich Brad Pitt, but they are happy and at peace with themselves. So if they’re going to be with someone, he better bring a lot to the table. Why would they want to settle for someone less than attractive, who they also have to take care of domestically and provide for? So unattractive guys don’t feel bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:19 AM
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Yeah just like how evolution has given us all perfect eyesight 🙄 That’s a lot of explanation to rationalize violence. Violence is not necessary in modern society unless you take the stance that men are built to be soldiers. In that case, their uncontrollable violent instincts should disqualify men from holding office and other positions of power, they lack emotional control.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:16 AM
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I feel like a lot of men complaining about girls infiltrating Boy Scouts don’t realize they’re not invading boys’ troops, they’re having their own separate troops.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:33 PM
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It’s not for the strangers on the beach’s enjoyment, it’s for my own confidence to not have a massive bush hanging out and show that intimate part of me. If my partner really preferred it I’d do it if one of us had money for unnecessary things. But I don’t see myself with a partner like that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:57 PM
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Yeah, the waxing and ingrowns both hurt, I would only wax if my partner wanted to help me pay or if I was going on a beach vacation. It’s like my approach with my legs, if a guy cares that much that he’d write me off for it, he’s not the guy for me. And If im going somewhere that nice, I’ll put in the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:38 PM
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About to turn 30, I don’t shave my arms at all, I shave my armpits occasionally, I can’t shave my nether regions because I get ingrowns super easily- if my partner was bothered I’d get it waxed with a bush like I sometimes do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:28 PM
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Lol the illegal “c” word has no use here, I have no horse in this race. There only seems to be you seething.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 08:42 AM
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But you’ve never had broccoli like this before, surely you will love it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:06 PM
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I’m a woman with a high libido, and although I’m attracted to a range of men I do really love muscular guys (not necessarily tall). I like youthful eboy types as well. My FYP is 99% my hobbies, art that I like, some musicians and dog pages. Even at my most lonely, thirsty point in early quarantine the algorithm started showing me hunks a little bit. Probably because my life doesn’t revolve around my libido like RP guys do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:04 PM
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Maybe you shouldn’t expect women to cater to your space
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:02 PM
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Yeah she’s definitely bending over just to inconvenience and distract you eyeroll
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:46 PM
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Lol the other reply to this statement is the opposite sentiment
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:51 PM
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There’s a difference between an act of violence and being generally violent. I would say a woman stabbing after sexual rejection as sexual violence but that’s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:16 PM
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Again, it’s not just getting mad, it’s yelling , berating me, and causing a scene in a busy bar. Also, I didn’t necessarily categorize this as violence. I would say this is sexual aggression/regular aggression. If a woman screamed at you in a bar, called you a bastard and a dick and a rapist or gay or something accusatory, would that not be aggressive to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 11:52 AM
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Sexual assault This dude caused a scene in a bar, what do you think he would have done if I told him no while we were alone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 11:40 AM
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I love the profile bios that say “DONT swipe right if you’re not gonna TALK” like bro you’ve called yourself out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:09 AM
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I’m in bed next to him rn, he’s knackered from the sexing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:29 AM
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You think a man yelling and causing a scene in public because I don’t sleep with him isn’t sexually aggressive or violent? I already stayed both genders can suck. It’s more common for men to lash out when they don’t get the sex they feel entitled to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:28 AM
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I believe you, women can be just as bad people. But men have a far greater likelihood to be violent and sexually aggressive. I had a guy storm out on a (first) date, screaming I was a cunt, because I mentioned I wasn’t having casual sex atm (so we wouldn’t be having sex that night). He berated me for “making” him buy me 3 drinks if I was never going to sleep with him. He even texted me after to reiterate how much of bitch I was, I clarified that I had only meant sex right away, I wasn’t saying i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:48 PM
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I was referring to the dudes here complaining all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:23 PM
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Maybe don’t revolve your self worth around what one random person thinks, just because they’re hott?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:52 PM
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Yes, so many men are instantly atrocious online or worse, seem normal until the date and then are awful in person
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:47 PM
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I’m 1/6 proud of you The rest of these guys, not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:27 PM
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Bad personalities, boring, lack of empathy, addicted to porn, sexually incompetent, bad taste
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:42 PM
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Oh I could keep the criticism coming but I try my best to remain unbiased
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:20 PM
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Same for bald guys and short guys
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:46 PM
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Being told my whole life that what men want is more important and my needs are secondary. Having my boundaries and body violated by men starting as a young child, being punished for standing up for myself. Being a hardworking and bright student, and being rewarded by having to help lazy male students that couldn’t give a damn. Being demonized for having sexual urges and acting on them. Being told I’m a “slut” but when men want something and I try to stop it i’m a prude and a tease. Sexual assaul…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:58 AM
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You really think baldness is the end all be all shortcoming? And that there aren’t a bunch of other external or internal things either gender can be made to feel inferior for? Any perceived flaw can lead to emotional pain and anguish. But that’s something you deal with in your own mental health. Menstruation is routine physical and emotional pain that almost every single woman suffers, and it is crucial to the reproductive cycle that allows us to continue the human race. It is relevant to the co…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:47 AM
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In a discussion about things that the majority of men and the majority of women suffer, it’s just off topic and seems like a self serving and vain complaint. Like if I were to chime in “but not all women get huge tits, us flatchested women have it hard too!!” Like yes it’s unfortunate if a woman is unhappy with her chest size and she may have been ridiculed or discounted because of it. The same goes for balding men. But it’s not something the majority of either gender suffer. It’s irrelevant to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:13 AM
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I think some men here might be decent looking and fit but have a dogshit personality. It shows in how quickly they turn hostile and negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:32 PM
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Rape is hardly ever convicted or punished
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:32 AM
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Men can choose not to have sex or nut inside a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:30 AM
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You really think the main reason they retained the draft was to not upset feminists?? I think it’s much more likely that blaming feminists was a convenient cop out for the government just wanting to keep the draft. I have linked multiple feminists organizations that clearly state they want to abolish it as a whole. Even in the past their stance was the same. I’m going to take a wild guess that it was just one vocal minority group against it and now they’re being used to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:25 AM
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Most feminists want to abolish the draft https://feminist.org/resources/feminist-chronicles/part-iii-the-early-documents/women-and-the-military/ https://nnomy.org/en/content_page/item/931-feminists-against-the-draft.html https://hasbrouck.org/draft/women/feminism.html I would hope with the astronomical amount the US spends on the military (more than any other country), we would be able to defend ourselves with voluntary service. And I would also hope they have contingency plans for if that situa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:01 AM
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I believe in the past it would’ve been a bitch on the battlefield. I think now the draft should be abolished.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:52 AM
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This mens issue was irrelevant to the discussion at hand. If it were a post about emotional hurdles due to looksism, ok. Anything to justify your hatred of women though right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:46 AM
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Comparing the photos conveniently ignores the women that died or were raped before they were able to flee.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:35 AM
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I should get maternity leave because there’s a chance I could get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:30 AM
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Most feminists are against the draft in entirety https://feminist.org/resources/feminist-chronicles/part-iii-the-early-documents/women-and-the-military/ https://nnomy.org/en/content_page/item/931-feminists-against-the-draft.html https://hasbrouck.org/draft/women/feminism.html
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:26 AM
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I don’t think there should be a draft. None of my feminist friends do either. Plenty of other feminists are against the draft. Do you have actual evidence that the majority of feminists support the draft?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:19 AM
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It wasn’t me 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:12 AM
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I’m not saying it’s the same. But it contributes to the reasoning of why women wouldn’t be drafted in WW2 or Vietnam, even the ones who weren’t currently being baby factories.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:09 AM
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I should have specified- I was adding this to the rational of the trade off in the past, and dealing with menstruation during wartime back then wouldn’t be ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:04 AM
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I was adding to the physical suffering of the reproductive cycle that made for the trade off of protection during war time- in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:01 AM
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It’s all there is to compare to. Im sure it would be as efficient as other us agencies, especially bogged down during a world war. Do you honestly think there wouldn’t be a huge push back in the situation of a draft, and movements for evasion forgiveness when its through? If men are that worried maybe they could do some activism to change laws. Then they wouldn’t have this hypothetical to cling to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:58 AM
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It’s part of the cycle that allows women to be able to propagate the human race, and all women suffer it. I was adding that to the trade off of womens suffering for the reproductive cycle in exchange for mens protection in war. I don’t think the draft should exist anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:50 AM
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Most got away with draft dodging. I’m going to take a wild guess that the ones jailed were not the white draft dodgers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:43 AM
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Are you seriously conflating the debilitating pain of menstruation- something you literally have to spend money on(that’s TAXED)- to something as benign as hairloss?? Menstruation, the suffering which allows us to reproduce the human race? Basically every woman menstruates, there’s no foolproof opting out, and young women get teased all the time for having tampons or bleeding through. If you want to have the unfairness Olympics.-Women get assaulted by men, 1 in 6 womens first sexual encounter is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:40 AM
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Women also have to suffer from menstrual pain, and there’s no choice in opting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:27 AM
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Do you cringe at the gym when men are flexing for themselves or eachother in the mirror?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:02 PM
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Yeah, it’s cringe when you imagine anyone doing something that’s in their private personal moment, you’re not supposed to be watching. You won’t hear rp guys cringing at dudes flexing in the mirror at the gym or walking with a swagger after a workout, even though those things make them feel strong and confident but could be cringe to a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:02 PM
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And men here throw hissy fits
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:43 PM
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Lol sounds like women have self respect by avoiding these men that offer nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:35 PM
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I mean I don’t actively identify as gnc but objectively I am, in more ways than just my clothing. The dressing ugly thing was just funny to me bc after my most recent assault I’ve noticed I have an aversion to doing anything to draw attention to my appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:11 AM
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I’m not sure whose side I’m on with this one, I do think women have the same capacity for violence as men but are far less likely to act on it. But I had a good laugh at “traumatized women trying to look ugly to men” in regards to GMC women because wow it’s me hahahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:11 PM
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You sound like a child. Imagine if a woman here said she thought short/bald/small dick men were disgusting and yucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:56 PM
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Is making and going to appointments not effort? And waxing/lassering huge areas including some of the most sensitive? Also, it’s much harder for women to lose weight than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:24 PM
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That’s like saying look at all the fast food places in America, the men there must love cooking and eating fine gourmet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:48 PM
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“Beef curtains” come from age and genetics. Women know this, so it’s frustrating to see extremely ignorant men use this to shame and belittle women. It feels better to be able to laugh at these men. Can you imagine if women all your life, starting at puberty, spoke of boys saying if they squeezed their dick too much and often it would get flappy, lose its tensile strength, become discolored. And even in adulthood, women gathered online mocking images of perfectly normal penis or balls but claime…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:35 PM
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True, but the daughter is hypothetical, a fantasy. Most men here can’t get a ONS let alone have someone procreate with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:25 PM
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Make effort to get compliments? No way. Men deserve them inherently since women get them for free s/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:23 PM
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Women who don’t want the man they’re dating to have female friends are either immature, crazy, or both
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:14 PM
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It’s a safe choice to make when you have suffered mens aggression and coercion in the past. Or at least heard many friends accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:11 PM
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It’s gotten worse in recent years. I’ve been using them on and off for 10 years. They used to attempt to get to know you and ask you out. Now the majority are lewd messages, low effort hey what’s up, and pseudo “creative” openers they definitely stole from r/tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:10 PM
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Too bad, we deserve access to it and it’s unfair for you to withhold
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:47 AM
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I feel like the head patting dislike isn’t universal. Some are cool with it, some don’t like it especially right away because your like going over their head and it’s disarming.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:38 PM
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I relate that look to my dad because of the stiff, boring business stuff he wore to work. When my dad was being an 80s lothario he dressed more stylish (for the time)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:21 PM
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I see how peacocking could work, but the preferable alternative would be a man that knows how to dress with style and show some skin. There are ways to dress sexy besides short shorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:09 PM
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Could you imagine that women are seen as desirable because of societal expectations put on them? Constant objectification, from childhood, always being prized for looks. If men were raised with these pressures, they would take more care with their looks and present themselves better. I think it’s possible for the female libido to be as intense as mens and if there wasn’t a lifetime of shame and suppression, plus objectification of young men leading to men taking better care of themselves and pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:01 PM
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I thought it was obvious, we were both being sarcastic about how ppd dudes think it’s super easy and fun to profit off of males. I was offering facetious realistic paths to do that, since both of us are women of varying attractiveness and have not received any automatic handouts. I don’t think it’s noble for a woman to just marry an average joe in exchange for living expenses. I literally never said that. I think it is something that happens, and depending on the arrangement- if there isn’t any …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:22 PM
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But if men were woman they’d totally do it because it’s so easy. But I guess it’s more feasible with their superior male brains and social manipulation skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:13 PM
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Let me send you the link to the gynocentric shadow government ladies welfare program website so you can get your starter payments sent to you. There are also resources on baby trapping, hypergamy, and entertainment activities for your beta while you fuck chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:11 PM
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Unfortunately ppd men skip over the part where having your life paid for in full with little effort means marrying some average dude and having to put up with him. Of course, you’ll be reviled by ppd men for beta buxxing. Other ways to have your life paid for are streaming and sugarbabying, which take substantial risk, effort, and putting up with multiple grosser dudes. Life on easy mode baby!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:07 PM
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Yes, men here are convinced than in addition to free access to sex we also get material things handed to us because of men attracted to us. I think just because a small percentage benefit from simps online they think it must be true of everyone. Personally, most free stuff I’ve gotten was from seemingly straight women who could tell I was having a rough time. And that is few and far between.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:03 PM
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I will (and do) enthusiastically compliment random men more if they dressed more provocatively/outrageously. Like why would I compliment a dude in a button up and slacks? Looks like my dad. Cool polo bro, you look like 99% of the dudes in the bar. Even if he has a nice body I can barely see it so if I were to compliment a man’s body it would be an admission of really really staring at him. Only gay/bi men usually dress like this so that’s who I’ll end up talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:57 PM
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Hot take- men who are convinced women want to fuck their dad probably believe this because they secretly want to fuck their mom
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:51 PM
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I agree, it sounds like he’s telling on himself here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:54 AM
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Literally one ad campaign in modern times
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:26 AM
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He was asleep but she did it so she could escape after being raped multiple times. It could be argued she could have just left but if you’ve been beaten and raped by someone so you really think it would feel safe to just slip out? And would you be in the right state of mind to even consider that? Also, she was a child, not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:20 AM
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First off, she was a child. When your life is at risk, and you’re constantly being raped, how much consideration are you giving to the amount of force applied to be able to escape?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:18 AM
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I agree, there are people of both genders coasting. But just because a highly looks focused woman doesn’t spend as much time in the gym as her male counterpart, she makes up for it in hours at the salon, doing makeup, removing hair. These may not take physical rigidity other than pain tolerance, but they take money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:58 AM
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The female subs aren’t posting about insecurities. They’re posting about absurdities in mens understanding of the human body. We know it’s not true, our tampons aren’t falling out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:55 AM
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Again with the unsolicited advice, women aren’t here asking for how to get men to like them for the inside. OP stated men shouldn’t complain about not being hot to women when they’re not doing as much work as women to maximize their hotness. Usually the ones doing minimal or outrageous makeup are doing just fine dating. So instead of wanting women to go against a lifetime of marketing that makeup maximizes their beauty, they should just forego their confidence and wear no makeup at all… to level…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:52 AM
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I mean men have the small dick problems subreddit and I’m sure there are others. The difference is having a small dick is real (not saying it should be shamed), and while there is variations in vaginal depth (length to the cervix) and loss of muscle strength (“looseness”) in extreme cases like pushing a while damn child out of it, it is a scientific fact that the vagina is skin with muscle surrounding that that muscle can strengthen. It’s not an earlobe that gets stretched irreparably. If this w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:37 AM
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Again, I didn’t ask for your opinion on my makeup habits, so keep those to yourself. It’s irrelevant to the discussion. I see your line of thought but I disagree. First, men don’t know the difference between truly no makeup and “no makeup makeup”, as many women in this thread have pointed out. Also, why should women care if men feel tricked? Are men truly helpless apes that can’t tell the difference between heaps of makeup/contouring and a clean face? And why does it matter? If men are just tryi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:21 AM
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I chimed in to point out how your argument is extremely inconsistent. First it’s all men prefer no makeup. Then it’s obviously a woman on tinder without makeup will get less matches. Then it’s men are attracted to disgusting things and women should be natural so they’ll get someone who likes them that way. It had nothing to do with my own preferences, but you felt the need to make it personal and suggest I’m promiscuous and should wear heavy makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:32 PM
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Capitalism preys on everyone I agree, but it’s only more recently men are fair game for preying on insecurities. Looking at ads from the 50s-80s there aren’t really products pitched with ads claiming they’ll improve mens looks/body to attract women. It’s mostly smoke this, wear this, drive this car. There’s a difference between being sold an object and you being the object that needs improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:26 PM
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Ad hominem attack when you have nothing of value to say, classic. This may shock you but I rarely hook up these days, and when I do, I wear little to no makeup and do just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:20 PM
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If you’re big into lifting women probably avoid the gyms you go to. There are Pilates and yoga studios, high end gyms like equinox, cycling classes, zumba classes, womens only gyms that men screech about as unfair. If you think women aren’t working out you’re delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:17 PM
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There have been marketing campaigns telling women they aren’t beautiful enough and need XYZ product since the beginning of marketing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:53 PM
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Do you think makeup is free at the government woman’s store? It is expensive and the cheap stuff looks like shit. Women do plenty of exercising to keep fit, it’s just not about getting huge. Then there’s waxing and other hair removal which is painful and you have to do regularly or it’s more painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:51 PM
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Majority of women don’t go to these extremes. A handful overdo it and are seen as mentally ill. The equivalent for men would be getting expensive haircuts, buying and learning flattering skincare and makeup, wearing sexy male clothes, grooming his body hair
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:35 PM
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Goalposts are swinging all over the place over here. First it was they definitely prefer no makeup, now it’s men have disgusting tastes and women must show their true self to find someone that likes them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:23 PM
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There was that UK beauty queen that entered wearing no makeup and everywhere it was posted had a minefield comment section. Either men jerking themselves off “well I prefer women without makeup 😤”, or angry that she was definitely lying and had some makeup on, or angry because hair treatments/dental care/moisturizer counts as makeup, or calling her ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:20 PM
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What about huge marketing campaigns from the beginning of advertisements telling women they’re not X enough or need to enhance Y? vintage ads modern ads These are extreme examples but a spectrum of this has been shoved in women’s faces since birth Edit: if men downvoting me could present any examples of ads shaming men into buying their products, I’d appreciate it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:18 PM
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No it’s just because women are bad and evil and trick men into marriage before revealing their true fatness! s/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:11 PM
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It only punishes them if they’re found guilty, and wrongly accused have done huge lawsuits for damages.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:56 PM
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The state and universities are two very different things. Punishment by a university is not on a criminal record. It’s literally keeping the issue away from the legal system.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:53 PM
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If she has sex 100 times with one man or 100 men it’s not different. They made douches to sell something unnecessary to women, barring any health conditions it cleans itself Again, the vagina is a muscle. Muscles can get weakened, but it can expand to let a damn baby out, and with exercise become tight again. Also, how does the difference between masculinity and femininity make this double standard ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:46 PM
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I don’t even want to touch this, but come on, your understanding of biology is way off if you think multiple partners makes a woman dirty but a man is fine. The vagina is self cleaning, so if she is having safe sex she is just as clean as a man (who needs to actively wash his dick fyi) who has safe sex. If you think a woman gets “loose” it’s literally a muscle and lots of sex with one partner or a hundred is no different. Does the mouth get stretched out from eating huge hoagies? Does a penis ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:24 PM
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Most men here tend to think all of sex and relationships are transactional
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:19 PM
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If you fear getting arrested for simply interacting with a woman you’re doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:02 PM
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It was VERY common prior to the safety net programs of the 60s for women whose husbands died or left to be plunged into poverty. You asked for proof of this phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:08 PM
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Plenty of women will marry men for money that’s average. Ever heard of the phenomenon of new army recruits getting married right away so their dependents can get benefits and money? Sure middle class marriage is declining and not all of them are financially driven, I would be optimistic and say the majority have some sort of love, but those financial ones do get some duty sex, companionship, and domestic labor
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:17 PM
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When are these men going to go their own way already? A brief look at their forum and half the posts are complaining about women. Searched the term “mentor” and still complaining, no one taking action and trying to help fellow men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:12 PM
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https://www.heritage.org/welfare/commentary/married-the-welfare-state
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:08 PM
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Husbands who’s wives marry them for money. They’re not never getting laid. But why should I feel bad for the other kind of “BB” who are dudes throwing money at twitch streamers and OF girls? They’re not handing over the money at gunpoint, they could spend it on hobbies, travel, education but choose to simp
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:01 PM
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You get to have a female companion who gives you sex sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:30 PM
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Not every woman is an attention crazy insta thot. We get unwanted attention from gross creeps starting as children. Even then we can tell attention does NOT equal love. It usually is wanting to use and defile you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:16 PM
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Any contempt I have is because in my experience, boys were allowed and encouraged to be themselves. My free spirit was squashed by teachers, and overachieving nature was taken advantage of as I was made to do work for the boys who couldn’t be bothered to do it themselves. I was literally made to be subservient while boys got more freedom, fun, and encouragement than me. I’m not saying whatever you experienced to give you your view on school dynamics is wrong, and I know what I experienced. I’m t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:11 PM
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Sorry for misreading something over my morning coffee, bro. My point still stands, boys in my school were not policed, they were coddled. Girls had to pick up the slack as boys were allowed to be lazy, disruptive, and disorganized. Your glee in correcting and shaming a woman shows a lot about your emotional and intellectual immaturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:47 PM
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I never experienced being encouraged to “police” boys behavior as a young girl in school. If anything as an organized and high achieving girl that finished work early, I was made to tutor the troublesome boys and organize their binders. The opposite of what you’re saying. My reward for doing well was to bolster and help the boys who gave no effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:26 PM
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I never experienced being encouraged to “police” boys behavior as a young girl in school. If anything as an organized and high achieving girl that finished work early, I was made to tutor the troublesome boys and organize their binders. The opposite of what you’re saying. My reward for doing well was to bolster and help the boys who gave no effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:26 PM
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I do enjoy arguing, and presenting the opposing view that women aren’t soulless money grubbing harpies, there are reasons some act certain ways and hardships women face that men don’t consider. There as been times where it bummed me out that the responses would be so aggressive and angry, with veiled personal attacks. I have opened my mind to mens struggles more but I feel like I still need to speak out for womens point of view, for the people that are new or stubborn. I also think there’s a per…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:53 PM
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Does capitalism not prize profit above all else, leading the majority of huge corporations to using dubious labor sources and waste disposal practices? Or is it just woman buying from big corrupt brands because women be shopping?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:38 PM
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If there was an ethical electronics company I’d buy my phone there. I do believe there is no ethical consumption within capitalism, but I do my best to support sources with the least harm. Phone and clothes are pretty necessary to survival, I guess the porn you’re defending so aggressively must be vital to your survival at least
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:21 AM
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That’s a capitalism issue, bud. Mens closets are full of the same clothes. And it doesn’t matter if you don’t pay for porn, your views with the ads on the page (adblocker or not) still brings the website revenue. This is specific exploitation with sexual assault and violence. You didn’t ask, but the majority of my clothing is from ethical sources
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:06 AM
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Not just the nofap crowd. Actual medical and psychological journals https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5039517/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:59 AM
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Worse industries for accidental death and illness from toxic stuff? Sure. Worse industries for forced sex/physical abuse? No way, unless you count sex work
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:27 AM
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From what you said it sounds like unfairness to women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:26 AM
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Porn induced ED is a widely accepted condition, there are plenty of credible sources doing research on it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:26 AM
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I do, but beautiful and handsome men aren’t common in the average porn. Yes there’s a handful of male pornstars that are hot but just choose a random porn and the woman will be beautiful while the man is usually average or gross
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:30 PM
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Probably because of the horrific stories porn actresses (and actors) have after leaving the industry, men developing porn addictions and not being able to preform or forcing them to do porn things without asking, men not following boundaries regarding porn use and monogamy, boys as young as 8 seeing porn and continuing to watch growing up, reenacting things in their first sexual experiences on unsuspecting young girls There is a huge difference between endless pornos available at your fingertips…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:28 PM
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But if they get laid they’ll lose their precious victim complex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:27 AM
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But if women are only 20% of old then how are there so many more men? It doesn’t add up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:10 PM
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But to quote you “most women participate in OLD”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:54 PM
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Post history
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:21 PM
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So we bare the responsibility of verifying mens penis sizes for other men to know, to reference for their fragile egos? Do you want it in like a google doc for local social circles or a nation wide registries?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:02 PM
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Not verifying what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:44 PM
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How are women responsible for male pornstars lies? And why is this even relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:16 AM
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Some women started withdrawing from hook up culture (FDS) and men became enraged, calling them femcels for wanting commitment before sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:29 AM
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Doesn’t having sex without commitment make you physically and psychologically damaged?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:10 PM
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Men tend to be the ones stigmatizing/ostracizing/ignoring male assault victims. Women tend to have empathy towards them since most have experienced some sort of sexual violence in their life. Yet MRAs blame women for the lack of support for male survivors.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:39 PM
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The girl who’s insta you linked is pretty well above average looking, with an extreme level of fitness plus you’d like her to be even more curvy, despite her having significant curves. Plus this rare woman needs to share all your interests and be pure of heart. Also, you seem obsessed with anal sex so this unicorn girl will need to enjoy that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:14 PM
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I mean I’ve seen the viral videos of past kkk members befriending a black person and dropping racism. I don’t think it’s the norm for people heavily into their prejudices, which is why the videos are so striking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:28 PM
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That’s not what your source says. Why are most helping careers and volunteers women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:15 PM
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Don’t men here always say they’d love to be fetishized/objectified?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:37 AM
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She’s me. But also I’m an annoying feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:19 PM
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When it gets to the point where they don’t see women as humans, think they should be given pussy and/or wives by the government for their health, yeah. Do many racists have a change of heart and completely drop their prejudices?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:26 PM
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Would you be happy if you showed up to a date and she was wearing basic clothes, no makeup and her natural hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:18 PM
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The incels hate for women wouldn’t go away if he magically got married sex. He would hate her, want a better women or more women. He feels entitled to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:16 PM
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Be careful, I commented something like this once and I still receive chat requests from randoms
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:22 PM
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Because having a desire but keeping it in check is fine, while having a desire and forcing someone to fulfill it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:07 PM
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I would guess that most women that insert bananas in themselves are curious young adults over exposed to porn, cam girls being paid to do it, or a freaky outlier. I can’t imagine ever putting fruit inside myself. Thinking this is common female behavior is a projection from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:06 PM
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Jesus Christ, idk, I guess empathy for others prevents me from doing harm. Seems like something you lack.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:51 AM
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They also think women are getting off from chads jackhammering just because he’s THAT hott
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:43 AM
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I can confirm. I was a boy crazy girl when I went from ugly duckling to “fuckable” (but still a child) I received so much shame and hate when I chose to experiment with sexuality-and I was also frequently pushed beyond what I wanted to do. Part of me wishes I just didn’t participate so I didn’t get a reputation that proceeded me. Any of the boys I was with were not shamed but praised. Others just lied that we were together when we weren’t. And then boys that could never have been believed to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:38 PM
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Yes, I am in a profession where people are in tons of pain a lot and men are across the board more whiny about it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:31 PM
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In so many different corners of Reddit I’ve seen men arguing that artificial wombs and realistic sex dolls are coming soon and men won’t need women anymore. The technology for wombs that’s projected to be ready like 10 years out is more of an incubator for fetuses starting at a few months old. They still aren’t even close to a womb from embryo implantation to birth. Even when that is possible, these men aren’t going to want to take care of their own children, do their own housework. And as reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:11 PM
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but might be considered potential later ( after she’s had her fun) What I don’t get is why RP men look at it in the most negative light possible. I don’t deny this is a dynamic that happens. Sure, some women are absolutely settling for some chump that will financially support her. But I think lots of other women that “marry down” when they’re older just have the dating experience to appreciate a stable, caring guy. I doubt the “crazy fun period” for them was even completely chads like RP guys dw…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:03 PM
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That’s interesting. My experience goes with my theory but also it’s a trend with getting older that I like more masculine dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:57 AM
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Men on men aggression does matter, but it doesn’t belong in a discussion about sexual violence. Sexual violence leads to many women having unhealthy sex lives. Lack of sex affects mens happiness but imo is not as bad as having sexual violence repeatedly throughout your life (the reality for most women) is worse. I know it’s not the oppression Olympics but men bringing up loneliness as the end of the world gets little sympathy from me when I’ve spent my life giving men of all kinds a chance and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:55 AM
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Those state it can improve quality of life. Ok. How is it a public health concern? You are not entitled to things that make your life better. That’s sexual socialism.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:56 PM
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Almost every men also experience violence or coercion in their lifetime. Yes, usually from other men and in non sexual situations. Women receive it from men in intimate scenarios. You are complaining about having to work for it though. Tough shit. It’s not a public health concern that your dick is dry. You can masturbate. You’re not owed human connection. If anything the public health concern is mental health. If these sexless men were willing to work on their issues or social anxieties that mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:53 PM
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The majority of mass shooters having misogynistic leanings or straight up manifestos about hating women. 2/3 of mass shooters have a history of domestic violence Edit: these are facts, downvotes don’t change the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:48 PM
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Sexual health requires a positive and respectful approach to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. So they’re saying quality of life can be affected by coercion and violence ie something most women experience in their lifetime. No where in the link does it say sex is a necessity. Just that sexual health can effect quality of life. You can have a sexually healthy relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:36 PM
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So called “bluepilled” men support womens issues. I’m more likely to listen about mens issues from someone who is empathetic to mine. RP guys are the ones ridiculing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:30 PM
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Can you cite those studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:28 PM
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Birth control has also been shown to make women more attracted to those genetically similar to them. It is theorized this is because it simulates your hormones after pregnancy when you would need the help of family to raise the baby. I don’t believe the whole afbb nonesense but I do think some women go for the safe choice who they have less sexual attraction to but feel comfortable and supported. And as time goes on or they get off bc they become attracted to a different type of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:20 PM
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JFC, when will men start believing us that we’ve had actual experiences of violence and anger when rejecting other men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:16 PM
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She just sounds like she’s being rational. If she was too emotional you’d be cutting her down too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:21 AM
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Both men and women hoard animals, it’s mental illness. There are also responsible pet owners of both genders. You’re generalizing with no facts to back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:19 AM
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One minute it’s “women are allowed and encouraged to be emotional, unlike men who are forced to be stoic”, then someone comes up with a random theory and it’s “women are socially conditioned to not be upfront about their emotions”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:13 AM
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Can you give examples of how feminism sells out women for money?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:19 AM
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But most incels are misogynists. And there has been 8 specifically incel identifying mass murderers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:01 AM
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If the earth is unlivable before we become space faring, there will be little to no society to use resources
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:58 PM
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The earth becoming unlivable before we run out of resources
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:22 PM
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You don’t believe in climate change?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:00 PM
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On earth. At the rate of our technological progression and earths decline (which is increased by overpopulation), we’re not going to make it to space colonization. Not the plebs at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:46 PM
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It is addictive, but it doesn’t solely revolve around women reveling in the “millions of dicks” interested in her. Porn is a huge dopamine addiction revolving around men obsessing on sexist power fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:41 PM
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You would get more play from one very specific type of woman. You’d be surprised at the things other women get excited about if you talked to one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:33 PM
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Misogyny is a commonality between the majority of mass shooters
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:31 PM
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You realize there is finite space here right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:50 PM
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Bro stop acting like you care about humanity and admit you just want your government issued womanoid
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:49 PM
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I give ugly/unconventional guys a chance sometimes. If bc and abortion is banned, I would stop. I’m not going to get pregnant unless I know him well and he’s genetically desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:40 PM
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Except incels are committing mass shootings
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:39 PM
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But don’t you think if they contributed to society and made something of themselves, they might become desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:38 PM
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Nah. I hooked up with some chads last year who were selfish and sexually incompetent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:49 PM
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I also think that in the majority of random hookups men tend to be selfish and not consider her pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:39 PM
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I mean in general it was a privileged few that were allowed to open bank accounts. It was not a right until the 1960s. I didn’t mean the former slaves were privileged, but they were lucky to find a bank to serve them, probably because the bank was created for former enslaved people they were more open minded. Did this mean any woman could go into any bank and be allowed to open an account? Hell no. There were hundreds of cases even in the 60s and 70s of women being denied bank accounts or lines …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:57 PM
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Few privileged women were able to be the exception and get bank accounts. But it was not legally guaranteed and many were not allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:45 PM
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It is when you’re being purely objective, or stand offish looking for red flags. But If you’re optimistic and looking for human connection things slide passed until it’s too late or until you reflect afterwards. Eventually you become hardened. Also, some bad people will mask themselves, pretend like a good person until you’re alone or until you like them enough that they can be shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:42 PM
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I’ve experienced almost all of this and stopped dating because of it. Luckily I found an amazing partner out of pure luck, we’re open but I hardly look because I remember all of the awful shit that’s out there
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:39 PM
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Purple pill solution, the final solution
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:36 PM
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But you had to leave the house, drive, somewhere, go in a back room. You had the choice of maybe a few hundred videos. Compared to millions of videos of all varieties at your fingertips
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:20 PM
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If they did put out Willy nilly, men would still be mad. Mad the only women having sex with them are sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:26 AM
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Coomer brain I’m a millennial btw. I can’t imagine being proud of porn use, that would be sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:39 PM
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You could read the objective data in the study or the definition of burden I gave you Or you could hysterically claim that they’re counting low self esteem as a disease eyeroll You’re making a lot of assumptions and also asking questions that could be answered by reading the study
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:46 PM
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I never said that the large number of dating choices had no benefit, it’s just not the instant gratification and dopamine release (with the potential to be damaging to the brain) you claim it is. Women aren’t rabidly swiping and feverishly setting up dates multiple times a day and having an orgasm at the end. The majority go on dates out of need of companionship and connection. Some want attention, some hook up, but it’s not some addiction with instant gratification like porn>masturbate>orgasm. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:43 PM
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The study I cited is by the us institute of health, burden in this sense is a defined term, and is describing why funding is necessary. That term is unrelated to the point that they objectively studied funding and found mens diseases are funded more. Sorry if reading comprehension and technical terms used in studies are too confusing for you. You seem fine with nebulous terms like “unfair” though when it suits your narrative. So yes, a woman’s cancer is more well funded than a males cancer, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:28 PM
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Having “a million cocks” interested in you is an abstract concept, not something women are actively pleasuring themselves to and having an orgasm. Even if a woman has a lot of sex with all these interested men, she’s probably not getting off the majority of the time. Sometimes it’s even the reverse, to participate in all this attention leads to negative responses such as negging, harassment, degradation, and assault during hookups. Men on the other hand are obsessively watching porn with unreali…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:31 PM
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You don’t see the difference between having a few photos and unlimited videos?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:07 PM
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There’s a big difference between using your imagination or a playboy than having millions of porn videos at your fingertips
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:45 PM
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They’re not getting a huge dopamine release from these things (orgasms when using) training them to crave them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:44 PM
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I don’t deny that women’s suffrage was used as a political tactic, but women still deserve the right to vote. In what ways do you think women have less responsibility? Inb4 they can’t get drafted, I am against draft for either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:19 AM
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She lived with her father. The few women who supported themselves were hated in society. You know how the term spinster is a derogatory term? It comes from mideval women who supported themselves through weaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:16 AM
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Actually, medical fundingactually favors men. Medications are also tested almost primarily with mens chemistry as the default. As for title 9, not sure why you’re offended by sexual harassment getting investigated, but it hasn’t been a huge success A lot of states have passed legislation that there is no custody preference for women over men. Women regularly getting custody is because they show up to court and so the work. Talk to any family law attorney. What do you want- laws that say men are …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:02 AM
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Men could only give women rights because they were withholding them. Do you think when people of color fought (and keep fighting) for civil rights, white men did it willingly because they felt benevolent or because people took action and fought.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:51 AM
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That study is taken from a sample of women at one texas university. Even if we take those results as truth, it’s only reflective of the habits of the women who view porn, which is around 30% I think, as opposed to men, which is basically all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:48 AM
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Men created this issue by not allowing women to participate in society, passing them from father to husband with no way to support themselves independently
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:43 AM
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It can be hot when you’re objectified by someone you’re attracted to. But imagine having it come at you your whole life, before you understand what it’s all about. It comes with vitriol and judgement, I’m attracted to you and I’m going to harass you about it but I’m also angry and you’re bad. And these people objectifying you are scary strangers, sometimes disgusting, with more power in society than you. And once they’re don’t objectifying you and they’ve used you, you’re worthless and dirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:42 AM
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If you had been objectified since you were literally a child you may feel differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:39 AM
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Men think because there is porn of all body types that means it’s body positive. But the vast majority are stereotypical sexy women as you said, maybe a few variations like extra curvy, extra thin. It’s not like there are hundreds and thousands of videos of women with disproportionate bodies, ugly faces, being worshiped. If there are a few of those it’s random amateur or a video where they are degraded.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:38 AM
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I’m a very straight woman and find a range of men attractive, even unusual types. But they just don’t cast men for porn like they do women. Men can be glowing, radiant, magnetic, but you see none of that in porn (you do for women). Just busted, crusty average or below average dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:04 PM
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Nah, I’m a straight women but I can see beauty objectively. In the average porn a woman will be good looking, in the average porn a man is average to busted looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:00 PM
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I think they’re more risk taking and also take care of their health less
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:36 PM
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Men here are too dense to realize an older woman could have unique points of view on dating. They may not have experience with recent online dating but older women’s experiences are what younger women saw and heard as they were growing up, influencing how they are now. Also the dynamics of being married could be useful. But what do I know, I’m about to be 30 so my opinion becomes void.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:51 PM
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Men don’t want to hear women or even know they exist after a certain age
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:47 PM
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Because she doesn’t even look like that, she’s had extensive surgeries
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:46 PM
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because women are more likely to not have enough sex in their relationships than it is for a guy to view more porn than their girlfriend What proof do you have for this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:24 PM
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I routinely read in this subreddit that some men regard relationships as the “price to pay” to have access to regular sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:51 PM
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Also I feel like it’s well documented that women have better inhibition control when it comes to sexual urges, so we’re more likely to repress and ignore them, or yearn for sex but not jerk off all day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:47 PM
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Same with women and chad. Very few women will hang around with a guy that treats her like shit with no commitment, just bc he’s hott. But by this logic, the dudes that would fuck a batshit crazy hott girl are to blame for bad women that golddig, baby trap, do false rape accusations
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:35 PM
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Why don’t simps just give attention to women of equal attractiveness to them? Or even below them? I mean they’re simping for top tier women who would be taking a huge step down if they went for them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 04:09 PM
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It’s literally a derogatory term to call a woman “loose”. In old stand up and films they joked about loose vaginas. Where do you think the hotdog in a hallway trope came from?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 11:07 PM
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Uhhh length of the vagina does vary for women. I agree it does not get loose, it is a muscle
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:35 PM
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It’s already normalized in Australia. The labia law makes labia be airbrushed out of porn magazines, and women get labiaplasty to conform to these unrealistic expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:34 PM
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Even when I was a teen 10 years ago it was so common to make jokes and shame womens vaginas. Only recently is it off limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:31 PM
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So relationships are the price men pay for sex, and sex is pleasurable because of the “power trip” of being desirable. Sex is only good if you mutually want to satisfy eachother. Sounds like you need to become attractive in some way. You wouldn’t want to fuck an unattractive girl would you? Why do you feel entitled to one then? You really think it’s inexcusable that you have to “provide and entertain” ie bring something to the table? Also, if women are free of child rearing and household duties,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:44 PM
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Also: my dog’s name is Spock!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:52 PM
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Yeah, it goes both ways. Some people are picky because they bring a lot to the table and want someone who’s their equal/complimentary to them. Others want someone who’s bringing everything to the table because they think of themselves as that great. It has to do with self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:48 PM
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You know this how, from your extensive experience having sex with men? 😏 Look at the porn industry, it’s consumers are overwhelmingly male. It caters to its viewer base. The average porn has become exponentially more hard core, rough, violent compared to porn of previous decades. There are a few people that even study this. Are these porns being made this way for no one? And men are reluctantly forcing themselves to watch or abstaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:32 PM
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Uhhh this whole thread was about how the plethora of options for women aren’t aligned with their self interests ie assholes who don’t care. I have had bad casual sex with dudes I knew didn’t care about me and dudes that pretended to care to get into bed and then showed the really didn’t with how selfish they were sexually. I have had good casual sex with obvious uncaring assholes too. I have had good casual sex with manipulate dudes that lead me on. These are far less common though. you are asse…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:26 PM
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That’s solid logic I guess other men are chads that have enough options they don’t care about satisfied customers, or they’re just delusional and can’t imagine that it didn’t feel as amazing for her as it did for them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:51 PM
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Not just face sitting, also a 6” rod down your throat. I’ve heard bi people say that aggressive oral sex with men is far more violent, uncomfortable, and labor intensive than eating pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:35 PM
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no man ever complained about “tip” of their penis being ignored during sex Except for the tons of dudes that complain they “can’t feel anything” with condoms on and pressure women to go without or take them off without permission. It’s hard to ignore the tip of the penis because it’s common practice for it to be the focus of the sexual experience. Imagine if most women insisted on you finger blasting them for hours. You’d probably use your ingenuity and touch yourself too so you got some pleasur…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:34 PM
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You realize that men who solely want a woman for sex don’t care about her as a person, so the vast majority give little to no fucks about her sexual pleasure. Sex is all about his penis, it’s finished when he cums, her pace and build up is ignored. And that’s a neutral interaction, some may even be blatantly disrespectful and push boundaries/try porn moves without asking. I don’t think being treated like a sex doll is a privilege. Men will disagree because they would like to be used as a sex dol…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:42 PM
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If you’re happy with yourself, its better to be alone that with someone shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:11 PM
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Yeah I won’t be looking it up either, even when the genders are reversed men are foaming at the mouth. The only one I could think of eventually was that politician named “wiener” or something sending pics to young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:13 PM
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I literally never hear women talking about male celebs nudes leaking, I couldn’t even name one
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:35 PM
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It’s been shown to relate to the fathers age. Old sperm is more likely to produce an autistic child.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:28 AM
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Looks like plastic surgery to me. Ass doesn’t match the legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:18 AM
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Having another living thing to support?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:39 PM
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They have to hide and be anonymous because men become outraged and send death and rape threats
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:54 PM
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Personally I can tell it better because I’ve become hyper aware/fixated after being assaulted. The guy who did it had so many red flags that I ignored out of hopeful optimism. Now I don’t give men the benefit of the doubt. Telling if someone is a misogynist isn’t claiming to read their mind. Ask a person of color if they have some sort of radar for racism, I’d bet they do, after a lifetime of experiences you have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:31 PM
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Just because some women in the 20 could have accounts doesn’t mean that in the 70s there wasn’t a large amount of discrimination against women. Enough for hundredsof court cases to be open. If men had money they usually had the right to a bank account. If women had money, they could easily be denied it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 04:38 PM
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Do you have a citation for that or is it coming from your victim complex? Most jobs were held by men and those that allowed women paid them far less. They were routinely denied their own bank accounts because they needed a “husbands permission”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 03:19 PM
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That’s when women were legally given the right to open their own bank accounts and lines of credit. Before that Banks could and did discriminate against unmarried women and not allow them to control their own finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 11:15 AM
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But it hasn’t been that long. Around 50 years. When slaves were freed did they automatically have an awesome and easy life? Or did them and their descendants suffer in a myriad of different ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:48 PM
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The titanic is different because no one actually drowned, in porn it is well documented that women are frequently forced to do things they are uncomfortable with under threat of black balling or losing payment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:15 AM
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Based on their behavior, all men initially love big tits. When men tell me they like small chests I don’t believe them because I see the way the oogle and lust after busty women. I’m only a B cup therefore dating is impossible for me and I’m not even going to try
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:57 PM
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Unfortunately for you I am not a prostitute, I make money off my non sexual skilled labor. I just care about my fellow women and have empathy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:15 PM
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Quarantine made me refine my tastes more. I was always open to unconventional looking dudes and less masculine men but now I want the best I can get. I have found it, we’re open but I’m highly unmotivated to pursue anyone else unless they’re as sexy as him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:38 AM
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I admire your dedication to this person you seek. It will take good fortune, a lot of luck to just find this perfect person to be with forever. The point of chatting, dating, is to learn what who like and don’t like, who you are compatible with. Interacting with people who aren’t your soul mate doesn’t necessarily mean you’re betraying that one you end up with. There’s also the sexual element of experimentation to find someone compatible in that arena. But it’s not necessary if you’re idealistic…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:36 AM
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They would still buy womens OF. there’s always the women that are unattainable, or you’re just too lazy to do it irl
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:20 AM
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You’re doing gods work, I appreciate you. It’s such a tired myth that any ole woman can easily earn large amounts of money showing her body with minimal effort. It implies that women are dumb for not just taking advantage of this easy given revenue steam- ignoring any societal and professional ramifications
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:03 AM
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Calling someone a whore is objectifying them and define their humanity as a “whore” when they just participate in the economic transaction or exchanging two things of value (sex for currency) Edit: most “whores” do not plan on using this as a career their whole lives, it is done out of desperation and it is unfair to define them as people based on this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:00 AM
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“Whores” aren’t “getting” sex though, they are choosing to give it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:51 AM
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This is so crazy to me. Im 5’10” and like someone taller but I also love short guys and get hot for them. There are non shallow girls out there who appreciate short dudes, if you’re charming with a good personality. Complaining about being hopeless bc your “short” at 5’11” is like complaining about being “flatchested”. Yes at a very ooga booga level we’re drawn to height (as men are drawn to big ole titties), but only the most shallow are fixated on that alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:44 AM
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The only women I feel competitive with are those in my specific professional field. Idgaf about insta models, they either lucked into their looks or bought them with surgery. I respect those with a high level of fitness, I work out regularly, but if a man wants someone who spends 100% of their time on their fitness they should be with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:50 PM
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Riffing and inside jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:40 AM
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Creative, Talented in many art forms. Hardworking and ambitious. Cool apartment with no roommates. Good sense of humor, niche music taste that appeals to some people. Rational and self aware. Empathetic, loves animals. Above average attractiveness and strong and tall with curves. Good at sex with high sex drive. Lastly, despite all the bad things that have happened to me, and how harsh I can be when it comes to gender issues, I do in fact love men deeply and just wish that some were more aware o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:37 AM
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I’ve experienced both weaponized tears and tears of real vulnerability. If you know a person (and you’re not blinded by an abusive relationship dynamic) you know the difference. I think some women don’t like to see men cry because it’s not normalized, or there’s really shitty women are just bad people with no empathy. Men are just as capable of being annoyed/uncomfortable with women crying but it’s seen as normal in society. They’ll just label the girl as “crazy/bipolar”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:26 AM
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It was a joke, both genders can spend excessively on non essentials While it’s true women make 85% of consumer purchases, its a myth that women are more frivolous spenders. Single men spend more money than women. Married women are spending for their husbands and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:11 AM
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Yet men pay for almost all of pornography sold, talk about excessive consumption
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:31 PM
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Or when women are discarded or treated badly they “should’ve vetted better!”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:04 PM
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Women are wrong for not going for “Billy betas”, but also they are wrong when they settle for the betas but don’t lust for them as they do for chad. Basically women are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:23 AM
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Red pill men love to moan that financial abortion should be a thing when child support is so rarely enforced. Then they get upset that some celebrity has to pay a percentage of their high income as child support. Like they want the children to get the bare minimum needed to survive no matter what. It’s so upsetting that a celebs baby mama is getting a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:19 AM
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I think you have an unpleasant personality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:14 AM
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Yeah. There was a dude that I worked with at a bar, he was short, not built, scruffy and kinda gross. But he was chill and had confidence so one night after partying we hooked up. Never would have predicted that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:32 PM
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Thank you for this. Try to tell an MRA he should get involved and help his fellow man and get deflection and silence. The court thing gets me the most because all men have to do is show up and do the minimum and they can easily get custody. Most men just can’t be bothered and then complain that courts don’t cater to them. I know of a woman who’s ex was a sociopath and decided to just lie to the court that she was a drug user (no prior history), and got her kid immediately taken with NO INVESTIGA…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:51 PM
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I think it’s funny that men here usually use this study as proof that wahmen are bad. Like women have to care for men as much as or more than they do women!! They must care for everyone and expend so much time and energy doing so! Not that maybe men should care for their fellow man more
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:46 PM
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Let me guess, you’re a straight man? Men most definitely have attractive parts that vary based on preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:41 PM
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Yeah I’m guessing his uncles were probably charming and outgoing, and bought women drinks and food to get a foot in the door. They probably also faced rejection, or women using them for drinks/food, but just moved on instead of giving up and crying on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:28 PM
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How are women getting mens taxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:26 PM
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The thing that drives me crazy is that they go on and on about women’s standards being crazy high, they should give more guys a chance and spread around more sexual/relationship effort. But in the same breath they revile women who settle for “betas” because they know these women secretly are “lusting for chad”. And complain about the unfathomable pain of not being lusted after :( So they want women to lower or completely drop their standards, AND MAGICALLY find all men irresistibly sexy, but not…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:13 PM
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I’m not saying I condone pressure for penis enlargement surgery. But does it make you uncomfortable imagining the pressure put on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:59 PM
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Women are more likely to volunteer than men, and in health and social fields. This includes directly helping low value men. There are fewer homeless women because they will sometimes stay with abusers to avoid homelessness. Men taking care of low value women isn’t out of altruism, it’s to use them sexually when they don’t have any options. That’s not really a flex imo. Where are your peer reviewed studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:57 PM
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Wanting societal balance when the balance for so long has been in mens favor just shows how men are the ones who refuse to take personal responsibility. The world has been and still is easier for men. You want more social programs to help you out? Take responsibility and admit you’re struggling despite being the default gender, having guaranteed rights for hundreds of years, having your gender dominate almost every field and always being allowed in educational institutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:29 PM
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He was a “victim”!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:28 AM
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Thank you!! It’s crazy to me that things like breast augmentation are so normalized, as if it’s not a huge trauma to go through with big risks. Men complain that they’d do penis enlargement surgery if it existed- it has for decades. Or if it wasn’t risking mutilating their genitals- as if women don’t do that as well. Or that “penis size is hidden under clothing”- well that’s because there’s less sexualized clothing for men because of less standards imposed on their bodies! There are clothes for …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:56 PM
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Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:01 PM
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Just because you’re using condoms doesn’t mean he can’t stealthily take them off. Just because you meet in a public location or meet multiple times doesn’t mean he won’t turn from charming to sadistic if you make the mistake of being alone with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:53 PM
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Be careful talking about rape and assault statistics, men here doubt the validity of them even if they come from government bureaus. The only one they trust is the one from the fbi that says rape is like .3% likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:49 PM
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Yeah I had it figured out by 15, but it didn’t stop me from being hopeful time and time again that men had good motives
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:30 PM
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I meant men being arrested for groping. Only when it’s blatantly public or on camera there are some consequences. But that’s a tiny percentage of the amount it happens. I don’t doubt women have groped you and it’s wrong, I’m sorry it happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:52 PM
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The amount of guys getting charged and convicted for groping is a drop in the bucket compared to the rate it happens. Ask any woman how many times she’s been groped and how many times that man was then arrested. The only time arrest and conviction happens is when it’s blatantly in public, usually repeating throughout a day, or on camera. Guys casually do it all the time with no repercussions. I don’t think it should be acceptable for women to do it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:40 PM
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Lol this is so false. Maybe if it was caught on camera like the waitress that bodyslammed that dude. But police barely prosecute actual rape and beating, they do not just take a woman’s word when they are groped- it happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:31 PM
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How do you explain the woman here then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:27 PM
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Would you feel entitled to half the wealth they acquired while you were doing the majority of the childcare and housework? In the event that you decide to leave the agreement. Or would you start from zero if you left.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:54 PM
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Only if they actually liked me back and were happy to be taken care of. I wouldn’t consider them at my “disposal”, we would nurture and love each other
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:52 PM
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Sounds like a porn addiction or he’s not in love. This whole premise is trying to make men victims and women evil, chad craving harpies
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:26 PM
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So you don’t blame women for wanting fun with chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:25 PM
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Because it’s really rude to insult someone’s gift they selflessly got you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:58 PM
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I’m pretty sure “back in the day” it was pretty normal for men to choose based on looks. Having a trophy wife was the American dream. There’s plenty of ads marketing to women to fix xyz to catch his eye. Even before then, girls would have “coming out” parties when they were “of age” to participating in the dating market (15-16 back then) and displayed their looks as well as personality, charm, and talents to try to catch a husband to take care of her, lest she become a spinster stuck as a ward o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:51 PM
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Most of these virgin men are beating their meat to porn, how is that still pure? Most virgin girls that I’ve talked to don’t touch themselves- too repressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:20 PM
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Here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:02 PM
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I’m a 5’10” woman and I have had multiple crushes on men shorter than me, by a lot and a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:37 PM
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I get catcalled basically every day I leave the house. Even dressing down and wearing no makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:09 PM
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I saw an instagram reel the other day, I’m considering posting it here, if this dude bringing his girl ice cream. He was definitely below average looking, bald, asymmetrical face, not built well, but he had an instantly charming weird personality. I found myself thinking I would fuck him or even marry a guy like him. It makes me pity guys on here less because it shows how just having a good personality and being caring can go a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:40 PM
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It literally does. The term “cock carousel” is used to degrade women who are promiscuous. Do you think racism doesn’t exist either?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:27 AM
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“Slut shaming doesn’t exist, now let me use a term invented to slut shame”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:14 AM
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Just be happy!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:12 AM
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Why do red pill guys always bring up the caveat “as long as she isn’t overly fat”? You realize men have higher rates of obesity right? Maybe you all should worry about your weight before pondering how much more women could get laid if she lost it, or even worse, a horrible fat woman still being able to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:55 PM
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B-but you’re just unable to have an honest conversation about gender relations! Just admit women can not compare to or mentally fathom mens horniness! They are lying about the sexual feelings they have to compete with and belittle men! /s I agree some women are just as horny as men but control themselves better and keep a clear head. It might have to do with estrogens effect on libido as opposed to testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:14 AM
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Ah yes, a Facebook screencap from Twitter, the epitome of truth
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:17 PM
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Why does it matter? Can your mind not handle the tenuous task of comprehending multiple identities? For most people is a caveat to be inclusive, they move on and focus on the real problem that is peoples right to body autonomy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:04 PM
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For as many girls doing stuff with dogs, there’s perverted dudes doing stuff with dogs. Sick people are sick. It’s not some common character problem for women like incels think it is. The logic doesn’t even make sense. The premise is women let their dogs fuck them because they’re such hypergamous whores… but also women can just easily hop on the cock carosel with chad after chad. Why would they/when would they even need to fuck dogs? Women are just depraved I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:01 PM
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I don’t see how I’m moving a goalpost, when all I’m saying is why don’t you take an active approach in the community before you complain about being labeled? Who cares what strangers on the internet say about you, the organization would likely be grateful for help. By the way, Boy Scout troops are not coed, the girls and boys have separate troops. So I’m not sure how that’s neglecting boys by allowing girls to follow the curriculum and rules and have separate leaders. If you were really that wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:32 PM
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Just because you draw a connection doesn’t make it true
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:18 PM
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Correlation doesn’t equal causation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:14 PM
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This death clit was from sex with a partner and not from incessantly cranking it to porn
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:07 PM
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Maybe if she was continually physically violent and aggressive. But there’s such thing as excessive force
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:05 PM
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But women are more likely to donate and volunteer at organizations that help men. They do care. They might not want to fuck them, that’s their right. Sorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:38 PM
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There is pressure on both sexes to look a certain way and products that profit off of insecurities. But the pressure on women is blatantly more pervasive Those influences you listed are either on social media that is only presented to you based on your own interests via algorithms, or marketing in niche bodybuilder communities. It’s not mainstream media for decades having the only protagonists in tv/movies being brolic and vascular, the same way is is for women to be thin, shapely, hairless, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:49 PM
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True, women do feed into it. A small amount profit from their aesthetic value. But the prevalence of this editing is a response to the extreme amount of pressure women receive since birth to fit beauty standards. There is nowhere near the same pressure for men, or else there would be more muscle implants, leg lengthening, penis enlargement surgeries- yes this is a thing and has been for decades, most men just aren’t willing to risk mutilating their genitals. The push for body positivity is kind …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:08 PM
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Pretty emotional retort from the “more rational” sex All of your arguments are that you can’t because you’d be labeled an MRA or incel… a label is a label, stop making excuses and do something. I have yet to read any accounts of men being turned away as volunteers for youth groups or mens shelters because they can’t get laid. Standing up for women gets you labeled a feminist. People love to bash feminists. They notoriously get death threats. Yes, even the ones running DV shelters. But they carry…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:01 PM
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You realize you can actually do things to make this a reality right? Organizations already exist for men to mentor boys. You can coach/referee sports teams in underserved areas. You can create advocacy groups to pressure politicians and administrators to encourage male teacher hires, and include more inclusive curriculum for all genders. This extends to include more education on emotion and mental health. You can create domestic violence shelters for men, support groups, lead mens work groups. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:12 PM
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Damn you’re shallow. Also men definitely age like shit just as bad as women, it’s all genetics. Men just have less expectations for high levels of youthfulness and are allowed to age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:42 PM
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Men are way more likely to leave their wives when they get terminally ill. Only 2.9 of women left when the man was ill https://www.reuters.com/article/us-partners-health/men-more-likely-than-women-to-leave-partner-with-cancer-idUSTRE5AB0C520091112
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:40 PM
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Google search “man attacks/kills woman for rejection”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:54 PM
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Imagine being offended by human anatomy and shaming women for the audacity of having breasts. Sorry you can’t see tits without getting riled up, maybe lay off the porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:42 PM
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So what would your clever reaction be if a dude was relentlessly bugging you while you were going about your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:39 PM
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Corporations receive tax credits all the time. Are they welfare queens too?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 03:48 PM
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Whenever I try to provide rape and assault stats here men claim they’re not reputable, scientifically garbage. Even if they come from the us government. They’ll only believe the state that agree with their view that things “aren’t that bad”. Even though my experience and women I talk to are vastly worse than the statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:01 PM
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Love this take I think they’re under the impression that it’s the shackles of modern society holding them back, so societal collapse would definitely turn things around for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:20 AM
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He literally beats women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:42 PM
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Do you have any sources for modern mainstream feminist literature calling for female supremacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:54 PM
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I for one would love a future generation where a large amount of mens motivation for college is to meet a high earning woman to settle down with
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 07:18 PM
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As far as I know fds does have an emphasis on self improvement. Focusing and working on yourself before your start dating or taking a step back from dating if you’re struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:48 PM
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I mean if you look in nature, the male animal is almost always having to prove himself to the females of the species in order to mate. This doesn’t mean females are superior, but they do have the burden of carrying and raising offspring, so it’s prudent to be choosy to have healthy offspring. In humans it serves women to high standards so that her life will be improved by any relationship, and her children (if she wants them) will be mentally and physically healthy. That means choosing a man tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:34 PM
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I would say personally I’m “not like the other girls” because I am a very forward woman. Not that all women are submissive, I’m just pretty aggressive and take action when I want something. I grew up an ugly duckling and had to do a lot to get any boys to notice me, now that I’m above average it’s still just in my nature. This combined with a high sex drive has lead me to accumulate a lot of experiences in sex and dating. Among those experience are some really bad ones, I have seen the scope of …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:54 PM
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Women don’t go to these places because they can’t get laid at home. They just happen to be on vacation and making time for pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:30 PM
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That’s those womens prerogative though, women are allowed to have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:05 PM
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Since when is it not worth it to work towards something that’s hard to get? It seems like you’re bothered because their expectations are “impossible” and they refuse to lower them to cast a wider net. But they’re not impossible, they do make it more difficult but these women are willing to to the work of vetting while dating and If they get bothered by lack of success they take a step back and focus on themselves. I don’t think they have any shortage of people interested in them, they just don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:02 PM
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Their attitude towards life of being independent and happy by yourself above being with someone who doesn’t meet your standards? How rude! Please show me the threads of FDS women scheming to milk men out of money through divorce or laughing at their many devoted boyfriends that give them endless money and gifts. FDS is constantly compared to incels, who fantasize about actual rape, and wish they could pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:55 PM
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They literally can though. It’s not worth the hassle of dealing with men who don’t meet the standards, they would rather be alone and happy, working on themselves. And guess what, if they get lonely and touch starved they can drop those standards for a night and maybe a lesser man can have a chance. Then go back to a carefree life. I doubt that’s FDS approved but still. Why do you even care though, if they’re not even that attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:46 PM
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Yeah I doubt women willingly posted their pics to FDS knowing how much hate they get from text only posts
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:37 PM
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Be affectionate and complimentary with your friends. Like girlfriends always pumping each other up, telling each other they’re so sexy. You would want to do this theoretically because it’s the kind of enjoyable stuff you get from heterosexual interactions but apparently you’re unable to have those
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:02 PM
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You can flirt with your friends in a heterosexual way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:43 PM
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I mean do you have proof that “a ton” of the women make so much money through these other venues? Or are you just assuming the majority do because there are a handful that are very transparent about their success
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:26 PM
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Lol where are you finding women that want 5 star restaurants daily? Also have you heard the term hobo sexual? Broke ass dudes with charisma mooch off women all the time. You don’t need money to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:07 PM
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That’s like the top 1% of OF creators, average monthly income is $200
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:45 PM
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Men complain all day long about how women need to lower our standards so they stand a chance. When we do and have bad experiences, then it’s “why didn’t you vet more?? Dumb woman”. We learn to be picky after having men lie and mask their true intentions, doing anything to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:39 PM
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Men beg for studies to be done to prove childish, impossible “what ifs” but when you show them multiple studies on sexual assault statistics they’ll cry those studies are academically corrupt, based on an agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:33 PM
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How and where are female refugees leaving husbands being called hero’s? If anything I’ve heard men here slamming them for being cowards, even single, childless women are called selfish for not wanting to die because of politics out of their control
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:08 AM
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It’s a known tradition in some frats to have a party where they all bring the ugliest date possible. Men can be cruel to ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:44 AM
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R/blantantmisogyny points out misogyny all over the internet, in lots of mainstream subreddits. Easy to find cross posts or screen caps of posts degrading women https://reddit.com/r/BlatantMisogyny/comments/vducq0/as_you_can_expect_an_innocent_mistake_turns_into/ https://reddit.com/r/BlatantMisogyny/comments/vfaqu4/the_comments_make_me_dizzy/ https://reddit.com/r/BlatantMisogyny/comments/vfgf8f/black_women_wearing_colourful_outfitsprostitution/ https://reddit.com/r/BlatantMisogyny/comments/vf2fd…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:26 AM
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It happens at lower rates I mean have you felt unsafe for your life while on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:17 AM
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When women date men, a “bad date” could be a dude negging and gaslighting you all night, finding information about you and stalking you after, feeling entitled to sex because he bought you xyz, a porn addict who degrads you/makes you do things without prior consent. And then you know physical and sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:04 AM
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Guys aren’t notoriously open with unflattering information about them. If they even admitted to having a dead bedroom with an ex, you think they would share it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:57 AM
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Crickets The terrible oppression of being told women are just as capable as men has made them too dejected to even apply
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:43 AM
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Who was organizing/funding this girls only camp? If it’s a private group I don’t see a problem. There’s nothing preventing a similar boys or co Ed camp from existing. But if it’s government funded it should be inclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:39 AM
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If they can buy a ticket for themselves to go to any country, they could send their women and child in their place
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:35 AM
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I’ve noticed a trend of men implicitly blaming women for their shortcomings. When you point out that we’re not in charge of the overall system, and there’s no way we’re responsible for it, they either go to “We’ll I didn’t necessarily say it was women’s fault” or “well you can vote why aren’t you changing the system to benefit men” as if we aren’t still fighting to maintain our rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:33 AM
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“Rainn statistics come from surveying assault victims who went to the authorities” - this is verifiably false if you actually followed RAINN’s citations. You’re right, I misread the citation So if the fbi is analyzing only reported crime data, how do we account for the large amount of rapes that go unreported? Or do you really think what is reported is the full extent of sexual assaults. The bureau of justice (a government organization paid to analyze crime) did a more recent study that RAINN us…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:21 AM
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Whenever they are multiple terrorist attacks in a span of years against a certain religion or race, people get upset. That’s what incel terrorist attacks are, all with manifestos extolling hatred of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:47 AM
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I appreciate being referred to as a person. Baby steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:31 AM
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Well Ukrainian men weren’t forced to fight or stay in occupied areas, they just can’t leave the country. Not exactly either. How can middle eastern women save themselves when they have no financial independence? Isn’t it then the man’s job to protect the family? But they chose to save themselves and leave the women behind. My answer would be to send your women and children to a safe country. Rather than leave her with no money in the middle of war with intentions to “send money back”. As a man i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:26 AM
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False accusations are wrong. The 6% or accusations are “baseless”, meaning they are dismissed because they cannot prove an encounter happened. These 6% of accused rapists aren’t being accused and being falsely thrown in jail. They are being tried and found innocent. If they are denied employment because of this I’m pretty sure it would be illegal. It isn’t ideal that an innocent man has to go through that process though. I’m all for studying proven false accusations to figure out pathology. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:15 AM
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Ok, you’re right. But all the statistics I can fine are that having a single parent household effects crime rates, and those are just a higher amount of single moms because there are generally more female single parents
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:53 PM
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There are plenty of other sources for statistics on violence and rape for other sexes. Historically rape has been underreported by law enforcement. You really think the fbi has civilians, especially women’s, best interests in mind? RAINN is a nonprofit organization. Most statistics are formed by surveying a sample population. That’s literally how statistics work. But braindead MRAs only care about statistics when they align with their worldview. Anything else is outrageous, academically bad, fou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:49 PM
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The sample size of single fathers, 18% is too small for it to be that relevant. If it were 50/50 male/female for single parents then it could be compared. More likely difficulties single mothers have are due to racial bias and poverty
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:02 PM
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If it were a stranger and a random mistake? Sure. If it was a random guy that shows up at your work or leers at you at the coffee shop? No
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:54 PM
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Feminist, leftist women aren’t voting to keep oppressive systems in place. I don’t condone feminists threatening to bomb a male DV shelter. Why don’t MRAs continue her work? Or start their own organizations? “False” accusations are proven because they’re baseless usually, no contact can be proven. The convictions happen when the victim goes through all the legal hoops and has enough evidence to win a rape case in a very biased legal system. A lot of the non convictions are settled with plea deal…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:52 PM
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I don’t understand how men can say there is a huge issue of men being hurt but then have only anecdotal evidence from the internet. Womens shelters exist because of the efforts of women, who saw a huge issue (and probably experienced it themselves) and wanted to provide support. I have personal experiences with domestic violence and have close friends, relatives that do as well. I even work in a client facing industry and have clients confide in me horror stories about how the courts side on men…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:49 PM
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So one lady invents it, and a bunch of male lawmakers, judges, and policemen enforce it. But only that lady is to blame. If so many men are being hurt (as badly as women were by actual domestic violence), then why aren’t men doing something to build systems to aid affected men with housing, legal, and financial support? Like women had to do for so many womens shelters to exist. Before you complain- womens groups get all the money!! These groups have to exist before they get funding. Or are men “…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:38 PM
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Damn, all it took was a few decades of being told women are also capable to kill man’s drive to achieve greatness? Imagine thousands of years of being owned by your father or husband, and actively being told you can do nothing or value other than reproduce and even being told you did not have a soul
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:29 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_suffrage https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women%27s_suffrage_in_the_United_States https://bankbonus.com/guides/when-could-women-open-a-bank-account/ Black men got the right to vote in 1870. Women got the right to vote in 1920. Black women didn’t fully get voting rights into 1965 Women couldn’t open bank accounts until the 1960s and couldn’t legally manage their own finances til the 70s. Women surpassing men doesn’t mean discrimination doesn’t exist and need t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:18 PM
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Upper level academia is still dominated by men. So you think the underpaid, undervalued women in primary/secondary education are scheming to stifle boys and give advantages to girls? Behind the backs of majority male primary school admin?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:02 PM
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The change is men not overwhelmingly being supported as the superior sex. Having programs and programming to encourage women to make up for millennia of oppression is basically violence against men. /s This rationale that supporting women is oppressive towards men has big “all lives matter” vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:20 PM
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Do you have the same polarizing and negative opinion towards campaigns in recent decades to uplift and inspire people/children of color?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:11 PM
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Women aren’t in charge of the society and government that disenfranchises them. Men are. I’m not saying men aren’t disenfranchised. Some are. But they direct so much hatred at women when the problem is the men in power.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:01 PM
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Yes the me too is SO dangerous to men. With the percent of rape accusations resulting in convictions being checks notes one percent. And that’s the chance that you’ll be punished when being accused of rape. Not the likelihood that you will be accused.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:20 PM
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Check out https://reddit.com/r/BlatantMisogyny Tons of examples of mainstream reddit being vile towards women, no ban of misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:15 PM
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The kardashian show on Hulu has a beauty filter on it. I feel so sorry for kids growing up with media today. I already have fucked up body image issues from being a kid in the 90s and aughts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:08 PM
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Ukrainian men are not forced to fight, just forced to stay in the country. Another man in this sub recently was vehement that Ukrainian men that chose to stay and fight are heroes and women who left are cowards, proving that despite wanting equal rights women are obviously unworthy. So are these men patriotic heroes or cannon fodder forced to risk their lives? Syrian and afghan men left their families behind in hopes of sending money back so they all could escape. Should these men have stayed to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:59 PM
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Misogynists love to take credit for womens achievements. Besides what is written about, I wonder what other achievements were shamelessly stolen that didn’t get documented. The victor/oppressor writes history.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:31 PM
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Women and children first is a myth. It has always been every person for themselves with the strongest (men) trampling over the rest. Look at the women left behind in Syria and Afghanistan while men took spots in planes reserved for women and children Yes men have been enslaved and sent to war. But all women were seen as property and only had potential within their social class tied to their husband or family. They were not individual free citizens
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:26 PM
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1 in 6 women will experience rape in their lifetime https://www.rainn.org/statistics/scope-problem Rainn statistics come from surveying assault victims who went to the authorities
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:16 PM
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The times where a guy fucked me like a rag doll we’re objectively the worst sex I’ve had
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:43 PM
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You’re saying women want someone that’s always dominant. That anyone tender will be written off no matter what. The overwhelming opinion is that women want someone who can do both.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:43 PM
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If all women are saying it, maybe you should take their word for it. What’s more likely, all women are lying to you? Or they’re just inept and can’t possibly speak for themselves on what they want? https://i.imgur.com/eF4ivZh.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:22 PM
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Their evidence is from years of watching violent porn
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:17 PM
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It’s been good. Sometimes I’d meet someone I really liked, but they were ambivalent. Sometimes it was the other way around. Every once in a while it’s the sweet spot where you both reciprocate. Currently I’m with someone and we’re crazy about each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:04 PM
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Women struggle with more than being overwhelmed. There are plenty of guys that will mislead you for sex and intimacy. Guys that will feign interest in commitment. Literal rapists and women beaters. Pornsick dudes with no interest in your pleasure that will reenact shit without your consent- that has been my biggest issue in recent years, dudes being so utterly selfish in bed that it’s not even worth casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:03 PM
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It still won’t be as fulfilling. If you know that technically it’s not a real person desiring you back, having a real person would be more desirable. It robots progress to where they’re truly indiscernible to the human eye, there would have to be studies done to see if there actually is something that sets apart an organic living being. Some type of soul that humans unknowingly detect. Regardless of what those results are, there’s still the issue of how the robots come into a man’s life. He woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:44 PM
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I personally think any rape has the capacity to be traumatizing Yes western women are less likely to be brutalized by strangers, I guess it’s a privilege to have it be more likely that I’ll know my assaulter. But western males don’t run this risk at all, yet accuse their female counterparts of having it easy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:26 PM
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There are mens shelters too. Part of the reason there are more homeless males is because they refuse to follow shelters rules. Child support only gets paid like 30% of the time. And you use it to support a literal child. It is such a sexist bias to think all women are just spending it on themselves and neglecting the child. Sure some do, they stand out and it’s egregious. But it’s like saying all people on welfare or disability are lazy scammers. Also, affirmative action doesn’t really benefit w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:18 PM
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I agree, women have all the bases covered for security and unless you’re in poverty you don’t have to worry as much about survival But women do experience levels of rape and assault throughout their life. And the trauma afterwards. That doesn’t sound like an easy life if it’s happening to a significant amount of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:10 PM
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Actually women are outearning despite the wage gap (men in their fields making more). So women are bringing in more and still doing the majority of domestic labor, including paying bills handling finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:29 PM
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I mean yea? Not every single women on earth. But if you’re interested in dating and having a real connection you should like people the way they are
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:25 PM
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Maybe if you heard the attitudes of punters and how they treat sex workers you would understand the distrust of men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:31 PM
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I know what they mean by hyper sexual. You can have a super high sex drive, maybe it’s not compatible with everyone, and still be high value. But there are hyper sexual men who sexualize everything, like can’t have a conversation without bringing it to sex. No hobbies really, just a million kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:27 PM
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Don’t forget porn addicts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:24 PM
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Have you not seen how much having kids ages both genders? It’s a huge amount of stress I know many women who don’t want kids (myself included) and our cycles being “useless” without having procreated. Menstruation is a fact of life you have to deal with. Ideologically, It’s our burden to suffer as the gender that facilitates the continuation of the human race. But on an individual level, if a woman doesn’t desire kids she’s not psychologically tormented by wasting this possibility. What do cycle…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:07 AM
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Incredibly based, I admire you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:53 PM
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Yeah it’s interesting because the general view is that their pleasure is important, as PIV sex it the standard and it ends with make ejaculation, plus the orgasm gap. But there’s so much emphasis on sexual conquest and objectifying the woman, man is doing and she’s receiving. There’s the stoic masculine expectation and also the sense of shame hindering men from being expressive when receiving pleasure. Also I think a lot of men’s first “sexual experience” is by themselves discovering porn. So th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:34 PM
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Oh I missed that part sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:23 PM
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For me I’m not imagining myself as the man at all. I’m imagining giving the man pleasure, him being pleasured by me or aroused thinking about me. I would watch porn of women giving blowjobs/handjobs/or piv sex (I mean I do), but so rarely is the male facial expression being shown. It’s focused on objectification of the woman and her fake pandering to the man. I don’t relate to her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:15 PM
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Here are some fun subreddits where men gather. I can only imagine if women were discussing such violence towards men. FDS was considered offensive when it’s basic message was to work on yourself, have high stands, and don’t have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:12 PM
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Don’t pressure her if she doesn’t want to share
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:04 PM
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Men literally admit to abuse fantasies all the time- but without it being revenge for abuse they’ve suffered You’re not allowed to question it because “kink shaming”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:04 PM
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If you’re attracted to men it can be arousing to watch them in pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:02 PM
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I mean the anonymity of the internet allows people to act how they truly feel. If anything they would just mask their harmful points of view to trick a woman. It’s not like only the assholes losers are on here and the guys who act nice in public aren’t. When you get a huge backlash like that it means a large cross section of men are offended
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:57 PM
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It’s easy to have an anti porn stance when you’ve had so many experiences of men feeling entitled to do whatever they’ve seen in porn without consideration for your desire, pleasure, and sometimes even consent. All consumption under capitalism is bad sure, but porn is selling access to your body for everyone to see. You can break your back working a warehouse job. You can break your body and mind being abused in porn. There’s no OSHA protecting you from bodily harm. Think of all the protections …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:53 PM
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Also, I think with a certain amount of penetrative roughness the vagina will lubricate itself as physiological response/defense against injury. Kind of like how men can be raped, the perpetrator will stimulate the victims their dick and make it hard, but the victim isn’t aroused psychologically or enjoying it. My anecdotal evidence is that I had never “squirted” until my ex fingered me very aggressively. It wasn’t an eruption of pleasure. I was uncomfortable and not really enjoying it. But it ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:35 PM
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Omg are you me? I posted a similar comment on an alt account because men were saying “no women wants to watch a man masturbate” and I’m like I would love to watch an attractive man pleasure himself. I’ve gotten like 40 dms from men asking if I wanted to watch and I would ask are you attractive? crickets Please don’t Dm me dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:47 PM
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The only upside I see is incels could blame the ruling elites for the system of capitalism that keeps them down, not the evil w*men. Maybe with enough angry men directed at the problem there could be societal change. But then as a woman I am still chattel to be sold off. I agree it’s wrong for women to lie about not being after money when they are. But that’s not the majority of women. We are a varied group, and it’s only been 50 years since we have been allowed to have our own bank accounts and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:29 PM
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I so agree. Even the stuff made “for women” isn’t great, there’s such little selection as far as actors and it’s not organized so you could find something specific like if you were a man looking for a woman. I tried using bellsea and the only thing I really appreciated was continuity in the titles, like it wasn’t all XXX YOU WONT BELIEVE THIS etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:17 PM
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Define star. There are porn actresses of any shape and size because men will beat it to anything. The famous pornstars with the most views have symmetrical feminine facial features and variations of thin/fit or hourglass. Basically same as male pornstars.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:15 AM
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