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Alright, I'm in! Let's do this!!!
/r/seduction01/06/18 09:13 PM
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I got a better idea for you: 1) Set very realistic targets that you want to achieve within a small time frame. Ex: "Approach 100 sets in 2 weeks", "Go out and talk to at least 2 girl for 7 days straight" or "Get 20 numbers in 1 week." 2) Give a friend the 2500$ to hold on to, tell him your targets and their deadlines and if you don't achieve your targets he gets to keep the 2500$ But seriously, I wouldn't spend that much money on an online coach, although I don't know how helpful it is since I'v…
/r/seduction29/05/18 08:32 PM
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It's interesting to see what realizations made it easier for others. For me, it sort of clicked when a friend of mine was making out and laughing with this girl for an hour while I was just having a boring conversation with her friend. Afterwards, I asked him how what he did to have such good interactions and he told me "Listen man, I've been talking to this girl for an hour and I still don't know a single thing about her. Just say whatever the fuck you want and have fun!" and I realized that it…
/r/seduction28/05/18 09:13 PM
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Spot on, taking action is the most important thing for beginners. That's why thinking that "simply approaching regardless of the outcome is a win" is key.
/r/seduction28/05/18 08:38 PM
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Haha, not everyone is at a point where they can easily go out to a bar solo, chitchat a few girls and pull one home. Might as well tell guys to "just go out and get laid". These are tips to make the process of learning and improving easier, faster and fun.
/r/seduction28/05/18 07:11 PM
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So true, I started going out earlier and was amazed at how good the ratios are at the beginning of the night. Also, there is a sweet spot in the night when girls already had fun, socialized, have a good buzz going and are ready to leave with a guy. After a certain point, most girls leave and you are stuck with the sausage fest, which can still work, although I bar hop if there really is nothing going on.
/r/seduction28/05/18 04:21 PM
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Yeah man, the point of the article is to critically analyze assumptions but I'll definitely modify the article a bit before posting it on my blog so that being objective and removing negative assumptions get more weight in there with respect of choosing positive assumptions, which I still find is a crazy useful tool to spring guys into action in all aspects of their life. You also reminded me of a good point since the blog is for beginners; I should probably add in there the importance of being …
/r/TheRedPill26/05/18 02:32 PM
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You have a good point regarding objectivity and I agree that being objective is the best way to go. Side note, I know a few guys that have disproportionately positive beliefs about themselves and, while I'm happy for them, I wouldn't want to be deluded to that point. Ex: A buddie of mine is super fat, not really good looking but says stuff like "We are a good looking bunch of dudes man!" when I'm pretty average and this guy could definately improve his appearance! After he chats with a girl, at …
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 07:25 PM
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It's only out for android right now, I'm working on building the app for iOS but it'll be out in a couple of months. I can let you know once it's out for iOS in case that you're still interested!
/r/seduction21/05/18 06:19 PM
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If you two get along, hang out more often with him, you naturally become like the people that you hang out with as you slightly pick up their mannerisms, attitude, sense of humor etc..., Although of course you can get good by yourself bu having a good set of friends is a big plus.
/r/seduction21/05/18 04:32 PM
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I've been giving out this advice to newbies for some time but try an improv class man, it's like training to flirt. You'll learn to create fun interactions and you'll meet cool people. Also, if you have guy friends that are into meeting girls, hang out more often with them, it's going to be easier for you to stay motivated and improve if you have a friend or a group of friends with the same goal, you can share stories, learn from each other, go out to talk o girls together, etc...
/r/seduction21/05/18 03:56 PM
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Congratulations for taking action, that's all that matters! The more that you approach, the more you'll know what to expect, you'll see trends and you'll gain confidence (you won<t be diving into the unexpected). Telling her that she's old was pretty bad haha but good job on saying whatever come to mind, you also gotta have fun yourself! Also, you'll have tons of awkward experiences at the beginning of your journey but remember that everything you learn from your mistakes will help you get quali…
/r/seduction21/05/18 03:36 PM
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I read somewhere that it is good to let people do things for you, anything from a favor to lending you something. When people invest in you in this way they rationalize that it must be because they like you or value you, something along those lines. It makes sense that people will value you more after investing in you.
/r/seduction08/05/18 08:56 PM
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If you want to start out extra easy, you can go to one of those bars that have live bands playing but are still large with people hanging out while the bands play. Bands usually play for about an hour then take breaks or change bands. Check out a genre that you like. Instead of having a home base with your friends, you can go enjoy the band between approaches!
/r/seduction29/04/18 09:10 PM
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Thanks man, I didn't know about hash runs, looks pretty fun, I'll definitely try it out!
/r/seduction18/04/18 09:27 PM
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I'm in Montreal right now. I like playing soccer, watching movies and chillin at home hehe. Socially, I just go out with friends to bars or we play board games and video games.
/r/seduction17/04/18 04:48 PM
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Makes sense, I do the same thing at bars, I tend to go to bars where people are mostly standing up instead of sitting down in groups, it's way easier to tap someone on the shoulder and start talking to them.
/r/seduction17/04/18 05:02 AM
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Great suggestion, I hadn't thought about that cause I don't drink coffee but I can see myself going there to have some tea, read a book and approach a bit.
/r/seduction17/04/18 04:56 AM
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I've tried a similar version when 3 other guys and I were hesitating to approach: everyone puts 20$ bucks in a pot and the pot gets redistributed at the end of the night between everyone that made at least 5 approaches.
/r/seduction10/04/18 08:50 PM
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Hey man, my advice is to simply go out and not worry about a program. Some programs made me think that I had to learn so much to have perfect interactions: be super smooth, approach the right way, perfect body language, say the right things, etc... when in reality you'll learn way more through your own experience. Sure you'll benefit from other programs and other people's advice but taking action is 95% of it. I'll tell you what I know: 1) Approach - Be outcome independent, every approach is a s…
/r/seduction10/04/18 08:45 PM
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Yes, it is too early, don't invite her!
/r/seduction10/04/18 08:20 PM
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Tell girls that you have family staying over at your place (your cousin, your mom, whatever) so you can't bring her there tonight.
/r/seduction10/04/18 07:59 PM
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Don't worry about it, it's perfectly normal to have some great experiences and some uninspiring ones!
/r/seduction10/04/18 07:18 PM
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