Polaritical Archive

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2	There's a fair reason as to why men's version of "objectification" is deemed more potentially harmful by "society." I'd like to see a citation for the weakest men being weaker than the weakest women. Because I'd imaginehe weakest of either gender has such severe physical disability that sexual characteristics are irrelevant at that point. You're right. Anyone can be dangerous. Gay women are also very careful about their safety with other gay women. Men should be way more careful than they are pretty much across the board, but I'm sure society owes a large debt to the fact men seem to have an innately lower …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/21 08:21 PM
2	There's a fair reason as to why men's version of "objectification" is deemed more potentially harmful by "society." Lol, no. Body builders do not have lean muscle, they have vanity muscles which are literally the polar opposite. It varies woman to woman, but most seem to have their preferences naturally tend to fall somewhere in the range of outright scrawny to swimmer's buff. And to be clear, swimmers are BUFF. Wiry muscle is no easier to build up than vanity muscles. But it does create an incredibly different aesthetic of buff. The body builder look seems to be exclusively a male power fantasy and guido-sub…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/21 07:49 PM
1	There's a fair reason as to why men's version of "objectification" is deemed more potentially harmful by "society." Low status men are more likely to be aggressive/abusive to women to raise their social status with other men. this has been demonstrated in numerous studies. Low status men are MORE dangerous to women, not less. And since low status men are still stronger than you, the fact that this man is considered low status partially because he's physically weaker than other men isn't very comforting since...you know, you're not a man. So strength relative to a man is kind of irrelevant to women's risk asse…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/21 07:45 PM
1	There's a fair reason as to why men's version of "objectification" is deemed more potentially harmful by "society." Women find some men creepy because they lack social skills. Studies have shown that a man's level of prosocial or antisocial behaviors are good predictors of his behavior towards women. So it entirely valid and verifiably smart that women have evolved (either biologically of psychosocially) to associate anti-social men with violence. The issue is that some men exhibit mannerisms that line up with antisocial personalities without actually being antisocial. Cultural differences can be one cause,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/21 07:33 PM
1	There's a fair reason as to why men's version of "objectification" is deemed more potentially harmful by "society." Tell that to women who have to get restraining order against good looking creeps. The reason we associate creepy and dweeby is because there's a link between male social status and how they interact with women. Low status men are more likely to engage in aggressive behavior towards women, especially if that women in any way threatens his status. High status men are much less likely to throw women under the bus or use us as punching bags to make themselves feel like a big man because, frankly, th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/21 07:01 PM
2	There's a fair reason as to why men's version of "objectification" is deemed more potentially harmful by "society." An incredibly weak man is still stronger than the average woman in a fight. You cannot over-estimate what a huge advantage testosterone and muscles concentrated in the upper torso are in a fight. scrawny guys are also more likely to be violent - men literally engage in more aggressive behavior to women when they feel their status in social hierarchy is threatened or lower than theyd like. Pathetic men become outright evil when they're left alone with women. I'm socially anxious mysef. I was al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/21 06:40 PM
2	Sex toys for men seem to be rarely talked about seriously yet women who buy sex toys are “empowered”. Why? Feminists are the biggest critics of toxic masculinity. What do you think toxic masculinity means? It means the BIZARRE and unfair standard men are held to ( by both me and women) that makes them behave in unhealthy ways like denying themselves basic sexual stimulation because of some construct of what "real men" do. Toxic masculinity hurts both genders, but it definitely overwhelmingly hurts men more. Men are people not heuristic models that should aspire to live up to antiquated visions of mas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/21 12:01 AM
2	Sex toys for men seem to be rarely talked about seriously yet women who buy sex toys are “empowered”. Why? The point stands. Women embraced vibrators cause Carrie Bradshaw told them it was ok, and then their friends got one and it turned out they were amazing. The reason men haven't embraced them? Idk I guess there aren't a ton of guys who want to preach the gospel of pocket pussies to other men. Men in general seem to be very closed off when it comes to talking about pleasure with eachother compared to women and I think sex toys really rely heavily on organic, word of mouth conversation to normalize…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 11:54 PM
1	Sex toys for men seem to be rarely talked about seriously yet women who buy sex toys are “empowered”. Why? I mean yeah, why would a woman want a pocket pussy? Those kind of paid promotions always include a free product for the influencer because they want the illusion that they actually genuinely like it and will use it. I would not find it very convincing if a woman tried to sell me a pocket pussy. Like you just practinging your finger-blasting game of what? What could a person with a vagina possible due with a silicone vagina?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 11:48 PM
2	Sex toys for men seem to be rarely talked about seriously yet women who buy sex toys are “empowered”. Why? Because it's NOT what the user is likely to buy. I think I'm definitely towards the "very to extremely knowledgable" compared to a normal person, and there's a huge misconception that the sex toy industry's bread and butter is straight women. It's not. It's the gays. Gay people have been the lifeblood of the sex shop industry from like at least the 1960s. Straight women only really started shopping at them in the late 90s and most of them buy cheap $30 vibes like once every 5 years. You know how…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 11:46 PM
1	Sex toys for men seem to be rarely talked about seriously yet women who buy sex toys are “empowered”. Why? I've seen a ton of Adam & Eve sponsored videos and none of them have gotten to the point of being like "let me tell you about the VIBES". It's just vague illusions to the general variety of options for men and women and couples They're always demure/discreet probably due to not wanting to get age restricted and also not really wanting to go into explicit details if it's not required to get paid, which it clearly isn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 11:41 PM
6	Sex toys for men seem to be rarely talked about seriously yet women who buy sex toys are “empowered”. Why? What purpose does a man's orgasm during masturbation have? Sometimes the only purpose is the pleasure itself. And it's legitimately depressing if you've experience so little sensory pleasure in your life that you cant' comprehend the idea of doing something because you like the way it felt. I encourage you to explore your body, it's a good itme.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 11:38 PM
4	Sex toys for men seem to be rarely talked about seriously yet women who buy sex toys are “empowered”. Why? I know multiple people who have bought pocket pussies/silicione fuckholes (for lack of a better term). None of them really felt like they were worth the money OR the inconvenience of cleaning it. However, cock rings, anal toys, vibrators for your dick and balls and that kind of thing? Mostly seems to be popular with gay guys, but seems much more comparable to the womens vibe scene where you would be getting some legitimately getting some very high value, well designed toys at the price point of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 11:36 PM
1	Sex toys for men seem to be rarely talked about seriously yet women who buy sex toys are “empowered”. Why? Most men dont have an issue orgasming without a sex toy. A LOT of women wouldn't be able to reliably orgasm in a reasonable time-frame without her hand. Women aren't necessarily less interested in sex, they're just less likely to see value from having sex with a man (lots of work, lots of risk, often poor pleasure returns on time investment. Plus many will be less overt in displaying when they think about it. I'm a horny lady and I have lots of horny lady friends and we masturbate about as much …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 11:34 PM
-2	Get a load of this 💩 This is so obnoxious and annoying. Why does it matter to you so much that other people have different preferences? Why does everyone have to align to your preferred method of viewing a website. God forbid your phone should have to display a white background for 10seconds	/r/seduction	10/05/20 12:30 PM
1	r/seduction in a nutshell The big cats are good hunters, but house cats are fully capable of killing mice and probably the best suited of the 4 pictured here (tiger aint gonna be able to fit into the crevices in my kitchen where mice like to hide). Hunting is a universal and innate trait in cats although the scale/size of what they hunt differs, the techniques are pretty similar. The only way this would work was if the house cat was trying to push itself to hunt something its not suited to just because its holding itself…	/r/seduction	26/10/19 02:53 AM
2	r/seduction in a nutshell HOUSE CATS ARE SUPER GOOD AT CATCHING MICE. BEING A SMALL CAT ISNT EVEN A DISADVANTAGE. IT'S PROBABLY ACTUALLY A STRENGTH. THIS IMAGE IS STUPID	/r/seduction	26/10/19 02:47 AM
4	r/seduction in a nutshell House cats are crazy good at catching mice though? Like realistically probably even better than any if the larger cats would be. Hunting is hunting and the little car is self aware of its limitations (its going after a mouse, not a fucking zebra)	/r/seduction	26/10/19 02:46 AM
0	Short Asian dude pulls tall 10/10 blonde. If can do it, you can too. You're mad she reduced you down to a physical characteristic, meanwhile you did exactly the same thing to her? This just sounds like a story of reaping what you sow. You both deserve eachother.	/r/seduction	25/07/19 06:37 PM
2	Short Asian dude pulls tall 10/10 blonde. If can do it, you can too. Humor & genuine inner self acceptance. When something touches a nerve, it shows & its often the reflexive reaction thats unattractive. Embarrassment or defensiveness is not a good look in a casual flirting setting. Being self aware and being able to spin that into a positive projection makes other people more likely to see that version. Being able to keep a light and positive energy is a massive green flag for women and the body language exhibited by confidence is univerally read as attractive. …	/r/seduction	25/07/19 06:34 PM
3	Short Asian dude pulls tall 10/10 blonde. If can do it, you can too. Being an unusually tall girl is the female equivalent to being a short guy (though I do agree with reddit sentiment that it's probably less severe.) People won't date you becuase of your height, its constantly pointed out, youre made to feel 'other', etc. Only being attracted to guys who are taller than you (and preferrably quite a bit taller than you) is a privelege for short girls. Just like you: shes aware of "the height issue". But just like you she's coming at it from the perspective that s…	/r/seduction	25/07/19 06:21 PM
9	Online dating, 2019. Seriously. As if he didnt find enough opportunities to bash on fat people, he decides to speculate on someone he merely suspects could possibly get fat in the future. Dude has taken negging so seriously its the only framework he has for viewing women anymore.	/r/seduction	20/06/19 07:34 PM
15	Online dating, 2019. Dude, if you're gonna have a blog, you should learn basic grammar and punctuation, cause the run on sentences, and random comma splices were, brutal	/r/seduction	20/06/19 07:31 PM
-6	A girl goes on the most amazing date of her life and then... "guys and bitches" Eew. Way to show your true colors.	/r/seduction	11/05/19 12:20 AM
6	A girl goes on the most amazing date of her life and then... 4th or 5th date is exactly when you break it off with someone because you get along well enough, but not enough to think a lingterm relationship is viable. Its the "you're great, but were not great together" point	/r/seduction	11/05/19 12:17 AM
1	Do women ever initiate sex with men they are in relationship with ? Ive initiated with men I dont have ahigh attraction to. I have a high libido. Your post seems overly simplistic of gender.	/r/seduction	14/01/19 03:01 AM
3	So the good looking guy in my friend group is a virgin but the obnoxious one who pees on cars gets laid all the time? They just have to build up social connections with women in a similar range as them. There's plenty of autistic women who aren't hot enough expecting a rich guy to woo them who can end up with autistic guys	/r/seduction	25/10/18 03:34 AM
2	Every girl on tinder wants to "get to know me" online before a meetup One issue is you have no guarantee of not being followed home if they do end up being a psycho. Another is that strangers don't step in nearly as willingly as others would like to believe. You would have to make a pretty substantial scene before other people step in and by that point most women have already been assaulted. But the largest is less fear and more some guys are just huge creeps. And it's easier and less stomach turning, crawling out of your skin uncomfortable to screen the weirdos p…	/r/seduction	24/09/18 08:56 AM
6	How come I can get makeouts etc at clubs but can't manage to get laid? You're probably not very good at it tbh. I used to drunko make out with dudes. The majority were meh to downright bad. So when the night ended so did my time with them. I did more with the guys who were good at making me want more. Some of this is in more sexual teasing, some of it is just in the quality of what's being done. My general advice to guys in general is to be less physically aggressive. Less tongue,less hands,softer touches, softer kisses. I'm gonna fuck the guy who caresses my inner…	/r/seduction	20/07/18 11:08 PM
9	Not being a "nice guy" doesn't mean you can't be nice. "Nice guys" doesnt refer to men who are friendly and polite and nice. "Nice guys" is a term describing a certain type of guy whi exhibits very specific behavioral patterns and ideas. They are widely regarded negatively because they are notorious for not only nor being nice but becoming hostile, mysoginistic garbage when they feel rejected or threatened.	/r/seduction	21/01/18 08:26 PM
5	How to get a guy to have sex with me As a woman lookely for sex with very few other requirements, its really not gonna be a struggle. Just showing up and making it clear that sex is an option is usually enough. The cultural norm still somewhat places the expectation of physical escalation on men so its highly probably you dont have to be the one to "pull the trigger" so to speak. How explicit and straight forward you want to be about it is up to you. You mainly just need to make it very obvious you're interested and wait for their …	/r/seduction	04/11/17 09:30 AM
6	Let's be Honest Here About Virginity I was a physically attractive female and I didnt have sex until I was 20. I think the ages are seriously skewed. Yeah, the average is like 17. But that includes a lot of people who started having sex at 14/15. I consider virginity within college years to be totally normal and a bit expected if its a guy who's never had a long term gf. Its only when you're creeping into "adulthood" category I think it becomes an issue and by that point I can only assume you'd be making dec money and have your own…	/r/seduction	01/08/17 07:01 AM
1	Let's be Honest Here About Virginity I'm 23 and anyone I'd have sex with its definitely something I'd take notice of. There are situations where I find inexperience outright hot, but 100% virginity intimidates me personally so I'd probably need some decent sort of emotional attachment or absolutely no emotional attachment and oodles of physical attraction to de-cherry someone. For me I think 25 is the age where you start questioning why they're still a virgin. At 30 I think it becomes a huge red flag. I'm not fucking 30 year olds y…	/r/seduction	01/08/17 06:55 AM
1	Be careful nailing drunk chicks That's totally true. I've seen a pretty wide variety of blackout accounts. And I've definitely been shocked by some people having been blackout because they carried themselves so well. The only thing I have to disagree with is the idea blacking out isnt from excessive drinking. It just factually is. Responsible and reasonable drinking does not lead to a healthy person blacking out. Either there is an underlying condition or another drug interacting. But American's and people in general tend to h…	/r/seduction	09/07/17 09:27 PM
1	Be careful nailing drunk chicks In the movie they take rohypnol (the popular date rape drug colloquially known as 'roofies'). The drug is popular as a date rape drug because its effects resemble that of heavy drinking so it becomes easier to play the situation off as "chick drank too much" rather than "I drugged her ass unconscious". Even the women themselves often initially think they just drank a lot and only really figure it out if that explanation doesn't add up (like for instance she didnt actually drink very much). The m…	/r/seduction	09/07/17 08:52 PM
3	Be careful nailing drunk chicks I'd say wait until you see her in person. You can get a better read on where her head is at and then approach it with that in mind. Physical conversations are always the best way to discuss anything sensitive or important because tone and facial expressions can often be vital to you both being on the same page. Plus the "I have feels for you. Wanna date?" confession text reminds me of middle and high school. And often times people don't react well to them because they misread the tone. If you're…	/r/seduction	09/07/17 08:40 PM
3	Be careful nailing drunk chicks I am a girl and my ex boyfriend unfortunately started using benzos quite a bit. Its not only entirely plausible she blacked out out, if she was also drinking, more than likely. The signs of being fucked up are really obvious but unfortunately a lot of people just interpret it as drunkenness and because they're not displaying the signs of being absolutely piss drunk assume they're more sober than they are. I'll acknowledge that girls who get fucked on benzos and liquor at parties and end up cryin…	/r/seduction	09/07/17 08:12 PM
14	Be careful nailing drunk chicks I'm gonna argue that a woman so fucked on benzos and alcohol that she has literally no recollection of the night before probably would be valid in saying she wasn't in the right state of mind to be able to provide consent. Especially because benzos are pretty fucking noticable especially when the person is also drunk because those two really don't interact well at all. Its really hard for me to believe she wasnt displaying signs of being fucked up if she was so fucked up she blacked out for prob…	/r/seduction	09/07/17 05:44 PM
6	Why Women Have Casual Sex - Why You Are Missing Opportunities ....Or because we're horny. 100% of the time I've had casual sex its because I'm horny and really want dick and the dude doesnt have any obvious red flags/deal breakers.	/r/seduction	11/06/17 12:06 AM
4	5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned. I never implied my way of life is normal or healthy. I'm simply stating that the majority of readers in this sub are relatively clueless and in need of upping their knowledge and therefore inherently struggle with being able to distill good advice out of shit advice. And there's a lot of advice in this post that goes past "I dont agree with this" and creeps into "I'm genuinely worried someone is going to emulate this behavior" If it works for OP, cool. I'm betting OP isnt some deranged sociopath…	/r/seduction	22/02/17 06:24 AM
3	5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned. You're theory doesnt make any sense because the term sociopath hasn't been a medically recognized term for quite a while now. More than likely they got an impression of a pattern of behavior they find distasteful and the most accurate word they can think to describe it is sociopath.	/r/seduction	18/02/17 08:10 PM
35	5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned. We think that what this dude is saying is creepy, concerning, and borderline a warning sign of an actual problem. And it warrants pointing out to impressionable members that what works for OP is overall bad advice for anyone who wants a semblance of a normal, healthy life. Yeah. I can pick out the good from the bad. My concern is that others won't and will follow some truly off advice.	/r/seduction	18/02/17 08:07 PM
17	Advice for building an attractive lifestyle after moving cities... "Use all natural products for your skin" Thats just stupid advice. Being natural doesnt mean its good for your skin and being unnatural doesnt mean its bad for your skin. Natural=good is the kind of idiot shit flooding on pinterest that leads people to pouring lemon juice all over their face.	/r/seduction	08/02/17 03:33 PM
4	Ghosting Girls and Guilt If your forthcoming about what you want and what they should expect in the beginning, there's nothing to feel guilty about. They knew what it was and they agreed to the terms and conditions. If you're not being upfront, then you should probably aim to be more upfront. The guilt wouldn't be from ghosting but misleading them for personal gain. I consider letting them build feelings and knowing they are doing so without warning them that its a fling is mean and disrespectful. However if they know i…	/r/seduction	27/01/17 06:12 AM
37	Unless you're a hot girl or a guy from a well off family, it's normal for your younger years (<25) to suck but don't get too down about it. I know quite a few dudes who lived below the poverty line their entire life and they still had a great time with women and socializing. And no, they werent good looking either. Just friendly and outgoing. It sounds like you're blaming personal shortcomings on your circumstances rather than taking personal responsibility for them. I also know plenty of hot girls who spent their adolescence miserable. Money and looks can be a boost but its not a simple pass to happiness nor does lacking either mea…	/r/seduction	27/01/17 03:22 AM
1	There is only one thing that you can lose by talking to girls: The time one is definitely true. But the second are entirely dependent on how you react to circumstances. Nobody can make you dislike yourself other than you ultimately.	/r/seduction	22/01/17 10:25 PM
5	Herpes There's pretty much no actual difference between oral and genital herpes. There's 2 types but it doesnt correlate to the location on the body nearly as much people think. Generally, herpes is herpes. If anything, you should be more concerned about cold sores. Only your partner ever need to know about genital herpes. Everyone in your day to day life will see any facial outbreaks. A high school teacher of mine had to take sick days sometimes during particularly bad flare ups. Felt so bad for her.	/r/seduction	12/01/17 02:40 AM
1	Herpes The issue is you can get herpes even without having sex. I feel like most high schools have a herpes outbreak problem from dirty wrestling mats every decade or two.	/r/seduction	12/01/17 02:37 AM
1	Thank you to seddit for transforming me in 2016 I think you meant this as a reply to /u/throwaway_sedditnoob	/r/seduction	02/01/17 09:42 PM
2	Which do you think is better? Dating girls you aren't attracted to? Or being a loner? I'd say you shouldn't date girls you're not attracted to (it just makes you feel worse) but should put more energy into meeting women organically and working on improving yourself. Online dating is a huge disadvantage for men and generally people are able to nab higher "quality" women when they're on a more even playing field. Worst case you work on your game so that down the road when you're situation is better you can nab some really hit girls. Best case you strike out a bunch and just by play…	/r/seduction	02/01/17 01:23 AM
2	What does it mean if a girl hides the fact that she has a boyfriend from you? It means she's the kind of woman you don't want in your life. There's a dozen reasons someone might hide a boyfriend. Some of them are innocent and some are more nefarious. But literally none of them are reasons that would lead a mature, healthy, rational woman to making that decision. Her reasoning is irrelevant because regardless its a huge red flag about her character as a person (platonic or otherwise) Stop wondering why and just break off any emotional attachments to this girl.	/r/seduction	26/11/16 10:41 PM
1	What's the deal with gym pickup? KYou're missing my point entirely. Women don't go to the gym to socialize. We go to exercise. Our life is a CONSTANT barrage of men hitting on us (I know, what a hard life, boo boo). But really, it does get exhausting. Sometimes you just want to be left alone and be allowed to go about your business without being constantly reminded of human sexuality. Gyms still very often feel like men spaces and I know many women who dont feel totally comfortable there especially outside of cardio areas. The …	/r/seduction	12/09/16 02:43 PM
16	What's the deal with gym pickup? The rule isn't based on fear. Go visit r/xxfitness . People avoid doing it because its a huge huge huge and very common point of frustration for women. It pisses us the fuck off that we cant even work out in peace without being approached in an environment where most people feel sexual advances are probably inappropriate and unwanted. I agree with what your saying. Theres nothing wrong with chatting with people at the gym, amd if they're attractive, why not flirt if thats where things organicall…	/r/seduction	08/09/16 11:47 AM
14	More often than not women pick men up Id say 85% of the time I've been approached its because I threw out the signs I wanted to be approached. The statistic doesnt surprise me in the least.	/r/seduction	04/09/16 02:54 PM
4	Men who are frequently invited by women to hang out (for fun or because she likes you), how did you get to that point? Treat them like you treat your guy friends. The same rules apply. If they're not asking you to hang out, ask them first! And honestly, it might be a good indicator they're not asking you to hangout. Girls rarely initiate the first romantic/sexual meet up so it might be them waiting for you to make the move. Either way the answer is the same: just ask them to do something! If this is more a general "how do I get invited to more things by girls"...just be enthusiastic about activities you do with …	/r/seduction	25/08/16 10:30 AM
2	About to lose my virginity, need advice Have you done everything but sex with this girl? How much have you done with her specifically? As its been pointed out, whether sex is good or not for women is usually determined by the stuff that happen before the dick goes in. So if you've already covered those bases with her, you have literally nothing to worry about as you're clearly enjoyable to be with sexually since she wants to fuck you. As for the sex: nobody is an all star their first time and you can't predict how you'll do since you …	/r/seduction	20/01/16 07:34 PM
16	About to lose my virginity, need advice Nobody hates foreplay. You might just not like that much foreplay and want to get to the main event already or even traditional forms of foreplay. But everyone biologically requires some level of foreplay otherwise sex wouldn't be physically possible. So either you have the driest, most vagina tearing sex ever, you're dripping wet constantly, or SOMETHING is revving your engine a bit before sex. Even if its just making eye contact as he says "i want to fuck you".	/r/seduction	20/01/16 07:24 PM
5	What do you guys think about the adage "women flirt with men they aren’t into, and can’t much flirt with men they are"?? I'm naturally flirtatious I guess. I think its because of my social anxiety actually. I avoid saying things that might offend anybody and smile a lot when I'm nervous- which I think can give interested guys the wrong impression. This is a more passive flirting. The smiling, talking to you, laughing at jokes. Its not cause I'm into you. Its cause im awkward as fuck and its either that or stare at you deadpan like a bitch and say "ok" a lot. Guys seem to think if a girl isnt actively objecting, sh…	/r/seduction	20/01/16 07:16 PM
2	Do girls see the guy thats flirting with multiple women in a negative way? I think girls can get competitive and a thrill from "winning" the player. Its a pride thing. But I think girls value these guys lower. They know they're not special to him amd that he's just a player therefore he's usually not special to them. So girls will work harder/have more initial interest but not be as interested long term. Based off me and my friends experiences.	/r/seduction	06/01/16 12:31 AM
1	My experience with Tinder vs. DayGame ......or we literally get 70 matches and 20 messages every time we log on and its simply too much so we don't bother. I'm not sure you can consider something immature if its standard practice among that age group.	/r/seduction	28/12/15 03:07 AM
10	Would you date yourself if you were a girl? I actually am a girl. And yes, I would. Because then my girlfriend would be slutty and like all the same things I do. The sex would be cray	/r/seduction	05/12/15 12:38 AM
6	What struggles do men and women face everyday? We're taught to be scared from a really young age and its a hard narrative to shake.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/15 04:44 AM
2	Q4RP:you're responsible for designing a high school sex-ed program, for both boys and girls. What does it look like? Don't you think covering the legal assault/rape thing naturally includes a social element? You can't tell someone not to assault someone until you teach them what assault is. And to do that you have to draw a box around the definition of healthy sexual interactions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/15 08:43 PM
2	If a "Forever Alone"/"Incel" type man is unable to attract women, and TRP/PUA is manipulative garbage. How is this man supposed to get laid? I would have less a problem if they'd just add the word some. Some women are awful and vapid. Some aren't. Just because your hang in out with attractive dead inside sluts because that's who you like to "plate" doesnt mean I should get dragged down into being grouped with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/15 10:47 PM
1	If a "Forever Alone"/"Incel" type man is unable to attract women, and TRP/PUA is manipulative garbage. How is this man supposed to get laid? It seems like your saying that the useful info from TRP is the generic "how to improve ___ aspect of your life" advice that you can find in TONS of self improvement subreddits while the stuff thats actually unique to TRP is unnecessarily harsh to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/15 10:42 PM
2	Can any man on earth hook up with a woman? No. There are certain disabilities which make it nearly impossible for a person, regardless of gender, to be able to easily find a sexual partner if at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/15 07:21 AM
1	For those who want LTR...if you "next" every girl who doesn't put out after a week, how do you expect to marry/date a virgin? I'm a woman and I have no idea how that feels.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/15 05:56 AM
2	Redpillers: how would you react to an ugly woman "gaming you"? You think there's only a physical thing happening when you're seduced? You've never been mentally stimulated or manipulated by a woman before?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/15 04:20 AM
1	Where is the line with rape? I think people can commit rape unknowingly. And that can create the ever controversial "gray rape". Where one person was absolutely raped, but the other person didnt really do an immoral thing in terms of their conduct. I think our generation will always have this issue unfortunately. But we can rise our children to have better ideas about when a person can consent. Amd the truth is: if they're intoxicated regardless of how enthusiastic they may seem or what gender they are, they can't. So unles…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/15 11:32 PM
0	Finally figured out the proper Wording/Framing for Feminists I can respect, and those I can't. I think its "right the wrongs women experience" feminists, the "gender should not influence treatment" feminists, and the "women first" feminists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/15 11:23 PM
4	Sluts vs Players I don't think people are entitled to know the number of partners you've had. Not everyone feels that way I know. But I was sexually assaulted. Its very personal and not something I often share. Nobody is owed that information. Yet it shapes who I am today. If you dislike sluts, then dislike sluts. But the thing is, you cant say you dislike sluts if you need to know how many people they've slept with. If its really part of their identity, you should just be able to tell. Otherwise you arent rejec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/15 11:18 PM
5	Sluts vs Players My father was mentally ill growing up. It's absolutely helped shape me into the person I am today. You can accept that person or not. But I don't share about my father to many people. Its personal. And I shouldn't be expected to share something I'm not comfortable with sharing. Why? So you can gawk at every incident thats ever happened in my entire life? Just because something influences you does not mean your partner has the right to know about it. My past is my past. My partner is only entitle…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/15 11:09 PM
1	Using cocaine as a way to feel what it's like to be really confident and then harness that feeling without it, is this a terrible idea? Wasn't that later found to be false?	/r/seduction	04/09/15 09:00 AM
1	Women: You are living in year 1800 in the US. There are no rules or customs preventing women from working or voting. 95% of the human population still working in the agriculture sector. What job will you pursue? Describe your life? I have a SERIOUS issue with the scenerio you presented. You still assume women should take conventional womans roles. Women are perfectly capable of being physical until the late stages of pregnancy. Assuming they dont die, a few months to recover. After that, why should a woman be the caregiver to the children or keeper of the home? Maybe I want a house hubbie while I go earn the bacon. I argue that the rhythm method and pullout combined gave a 19% failure rate. I also think if we're doing away…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/15 07:30 AM
2	Neil Strauss demonstrating social reactions are never as clear as you think What sort of things don't work any more?	/r/seduction	01/09/15 05:43 PM
2	Is there anyone else like me ? Virgin in late twenties? How did therapy work? I have pretty bad social anxiety and some pretty big intimacy issues. I went to therapy a little bit following a period of depression, but didnt really get much out of the experience. I feel like I didn't do therapy right. So many people say they dealt with all these internal emotional issues. But for me it was like going to a doctor who just happened to specialize in head illnesses. I really really want to deal with my shit and do therapy properly. But I'm not really sure …	/r/seduction	21/08/15 04:12 PM
2	How to flirt with a waitress. Its not evem that you're played to flirt. Its that anything "rude" can make you lose your tip. its less "im gonna go flirt with that guy" and m or "this guy is flirting with me so I'm gonna laugh amd smile amd hope I can get him back to the menu.	/r/seduction	08/08/15 06:22 PM
3	Sharing with you all my fool-proof method of how to bring up the topic of sex during your dates. Why "as a man"?	/r/seduction	12/06/15 02:44 PM
12	Have any of you ever roomed with a female? Who doesn't love a bigot with unstable emotions. But sex, amiright?	/r/seduction	14/05/15 09:03 PM
31	Have any of you ever roomed with a female? Yeah, I'm a girl and I'm definitely the biggest slob of amyome I know. A lot of guys I know are clean freaks. Them gender stereotypes...	/r/seduction	14/05/15 09:01 PM
1	To the Guys Older Than 18-22, Let's Post Our Past Mistakes For The Younger Guys To Avoid. This is pretty sexist. Men and women behave pretty similarly sexually. Some are slits, some are prudes. Some are dominant, some are submissive. Implying vagina=biologically want to "ne taken"....I like to fuck but if I found out thats how you thought of my gender I'd hop of dick and walk out thwn and there.	/r/seduction	07/03/15 10:06 PM
1	[FR] When the girl is socially retarded, not you Can you still contact her on tinder? I am genuinely curious at why she invited you over, and if you're never going to talk to her anyway, what's the harm?	/r/seduction	12/12/14 12:07 PM
2	What reasons do you guys use to bring a girl back to your room/house? And no, I don't play an instrument unfortunately. The implication in that episode is that they physically cant get away and so women are more likely to give in and have sex to avoid the potential for rape. "Might as well enjoy the sex thats going to happen either way." Sure, shes in a car. But unless they live in a very rural area, thats not particularly concerning. Neither are in each others homes and theyre still in public. There really is no "implication" that I can see.	/r/seduction	26/09/14 09:43 PM
6	What reasons do you guys use to bring a girl back to your room/house? And no, I don't play an instrument unfortunately. I'm sober and I want bagel bites.	/r/seduction	26/09/14 09:33 PM
3	What reasons do you guys use to bring a girl back to your room/house? And no, I don't play an instrument unfortunately. "I'm not going to have sex with you"="Lower your expectations and you might (or might not) be pleasantly surprised. But either way you won't be disappointed."	/r/seduction	26/09/14 09:31 PM
16	What reasons do you guys use to bring a girl back to your room/house? And no, I don't play an instrument unfortunately. For me, "I'm not going to have sex with you" means: please dont be a douche who keeps pushing for sex all night. It's probably not gonna happen. But were obviouy gonna be doing something, and who knows, maybe I'll be so into it I don't want to stop Women say that because they've had experiences with men who push and make us feel uncomfortable. We just want to feel safe and not like there's an expectation on us. I'd be so much sluttier (many friends have agreed they would as well) if I didnt have…	/r/seduction	26/09/14 09:25 PM
2	What reasons do you guys use to bring a girl back to your room/house? And no, I don't play an instrument unfortunately. "Do you want to come back to my place?" If she wants to mess around, shes going to say yes. If she's not already interested, she'll say no. Either way, you both know exactly whats happening. But if you use an excuse to get here there, you just unnecessarily complicate things. Once you've gotten her there, you now have to spend a certain amount of time doing whatever your excuse was. If she was already interested, thats just a waste of time. If shes not already interested, shes still not goong to…	/r/seduction	26/09/14 09:17 PM
2	"We're not having sex." Yeah....we are pretty honest with eachother about it. Thats why its called "girl talk", you know? Everyonbody is pretty honest chatting with their girlfriends after a glass or two of wine	/r/seduction	20/07/14 06:36 PM
2	"We're not having sex." My opinions are in line with every girl I've ever talked to in detail about the subject. Sometimes we want to do some things, but not others. I'm fine with oral sex, bur not willing to have vaginal sex. Implying that because I went upstairs with you must mean I wants vaginal sex is just plain incorrect. There are a lot of options between not going inside and having outright sex. So yes, when we invite someone in or go home with someone, there is an expectation of physical escalation. That doesn'…	/r/seduction	19/07/14 09:45 PM
1	"We're not having sex." I have boundaries. There have been times guys have not respected those boundaries and crossed the line. I am not going to be celibate because a very small percentage of a popukation behaves that way. But im also not going to live in denial and not be aware that I do take a risk	/r/seduction	19/07/14 02:33 AM
1	The Send-off Text A girl hes pursuing Im going to assume hes attracted tom I guess I'm attributing my own morality regarding sex in assuming everyone is ok with casual sex as I am Of course she might not ever text back. But she's more likely to respond to me eventually than she is to you. I like to play my odds.	/r/seduction	18/07/14 08:47 PM
-2	"We're not having sex." Should I also not go to class? Because I also get nervous about my safety walking alone at night.	/r/seduction	18/07/14 08:45 PM
4	"We're not having sex." When I say were not having sex, I mean were not having sex. I say it because I had a bad experience in which the guy assuned I'd fuck him and didnt take no as an answer nearly as soon as he should have. Im not saying this method doesnt work. But a lot if the comments are saying "she doesnt really mean no"/"look at her body language"/etc. I think this is a pretty dangerous piece of advice. No means no. You could be completely misreading the situation. By all means, take her upstairs and mess arou…	/r/seduction	18/07/14 06:05 PM
2	The Send-off Text I'll repeat what I already said. It comes off as bitter and makes us feel we were right to blow you off. Or its possible we werent blowing you off and there really is an explanation. In which case, you just ruined it. If you really need to establish with them that you're not going to continue to pursue them (rather than just ceasing to pursue them), leave it open ended on good terms. While it may not be right at that moment, who knows what the future holds. Theres no point in burning a bridge ov…	/r/seduction	16/07/14 08:28 PM
2	The Send-off Text Not only that, but its extremely off putting to get. Sometimes I really am just busy amd dont have time to text a guy I barely know. Once my life settles down, I'll try to start talking to them again. Sometimes I'm not interested at that time for some reason, but change my mind later. Sometimes I'm still not very interested but I'm horny. Dont deny yourself possible future bootycalls by being THAT dude. And for the record, you arent getting the last word, she is. I guarantee you those girls have…	/r/seduction	16/07/14 08:10 PM
12	Small change to Tinder game that makes a HUGE difference. Girl here. The long hair will eliminate some girls, but thats no reason to cut it. Brush/style it a bit so it looks less crazy and pull it out of your face. Dont wear sleeveless shirts. The location/posing is a tad odd. It looks like youe taking a post gym selfie. We all take selfies, but we only post our good ones.	/r/seduction	27/05/14 08:02 PM
3	How important is having things in common with women? Im a girl and I'll say this: each person has their own idea of what is important to them, and they wilk want you to have that in common with them. I dont care if you like the same tv shows as me. Its not important and I actually dislike talking about tv. I find that the kind of music a guy likes has a surprisingly large affect on how attracted to him I am. But a lot of people couldn't care less about that sort of thing. So what is important to have in common with someone is dependent upon each p…	/r/seduction	06/05/14 04:12 AM