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| 899 | My wife abused me and the police acted like I was at fault | False Accusation | PoliticalAnimal384 | /r/MensRights | 17/07/22 07:06 PM |
| 306 | Eagerly awaiting the sequel | Humour | PoliticalAnimal384 | /r/MensRights | 19/01/19 04:46 PM |
| 281 | Simplified an idea I saw earlier on here. Who defines masculinity? | Discrimination | PoliticalAnimal384 | /r/MensRights | 29/01/19 03:32 PM |
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| 1 | Are men naturally polygamous?You explained it correctly but somehow still missed the point. The traits men have, of being attracted to many different women and wanting to have sex with many different women, are a result of natural selection because it’s their optimal reproduction strategy. Same as a peacocks feathers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 04:10 PM |
| 4 | Are men naturally polygamous?No in this case he’s using it perfectly. From a Darwinian evolutionary perspective, Mens optimal strategy for continuing the line of their DNA through offspring is to plant many seeds. Women, because they become pregnant, have a different optimal strategy of getting the man to care for her and the young (so she wants someone who will stick around.) That’s not to excuse cheaters. They’re pieces of shit. You can overcome your biology and be monogamous. Society is us using our intellect to try and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | A more nuanced poll on abortionNo taxpayer funding. It’s too personal and too controversial. Parents should be notified if a minor seeks an abortion unless the minor has alleged abuse against the parents. Elective abortions should be banned at 15 weeks. For cases where the life of the mother is at risk, it should be fully up to the doctor and patient with no legal restrictions. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4A At what body fat percentage is a woman's dating life hindered?24-26% is the highest one where she looks decently in shape, like she eats right and exercises for an average of 90 mins per week at least. Staying in that body fat range is not difficult at all. Make most of your meals lean protein and veggies. Spend 30 mins 3x per week where your heart rate is above 110. Bam, you’ll be in reasonably good shape. I don’t mean to minimize this because I know people struggle with weight. But people struggle with other forms of self control too, like overspending y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 08:08 PM |
| 3 | When to give men my social mediaOnce he knows what you do, he will look for the photos. If you hide them, you’re starting the relationship off on a bad foundation of mistrust. Being comfortable with your job in dating looks like being okay with them seeing your photos before you even meet them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/22 02:02 PM |
| 3 | I (26F) think the guy I’m interested in (30M) is porn sickMen can be attracted to many different types of women, and the ones they watch in porn during their private fantasy time aren’t even necessarily their real world preference. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/22 01:59 PM |
| 2 | What can actually be done to improve the dating scene for everyoneI think the only things to be done are: 1) Individual personal improvement, working out, therapy, self care - to make you more attractive towards potential partners. 2) Start a business, like a new dating app or “adventures dating service” that has procedures to correct for whatever flaws you see in the dating market. If it’s successful it means you were right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 06:29 PM |
| 2 | If you are 30 and marry a 30 year old man then there's an 99 percent chance that he is settling.“All women’s ‘best years’ are their early 20s and all men agree” = Dumb generalization. Some women are still girls in their early 20s, immature, often annoying, flighty. They become better life partners as they mature. Also, a lot of people meet in their 20s and date for a few years before marrying in their late 20s or early 30s. Also, not all men want a much younger woman, including me (31M). Sure, I still find them attractive, and I’m lucky enough to have a cool, sex positive wife who doesn’t … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Most women withhold sex because they are afraid they don’t offer anything elseConversely, if she’s an amazing person, funny, intelligent, you enjoy spending time with her, she’s caring and attentive, but she doesn’t want to have sex until marriage, does that make you the shallow asshole that only cares about sex if you leave her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone give examples of prenups being ignored by divorce courts?I wasn’t “upset” by their divorce. I don’t care about them at all. But she doesn’t deserve access to his wealth. And if someone has made themselves dependent on their partner, that was a decision they should live with. So stay with your partner who supports you or go develop into a person capable of taking care of yourself. Don’t just be a human leech. Idk how someone could have any self esteem left while living as a parasite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone give examples of prenups being ignored by divorce courts?I’m not saying the existence of all child support means the court system is biased, I’m saying the way it’s carried out in practice is biased. There’s thankfully a budding movement to change family court laws. All custody should be 50/50 by default unless one parent agrees to give up some custody or there’s a fitness issue (abuse, drug use.) And with 50/50 custody there’s no need for child support. Alimony is another thing entirely, and never justified. It’s a relic of a bygone patriarchal era a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Can anyone give examples of prenups being ignored by divorce courts?They’re not empty platitudes…do you even know what that word means? Law should treat people neutrally. That’s a basic philosophy of law concept. Men shouldn’t have to get a pre nup to avoid getting fucked over by the legal system, instead we need a legal system that doesn’t fuck them over. Do you understand better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 01:19 PM |
| 5 | Can anyone give examples of prenups being ignored by divorce courts?The existence of prenups is part of the problem. Men shouldn’t have to plan for their marriage to fail in order to avoid being exploited if it does. The legal system should treat people neutrally as a rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Do women realize how little maintenance men need to be statistically faithful?I think those are mostly men who aren’t having any sex. Hierarchy of needs, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 03:10 PM |
| 12 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.I mean I am a married man and while all 3 of these are important to me, I think you have the order perfectly reversed. First of all, can’t have kids without sex. Second, I’d take loyalty over sex any day. Sex will go away eventually. Loyalty by definition never does, and a life partner till I die is a better gift than momentary pleasure or even offspring. Loyalty and companionship are the prizes of marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Just on the topic of N count, wanted to share this post. What are your thoughts?What she means is that the quality of man she wants to settle down with doesn’t want to be sloppy-37th. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 12:37 AM |
| 5 | (Casual) Sex really is overrated and job prospects are shockingly underrated around hereI mean I’m an athlete and consider myself pretty smart, (my AP history teacher once told me he thought I would be too dumb for his class when I first walked in since he thought I was a dumb jock, but I got a record high score on his curved grading scale) but I also know a lot of athletes. I had two groups of friends in high school, smart nerds and athletes. There wasn’t really any overlap. This has held throughout my life. The best athletes from my college and high school have very average incom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 05:27 PM |
| 8 | (Casual) Sex really is overrated and job prospects are shockingly underrated around hereLol no. Most of the guys “fucking like wild beasts” are athletes who get an easy ride and a bullshit degree, then go sell insurance for a mediocre income. Not saying all of them, but that’s definitely the trend more so than becoming super wealthy and successful after spending your education years chasing strange instead of applying yourself. To the extent that “sexless” guys are engineers and other STEM or academically rigorous fields, they’re almost certainly doing better later in life includin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 05:07 PM |
| 5 | I feel like young men should never commit to a relationship if women will have sex with them regardless.You definitely don’t learn the same lessons in an LTR and out of one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 03:38 PM |
| 5 | I feel like young men should never commit to a relationship if women will have sex with them regardless.When you’re young is an important qualifier you didn’t put in the OP. I agree that you should be picky with commitment. Meaning make sure someone is really what you want and that they’re equally committed to you. But if you find the perfect woman for you at 22, and decide not to commit because you want to keep fucking, there’s a good chance that you’ll be left with a life time of regret much harder to get over than “I could’ve fucked more randos in my 20s.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 03:37 PM |
| 1 | I feel like young men should never commit to a relationship if women will have sex with them regardless.I feel sad for you. There are so many benefits to a relationship beyond sex. My wife is the one person in the world I can trust with any secret, the person who knows me best, who will always celebrate with me or mourn with me, and I enjoy being around her all of the time. If I had given that up because when we met I decided I wanted to keep fucking people I had no emotional connection to….what a tragedy. Think about your life in the long run. You should have more goals than ejaculation in life a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 03:35 PM |
| 31 | Women claim they wear makeup “for themselves” but they clearly do it to increase their SMV, which affords them immense privilege and attention they would not otherwise receiveIt’s literally a debate sub. Why would you expect people to agree because they share the same genitalia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 02:54 AM |
| 5 | The way some women here on PPD describes their S/O is so unflattering and insulting that if they read it they’d break up with them on the spotVery similar situation to me, but in the reverse. I think my wife is the hottest woman I ever dated and she’s straight up told me I’m the hottest guy she’s ever been with. Sex life is fantastic and only a little slowed down from the first year, tbh. But I don’t think your/my situation is common, unfortunately. I know far more people in my personal life where the woman eventually settled for someone they wouldn’t have hooked up with in their “wild years” and they tend to have marital issues as OP… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 06:03 PM |
| 1 | What right or privilege do men possess that women don’t in 2022?I have seen a lot of examples of women complaining about this, and almost always the woman is in the wrong. It often looks like this to me: 1) Woman makes a half thought out point that contains some insight, but is not coherent and doesn’t direct any course of action 2) Man builds on this point, restates for clarity, and comes up with an action item. 3) Woman says, “hey that was my idea! Why did everyone pay attention when he said it?” The answer is he said it better, and it has nothing to do wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Do you think men should care about a woman's n count and sexual past?What if men don’t care about men having a high n-count, or don’t even care about women’s n-count outside of an LTR, but do care about women having a high n-count when it comes to deciding whom to commit to. Why is that a problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Do you think men should care about a woman's n count and sexual past?Men and women are different. Why should different beings have the same standards. For example, I think a man hitting a woman is never acceptable and should always lead to the immediate end of a relationship. But as a large man with professional fighting experience, I don’t care if a woman hits me and I’ve tolerated it in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you think men should care about a woman's n count and sexual past?Ah yes, the old “men shouldn’t get to have any preferences in who they date, or else they’re sexist” trope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you think men should care about a woman's n count and sexual past?I think yes you should care as a man, because it’s a very reliable indicator of values. A woman with a very high n-count or who has had lots of casual sex is not someone I think has the values to be a good committed monogamous partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Would you date, marry or even consider a relationship with a single father?I have many female friends and have my whole life. I’m engaged to be married. You’re the one making up stories, acting like they are fact, without evidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Would you date, marry or even consider a relationship with a single father?This just doesn’t seem to jive with reality. What seems to happen is average looking women get used to being able to easily have casual sex, including with men who’d be “out of their league” for a relationship. Eventually they realize they want commitment, and then they find they’re not able to get the same quality of men. In fact, they’re now not even able to get the quality of men who were interested in them in their 20s before they slept around. So they lower their standards and rationalize i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Would you date, marry or even consider a relationship with a single father?If you pair it with “rather than” excitement it sure does. I wouldn’t marry my fiancé unless I believed she found me to be the most exciting man she’d met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 08:30 PM |
| 8 | Would you date, marry or even consider a relationship with a single father?No Im not suggesting you should lie. If anything it’s refreshing honesty. I was more offering advice. If you’re going for quality men, they’re not gonna commit to someone who isn’t excited for them. If you want someone who is okay being settled for, you need to aim your sights lower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Idk I think simping gets a bad wrap, it can be used to your advantage if you’re in on the joke, is it really as bad as people say on ppd?”If you aren’t openly adoring your man, but expect him to do so for you, you’re a crappy partner. Speaking in the general you, meaning anyone and everyone that applies to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 04:05 AM |
| 15 | Would you date, marry or even consider a relationship with a single father?Usually women deny the “wanting to settle down rather than go for excitement” switch. That’s why OP is asking if you’re joking This is a core tenet of red pill philosophy. You should be aware, most men don’t want to be settled for as a stable/safe choice to raise a family. They want a woman to be so excited for them that they never want to be with anyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 04:02 AM |
| 11 | Women, how many times have you or your friends been hit on by a guy and not told them you had a BF at the time because the relationship wasn't greatThose sound like reasons to end a relationship, not cheat. Cheating on someone can be incredibly traumatic for them, and it’s pretty much always better to end it rather than cheat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 06:27 PM |
| 0 | Do women really scout for other options before ending a relationship?It sounds like what you’re describing is women willfully deceiving their partners for long periods of time rather than communicating their feelings truthfully. Are you defending or condemning that behavior? To me it sounds like emotional abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Simplified an idea I saw earlier on here. Who defines masculinity?I respect what you’re going for here, but social definitions matter and affect our lives a lot. I’m essentially libertarian and as individualist as it gets, but even I can’t pretend we can define concepts like this in isolation. They’ll always be socially negotiated. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/19 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Simplified an idea I saw earlier on here. Who defines masculinity?Ugh...last time I’ll try to help you understand. Why do feminists spend so much time encouraging gender neutral language? Fireman vs firefighter. Congressman vs member of Congress. Why did Republicans work so hard to change the common term for the estate tax to the death tax? Why does it matter how we define masculinity? The answer to each is the same. Spoken language is not just communication. It’s a form of thought. Psychologists learned this decades ago. Using the term “semantics” as if it me… | /r/MensRights | 30/01/19 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Simplified an idea I saw earlier on here. Who defines masculinity?Those two statements completely contradict each other. | /r/MensRights | 30/01/19 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Simplified an idea I saw earlier on here. Who defines masculinity?If you don’t think that the definitions of words affects the way we discuss ideas, you’re incredibly naive. | /r/MensRights | 29/01/19 11:48 PM |
| -1 | Simplified an idea I saw earlier on here. Who defines masculinity?It’s a mental health issue. Always has been. Note that people who are legitimately intersex aren’t excluded by my meme. They have a Y chromosome. If you’re born female and decide to become a male or that you really feel male, you have a completely different experience than biological males. So ya, they don’t get to define general masculinity. They’re also a tiny portion of the population. I also wouldn’t include people born blind if I was trying to define the average capabilities of human sight.… | /r/MensRights | 29/01/19 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Simplified an idea I saw earlier on here. Who defines masculinity?Close, but you’re not quite right either. One of the things that separates humans from other mammals is the way our sexual selection works. Women have some criteria of their own, but they largely rely on male dominance hierarchies. The Chieftan gets the most women. They use our hierarchies as a proxy for finding the best men, so men are still defining what a good man is. Anyway, while this conversation is interesting it’s not what the meme is talking about. You’re talking about an automatic biol… | /r/MensRights | 29/01/19 04:56 PM |
| 1 | I wanted a sexist diagram like the feminists have...This should really only be one question. Took a crack at it here: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/al14ec/simplified_an_idea_i_saw_earlier_on_here_who/?st=JRHX8BR1&sh=04dc77de | /r/MensRights | 29/01/19 03:33 PM |
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