PolyAccount123 Archive

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1	People who say sex is a need don’t understand what needs are. Your above examples are about substance and food abuse to run away from your problems, not a healthy activity that when done safely (both physically and emotionally) and consensually is good for you. And in the case of drugs, your body is so used to have those chemicals in its system that you get withdrawal symptoms if you stop. Most people (take special note of the word most here, I know as well as everyone else that these kind of things cannot be applied to literally all 8 billion humans on th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 02:08 PM
2	People who say sex is a need don’t understand what needs are. Most humans need a certain level of physical intimacy in their lives. There are libraries full of scientific proof that for most people some amount of physical intimacy is a need to feel happy in life. It maintains social relationships and makes you feel safe and desired in your social circles. And yes, it releases hormones that have a positive influence on our moods without having to ingest poison like you do with drugs. It is a scale really. No, I do not need to be a billionaire to be happy. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 03:02 PM
2	People who say sex is a need don’t understand what needs are. No, sex is not a need in the sense that if that need is not satisfied you are going to die on short notice. For most people a somewhat satisfying sex life is a need to be genuinely happy in life however.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 02:48 PM
1	People who say sex is a need don’t understand what needs are. If the very foundation of your relationship is based on sex, you don’t have a relationship, you have a glorified fuck buddy. Sex is not my only need in a relationship, but yes, sexual compatibility is a need in a relationship for me. I have a fairly high libido and physical intimacy (both sexual and non-sexual) is my primary love language, so if you are physically distant and have a low libido we are simply not going to be compatible, no matter how well we otherwise might match.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 02:46 PM
2	Should it really be considered cheating if one person doesn't want sex anyway? Because they are probably still happy with the relationship?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 06:59 PM
5	Should it really be considered cheating if one person doesn't want sex anyway? "Expected" doesn't mean "owed". If your relationship doesn't meet your expectations, try to improve your relationship and if that doesn't work, break up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 06:07 PM
3	Should it really be considered cheating if one person doesn't want sex anyway? Yes. The definition of cheating is breaking the rules you have previously established. In the case of a monogamous relationships, that's having sex with other people besides your partner. So yes, it's cheating even if the other person doesn't want sex anymore. Of course you can try and talk to your partner about why they don't want to have sex anymore and try to find a solution for that problem or if that doesn't work find a way where you can have your sexual needs met outside of your relationsh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 05:52 PM
1	Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women. To fall in love with someone I'm going to need a good amount of both besides obviously a matching personality. I am simply unable to fall in love with someone I'm not physically attracted to, that's just how I'm wired. Although that doesn't mean I can't have a great platonic friendship with them. Someone I'm physically attracted to and match with personality-wise but where there's a big difference in intelligence can likewise be a great platonic friend (or in this case also FWB) but again, won't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 08:18 PM
1	What was the biggest sign you ever gave to a guy only for him to miss it? So then why did he chat her up all the time in the hallway? Regardless of her intent the way he behaved was just weird. Being a man myself if I were in this situation I'd either have grabbed lunch together, if I'd have had lunch already I'd have accepted her invitation to just go take a stroll around campus and if I needed to leave shortly I'd have told her that upon the initial invitation to grab lunch. This all regardless of any sexual or romantic interest from my side (because none of this is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 01:57 PM
4	What was the biggest sign you ever gave to a guy only for him to miss it? Her: My gloss is strawberry flavoured, Anon. Wanna taste it? Him: Nah. I don't wanna use gloss. This would be gay. Honestly my ASD brain would probably produce this exact reaction (except the "This would be gay" part. If a guy wants to use lip gloss he should go straight ahead, I won't judge him). If you want to kiss me, be clear with your intent. Partially because I don't get hints, partially because physical intimacy is already enough of a mine field to navigate for (well-meaning) straight men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 01:40 PM
3	"Autism Acceptance" is largely hypocritical virtue signaling So what's the problem? Apparently, we are disliked simply because of our lack of affective facial expressions (i.e., fake smiles, etc.). All of the above observations are based on data compiled in 2018 and 2019, well after "autism acceptance" was culturally ingrained in the US. Do you have a link to a properly peer reviewed and published scientific article presenting these findings? As someone who has ASD and also has some trouble with showing the "proper" facial expression in social situation…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 03:18 PM
2	Some men low in emotional intelligence give women the 'ick'. Are there any things some women do that give men the 'ick'? Depends on exactly how "anti-vax" you are. If you don't want to get a booster anymore if you're young/ middle aged and healthy and have gotten the first 2 or 3 doses then yeah, I can understand that even if I still wouldn't agree with it. But if you go on a conspiracy theory ramble about COVID vaccines or vaccines in general to me I'm instantly blocking you and will never look back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 05:47 PM
12	Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men? I don't think that's what he's saying. I'm in the same boat as him. My "feminine" traits are better developed than my "masculine" traits. I can communicate about my feelings well, am sensitive, am perfectly able to cuddle with a woman without having any expectation of sex resulting from it (nor pushing for it). Most of my friends are women and women have often shown me implicitly and occasionally have told me explicitly that they feel very safe with me. Yet all my adult life I've struggled big t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 04:27 PM