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Fellow married man here. Good on you! I've found some of the posts here to be helpful as well. Keep up the good work.
/r/seduction15/05/14 06:42 PM
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Now, days later, I saw this and it made me think of this conversation. Lol!! Enjoy! http://www.esquire.com/features/chuck-klostermans-america/ESQ0404-APR_AMERICA
/r/seduction24/09/13 04:24 PM
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Absolutely. Fellow optimist here. Dont stop giving the good advice. The world needs more people like you in it. Just don't get caught up in battles you cant win. If you give that good advice and someone chooses not to take it, thats on them. Also remember that sometimes people need to make their own mistakes. It may take them crashing and burning a couple times to make them realize how good your advice was.
/r/seduction21/09/13 05:09 PM
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I'm very near your age as well. Never ever forget the incredible, wonderful thing your maturity is. I don't want to bash anyone. I was in my 20's once too, and it was a lot of fun, but being where I am is a lot different and its a good good thing. The women are classy and confident. We've all been there done that and kind of figured things out. Much less drama and angst. This is a good thing for you. Own it and have fun. Most women I meet consider men to get better with age. Go for it, man. P.S.…
/r/seduction21/09/13 04:19 AM
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Co-sign. Dont waste your time. That goes for a lot of things, not just seduction. Especially any lifestyle choices. People become so entrenched in the way they live, they see anything else as a threat. If it has anything to do with sex, its even worse. People get way WAY to hung up on sex. Don't wast your time.
/r/seduction20/09/13 03:45 PM
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Yes. Totally. Want to see a prime example of misrepresentation and negative attitude? Read the side bar in /r/creepyPMs some time. There is an entire section titled "pick up artistry and why it's bad." Dear lawrd....
/r/seduction20/09/13 03:29 PM
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Lol. I was just thinking you could take this to the next level by saying "okay. Lets go.." She's bound to look at you funny, to which you say "what? You didnt say buy you a drink here. Come on.." and walk away. Hahaha.. same end result, but you get to have some fun with it. And hey, maybe she'll follow you. ;)
/r/seduction19/09/13 05:05 AM
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Ummmmm.. where do you think you are posting this? Asking this here is like going to /r/art and asking what subreddit you can learn about drawing in. You're here.
/r/seduction12/09/13 02:19 AM
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Ha ha. Thats pretty good too, but I'm sticking with assuming she'shopping for a WMW threesome. If she isn't, flip the script like she is and you got yourself a nice joke. She sure wont ask that again. If she is, EPIC VICTORY!!
/r/seduction11/09/13 04:28 AM
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Well, was she pretty? Every time I've been asked that, it's a legit question. Edit: now I get it. This girl is trying to manipulate you into putting others down and implying that she is prettier than the other girl? Edit 2: No, never mind. I dont understand what the problem here is at all. But was she pretty? Now I'm curious, cuz, THREESOME!!!
/r/seduction11/09/13 04:10 AM
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As I read here, I find myself getting hung up on the term Alpha. Confidence and assertiveness are certainly good things. Being the best person you can be is a good thing. On the other hand, if being "Alpha" means constantly trying to dominate everyone else around you, that's something different. It seems like the term is used to mean different things by differnt people and that makes reading confusing. What does being Alpha mean to you?
/r/seduction07/09/13 06:33 PM
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THIS!! Good for you. Yes, this is what its all about for me too. Good for you. Keep up the good work.
/r/seduction05/09/13 02:20 AM
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Take her out on a date to a nice place. Let her go in by herself and take a seat at the bar. Give her like five minutes and go in and find her. Intoduce yourself as it was the first tie you were meeting. Role play the entire date this way. Try to pick her up. Seduce her. Get to know her. Sooooooo much fun.
/r/seduction02/09/13 03:16 AM
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Sure. No problem. For us, it started with sex. After 12 or so years of marriage. We decided to open up and explore. It started as a swinger style arrangement, but we quckly gravitated more toward polyamory. By contrast, my girlfriend and her husband have been open since day one. Everyone is different. Thats the real beauty of it. Open relationships are non-traditional and are thus totally flexible and customizeable. Every open relationship is different depending on the wants and needs of thos in…
/r/seduction01/09/13 01:32 AM
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No, I meant to post this here. I'm interested in hearing from other PUA's in alternative lifestyles and seeing how they apply seduction to different enviornments. Seeing what seduction means to different people, not so much talking about the alternative lifestyles themselves.
/r/seduction31/08/13 09:46 PM
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Yes. Agreed. I (the male) am here mostly for the self-improvement/inner game aspect. I haven't been here very long, but I can already see and feel the positive influence of what I've learned here. I've ordered the book Models, which I read about here and I cant wait for it to start reading it. The outer game and specific pick up techniques are interesting too. I just think they take a good amount of adjustment to be useful in our lifestyle. As you know, non-monogamy is a whole different ballgame…
/r/seduction31/08/13 09:40 PM
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All this and the obvious help you get with opening couples. If you open a guy/girl set, the even numbers make things much more natural and comfortable for everyone. Nobody is intruding and nobody is the third wheel. It's win/win for everyone.
/r/seduction31/08/13 06:37 PM
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For going Yoda, upvoted you are.
/r/seduction31/08/13 08:51 AM
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I'm a swinger, so take this with a grain of salt, but.. Open the group, guys included, and proceed from there. You said you've already had success with this approach, right? If that's what works, go with it. Just my $.02
/r/seduction30/08/13 11:47 PM
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Confidence is sexy.
/r/seduction30/08/13 11:33 PM
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You might find some helpful information/thoughts here: http://polyinthemedia.blogspot.com/2012/12/failure-or-transition-redefining-end-of.html?m=1 I know it's a little out of context. But you might find the parts about viewing romatic relationships as a friendship model and not viewing breakups as failures helpful. Good luck.
/r/seduction26/08/13 12:39 AM
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This post and this comment have completely redefined how I see this lifestyle. Thank you (both).
/r/seduction25/08/13 11:21 PM
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