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Escalation & CalibrationPonderinLife/r/seduction24/04/20 04:43 PM
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Inner Game PonderinLife/r/seduction11/04/20 12:03 AM
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Oh easy. Nose job. Get my hairline fixed. Contacts/LASIK (ditch the glasses). My braces are coming off soon. Keep going to the gym. I’ve thought about bleaching my skin a little, but that might be too far. I sorta kinda don’t mind doing extreme stuff to looksmax. I mean, I’ve already had my underbite corrected through a jaw surgery so.
/r/seduction08/01/22 01:49 PM
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Interesting. I’m not against it if it means I’ll be more attractive. I find it funny that others aren’t as open to the idea.
/r/seduction08/01/22 03:52 AM
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I like how when people mention looksmaxxing, they never mention surgery. I always hear, gym, clothes, skincare, self-confidence. But why not surgery?
/r/seduction08/01/22 12:48 AM
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Thank you. A lot of people just spew out “be more confident” whenever a guy says he has dating issues. And it’s far far far easier said than done. And it’s just said as a “I don’t wanna unpack this problem ‘cause I don’t care enough, so here’s an overused saying to shut you up.” That’s all I’ve really ever seen it as.
/r/seduction08/01/22 12:46 AM
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Ok, become the Louis Vuitton don’t buy the fake one got it.
/r/seduction26/04/20 11:36 AM
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Well I’m 5’6. And if we’re being honest, I gotta up my attractiveness somewhere. ‘Cause my height has set me back a lot.
/r/seduction25/04/20 02:35 PM
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See being my true self drives away other people. I’ve been told “Be yourself”.................that doesn’t work for me.
/r/seduction25/04/20 02:05 AM
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That’s odd...................Honestly, I gotta try that sometime.
/r/seduction25/04/20 01:43 AM
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Wow. That’s pretty wild man. I’ve literally not worn certain shirts/pants because I’m like “This makes me look too gay. Or this makes me look way too gay.” And my Mom tells me not to cross my legs because girls do that. But I’ve seen lots of straight guys (including my Dad/her husband) sit like that from time to time.
/r/seduction25/04/20 01:42 AM
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What if you don’t like what you have??
/r/seduction25/04/20 01:39 AM
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I must be the 4th person then ‘cause a lot of people have just assumed by the general vibe I give out (“extra”) that I’m gay.........or - as one girl put it - “at least bisexual”........I don’t really care about sexuality. It’s just, it irritates me when I’m perceived as feminine. And being “who I am” must not be attractive ‘cause most people don’t stick around once our clothes are back on. Which is why I think that I should change my mannerisms, to be more attractive and actually attract somebo…
/r/seduction25/04/20 01:39 AM
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This is a lot to take in. But the concepts are pretty interesting. I always equated toning down my overall vibe and being less expressive with being more masculine. And I’ll need to work on standing straight...........I usually walk with my head down at my feet.
/r/seduction25/04/20 01:35 AM
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I’m from the south and it’s the opposite here. I notice most guys I went to school with were really flat and inexpressive.
/r/seduction25/04/20 01:32 AM
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Being myself has gotten me nowhere as far as dating is concerned....................it’d actually help if I wasn’t myself. Don’t know why, but my real personality just repels any potential partner.
/r/seduction25/04/20 01:31 AM
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Huh. I guess you’re right. I notice that I look down at my feet when I walk a lot. And the eye contact is something else I struggle with too. I wonder if Gladiator is on NetFlix.
/r/seduction25/04/20 01:30 AM
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Ok so those last we need to slow down on. ‘Cause............................those last two keep passing me by.
/r/seduction25/04/20 01:28 AM
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Huh. I guess you’re right. It just feels weird when I’m the lost expressive person in the room. I notice a lot of people (guys and girls my age) are just sorta flat and non-expressive in general. Maybe it’s a just a thing that as people get older they just don’t emote/express as much.
/r/seduction25/04/20 01:27 AM
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Honestly you hit on a good point. I’ve been struggling with body image issues and self-confidence issues related to my height for years. I started to workout everyday since January. I was really starting to see gains in my chest and arms. Past hook-ups have said nothing but good things about my body. But it’s hard to believe that when I compare myself to ripped guys on InstaGram...........there’s a lot I need to sort out.
/r/seduction25/04/20 01:23 AM
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Wow. That’s pretty interesting think about. I’ve struggled with eye co tact for years now. So I guess I gotta work on that. And it’s been a minute since I’ve been interested in a girl. There was one girl I thought was into me, but she made that really clear she wasn’t.
/r/seduction25/04/20 01:20 AM
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Ok that’s my thing. I’ve done modeling and I’ve had multiple people (girls and guys lol) tell me I’m “cute” and “hot”. So the physical aspect is there, I just need the internal (confidence, being comfortable in my skin, etc) to be there.
/r/seduction24/04/20 09:24 PM
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That’s the thing. I don’t try to entertain people. It’s just my natural energy.
/r/seduction24/04/20 09:22 PM
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It’s weird ‘cause I’ve also been described as charismatic and confident. I also love getting into dance battles. So I’m pretty light on my feet. I’m just not as masculine as I like to be.
/r/seduction24/04/20 08:31 PM
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Damn!!!!!
/r/seduction24/04/20 04:18 PM
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I wish I could open up to my Dad.
/r/seduction10/04/20 11:54 PM
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Plate????
/r/askTRP12/11/19 11:34 PM
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I just saved this comment.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 12:35 AM
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What you do is put the phone to the surface of a dark object. Take a picture so it’ll be black. Then respond to the conversation with a caption. That way when you send the pic, she’ll think it’s a lewd picture but she’ll just get words. It’ll let them know it takes more than nudes to get your attention, and it’s pretty funny. Do it all the time.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 02:36 AM
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