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Good for him, I guess. So perhaps the take away here is that there’s a lid for every pot 🤷🏻‍♀️ Ron, in my opinion, is hideous. Hermione is pretty. Ron gets the girl. Harry is mid and so is Ginny. Draco was a cute kid but puberty did him zero favors AND he’s a prick.. married. Different strokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:57 PM
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Even if he wasn’t red pilled, you couldn’t pay me to talk to that guy. He just looks insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:50 PM
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That just makes it sound like you’re boring and women only stick around after the oxytocin dump she gets from sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:41 PM
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Maybe in their teens/early 20s. You know.. just from lack of experience. After that we’re all pretty aware of what we like… kinda hard not to notice it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:38 PM
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….nah. I just like watching an enraged man beat the dogshit out of someone. On tv of course. Once you’re not a child anymore, the whole “bad boy” thing loses its appeal outside of fantasy. There are no “fixable” bad boys. Theyre just losers. And even with tv characters.. I don’t want to nurture him at all. I want to be the only thing that makes a terrifying man soft. If anything it’s some deep instinctual desire to be with the guy who would definitely go to jail if a stranger grabbed your ass. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:27 PM
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Uhhh.. they way they move their bodies. The way a bartender picks up a bottle. The way a knight rests his wrist in the hilt of his sword. The way a man stands. And tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:22 PM
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Does Draco end up with anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:20 PM
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Not unattractive. Just not relevant enough to give any thought to. Just existing isn’t enough to get my attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:19 PM
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Ah. I haven’t been on Reddit in a while. Crazy to be back here in fake fuckin imaginary bullshit land after being out in the real world for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:25 AM
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I get that. I’m the same way. Sometimes I feel dainty. Other times I don’t need no man cuz I am the man 💪🏻🤣 Beauty of feminine and masculinity, it’s a spectrum, not a yes or no. And interestingly enough… isn’t defined by how tall your shoes are 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:30 AM
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Lmao. What’s actually funny is that you, the man, are going to tell me, the actual stripper, what strippers want and appreciate. Because you.. stuck your dick in a few? Hilarious. Good luck with that attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:14 AM
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Some of the masc women out there just look like they’d make me feel safe 🥺 But yeah. You’re absolutely right. The only women who would think it’s feminine for an already masculine man to wear heels and do pole tricks are the ones also stuck in the system. I bet your man would look fly as fuck in a maid outfit.. and he’d still be capable of chopping wood and changing the cars oil in it too 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:10 AM
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Ok I’m sorry. If my husband put on my heels and showed the agility some of us do… I’d find it hot. That’s powerful. Male strippers do pole tricks.. they aren’t as hard barefoot. If you wanna impress me.. do it in heels. Also.. you’re just wrong. The type of men strippers date is just as varied as it is for everyone else. Some girls are dating doctors and some are dating trap kings. Some date feminine bi men and take turns fucking their boyfriend. Being able to do a sport.. with heels on.. doesn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:07 AM
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I am a stripper and plenty of us would be impressed by a man wearing 8 inch pleasers and doing pole tricks. It’s not feminine. It’s a sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:56 PM
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97.5
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:44 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:42 PM
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woman also arent supposed to have a choice in sexual partner in nature. What evidence do you have for this? There are plenty of animals where the female has a choice. Tons of animals have complicated mating rituals where the male must impress the female for her to choose him. Heck, there are animals in matriarchies where the females are the leaders. Even apes have social structures where the female has the ability to make a choice. Bonobos are female lead. Chimp females rub their engorged genita…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:40 PM
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I’m sayin… wouldn’t have caught me dead with a frat guy in my early 20s. How annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:27 PM
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Right? Lotta victim blaming in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:09 PM
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Not 30. Not fucking the “bad boy”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:11 AM
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Contrary to popular belief, if you wanna be my lover.. you will not be getting with my friends. My friends aren’t gonna tell you shit. Cuz 1) why the fuck would they? This isn’t highschool. And 2) you won’t meet them until our wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:10 AM
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Nah. All men are easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:53 AM
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TIL 50% of men can’t lay pipe
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:52 AM
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Then I’m afraid I’m not sure what you’re trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 07:24 AM
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I agree. I can’t think of a single time I’ve seen them touch. Or even sit next to each other. It’s very strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:22 AM
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I don’t know honestly. I never asked. Probably comfort at this point. They’ve been married for like 50 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:19 AM
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Are you talking about me or OP
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:04 AM
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Nah. If you love and value someone you respect their boundaries. You don’t cheat. You don’t hurt someone you care about like that. And also.. I could swear I’ve seen you talk about how women are starfishes. You need to fuck people you’re compatible with, homie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:12 PM
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Right? This post was a lot of dick stroking lol Jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:25 PM
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My moms parents aren’t in love. He cheated on her for years and years. She knew it and couldn’t do anything about it. They had 5 kids. They’re still married. I’ve never seen them touch. I don’t know about my dads parents. We didn’t see them as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:15 PM
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Tryna birth bloodhounds. Corner the market for humans who can smell cancer
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:31 PM
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Reading about monkey sex was very odd. It seems like there’s consent to a point.. and females get a say. But also sometimes they don’t. Apparently a silverback might (seems to be a rare occurrence but I didn’t research it much) slap a female if she rejects him. Sounds human enough lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:02 PM
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Heck yeah. Good for Bertha. The baddest of bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:16 PM
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Chimps: Chimpanzees breed all year round, whenever one of the females in the troop comes into season. Female chimpanzees have menstrual cycles very like humans and come into oestrus every 36 days, unless they are pregnant. They give birth about every three-four years, after a gestation period (time between fertilisation of the egg and birth of the baby) of 8 months. A female may be mated by all the males in a troop, regardless of their social standing, who show no sign of competition between the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:11 PM
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You should read about bonobos. Absolutely ridiculous apes. mostly if not solely based on intrasexual competition for males What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:37 PM
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Eh. Depends on the animal. Plenty of animals have complex mating rituals where the male has to impress the female and she has a choice. Much like us. And then there’s ducks…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:27 PM
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I say it to dudes in COD lobbies. Does that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:13 PM
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I hear guys say this stuff to their friends 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:45 PM
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Did you write this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:24 PM
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Roll your eyes all you want. Your opinion doesn’t make someone a 10. Neither does being able to make money off their appearance. There are plenty of gorgeous people who work normal jobs and live average lives. Since beauty is subjective.. so are 10s. You learn that fairly quickly working in an industry based off your appearance. No one is everyone’s 10. Your qualifier is an over simplification.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:56 AM
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Someone who does something that upsets you to the point of it being an issue.. is shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:41 AM
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A lot of people aren’t. But you’re changing the subject. Again, my advice to all women is to be as picky as you can. Don’t stand for shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:40 AM
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Learning to be happy with your own company is the best thing you can do for yourself. I suggest everyone learn to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:31 AM
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Lol. No. For free? Absolutely not. One thing you learn very quickly in that line of work is that you’re not everyone’s type. You said a 10 can make large sums of money off their looks. That’s me. But now you don’t think that’s the only qualifier.. now you have to see me to approve? You can’t add your own personal opinion as a qualifier. Regardless, is it not my opinion that matters? I married a 10. Whether or not he’s your type is irrelevant to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:29 AM
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But it does make you less likely to be miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:16 AM
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If that “actually never happens”.. wouldn’t that it’s all guys? Not “most guys”?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:02 PM
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The repetitive posts about men not wanting women with high body counts are tired and dumb. “Whores” get married every day. All the time. In fact, more men than women are single! Do all the partnered/married women have body counts of 1? No. So. It’s dumb. You can’t convince me anyone of value to me would give a fuck and I can’t convince you that counting someone else’s bodies is weird and insecure. I vote everyone shuts up about it tbh. And the 666 thing. Men won’t stop with that either. Shhhhhh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:46 PM
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Oh. I thought it was logical so there’d be some rational explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:38 PM
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Not according to them. According to them men are the exclusive gatekeepers of commitment and “whores” don’t get any commitment with anyone they actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:25 PM
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I’m exclusively attracted to men with big noses. I’d love to know why. Please explain
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:09 PM
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Until the fire nation attacked
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:33 PM
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Move into the mountains. Become a nomad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:30 PM
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It’s a bit early for the trolls, isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:24 PM
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Nah. No one’s out here getting married to subpar men out of some fear of being alone. Women are fine being single. That’s a stat. People get married and then get lazy. That’s the main reason people get divorced. It’s all sunshine and rainbows until you realize relationships take practice and work. A lot of people, especially men, won’t do the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:06 PM
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What strategy? If he’s no good.. dump him. Which is in line with the divorce stat you keep quoting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:51 AM
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Didn’t say it was. I said that being pinky will make you happy. Gotta dump him before the wedding. Save divorce costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:50 AM
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🤷🏻‍♀️ eh. I guess. But the very fact that either party can withhold either “commodity” means it doesn’t solely belong to one party. It’s luck of the draw. Maybe she’ll say yes.. maybe she’ll say no. It’s her choice ultimately. Because she’s the one being asked. And vice versa. If she asks you.. you hold the power. And if the men in this sub are to be believed.. men have to do all the asking 🤷🏻‍♀️ Calling any one sex the gatekeeper of anything is just a silly oversimplification.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:06 AM
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I don’t know any people who get dogs as companions to fill a void and then don’t buy them sweaters and feed them people food.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:56 AM
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Eh. I see it as more of a joint decision. But even then, everyone has turned someone down at some point. It’s not about the men being the ones who decide.. it’s about two people wanting the same things. With how many involuntarily single men there are.. you’d think it’s women who “gatekeep commitment”. Sex and commitment arent as valuable as you’re making them sound. In order for something to be valuable there needs to be a shortage of it. There’s no shortage of dick or simps 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:53 AM
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I would also like to know why getting a dog is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:37 AM
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Everyone has the ability to gatekeep both. It’s not men who decide commitment. Nor women who decide sex. You can ask me to be your girlfriend. I can say no. I can ask you for sex. You can say no. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:30 AM
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If it is men who are deciding.. why are so many single against their wills? Ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:24 AM
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I’ve found that if I am treated well.. my natural response is to treat him as though he hung the moon. I’m not sure I buy it completely, but there’s something to be said about the whole “his healthy masculine brings out your healthy feminine”. I’m sure everyone is different, but I’ll be humming in the kitchen if I know I’m valued and loved 🤷🏻‍♀️ If a man (or woman whatever) doesn’t make you want to sing and dance in the shower? He’s not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:10 AM
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I’d have to agree. I just explained to someone else that it’s not about “there’s always taller and funnier and smarter”.. it’s about treating her as well as you possibly can. If you won’t treat her like she hung the moon.. someone else will. And he doesn’t have to be taller to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:23 AM
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If that person doesn’t like you then they aren’t better, are they? You might not like it, but it’s true. There’s better. And if you can’t act right.. if you don’t treat your partner as well as you possibly can.. if you don’t strive to be better every day you’re lucky enough to breathe.. you deserve to lose. See, taller? Funnier? Smarter? Irrelevant. Not everyone wants tall or funny. Smart isn’t the same to everyone. We don’t all want the same attributes. But what we do want is to be treated well…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:21 AM
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Basketball players don’t dance. Getcha head in the game!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:13 AM
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No. My advice is to not settle for subpar men when better is guaranteed to be out there. Being alone is better than entertaining the unworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:59 PM
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That the version of human interaction portrayed by teeny bopper movies is always wildly inaccurate lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:54 PM
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I can tell you from personal experience to be picky as fuck. No matter what. Don’t settle. For anything. Ever. It turns out that once you meet that “perfect guy” his imperfections aren’t bothersome. If someone does something that actually bothers you? Drop him. Men never made much sense to me. I exist.. it didn’t make sense that I would be the only person alive with my values. It took what felt like forever.. I finally learned to walk away sooner than later because the effort and the crying and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:18 PM
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Don’t ever be more forgiving. Keep being a picky bitch. It’ll work out for you. Trust. And I’m not being a dick either. Totally serious. I should have been way pickier when I was 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:08 PM
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Go find adults to hang out with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:03 PM
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You mean in movies on the Disney channel?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:02 PM
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The guys on this comment don’t know that if you’re picky enough you will find someone who makes you genuinely happy. There’s so many people on this planet.. settling for one who doesn’t tick nearly all if not all your boxes is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:59 PM
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Well. When I was warned about a man.. they were never wrong. I should have heeded every warning I received. So. Good luck out there, chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:34 AM
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Why do you think women might be unhappy? Hmmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:21 AM
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Lmao. Ah. Yes. I, as a woman, who has both been warned and warned others, I know nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:57 AM
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Not them. The guys in question. Them living their lives as best they can is not them giving women a platform. It’s literally the only thing they can do. And I don’t think the would be unfairly slandered. Don’t be a prick and it’ll be ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:51 AM
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How is you just living your life as best as you can “providing a platform” I’m at the point with this discussion where I’m starting to think that the guys who are worried about this.. have something to be worried about
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:37 AM
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I’m saying it’s irrelevant. You can’t stop them. All you can do is be good and hope for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:27 AM
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If she likes you, it will only be taken under advisement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:26 AM
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Don’t do anything shitty. Choose your girlfriends carefully. If all a woman can say about you is that you sucked, and there’s no horrifying details.. what’s the damage gonna be? It’s a ridiculous fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:26 AM
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What’s she gonna say that’s that bad? And do you want to date a woman who would take something that ridiculous seriously? She sounds like a peach.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:25 AM
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I agree. I definitely wouldn’t take a Facebook comment about being ghosted seriously. However, a comment about him being a woman beater? That could save a life. The groups have a function. I’ve definitely warned women away from men I’ve dated before. And I wasn’t doing it to be a jerk. Whether those women chose to heed my advice or try it for themselves isnt my call. But there’s something especially heartbreaking about hearing your ex is treating someone the same way they treated you. I think th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:24 AM
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Ah. So act like a dick anyway? No. Be as decent as you can and hope for the best. If you’re good to every woman one might have bad things to say, but another would correct that. Mixed reviews are better than only negative ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:18 AM
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Respectfully? With consideration? Chivalry? Politeness? In a way that no one would have anything bad to say about it? What kind of question is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:54 AM
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Makes sense to me. If these guys don’t want women telling other women that they’re irresponsible flakes that’ll ghost them right before a date.. Men need to pony up and not ghost people. Gotta communicate. Same applies to women, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:53 AM
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Treat women the way you’d want guys to treat your daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:47 AM
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Be a decent person? No? Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:43 AM
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The way I see it.. you can’t stop people from posting you. So.. don’t do anything anyone would say anything bad about 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:24 AM
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My therapist has helped me tremendously. Different strokes, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:50 AM
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Why does the age of consent have to be legally 21 for you to let kids fuck kids and you focus on adults?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:17 AM
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Sure. Anything you use to prey on people is wrong. I spent a day arguing with a weirdo the other day who didn’t understand why going to poverty stricken countries with traditional oppressive cultures and getting a wife there is fucking gross. The same way you don’t seem to grasp why pursuing what are essentially children is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:08 AM
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Surely he knows that very young people are immature, lack experience and common sense, and can’t be trusted to make sound decisions. It’s why they can’t buy liquor or cigarettes or rent cars. Where I’m from they can’t legally be sex workers either. So surely an older man knows this and knows better than to trust the judgement of an 18 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:06 AM
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The only people who say that are either young themselves, or would fuck minors is it wasn’t illegal. Which are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:03 AM
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Did the older man know better?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:00 AM
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How old is she? Old enough to be able to make fully informed choices? Has she got the life experience and brain function to be able to consider all aspects of the relationship? Or is she fresh out of highschool and still thinks love is all that matters?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:57 AM
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Choosing to buy OF under no one’s influence than your own is not the same as some grown ass 30 year old man preying on an 18 year old lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:50 AM
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The low N count nonsense. All women having endless options. Chad being an actual thing. The idea that average men don’t get laid. The idea that a man has to be 6’ to get laid. The idea that all women want all the same things The idea that all women are cheaters. The idea that high n count women will cheat. This whole sub basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:48 AM
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Low body count, I assume
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:45 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:43 AM
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Should be easy to post a link of an adult woman saying 5’11 is subhuman then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:33 AM
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Did an OFs creator come into your house/place of work, single you out, make you go to the website, and manipulate you into subscribing? Are you too young to know that if you buy something it costs money? I don’t understand your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:32 AM
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Can you link me to a post where adult women say they’ll outright deny a guy who’s 5’11? Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:29 AM
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I was just talking to my sister about this. I can tell in the first 5 seconds if I’d fuck you. The waiting period is just me giving you the opportunity to talk yourself out of it before I can decide if I’d let you fuck me. Two separate decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:21 AM
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Ones a form of self harm and will ultimately make them less capable partners with more baggage and issues than are worth dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:47 AM
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And those people need therapy. Badly. Not a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:37 AM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:09 AM
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So from what I gather here.. this means that there won’t be any more posts/aggression about the whole 666 idea, right? Everyone’s gonna just stop talking about how bad the other’s preferences are, yeah? No more of this nonsense about Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:40 PM
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You won’t get closer to easy mode being a prick, but you will save others from your company.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:00 AM
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Like I said.. My advice for you is to keep being hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:58 AM
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My actual advice is to remain hateful so no one ever has the displeasure of your company. But. Since I dated a short guy and asked him about his height effecting his life.. I figured I could share the relevant information. He was 5’4 and his dick was never dry because he was the most wonderful person to be around. Do with that what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:35 AM
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I think that’s what “It’s about personality” means. It’s the confidence to unabashedly be yourself and the ability to accept that not everyone is going to like you. Or even be kind. He was missing a canine tooth and wasn’t ripped. He was a welder so he was strong af, but it’s not like he had abs. He want particularly rich either. When he died in a motorcycle accident.. The city wept. They had to organize all the people that went to his memorial in shifts. Being short isn’t what’s holding anyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:54 AM
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I dated a guy shorter than you for years. He often told stories of women turning him down for being short. But he always said that once he stopped letting it bother him, he stopped being held back by it. He was such a charmer. Lit up the room. Everyone loved him. Had no issues meeting women. I imagine it’s just confidence and being ok with not being everyone’s cup of tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:45 AM
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It’s actually really super easy to make burgers that are better than fast food burgers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:05 AM
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What makes you think all women have men in their dms?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:03 AM
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No. They can sue the surrogate. It’s not as simple as all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:42 PM
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According to Wikipedia Plato’s talk on love was originally about homosexual men (seemingly pederasty). I found this as well. Perhaps that’s why people seem to have different definitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:38 PM
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Not really. Not after the papers are sign. Then it’s “her body, their choice” because that’s what she agreed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:15 PM
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I definitely don’t think all men who are your friend just want sex. I have a guy friend who outright refused to have sex with me after I brought it up years ago. I’d call that platonic. I have another that has simply never mentioned sex to me at all. They’re few and far between. Definitely possible tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:14 PM
1

What would you call it? I’m not sure what the term is. But I do know platonic relationships can be loving and intimate, but there can be no sexual attraction. However. Having googled the word platonic to make sure I’m right, it seems platonic might mean different things to different people. I found several definitions saying that platonic means no sexual attraction (what I know it to mean) and I found others that stated it’s not a lack of sexual attraction, just a lack of sex. That contradiction…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:12 PM
2

Actual surrogates are legally bound to fulfill their part of the agreement. If they fail to do so, the contract has the consequences outlined. She can abort the fetus. But then she will suffer the consequences. It’s complicated. It’s not as simple as just saying “here’s my body use it how you please”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:03 PM
1

I think it’s true that if they’re your friend only to fuck you.. then they are not your friend. But I’m hard pressed to believe any man is keeping women he’s fuck around because he likes them and not in hopes he gets a chance. In my experience, men who don’t want to fuck you.. don’t acknowledge you. So.. there’s no friendship to be had Regardless. This dynamic isn’t platonic. Neither “would if it was offered” nor “it’s all I want from you” are platonic dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:45 PM
1

Ah. But if all they want is sex and their friendship is all an act of manipulation to put themselves in a position to fuck you.. not a friend. I do believe the idea that if one person would have sex with the other, it is no longer a “platonic” relationship tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:41 PM
10

“Selfish women” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:22 PM
1

She signed away the rights to her body. For money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:11 PM
3

They fertilize the eggs manually. Outside the body. Before implanting them. And you cant just become a surrogate willy nilly.. and surrogates are legally bound to their agreement. They can’t just do whatever. The legal ramifications would be staggering.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:10 PM
1

Good god, friend. That’s so gross 🤣🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:42 PM
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This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:26 PM
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I think if you’d rather have chocolate ice cream with sprinkles.. you didn’t like plain chocolate ice cream that much to begin with. You liked sprinkles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:22 PM
1

Because controlling women makes them feel better about their weenies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:01 AM
2

I knew it!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:51 PM
2

Ad absurdo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:44 PM
4

I’d get you a terrarium with finest dirt money could buy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:39 PM
3

Yep. I agree with this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:34 PM
10

Why do you keep calling women “broads”? Are you in the mafia? Tony Soprano is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:34 PM
2

Same question. Gotta watch out for the quiet dorky ones lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:19 AM
3

We love a good success story for regular people. This sub is such a joke 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:01 AM
9

It’s genuinely one of the dumber things they say here. I don’t think I even know a guy who makes 6 figures. I did recently discover that a surprising number of men don’t even make 30k a year tho.. I assume they can get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:45 AM
3

No.. been holding that belief for a while now.. avoided losers AND never caused me trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:43 AM
3

This just in: Women Like What They Like. More at 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:56 AM
5

You didn’t get the email? We’re supposed to fuck everyone else but OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:34 AM
-2

There’s still enough men to go around with you gone. It’s unfortunate such a poor attitude has to be forced on anyone but better them than us, I suppose. Enjoy your grotesque racial fetishism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:30 AM
1

I came here cuz incels are super funny to me (in a sad way not in a ha ha way) and the research I have to do to argue with idiots here is a great opportunity to learn stuff! Not a critical thinking skill to share among them, but gosh if the arguing isn’t a great way to pass the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:20 AM
-1

PPD is such a strange place. I love it here. Full of lies and delusions. It’s so intriguing to see how the dregs of society perceive their realities. Oh wait. Yeah. Boo women on PPD. Boo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:18 AM
2

Like attracts like 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:37 PM
2

then I met some of the people working the floor at my dads company
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:33 PM
12

🥹 I love you. This whole post is low effort and not thought through. If all it took to live comfortably was looking good so many women wouldn’t be working.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:21 PM
-1

Necessary as in a guy won’t be able to get a woman unless he’s making 6 figures?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:15 PM
5

Cheaters should be lined up and shot. That’s all I have to say about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:55 PM
1

Nahhh. Normal man needs to hit the gym apparently. Obese ain’t the move.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:42 PM
5

Do.. you think they parade their wives around and let everyone inspect them like a dog show?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:20 PM
4

I see these arguments that men are gonna give up on women all the time. “Oh just you wait for AI.. it gonna be over for you bitches”. And my response remains the same: Wanna bet? All this talk about how men are biologically programmed to reproduce. Spread their seed. Whatever. It’s all so important and excuses so much behavior.. until the robots get here? Good luck convincing your lizard brain that the robot is a viable mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:57 AM
6

Because “you like your wife? Eeeeew”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:47 AM
7

It’s unrealistic to state otherwise. There’s always someone hotter. Always someone richer. So on. The point is the active choice you make for your partner. And also not reminding them how replaceable people are. It’s more of a silently understood fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:34 AM
2

I love this. Thank you for confirming something I’ve been preaching in this sub for a while. It’s more than 666.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:32 AM
0

Adding a w to words doesn’t make your point any stronger.. just makes you look dumb. Mocking is a piss poor argument style. But go off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:01 AM
0

Adding a w to words doesn’t make your point any stronger.. just makes you look dumb. Mocking is a piss poor argument style. But go off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:59 AM
2

I chose to engage with you. Had I not commented, you wouldn’t be speaking to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:40 AM
2

Forcing me to engage with someone I don’t want to talk to when I’m not being paid to do it is forcing me into emotional labor. I don’t have to remove my elbows. I can say “fuck off” without looking at him and he can promptly fuck off. I don’t owe him acknowledgment or politeness because he has a dick and decided to bother me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:19 AM
-1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:08 AM
1

That or their version of dad bod is roid gut 🤣 but maybe we have two different ideas of what these men look like. In their defense, I’ve know some genetically gifted men who weren’t body builders. But if we’re gonna only count pro bodybuilders as truly having “body builder physique”… no woman is gonna confuse Joel Stubbs with your run of the mill gym dweeb.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:44 AM
4

After doing the little calculator thing in the other post and finding out that only 9% of men (of any race) are taller than 5’4 (mentioned because that’s damn near all of them), not obese, and make at least 30k.. are women really just “being selective” or do they just have Jack shit for options?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:35 AM
1

Maybe. I couldn’t say. But there’s not a woman alive who’s gonna confuse a swimmers body with a “bulked up gym rat” since swimmers are lean and after looking at Michael Phelps.. do they have muscle definition where gym rats don’t? Idk. Bodies look kinda odd. Regardless. Not the same. And idk. My dad was massive. 6’4 heavy weight champion at a few competitions. World renowned? No. But definitely bigger than a gym hobbyist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:31 AM
1

stares in my dad was a body builder my whole childhood and a trainer/dietitian
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:22 AM
6

Eh. I agree with the commenter who said it’s not my responsibility to protect a man’s feefees. If you can’t read social cues.. you’ll learn. I’m not keen on doing emotional labor for people who are forcing me into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:12 AM
3

Nah. If you aren’t rude they don’t go away. Hell.. even being rude doesn’t always work
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:02 AM
8

I gotta say.. I think your comments are the cold hard truth. Maybe when we’re young we start out trying to be kind.. but at some point it turned into “literally go die somewhere”. Being approached repeatedly while being out ends up feeling like harassment. And harassment makes me angry. So.. yeah. I agree with you. It’s not my responsibility to coddle someone else’s feelings. They took a calculated risk and got told to fuck off. That’s their problem. Let me enjoy my drink in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:47 PM
-1

I’m about tired of saying something only for someone else to tell me I’m wrong about how I feel about something. I’ll say it again. Creepy is creepy regardless. I don’t care what you look like or how you’re dressed. Also, if they’re not being a creep anyone can tell me I’m sexy and it’s a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:15 PM
1

What you're saying is Well if you already know what I’m trying to say (regardless of what I’m actually saying).. Why do I even talk? Silly woman.. having opinions. Back to the kitchen with me!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:44 AM
1

The precious few women I’ve ever seen do that were also severely mentally ill. I’m not saying it doesn’t happen, but anyone who tries to mate poach is an underdeveloped psycho as far as I’m concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:02 AM
12

After reading OPs replies… Troll post.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:21 AM
2

Real good way to get killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:20 AM
3

This. Creepy is creepy regardless of how attractive a guy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:36 AM
11

Dudes gotta be a troll. Or a serial killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:56 AM
17

Found the sociopath. What kind of relationships are you cultivating where this is true? I implore you to get some therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:54 AM
5

Ah. The super smash bros parties 🤌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:03 AM
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Finding someone attractive and wanting to fuck them are separate functions. Finding someone attractive and then silently fuming about them fucking other people is not how friendship works. That’s the fuck zone as someone else mentioned. Not platonic friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:54 PM
2

But yeah.. you know then.. 6’4 is weenie hut JR height. No one audibly gasps when 6’4 walks in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:36 AM
4

You mean if I had no idea it was happening and he completely walked past me without being a creep? No. I don’t care what he thinks in his head.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:31 AM
2

Idk if that was meant to be funny but I chuckled 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:23 AM
6

Did you just ask me a question about how I personally would feel and then tell me I’m wrong? Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:19 AM
2

Question: Are you bisexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:05 AM
6

No, bud. If youre jealous and want to fuck your “friend” then… You don’t consider them a friend. I don’t have to be a man to understand what the word “platonic” means lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:00 AM
6

You mean like if I was at the store and a guy respectfully approached me and told me I was lookin gorgeous that day and then turned around and walked away? No. That wouldn’t be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:47 AM
5

If a guy has lady friends and he’s jealous of the men they’re seeing… those aren’t his friends. He doesn’t view them as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:46 AM
-1

Are you fishing for compliments? Feeling a little insecure today so you decided you’d post something obviously not true just for a little pick me up? Obviously women just after men’s bodies. Read a romance novel. Watch a movie. Go to a male strip club (not the gay ones). Jeez. Call your doctor today to see if touching grass might be right for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:42 AM
1

This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:28 AM
6

…no? Tf
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:25 AM
7

So many dudes are 6’4. Just being 6’4 is not as impressive as you think it is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:22 AM
12

Yeah. Gotta say being followed around the grocery store doesn’t exactly get the juices flowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:18 AM
1

I like you! Where have you been in this sub? I just get called a troll when I say stuff like this. I will say tho that at a certain point people can be completely not sexually compatible. But that’s few and far between. I dated a guy briefly who’s dick was just.. too big. It sucked. Or. I once slept with a guy who thought humping as fast as humanly possible was the move. It wasn’t. I don’t care to teach anyone to fuck right. But.. I suppose I might have found other things we weren’t compatible w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:13 AM
23

That’s why I think the question he’s asking is loaded. He’s not actually saying that men like women more. He’s saying that men will fuck women they don’t like as people. Women typically won’t. Which somehow means that men like women more? No. I believe that if you’re willing to fuck people you don’t like.. you don’t view them as people. They’re just a masturbation tool. And, as surprising as it may be to OP, women don’t like being viewed that way. So, I pose to OP that any man who feels this way…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:57 AM
1

Maybe we both are. I wouldn’t try to take anyone’s man either. But to offer an alternative view. I don’t believe a man being taken is a good indicator of his worth. After having been alive for a bit and seeing so many relationships go south.. I don’t think a man’s ability to get into or maintain a relationship is indicative of anything. For example: my best friend has been with her boyfriend for years. They have a kid together. He pushed her to the ground when she was pregnant and treats her lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:49 AM
1

attractiveness is relative Attractiveness is subjective. No two people view a single individual the exact same way. What’s specifically attractive to me may be completely overlooked by the next person. And so on. With every feature of a human. An example being: I like big noses to the point where you aren’t attractive to me unless you have one of the few specific large nose shapes I like. My sister doesn’t care about noses at all. Would you call a man unattractive because he has a button nose? W…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:44 AM
2

Do you ever feel like maybe women who are attracted to men in relationships are just weird crappy people? It’s always so odd to me when people say that, I know it happens. I’ve seen it. But the women who express attraction to men in LTRs are usually a… specific… type
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:06 AM
3

This is my question as well. If I paint my nails I’ll be exclusively doted on? Fuckin pass the nail polish 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:24 AM
1

Legos are so stupidly expensive. Gotta work double triple overtime for the deathstar alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:21 AM
2

I don’t have a Steve. But I have had Steve’s in the past. They existed because I didn’t have a choice usually. The guy at work and so on. Active backup plans aren’t necessary when men are so abundant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:09 AM
2

You know this from your extensive experience with being a woman, yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:57 AM
1

Low effort
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:14 AM
1

No. I wouldn’t care. It’d be nice if that is what was actually happening. Sure, it could be used (in your fake world where this isn’t highly illegal) for after a divorce, but more realistically it means we’re more financially secure than I know and if something were to happen we’d be ok. In a situation where I have to discover secret growing money.. I’d be relieved not angry. But I also believe in prenups being necessary for the better of partner. So 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:10 AM
34

After reading through some of the comments, I think this post is disingenuous. The question isn’t whether women like men as fellow human beings or not. This post is meant to imply that women aren’t capable of liking men because women are more selective about who they’ll have sex with. Meanwhile, men love women because men want to fuck all of them. This isn’t how liking people works. I like and love plenty of people I don’t want to have sex with. Not wanting to have sex with them doesn’t mean I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:35 AM
7

Don’t generalize. I know how to shoot just the same as he does. The intruder isn’t killing either of us and they aren’t getting out of this house alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:34 PM
1

Thought they where equal to men. They are. What’s that have to do with cis women not having testicles?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:23 PM
5

Why can't the women get a vasectomy Because cis women don’t have testicles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:52 AM
1

May the Nine keep their dicks dry forever 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:58 AM
6

This is it. The dumbest thing I’ve seen in the internet today.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:11 PM
2

Sexually attraction isn’t (or shouldn’t be) exclusive to highschool aged girls. Can’t remember ever having met a 35 year old women hunting 18 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:03 PM
2

I don’t think any of the guys replying to me understood the question lol. Hot, sexually actively women aren’t exclusively 18. There’s no actual reason to pursue such young people. But they don’t like to think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:01 PM
3

Ah. Here’s an answer that’s at least plausible. “For sex” isn’t an answer since sex doesn’t exclusively come from much younger women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:55 PM
9

No. You don’t need to prowl highschool graduations to get sex with beautiful women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:26 AM
8

Yes. Sex is not the reason. You don’t have to prowl highschool graduations to get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:14 AM
-4

That’s not what I asked
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:05 AM
30

People shouldn’t be allowed to use those words in that order on here. Age gaps do matter. Lordy. Also… What possesses a 35 year old to meet and pursue an 18 year old? Edit: since this seems to be very confusing for men, the question isn’t what makes you horny. The question is what is it that an 18 year old has that someone more age appropriate doesn’t? Hint: the answer isn’t sex or beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:05 AM
2

Nah. The video games themselves aren’t an ick. I’ve dated several gamers. What causes an ick isn’t the games. I had an ex who played cod a lot.. but he never really played with me. I love playing games and I’m not too terribly bad at cod (if I warm up lol).. he just didn’t want to play with me. And it sucked. I ended up not liking that he played all the time. My husband now, we met playing video games and we do it together almost everyday for hours on end.. and he’s constantly on the hunt for ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:18 AM
0

Are you a chronically single 50 year old? Cuz you sound like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:22 PM
5

Same logic applies
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:05 PM
6

I thought the question was about if someone’s chronically single? Meaning.. never married? Smart ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:58 PM
13

During youth? No. But if you’re involuntarily chronically single in your 50s? I’d call that a red flag at this point in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:51 PM
4

You mean how does a man make a ONS enjoyable for a woman? I assume it’s some combination of swallowing his pride and acknowledging that he doesn’t know how to make her cum.. so he needs to communicate and listen.. and probably have an educated understanding of the basics of a woman’s body. Ask her what she wants before jumping immediately to PiV. You know, effort. Prioritizing her pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:58 PM
6

Women are not socialized to act like cats in heat. That doesn’t mean women don’t want good sex as much as a guy. Finding decent dick is, arguably, harder than finding good pussy. If a man picks a woman up at the bar it is almost guaranteed he will cum for just one sexual encounter. The opposite is true for women. Why lower your standards and give in to your urges when you know you probably won’t be getting off anyway? Might as well stay home and do it yourself. Doesn’t mean she’s content to be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:52 PM
7

I feel confident enough to say that all heterosexual women enjoy/desire good sex with good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:40 PM
3

All evidence excluding the women who disagree with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:35 PM
10

It’s.. almost like.. everyone’s different..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:00 AM
2

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:02 AM
11

Stand up isn’t for you. Don’t quit your day job.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:15 AM
-5

Skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:26 PM
3

Ah. A polycule.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:22 PM
1

They’re performing a service. So. Not useless. Unless you can’t afford them. But then.. that’s a skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:23 PM
1

the useless prostitutes Prostitutes, by definition, are not useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:07 PM
1

Do that. And then stay there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:03 PM
1

The guy you described is a felon lol. A guy with multiple baby mommas is an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:56 PM
1

This is true. There is no “it’s my birthday so I get a free pass to be a dick” rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:00 PM
1

You also had the option not to. You forfeit it for a lil pussy. Now look at you.. a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:50 AM
-9

If you don’t want people to call you an asshole on your birthday… don’t be an asshole every other day of the year
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:43 AM
2

Not every woman lives in a place where she can get access to an abortion. Not every woman had the funds to afford one. Not every woman catches the pregnancy before the “heartbeat bill” comes into effect. Not every woman is comfortable with getting an abortion. The point is: you, as the one with the semen, had every opportunity not to cause this pregnancy. The consequence of you not taking making absolutely every effort to either avoid pregnancy or on potentially impregnate someone who would want…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:30 AM
3

Lmfao. You think only felons dip out on women? Naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:10 AM
6

Can you at least come up with a creative troll? “Your moms a ho” is literally a vine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:05 AM
1

Some people think abortion is murder 🤷🏻‍♀️ once the conservatives get their way and make it illegal, what will be your excuse for shitty men then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:04 AM
2

Unfortunately for her, she is his.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:46 AM
2

Creative
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:46 AM
3

Just like, you don't deserve mercy from the incel you created lmao I personally created an incel? What’s their name?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:41 AM
2

A woman came in herself? That’s wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:38 AM
2

If not getting your dick wet makes you actually kill people, you don’t deserve sex to begin with lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:37 AM
2

No one said that. But it takes 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:19 AM
3

Phew. Ok good. I wasn’t feeling very confident about being able to kill him. I’m pretty small compared to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:03 AM
2

Damn. I guess I better go kill my husband. Gotta return order to the universe. Thank you, sensei.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:01 AM
1

If you tell him you like how he degrades you and you love spending time with him and call him pet names, he mellows out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:59 AM
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Damn.. what a high quality guy again? Remind me? Is it young, tall, good looking, and gainfully employed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:47 AM
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That’s like a white person saying “I have a black friend so I know about racism” lol And he cashed in all their stuff to buy a business that failed. So. No. Edit: that typo sucked lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:46 AM
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Damn! Recreational use? Not marriage material huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:40 AM
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What is this supposed to mean? Is it code?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:32 AM
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Date a lot of dudes, have ya? My dad is a piece of shit abusive narcissist. I’m surprised she tried to make it work that long.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:31 AM
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Do you see men wearing signs that say they’re shitty and should be avoided? I don’t. My parents were married for 30 years. Finally got divorced. He refuses to pay child support for my youngest sister. THIRTY YEARS. Woman can’t see the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:18 AM
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If all the women got together and just.. stopped having sex with men.. they’d get real pleasant real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:09 AM
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It’s the woman’s fault for picking a crappy man not the man’s fault for being a piece of shit. Being a piece of shit is ok and to be expected. Women have to compensate for that because men can’t function as adults. God. This is so dumb. I hope sexlessness continues to rise and NONE of y’all get laid ever. It’s a literal wonder any of y’all get laid at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:08 AM
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Bitch what nothin. It takes two people to put cum in a pussy consensually. The whole “she let him cum in her without making sure he wasn’t a loser by being a mind reader so it’s her fault” is such a stupid argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:05 AM
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Lmao. No? Don’t have sex with people who don’t agree with your views on abortions. If a baby comes into existence.. You get to pay for it. And. Abortions aren’t even actually accessible everywhere anymore so that argument doesn’t work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:59 AM
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No. It’s on him for being a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:45 AM
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So he should have to pay child support
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:43 AM
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No one’s speaking about randos exclusively, but I like how you completely excuse the dudes reckless behavior even tho the woman in your fantasy took every precaution possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:42 AM
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This conversation is always so interesting to watch unfold. Men genuinely don’t think them cumming in someone is their responsibility. “Well she let me so it’s her fault”.. they really shouldn’t be allowed outside of their moms house.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:38 AM
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This post is really just highlighting why women should not be having sex with men. Goodnight
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:35 AM
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lol. Does the one who’s pregnant and gives birth to a child have any responsibility? I dunno. Lemme think on that one. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:32 AM
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It’s the reason the whole “top 20% of men get all the women” thing doesn’t make sense to me. Like you said, everyone likes something different than the next person. My “so hot it makes my toes curl” is your “ugly even amongst civilians”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:54 AM
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Unfortunately i don’t have an in-depth answer for you. I like big/sharp noses. He has one of the types of noses I like. I think he’s gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:48 AM
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She thinks they’re hot. We have completely different types. Hers is heroin chic. I can’t even think of an example tbh. Think really skinny, hairless, kinda look ill guys.. remember early 2000s emo band boys? Them. I’m more of an Adam Driver/Jensen Ackles girl, myself. Very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:26 AM
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I looked at your profile super briefly. I’d call ya a dweeb lol. I’ve got a receding hairline Supposedly beards and balding are signs of extra testosterone. If you’re big enough you can potentially pull of the Viking vibe 🤷🏻‍♀️ But if you’ve got money, maybe try the hair growth pills? I know rogaine works.. it’s just never looked like it’s any fun at all to have to do that everyday. I’ve done stuff like this I still recommend trying it with strippers. Different environment. If nothing else it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:10 AM
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What kind of awkward? Autist level? I assume you’re a nerd based off your profession, are you just dorky and uncomfortable? taller than average That’s cool. But your face. Is it average lol like are you covered in acne or have a terrible haircut or something? I’ve given up I might get downvoted for this and it’s just an out of pocket suggestion.. but since money isn’t an issue.. go to a strip club and literally ask the girls what you can do. Tell them they won’t hurt your feelings. Buy her a dri…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:10 AM
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Are you saying you’re super awkward? Or? Sorry to ask, but are you average looking? Fit? Do you think you need practice talking to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:03 AM
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Software engineer What’s the education like for that? I deleted them all I fucking hated OLD. How old are you? Why do you think you’re failing at finding women through hobbies/sports
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:45 AM
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Can I asked what specifically you do in tech? Also maybe you could explain what it is you do actually do to try and find a date? Do you go outside? Only OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:42 AM
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The more I see these ridiculous misinterpreted/exaggerated stats preached as gospel truth the less empathy I feel for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:31 AM
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We actually have special Scouters we use to tell which men have power levels over 9000.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:23 AM
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“Are you tired of waking up in bed with a bunch of cold bolts? RoboJennifer now comes complete with water heated skin for maximum realism. (Warm feet not included)”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:42 AM
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I think they would initially. But eventually they would find themselves yearning for something more. Sure most people have the biological need to fuck.. but people forget that’s not all we’re looking for from each other. At the end of the day, a robot can tell you it loves you, but it’s always going to be cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:36 AM
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Idk man. Something about “programmed to love/entertain me” just doesn’t sound as fulfilling, ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:06 AM
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There are genuinely ugly people. But they’re the extremes and aren’t common. And there’s stories of them finding love too. The majority of people aren’t ugly, just average or need to make a simple change. Such as the basement dweller meme guy.. he only needed acne cream and better glasses. He looks fine these days and there’s even a picture floating around of him with a woman laying on his chest.. You’re either Jensen Ackles or you’re normal. And there’s only one Jensen Ackles.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:57 PM
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Sex toys do not replace human connection lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:49 PM
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Hard agree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:48 PM
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I’m not sure about height because I’ve never cared and none of my friends have. But this theory is definitely true for big dicks. I spend my youth thinking I wanted a huge dick.. ya know cuz everyone acts like it’s so great. Finally dated one.. hated it. Dumped him in part because of how big he was. Shit hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:21 PM
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This made me laugh. My best friend is out there giving the ugliest men chances. Oof 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:18 PM
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I’m actually 98.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:48 AM
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The happiest women I’ve ever known are the ones who didn’t have kids (not that there’s anything wrong with having kids.. fuckin salute to the women who have the constitution for it). They’re all fun, eccentric, happy women. That’s the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:52 AM
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No. It’s because it makes it easier to argue on here if people don’t comb through my comments to find information and go “AH HA! Here’s my new assumption that I won’t budge from”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:46 AM
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Yeah. The age theory is stupid. So is the body count theory. I get that religious people value chastity, but your average Joe doesn’t care. My life experience has been “everyone’s so vastly different that you can’t truly pinpoint a trend.” My husband is a giant. But I wouldn’t have met him if my 5’4 boyfriend hadn’t died, ya know? Id definitely be married to a little guy. The people here are also super quick to call out anecdotes, but at a certain point.. if everyone’s got the same anecdotal exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:40 AM
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Fuckin more power to us. This sub would like to pretend we don’t exist. (We as in women married to younger men and vice versa)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:47 AM
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Some guys just like em older, it seems 🤷🏻‍♀️ my husbands brother married a woman 7 years older. Divorced her and is dating someone older than his ex wife! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:37 AM
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No. They were mostly my age. Within 3 years older or younger. One was 7 years older. One was 15 years older, not 15+. He was the oldest and it was only him. Don’t exaggerate my words to fit your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:36 AM
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Oh I see. I read that wrong. In my early 20s.. let’s see. My first real relationship I was 18 and he was 21. Most of my boyfriends after that were my age up to one guy who was 15 is years older (he was also 5’4). A few guys that were younger too. Then I married a young one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:22 AM
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God this shit is so tired. Not everything is about kids. If a woman makes it to 40-50 without kids.. it was on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:04 AM
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I don’t understand the question. He was clearly a teenager when I was in my early twenties. That’s how 5-6 years younger works lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:45 AM
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I prefer not to say my age on this sub, but there’s a a little over 5 year difference. 6 years briefly before our birthdays lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:27 AM
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Eh. Generalizing is just dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:18 AM
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My husband is younger than me 🤷🏻‍♀️ anecdotally, of course
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:17 AM
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Are you 22? Only young adults think young adults are good at making solid decisions. Let’s talk in a few years, kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:40 AM
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Who pissed in your cornflakes? I said if a man wants a family he needs to start young and get himself a young wife and make it happen. Not live his whole life and then snatch up some 18-22 year old who doesn’t have the life experience to know any better and take her youth from her.. obviously you either are or want to be the selfish creep I’m referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:22 AM
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And you’re a titty baby on my comment whining about some shit I didn’t even say. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:17 AM
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The conversation is about older men and “fertile” women. Everywhere on this sub “peak fertility” is 18-22 (it’s not). We aren’t talking about 30 year old women. Nice reach tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:13 AM
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It’s the not wanting kids.. it’s.. getting to me dies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:42 AM
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If a man is going to want a big family, he should pursue that early on as well.. find a woman his age in his early 20s and get started. A grown ass man who’s had his fun and lived a life without children deciding to settle down with a girl who hasn’t had the chance to experience anything and then pumping her full of kids so she never does.. is bullshit. And predatory. Also if a woman doesn’t want kids, telling her she’s gonna regret it is pointless and super annoying. Edit: which one of you repo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:08 AM
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You can have my share!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:29 AM
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Yeah. Most peoples idea of an “alpha” is intolerable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:02 PM
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Not for me, at least. Fuckin hate “alphas”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:29 PM
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That I’m having conversations with people about body counts? If you go back further I spent lots of time the other day explaining that marital rape is real. I’ve spent a few days discussing consent. Reddit isn’t the same meeting someone or being on a date. Not a good gotcha. You didn’t answer my question lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:56 PM
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human biology It’s not human biology. It’s trends and culture. The number of people doing or not doing all kinds of things have changed dramatically since then. It’s simply not recent enough to reflect today’s society. Get a more recent source, at least. I’m married Yeah? And that makes you the local woman expert huh? No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:48 PM
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What’s a party girl to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:36 PM
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I’m in my late 20s (depending on how you define that, I guess) 1.5 years. Little over 2 years. Little over 3. And then on and off for about 4. My longest singleness was a 1.5 years. I actually used tinder for a week once. Met two guys. One ended up being a friend. The other was so creepy I never used the apps seriously again. Fun to swipe around tho. I asked for people’s best pickup lines in my profile. Hilarious. Whatcha got for me? No looking at my profile and cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:59 PM
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How? Cerebro?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:55 PM
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I think it’s important to remember that being good at sex isn’t necessarily a physical thing. It honestly can’t exclusively be. Sometimes, lots of times, bodies just don’t mesh.. for no apparent reason. Chemistry is off. Rhythms are off. When I say “get good at sex” I mean learn to listen to your partners. Not just their words. Their bodies. You can make a woman’s body sing if you pay attention. It’s a skill. And I’d argue it’s the most important skill. If you’re gonna be scared of someone being…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:49 PM
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Eh. I think it’s worth it to remember that dick being good is way more complex than just the physical aspect of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:43 PM
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I agree. I’d like to start a movement.. let’s get the Don’t Have Sex With Peasant Men movement going. Get back to our roots. I wanna see courting. Chaperones. Let’s get the bride dowry back up and running. His family doesn’t have old money? No estate? Useless as a suitor. Next. Can he afford your lifestyle on his salary alone? Will there be balls and tea parties funded by him alone? Do we get fainting chairs? Bring back chivalry. We’re gonna olde timey this bitch (but without the abuse and no ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:18 PM
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Comes to a forum meant for debating. Gets his panties in a twist because his opponent wants to last word. In a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:05 PM
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People literally don’t have to be promiscuous to have sexual trauma. It’s not a prerequisite. Correlation is not causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:04 PM
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Yeah. I’m saying the 50 bodies are irrelevant as far as being worried about her world having been rocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:57 PM
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All you have to do is.. do better. You have absolutely no idea how bad sex with men usually is. Her “good” might not even be good. It probably isn’t. Anecdotally, I thought id had good sex.. until I met my husband. Be not discouraged. Get really good at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:54 PM
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Nope. All you can do is assume. And you know what they say about assuming.. right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:49 PM
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If a woman slept with 50 men, it’s reasonable to conclude at least some of those men REALLY rocked her world. Not as reasonable as you’d like to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:47 PM
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No. He doesn’t like her. He just doesn’t want to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:55 AM
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Whatever you say, chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:13 AM
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Cool. Me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:00 AM
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You are very angry I’m in a relationship and you don’t even know my body count! Crazy. You can think what you like, I suppose. My husband is everything you dudes in this sub value so much. All that dumb HVM stuff. So if I was the best he could do (you know, me, the whore).. then that disproves the entire HVM theory. And that’s fine by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:50 AM
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Nope. I like sleeping and playing video games till 5am. I do not want kids. I’m inching ever closer to “the wall” and I’m just happy people will stop asking me if I’m going to have kids soon 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:26 AM
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Nice fanfiction. He knows my body count 🤣 I’ve never once met a guy who cared. For all the shit you guys talk on here, you sure are few and far between. I never struggled to find sex or commitment when I was single. Met my husband, super healthy relationship, amazing sex.. so I married him. What’s the next chapter for your diction? Don’t forget to add that he must be short, old, and poor too. Ooo! Tell me he’s gonna leave me. That’s the funniest part of these little stories you boys are sweet en…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:17 AM
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Hm.. interesting. I’ll ask my husband his opinion when he gets home.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:56 AM
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Why would I need to cope?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:51 AM
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It’s not rare lol. Go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:43 AM
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Really stupid to be in a relationship with someone you don’t like
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:51 AM
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I’m halfway convinced that all the men who talk about how little women do are just assholes who push their annoying selves on women just trying to have a nice evening out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:05 AM
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Caring about body count is for the weak minded. But! I’ll always be amused by how desperately they try to convince people it matters, meanwhile, nearly none of us have ever even been asked. My personal favorite is how they can “tell” someone’s body count. Phew. Their fall from power has been far and unflattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:39 AM
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The whole “oh yeah? Well you have mental health issues, whore” as a comeback is so mind numbingly stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:35 AM
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I answered your question.. Answer my question. Are you a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:08 AM
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I am. Are you a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:02 AM
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Hmmm… so long as you continue to need absolutely nothing from me ever.. you can come to thanksgiving. You’re bringing the Turkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:01 AM
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You really over here telling on yourself like that, huh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:54 AM
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Can you wipe your own ass? Do you pay your own bills, son?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:54 AM
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No. That’s not a thing. Vaginas aren’t gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:14 AM
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I’m asking if you’re saying women talk about men who are grossed out by vaginas being gay when men aren’t around or if you think women are also grossed out by vaginas?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:11 AM
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No I’m asking
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:11 AM
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What’s a topic of conversation women have had when dudes aren’t around?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:06 AM
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Do you honestly believe the kind of person who can type an entire thesis out on the internet about how women should be bred in captivity as sex slaves can go outside and effectively blend in with other humans? He cannot. I can tell that you don’t know how assholes get laid. And that’s fine. But you’re not giving their ability to manipulate people enough credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:08 PM
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r/technicallythetruth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:47 PM
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No. I’ve never wanted kids tho. It has nothing to do with the economy or anything. I just really hate kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:45 PM
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Common assholes are pieces of shit with charisma who prey on a specific demographic. They do hide the severity of their hatred. It stops working on women as they age. Incels are not charismatic. They don’t hide their hatred. The severity of it is obvious. Only one of those can pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:44 PM
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Not many people ask, but I tell the truth if it comes up somehow. And boyfriends have never asked. My sister did. My befriend did. People like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:41 PM
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statistics exist old man. snort I’m not going to read an article from the uk from 12 years ago and can it science. Times are changing and none of the guys in this sub know anything about real, breathing women aside from what they read in forums and their friends cousins uncle’s buddies neighbors anecdotal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:39 PM
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Keep reading. In further comments we discover that I’m talking about incels.. Not common assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:36 PM
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I would tell whoever commented that that they’re stupid. Poor and short men get married and have sex with attractive young women all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:34 PM
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AKA a normal human being with life experience finds you attractive and pursues you. You then have the choice to be judgmental or get to know her as a person. After a certain age, no one’s wholesome little virgins anymore. No point in judging people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:19 PM
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In this hypothetical situation, I don’t know my current partner. I don’t know he would be better for me. All I know is that I love my current (in the scenario) boyfriend. Working off that information.. no. I wouldn’t be open to the possibilities that could or could not be with someone else. The commitment isn’t what I’m clutching to.. the commitment is the side effect of the love I have for my partner. I’m clutching to him. Knowing what I know now, yes, it’d be sad if I missed out on my husband.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:00 PM
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That y’all obsess over these so called super attractive men. Where are they all? This isn’t Mystic Falls. Most people are normal looking and that’s good enough for most everyone else. No. It’s hard for anyone to actually be ugly. As I said. Most people are just normal looking. Majority of people are not disfigured, deformed, or hideous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:47 AM
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You greatly underestimate what passes for “attractive enough”. I’m willing to bet the majority of you guys (who complain and act like the world belongs exclusively to these attractive men you can’t stop thinking about) aren’t unattractive at all. It’s hard to be ugly. Be a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:40 AM
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Yes. I wouldn’t know any better. You expect me to leave my relationship based on looks and first impressions alone? In hindsight, I wish I’d never dated most of the people I have. But I married this one because he’s the best man I’ve known. Would have been sad to have missed out on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:31 AM
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It wouldn’t have mattered? In a world where I’m dating someone else my current is irrelevant. I don’t even know him in this new reality.. why would I cheat on my ex with someone I don’t even know? (And wouldn’t get to know) Dumb question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:49 AM
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Then you don’t know how women think or feel. And certainly not en masse. Shhhhhhh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:45 AM
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Having to go outside where people can see you shouldn’t be shocking to anyone lol. “Don’t go looking for love” means don’t make it your only goal. It’s shouldn’t be your priority. You’ll stress yourself out and become desperate. Also maybe it’s a location thing, but I’ve seen plenty of women approach men. I, myself, have done so many times. Stranger things happen, my guy. Met my husband playing a dinosaur game. Don’t be desperate. Do people stuff for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:29 AM
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23 is not forever. Don’t worry about gaming people. Level up your charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:43 AM
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Just be a person. Go outside for yourself. Find a hobby you love. Develop a social life. Love comes when you aren’t looking. So dont look.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:29 AM
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According to Dr. Stuckman-Johnson, sexual coercion is the act of using pressure, alcohol, drugs or force to have sexual contact with someone against his or her will. It's persistent attempts to have sexual contact with someone who has already refused. Simply put; sexual coercion is being persuaded to have sex or engage in any type of sexual activity when you don't want to. It is when someone tries to make you feel you have to have sex, or that having sex is the right choice, even when you have d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:19 AM
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You’re confusing incels with regular assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:05 AM
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Coercion describes any attempt to control your behavior with threats or manipulation. Sexual coercion, then, happens when someone won’t accept “no” and continues to try to convince you to change your mind about engaging in sexual activity. Sometimes, coercion is pretty blatant. For example: “If you don’t have sex with me, I’ll tell everyone we’ve been having an affair.” Other times, it might take a more subtle form. For example: “Here, why don’t you have a glass of wine and get out of those work…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:05 AM
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Then I doubt he was being a woman hating prick to her face
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:11 AM
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Coercion is rape, bub.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:09 AM
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I would argue that the guys who are just too shy or whatever, but are actually decent dudes are not incels. Call em late bloomers or something. I feel like rolling them into the same category as incels does them a disservice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:06 AM
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I’m talking about what the term “incel” has come to mean. It was high jacked by absolute psychos. There really should be a master post that clears that up. Go to any incel forum. They aren’t just virgins and autists. They’re vile. And the reason they aren’t getting laid was never because of their looks or money or height.. they lack a tolerable character and always did
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:02 AM
3

The group chat that she was also in so she knows he did that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:58 AM
1

Then you aren’t the incels I’m referring to. Y’all more normal people need a new term for yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:57 AM
1

You think women are disgusting vile creatures that should be farmed and given to their husbands as children to be raised as the perfect sex slaves?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:56 AM
3

So you mean to tell me that your friend speaks to women he’s trying to fuck that way? I’m sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:47 AM
5

They get laid as long as they’re quiet about hating women. No one’s out there sleeping with guys (attractive or otherwise) who irl do shit like call women “disgusting foids” for having discharge. Pinky promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:42 AM
0

At a certain point it stops being about social skills and starts being about hating women. Possibly closeted homosexuality based off some of the “vaginas are disgusting” posts I’ve seen. I’d argue mental illness before I argued autism. There’s a difference between Virgin and incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:08 AM
1

I’ve experienced both. Though coercion is more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:02 AM
1

I’d be willing to believe it’s stupidity. I can’t be sure, since I’m not a man, but my theory is that they’re socialized to only care about themselves. So they don’t ever develop empathy unless they try at it or it comes more naturally to specific individuals. Also the whole “Chad can get away with anything” narrative is annoying and likely misleading to younger men just entering the dating scene. Chad can’t get away with anything. No amount of bone structure makes “I could snap you like a glow …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:18 AM
10

It’s incredibly unfortunate that it takes actually experiencing the fear of their own kind fucking them against their will for them to feel empathy. I saw a video of a guy with long hair who’d been approached from behind by a guy who grabbed his ass thinking he was a woman. He went on and on about how scary and horrifying it was. How when he turned and the guy saw that he was, in fact, not a woman, he thought he was going to have to fight that guy (you know.. cuz he was angry dude wasn’t a chick…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:02 AM
3

You say that, but ultimately you only think that way because you don’t know what it’s like to be violated. If you truly did not want to have sex with a woman and she forced you to anyway.. that would not be hot. And I sincerely hope you never find that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:56 AM
11

Differing opinions are what make the world go round, chief. Find the people who view the world like you do and leave the rest alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:54 AM
4

Men get raped too. Men can say no and it should be respected. A man should not have to “throw her off” to have his autonomy respected. Not all men have the capacity to respond to being assaulted with assertiveness. Men, like women, also freeze in the face of assault. We do not tell people they’re lucky to have been assaulted. Have you ever heard of women date-raping a man? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:50 AM
6

“Why were you alone with him if you didn’t want to have sex? Maybe you shouldn’t dress like such a slut and men wouldn’t get the wrong idea. Next time take some responsibility and don’t put yourself in that situation.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:47 AM
9

Ah ah ah. No sir. We don’t tell people they’re lucky for being assaulted. That’s fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:46 AM
2

“It doesn’t matter that you said no at first. You said yes after he asked you 500 times so that’s consent and it’s your fault. Why didn’t you punch him if you didn’t want sex?”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:42 AM
-7

Exactly. Men are, by and large, awful about that stuff. We’d be here all day if I had to remember every time I haven’t been in the mood and was forced into sex anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:35 AM
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“Dear diary”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:40 AM
19

Why is money the only thing y’all care about? Don’t get married if you don’t agree with marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:37 AM
1

We are all animals, just making that clear Strawman. Irrelevant point. We classify as animals. Mammals. But we aren’t animals as in.. wild beasts with no capacity for complex reasoning, complex language, or introspection like all other animals. So when I say “men are not animals” I am saying men are not singleminded beasts. You can’t generalize them or even dare to dream to be able to speak for all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:33 AM
1

I reaffirmed your point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:09 AM
5

Um. Nope. Sex is not a need. Men are not animals. Women are just as sexual as men. It boils down to individual preferences, not gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:08 AM
1

Men want so much more than sex lol.. you know, cuz they’re human beings with feelings. Not walking penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:54 AM
5

Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:52 AM
1

I find myself literally never thinking about what kind of sex anyones having. I can’t actively think of anything I care about less.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:49 AM
-1

Homie here thinks women are all just fuckin dying for kids. I’d rather suck start a shotgun.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:29 AM
1

Sure. And some (in growing numbers) choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:41 AM
1

No? Humans choose. Plenty of humans don’t have kids and never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:37 AM
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Outside? I’ve been outside. Either you’re being dramatic or you were being a creep somehow.. intense staring maybe?. No one’s screaming at you for just looking at them. Don’t often come across the female version of the dudes here.. wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:25 AM
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Right. Because men are out there screaming at women in public for looking at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:23 AM
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Being harassed is a privilege now? Women of all shapes and colors have experienced the same situation. Trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:18 AM
-1

in order to avoid The answer you’re looking for is: t h e r a p y
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:50 PM
-1

Ah. That’s why so many guys here can’t get laid. They haven’t died yet. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:32 PM
1

I think men should do whatever makes them feel comfortable in their skin
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:39 PM
2

Hormonal cycles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:20 AM
2

I expected to here from *hear I’m not inexperienced, darling. I haven’t always picked right.. I’ve been raped more than once. The thing is.. you either recover and try again or you don’t and you remain alone. I chose to keep trying. I suffered for it, but I wanted to find someone to be with. I still did my best to try to weed out the creeps and assholes. Can’t always be right tho. It does hold up. If all you had to eat were those cookies.. you’d start eating them eventually. You’d still be scare…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:47 AM
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How dare you know you’d prefer a younger man over an older man because the money isn’t important to you. Who do you think you are? Yourself? You think you what? Know your own thoughts? Impossible. Couldn’t be true! /s No but I was never into old dudes with money either. Really wished I coulda been sometimes.. but could never bring myself to fuck dudes for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:40 AM
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No. I think your 70% or 80% or whatever percent it is today is all bullshit. But that’s neither here nor there. I think, as I stated, that women have to be more selective because the danger of rape and murder is higher for women. Do I care what the stats are? No. I don’t. If I give you 100 cookies and I tell you one of them will absolutely definitely kill you horribly.. you gonna eat the cookies? Probably not. So instead of trying to invalidate the very real fear of death.. just be grateful wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:35 AM
4

Half the crap people post on here is crap science for one reason or another. People believe what they want. It’s all irrelevant anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:21 AM
5

An easier solution would be to just.. stop trying to convince single women that they aren’t happy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:17 AM
1

This is true for maybe a week or less before my period. Any other time this is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:12 AM
1

No. I think the scales are the same for either sex. I think men are just willing to put their dicks in a wider portion of the scale. Women are just more selective. Not because of money or looks. But because we’re more likely to be raped and murdered by a guy we go home with..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:09 AM
2

I know it’s a run on sentence but it felt right, ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 08:02 PM
1

I’ve had the copper iud for.. nearly my entire adult life. Hormonal birth control makes me a psycho so I can’t take it. Since the copper iud is none hormonal, it doesn’t effect my sex drive. Nope. I mean I’ve tried others. And I’ve used condoms not for the birth control aspect but the std protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 06:42 PM
1

I see what you’re trying to provide. But unfortunately dudes theory is that if women are sluts and they sleep with men hotter than you.. they will not want to sleep with you because you’re ugly. But if they never sleep with hot dudes.. you will be hot to them. Therefore, women should remain virgins and.. pluck out their eyes. I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 06:01 PM
0

Lol. Nope. You’ve clearly never heard of the red fruitloop guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:42 PM
0

I’m not having kids. Never wanted to. Never will. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:33 PM
0

I have never had a “dream man”. I’ve always just wanted to be happy. Now I’m very happy and idk what a “top dog” is.. but I’m sure me and my husband would get a kick out of whatever it is “top dogs” do out in the wild. Sounds ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:32 PM
4

It does not make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:00 PM
4

Oh I was almost ready to bet a tit he had no source. Asking seemingly got him to stop tho so.. good enough answer for me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:23 PM
1

Um. No? A Nazi is a Nazi. A handsome nazi can die just as quick and as painfully as an ugly one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:15 PM
4

Do you have a source for this or did you make it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:08 PM
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I don’t understand why you think a woman needs to have fucked a hot guy to not want to fuck a guy she’s not attracted to. She’s always going to want to fuck a hot guy.. she will very likely only ever fuck guys she thinks are hot in some form or fashion. If a woman is capable of pulling a dime piece.. do you think she’s completely oblivious to that for her entire life and then she fucks one hot guy and her eyes are opened to all the 10/10 chads she never saw before because she was blind and stupi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:24 PM
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That’s easily the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard. Women don’t need to fuck hot men to know they’re out there. Women don’t need to fuck hot men to have standards either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:29 PM
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You’re not wrong. I have been told a number of times that my husband must be old, short, and ugly and he must not have been able to do better than me.. (of course, as soon as he gets the chance he’s going to abandon me.) The weirdos in this sub screaming into the ether have nothing better to do than sit around imagining revenge scenarios that will never come to pass because that one girl in highschool didn’t smile back. They have to convince themselves that no one wants women beyond a certain ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:09 PM
2

Correct. Which is further proven by how very few women agree with all the weird ass theories on this sub. And that’s… not the same concept at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:42 AM
2

Yes. And those stats are great and probably accurate… for those 14000 people. No more than them tho. I don’t know too much about Zimbabwe.. but I’m pretty confident in saying that their culture is nothing like American culture and therefore pointless to compare them to Americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:03 AM
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14000 people does not make an accurate representation of the USA, let alone the world. And unless you’re speaking exclusively to people from Zimbabwe… that’s completely irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 10:45 AM
0

My perspective is that OLD stats are irrelevant to real life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 09:16 AM
1

The comments on these posts never cease to surprise me with how profoundly stupid they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:44 AM
3

What does the way someone’s face looks have to do with a woman’s past?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:38 AM
1

It’s not really that I despise them. I just prefer the company of people who respect me. However, having learned that men don’t actually care how you treat them means that I can be myself without feeling the need to be fake. Not that I’m mean naturally or anything.. but it’s easier to relax around someone I like when I know there’s not much im going to do naturally that will scare them off
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:51 AM
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Their body count means nothing to me. I need to meet them to make the decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 08:59 PM
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Not much to add here. Just gonna add my own anecdote to yours. Have also never met a woman who does this. And honestly, not even the women this guy would call sluts are out hunting specifically for “tall, dark, and handsome chads”. My best friend is an extremely sex positive woman.. who’s been with (and has two kids with) a 5’3 guy for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 08:27 PM
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The red pill is wrong here. If I’m wearing headphones and you approach me.. you could be as tall and handsome as you like.. you’re an entitled creep to me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 07:55 PM
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The lesson learned here is that it truly doesn’t matter how you behave. If a man who’s interested in me can take the rudest I can possibly be and decide that I’m cute.. why wouldn’t a different man be able to appreciate me in my natural state of being? No need to pretend. If that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 07:52 PM
1

Which is very kind of you. Appreciate ya
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 07:49 PM
4

Jesus Christ. OPs 30.. not dead. His life is not over. Plenty of time to play the field and find exactly what he’s looking for 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 08:33 AM
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Used to. But then I learned that you can tell a man to fuck himself and die and he’ll just… keep hitting on you. You can look a man square in his face and say “leave me the fuck alone. You’re disgusting” and he’ll laugh and call you cute. So. No. I don’t feel the need to act any certain way.. not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 04:35 AM
1

1) Yes. You don’t have to have sex to be intimate. 2) I have had duty sex. It did significant damage to me. I’m still working through that. I will never have sex out of duty ever again. 3) I have. My body. My dignity. My autonomy. Myself. Like I said.. Duty sex fucks you up. 4) I think men should stop acting like they can’t live without it. I think it’s a lie they tell themselves out of entitlement. For centuries men have owned women.. now they don’t. And they aren’t adjusting to the new order v…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:50 AM
3

I have one of those providing men as a husband. But they are for sure incredibly rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:56 AM
2

Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:44 AM
2

Try to tell them that. Doesn’t seem to make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:04 PM
1

And that’s why men who approach women like that are called creeps. You aren’t listening to the signals a woman is putting out. It’s disrespectful and rude. Only approach women who are not wearing headphones.. like please
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:20 PM
2

And that’s a bummer. But you still shouldn’t approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:15 PM
2

the term rape was coined, and … became weaponised even in a marriage between a man and wife, where people these days like to mention or talk about martial rape. It doesn’t make sense really. Consent this and consent that, if a reason has to be given for everything and permission needed for everything thing, I think that this would also be another reason why men don’t like to put themselves out there the whole consent thing basically goes away once marriage has happened. she doesn’t have to ask m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:22 AM
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You’re not. She doesn’t want to be approached. That’s what headphones mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:13 AM
1

It’s the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:03 AM
1

Do what you love and you’ll never work a day in your life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:02 AM
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I’m older than 23 and still could get sex whenever I want. I’ll keep ya updated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:55 AM
3

Ah yes. The good ole “I married you so you’re my property to use when I feel like it” argument. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:49 AM
2

Yeah. There’s no way that’s an accurate representation of the rest of us. I have no faith 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:09 PM
2

No one’s promising the impossible. No one, male or female, is gonna have the same amount of time for two full time things. Their relationship.. with the man they don’t have because they don’t need him? I’m confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:46 AM
3

What is it exactly what they can’t have?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:28 AM
3

But a drug addict needing narcan is a life or death situation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:57 AM
3

Yeah. Like removing the fetus. It’s her body. Her life. Are you going to take care if the child and pay for it? I see. Is it just abortions or are you ok with paying for drug addicts to be saved for the umpteenth time?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:53 AM
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If having a baby would make a woman suicidal getting it removed is health care. In the same way that a woman who can get pregnant but can’t safely carry to term needs an abortion to save her life. You don’t get to pick and choose which procedures your taxes go to. It’s irrelevant. And honestly kinda weird to be that interested in what someone else is doing with their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:46 AM
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That’s where the debate comes in. I believe a woman opting out of a baby she doesn’t want for whatever reason is still considered healthcare. But regardless of what you or anyone else believes about that.. saying “describing an abortion as healthcare is like describing lynching as justice” is wrong flat out and only said to bring up a sensitive subject meant to shock everyone out of challenging his idiotic claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:40 AM
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Abortion is the term for (but not limited to) a medically necessary procedure. Abortions are healthcare. If a fetus dies in utero and doesn’t miscarry.. guess what it’s called when the doctor goes in to remove it.. an abortion. Guess what a miscarriage is also called.. a spontaneous abortion. Abortions are healthcare. Read a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:31 AM
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Men also used to own estates to pass on to their children. Men aren’t doing that anymore. There’s no legacy to pass on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:54 AM
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Oh no. Don’t get me wrong. I’m super happy I don’t have balls sticking to my leg. I just don’t really see the point in thinking about the “benefits” of my gender. No woman experiences it the same. There aren’t any benefits to being a woman so much as there are benefits to just being me. If that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:25 AM
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For every benefit I can think of.. There’s something that cancels it out. Or it’s not actually a benefit of being a woman, but instead just because of the choices I’ve made.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:18 AM
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shrugs. I didn’t agree with all of your list either, but everyone experiences being alive differently. Glad you’re getting some benefits out of this whole vagina having thing XD
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:12 AM
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Yeah. Cuz thats what we’re doing. It’s all in our heads and jokes on you guys cuz cramps aren’t real and the bloods imaginary. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:10 AM
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I’m assuming cuz your list doesn’t feel like benefits to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:06 AM
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Bearmode & strongman for me. Your normie and athletic examples are children. The guy in the pic looks regular to me. Bad hair cut. Not ugly. Body type isn’t super important. I don’t like a lot of defined muscles and I’d rather not have an obese partner for sex mechanics reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:22 AM
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Obviously I was being facetious. Point being: you don’t have to have kids to be “real”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:16 AM
5

Real men & women want to procreate If I’m not real, can I stop paying taxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:44 AM
1

Porn addict
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:30 AM
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No. My argument is “don’t be a dumb porn addict”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:16 AM
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The percentage of men who never had children is ever growing. And the percentage of adult men who never want kids is growing too. Fairly close to half so far. “Most guys end up wanting kids” ok cool. That’s why I chose my mate very carefully. Sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:48 AM
2

I honestly hate how the stats have become such a “gotcha” in conversation. No one’s ever asked me anything for a survey. Have they ever asked you? No one I know has ever been asked… where do these numbers come from? Money isn’t as important as they make it seem here. Like yeah don’t be a homeless bum, but ultimately, like attracts like. My friend who’s been dating/engaged for like 9 years? They’re both highly educated. She’s a couple months off from a phd (and will probably be the only one of us…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:23 AM
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Right. Because you’re the golden standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:41 AM
9

Not wanting a dumb porn addict as a mate is hypergamy now?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:33 AM
1

I’ll add to yours with my meager circle. There’s 4 of us in my close group (I could pull a larger pool but I don’t feel like scrolling my Facebook). I’m married to a man who’s younger than me. No kids. One of us has been dating the same guy for like 9 years now. They’re engaged. They both tall.. 5’10 and 6’4. Same age. No kids. One has been with the same guy for a couple years now. 5 I think? He’s 5’3 for what that’s worth. They’re the same age. 2 kids. One has been with this guy for 2 years. Ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:32 AM
12

Childfree ≠ low sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:13 AM
9

I don’t understand this take. I have never had an issue finding men who don’t want kids either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:11 AM
5

They can lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:09 AM
5

I’d rather be single than be in a relationship with anyone who’s not adding to my life. Anyone man or woman who says otherwise isn’t old enough to understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:47 PM
2

What are you expecting couples to love each other with? Lmao. I know. I said meant to be. Outside of a mothers love, no love is unconditional. Not even the Christian gods love is unconditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:37 PM
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Romantic love cannot be unconditional. There are conditions that have to be met for such love to even begin. The love of a mother is meant to be unconditional. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:21 PM
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Oh. I get it. You’re special. Ok my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 11:54 PM
1

Cheating is cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 11:50 PM
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You are needlessly aggressive for NO reason. My OPINION is that people who care about gifts that much are shallow and needy little cry babies. I didn’t say that tho. I said maybe gifts make OP feel loved. That’s it. If you want to be offended.. now you have something to be offended by.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 11:21 PM
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Am I misreading aggression in your comments? Cuz bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 07:18 PM
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Do y’all not know what love languages are?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 06:29 PM
1

Nahhhhhh… that’s not a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 02:04 PM
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If you’re still resentful after all that “self improvement”, you’re not done yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 12:48 AM
1

And I want a million dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:52 PM
1

Periods are?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:18 PM
1

The opposite actually
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:14 PM
1

Cis men have periods? Interesting theory. Not true though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:58 PM
2

That’s the spirit! You don’t talk about womens problems like you know anything about them and I won’t talk about mens! Good deal. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:53 PM
1

Ok then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:41 PM
0

I did. You over-explained gift giving and acts of service to me. For no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:38 PM
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What are you talking about? Lol. Gifts is a love language and might be hers. That’s all I said. Love languages aren’t gendered. Mines physical touch and acts of service. I don’t care for gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:32 PM
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No. He wouldn’t be taken seriously with his made up theory.. Who else’s pain can you accurately imagine? Perhaps you’d like to tour hospitals and tell people with crippling chronic pain it’s not that bad. I’m sure they’d appreciate the revelation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 03:55 PM
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It’s just weird to have an opinion on something you have no experience with. You wouldn’t join a rocket science forum and post theories you made up and expect to be taken seriously, would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 03:32 PM
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Never cheated. Never would. I married my husband because I don’t want to ever have to even try to replace him. No one ever could.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:39 AM
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As a person who’s been completely debilitated by period pain before.. I don’t think this is a conversation men can be a part of. They simply have no idea what they’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:35 AM
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OTC meds don’t always work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:32 AM
1

With shmoney
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:39 PM
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I obviously don’t know for sure. But the post put a lot of emphasis on receiving gifts. And then there’s been attempts to explain this desire away using anthropology theories. But as someone who is made to feel very awkward by gifts.. I am willing to bet OPs love language is gifts and they don’t realize that’s not a universal female experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:45 PM
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OPs love language must be gifts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:39 PM
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Troll post. Google coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:03 PM
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This whole sub is pointless. I’m having a separate conversation where I said I support sex workers and dude says “oh so you must also support hitmen” and now thinks he’s trapped me with that question. This whole sub is stupid. I’m just bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:09 PM
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I saw something on here earlier about tax credit incentives for men who can’t get laid. Tax credits for people who choose not to get laid! woohoo! (The is all /s if you didn’t pick up on that)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:07 PM
2

Oh no. This is real singleness. No hookups anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:58 PM
4

Excellent. Shut down the sub. Inceldom for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:44 PM
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If we’re avoiding relationships unless they bring things to the table we cant do ourselves.. we should all just stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:51 PM
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No. Men courted women with chaperones and paid dowries. Now they just want pussy for free and whine about paying for dinner. We should be compensated for having to tolerate such disrespect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:46 AM
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Women didn’t used to have to work. Men would just take care of them. Single women should be given everything they need by the government until they’re married. Houses, phones, food, clothing, monthly allowance.. All of it should be covered. You’re a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:40 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:34 AM
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Then you’re participating just fine and nothing needs to be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:29 AM
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If single men want to stop being a part of society and drop off the map to be either off the grid or homeless.. no one’s going to stop them. If starving is how single men who can’t get laid want to live.. who are we to get in their way? Be our guest. Go off the grid. Give up your amenities. Become homeless. I dare you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:23 AM
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Proof of troll
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:21 AM
1

Give an example
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:34 AM
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What way is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:31 AM
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Based off what evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:29 AM
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So women being attracted to older men is self centered? Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:26 AM
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I do not love my dad. My husband is younger than me. Generalizations make your points ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:21 AM
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Didnt you hear? It’s not a choice. “Actually single” women are just too old and ugly for men to fuck them. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:42 PM
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Do you know what BDSM is? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:40 AM
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50 shades was ill informed. Dressed as something normal. Taught a lot of people the wrong things. The women who liked that like BDSM. People who knew nothing about it were dangerously mislead. But I wouldn’t expect you to understand the difference and why actual people in the lifestyle hated those books/movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:11 AM
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Right. Because enjoying the idea of a powerful being who would die for you.. kill for you.. because his love for you is that strong is the same as lusting after Ted Bundy.. who in real life murdered women and fucked their corpses. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:08 AM
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What does 50 shades have to do with anything? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:06 AM
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They aren’t.. real.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:03 AM
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Yeah. Hybristophilia is a paraphilia.. not a rule. I sure as shit don’t want to fuck a serial killer. I choose life. But you’re right. A lot of the theories and accusations on this sub are ridiculous. Every day I find out I’m biologically wired to be a cheating whore and my husband is short and hideous or he wouldn’t have married me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:15 AM
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Then you don’t love her or respect her and the relationship won’t last.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:31 AM
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Pregnancy and child rearing? Some people are into the pregnancy but I’ve never heard good things about sleep deprivation and exhaustion
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:55 AM
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No one has said at any point that sex or attraction doesn’t have a seat at the table. It just doesn’t make the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:33 AM
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Intimacy doesn’t have to be sexual. And you can have sexual intimacy without penetration or even touching. So. No. That’s not how it works. Sex without love is.. just a FWB. It’s not the sex that makes the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:29 AM
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Then I’d argue you’ve never been in love. My husband is my best friend, yes. But he is so much more than that.. and it’s not the sex that makes the difference. You can fuck your friends. You can fuck strangers. But you can’t build lives and intimacy with them without more than the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:25 AM
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So asexual people are just completely invalid? What about people who medically can’t have sex? Men with severe ED? They don’t get to have romance? You can have romantic love without sex. In fact, if you can’t have romantic love without sex… somethings wrong with your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:06 AM
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It’s not the sex that makes the difference. Sex is not the deciding factor that makes romantic relationships stay together. It’s only a tool in the toolbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:03 AM
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No one said it’s impossible. They said it takes time. Often, a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:02 AM
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Yes. Leading question. But obviously it’s not the sex that makes the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:57 PM
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Anecdotal evidence isn’t evidence, as everyone loves to say in this sub. You can’t ignore what’s either the majority or close to it to try to maintain your idea that child rearing isn’t incredibly common.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:55 PM
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All things the same sex is the glue that keeps the relationship together. That’s not a true statement. You can’t ignore the rest of what makes a romantic relationship work to try and push some idea that sex is the defining factor. It’s not. I can have sex with anyone. Hell.. sex can’t be taken from me. But I don’t love everyone. It’s the love, compromise, and communication that holds a relationship together. Without those things.. it will all fall apart. That’s why NSA doesn’t work long term. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:53 PM
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Pregnancy and child rearing are not extremes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:50 PM
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It’s not. A relationship based of sex doesn’t last and isn’t fulfilling.. therefore.. sex isn’t the most important aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:49 PM
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Mm. Are you, by chance, a young adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:36 PM
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Do you think I didn’t read your article? Find one that doesn’t agree with me in a round about way. The prefrontal cortex doesn’t develop until 25. The brain is always learning and changing.. but young adults don’t have their common sense brains yet. So no. They shouldn’t be sent to die in the wars of old men. Your point is dumb and doesn’t change science.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:00 PM
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The only people who think young adults are fully formed adults are young adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:14 PM
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Here ya go. Here again. And again. Here’s an short but interesting read on brains. And of course. Here’s some more. And women process information 5 times faster. And women mature over a decade faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:32 PM
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That’s fine and dandy but any woman with any forethought at all would still insist on condoms regardless of the presence of male birth control
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:32 PM
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Your completely made up idea that women are incompetent. The majority of women do not lack analytical or critical thinking skills lmfao. Women make great leaders.. science believes they just might be better than men. So. I’m gonna have to ask you for sources on your dumbass assumptions if you aren’t just trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:06 PM
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Lmfao. You dropped this —> /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:51 AM
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You must have missed the memo. Women who want to be treated well are the minority now, it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:57 AM
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1 in 4 us adults suffer from mental health issues. And that’s just the people who report it. But keep that bright outlook on life. Good for you. In 2020.. 52 million people used Reddit daily. 430 million people used it monthly. It received 30 billion views a month. In 2023 36.2% of users were female. What’s 36.2% of at least 430 million? Reddit is bigger than Twitter, Snapchat, and Pinterest. As of December 2022, Reddit ranks as the 20th-most-visited website in the world and 6th most-visited web…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:22 PM
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12% of American women. And 23% of American men. Don’t try to mislead me. Americans aren’t the only people on here. Also.. everyone’s mentally ill. Take a hike.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:58 PM
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Reddit isn’t niche lmao. And you might not think so cuz of bias but sex workers are the same women who play video games and raise kids and go to college. You unknowingly walk by them all the time lol. They’re just people. They come in all shapes and colors.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:33 PM
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It’s not. Theyre just super insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:10 PM
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You haven’t been over to the sex worker/skin care/hair care side of Reddit, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:54 PM
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I was gonna say.. I’m closing in on 30 fast and I’ve noticed absolutely no changes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:33 PM
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I wouldn’t say without any social judgment. Not anymore. People expect women to work too these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 06:29 PM
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Supposedly it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 06:27 PM
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The people should identify as something less toxic. It’s a shame the term got stolen but that’s how language works.. words morph over time. Also therapy only works for those who actually try and want it to you. Regardless of what you identify as.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:00 PM
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I’m not particularly old. Or young. But I’d laugh if someone tried to tell me what to do lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:38 PM
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I’d argue that “incel” doesn’t mean what it did originally anymore. People use it more to describe a toxic mentality. And sex won’t cure that. They just won’t be virgins anymore. Still an incel tho.. need therapy for that, I reckon
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:34 PM
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No. I’m telling you there’s a bunch of stats and studies that say otherwise. Evolutionary psychology disagrees. Read David Buss. The preferred age difference is 2-3 years. A 27 year old prefers a 25 year old. And so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:25 PM
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I want you to keep googling this until you find the studies that say otherwise that I’m too tired to go and refind for the 500th time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:20 PM
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You dropped this —> /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:19 PM
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You can’t just make a person illegally. So. Dumb question
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:16 PM
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I was under the impression he stole her egg outside of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:04 PM
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Potentially. But I would argue you’re overestimating the number of people one sees a day. I see one on average. In my bar going days, I mostly saw all the same people every time I went.. not many. And this was in a city. Just because you live in a city doesn’t mean you see all the people in that city. I understand what you’re trying to say, but once you combine the average number of people a woman sees a day with her disinterest in looking for a potential mate (it’s just not something we’re doin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:55 PM
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You can’t just ask stupid fucking questions. It makes your point stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:49 PM
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Never said it was ok. There’s always a risk. Don’t wanna take the risk? Don’t fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:15 PM
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Why was he not wearing a condom? Can he not throw a bitch against a wall? Don’t have sex with people you don’t know and trust. You never know who’s gonna assault you. Don’t go home with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:12 PM
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It’s the risk you take. We all know contraceptives aren’t 100%. Don’t want kids? Don’t fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:06 PM
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Yeah? Got an artificial womb have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:00 PM
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He took the risk and came in her.. that’s consent in my book. And then didn’t buy her a plan b?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:59 AM
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Wouldn’t happen. Stupid argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:52 AM
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He came in her and didn’t get her a plan b? I have no sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:48 AM
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Lmfao. Did homie just fuckin make an artificial womb in his garage?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:46 AM
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Then no. Regardless.. It’s not her fault and she’s not responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:38 AM
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This is stupid. She didn’t consent to making the baby. A man consents to making a baby. That’s the risk you take by cumming in her. A better comparison would be a woman steals your sperm and impregnates herself somehow. Is that legal? No. Should he have to pay for a child he didn’t consent to the risk of making? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:27 AM
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Don’t have his address
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:01 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:48 AM
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I mean I’ve blown by guys being polite because I’m busy or in my own head. I wouldn’t take it personally especially if she approached you afterwards. I’d never talk to a guy at a gas station or a stranger at all for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:02 PM
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Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:39 PM
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You can’t combine neutral with unattractive. Neutral hasn’t gotten an evaluation. Neutral could be the hottest man in the world. I wouldn’t know. I didn’t look. Neutral ≠ unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:41 PM
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I don’t think that’s what Misty was saying.. but it’s definitely not what I’m saying. You don’t exist. That means you fall nowhere on the scale. And even if you do stand out for some reason.. I will promptly forget about you seconds after acknowledging you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:10 PM
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Even super hot guys tho.. I’m walking through Walmart and I see a 10. I think “oh damn” and then I never think about him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:05 PM
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The majority of the theories these people have are like that. I’ve never in my life seen a super tall dude and quivered. Like yeah it’s neat that giants exist. Don’t see them every day. But I’m not gonna fuck him cuz he’s tall lmao. Itty bitty men are interesting for the same reason lmao. Rich men? Intolerable. I hate them. The guys these dudes are attracted to.. the Chads? Have you met them? Insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:55 PM
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I don’t think I even see 95% of the people that exist around me. Walking through the store? Couldn’t tell ya who I walked by. I’m not looking. I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:47 PM
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Repeated in 10 different ways.. They still won’t get it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:37 PM
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I can only think of Sharpay from highschool musical at the moment. I remember her life being easy. Been a hot minute since I watched that tho lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:53 PM
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Im sorry you had to go through with that. It’s alright. But it definitely put a bad taste in my mouth. Plus none of the questions I asked had actual answers. I just live my life well and I’ll hope for the best. How old was he? Not old enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:52 PM
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I’m betting a get an in between answer since I’m not religious and don’t want to control other people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:53 PM
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Testosterone doesn’t keep you from making friends lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:52 PM
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This is a mind numbingly stupid fucking question
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:49 PM
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Eh. Facebook is more my speed lol. I just wanna know if I’m a slut or not 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:46 PM
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You’re not involved. If a random woman starts an onlyfans on a random day and posts some pictures of her ass and a video of her sucking dick.. she won’t make money. You can’t just make an OF and then profit. It’s not an option women just have to fall back on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:44 PM
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It most certainly does take work. OF doesn’t advertise for you lmao. Not the same concept as a cam girl service.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:34 PM
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How many is a ton? Lmao. It’s damn near impossible to amass a following as a content creator. It takes dedication, tons of hard work, and no small amount of luck to make any decent money. Like I said.. it’s not an option women can just call back on all willy nilly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:19 PM
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The percent of successful OF creators is very, very small. You can’t just make a profile and make money lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:15 PM
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It astounds me that this sub even exists lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:09 PM
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You can’t spot promiscuity anyway. My sister damn near goes to bars in a bikini and she’s had nearly no sex because she thinks it’s disgusting. You just can’t tell 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:28 AM
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I am absolutely convinced the male idea of how women work is based off teen tv shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:32 AM
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You dropped this —> /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:30 AM
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Also not everyone even knows they’re attractive. Depends on their upbringing. Was she ugly in highschool? She’s not gonna be a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:27 AM
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No, but guys don’t talk to eachother all day Who’s problem is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:26 AM
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Instagram is the big one I’ve never understood the appeal of spending time on instagram. It’s just pictures. I have one.. I post pictures of my life now and then. It’s kinda like a diary of interesting parts of my life. Your going to have to explain My parents were/are very Christian. Fire and brimstone Christian. Homeschool your kids and teach them nothing actually useful because the end of days is upon us Christian. You’re not allowed to have friends Christian. We don’t believe in doctors Chri…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:33 AM
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You give me too much credit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:20 AM
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Depends on the mood I’m in. Sometimes it’s Disney classics.. sometimes country.. sometimes Italian opera.. sometimes early 2000s. None. Who cares? I watch TV for the characters not the actors. What counts as social media? Reddit? Plenty. Facebook? Not really. Instagram? Hardly at all. Are there more? Mostly agnostic. My parents raised me super Christian. I was definitely treated poorly in the name of god. Not a fan. I have 3 actual friends. All in long term relationships. I don’t have relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:31 AM
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This whole thread is horrific.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:22 AM
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So… a woman can’t just not be in the mood?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:22 AM
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Inexperienced*
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:19 AM
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What type of upbringing makes a woman a slut? I wanna know if I win
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:18 AM
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A little old to be so dramatic. Weird when people are purposely unpleasant as some flex. Not sure why you’re trying to pack a punch. Debates aren’t won with shock. Being bigger, louder, and meaner doesn’t make you right. It makes you a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:52 AM
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Aren’t you a little old to be acting this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:42 AM
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Yeah. You’re gross. I hope you’re single and you stay that way. No one deserves your toxicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:32 AM
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Are you not American? Stop calling everyone cunts. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:29 AM
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Copium.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:11 AM
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demisexual /ˌdemēˈsekSH(əw)əl/ adjective experiencing sexual feelings and attraction only after developing a close emotional relationship and not on the basis of first impressions, physical characteristics, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:54 PM
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Is it Facebook gossip when she’s simply asking for prayer because he hit her again? All the posts go like this, “Pray for me. I know the lord is resting me. Jeremiah hit me again. He’s so angry. We went to couples therapy a few times after I caught him cheating, but he refuses to keep going. I’m praying for him everyday. Why won’t god listen?” That’s not exactly gossip. Regardless. The studies are all poorly done and biased. Not really a source I care to put any stock in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:57 PM
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I did date a guy a couple years ago who came to live in my apartment because he was couch surfing. Unless you’re referring to panhandlers.. but they have their own culture so..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:19 PM
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What’s social status have to do with anything outside of highschool?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:46 AM
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Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:48 AM
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Still counts as depending on the individuals. People need to date at their level. That’s the main issue. No grown 30 yr old man needs to be dating an 18 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:45 AM
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I wasn’t lol. You used to word wrong. It confused me for a moment because I wasn’t sure what you were trying to say. I then realized you used it wrong and copied and pasted the meaning. That could have been the end of it. But then you had to show the world it wasn’t an honest mistake and you’re an idiot. So here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:43 AM
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Ok buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:41 AM
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I was trying to be helpful, prick. At least I know what basic words mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:34 AM
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Because 17-19 is a bit off putting, but if they’ve been dating for 3-4 years it’s inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:33 AM
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The more proximity between her vagina and other men, the better. prox·im·i·ty /präkˈsimədē/ noun nearness in space, time, or relationship. "do not operate microphones in close proximity to television sets"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:19 AM
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lol. Join a Christian women’s Facebook group. I don’t believe these surveys.. church propaganda. I believe what I’ve seen with my own eyes tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:43 AM
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Because no one wants to be intimidated into fucking someone they aren’t attracted to. Thats coercion and that’s rape. Also what good is saying yes to someone who’s made you so uncomfortable you’re fearing for your life? They’ll just kill you later. Might as well turn them down in public and hope for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:20 PM
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That’s.. not what that means. Turning men down can be scary. That’s why women usually try to be nice when rejecting a dude or give fake numbers. Why would a woman show up to a date she doesn’t want to be on? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:01 PM
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Damn.. someone asked every autist ever? And even found the tons of adults (mostly women) who slipped through the cracks and never got diagnosed? That’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:17 PM
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I’ll give you looks, to a degree. But social media presence? Are you guys dating teenagers? Lmfao good lord. No mature adult gives a fuck about your popularity. This isn’t Glee.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:14 PM
3

We don’t even know if women have bowel movements.. let alone feelings ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:09 PM
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Can you elaborate on what it is you’re asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:07 PM
4

Oh absolutely. If you told me the numbers are all fudged by the men who took the surveys I wouldn’t be remotely surprised. Particularly ifstudies.. they’ve got a religious background.. you can’t tell me those surveys are accurate lmfao. See: The FRI is part of a sociopolitical movement of socially conservative Christian organizations which seek to influence the political debate in the United States. They seek "...to restore a world where marriage is upheld and honored, where children are nurture…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:57 PM
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Nah. Ignorance gets women hurt. It’s not a blessing to not know better.. it’s a trap set by men who don’t want to put in effort or be held accountable. Especially by religion. The toxicity of Christianity is so dark it’s hard to believe it’s as popular as it is. Edit: are they happier? If they knew fulfillment is out there.. they probably wouldn’t appreciate not being given the opportunity to achieve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:46 PM
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We won’t have fair or accurate statistics. Like y’all said before.. where are the stats from the men? And also.. I’ve never been asked these questions. And if I’ve never been asked.. how many others haven’t been? It’s all speculation and means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:43 PM
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I subscribe to the school of thought that it’s a lot more simple than people on here make it out to be. Relationships are work and they end if they aren’t tended to. The number of bodies is irrelevant.. the reason for the bodies is what matters. Did she sleep about because she has ragingly severe BPD? That relationship is probably going to require extra care and without it.. it will fail. Did she sleep around just cuz and she’s stable? The number of bodies won’t make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:36 PM
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People are likely to be happy in their marriages if they’re married to someone they love who loves and respects them back. I love my husband very much, but if he started treating me poorly.. I’m out. I have the life experience now to know better. I didn’t have that when I was a virgin and I stayed in abusive relationships longer than I should have. I’d bet my left tit my narrative is more common than some biased, religious mumbojumbo from ifstudies lol. I’ll argue till I’m blue in the face that …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:32 PM
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I will die on the hill that these (likely religious) virgins get divorced less because they don’t know any better. Religious men are notorious domestic abusers.. and god won’t let women divorce their husbands even if they’re abusive. So. They’re stuck. Go join a Christian women group on Facebook… it’s heartbreaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:53 PM
5

This is it. This right here is the dumbest shit I’ve seen all week. Oooo buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:51 PM
2

Eh. I’d rather be playing a video game. But my ex loved the patriots and dragged me to his favorite sports bar to watch the games. I came to enjoy it. But it was more about the camaraderie than the sport itself. I enjoyed getting excited about touch downs and eating chips. I assume that’s the actual reason men are into sports.. kinda the only time a lot of men allow themselves to have friends
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:20 AM
3

You had me in the first half.. not gonna lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:56 AM
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Yeah no. India is whack with some of that shit. Abuse. Marrying off children and stuff. That absolutely is not the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:51 AM
3

It definitely depends on some specific factors and the rules (in my mind) get looser as you age. But typically I’m most supportive a 2-3 age difference until 25+ and then just do whatever you want. It’s all jumbled in my head tho and often depends on the individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:40 AM
6

Hey man.. as long as you know it’s a dumb idea, it’s all gravy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:33 AM
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Firstly… There isn’t an equal amount of people on the planet. Some people would be left out. Second.. what happens when these couples stop getting along? Divorce? Breakup?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:57 PM
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Oof. Gotta hate that. I’ve dated a few below average looking fellas.. but the worst one decided to start trying to hit me when he was too drunk (he was an alcoholic too) to land a blow, started cussing me out and saying the meanest things to me.. and then I caught him cheating on me with an actual prostitute (and not the escort kind.. the for drugs kind). He was “trying to learn how to please me better”.. that’s the one and only time I’ve ever punched anyone. Which I know isn’t healthy and I did…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:28 PM
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It really adds a special layer of “fuck you” When you give a guy a chance and he’s dog shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:31 AM
0

Guys who are pricks don’t think they’re being pricks. They think they’re justified in being disgruntled. I have not had a friendly discussion the whole time I’ve been participating in this sub. It’s all a big woe is me pity party for guys who’d call me a whore sooner than look at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:15 AM
2

Who’s kicking men when they’re down? Don’t be a prick and it’ll be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:07 AM
0

Not from what I’ve seen
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:06 AM
1

No? Tf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:06 AM
3

Nahhhh. Being a hateful prick is a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:02 AM
1

Short guys get laid all the time. Short guys I think are ugly get laid all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:45 PM
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It’s called a “royal you”, I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:30 PM
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Cheating is incredibly common. However.. being attracted to other people is like.. the first step necessary for cheating. Never said it was the cause. Implying that people agree to be exclusive and then they’re untouchable is super naive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:30 PM
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Do you know what cheating is? Exclusivity doesn’t eliminate anything. People aren’t suddenly incapable of being attracted to other people because they agreed to be exclusive lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:38 PM
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Porns bad for your brain, ruins your ability to grasp reality and view women as people.. as well as breaking your dick. That’s why I don’t like it. Dunno about anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:34 PM
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How does agreeing to exclusivity eliminate all competition?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:27 PM
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Just look at anime, dude. Definitely real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:26 PM
4

What? Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:21 PM
4

Definitely. Once the lesson was learned, life got a lot better. It came with the added bonus of learning my worth and demanding to be treated well… and leaving if I’m not. So all in all the struggle was a win. Thanks for asking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:59 AM
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It just seemed normal. How do you know your normal isn’t normal? Took a while to learn what’s actually healthy. Unfortunately brains aren’t super smart. Would have been nice if I drew the lines sooner. But I didn’t. I was just laying in bed one day agonizing over some guy and he said something to me that sounded so much like my dad I had an epiphany..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:33 AM
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I think too this can be affected by how you were raised. My father is a narcissist. I spent a good deal of my youth dating narcissistic assholes. They were familiar and what I recognized to be normal.. took a while to learn it wasn’t normal for someone to be so charming
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:58 AM
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It’s a lack of common sense.. absolutely zero critical thinking. Why would someone who thinks theyre the shit be offended if anyone’s into them? That’s so stupid it hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:17 AM
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Anyone can buy sex lol. There’s a whole service dedicated to letting you buy sex. Skinny guys get laid all the time. So do poor guys. Poor people have the most children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:32 AM
2

I can promise you that that would not be why he isn’t “getting any bitches”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:26 AM
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We do this about many things all the time. It’s a nonsensical part of socializing. Someone asks you how your day is and you say “good and you?” no matter what. Someone shows you their art you tell them it’s good even if it’s not or you try to offer pleasant constructive criticism without making them feel like their work is actually bad. And of course the timeless “do these jeans make my butt look big?” and you’re meant to say no (then. Now you should probably say yes since society has changed it…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:17 AM
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Lol no. Tf? If you’re gonna be a narcissist and believe you’re the best thing since sliced bread.. you’d be offended if guys below your league werent into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:09 AM
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I hold the same views irl. I often include my husband’s opinion in my replies. I’m sure he’s tired of giving his opinion on the dumb takes in here, but I like to argue
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:06 AM
1

I can’t think of any other way you’d see a penis immediately 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:56 PM
2

Your post was about how men should be given extra chances because they can’t control themselves. I said ok then men all need to go to jail for rape accusations since they’re clearly all true since we can’t expect men to control themselves. Then you said they can control themselves. So your post is bullshit. Either men can control themselves or their all rapist animals. Up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:13 PM
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Then your post is a lie by your own admission
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:05 PM
2

Women say that shit literally all the time. Can y’all not read?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:19 PM
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What? What shit is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:18 PM
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All this conversation has proved to me is that y’all don’t understand the difference between attraction and a dude just being easy to look at. Also. No. That’s not “very rare”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:17 PM
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Link me a post about that. About 30-24 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:09 PM
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People care about unhealthy age gaps. People don’t like 50 year olds dating 18 year olds. People don’t like old men preying on younger women. And vice versa. The rest? No one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:52 AM
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Did we read a different post? This is a dude complaining. Like I said. I don’t see any posts where women are complaining that men can’t get laid. I can’t even remember the last time I saw a post about women not getting laid.. but this whole page is men whining about how unfair their lives are. So 🤷🏻‍♀️ like I said… women do what they want and men get mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:42 AM
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I’m often astounded by the difficulty you guys have with the concept of beauty being subjective. I’m not attracted to the same portion of men that the next woman is.. and so on.. for each woman. I’m attracted to my husband. That’s why I fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:21 AM
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What the fuck are you even talking about? Lol. I don’t want the resources of men I’m not attracted to? I don’t sleep with men for resources I can get myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:03 AM
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Not seeing any posts here where women complain that men are single
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:58 AM
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I don’t sleep with people I’m not attracted to. Not being attracted to them does not make them ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:38 AM
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I think most people are just.. average. Solid 10-9s are few and far between. I mean like FEW and far. Not even 20%. I can think of one guy who’s a 10. The rest are average with some being a higher degree of attractive.. but still average. That being said.. very very few people are actually ugly. Not attractive ≠ ugly. With sexual attraction being subjective it’s hard to be so ugly that no one will ever have sex with you. Once you’ve removed the 1-2s and the 9-10s from the dating pool.. personali…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:57 AM
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This just in: Women do what they want. Men get mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:46 AM
1

Porn? Swingers clubs? Idk 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:51 AM
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Hot is subjective, but yeah. I know quickly if someone’s attractive. You don’t have to be exactly my type to be attractive.. and you can grow or decline in attractiveness based on your personality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:48 AM
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If men can’t control themselves then they are no better than feral animals and need to be caged for the safety of everyone around them. It also validates every rape accusation ever.. since men can’t control themselves then of course they rape women all the time. Jail men accused of rape with no trial since it’s impossible that they didn’t commit the rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:24 AM
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TIL ovulating isn’t real and I imagine being horny
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:22 AM
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You know what ovulating feels like?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:17 AM
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No no no.. we’re excused when we’re ovulating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:16 AM
9

I’m still stunned by the depths of stupidity in here tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:57 AM
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Don’t help random people who don’t ask for help. If you see a literal crime being committed call the police tf.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:00 AM
5

I’m sorry. No kitchen staff? And you took a wife? Guffaw /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:29 AM
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No carriages either, I suppose? Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:20 AM
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There was something special about the classic man. I can’t quite put my finger on it. Maybe old timey film just captured them in a way modern film can’t. I hadn’t heard that! I’m not surprised based off the vibes I get from him tho. He comes across as very “frat boy” imo. Not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:56 AM
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I agree. It’s the power dynamic life experience brings that makes the huge age gaps weird. But also Leo is reportedly the kind of guy who farts on people and then almost pees himself laughing so maybe super young women are the only ones who will date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:46 AM
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the classics Oh yes. There’s always space for the classics. A young John Wayne, Cary Grant, and Michael Landon (I have a thing for noses lol see also: Adam Driver, Lee Pace) Jason Momoa yells “yeehaw”. I cannot abide yeehaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:20 AM
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Yeah it would make sense if the listed contradictions couldn’t exist in the same person. But that’s not what women said. These men with their coexisting contradicting views exist and walk among us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:54 AM
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It leads me to never want to meet handsome celebrities tbh. I think Jensen Ackles is a solid 10. Absolutely gorgeous. But I’d be crushed to meet him and find out he’s intolerable. So.. I will not be meeting him. This also applies to interviews.. lost Jason Momoa that way. RIP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:48 AM
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I met my husband online. I was playing The Isle as an utahraptor and some cannibals attacked my pack. I escaped with one other utah and he invited me to join his discord server. I did. Days later I was playing Elden Ring and needed help with a boss fight so I hopped in the aforementioned discord voice chat and asked for help. A voice I hadn’t heard before offered to help me. He was on his second play through and made swift work of Margit. We got along and ended up beating the game for me togethe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:42 AM
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This seems like… common sense. A person isn’t going to be attracted to you if they.. aren’t attracted to you. Duh. But no. Being incredibly hot does not make up for being a prick. Hotness doesn’t cancel out abuse. Good sex might cause temporary blindness, but a pretty face will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:28 AM
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Yeah. I’d say I lean more demi than anything. But I’m not going to want to fuck a troll because he’s my bestie. It just means I have no desire to fuck famous men I’ve never met.. even if they are gorgeous. And I will be turned off by gorgeous men if we don’t “click”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:13 AM
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Ok. I’m anti whatever this post is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:20 AM
2

rubs my temples …what is it with this sub. Were you taking testosterone blockers? Edit: I know the answer to this question. Humor me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:04 AM
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No but I’m jacked. Good for you. So you’re telling me.. that with no professional supervision you injected yourself with a hormone at levels that are incorrect for your body chemistry and you thought “This must be how women feel”? You are aware that.. too much estrogen (or too little) fucks women up.. right? And too much testosterone (or too little) makes men emotionally unstable as well…. Right? You can’t just add extra hormones into your body and experience womanhood. lmfao. We are.. more or l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:29 AM
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Do you have to agree with me if I am? No. But it gives me more context for your “experiments”. Are you a medical professional?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:18 AM
2

That’s both incorrect and offensive to autistic people. If your statement were true, the number of women in male dominated jobs wouldn’t be increasing. Women make up nearly half of the people in STEM and the number is continuing to rise. My point was that the “assigned gender” of these fields is not stable. They’re subject to the social pressures of the times. What will your argument be when women are more than half of the people in STEM? Gender roles are fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:15 AM
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Are you transitioning?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:52 AM
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Did you know that nurses were originally all men? It was masculine to be a nurse. Now, for whatever reason, it’s feminine to be a nurse. Did you know originally it was feminine to be a computer programmer. Being a veterinarian was male dominated, but now it’s not. Explain to me how a field of work can be gendered outside of weird societal stereotypes. You think scientific break through are.. emotionless? Engineers do corny shit with robots all the time. You’re just biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:31 AM
12

Men are not dogs and people are generally very horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:50 PM
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Men are just as emotional as women. Just cuz it looks different doesn’t mean it’s not the same internally. Thats a tired dog argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:48 PM
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Here it says women are 2-3 more times likely to admit to suicidal thoughts and there’s female 3 attempts for every 1 male attempt. Idk if that’s what you’re looking for. It links a few studies in the article.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:20 PM
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Like the specific number? Doesn’t exist. But there’s 2-3 times more suicidal women than men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:15 PM
3

Yeah. The guys here. Not actual guys irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:59 PM
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Lmfao. No. That wouldn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:32 PM
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I second this. Silence is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:00 AM
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I’m not denying that some men do struggle. I know them. But we cannot ignore the existence of the ones who are fine in the same circumstances.. I know them too. I’m sure there’s more miserable than not.. but why are some fine and others aren’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:37 AM
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This you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:56 AM
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I’d argue that not many people exist that dont have some form of childhood trauma. Who decided which is damning and which isn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:41 AM
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The past matters, certainly. But coming from a shit childhood isn’t indicative of anything at all. Some people come out of that crap fine and weirdly well adjusted. Others need time but get there. No one is incapable of growth or change. Whole concept is butts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:27 AM
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OP is replying and then deleting his replies real fast so you get the email but can’t reply. For anyone who’s wondering why he’s not replying lol This you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:01 AM
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OP is replying and then deleting his replies real fast so you get the email but can’t reply. For anyone who’s wondering why he’s not replying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:01 AM
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Is this a warning label?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:56 AM
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Lmao. Crap take. Anyone can be shitty.. background is irrelevant. And also.. good luck meeting anyone with a perfect childhood lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:54 AM
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Boo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:50 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:26 AM
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That’s.. not what the first one was about lol. But go off, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:17 AM
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But why? If the government isn’t involved and won’t enforce such things.. it serves to reason they also shouldn’t have to spend resources to punish a woman for capturing and imprisoning the Chad who won’t pay for his child. Just as the government would do if they were involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:15 AM
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Plenty of men do care about children. You don’t. As is your right. But you are certainly not the representative of all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:11 AM
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Does this mean the woman would also be allowed to punish Chad for not paying?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:01 AM
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Here to support the idea that all women have had this experience lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:10 AM
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Unfortunately no. For whatever reason.. no. Doesn’t make sense to me tho.. I’ll stop a man and tell him he sucks before I’ll fake an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:08 AM
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Shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:04 AM
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I can’t tell what tone this comment is in.. but here’s a neat study. Also this was a neat read.. I bet you could track down the cited studies if you wanted. Also this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:03 AM
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And taught also that men aren’t emotional. But we all age and discover that men are just as emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 02:33 AM
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Yeah. Plenty of guys don’t do this, or only do it on request
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 02:32 AM
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Just to back you up here, I too have heard lesbians say such raunchy things about other women. I’ve also heard straight women say such things about men, but that’s not the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 02:29 AM
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I guess.. what about guys who are fine? Like the ones who don’t get laid often/for extended periods/ever, don’t have many friends, don’t do much.. And are fine? What makes the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 02:16 AM
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Can’t ever tell on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 02:12 AM
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/s?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:56 AM
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