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Good for him, I guess. So perhaps the take away here is that there’s a lid for every pot 🤷🏻‍♀️ Ron, in my opinion, is hideous. Hermione is pretty. Ron gets the girl. Harry is mid and so is Ginny. Draco was a cute kid but puberty did him zero favors AND he’s a prick.. married. Different strokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:57 PM
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Even if he wasn’t red pilled, you couldn’t pay me to talk to that guy. He just looks insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:50 PM
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This is just wrong. How someone looks doesn’t dictate how satisfying the relationship is. You just made this up entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:49 PM
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That just makes it sound like you’re boring and women only stick around after the oxytocin dump she gets from sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:41 PM
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Maybe in their teens/early 20s. You know.. just from lack of experience. After that we’re all pretty aware of what we like… kinda hard not to notice it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:38 PM
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….nah. I just like watching an enraged man beat the dogshit out of someone. On tv of course. Once you’re not a child anymore, the whole “bad boy” thing loses its appeal outside of fantasy. There are no “fixable” bad boys. Theyre just losers. And even with tv characters.. I don’t want to nurture him at all. I want to be the only thing that makes a terrifying man soft. If anything it’s some deep instinctual desire to be with the guy who would definitely go to jail if a stranger grabbed your ass. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:27 PM
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Uhhh.. they way they move their bodies. The way a bartender picks up a bottle. The way a knight rests his wrist in the hilt of his sword. The way a man stands. And tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:22 PM
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Does Draco end up with anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:20 PM
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Not unattractive. Just not relevant enough to give any thought to. Just existing isn’t enough to get my attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:19 PM
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Ah. I haven’t been on Reddit in a while. Crazy to be back here in fake fuckin imaginary bullshit land after being out in the real world for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:25 AM
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As a fairly attractive person who’s made money in sex work already.. OF is hard. And just not lucrative unless you’re prepared to be a full on porn star. I’m not. Ive made good money dancing but I can’t make money on OF. Not because I’m ugly but because advertising and content creation is really, really hard. And before someone says “anyone can be a stripper it’s easy money” quit your job.. take yourself to your local club (men can strip too) and work a couple months. Get back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:52 AM
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Or he can rape you and beat you and you have nowhere to go because the money is all his and no way to stop him because the police don’t care. Ain’t life grand?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:42 AM
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The government sucks. The people don’t tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 08:38 PM
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I get that. I’m the same way. Sometimes I feel dainty. Other times I don’t need no man cuz I am the man 💪🏻🤣 Beauty of feminine and masculinity, it’s a spectrum, not a yes or no. And interestingly enough… isn’t defined by how tall your shoes are 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:30 AM
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Lmao. What’s actually funny is that you, the man, are going to tell me, the actual stripper, what strippers want and appreciate. Because you.. stuck your dick in a few? Hilarious. Good luck with that attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:14 AM
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Some of the masc women out there just look like they’d make me feel safe 🥺 But yeah. You’re absolutely right. The only women who would think it’s feminine for an already masculine man to wear heels and do pole tricks are the ones also stuck in the system. I bet your man would look fly as fuck in a maid outfit.. and he’d still be capable of chopping wood and changing the cars oil in it too 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:10 AM
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Ok I’m sorry. If my husband put on my heels and showed the agility some of us do… I’d find it hot. That’s powerful. Male strippers do pole tricks.. they aren’t as hard barefoot. If you wanna impress me.. do it in heels. Also.. you’re just wrong. The type of men strippers date is just as varied as it is for everyone else. Some girls are dating doctors and some are dating trap kings. Some date feminine bi men and take turns fucking their boyfriend. Being able to do a sport.. with heels on.. doesn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:07 AM
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I am a stripper and plenty of us would be impressed by a man wearing 8 inch pleasers and doing pole tricks. It’s not feminine. It’s a sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:56 PM
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You live in Nola by any chance? 🤣 sounds like New Orleans to me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:53 PM
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97.5
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:44 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:42 PM
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So? He has a wife. That’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:36 PM
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I know he hunts. He just only hunts 10% or less of the time. In the wild the females will kill a male they don’t like. If they think he’s unfit to father their cubs or protect them.. they’ll kill him so a better male can take his place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:27 PM
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Link me to where you read that about lions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:05 PM
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Yeah. I meant do you have sources for your theories? Female lions do nearly all the hunting in the pride. They hunt as a group. They don’t rely on the male to “take down bigger prey”. Give me links to your sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:40 PM
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Here’s my question tho. What about people who don’t enjoy traditional gender roles? What about people who can’t have children? Homosexuals? And don’t say homosexuality isn’t natural.. It’s been well documented across the animal kingdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:01 PM
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What are your other qualifiers? The ones you’re gonna list when I tell you my body count is higher than 3 and I’m happily married in a relationship with more traditional gender roles and an active bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:45 PM
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woman also arent supposed to have a choice in sexual partner in nature. What evidence do you have for this? There are plenty of animals where the female has a choice. Tons of animals have complicated mating rituals where the male must impress the female for her to choose him. Heck, there are animals in matriarchies where the females are the leaders. Even apes have social structures where the female has the ability to make a choice. Bonobos are female lead. Chimp females rub their engorged genita…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:40 PM
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I’m sayin… wouldn’t have caught me dead with a frat guy in my early 20s. How annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:27 PM
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Right? Lotta victim blaming in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:09 PM
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Not 30. Not fucking the “bad boy”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:11 AM
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In case no one’s told you this, you’re a peach ❤️ (which isn’t a play on my username)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:41 AM
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Contrary to popular belief, if you wanna be my lover.. you will not be getting with my friends. My friends aren’t gonna tell you shit. Cuz 1) why the fuck would they? This isn’t highschool. And 2) you won’t meet them until our wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:10 AM
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Nah. All men are easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:53 AM
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TIL 50% of men can’t lay pipe
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:52 AM
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Based on the definition of the word gatekeeping.. you can’t even gatekeep sex. Regardless.. that’s not what the song is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 07:37 AM
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Then I’m afraid I’m not sure what you’re trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 07:24 AM
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I agree. I can’t think of a single time I’ve seen them touch. Or even sit next to each other. It’s very strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:22 AM
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I don’t know honestly. I never asked. Probably comfort at this point. They’ve been married for like 50 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:19 AM
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Are you talking about me or OP
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:04 AM
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Nah. If you love and value someone you respect their boundaries. You don’t cheat. You don’t hurt someone you care about like that. And also.. I could swear I’ve seen you talk about how women are starfishes. You need to fuck people you’re compatible with, homie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:12 PM
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Right? This post was a lot of dick stroking lol Jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:25 PM
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Sure. For $50.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:20 PM
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I’m posted all over the internet. It’s what I did for a living for a while. If you find them, you can use them. Tell me where he said “I find pics of super ugly women”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:16 PM
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My moms parents aren’t in love. He cheated on her for years and years. She knew it and couldn’t do anything about it. They had 5 kids. They’re still married. I’ve never seen them touch. I don’t know about my dads parents. We didn’t see them as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:15 PM
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Lmfao. Yeah. Those two things are not equivalent. Anyway. Show me where he said “I find pics of super ugly women”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:04 PM
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If someone else was using a picture of me in tinder to catfish men, I would not care. That doesn’t mean I’m going to send my picture to you. "Grannyfishing is a form of catfishing in which you pretend to be a decrepit old woman. It's a fun way to pass the time if you're bored. My current grannyfish is a 69 year old morbidly obese granny named Bertha in San Francisco. I have hundreds of guys in my DM's right now asking for sex. Plenty of them are good-looking too." Show me where “I find pics of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:55 PM
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A picture of me? For free? No. And no where in there do I see him calling her ugly. Decrepit means old. Not ugly. It’s just weird. It’s not bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:46 PM
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Swiping on someone isn’t a promise if anything. It’s not a guarantee. You can’t get your feelings hurt if someone doesn’t reply. They don’t owe you a damned thing just because they swiped on you. Sorry. "I find pics of super ugly women and catfish guys with them" yes not mean to Bertha at all He never said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:39 PM
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Tryna birth bloodhounds. Corner the market for humans who can smell cancer
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:31 PM
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You can’t bully people if they don’t know anything is happening. And you can’t bully people by being nice. He didn’t take berthas pictures and post her and says she’s fat and gross. He didn’t say anything mean about Bertha in the profile obviously. That’s not bullying. It’s just a weird thing to do. I wouldn’t be offended if someone used my pictures to catfish men. Be kinda miffed if they were hustling with my pictures tho.. like lemme get a percentage damn. Also. Silence isn’t some painful reje…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:17 PM
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Again. People not replying to you makes you feel bad? No. It’s strange, I’ll give you that. But you don’t know where he got the pictures so you can’t really pass judgement on that. Bertha might be AI 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:09 PM
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Reading about monkey sex was very odd. It seems like there’s consent to a point.. and females get a say. But also sometimes they don’t. Apparently a silverback might (seems to be a rare occurrence but I didn’t research it much) slap a female if she rejects him. Sounds human enough lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:02 PM
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You can’t bully people who don’t know anything is going on. And he’s not making fun of Bertha. Bertha is apparently a babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:55 PM
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Except we know he is wasting there time for a joke. Time they will never get back at there expense. Which is Bullying. Also bullying to the woman in the photo. She is real too. I guess I have different morals than you. Pretending to be some else and pretending to like someone for a joke is bullying The time they took to text a sentence to a complete stranger? Stop it. Your self righteousness is exhausting. No one was bullied. As far as they know she just didn’t open the app. That’s it. The 3 sec…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:42 PM
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When does faking attraction to someone for a joke not become bullying? Simple question you can't answer because it always is bullying. If he was a woman who swiped on them and then decided not to reply back? Nope things happen. If she did it as a joke? That is bullying. How would the guys ever know the difference? We know, because he told us. They do not know.. because Bertha didn’t reply. It’s not bullying. He’s not being mean to them. He’s not being anything to them. They matched and then Bert…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:35 PM
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So he's faking an attraction to people for a joke. Tell me how this isn't bullying when does this not become bullying. Simple question So you’re mad he swiped on them and then didn’t reply?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:26 PM
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It's not that serious my friend. I'm just a match on Tinder. They aren't suffering from lifelong psychological trauma because an old obese woman didn't give them a reply back. didn’t give them a reply back didn’t reply Idk man. Maybe there’s been a miscommunication.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:22 PM
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Heck yeah. Good for Bertha. The baddest of bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:16 PM
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If someone not replying to you on tinder ruins your entire life, you need to delete tinder and go to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:14 PM
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Chimps: Chimpanzees breed all year round, whenever one of the females in the troop comes into season. Female chimpanzees have menstrual cycles very like humans and come into oestrus every 36 days, unless they are pregnant. They give birth about every three-four years, after a gestation period (time between fertilisation of the egg and birth of the baby) of 8 months. A female may be mated by all the males in a troop, regardless of their social standing, who show no sign of competition between the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:11 PM
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You should read about bonobos. Absolutely ridiculous apes. mostly if not solely based on intrasexual competition for males What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:37 PM
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Eh. Depends on the animal. Plenty of animals have complex mating rituals where the male has to impress the female and she has a choice. Much like us. And then there’s ducks…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:27 PM
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I say it to dudes in COD lobbies. Does that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:13 PM
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I hear guys say this stuff to their friends 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:45 PM
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Did you write this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:24 PM
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Roll your eyes all you want. Your opinion doesn’t make someone a 10. Neither does being able to make money off their appearance. There are plenty of gorgeous people who work normal jobs and live average lives. Since beauty is subjective.. so are 10s. You learn that fairly quickly working in an industry based off your appearance. No one is everyone’s 10. Your qualifier is an over simplification.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:56 AM
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They’re out there. You won’t meet them tho. Trying to reduce my argument to absurdity doesn’t make me wrong lol. The person you want is out there. Fortunately for most people.. they aren’t that picky and just want to be treated well by someone marginally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:45 AM
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Love is built. Off a strong foundation. If a woman is dating a guy who doesn’t reach her standards.. that’s not a strong foundation. Leave her alone. Do you actually know? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:37 AM
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Share your sources
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:31 AM
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You replied to me. The original topic is me saying that there’s no need to settle. You don’t get to commandeer my comment and make it something it wasn’t lol He is out there. And with the internet, he isn’t hard to find. If that’s what she wants.. good for her. It doesn’t effect me and you at all. It’s not predatory. It’s not irrational. It’s just what she wants. So.. ignore her. She’s not your problem. There are plenty of women who don’t care about height. Those are more for you than she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:27 AM
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No. It wasn’t harsh. It was dumb. And you replied to my comment. We aren’t talking about what you’re saying. We’re talking about what I said. And I said.. not to settle for any less than you desire. Because what you desire is out there. If you want a man who’s 6’8 and makes good money and treats you right, he’s out there. If you don’t care about height and just want a nice guy, he’s out there. If you don’t give a shit how nice he is as long as he’s rich, he’s out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:04 AM
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Someone who does something that upsets you to the point of it being an issue.. is shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:41 AM
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A lot of people aren’t. But you’re changing the subject. Again, my advice to all women is to be as picky as you can. Don’t stand for shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:40 AM
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Learning to be happy with your own company is the best thing you can do for yourself. I suggest everyone learn to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:31 AM
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Lol. No. For free? Absolutely not. One thing you learn very quickly in that line of work is that you’re not everyone’s type. You said a 10 can make large sums of money off their looks. That’s me. But now you don’t think that’s the only qualifier.. now you have to see me to approve? You can’t add your own personal opinion as a qualifier. Regardless, is it not my opinion that matters? I married a 10. Whether or not he’s your type is irrelevant to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:29 AM
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But it does make you less likely to be miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:16 AM
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If that “actually never happens”.. wouldn’t that it’s all guys? Not “most guys”?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:02 PM
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Nah. It’s a specific type of nose it doesn’t vary too much. But the people attached to them all look different. Nope. No big nosed heroes in my past. I haven’t noticed there being any particular pattern. It’s just a specific shape. And it’s not Roman. I don’t like the super prominent bridge. Think.. Adam Driver, but not Adrian Brody. Max Riemelt, but not Joe Manganiello. Hugh Jackman, but not Tom Cruise. Lee Pace, but not Andy Samberg. Jeff Goldblum, but not Owen Wilson. Jude Law, but not Ryan G…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:44 PM
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What would you need to know for it to make sense? I can’t imagine what info makes having a very persistent preference for something completely irrelevant make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:57 PM
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The repetitive posts about men not wanting women with high body counts are tired and dumb. “Whores” get married every day. All the time. In fact, more men than women are single! Do all the partnered/married women have body counts of 1? No. So. It’s dumb. You can’t convince me anyone of value to me would give a fuck and I can’t convince you that counting someone else’s bodies is weird and insecure. I vote everyone shuts up about it tbh. And the 666 thing. Men won’t stop with that either. Shhhhhh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:46 PM
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Oh. I thought it was logical so there’d be some rational explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:38 PM
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Not according to them. According to them men are the exclusive gatekeepers of commitment and “whores” don’t get any commitment with anyone they actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:25 PM
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I’m exclusively attracted to men with big noses. I’d love to know why. Please explain
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:09 PM
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Until the fire nation attacked
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:33 PM
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Move into the mountains. Become a nomad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:30 PM
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It’s a bit early for the trolls, isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:24 PM
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Nah. No one’s out here getting married to subpar men out of some fear of being alone. Women are fine being single. That’s a stat. People get married and then get lazy. That’s the main reason people get divorced. It’s all sunshine and rainbows until you realize relationships take practice and work. A lot of people, especially men, won’t do the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:06 PM
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What strategy? If he’s no good.. dump him. Which is in line with the divorce stat you keep quoting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:51 AM
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Didn’t say it was. I said that being pinky will make you happy. Gotta dump him before the wedding. Save divorce costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:50 AM
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🤷🏻‍♀️ eh. I guess. But the very fact that either party can withhold either “commodity” means it doesn’t solely belong to one party. It’s luck of the draw. Maybe she’ll say yes.. maybe she’ll say no. It’s her choice ultimately. Because she’s the one being asked. And vice versa. If she asks you.. you hold the power. And if the men in this sub are to be believed.. men have to do all the asking 🤷🏻‍♀️ Calling any one sex the gatekeeper of anything is just a silly oversimplification.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:06 AM
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I don’t know any people who get dogs as companions to fill a void and then don’t buy them sweaters and feed them people food.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:56 AM
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Eh. I see it as more of a joint decision. But even then, everyone has turned someone down at some point. It’s not about the men being the ones who decide.. it’s about two people wanting the same things. With how many involuntarily single men there are.. you’d think it’s women who “gatekeep commitment”. Sex and commitment arent as valuable as you’re making them sound. In order for something to be valuable there needs to be a shortage of it. There’s no shortage of dick or simps 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:53 AM
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I would also like to know why getting a dog is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:37 AM
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Everyone has the ability to gatekeep both. It’s not men who decide commitment. Nor women who decide sex. You can ask me to be your girlfriend. I can say no. I can ask you for sex. You can say no. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:30 AM
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If it is men who are deciding.. why are so many single against their wills? Ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:24 AM
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I’ve found that if I am treated well.. my natural response is to treat him as though he hung the moon. I’m not sure I buy it completely, but there’s something to be said about the whole “his healthy masculine brings out your healthy feminine”. I’m sure everyone is different, but I’ll be humming in the kitchen if I know I’m valued and loved 🤷🏻‍♀️ If a man (or woman whatever) doesn’t make you want to sing and dance in the shower? He’s not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:10 AM
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I’d have to agree. I just explained to someone else that it’s not about “there’s always taller and funnier and smarter”.. it’s about treating her as well as you possibly can. If you won’t treat her like she hung the moon.. someone else will. And he doesn’t have to be taller to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:23 AM
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If that person doesn’t like you then they aren’t better, are they? You might not like it, but it’s true. There’s better. And if you can’t act right.. if you don’t treat your partner as well as you possibly can.. if you don’t strive to be better every day you’re lucky enough to breathe.. you deserve to lose. See, taller? Funnier? Smarter? Irrelevant. Not everyone wants tall or funny. Smart isn’t the same to everyone. We don’t all want the same attributes. But what we do want is to be treated well…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:21 AM
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Basketball players don’t dance. Getcha head in the game!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:13 AM
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No. My advice is to not settle for subpar men when better is guaranteed to be out there. Being alone is better than entertaining the unworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:59 PM
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That the version of human interaction portrayed by teeny bopper movies is always wildly inaccurate lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:54 PM
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I can tell you from personal experience to be picky as fuck. No matter what. Don’t settle. For anything. Ever. It turns out that once you meet that “perfect guy” his imperfections aren’t bothersome. If someone does something that actually bothers you? Drop him. Men never made much sense to me. I exist.. it didn’t make sense that I would be the only person alive with my values. It took what felt like forever.. I finally learned to walk away sooner than later because the effort and the crying and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:18 PM
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Don’t ever be more forgiving. Keep being a picky bitch. It’ll work out for you. Trust. And I’m not being a dick either. Totally serious. I should have been way pickier when I was 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:08 PM
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Go find adults to hang out with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:03 PM
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You mean in movies on the Disney channel?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:02 PM
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The guys on this comment don’t know that if you’re picky enough you will find someone who makes you genuinely happy. There’s so many people on this planet.. settling for one who doesn’t tick nearly all if not all your boxes is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:59 PM
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One mod? In one group? Did they provide screenshots? I have yet to hear of the Facebook groups ruining men’s lives. You got a link?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:43 AM
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I never admitted anything. Again. All I’ve said this whole time is that there’s nothing to be done but to be a good person and hope for the best. That’s it. If someone wants to attack you and try to ruin your life they don’t need a Facebook group to do so. That’s also not what I said either so let’s try that again. Why on gods green earth would your wife just up and divorce you because some woman is mad you won’t fuck her and made up a lie? Did you not tell your wife about this lady? What eviden…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:17 AM
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So what is your solution? Take down Facebook? Change free speech? If his wife just ups and leaves him based on zero evidence, his issues didn’t start with a bitchy coworker.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:55 AM
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What else to angry women say? He’s a bad lay? Also won’t hurt him. He’s an asshole? Won’t hurt him. Like? What’s your point? Why would a married man be on tinder for them to find a picture of him? Why is this married man involved with single women? I’m suspicious of this married man. I never said that. Reading comprehension isn’t that hard. I said that’s all a man can do as a measure against it and then hope for the best. Do you think taking measures against something will prevent it from happen…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:11 AM
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A women telling other women in a weird group on Facebook that you have a tiny dick isn’t exactly going to ruin anyone’s life. All I’ve said this whole time is that there’s nothing any man can do about it. So he should strive to live well and above reproach as a measure against the supposed shit talking. Which, according to OP, and the screenshots, doesn’t happen anyway. I brought up free speech, you brought up slander. All I did was tell you that that’s not a good argument against these groups. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:43 AM
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I think you can’t prove they aren’t so arguing slander is a waste of time for us both. Defamation of character claims are extremely difficult to prove in the court. As the plaintiff (the accusing), the burden of proof falls on you to prove the defendant (the accused) did what you’re claiming. No matter how damaging, insensitive, rude or inappropriate a statement may be, the plaintiff will lose if the statement is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:03 AM
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If the statement is true, there is no claim of defamation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:46 AM
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And your argument is.. against free speech?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:35 AM
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Well. When I was warned about a man.. they were never wrong. I should have heeded every warning I received. So. Good luck out there, chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:34 AM
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I’m not saying it’s a cure all. I’m saying you’re less likely to be shit talked and that’s literally all you can do about it. So be kind and hope for the best. Women don’t need websites to do this to people. I have received many a warning from the ex girlfriend. And I’ve written some myself. If a woman wants to ruin your life.. she’s not going to keep it confined to a post on a Facebook group no one important is going to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:31 AM
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Why do you think women might be unhappy? Hmmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:21 AM
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I’m not saying we should allow murder. Women coming together to call you a flake is a far cry from murder. You can’t stop women from sharing their experiences. Free speech and all that. The only thing you can do is live your life in a way that is above reproach. Women are not likely to be out here speaking poorly of men who treated them well. And even if there was one who got in there and claimed you were the biggest ass in the world.. Other women have conflicting stories. No grown woman is gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:13 AM
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Do you think that Facebook is the only place people talk? Is that what you believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:01 AM
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Lmao. Ah. Yes. I, as a woman, who has both been warned and warned others, I know nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:57 AM
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Not them. The guys in question. Them living their lives as best they can is not them giving women a platform. It’s literally the only thing they can do. And I don’t think the would be unfairly slandered. Don’t be a prick and it’ll be ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:51 AM
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How is you just living your life as best as you can “providing a platform” I’m at the point with this discussion where I’m starting to think that the guys who are worried about this.. have something to be worried about
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:37 AM
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I’m saying it’s irrelevant. You can’t stop them. All you can do is be good and hope for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:27 AM
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If she likes you, it will only be taken under advisement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:26 AM
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Don’t do anything shitty. Choose your girlfriends carefully. If all a woman can say about you is that you sucked, and there’s no horrifying details.. what’s the damage gonna be? It’s a ridiculous fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:26 AM
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What’s she gonna say that’s that bad? And do you want to date a woman who would take something that ridiculous seriously? She sounds like a peach.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:25 AM
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I agree. I definitely wouldn’t take a Facebook comment about being ghosted seriously. However, a comment about him being a woman beater? That could save a life. The groups have a function. I’ve definitely warned women away from men I’ve dated before. And I wasn’t doing it to be a jerk. Whether those women chose to heed my advice or try it for themselves isnt my call. But there’s something especially heartbreaking about hearing your ex is treating someone the same way they treated you. I think th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:24 AM
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Ah. So act like a dick anyway? No. Be as decent as you can and hope for the best. If you’re good to every woman one might have bad things to say, but another would correct that. Mixed reviews are better than only negative ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:18 AM
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Respectfully? With consideration? Chivalry? Politeness? In a way that no one would have anything bad to say about it? What kind of question is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:54 AM
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Makes sense to me. If these guys don’t want women telling other women that they’re irresponsible flakes that’ll ghost them right before a date.. Men need to pony up and not ghost people. Gotta communicate. Same applies to women, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:53 AM
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Treat women the way you’d want guys to treat your daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:47 AM
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Be a decent person? No? Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:43 AM
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The way I see it.. you can’t stop people from posting you. So.. don’t do anything anyone would say anything bad about 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:24 AM
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My therapist has helped me tremendously. Different strokes, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:50 AM
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I mean that’s what coping skills are for. It takes a while for some people about some things, but eventually you learn to pause and respond instead of reacting. People can sense poor attitudes. Lack of confidence. The usual suspects. They DO effect your ability to meet people/get laid. I have a friend who’s objectively stunning.. he works out obsessively.. educated.. makes 80k a year.. can’t get girls. And you know what? He’s intolerable. He whines and complains about women and talks about the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:38 AM
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Funny as fuck with such a nasty attitude? People pick up on that shit, you know. Also depends on the kind of funny. Some guys think rape jokes are funny. They aren’t. But sure. If it’s warm out where you are in 3 months. If you genuinely change your character.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:22 AM
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Why does the age of consent have to be legally 21 for you to let kids fuck kids and you focus on adults?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:17 AM
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Assuming you actually become bearable to be around? I’d give you within 6 months. Mainly because it’s still cold and people seem to go out less/be depressed when it’s cold. But if you fake it? Pretend to have a good attitude? It won’t work. Also assuming you aren’t obese or something and aren’t deformed. Change your attitude. Learn to light up rooms. Belly laugh. Give zero fucks about not being chosen. And of course, put yourself out there. I give it 6 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:17 AM
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Don’t look at it? I’m not attracted to 18 year olds. I don’t consume their content. Why are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:12 AM
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Forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:11 AM
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Sure. Anything you use to prey on people is wrong. I spent a day arguing with a weirdo the other day who didn’t understand why going to poverty stricken countries with traditional oppressive cultures and getting a wife there is fucking gross. The same way you don’t seem to grasp why pursuing what are essentially children is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:08 AM
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Surely he knows that very young people are immature, lack experience and common sense, and can’t be trusted to make sound decisions. It’s why they can’t buy liquor or cigarettes or rent cars. Where I’m from they can’t legally be sex workers either. So surely an older man knows this and knows better than to trust the judgement of an 18 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:06 AM
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The only people who say that are either young themselves, or would fuck minors is it wasn’t illegal. Which are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:03 AM
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No. I don’t. The choice is very simple and requires no other options. I’d rather be single. I’ve made the choice more than once to be single over being in a bad relationship. If I lost my face in a fire and never had another option.. I still wouldn’t take the abuser. You’re just being dramatic. It’s disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:02 AM
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Did the older man know better?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:00 AM
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How old is she? Old enough to be able to make fully informed choices? Has she got the life experience and brain function to be able to consider all aspects of the relationship? Or is she fresh out of highschool and still thinks love is all that matters?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:57 AM
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That’s because no one who’s been abused would prefer abuse over being single. But you CAN find women who have no options.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:56 AM
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Well. Only one of us is on Reddit whining about not being able to improve themselves enough to have someone who loves them. You asked for specifics, I gave them, you insinuated I’m stupid. It’s a rather predictable exchange with someone who’s got your attitude. Don’t ask for help if you don’t want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:55 AM
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Go find me a stable person who’s experienced abuse that would choose to be in an abusive relationship over being single. I’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:52 AM
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Choosing to buy OF under no one’s influence than your own is not the same as some grown ass 30 year old man preying on an 18 year old lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:50 AM
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The low N count nonsense. All women having endless options. Chad being an actual thing. The idea that average men don’t get laid. The idea that a man has to be 6’ to get laid. The idea that all women want all the same things The idea that all women are cheaters. The idea that high n count women will cheat. This whole sub basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:48 AM
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Low body count, I assume
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:45 AM
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There’s forums full of them. Go ask the femcels about their options and then come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:45 AM
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I give you a specific thing to work on and you resort to ad hominem. Enjoy your darling life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:44 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:43 AM
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Plenty of women don’t have any options. Ugly women exist. Undesirable women exist. Even if you don’t want them to because it softens your exaggeration. Am I’m telling you that a healthy person who’s worthy of a good relationship wouldn’t take an abusive relationship over being single. Therefore, that person needs therapy NOT a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:38 AM
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I'm so sorry for finding it frustrating when someone insinuates that my circumstance is caused by not working hard enough, and then refuses to specify what hard work is necessary to remedy it. Being frustrated and annoyed with condescension I truly the lowest of human behavior. Ooo.. aren’t you manipulative. Definitely need to work on yourself. There ya go. That’s pretty specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:36 AM
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Should be easy to post a link of an adult woman saying 5’11 is subhuman then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:33 AM
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Did an OFs creator come into your house/place of work, single you out, make you go to the website, and manipulate you into subscribing? Are you too young to know that if you buy something it costs money? I don’t understand your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:32 AM
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Can you link me to a post where adult women say they’ll outright deny a guy who’s 5’11? Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:29 AM
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You can’t speak on something you know nothing about. You can’t say that choosing to be in an abusive relationship if preferable to being alone if you don’t know what being in an abusive is like. You have no basis for your opinion. You need a basis to be able to argue. You have no leg to stand on. That’s not how debating works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:24 AM
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Then you have no space to speak on abusive relationships. Have a good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:05 AM
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Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:47 AM
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I was just talking to my sister about this. I can tell in the first 5 seconds if I’d fuck you. The waiting period is just me giving you the opportunity to talk yourself out of it before I can decide if I’d let you fuck me. Two separate decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:21 AM
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Nah. It’s your negative victim attitude. It definitely permeates your life. Do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:58 AM
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Ones a form of self harm and will ultimately make them less capable partners with more baggage and issues than are worth dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:47 AM
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I can tell based just off your comments that you have not improved enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:40 AM
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And those people need therapy. Badly. Not a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:37 AM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:09 AM
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In my experience.. They’re in the midwestern countryside. In small towns working blue collar jobs and farming.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:42 PM
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So from what I gather here.. this means that there won’t be any more posts/aggression about the whole 666 idea, right? Everyone’s gonna just stop talking about how bad the other’s preferences are, yeah? No more of this nonsense about Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:40 PM
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Sounds like he’s saying we can make sweeping assumptions about people. Since he’s saying that hybristophilia is just a trait of being a woman.. perhaps it’s time to assume all men are pedophiles. Same logic. u/warramite
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:26 PM
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The same way make virgins are judged for being losers. By other men. Women either don’t want to take someone virginity because of the risks involved or they’re Cherry pickers. Never heard of a woman thinking a virgin man is a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:18 PM
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Boohoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:03 AM
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You won’t get closer to easy mode being a prick, but you will save others from your company.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:00 AM
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Like I said.. My advice for you is to keep being hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:58 AM
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My actual advice is to remain hateful so no one ever has the displeasure of your company. But. Since I dated a short guy and asked him about his height effecting his life.. I figured I could share the relevant information. He was 5’4 and his dick was never dry because he was the most wonderful person to be around. Do with that what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:35 AM
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I think that’s what “It’s about personality” means. It’s the confidence to unabashedly be yourself and the ability to accept that not everyone is going to like you. Or even be kind. He was missing a canine tooth and wasn’t ripped. He was a welder so he was strong af, but it’s not like he had abs. He want particularly rich either. When he died in a motorcycle accident.. The city wept. They had to organize all the people that went to his memorial in shifts. Being short isn’t what’s holding anyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:54 AM
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I dated a guy shorter than you for years. He often told stories of women turning him down for being short. But he always said that once he stopped letting it bother him, he stopped being held back by it. He was such a charmer. Lit up the room. Everyone loved him. Had no issues meeting women. I imagine it’s just confidence and being ok with not being everyone’s cup of tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:45 AM
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It’s actually really super easy to make burgers that are better than fast food burgers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:05 AM
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What makes you think all women have men in their dms?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:03 AM
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Depends on where they live. If someone sues you and you’re broke.. it doesn’t just go away. They can seize assets and garnish future wages.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:57 PM
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No. They can sue the surrogate. It’s not as simple as all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:42 PM
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According to Wikipedia Plato’s talk on love was originally about homosexual men (seemingly pederasty). I found this as well. Perhaps that’s why people seem to have different definitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:38 PM
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Depends on the contract they all chose to sign and the state they’re in. I don’t know for sure, but I assume if the father didn’t want it and the mother very much did.. he could get a divorce, or suck it up and raise the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:27 PM
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Not really. Not after the papers are sign. Then it’s “her body, their choice” because that’s what she agreed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:15 PM
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I definitely don’t think all men who are your friend just want sex. I have a guy friend who outright refused to have sex with me after I brought it up years ago. I’d call that platonic. I have another that has simply never mentioned sex to me at all. They’re few and far between. Definitely possible tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:14 PM
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What would you call it? I’m not sure what the term is. But I do know platonic relationships can be loving and intimate, but there can be no sexual attraction. However. Having googled the word platonic to make sure I’m right, it seems platonic might mean different things to different people. I found several definitions saying that platonic means no sexual attraction (what I know it to mean) and I found others that stated it’s not a lack of sexual attraction, just a lack of sex. That contradiction…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:12 PM
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Actual surrogates are legally bound to fulfill their part of the agreement. If they fail to do so, the contract has the consequences outlined. She can abort the fetus. But then she will suffer the consequences. It’s complicated. It’s not as simple as just saying “here’s my body use it how you please”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:03 PM
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I think it’s true that if they’re your friend only to fuck you.. then they are not your friend. But I’m hard pressed to believe any man is keeping women he’s fuck around because he likes them and not in hopes he gets a chance. In my experience, men who don’t want to fuck you.. don’t acknowledge you. So.. there’s no friendship to be had Regardless. This dynamic isn’t platonic. Neither “would if it was offered” nor “it’s all I want from you” are platonic dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:45 PM
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Ah. But if all they want is sex and their friendship is all an act of manipulation to put themselves in a position to fuck you.. not a friend. I do believe the idea that if one person would have sex with the other, it is no longer a “platonic” relationship tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:41 PM
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“Selfish women” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:22 PM
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She signed away the rights to her body. For money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:11 PM
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They fertilize the eggs manually. Outside the body. Before implanting them. And you cant just become a surrogate willy nilly.. and surrogates are legally bound to their agreement. They can’t just do whatever. The legal ramifications would be staggering.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:10 PM
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Good god, friend. That’s so gross 🤣🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:42 PM
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This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:26 PM
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I think if you’d rather have chocolate ice cream with sprinkles.. you didn’t like plain chocolate ice cream that much to begin with. You liked sprinkles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:22 PM
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They’ll just do it to the next person. I vote we remove the problem at the roots
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 09:46 AM
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Not that it matters, but because the assumptions amuse me. My husband and I are both allergic to cats lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:25 AM
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Oh. I see what kind of person you are. Never mind lmfao. Pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:18 AM
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It has nothing to do with the race of the women. It’s about going to take advantage of how desperate women can be. Poor families are known to force their daughters into the sex industry in Thailand. Of course she’ll marry some guy that couldn’t convince white women (who are more free to make the decision since our families don’t traditionally force us into marriages for economic purposes) he’s worth anything. And why is that? I have to question the sanity and quality of a man who can’t get women…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:55 AM
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The significant lack of critical thinking and empathy in this sub never disappoints. Though, I shouldn’t be surprised. Since the dregs of male society are the only men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:21 AM
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Doesn’t stop the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:20 AM
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Because controlling women makes them feel better about their weenies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:01 AM
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I knew it!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:51 PM
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Ad absurdo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:44 PM
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I’d get you a terrarium with finest dirt money could buy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:39 PM
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Yep. I agree with this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:34 PM
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Why do you keep calling women “broads”? Are you in the mafia? Tony Soprano is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:34 PM
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Which is preying on them. Which is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:07 PM
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He went to a place where his skin color would make him seem like an opportunity. That’s not “being accepted”. That’s preying on incorrect stereotypes and a patriarchal, traditional culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:59 AM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:57 AM
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It’s not about the capacity to think for themselves. It’s about the culture. The country is still very traditional and still largely patriarchal. Dowries are still a thing and women are encouraged to marry up since their husband would be expected to care for her family. That pressure doesn’t exactly give a woman the freedom to make her own choices. The country is historically known for its discrimination of women, as men play a dominant role in this culture. This discrimination is most prevalent…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:57 AM
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Nah. Not as funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:02 AM
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You can’t use OLD. Most people aren’t even using it. Most people never have. If most people aren’t on it, how can it be accurate? The people who use OLD are likely to already be the losers of society. So of course they don’t get good swipes. The men on there are mid (and can’t advertise themselves worth a shit) and the women on there are likely totally nuts. Not really a good pool of people to draw conclusions from. Personally, I’ve never seen a “Chad” as he’s described out in the wild. I’ve see…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:18 AM
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It’s not really all the same. For instance, I think Adam Driver is gorgeous. I use him as an example because most women don’t agree with me. I think Jack Black is hot too, and a lot of women agree with that. There’s a very wide variety. I think Channing Tatum is really ugly. So is Ryan Gosling. Tastes in men vary so wildly from woman to woman that it’s hard to draw a line in the sand about what’s attractive and what isn’t. I don’t find Jason Momoa attractive. There isn’t really a place where all…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:57 AM
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Studies are nice and all but since beauty is subjective it’s not easy to define what the ideal look is. I’ll argue that being obese isn’t your looks because it’s something you can change. You can’t change your bone structure without money and surgery. Also no to steroids. That’s dramatic and a horrible idea. Great way to shrink your balls and give yourself a gut. Not ever woman wants a shredded gym psycho anyway. Kinda gross imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:39 AM
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Looks are irrelevant if you’re obese and poor. I’d argue looks aren’t as important to the majority of women as this sub says.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:12 AM
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Which seems like a relatively solvable issue. You can make 30k a year at Best Buy. And let’s get ‘em into the gym, plus cardio is free. I wanna see more joggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:04 AM
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I suppose. But the calculator saying he doesnt exist when he’s one of 3.. is evidence that it’s likely not 10-90. Is just a lame calculator.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:01 AM
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Don’t be too discouraged. It said my husband had a 0% chance of existing and he works with 2 other guys that are his equals 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:54 AM
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Here’s the post. And here’s this. Again, I didn’t delve too far into that. So if you find better numbers lmk. Idk man. Maybe I’m wrong. It seems wild to me that most men couldn’t meet those piddly little standards. But if it’s true that most men don’t meet those standards? It’s time for gym memberships boys cuz wtf. Also my original standards brought back only 6% cuz I marked it for white guys at 50k. It’s when I opened it too all races and 30k that it was 16%. I really thought 50k was more comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:39 AM
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It was on that standards calculation post yesterday(?) I think. I put what mine are at minimum.. at least 5’4, not married, not obese, at least 30k, etc.. And got 16%. I commented that that was absolutely ridiculous and the calculator must be rigged. Surprisingly, several men appeared with stats to back up the calculations. Idk man. I’m just the messenger. Sounds ridiculous to me. You’d think more men would fit into that category. Doesn’t seem like a difficult thing to achieve. I didn’t look ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:30 AM
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Same question. Gotta watch out for the quiet dorky ones lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:19 AM
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Why is it such an issue that some women know what they like? You certainly aren’t going to pretend the internet isn’t rife with jokes about “land whales,” are you? As if men aren’t very vocal about plus sized models becoming a more common thing 🙄 I gave you more recent data. I had this discussion yesterday. It turns out.. only around 16% of men are taller than 5’4, not married, not obese, and make more than 30k. Which is shocking, I know. But it sure did make the whole 20-80 argument make more s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:13 AM
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We love a good success story for regular people. This sub is such a joke 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:01 AM
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I didn’t say young men. I said men. Here’s some stats for ya Among men, the prevalence of obesity was 40.3% among those aged 20–39, 46.4% among those aged 40–59, and 42.2% among those aged 60 and over. When examining overweight and obesity trends across North America, more American men and women were found to be obese or overweight than Canadians. The prevalence of being either obese or overweight among American men (71%) was higher than among Canadian men (65%) In 2017-2018, around 43 percent o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:57 AM
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It’s genuinely one of the dumber things they say here. I don’t think I even know a guy who makes 6 figures. I did recently discover that a surprising number of men don’t even make 30k a year tho.. I assume they can get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:45 AM
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No.. been holding that belief for a while now.. avoided losers AND never caused me trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:43 AM
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I actually found out recently that most men are obese and don’t make even 30k a year. So.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:36 AM
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This just in: Women Like What They Like. More at 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:56 AM
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You didn’t get the email? We’re supposed to fuck everyone else but OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:34 AM
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There’s still enough men to go around with you gone. It’s unfortunate such a poor attitude has to be forced on anyone but better them than us, I suppose. Enjoy your grotesque racial fetishism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:30 AM
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I came here cuz incels are super funny to me (in a sad way not in a ha ha way) and the research I have to do to argue with idiots here is a great opportunity to learn stuff! Not a critical thinking skill to share among them, but gosh if the arguing isn’t a great way to pass the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:20 AM
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PPD is such a strange place. I love it here. Full of lies and delusions. It’s so intriguing to see how the dregs of society perceive their realities. Oh wait. Yeah. Boo women on PPD. Boo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:18 AM
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Dude be like “American women won’t have me so I went to a place with a culture that doesn’t let women think for themselves and I’m so successful! Obviously it’s American women that are the problem”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:14 AM
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Like attracts like 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:37 PM
2

then I met some of the people working the floor at my dads company
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:33 PM
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🥹 I love you. This whole post is low effort and not thought through. If all it took to live comfortably was looking good so many women wouldn’t be working.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:21 PM
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Necessary as in a guy won’t be able to get a woman unless he’s making 6 figures?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:15 PM
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Cheaters should be lined up and shot. That’s all I have to say about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:55 PM
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Nahhh. Normal man needs to hit the gym apparently. Obese ain’t the move.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:42 PM
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My shortest boyfriend was 5’4 so I’m right there with you. I don’t like sharing my husbands height on here because the dweebs in this sub like to weaponize that information but he’s over 6’. Tall guys are a dime a dozen. But guys with my husbands personality and our chemistry is worth it’s weight in gold and then some. sorry about the confusion! It’s ok! I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:01 PM
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Oh no I was definitely agreeing with you! I actually just asked my husband and he also works with a guy who’s taller than him. So there’s two. Definitely rare. But not that rare. So the other guys point is crap 🤷🏻‍♀️ But also id take much less than I got in a partner as long as they loved me. I’m lucky to have met my husband tho so yay us and our rare husbands!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:46 PM
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No. I meant I. Me. I would find him. Because my husband works with a guy who’s the same height as him same job and so on. Oh. Well. He works with a guy who’s his height and obviously makes the same and so forth. So. There’s an 100% chance I could find you another dude who meets the criteria. I don’t see from my comment to the guy who replied to you (and I think he changed his comment because I don’t remember that being what I replied to but oh well) where I said you’re pretending?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:41 PM
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Did you mean to reply to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:33 PM
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Do.. you think they parade their wives around and let everyone inspect them like a dog show?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:20 PM
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And Cardi B doesn’t? what’s your point here?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:05 AM
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I’m gonna go out on a limb and say that any woman who does agree to go on a date with Chris Brown either doesn’t know what he did OR needs serious mental intervention. No normal, well adjusted woman is going out with Chris Brown after what he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:00 AM
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I see these arguments that men are gonna give up on women all the time. “Oh just you wait for AI.. it gonna be over for you bitches”. And my response remains the same: Wanna bet? All this talk about how men are biologically programmed to reproduce. Spread their seed. Whatever. It’s all so important and excuses so much behavior.. until the robots get here? Good luck convincing your lizard brain that the robot is a viable mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:57 AM
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Because “you like your wife? Eeeeew”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:47 AM
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It’s unrealistic to state otherwise. There’s always someone hotter. Always someone richer. So on. The point is the active choice you make for your partner. And also not reminding them how replaceable people are. It’s more of a silently understood fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:34 AM
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I love this. Thank you for confirming something I’ve been preaching in this sub for a while. It’s more than 666.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:32 AM
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Adding a w to words doesn’t make your point any stronger.. just makes you look dumb. Mocking is a piss poor argument style. But go off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:01 AM
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Adding a w to words doesn’t make your point any stronger.. just makes you look dumb. Mocking is a piss poor argument style. But go off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:59 AM
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I agree with you. I genuinely don’t feel like it’s asking much to have an in shape guy with some kind of direction in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:17 AM
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I put in 30k and switched to all races and it’s still not many guys. So. Not being obese is attainable. 30k is attainable. Hop to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:16 AM
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Oh. Well. He works with a guy who’s his height and obviously makes the same and so forth. So. There’s an 100% chance I could find you another dude who meets the criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:14 AM
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Or. They can not take offense to someone telling them to fuck off. They should know by now that majority of men don’t take polite “I’m sorry, I’m not interested” and go away. They sit down. And continue bothering you. So when I say fuck off.. I’m just skipping all the potential steps in between (and plenty of guys still don’t take that hint) I want to be left alone by any and all strangers. I’m not interested in what they’re selling. And I’m not the only one. So they can either learn the necessa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:23 AM
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I didn’t answer your question. I added the view of a woman who hates being approached for more depth. Again. You don’t have to reply. It doesn’t effect me either way. Words on my phone screen aren’t invading my personal space and insisting acknowledge them. I’m not sure why the difference doesn’t make sense? Maybe I’m wording this poorly? Personally? It wouldn’t take any significant amount of fuck offs for me to learn that people don’t like to be approached in that manner. There’s a reason I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:11 AM
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No. You put yourself out for anyone to engage with you. You didn’t have to reply to me. The little notification on your phone didn’t require your attention and I wouldn’t have been offended if you never replied. That is not equivalent to me sitting at a bar. I have invited no one to speak to me. Just me being outside is not an invitation to bother me. And no. No one’s “allowed” to initiate interactions. If I say hi to a guy and he tells me to fuck off that is his right.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:51 AM
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I chose to engage with you. Had I not commented, you wouldn’t be speaking to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:40 AM
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Forcing me to engage with someone I don’t want to talk to when I’m not being paid to do it is forcing me into emotional labor. I don’t have to remove my elbows. I can say “fuck off” without looking at him and he can promptly fuck off. I don’t owe him acknowledgment or politeness because he has a dick and decided to bother me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:19 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:08 AM
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That’s not necessarily true. My husband was making 50k at 22. So there should still be a portion of younger men who qualify. My calculations werent calibrated to include men that young, however. Regardless, when I switched it to all races and 30k (which an 18 could easily be making) it was still the 16%. I see absolutely no reason for men to not at least be able to make 30k and not be obese. I wouldn’t be surprised if it didn’t actually boil down to BMI
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:50 AM
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That or their version of dad bod is roid gut 🤣 but maybe we have two different ideas of what these men look like. In their defense, I’ve know some genetically gifted men who weren’t body builders. But if we’re gonna only count pro bodybuilders as truly having “body builder physique”… no woman is gonna confuse Joel Stubbs with your run of the mill gym dweeb.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:44 AM
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After doing the little calculator thing in the other post and finding out that only 9% of men (of any race) are taller than 5’4 (mentioned because that’s damn near all of them), not obese, and make at least 30k.. are women really just “being selective” or do they just have Jack shit for options?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:35 AM
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Maybe. I couldn’t say. But there’s not a woman alive who’s gonna confuse a swimmers body with a “bulked up gym rat” since swimmers are lean and after looking at Michael Phelps.. do they have muscle definition where gym rats don’t? Idk. Bodies look kinda odd. Regardless. Not the same. And idk. My dad was massive. 6’4 heavy weight champion at a few competitions. World renowned? No. But definitely bigger than a gym hobbyist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:31 AM
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stares in my dad was a body builder my whole childhood and a trainer/dietitian
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:22 AM
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Eh. I agree with the commenter who said it’s not my responsibility to protect a man’s feefees. If you can’t read social cues.. you’ll learn. I’m not keen on doing emotional labor for people who are forcing me into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:12 AM
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I’m not good at finding the percentages of heights. Or I’m tired. Idk. But most men are taller than 5’4. All I found was that 5’4 is taller than like 3% of men. So.. height isn’t the issue in my requirements. Damn near every man is tall enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:10 AM
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Nah. If you aren’t rude they don’t go away. Hell.. even being rude doesn’t always work
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:02 AM
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I gotta say.. I think your comments are the cold hard truth. Maybe when we’re young we start out trying to be kind.. but at some point it turned into “literally go die somewhere”. Being approached repeatedly while being out ends up feeling like harassment. And harassment makes me angry. So.. yeah. I agree with you. It’s not my responsibility to coddle someone else’s feelings. They took a calculated risk and got told to fuck off. That’s their problem. Let me enjoy my drink in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:47 PM
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I put my stats in and got 0.537%. I am, yet again, doubting the validity of these calculators.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:31 PM
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Men need to hit the gym, I guess. Jeez.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:18 PM
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I’m about tired of saying something only for someone else to tell me I’m wrong about how I feel about something. I’ll say it again. Creepy is creepy regardless. I don’t care what you look like or how you’re dressed. Also, if they’re not being a creep anyone can tell me I’m sexy and it’s a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:15 PM
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Apparently I did it wrong and it’s actually 6% are white dudes who make 50k 16% is all races and 30k. Idk how I fucked that up. But I definitely find it hard to believe only 16% of any race are over 5’4 with a BMI of less than 30 and make $15 an hour. That feels like.. bare bones minimum. (Except height)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:03 PM
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I must have fucked something up cuz I switched it to “all races” and it came out 9%. So clearly I imagined 16% somehow. (I actually dropped it down to 30k and selected all races and it gave me 16.4%) Regardless.. that’s kinda sad. Not a lot of good options for women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:46 PM
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Does your math account for all the men above 5’4 or just the men that are 5’4?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:35 PM
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Based off the name of the website I’m sure it’s completely bogus anyway. I put 23-42, not married, white, at least 5’4, not obese, and 50k a year.. somehow that’s only 16% of men? Nahhhhhh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:23 PM
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Heck yeah. I’ll take a data point for the “regular people are doing fine” theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:10 AM
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I think that means you’re common
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:06 AM
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This is always fun. I like putting the stats of the men I know irl into it and seeing that none of them exist. It gave this message for my husband: “Warning: the sample does not contain enough individuals at the selected height within the specified age range, this result might not properly reflect the real percentage value.” Lmao. Anyway.. as requested: 16% “down to earth”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:21 AM
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What you're saying is Well if you already know what I’m trying to say (regardless of what I’m actually saying).. Why do I even talk? Silly woman.. having opinions. Back to the kitchen with me!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:44 AM
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The precious few women I’ve ever seen do that were also severely mentally ill. I’m not saying it doesn’t happen, but anyone who tries to mate poach is an underdeveloped psycho as far as I’m concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:02 AM
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After reading OPs replies… Troll post.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:21 AM
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Real good way to get killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:20 AM
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This. Creepy is creepy regardless of how attractive a guy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:36 AM
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Dudes gotta be a troll. Or a serial killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:56 AM
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Found the sociopath. What kind of relationships are you cultivating where this is true? I implore you to get some therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:54 AM
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Ah. The super smash bros parties 🤌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:03 AM
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Because this is real life, not a gender studies course. Homie. If you’re only friends with women because you want to bone them, you’re the weird one. Not me. In real life people have value outside of what their genitals can do for you. I’m sorry you don’t understand that, but clearly you aren’t going to be convinced women are people with vast, complex inner lives and more to offer than being pretty or a tight hole to put your dick in. Just like men are more than their dicks and ability to lift h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:21 AM
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Ay yo. This was the sickest burn I’ve ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:16 AM
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Who the fuck is out there saying that to peoples faces? Lmfao. Don’t make stuff up. If someone says “I’m going to murder you the moment we’re alone” you wouldn’t be around them would you? Huh? Dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 12:01 AM
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Can't be equal without testicle makes them lesser beings Ah. Troll. Did you decide to say that because you realized cis women can’t get vasectomies and you look dumb or was that gonna be the punch line the whole time? Either way.. we can’t take you seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:59 PM
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I’m more referring to extenuating circumstances. Your mom dies and you’re so depressed you can’t even think about sex for months. Your hormones get out of whack for no reason and it takes doctors a year to figure it out. You get in a car accident and the recovery is long and hard and you can’t have sex. You just don’t want to for a while. Whatever. You should be comfortable and secure enough to be able to tell your partner somethings wrong or you don’t want to without any worry of being abandone…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:45 PM
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Why are you friends with people based on their genitals and not their character?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:37 PM
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If you keep reading he ended up huffing about not liking what the word platonic means. So. He wasn’t arguing in good faith. Just being intentionally dense. Platonic love (platonic friendship) involves deep affection, but no romantic or sexual attraction. If he would fuck his friends.. it’s not a platonic relationship. He’s upset because he’s being treated like a friend by women he’s lying to about his intentions? That’s not a friendship. That’s not liking someone solely for who they are as a per…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:35 PM
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Finding someone attractive and wanting to fuck them are separate functions. Finding someone attractive and then silently fuming about them fucking other people is not how friendship works. That’s the fuck zone as someone else mentioned. Not platonic friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:54 PM
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I said, specifically, your best guy friend. Don’t try to be cute with me. I can go back and edit my comments to reiterate male best friend over and over but it felt a little redundant since I’d already established your hypothetical bestie is a dude for the purposes of this conversation. If you don’t want to fuck her. And you aren’t jealous of the men she’s fucking. Congratulations. It’s a platonic relationship. The rest is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:42 AM
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But yeah.. you know then.. 6’4 is weenie hut JR height. No one audibly gasps when 6’4 walks in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:36 AM
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I’m sorry. Are you telling me you do want to do those things to your bestie? Is your bestie an option for your dick? I apologize then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:35 AM
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You mean if I had no idea it was happening and he completely walked past me without being a creep? No. I don’t care what he thinks in his head.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:31 AM
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Idk how much more simple I can make this. If you are platonic friends with a woman, you would not care who she’s fucking. You wouldn’t be jealous of the men she’s fucking. Just like you aren’t jealous of the women your bestie is fucking. You don’t want to do anything sexual relationship centered with him. You don’t want to take him out on romantic dinners. You don’t want to lube him up and massage his glutes after a long day. Because he’s your friend. Not an option for your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:31 AM
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Idk if that was meant to be funny but I chuckled 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:23 AM
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Did you just ask me a question about how I personally would feel and then tell me I’m wrong? Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:19 AM
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I don’t care that you don’t like the word. It’s the word used to describe relationships with people you don’t want to fuck. Your relationship with your male best friend is platonic. If you woke up tomorrow and decided you were jealous that he was fucking someone other than you… it would no longer be platonic. Platonic means “not sexual”. Wishing your bestie was pile driving you and not someone else is sexual. See? He’s not your platonic friend. And I’d argue he’d no longer be classified as just …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:19 AM
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Yes. And platonic friends are the ones you don’t want to fuck. It’s really that cut and dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:10 AM
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You know how you have guy friends and you don’t want to fuck them and you aren’t jealous of the girls they’re fucking? That’s how you’re supposed to feel about your female friends. That’s what platonic is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:06 AM
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Question: Are you bisexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:05 AM
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No, bud. If youre jealous and want to fuck your “friend” then… You don’t consider them a friend. I don’t have to be a man to understand what the word “platonic” means lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:00 AM
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You mean like if I was at the store and a guy respectfully approached me and told me I was lookin gorgeous that day and then turned around and walked away? No. That wouldn’t be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:47 AM
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If a guy has lady friends and he’s jealous of the men they’re seeing… those aren’t his friends. He doesn’t view them as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:46 AM
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Are you fishing for compliments? Feeling a little insecure today so you decided you’d post something obviously not true just for a little pick me up? Obviously women just after men’s bodies. Read a romance novel. Watch a movie. Go to a male strip club (not the gay ones). Jeez. Call your doctor today to see if touching grass might be right for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:42 AM
1

This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:28 AM
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…no? Tf
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:25 AM
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So many dudes are 6’4. Just being 6’4 is not as impressive as you think it is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:22 AM
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Yeah. Gotta say being followed around the grocery store doesn’t exactly get the juices flowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:18 AM
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I like you! Where have you been in this sub? I just get called a troll when I say stuff like this. I will say tho that at a certain point people can be completely not sexually compatible. But that’s few and far between. I dated a guy briefly who’s dick was just.. too big. It sucked. Or. I once slept with a guy who thought humping as fast as humanly possible was the move. It wasn’t. I don’t care to teach anyone to fuck right. But.. I suppose I might have found other things we weren’t compatible w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:13 AM
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That’s why I think the question he’s asking is loaded. He’s not actually saying that men like women more. He’s saying that men will fuck women they don’t like as people. Women typically won’t. Which somehow means that men like women more? No. I believe that if you’re willing to fuck people you don’t like.. you don’t view them as people. They’re just a masturbation tool. And, as surprising as it may be to OP, women don’t like being viewed that way. So, I pose to OP that any man who feels this way…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:57 AM
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Maybe we both are. I wouldn’t try to take anyone’s man either. But to offer an alternative view. I don’t believe a man being taken is a good indicator of his worth. After having been alive for a bit and seeing so many relationships go south.. I don’t think a man’s ability to get into or maintain a relationship is indicative of anything. For example: my best friend has been with her boyfriend for years. They have a kid together. He pushed her to the ground when she was pregnant and treats her lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:49 AM
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attractiveness is relative Attractiveness is subjective. No two people view a single individual the exact same way. What’s specifically attractive to me may be completely overlooked by the next person. And so on. With every feature of a human. An example being: I like big noses to the point where you aren’t attractive to me unless you have one of the few specific large nose shapes I like. My sister doesn’t care about noses at all. Would you call a man unattractive because he has a button nose? W…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:44 AM
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Do you ever feel like maybe women who are attracted to men in relationships are just weird crappy people? It’s always so odd to me when people say that, I know it happens. I’ve seen it. But the women who express attraction to men in LTRs are usually a… specific… type
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:06 AM
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This is my question as well. If I paint my nails I’ll be exclusively doted on? Fuckin pass the nail polish 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:24 AM
1

Legos are so stupidly expensive. Gotta work double triple overtime for the deathstar alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:21 AM
2

I don’t have a Steve. But I have had Steve’s in the past. They existed because I didn’t have a choice usually. The guy at work and so on. Active backup plans aren’t necessary when men are so abundant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:09 AM
2

You know this from your extensive experience with being a woman, yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:57 AM
1

Low effort
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:14 AM
1

No. I wouldn’t care. It’d be nice if that is what was actually happening. Sure, it could be used (in your fake world where this isn’t highly illegal) for after a divorce, but more realistically it means we’re more financially secure than I know and if something were to happen we’d be ok. In a situation where I have to discover secret growing money.. I’d be relieved not angry. But I also believe in prenups being necessary for the better of partner. So 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:10 AM
34

After reading through some of the comments, I think this post is disingenuous. The question isn’t whether women like men as fellow human beings or not. This post is meant to imply that women aren’t capable of liking men because women are more selective about who they’ll have sex with. Meanwhile, men love women because men want to fuck all of them. This isn’t how liking people works. I like and love plenty of people I don’t want to have sex with. Not wanting to have sex with them doesn’t mean I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:35 AM
2

I like your words, friend. Here. This is always a fun read. Science is pretty neat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:02 AM
7

Don’t generalize. I know how to shoot just the same as he does. The intruder isn’t killing either of us and they aren’t getting out of this house alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:34 PM
1

Thought they where equal to men. They are. What’s that have to do with cis women not having testicles?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:23 PM
5

Why can't the women get a vasectomy Because cis women don’t have testicles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:52 AM
1

May the Nine keep their dicks dry forever 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:58 AM
1

You can’t ignore something you don’t know is there
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:42 AM
1

Or they don’t recognize them. We aren’t born with a manual
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:32 AM
2

I don’t have anything to say to you because we don’t agree on the fundamentals of the discussion you’re trying to have. I also don’t give a fuck about height and have no experience from life to point to any other women giving a fuck about it either. My first husband was under 6’ and most of my boyfriends after were too. I don’t believe being attracted to what can easily be considered children is comparable to height. Or breast size. Or dick size. Or anything. Because I view pursuing very young g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:32 PM
6

This is it. The dumbest thing I’ve seen in the internet today.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:11 PM
1

Ohhh ok. So height and being attracted to girls who likely live with their parents aren’t comparable. That’s what I thought. Further. 18 isn’t the healthiest age for pregnancy so being attracted to girls that young isn’t “nature”. I wish y’all would stop trying to justify predatory behavior by saying it’s nature. As if we’re animals with no higher consciousness. You clearly don’t understand what I’m asking though, so I’m not going to pursue this conversation because I don’t have the patience for…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:06 PM
2

Sexually attraction isn’t (or shouldn’t be) exclusive to highschool aged girls. Can’t remember ever having met a 35 year old women hunting 18 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:03 PM
2

I don’t think any of the guys replying to me understood the question lol. Hot, sexually actively women aren’t exclusively 18. There’s no actual reason to pursue such young people. But they don’t like to think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:01 PM
3

Ah. Here’s an answer that’s at least plausible. “For sex” isn’t an answer since sex doesn’t exclusively come from much younger women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:55 PM
9

No. You don’t need to prowl highschool graduations to get sex with beautiful women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:26 AM
8

Yes. Sex is not the reason. You don’t have to prowl highschool graduations to get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:14 AM
-4

That’s not what I asked
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:05 AM
30

People shouldn’t be allowed to use those words in that order on here. Age gaps do matter. Lordy. Also… What possesses a 35 year old to meet and pursue an 18 year old? Edit: since this seems to be very confusing for men, the question isn’t what makes you horny. The question is what is it that an 18 year old has that someone more age appropriate doesn’t? Hint: the answer isn’t sex or beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:05 AM
2

Nah. The video games themselves aren’t an ick. I’ve dated several gamers. What causes an ick isn’t the games. I had an ex who played cod a lot.. but he never really played with me. I love playing games and I’m not too terribly bad at cod (if I warm up lol).. he just didn’t want to play with me. And it sucked. I ended up not liking that he played all the time. My husband now, we met playing video games and we do it together almost everyday for hours on end.. and he’s constantly on the hunt for ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:18 AM
2

I’m glad the system worked for you. What does that have to do with the topic tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:58 AM
2

Restraining orders are easier to get. She had the police report from that night to prove she had cause to fear him and got a decent judge. Thankfully. Always encourage people to try to get restraining orders even if they can’t get a conviction. You never know how the judge is going to be feeling that day. I had an ex who stalked me for a long time and tried to pay people to beat up my new boyfriend and left scary notes on my car. Unfortunately not enough for a restraining order BUT I got a good …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:54 PM
3

I almost missed the /s tone 🤣 She was so defeated after they finally decided not to go after him for the rape. She did everything she could. Spent so much time talking to lawyers and documenting every step of her medical care. She went to therapy and spent a lot of time in one of those women’s crisis centers. She got a restraining order (which did go through thankfully) and everything. Still not enough. He got out of jail for the drugs last year. The prison system called her with an automated me…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:46 PM
2

Not for nothing but my best friend was assaulted by a “friend” on a back street. She fought so hard she broke her hand and he broke her nose head butting her. She tore and bled. She was wearing a heart monitor at the time and he tore it off her and left it on the side of the road (proving the location). There was even an eyewitness who came forward. She went to the hospital afterwards and filed a report and did a rape kit. She got the run around from the courts for 2 years. He was not convicted.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:38 PM
0

Are you a chronically single 50 year old? Cuz you sound like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:22 PM
5

Same logic applies
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:05 PM
6

I thought the question was about if someone’s chronically single? Meaning.. never married? Smart ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:58 PM
13

During youth? No. But if you’re involuntarily chronically single in your 50s? I’d call that a red flag at this point in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:51 PM
1

I used to think that too. And then I turned 12.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:41 PM
4

You mean how does a man make a ONS enjoyable for a woman? I assume it’s some combination of swallowing his pride and acknowledging that he doesn’t know how to make her cum.. so he needs to communicate and listen.. and probably have an educated understanding of the basics of a woman’s body. Ask her what she wants before jumping immediately to PiV. You know, effort. Prioritizing her pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:58 PM
6

Women are not socialized to act like cats in heat. That doesn’t mean women don’t want good sex as much as a guy. Finding decent dick is, arguably, harder than finding good pussy. If a man picks a woman up at the bar it is almost guaranteed he will cum for just one sexual encounter. The opposite is true for women. Why lower your standards and give in to your urges when you know you probably won’t be getting off anyway? Might as well stay home and do it yourself. Doesn’t mean she’s content to be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:52 PM
7

I feel confident enough to say that all heterosexual women enjoy/desire good sex with good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:40 PM
3

All evidence excluding the women who disagree with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:35 PM
10

It’s.. almost like.. everyone’s different..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:00 AM
2

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:02 AM
11

Stand up isn’t for you. Don’t quit your day job.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:15 AM
-5

Skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:26 PM
3

Ah. A polycule.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:22 PM
1

Ok. Guys who don’t have those red flags abandon their children all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:50 PM
1

They’re performing a service. So. Not useless. Unless you can’t afford them. But then.. that’s a skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:23 PM
1

the useless prostitutes Prostitutes, by definition, are not useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:07 PM
1

Do that. And then stay there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:03 PM
1

Promise to degrade me there too, daddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:38 PM
1

Why do all of you resort to that? Lol. “Oh yeah? Well no one wants to fuck you anyway cuz you’re a doodoo head” ok, buddy. Projection isn’t your color.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:20 PM
1

The guy you described is a felon lol. A guy with multiple baby mommas is an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:56 PM
1

I’m just asking because you seem to think women are stupid children for getting pregnant but men aren’t stupid children for getting them pregnant. I’ve been having sex for a long time.. I have no children and no abortions. It’s really not that hard. I believe in you, tater tot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:48 PM
1

Do you know how conception works?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:38 PM
1

No. We don’t. The man had his chance to not have a baby. He took an educated risk. He failed. He now must deal with the consequences. If he was careful, she’s the kinda girl who will get an abortion. If he was an idiot.. he’s a father now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:10 PM
1

If the woman does, so does the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:03 PM
1

This is true. There is no “it’s my birthday so I get a free pass to be a dick” rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:00 PM
1

I’m literally telling you men have every opportunity not to have a child. You’re asking me if im ok with men having no rights or whatever. Im telling you they have plenty of rights. They’re just too selfish to think ahead. Im completely supportive of women doing whatever they want and then men have to help their child. I didn’t make the law. Im not the one you need to be pointing fingers at. Im just telling you any man who has a child he didn’t want is an idiot because children are very easily a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:00 PM
1

You also had the option not to. You forfeit it for a lil pussy. Now look at you.. a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:50 AM
1

You’re aware of the consequences and yet you partake anyway? You forfeit your rights the moment you accepted the potential for a pregnancy. You entered that known arrangement fully educated on the matter. You don’t get to be a little titty baby because you knew what could happen but didn’t think it would happen to you :( don’t cum in women you don’t want a baby with. It’s really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:49 AM
1

I never said it did. Again: are you aware that if you have sex with a woman and she gets pregnant she may keep the pregnancy and there’s not shit you can do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:44 AM
-9

If you don’t want people to call you an asshole on your birthday… don’t be an asshole every other day of the year
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:43 AM
1

I didn’t make the laws, bub. Let me ask you this: Are you aware that if you get a woman pregnant, she may decide to carry it to term and there’s not shit you can do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:41 AM
2

Not every woman lives in a place where she can get access to an abortion. Not every woman had the funds to afford one. Not every woman catches the pregnancy before the “heartbeat bill” comes into effect. Not every woman is comfortable with getting an abortion. The point is: you, as the one with the semen, had every opportunity not to cause this pregnancy. The consequence of you not taking making absolutely every effort to either avoid pregnancy or on potentially impregnate someone who would want…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:30 AM
1

I answered your loaded question with my comment right before you asked it. Didn’t think I’d need to repeat myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:26 AM
1

It’s not a circle. You just refuse to address my very valid point so you’re deflecting. It’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:11 AM
3

Lmfao. You think only felons dip out on women? Naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:10 AM
6

Can you at least come up with a creative troll? “Your moms a ho” is literally a vine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:05 AM
1

Some people think abortion is murder 🤷🏻‍♀️ once the conservatives get their way and make it illegal, what will be your excuse for shitty men then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:04 AM
1

It’s literally that simple tho. Don’t want to pay child support.. don’t cum in women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:03 AM
1

Don’t cum in women 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:47 AM
2

Unfortunately for her, she is his.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:46 AM
2

Creative
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:46 AM
3

Just like, you don't deserve mercy from the incel you created lmao I personally created an incel? What’s their name?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:41 AM
1

Your right is to choose someone who views abortion the same as you, wear a condom, and buy a plan b. If you don’t plan ahead you end up paying for a child. A woman only gets pregnant if you cum in her. Don’t cum in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:40 AM
2

A woman came in herself? That’s wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:38 AM
2

If not getting your dick wet makes you actually kill people, you don’t deserve sex to begin with lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:37 AM
1

Because getting pregnant from a one night stand is on purpose lmao. What recourse does he deserve? He brought a person into the world. He now needs to help pay for the things that child needs to make it to adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:29 AM
1

On what planet are people purposely having kids with people they think will abandon them? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:20 AM
2

No one said that. But it takes 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:19 AM
3

Darn it! And here I was thinking since I told him about it when we started dating (and then we kept dating and he married me) that it didn’t matter!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:31 AM
3

Phew. Ok good. I wasn’t feeling very confident about being able to kill him. I’m pretty small compared to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:03 AM
2

Damn. I guess I better go kill my husband. Gotta return order to the universe. Thank you, sensei.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:01 AM
1

If you tell him you like how he degrades you and you love spending time with him and call him pet names, he mellows out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:59 AM
1

You just explained why the women aren’t noticing so idk what point you’re trying to make. Assholes don’t ever start out as assholes. And by the time it’s obvious.. it’s too late. My mom hasn’t reported it. He “gets around to it” often enough to keep her from calling
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:58 AM
2

Damn.. what a high quality guy again? Remind me? Is it young, tall, good looking, and gainfully employed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:47 AM
2

That’s like a white person saying “I have a black friend so I know about racism” lol And he cashed in all their stuff to buy a business that failed. So. No. Edit: that typo sucked lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:46 AM
1

Damn! Recreational use? Not marriage material huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:40 AM
3

What is this supposed to mean? Is it code?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:32 AM
2

Date a lot of dudes, have ya? My dad is a piece of shit abusive narcissist. I’m surprised she tried to make it work that long.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:31 AM
2

Do you see men wearing signs that say they’re shitty and should be avoided? I don’t. My parents were married for 30 years. Finally got divorced. He refuses to pay child support for my youngest sister. THIRTY YEARS. Woman can’t see the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:18 AM
2

If all the women got together and just.. stopped having sex with men.. they’d get real pleasant real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:09 AM
4

It’s the woman’s fault for picking a crappy man not the man’s fault for being a piece of shit. Being a piece of shit is ok and to be expected. Women have to compensate for that because men can’t function as adults. God. This is so dumb. I hope sexlessness continues to rise and NONE of y’all get laid ever. It’s a literal wonder any of y’all get laid at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:08 AM
5

Bitch what nothin. It takes two people to put cum in a pussy consensually. The whole “she let him cum in her without making sure he wasn’t a loser by being a mind reader so it’s her fault” is such a stupid argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:05 AM
0

If you aren’t pro life.. and you fuck a pro life woman and she gets pregnant.. you’re an idiot and should have to pay for the betterment of the poor child you just have 2 braincells to. “Not accessible everywhere” and “not accessible anywhere” are two different statements and you clearly can’t read so have a good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:13 AM
2

Ah. You’re just one of those low IQ “want to see the world” burn guys. Go try acid and have an ego death.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:01 AM
2

lol. I’m not excited. You’re the one who’s mad that actions have consequences for both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:00 AM
1

Lmao. No? Don’t have sex with people who don’t agree with your views on abortions. If a baby comes into existence.. You get to pay for it. And. Abortions aren’t even actually accessible everywhere anymore so that argument doesn’t work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:59 AM
2

The fuck even is a “bad boy” what fuckin romance novel are you reading? Who are you preaching to? I have zero children and married a nerd. You need to calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:55 AM
2

There’s nothing to counter. Women cant read minds and can be manipulated like anyone else. You’re just being an aggressive asshole for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:53 AM
2

Did I mention anything like that? Go fight with the people who actually hurt your feelings lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:48 AM
2

Men don’t wear shirts that say “if I get you pregnant I’m gonna bail on you”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:46 AM
3

No. It’s on him for being a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:45 AM
2

So he should have to pay child support
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:43 AM
3

No one’s speaking about randos exclusively, but I like how you completely excuse the dudes reckless behavior even tho the woman in your fantasy took every precaution possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:42 AM
6

This conversation is always so interesting to watch unfold. Men genuinely don’t think them cumming in someone is their responsibility. “Well she let me so it’s her fault”.. they really shouldn’t be allowed outside of their moms house.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:38 AM
5

This post is really just highlighting why women should not be having sex with men. Goodnight
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:35 AM
3

lol. Does the one who’s pregnant and gives birth to a child have any responsibility? I dunno. Lemme think on that one. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:32 AM
1

It’s the reason the whole “top 20% of men get all the women” thing doesn’t make sense to me. Like you said, everyone likes something different than the next person. My “so hot it makes my toes curl” is your “ugly even amongst civilians”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:54 AM
1

Unfortunately i don’t have an in-depth answer for you. I like big/sharp noses. He has one of the types of noses I like. I think he’s gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:48 AM
1

I don’t want online friends. They don’t have to stay online friends. That’s how I met my husband. The defeatist attitude is kinda a bummer, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:31 AM
1

She thinks they’re hot. We have completely different types. Hers is heroin chic. I can’t even think of an example tbh. Think really skinny, hairless, kinda look ill guys.. remember early 2000s emo band boys? Them. I’m more of an Adam Driver/Jensen Ackles girl, myself. Very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:26 AM
1

I looked at your profile super briefly. I’d call ya a dweeb lol. I’ve got a receding hairline Supposedly beards and balding are signs of extra testosterone. If you’re big enough you can potentially pull of the Viking vibe 🤷🏻‍♀️ But if you’ve got money, maybe try the hair growth pills? I know rogaine works.. it’s just never looked like it’s any fun at all to have to do that everyday. I’ve done stuff like this I still recommend trying it with strippers. Different environment. If nothing else it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:10 AM
2

What kind of awkward? Autist level? I assume you’re a nerd based off your profession, are you just dorky and uncomfortable? taller than average That’s cool. But your face. Is it average lol like are you covered in acne or have a terrible haircut or something? I’ve given up I might get downvoted for this and it’s just an out of pocket suggestion.. but since money isn’t an issue.. go to a strip club and literally ask the girls what you can do. Tell them they won’t hurt your feelings. Buy her a dri…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:10 AM
1

Are you saying you’re super awkward? Or? Sorry to ask, but are you average looking? Fit? Do you think you need practice talking to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:03 AM
1

Software engineer What’s the education like for that? I deleted them all I fucking hated OLD. How old are you? Why do you think you’re failing at finding women through hobbies/sports
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:45 AM
1

Can I asked what specifically you do in tech? Also maybe you could explain what it is you do actually do to try and find a date? Do you go outside? Only OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:42 AM
3

The more I see these ridiculous misinterpreted/exaggerated stats preached as gospel truth the less empathy I feel for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:31 AM
7

We actually have special Scouters we use to tell which men have power levels over 9000.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:23 AM
2

“Are you tired of waking up in bed with a bunch of cold bolts? RoboJennifer now comes complete with water heated skin for maximum realism. (Warm feet not included)”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:42 AM
2

I think they would initially. But eventually they would find themselves yearning for something more. Sure most people have the biological need to fuck.. but people forget that’s not all we’re looking for from each other. At the end of the day, a robot can tell you it loves you, but it’s always going to be cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:36 AM
2

Idk man. Something about “programmed to love/entertain me” just doesn’t sound as fulfilling, ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:06 AM
0

There are genuinely ugly people. But they’re the extremes and aren’t common. And there’s stories of them finding love too. The majority of people aren’t ugly, just average or need to make a simple change. Such as the basement dweller meme guy.. he only needed acne cream and better glasses. He looks fine these days and there’s even a picture floating around of him with a woman laying on his chest.. You’re either Jensen Ackles or you’re normal. And there’s only one Jensen Ackles.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:57 PM
1

Sex toys do not replace human connection lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:49 PM
0

I’d argue that whole “only the biggest and strongest survive” rule would leave the same sad men here maidenless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:15 PM
1

Hard agree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:48 PM
1

I’m not sure about height because I’ve never cared and none of my friends have. But this theory is definitely true for big dicks. I spend my youth thinking I wanted a huge dick.. ya know cuz everyone acts like it’s so great. Finally dated one.. hated it. Dumped him in part because of how big he was. Shit hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:21 PM
5

This made me laugh. My best friend is out there giving the ugliest men chances. Oof 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:18 PM
1

Because it’s weird to care what someone did with their in their past that has no effect on you at all. Just don’t ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:12 AM
1

You can’t even see the other half of the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:01 AM
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I’m actually 98.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:48 AM
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They will call you a liar and your wife an old whore shrug. I met my ex on a new years.. yeah he was 5’4 but he was wearing a gold embroidered vest and a top hat 🤣 the sad men in this sub could never. I could see how surface TRP might make sense more as guidelines. But once you get deep into all the crazy theories and ridiculous terminology, it’s all wrong. If one were to meet a woman like how they describe all women we’d all immediately know she needs some serious mental health intervention.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:10 AM
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The happiest women I’ve ever known are the ones who didn’t have kids (not that there’s anything wrong with having kids.. fuckin salute to the women who have the constitution for it). They’re all fun, eccentric, happy women. That’s the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:52 AM
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No. It’s because it makes it easier to argue on here if people don’t comb through my comments to find information and go “AH HA! Here’s my new assumption that I won’t budge from”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:46 AM
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Yeah. The age theory is stupid. So is the body count theory. I get that religious people value chastity, but your average Joe doesn’t care. My life experience has been “everyone’s so vastly different that you can’t truly pinpoint a trend.” My husband is a giant. But I wouldn’t have met him if my 5’4 boyfriend hadn’t died, ya know? Id definitely be married to a little guy. The people here are also super quick to call out anecdotes, but at a certain point.. if everyone’s got the same anecdotal exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:40 AM
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Mainly because I don’t want to list the ages of men I’ve dated so you can count them and call me a whore instead of having a conversation with me. Or I’ll start getting replies from other people calling me a whore. Same reason I don’t reveal my age (it’s not 32). Dudes here are mean af. Here.. when I was 23 I dated a guy a year younger than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:04 AM
3

Read it again. I didn’t only date 3 guys in my early 20s lol. There’s younger men or men exactly my age in the history of my early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:57 AM
3

Fuckin more power to us. This sub would like to pretend we don’t exist. (We as in women married to younger men and vice versa)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:47 AM
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Some guys just like em older, it seems 🤷🏻‍♀️ my husbands brother married a woman 7 years older. Divorced her and is dating someone older than his ex wife! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:37 AM
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No. They were mostly my age. Within 3 years older or younger. One was 7 years older. One was 15 years older, not 15+. He was the oldest and it was only him. Don’t exaggerate my words to fit your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:36 AM
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Oh I see. I read that wrong. In my early 20s.. let’s see. My first real relationship I was 18 and he was 21. Most of my boyfriends after that were my age up to one guy who was 15 is years older (he was also 5’4). A few guys that were younger too. Then I married a young one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:22 AM
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God this shit is so tired. Not everything is about kids. If a woman makes it to 40-50 without kids.. it was on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:04 AM
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I don’t understand the question. He was clearly a teenager when I was in my early twenties. That’s how 5-6 years younger works lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:45 AM
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I prefer not to say my age on this sub, but there’s a a little over 5 year difference. 6 years briefly before our birthdays lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:27 AM
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Eh. Generalizing is just dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:18 AM
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My husband is younger than me 🤷🏻‍♀️ anecdotally, of course
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:17 AM
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24 year old would be having consensual sex with a 14 year old Children are incapable of giving legal consent. No matter what they say.. it’s not valid consent. Just like drunk people can’t legally give consent. It’s absolutely bewildering to me that you STILL don’t know what consent means. That must be why you’re insisting that words don’t have set definitions. You don’t know what consent is. You just keep arguing with me about the existence of homonyms. Like.. you’re genuinely so dense that you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:15 AM
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That’s what I thought lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:47 AM
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Are you 22? Only young adults think young adults are good at making solid decisions. Let’s talk in a few years, kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:40 AM
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Who pissed in your cornflakes? I said if a man wants a family he needs to start young and get himself a young wife and make it happen. Not live his whole life and then snatch up some 18-22 year old who doesn’t have the life experience to know any better and take her youth from her.. obviously you either are or want to be the selfish creep I’m referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:22 AM
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And you’re a titty baby on my comment whining about some shit I didn’t even say. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:17 AM
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The conversation is about older men and “fertile” women. Everywhere on this sub “peak fertility” is 18-22 (it’s not). We aren’t talking about 30 year old women. Nice reach tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:13 AM
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It’s the not wanting kids.. it’s.. getting to me dies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:42 AM
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If a man is going to want a big family, he should pursue that early on as well.. find a woman his age in his early 20s and get started. A grown ass man who’s had his fun and lived a life without children deciding to settle down with a girl who hasn’t had the chance to experience anything and then pumping her full of kids so she never does.. is bullshit. And predatory. Also if a woman doesn’t want kids, telling her she’s gonna regret it is pointless and super annoying. Edit: which one of you repo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:08 AM
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You can have my share!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:29 AM
0

Yeah. Most peoples idea of an “alpha” is intolerable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:02 PM
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Not for me, at least. Fuckin hate “alphas”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:29 PM
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That I’m having conversations with people about body counts? If you go back further I spent lots of time the other day explaining that marital rape is real. I’ve spent a few days discussing consent. Reddit isn’t the same meeting someone or being on a date. Not a good gotcha. You didn’t answer my question lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:56 PM
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Potentially. But the number itself is not the issue. Humans are all so vastly different it’s not possible to judge anyone accurately based off one or two aspects of them. It’s what makes statistics on those sorts of things so annoying. They simply can’t be accurate. A study with 14000 people doesn’t have enough diversity to be able to represent the entire population. Suuuuper small potatoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:53 PM
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human biology It’s not human biology. It’s trends and culture. The number of people doing or not doing all kinds of things have changed dramatically since then. It’s simply not recent enough to reflect today’s society. Get a more recent source, at least. I’m married Yeah? And that makes you the local woman expert huh? No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:48 PM
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I guess at least it’s not 3. I think you’re better off being wary of why some peoples body counts are so high and not the body counts themselves. Is it high because she was sleeping with people for drugs? That might be a problem.. not because of the body count, but cuz of the drugs. Regardless.. If a woman loves you, she’s not going to be day dreaming of wieners passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:42 PM
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What’s a party girl to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:36 PM
1

How many bodies is “high”?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:36 PM
1

I know you think that. But that sounds like paranoia. People honestly just aren’t very memorable. There are people I’ve dated that I can’t even tell you what they looked like.. and I liked them. You’d have to have some form of an eidetic memory to vividly remember sex from years ago. I googled it. To be sure. But sexual imprinting isn’t like “oh I imprinted on this specific guy and now it’s him forever”. It’s about your parents. Which is absolutely horrifying tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:16 PM
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I’m in my late 20s (depending on how you define that, I guess) 1.5 years. Little over 2 years. Little over 3. And then on and off for about 4. My longest singleness was a 1.5 years. I actually used tinder for a week once. Met two guys. One ended up being a friend. The other was so creepy I never used the apps seriously again. Fun to swipe around tho. I asked for people’s best pickup lines in my profile. Hilarious. Whatcha got for me? No looking at my profile and cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:59 PM
2

How? Cerebro?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:55 PM
1

For sure. But it’s ultimately about as memorable. I can’t imagine many people have the ability to hold onto memory well enough to be able to actually compare male performance. Remembering good sex, at least for me, is kinda like “I’ve had good sex before” and that’s it. I don’t actually have a play by play in my head.. especially not as time passes. I imagine most people are similar that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:52 PM
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I think it’s important to remember that being good at sex isn’t necessarily a physical thing. It honestly can’t exclusively be. Sometimes, lots of times, bodies just don’t mesh.. for no apparent reason. Chemistry is off. Rhythms are off. When I say “get good at sex” I mean learn to listen to your partners. Not just their words. Their bodies. You can make a woman’s body sing if you pay attention. It’s a skill. And I’d argue it’s the most important skill. If you’re gonna be scared of someone being…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:49 PM
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Eh. I think it’s worth it to remember that dick being good is way more complex than just the physical aspect of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:43 PM
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I agree. I’d like to start a movement.. let’s get the Don’t Have Sex With Peasant Men movement going. Get back to our roots. I wanna see courting. Chaperones. Let’s get the bride dowry back up and running. His family doesn’t have old money? No estate? Useless as a suitor. Next. Can he afford your lifestyle on his salary alone? Will there be balls and tea parties funded by him alone? Do we get fainting chairs? Bring back chivalry. We’re gonna olde timey this bitch (but without the abuse and no ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:18 PM
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Comes to a forum meant for debating. Gets his panties in a twist because his opponent wants to last word. In a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:05 PM
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People literally don’t have to be promiscuous to have sexual trauma. It’s not a prerequisite. Correlation is not causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:04 PM
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Yeah. I’m saying the 50 bodies are irrelevant as far as being worried about her world having been rocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:57 PM
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All you have to do is.. do better. You have absolutely no idea how bad sex with men usually is. Her “good” might not even be good. It probably isn’t. Anecdotally, I thought id had good sex.. until I met my husband. Be not discouraged. Get really good at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:54 PM
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Nope. All you can do is assume. And you know what they say about assuming.. right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:49 PM
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If a woman slept with 50 men, it’s reasonable to conclude at least some of those men REALLY rocked her world. Not as reasonable as you’d like to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:47 PM
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No. He doesn’t like her. He just doesn’t want to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:55 AM
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What am I lying about exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:28 AM
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Whatever you say, chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:13 AM
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Cool. Me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:00 AM
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You are very angry I’m in a relationship and you don’t even know my body count! Crazy. You can think what you like, I suppose. My husband is everything you dudes in this sub value so much. All that dumb HVM stuff. So if I was the best he could do (you know, me, the whore).. then that disproves the entire HVM theory. And that’s fine by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:50 AM
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Nope. I like sleeping and playing video games till 5am. I do not want kids. I’m inching ever closer to “the wall” and I’m just happy people will stop asking me if I’m going to have kids soon 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:26 AM
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Nice fanfiction. He knows my body count 🤣 I’ve never once met a guy who cared. For all the shit you guys talk on here, you sure are few and far between. I never struggled to find sex or commitment when I was single. Met my husband, super healthy relationship, amazing sex.. so I married him. What’s the next chapter for your diction? Don’t forget to add that he must be short, old, and poor too. Ooo! Tell me he’s gonna leave me. That’s the funniest part of these little stories you boys are sweet en…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:17 AM
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Hm.. interesting. I’ll ask my husband his opinion when he gets home.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:56 AM
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Why would I need to cope?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:51 AM
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It’s not rare lol. Go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:43 AM
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Really stupid to be in a relationship with someone you don’t like
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:51 AM
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Homie, you’re the weird one here. I have literally never in my life met a woman who thinks pussy is gross 🤣 and definitely never heard a straight guy say that. So. Idk what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:14 AM
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I’m halfway convinced that all the men who talk about how little women do are just assholes who push their annoying selves on women just trying to have a nice evening out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:05 AM
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Keep being scared of pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:48 AM
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Caring about body count is for the weak minded. But! I’ll always be amused by how desperately they try to convince people it matters, meanwhile, nearly none of us have ever even been asked. My personal favorite is how they can “tell” someone’s body count. Phew. Their fall from power has been far and unflattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:39 AM
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The whole “oh yeah? Well you have mental health issues, whore” as a comeback is so mind numbingly stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:35 AM
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I mean. I can. Or you can Google it. But I’m not here to have a one way conversation. If you can’t answer questions you don’t get to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:16 AM
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I’m not going to answer you until you answer me. You can keep repeating yourself if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:13 AM
1

I answered your question.. Answer my question. Are you a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:08 AM
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I am. Are you a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:02 AM
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Hmmm… so long as you continue to need absolutely nothing from me ever.. you can come to thanksgiving. You’re bringing the Turkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:01 AM
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Oh so it’s not a conversation they have with no men around? Lmfao. Stop. Go take a poll. No adult is grossed out by genitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:55 AM
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You really over here telling on yourself like that, huh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:54 AM
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Can you wipe your own ass? Do you pay your own bills, son?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:54 AM
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No? Genitals are weird, maybe. But they aren’t gross. Bodies aren’t gross unless there’s something wrong with them. People I’m not attracted to aren’t gross either. Vaginas aren’t gross. They look like strange alien flowers, but they aren’t gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:29 AM
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No. That’s not a thing. Vaginas aren’t gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:14 AM
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I’m asking if you’re saying women talk about men who are grossed out by vaginas being gay when men aren’t around or if you think women are also grossed out by vaginas?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:11 AM
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No I’m asking
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:11 AM
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What’s a topic of conversation women have had when dudes aren’t around?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:06 AM
1

Again with ad hominem. It doesn’t make you look good. I’m aware that other places speak English, but yours is so bad and broken that I simply cannot believe it’s your native tongue. You’re also trying to convince me that the word “consent” has different meanings contextually. It doesn’t. You simply don’t understand the nuances of consent. You’re absolutely enraged that my relationship is healthy and functional.. being upset by that doesn’t make sense. Calling us rodents and what’s wrong with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:55 PM
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Ah. Foreign. So you are using English wrong. Got it. That ends the discussion since we cannot communicate effectively without speaking the same language. Also, for future reference, resorting to ad hominem automatically makes you the loser of the argument. If you cannot argue without personal attacks, you come across as aggressive and uneducated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:20 PM
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Do you honestly believe the kind of person who can type an entire thesis out on the internet about how women should be bred in captivity as sex slaves can go outside and effectively blend in with other humans? He cannot. I can tell that you don’t know how assholes get laid. And that’s fine. But you’re not giving their ability to manipulate people enough credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:08 PM
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r/technicallythetruth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:47 PM
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No. I’ve never wanted kids tho. It has nothing to do with the economy or anything. I just really hate kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:45 PM
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Common assholes are pieces of shit with charisma who prey on a specific demographic. They do hide the severity of their hatred. It stops working on women as they age. Incels are not charismatic. They don’t hide their hatred. The severity of it is obvious. Only one of those can pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:44 PM
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Not many people ask, but I tell the truth if it comes up somehow. And boyfriends have never asked. My sister did. My befriend did. People like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:41 PM
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statistics exist old man. snort I’m not going to read an article from the uk from 12 years ago and can it science. Times are changing and none of the guys in this sub know anything about real, breathing women aside from what they read in forums and their friends cousins uncle’s buddies neighbors anecdotal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:39 PM
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Keep reading. In further comments we discover that I’m talking about incels.. Not common assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:36 PM
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I would tell whoever commented that that they’re stupid. Poor and short men get married and have sex with attractive young women all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:34 PM
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AKA a normal human being with life experience finds you attractive and pursues you. You then have the choice to be judgmental or get to know her as a person. After a certain age, no one’s wholesome little virgins anymore. No point in judging people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:19 PM
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In this hypothetical situation, I don’t know my current partner. I don’t know he would be better for me. All I know is that I love my current (in the scenario) boyfriend. Working off that information.. no. I wouldn’t be open to the possibilities that could or could not be with someone else. The commitment isn’t what I’m clutching to.. the commitment is the side effect of the love I have for my partner. I’m clutching to him. Knowing what I know now, yes, it’d be sad if I missed out on my husband.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:00 PM
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That y’all obsess over these so called super attractive men. Where are they all? This isn’t Mystic Falls. Most people are normal looking and that’s good enough for most everyone else. No. It’s hard for anyone to actually be ugly. As I said. Most people are just normal looking. Majority of people are not disfigured, deformed, or hideous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:47 AM
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You greatly underestimate what passes for “attractive enough”. I’m willing to bet the majority of you guys (who complain and act like the world belongs exclusively to these attractive men you can’t stop thinking about) aren’t unattractive at all. It’s hard to be ugly. Be a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:40 AM
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Yes. I wouldn’t know any better. You expect me to leave my relationship based on looks and first impressions alone? In hindsight, I wish I’d never dated most of the people I have. But I married this one because he’s the best man I’ve known. Would have been sad to have missed out on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:31 AM
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It wouldn’t have mattered? In a world where I’m dating someone else my current is irrelevant. I don’t even know him in this new reality.. why would I cheat on my ex with someone I don’t even know? (And wouldn’t get to know) Dumb question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:49 AM
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Then you don’t know how women think or feel. And certainly not en masse. Shhhhhhh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:45 AM
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Having to go outside where people can see you shouldn’t be shocking to anyone lol. “Don’t go looking for love” means don’t make it your only goal. It’s shouldn’t be your priority. You’ll stress yourself out and become desperate. Also maybe it’s a location thing, but I’ve seen plenty of women approach men. I, myself, have done so many times. Stranger things happen, my guy. Met my husband playing a dinosaur game. Don’t be desperate. Do people stuff for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:29 AM
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I’m sorry. I didn’t realize you couldn’t read the UKs version of English. Let’s try this. An American link to the definition of consent. Or perhaps an American link about why consent is important. Here’s a Canadian link! Wow. That’s three countries that all have the same definition of consent! That’s crazy. Here’s a wiki defining marital rape. Should I find more definitions links for that or is the wiki link ok? You cannot change the definition of words to suit your needs. “Consent” has no other…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:24 AM
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I’m in the Midwest. Got family in the south.. the friendly thing is a myth. Honestly, dude, if you think sitting in a bar and having a drink is hard.. I got nothing for ya. Good luck with.. whatever the fuck you think isn’t hard, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:41 AM
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I haven’t moved goal posts. Socializing requires little effort. All you have to do is put yourself in the correct situation. I ran it by my very shy, socially awkward husband and he agreed with me that if he went and sat at a bar, people would try to talk to him eventually. Also. You’re at a bar. Have a drink if you’re uncomfortable. Liquid courage and all that. Just don’t get toasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:22 AM
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Lol. No. I’m telling you how very awkward, neurodivergent, shy people who have a habit of making people uncomfortable without meaning to.. can meet people. You’re the one who wants to make excuses. It’s boring. It’s only as uncomfortable as you make it out to be. Stop complaining about how hard it is and go do it. Or don’t. No one wants a whiner for a friend anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:59 AM
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23 is not forever. Don’t worry about gaming people. Level up your charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:43 AM
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The fuck kinda bar are you going to that has loud music? Don’t go to that one. That sounds awful. Also if those people don’t want to talk to you.. who cares? More people will be by soon enough. Just wait. It’s super simple. Or you can be butthurt that not every person gives a fuck that you exist. It’s whatever. You’re not gonna make friends and enjoy existing until you stop caring so much about other people. Go out and have a drink for yourself. Enjoy your own company. People watch. Tell the bar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:39 AM
0

Just be a person. Go outside for yourself. Find a hobby you love. Develop a social life. Love comes when you aren’t looking. So dont look.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:29 AM
1

I just don’t see how it could possibly be difficult to sit down at a bar, buy a drink, and sit there for a good long while. Someone’s bound to sit down and then you can greet them. And if no one does? Do it again the next day or weekend or whatever. Rinse and repeat. Eventually everyone’s just used to you and you get a feel for who’s who. Tada. Friends. Even if it’s literally just the bartender you’re making friends with.. the bartender knows everyone. Easy in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:19 AM
1

Um. That’s the definition of coercion from the official Air Force website. So. Thanks I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:32 AM
1

People get happy to see other people. I have many times seen someone enter a bar and the already drunk people yell out their name. No. I don’t have those. I didn’t go to school and I didn’t hangout with coworkers hardly ever.. we were occasionally at the same bar. That’s it. Yeah. Part of becoming a regular somewhere is learning peoples names and greeting them.. So they now you.. and you get included
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:51 AM
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I wouldn’t say being a woman has anything to do with it. They cheered when guys came into the bar too. Not sure what a “supportive peer” is. I moved to a new city and knew no one there.. so. No? Definitely not the parents thing. And I guess maybe? But… everywhere’s got a bar and people like to go to them. So. Options there. No. I don’t think I’ve got some magic upper hand. I think you aren’t trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:40 AM
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I’m not neurotypical and sucked at making friends when I was younger lol. Nothing magically happens lol. It’s tedious to meet people. And boring. But it’s not difficult. There are people everywhere. Go outside. I prefer to sit in a bar and talk to the bartender while having a drink. Then go back over and over. Eventually you start to recognize people. And they start to recognize you. You learn people’s names. They start to greet you when you walk in. You have “friends”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:27 AM
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According to Dr. Stuckman-Johnson, sexual coercion is the act of using pressure, alcohol, drugs or force to have sexual contact with someone against his or her will. It's persistent attempts to have sexual contact with someone who has already refused. Simply put; sexual coercion is being persuaded to have sex or engage in any type of sexual activity when you don't want to. It is when someone tries to make you feel you have to have sex, or that having sex is the right choice, even when you have d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:19 AM
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You can go become a regular somewhere and meet people. It’s.. Not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:11 AM
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You’re confusing incels with regular assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:05 AM
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Coercion describes any attempt to control your behavior with threats or manipulation. Sexual coercion, then, happens when someone won’t accept “no” and continues to try to convince you to change your mind about engaging in sexual activity. Sometimes, coercion is pretty blatant. For example: “If you don’t have sex with me, I’ll tell everyone we’ve been having an affair.” Other times, it might take a more subtle form. For example: “Here, why don’t you have a glass of wine and get out of those work…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:05 AM
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Mkay. Well. That sucks. Enjoy whatever quality of woman allows that kind of behavior. I’m sure she comes with no severe trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:16 AM
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Just stay off OLD. Most people aren’t on it anyway. Idk why this sub thinks there’s no people outside. I’ve met most everyone I know by going outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:12 AM
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Then I doubt he was being a woman hating prick to her face
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:11 AM
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Coercion is rape, bub.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:09 AM
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I would argue that the guys who are just too shy or whatever, but are actually decent dudes are not incels. Call em late bloomers or something. I feel like rolling them into the same category as incels does them a disservice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:06 AM
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I’m talking about what the term “incel” has come to mean. It was high jacked by absolute psychos. There really should be a master post that clears that up. Go to any incel forum. They aren’t just virgins and autists. They’re vile. And the reason they aren’t getting laid was never because of their looks or money or height.. they lack a tolerable character and always did
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:02 AM
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The group chat that she was also in so she knows he did that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:58 AM
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Then you aren’t the incels I’m referring to. Y’all more normal people need a new term for yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:57 AM
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You think women are disgusting vile creatures that should be farmed and given to their husbands as children to be raised as the perfect sex slaves?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:56 AM
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So you mean to tell me that your friend speaks to women he’s trying to fuck that way? I’m sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:47 AM
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They get laid as long as they’re quiet about hating women. No one’s out there sleeping with guys (attractive or otherwise) who irl do shit like call women “disgusting foids” for having discharge. Pinky promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:42 AM
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At a certain point it stops being about social skills and starts being about hating women. Possibly closeted homosexuality based off some of the “vaginas are disgusting” posts I’ve seen. I’d argue mental illness before I argued autism. There’s a difference between Virgin and incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:08 AM
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I’ve experienced both. Though coercion is more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:02 AM
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That guys a meme. It took me all of 5 minutes to find what he looks like now. He’s not ugly. It was a bad picture (like I suspected) and all he needed was new glasses and treatment for his acne. Also looks like he lost a little weight. So. I’m 100% someones taking his dick. Edit: I also found this. Take that how you will. Edit edit: I mean shit if men can’t get pussy, they’re gonna have to make up a better excuse, cuz it’s not their face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:28 AM
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I’d be willing to believe it’s stupidity. I can’t be sure, since I’m not a man, but my theory is that they’re socialized to only care about themselves. So they don’t ever develop empathy unless they try at it or it comes more naturally to specific individuals. Also the whole “Chad can get away with anything” narrative is annoying and likely misleading to younger men just entering the dating scene. Chad can’t get away with anything. No amount of bone structure makes “I could snap you like a glow …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:18 AM
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It’s incredibly unfortunate that it takes actually experiencing the fear of their own kind fucking them against their will for them to feel empathy. I saw a video of a guy with long hair who’d been approached from behind by a guy who grabbed his ass thinking he was a woman. He went on and on about how scary and horrifying it was. How when he turned and the guy saw that he was, in fact, not a woman, he thought he was going to have to fight that guy (you know.. cuz he was angry dude wasn’t a chick…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:02 AM
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You say that, but ultimately you only think that way because you don’t know what it’s like to be violated. If you truly did not want to have sex with a woman and she forced you to anyway.. that would not be hot. And I sincerely hope you never find that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:56 AM
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Differing opinions are what make the world go round, chief. Find the people who view the world like you do and leave the rest alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:54 AM
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Men get raped too. Men can say no and it should be respected. A man should not have to “throw her off” to have his autonomy respected. Not all men have the capacity to respond to being assaulted with assertiveness. Men, like women, also freeze in the face of assault. We do not tell people they’re lucky to have been assaulted. Have you ever heard of women date-raping a man? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:50 AM
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“Why were you alone with him if you didn’t want to have sex? Maybe you shouldn’t dress like such a slut and men wouldn’t get the wrong idea. Next time take some responsibility and don’t put yourself in that situation.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:47 AM
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Ah ah ah. No sir. We don’t tell people they’re lucky for being assaulted. That’s fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:46 AM
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“It doesn’t matter that you said no at first. You said yes after he asked you 500 times so that’s consent and it’s your fault. Why didn’t you punch him if you didn’t want sex?”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:42 AM
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Exactly. Men are, by and large, awful about that stuff. We’d be here all day if I had to remember every time I haven’t been in the mood and was forced into sex anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:35 AM
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Length has nothing to do with sex skill. I hope you know that. That guy needs a haircut, diet, and accutane before I’d make a solid judgement about him. Majority of people don’t look like him tho. The majority of people are just average looking and that’s good enough for most women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:29 AM
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You’re wrong. And also “good dick” cannot be discovered via rape. That statement from you alone discredits any theories you might present.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:46 PM
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Lmfao. You do a lot of dick testing to know that only Chads have good dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:13 PM
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Bad dogs get put down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:52 PM
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“Dear diary”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:40 AM
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Why is money the only thing y’all care about? Don’t get married if you don’t agree with marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:37 AM
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We are all animals, just making that clear Strawman. Irrelevant point. We classify as animals. Mammals. But we aren’t animals as in.. wild beasts with no capacity for complex reasoning, complex language, or introspection like all other animals. So when I say “men are not animals” I am saying men are not singleminded beasts. You can’t generalize them or even dare to dream to be able to speak for all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:33 AM
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I reaffirmed your point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:09 AM
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Um. Nope. Sex is not a need. Men are not animals. Women are just as sexual as men. It boils down to individual preferences, not gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:08 AM
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Men want so much more than sex lol.. you know, cuz they’re human beings with feelings. Not walking penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:54 AM
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Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:52 AM
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I find myself literally never thinking about what kind of sex anyones having. I can’t actively think of anything I care about less.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:49 AM
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I must be tired because I have no fucking clue what you just said. Care to run that by me again, chief?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:58 AM
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Whatever you say, pal. You went from “It’s a biological need no woman can resist” to “well it depends on her relationship with her parents” real quick
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:47 AM
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Going on.. my whole life so far. Fuckin hate kids. Always have. Some 44% iirc of women between 18-49 agree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:34 AM
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Homie here thinks women are all just fuckin dying for kids. I’d rather suck start a shotgun.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:29 AM
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Uhhhh… nope. Plenty of women feel no need/desire to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:28 AM
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Irrelevant? Women are still actively choosing not to have children. Therefore, it’s not some irresistible biological need. Some women want kids, some women don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:16 AM
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Sure. And some (in growing numbers) choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:41 AM
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No? Humans choose. Plenty of humans don’t have kids and never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:37 AM
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You’ve brought up my husband several times. You’ve all but begged me to leave him because.. checks notes.. we let each other say no to sex. What are you trying to argue now? We were discussing marital rape. And consent being integral to a healthy relationship. But if you’d like to form up a few straw men and beat at those for a while, that is your prerogative. Where shall we start? If you think that consent is the only thing that matters no matter what I never said that. Your exaggerating to dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:37 AM
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Idk why you’re so focused on my husband. We ask each others consent regularly. Sometimes he’s not in the mood. Sometimes I’m not in the mood. Now and then I’ll ask if he’s feeling up to sex.. And he’ll say “not right now” and then we just.. go about our days without further mention of it. I know that’s super hard for you to grasp, but we respect each other as individuals with rich inner lives and shifting moods and wants. Wild concept, I know. But it works wonders for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:49 AM
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You did not read the literature I linked you. Or perhaps you did not comprehend it. So enjoy your delusions, champ. Give your wife my sincerest condolences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:34 AM
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Outside? I’ve been outside. Either you’re being dramatic or you were being a creep somehow.. intense staring maybe?. No one’s screaming at you for just looking at them. Don’t often come across the female version of the dudes here.. wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:25 AM
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Right. Because men are out there screaming at women in public for looking at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:23 AM
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Being harassed is a privilege now? Women of all shapes and colors have experienced the same situation. Trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:18 AM
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in order to avoid The answer you’re looking for is: t h e r a p y
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:50 PM
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Ah. That’s why so many guys here can’t get laid. They haven’t died yet. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:32 PM
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I think men should do whatever makes them feel comfortable in their skin
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:39 PM
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I don’t see that data It’s literally in one of the graphs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:21 AM
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Hormonal cycles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:20 AM
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54% of people in the US have never used dating apps as of 2021. And statistically dating apps aren’t the way to go. But keep whining, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:52 AM
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For? Being woefully, bitterly depressed? Most relationships are started online. The majority of people aren’t even on dating apps. So your statement can’t possibly be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:27 AM
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You should get therapy. I know plenty of people who don’t use apps and they still meet people. I don’t use apps (cuz they suck) and I’ve never struggled to meet people. The apps aren’t the problem. That attitude is tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:21 AM
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I expected to here from *hear I’m not inexperienced, darling. I haven’t always picked right.. I’ve been raped more than once. The thing is.. you either recover and try again or you don’t and you remain alone. I chose to keep trying. I suffered for it, but I wanted to find someone to be with. I still did my best to try to weed out the creeps and assholes. Can’t always be right tho. It does hold up. If all you had to eat were those cookies.. you’d start eating them eventually. You’d still be scare…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:47 AM
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How dare you know you’d prefer a younger man over an older man because the money isn’t important to you. Who do you think you are? Yourself? You think you what? Know your own thoughts? Impossible. Couldn’t be true! /s No but I was never into old dudes with money either. Really wished I coulda been sometimes.. but could never bring myself to fuck dudes for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:40 AM
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No. I think your 70% or 80% or whatever percent it is today is all bullshit. But that’s neither here nor there. I think, as I stated, that women have to be more selective because the danger of rape and murder is higher for women. Do I care what the stats are? No. I don’t. If I give you 100 cookies and I tell you one of them will absolutely definitely kill you horribly.. you gonna eat the cookies? Probably not. So instead of trying to invalidate the very real fear of death.. just be grateful wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:35 AM
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Half the crap people post on here is crap science for one reason or another. People believe what they want. It’s all irrelevant anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:21 AM
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An easier solution would be to just.. stop trying to convince single women that they aren’t happy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:17 AM
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This is true for maybe a week or less before my period. Any other time this is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:12 AM
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No. I think the scales are the same for either sex. I think men are just willing to put their dicks in a wider portion of the scale. Women are just more selective. Not because of money or looks. But because we’re more likely to be raped and murdered by a guy we go home with..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:09 AM
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I would argue that the club is also not the place for this to happen. I don’t think women go to clubs to meet guys.. seems like it’s usually a “girls night” situation. Much easier to just go to a bar. Maybe it’s also a regional thing too? I’ve seen women being bold fairly often.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:49 AM
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Why not? They want something either way. But think more.. cold approach at a bar and less cold approach at a grocery store. Women don’t typically want to be approached in a grocery store.. do unto others and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:52 AM
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Resorting to ad hominem doesn’t make you look superior. I’m telling you that you’re using words the wrong way. It’s excusable if English isn’t your first language. The way you talk doesn’t sound natural to me, so I thought I would ask. Not sure why that made you angry. Calling me stupid because I’m using words the way theyre meant to be used based off their definitions doesn’t make sense as an insult. Consent: Consent happens when all people involved in any kind of sexual activity agree to take …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:39 PM
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Yeah no. There are definitions to words for a reason. You need consent to fuck someone. If you don’t have consent it’s rape. If you say you cannot rape your wife you aren’t saying “my wife is my sex partner and when she’s in a bad mood we talk it out and then she’s more in the mood for sex” you’re saying that if your wife says no to you you can hold her down and fuck her against her will and that’s not rape because you’re married. You don’t get to make up definitions for words and then call peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:50 PM
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Is English your first language? Do you know what consent is? Do you know what marital rape is?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:17 PM
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I actually showed my husband your comment. His opinion is that consent for stereotypical couple PDA is a nuanced concept. Because of our relationship and the boundaries we’ve discussed as a couple, he feels comfortable giving me a kiss or a little smack on the ass without a conversation prior.. but.. I could, at any moment, tell him not to touch me and he would respect my wishes. The same goes for sex, I can say no to sex at any time and he would immediately respect my decision. What do you do i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:27 PM
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So is the problem the casual sex or the more attractive men? What about casual sex with ugly men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 08:29 PM
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So.. do you like.. ask for pictures of all her past partners to make sure they were all uglier than you? Or?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 08:24 PM
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So you’re salty that your wife fucked hotter guys? Or does that only matter if it wasn’t an official relationship? Does a relationship title cancel out the whole “she had a hot guy she’s brainwashed now” idea? How is it, exactly, that women who pull (what you find attractive) hotties can do that but somehow those same hotties wouldn’t date them? All the hotties? Every last one? That’s statistically impossible. And something I’ve never seen or heard of in the real world. Unless, of course, you’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 08:12 PM
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I know it’s a run on sentence but it felt right, ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 08:02 PM
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Are you married? Are you monogamous? Is your wife monogamous? Does any of what other people do with their actually bodies effect you at all? If yes, please list the negative effects women fucking anyone but you and your wife fucking only you has on your life. Also. Women can fuck and be in committed relationships with hot guys. They do it all the time. I’m doing it right now. Your weird obsession with how hot the guys are that women you don’t know are fucking is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 08:01 PM
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It was just a very odd focus for your comment and completely irrelevant. Your opinion on the attractiveness of those around you is irrelevant. You have absolutely no idea what’s going on between people in their interpersonal relationships. You cannot read minds. You’re not their therapist. Hell.. I’d be willing to bet you don’t even share the same taste in men/women that they do. How are you gonna be married and still on the internet slut shaming women? Was your wife a virgin when you met\marrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:52 PM
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Definitely not superficial. We met playing video games (PC master race). I already had a crush on him before we finally video chatted. Now we have side by side set ups. I got very lucky indeed ☺️ I agree tho. I’m not convinced these women TRP describes exist. They sound like the mean girls from highschool movies in the early 2000s. But if they do exist.. I don’t think we really need a whole cult to know not to engage with them. They sound horrendous. The age old proverb “don’t stick your dick in…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:11 PM
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I’ve never been a rich man, so I can’t say for certain.. but those don’t sound like “hotties” they sound like gold diggers. And they go where the money is. I suppose a man could base his entire worth off his ability to attract gold diggers.. but he will not find a woman who cares about him if he does it that way. A woman who likes to have sex with people she finds attractive is not comparable. I am one of those. I’ve never struggled to find a hook up or a relationship with someone I find attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 06:55 PM
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I’ve had the copper iud for.. nearly my entire adult life. Hormonal birth control makes me a psycho so I can’t take it. Since the copper iud is none hormonal, it doesn’t effect my sex drive. Nope. I mean I’ve tried others. And I’ve used condoms not for the birth control aspect but the std protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 06:42 PM
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I wouldn’t say people being used to the standards they achieve is a side effect of promiscuity. You also don’t have to be promiscuous to have standards. So the whole theory is just another man trying to make up excuses for why women shouldn’t be allowed to make their own choices. It’s fear-mongering. And really really dumb. But you’re right. If a promiscuous woman who knows she can bag hotties is banging you… you must be a hottie to her. Questioning that is kind of dumb imo. And I’m sorry you’ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 06:26 PM
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I see what you’re trying to provide. But unfortunately dudes theory is that if women are sluts and they sleep with men hotter than you.. they will not want to sleep with you because you’re ugly. But if they never sleep with hot dudes.. you will be hot to them. Therefore, women should remain virgins and.. pluck out their eyes. I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 06:01 PM
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Do you spend a lot of time thinking about how much more attractive men are than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:49 PM
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Lol. Nope. You’ve clearly never heard of the red fruitloop guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:42 PM
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Good. All the easier to talk to them about their experiences in the real world. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:42 PM
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I urge you to go read the studies, in full. And then talk to real women in the real world about their experiences without trying to fuck them. And then get back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:40 PM
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I’m not having kids. Never wanted to. Never will. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:33 PM
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I have never had a “dream man”. I’ve always just wanted to be happy. Now I’m very happy and idk what a “top dog” is.. but I’m sure me and my husband would get a kick out of whatever it is “top dogs” do out in the wild. Sounds ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:32 PM
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It does not make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:00 PM
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Oh I was almost ready to bet a tit he had no source. Asking seemingly got him to stop tho so.. good enough answer for me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:23 PM
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Um. No? A Nazi is a Nazi. A handsome nazi can die just as quick and as painfully as an ugly one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:15 PM
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Do you have a source for this or did you make it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:08 PM
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I don’t understand why you think a woman needs to have fucked a hot guy to not want to fuck a guy she’s not attracted to. She’s always going to want to fuck a hot guy.. she will very likely only ever fuck guys she thinks are hot in some form or fashion. If a woman is capable of pulling a dime piece.. do you think she’s completely oblivious to that for her entire life and then she fucks one hot guy and her eyes are opened to all the 10/10 chads she never saw before because she was blind and stupi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:24 PM
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That’s easily the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard. Women don’t need to fuck hot men to know they’re out there. Women don’t need to fuck hot men to have standards either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:29 PM
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You’re not wrong. I have been told a number of times that my husband must be old, short, and ugly and he must not have been able to do better than me.. (of course, as soon as he gets the chance he’s going to abandon me.) The weirdos in this sub screaming into the ether have nothing better to do than sit around imagining revenge scenarios that will never come to pass because that one girl in highschool didn’t smile back. They have to convince themselves that no one wants women beyond a certain ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:09 PM
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Why are you laboring under the impression I know nothing about being married? Lol You must have permission to touch another persons body. Your rights stop where her body begins. You are not owed sex. You do not own her body simply because you got married. You still have to ask. There is no “you knew what you were getting yourself into”. There is only respect of your partners boundaries and autonomy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 12:54 PM
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You still need consent. You can’t just start fucking someone without their consent. That’s not how any of this works.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 12:12 PM
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Ah. Yes. That must be what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 12:11 PM
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Correct. Which is further proven by how very few women agree with all the weird ass theories on this sub. And that’s… not the same concept at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:42 AM
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Yes. And those stats are great and probably accurate… for those 14000 people. No more than them tho. I don’t know too much about Zimbabwe.. but I’m pretty confident in saying that their culture is nothing like American culture and therefore pointless to compare them to Americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:03 AM
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14000 people does not make an accurate representation of the USA, let alone the world. And unless you’re speaking exclusively to people from Zimbabwe… that’s completely irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 10:45 AM
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My perspective is that OLD stats are irrelevant to real life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 09:16 AM
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The comments on these posts never cease to surprise me with how profoundly stupid they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:44 AM
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What does the way someone’s face looks have to do with a woman’s past?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:38 AM
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It’s not really that I despise them. I just prefer the company of people who respect me. However, having learned that men don’t actually care how you treat them means that I can be myself without feeling the need to be fake. Not that I’m mean naturally or anything.. but it’s easier to relax around someone I like when I know there’s not much im going to do naturally that will scare them off
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:51 AM
7

Their body count means nothing to me. I need to meet them to make the decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 08:59 PM
12

Not much to add here. Just gonna add my own anecdote to yours. Have also never met a woman who does this. And honestly, not even the women this guy would call sluts are out hunting specifically for “tall, dark, and handsome chads”. My best friend is an extremely sex positive woman.. who’s been with (and has two kids with) a 5’3 guy for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 08:27 PM
1

Yes. Sex is typically something married people do. With consent. Nothing changes about needing consent from dating to being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 08:03 PM
0

I do know what married life is like. That’s how I wrong you’re wrong. When you get married, nothing changes. You needed consent from me before you married me.. and you still need it now. We made vows to love each other and stay faithful. We did not make vows to ignore each others bodily autonomy. If I want to fuck my husband and he tells me he isn’t in the mood, that is his right. He’s allowed to say no. And that’s perfectly normal and healthy. Marriage changes nothing. It means you can legally …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 08:02 PM
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The red pill is wrong here. If I’m wearing headphones and you approach me.. you could be as tall and handsome as you like.. you’re an entitled creep to me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 07:55 PM
5

The lesson learned here is that it truly doesn’t matter how you behave. If a man who’s interested in me can take the rudest I can possibly be and decide that I’m cute.. why wouldn’t a different man be able to appreciate me in my natural state of being? No need to pretend. If that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 07:52 PM
1

Which is very kind of you. Appreciate ya
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 07:49 PM
4

Jesus Christ. OPs 30.. not dead. His life is not over. Plenty of time to play the field and find exactly what he’s looking for 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 08:33 AM
14

Used to. But then I learned that you can tell a man to fuck himself and die and he’ll just… keep hitting on you. You can look a man square in his face and say “leave me the fuck alone. You’re disgusting” and he’ll laugh and call you cute. So. No. I don’t feel the need to act any certain way.. not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 04:35 AM
1

1) Yes. You don’t have to have sex to be intimate. 2) I have had duty sex. It did significant damage to me. I’m still working through that. I will never have sex out of duty ever again. 3) I have. My body. My dignity. My autonomy. Myself. Like I said.. Duty sex fucks you up. 4) I think men should stop acting like they can’t live without it. I think it’s a lie they tell themselves out of entitlement. For centuries men have owned women.. now they don’t. And they aren’t adjusting to the new order v…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:50 AM
3

I have one of those providing men as a husband. But they are for sure incredibly rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:56 AM
2

Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:44 AM
2

Try to tell them that. Doesn’t seem to make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:04 PM
1

And that’s why men who approach women like that are called creeps. You aren’t listening to the signals a woman is putting out. It’s disrespectful and rude. Only approach women who are not wearing headphones.. like please
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:20 PM
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That’s an excellent question. Not sure what he thinks I’m not understanding. Dude thinks marital rape isn’t real.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:18 PM
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I’m not struggling with understanding. As you said.. marital rape isn’t doesn’t make sense to you. You’re the one that’s confused here. Just because a woman is your wife doesn’t mean you get sex whenever you want regardless of how she feels and what she wants. Marriage doesn’t make her your property to command. But as the other commenter asked, does your wife get to peg you without asking? Since you’re married and all?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:18 PM
2

And that’s a bummer. But you still shouldn’t approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:15 PM
2

the term rape was coined, and … became weaponised even in a marriage between a man and wife, where people these days like to mention or talk about martial rape. It doesn’t make sense really. Consent this and consent that, if a reason has to be given for everything and permission needed for everything thing, I think that this would also be another reason why men don’t like to put themselves out there the whole consent thing basically goes away once marriage has happened. she doesn’t have to ask m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:22 AM
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You’re not. She doesn’t want to be approached. That’s what headphones mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:13 AM
1

It’s the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:03 AM
1

Do what you love and you’ll never work a day in your life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:02 AM
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I’m older than 23 and still could get sex whenever I want. I’ll keep ya updated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:55 AM
3

Ah yes. The good ole “I married you so you’re my property to use when I feel like it” argument. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:49 AM
2

Yeah. There’s no way that’s an accurate representation of the rest of us. I have no faith 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:09 PM
1

I like how you compare being able to get a traditional man who pays for everything you do to a man having to pay for a woman to do one thing for him. Do you know what a sugar momma is?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:01 PM
2

No one’s promising the impossible. No one, male or female, is gonna have the same amount of time for two full time things. Their relationship.. with the man they don’t have because they don’t need him? I’m confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:46 AM
1

I already said there’s no universal healthcare and you don’t get a say anyway so this conversation is dumb. But you kept going so.. here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:40 AM
1

If they cover birth control and it fails.. that person did everything in their power aside from abstain to avoid pregnancy. I see no reason to not cover the whole process.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:36 AM
1

Birth control isn’t 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:33 AM
1

Um. No it’s not. People don’t only go to the doctor when they’re dying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:29 AM
3

What is it exactly what they can’t have?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:28 AM
1

But why do you care? It didn’t effect you. I think they should cover it. I think they should cover everything. Because that’s what people are paying for insurance for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:21 AM
1

So not only do you not want to pay for it. But you don’t want insurance people pay for themselves to cover it. The plot thickens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:17 AM
1

Yeah? You in control of what insurance covers? Own an insurance company, do ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:13 AM
1

Well. There’s no universal healthcare in America and you don’t get a say so this conversation is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:11 AM
1

So it doesn’t matter that elective abortions aren’t life or death.. you’d make someone live a miserable life, or likely force a child to grow up abused because it’s unwanted OR in the system which is famous for abusing, neglecting, and molesting children simply because you don’t like that they made a mistake? In fact you’re so unforgiving you’d actively kill someone who you think has “made a stupid choice”?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:02 AM
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But a drug addict needing narcan is a life or death situation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:57 AM
3

Yeah. Like removing the fetus. It’s her body. Her life. Are you going to take care if the child and pay for it? I see. Is it just abortions or are you ok with paying for drug addicts to be saved for the umpteenth time?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:53 AM
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If having a baby would make a woman suicidal getting it removed is health care. In the same way that a woman who can get pregnant but can’t safely carry to term needs an abortion to save her life. You don’t get to pick and choose which procedures your taxes go to. It’s irrelevant. And honestly kinda weird to be that interested in what someone else is doing with their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:46 AM
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That’s where the debate comes in. I believe a woman opting out of a baby she doesn’t want for whatever reason is still considered healthcare. But regardless of what you or anyone else believes about that.. saying “describing an abortion as healthcare is like describing lynching as justice” is wrong flat out and only said to bring up a sensitive subject meant to shock everyone out of challenging his idiotic claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:40 AM
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Abortion is the term for (but not limited to) a medically necessary procedure. Abortions are healthcare. If a fetus dies in utero and doesn’t miscarry.. guess what it’s called when the doctor goes in to remove it.. an abortion. Guess what a miscarriage is also called.. a spontaneous abortion. Abortions are healthcare. Read a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:31 AM
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If we, as a race, got therapy.. I bet the majority of our perceived differences would evaporate. My husband and I decided that the whole “women are more emotional” thing is because men who believe that can’t name their feelings so they just ignore them. Everyone processes trauma differently but no one’s unique in how they do it. I may process it differently than you do, but I process it exactly the same as the next person. And so on. For example, my dad sucks. My brother and I grew up the same. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:23 AM
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I’m more referring to things like sex drive and such. Feelings. Trauma processing. The sexes are wildly similar on those fronts. We’re socialized differently for sure. And personalities vary widely. But as far as how people do the people stuff? Very much the same processes. Which.. I always suspected. The science behind how we function says we’re more similar than different.. but then you date men and they make themselves sound so alien. Like their needs are so different and pressing. They simpl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:06 AM
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Men also used to own estates to pass on to their children. Men aren’t doing that anymore. There’s no legacy to pass on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:54 AM
1

I used to really wrestle with the idea that men and women are so different. And then I met my husband. Now I fully believe men have duped us. All the lies and manipulation. The over exaggeration. The pretending. It’s insane. Men and women are hardly different at all. And before anyone comes along and calls him feminine or something.. my husband is definitely not lacking in testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:50 AM
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Oh no. Don’t get me wrong. I’m super happy I don’t have balls sticking to my leg. I just don’t really see the point in thinking about the “benefits” of my gender. No woman experiences it the same. There aren’t any benefits to being a woman so much as there are benefits to just being me. If that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:25 AM
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For every benefit I can think of.. There’s something that cancels it out. Or it’s not actually a benefit of being a woman, but instead just because of the choices I’ve made.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:18 AM
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shrugs. I didn’t agree with all of your list either, but everyone experiences being alive differently. Glad you’re getting some benefits out of this whole vagina having thing XD
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:12 AM
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Yeah. Cuz thats what we’re doing. It’s all in our heads and jokes on you guys cuz cramps aren’t real and the bloods imaginary. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:10 AM
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I’m assuming cuz your list doesn’t feel like benefits to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:06 AM
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Bearmode & strongman for me. Your normie and athletic examples are children. The guy in the pic looks regular to me. Bad hair cut. Not ugly. Body type isn’t super important. I don’t like a lot of defined muscles and I’d rather not have an obese partner for sex mechanics reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:22 AM
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Obviously I was being facetious. Point being: you don’t have to have kids to be “real”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:16 AM
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Real men & women want to procreate If I’m not real, can I stop paying taxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:44 AM
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Porn addict
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:30 AM
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No. My argument is “don’t be a dumb porn addict”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:16 AM
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The percentage of men who never had children is ever growing. And the percentage of adult men who never want kids is growing too. Fairly close to half so far. “Most guys end up wanting kids” ok cool. That’s why I chose my mate very carefully. Sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:48 AM
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I honestly hate how the stats have become such a “gotcha” in conversation. No one’s ever asked me anything for a survey. Have they ever asked you? No one I know has ever been asked… where do these numbers come from? Money isn’t as important as they make it seem here. Like yeah don’t be a homeless bum, but ultimately, like attracts like. My friend who’s been dating/engaged for like 9 years? They’re both highly educated. She’s a couple months off from a phd (and will probably be the only one of us…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:23 AM
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Right. Because you’re the golden standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:41 AM
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Not wanting a dumb porn addict as a mate is hypergamy now?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:33 AM
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I’ll add to yours with my meager circle. There’s 4 of us in my close group (I could pull a larger pool but I don’t feel like scrolling my Facebook). I’m married to a man who’s younger than me. No kids. One of us has been dating the same guy for like 9 years now. They’re engaged. They both tall.. 5’10 and 6’4. Same age. No kids. One has been with the same guy for a couple years now. 5 I think? He’s 5’3 for what that’s worth. They’re the same age. 2 kids. One has been with this guy for 2 years. Ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:32 AM
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Childfree ≠ low sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:13 AM
9

I don’t understand this take. I have never had an issue finding men who don’t want kids either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:11 AM
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They can lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:09 AM
2

All love does.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:32 PM
5

I’d rather be single than be in a relationship with anyone who’s not adding to my life. Anyone man or woman who says otherwise isn’t old enough to understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:47 PM
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I’m asking what kind of love. If you think love is invalid if it’s not unconditional.. what kind of love is unconditional?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:43 PM
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What are you expecting couples to love each other with? Lmao. I know. I said meant to be. Outside of a mothers love, no love is unconditional. Not even the Christian gods love is unconditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:37 PM
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Romantic love cannot be unconditional. There are conditions that have to be met for such love to even begin. The love of a mother is meant to be unconditional. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:21 PM
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No no. You are special. You’re being a bitch to me for no reason. I asked my NT husband to read the thread and he didn’t understand the issue here either. I am not a child. I am not stupid. But if things go over my head.. or I’ve missed something. I’d expect a fellow woman and ND to be more kind than you’ve been. Maybe they do things differently where you’re from.. but here, this level of aggression over something so simple just makes you look dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 12:16 AM
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Oh. I get it. You’re special. Ok my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 11:54 PM
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Cheating is cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 11:50 PM
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You are needlessly aggressive for NO reason. My OPINION is that people who care about gifts that much are shallow and needy little cry babies. I didn’t say that tho. I said maybe gifts make OP feel loved. That’s it. If you want to be offended.. now you have something to be offended by.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 11:21 PM
1

I’m over 6’ in the only heels I own. Some men do not enjoy that 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 11:05 PM
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I personally wouldn’t care if a guy wanted to wear them. Seems uncomfortable. But we’re gonna be the same height laying down so.. whatever makes you feel better about yourself, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 10:44 PM
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You know… I have no idea why women wear heels. I’ve never thought about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 10:42 PM
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I mean they can. They used to. Just gotta get enough men to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 10:40 PM
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Am I misreading aggression in your comments? Cuz bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 07:18 PM
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Do y’all not know what love languages are?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 06:29 PM
1

Nahhhhhh… that’s not a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 02:04 PM
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If you’re still resentful after all that “self improvement”, you’re not done yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 12:48 AM
1

And I want a million dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:52 PM
1

Because god is real /s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:23 PM
1

Periods are?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:18 PM
1

The opposite actually
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:14 PM
1

Cis men have periods? Interesting theory. Not true though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:58 PM
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That’s the spirit! You don’t talk about womens problems like you know anything about them and I won’t talk about mens! Good deal. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:53 PM
1

Ok then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:41 PM
0

I did. You over-explained gift giving and acts of service to me. For no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:38 PM
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What are you talking about? Lol. Gifts is a love language and might be hers. That’s all I said. Love languages aren’t gendered. Mines physical touch and acts of service. I don’t care for gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:32 PM
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No. He wouldn’t be taken seriously with his made up theory.. Who else’s pain can you accurately imagine? Perhaps you’d like to tour hospitals and tell people with crippling chronic pain it’s not that bad. I’m sure they’d appreciate the revelation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 03:55 PM
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It’s just weird to have an opinion on something you have no experience with. You wouldn’t join a rocket science forum and post theories you made up and expect to be taken seriously, would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 03:32 PM
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Never cheated. Never would. I married my husband because I don’t want to ever have to even try to replace him. No one ever could.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:39 AM
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As a person who’s been completely debilitated by period pain before.. I don’t think this is a conversation men can be a part of. They simply have no idea what they’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:35 AM
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OTC meds don’t always work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:32 AM
1

With shmoney
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:39 PM
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I obviously don’t know for sure. But the post put a lot of emphasis on receiving gifts. And then there’s been attempts to explain this desire away using anthropology theories. But as someone who is made to feel very awkward by gifts.. I am willing to bet OPs love language is gifts and they don’t realize that’s not a universal female experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:45 PM
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OPs love language must be gifts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:39 PM
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Troll post. Google coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:03 PM
1

It’s dark here. I’m so cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:12 PM
4

This whole sub is pointless. I’m having a separate conversation where I said I support sex workers and dude says “oh so you must also support hitmen” and now thinks he’s trapped me with that question. This whole sub is stupid. I’m just bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:09 PM
1

I saw something on here earlier about tax credit incentives for men who can’t get laid. Tax credits for people who choose not to get laid! woohoo! (The is all /s if you didn’t pick up on that)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:07 PM
2

Oh no. This is real singleness. No hookups anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:58 PM
4

Excellent. Shut down the sub. Inceldom for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:44 PM
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If we’re avoiding relationships unless they bring things to the table we cant do ourselves.. we should all just stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:51 PM
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No. Men courted women with chaperones and paid dowries. Now they just want pussy for free and whine about paying for dinner. We should be compensated for having to tolerate such disrespect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:46 AM
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Women didn’t used to have to work. Men would just take care of them. Single women should be given everything they need by the government until they’re married. Houses, phones, food, clothing, monthly allowance.. All of it should be covered. You’re a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:40 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:34 AM
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Then you’re participating just fine and nothing needs to be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:29 AM
1

If single men want to stop being a part of society and drop off the map to be either off the grid or homeless.. no one’s going to stop them. If starving is how single men who can’t get laid want to live.. who are we to get in their way? Be our guest. Go off the grid. Give up your amenities. Become homeless. I dare you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:23 AM
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Proof of troll
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:21 AM
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You’re wrong on all accounts. I married him. I’m his 4th sexual partner. You don’t have to have had a ton of partners to be good at sex. It’s about the effort. Most guys don’t continuously put in the effort. Nearly no guys, in fact. I’ve had plenty of good sex. Plenty of great sex even. But then they stopped trying and it became mediocre sex. My husband.. with all 4 of his bodies.. has never stopped trying. So I married him. You have no idea what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:26 AM
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You didn’t say what the point is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:42 AM
1

My bad. So just equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:28 AM
1

You called pedophilia the “male equivalent”. Which is what I addressed. But be a dick. That’s cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:25 AM
1

As always in this sub… Outliers don’t count.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:11 AM
1

What’s old to you? Are you thinking 25 year olds are seeking out 60 year olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:08 AM
1

Looks fade.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:07 AM
1

Being excited by someone who has more to offer the relationship than lust is preferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:05 AM
1

People shouldn’t look for partners to learn and grow with?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:01 AM
1

You can be excited by someone you respect, care for, and learn from. People have all sorts of things they can teach each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:59 AM
1

What’s partner/partner to you? No respect? No growth? No care?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:54 AM
1

So they’re defacto not passionate about their partner because he teaches them things, they respect each other, and take care of each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:48 AM
1

Why does it matter? What if I say no? What if I say yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:46 AM
1

What are women supposed to be attracted to that wouldn’t be fatherly? No respect? Neglect? An idiot?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:44 AM
1

I see. So if you respect someone, they teach you things, and take care of your needs.. they much be a father figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:41 AM
1

Surely you have an example of how these women sound like they’re talking about their fathers not their lovers
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:39 AM
1

Give an example
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:34 AM
1

What way is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:31 AM
1

Based off what evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:29 AM
1

So women being attracted to older men is self centered? Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:26 AM
2

I do not love my dad. My husband is younger than me. Generalizations make your points ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:21 AM
4

Good doms aren’t soulless monsters lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 10:41 PM
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Didnt you hear? It’s not a choice. “Actually single” women are just too old and ugly for men to fuck them. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:42 PM
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Yes. Kill for you.. the ultimate form of protection. If I’m being attacked or kidnapped and my husband shoots them dead to save me.. is it the shooting that’s sexy? Or loving me so much he ended lives to save me? Stop trying to game semantics with me. If you don’t understand.. that’s fine. But there’s a reason there’a different names for the philias. They aren’t the same. Teratophilia/cryptophilia and even spectrophilia are not the same as hybristophilia. And none of those have anything to do wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:26 PM
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No. It’s not the murder. It’s the protectiveness. Different concept entirely. And.. I wouldn’t compare those two paraphilias at all. Not even a little bit. Also you can’t just roll those 3 together. There’s a significant difference between wanting to fuck a baby and wanting to fuck a 16 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:26 PM
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Do you know what BDSM is? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:40 AM
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50 shades was ill informed. Dressed as something normal. Taught a lot of people the wrong things. The women who liked that like BDSM. People who knew nothing about it were dangerously mislead. But I wouldn’t expect you to understand the difference and why actual people in the lifestyle hated those books/movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:11 AM
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Right. Because enjoying the idea of a powerful being who would die for you.. kill for you.. because his love for you is that strong is the same as lusting after Ted Bundy.. who in real life murdered women and fucked their corpses. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:08 AM
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What does 50 shades have to do with anything? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:06 AM
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They aren’t.. real.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:03 AM
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Yeah. Hybristophilia is a paraphilia.. not a rule. I sure as shit don’t want to fuck a serial killer. I choose life. But you’re right. A lot of the theories and accusations on this sub are ridiculous. Every day I find out I’m biologically wired to be a cheating whore and my husband is short and hideous or he wouldn’t have married me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:15 AM
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No. You misunderstand. Sex isn’t the most important thing for a healthy relationship. Regardless of gender. Doesn’t mean it’s not great. I couldn’t imagine being in a relationship where my partner “knew to be concerned” if they weren’t giving me access to their body. That’s.. gross. But on that note… this conversation is clearly pointless. May you find depth and love. You have neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:33 AM
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Answer the question. If she changed and no longer met the prerequisites.. would sex be enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:50 AM
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My relationship would be fine. As it as been in the past. Neither of us place too much importance on sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:37 AM
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Then you don’t love her or respect her and the relationship won’t last.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:31 AM
2

Platonic love does not include romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:29 AM
2

If the prerequisites weren’t there anymore, would the relationship continue?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:26 AM
2

Romantic and platonic are not the same things. And romance does not require sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:24 AM
2

That is very much not the only difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:11 AM
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Homie.. if there are prerequisites then sex isn’t the most important thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:09 AM
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So if your partner can no longer perform.. it becomes platonic? Old age? Asexuals? Couples that don’t have sex? They’re just invalid? Sex is not the most important thing. It’s not even the second most important thing. What about respect? Communication? Consideration?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:07 AM
2

What’s all things the same mean to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:56 AM
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Pregnancy and child rearing? Some people are into the pregnancy but I’ve never heard good things about sleep deprivation and exhaustion
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:55 AM
2

So you picked her for breeding purposes, but she doesn’t offer you anything outside of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:52 AM
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As far as I’m concerned, it is unnecessary. It’s nice. I enjoy it. But if my husband lost his dick in a terrible accident, we’d be ok. But. Since I know I won’t win that argument with dudes who think sex is the most important thing in a relationship. I digress. Can a romantic relationship sustain itself on sex alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:41 AM
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No one has said at any point that sex or attraction doesn’t have a seat at the table. It just doesn’t make the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:33 AM
3

What’s the difference between her and any of your “plates”? You get sex either way. So what’s the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:30 AM
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Intimacy doesn’t have to be sexual. And you can have sexual intimacy without penetration or even touching. So. No. That’s not how it works. Sex without love is.. just a FWB. It’s not the sex that makes the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:29 AM
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Again. Not what’s being said. What’s being said is that it takes time for a woman to get back to normal. Months and even years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:27 AM
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She’s caring and nurturing... So.. the sex isn’t the most important thing. It’s an aspect of it, yes. But her body/sexuality is not even what you value most about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:26 AM
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Then I’d argue you’ve never been in love. My husband is my best friend, yes. But he is so much more than that.. and it’s not the sex that makes the difference. You can fuck your friends. You can fuck strangers. But you can’t build lives and intimacy with them without more than the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:25 AM
2

You said you have a girlfriend/wife whatever? Tell me what’s the best quality about her?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:22 AM
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Ok so you have no idea what you’re talking about. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:16 AM
3

How can you be effectively pragmatic about anything if you have absolutely no education on the subject at all? You don’t have the knowledge necessary to make any grandstanding statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:16 AM
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Have you read about it for yourself so you understand exactly what happens to a woman’s body during pregnancy and postpartum? Have you taken the time to learn from reliable, scientific sources exactly what the entire process entails?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:13 AM
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If he thinks the hormonal changes a woman goes through and postpartum is just “womens post nut clarity” I’m feeling like this one’s a lost cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:12 AM
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No. Do you know, scientifically, what happens
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:10 AM
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Because you’re theory is half backed and based off your libido. Not science.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:09 AM
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So you’re a man. Do you know what happens to a woman’s body during pregnancy and after childbirth?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:07 AM
3

So asexual people are just completely invalid? What about people who medically can’t have sex? Men with severe ED? They don’t get to have romance? You can have romantic love without sex. In fact, if you can’t have romantic love without sex… somethings wrong with your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:06 AM
3

You ever had a baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:03 AM
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It’s not the sex that makes the difference. Sex is not the deciding factor that makes romantic relationships stay together. It’s only a tool in the toolbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:03 AM
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No one said it’s impossible. They said it takes time. Often, a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:02 AM
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Yes. Leading question. But obviously it’s not the sex that makes the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:57 PM
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Anecdotal evidence isn’t evidence, as everyone loves to say in this sub. You can’t ignore what’s either the majority or close to it to try to maintain your idea that child rearing isn’t incredibly common.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:55 PM
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All things the same sex is the glue that keeps the relationship together. That’s not a true statement. You can’t ignore the rest of what makes a romantic relationship work to try and push some idea that sex is the defining factor. It’s not. I can have sex with anyone. Hell.. sex can’t be taken from me. But I don’t love everyone. It’s the love, compromise, and communication that holds a relationship together. Without those things.. it will all fall apart. That’s why NSA doesn’t work long term. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:53 PM
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Pregnancy and child rearing are not extremes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:50 PM
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It’s not. A relationship based of sex doesn’t last and isn’t fulfilling.. therefore.. sex isn’t the most important aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:49 PM
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Mm. Are you, by chance, a young adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:36 PM
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Do you think I didn’t read your article? Find one that doesn’t agree with me in a round about way. The prefrontal cortex doesn’t develop until 25. The brain is always learning and changing.. but young adults don’t have their common sense brains yet. So no. They shouldn’t be sent to die in the wars of old men. Your point is dumb and doesn’t change science.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:00 PM
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The only people who think young adults are fully formed adults are young adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:14 PM
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Here ya go. Here again. And again. Here’s an short but interesting read on brains. And of course. Here’s some more. And women process information 5 times faster. And women mature over a decade faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:32 PM
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That’s fine and dandy but any woman with any forethought at all would still insist on condoms regardless of the presence of male birth control
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:32 PM
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Your completely made up idea that women are incompetent. The majority of women do not lack analytical or critical thinking skills lmfao. Women make great leaders.. science believes they just might be better than men. So. I’m gonna have to ask you for sources on your dumbass assumptions if you aren’t just trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:06 PM
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Lmfao. You dropped this —> /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:51 AM
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You must have missed the memo. Women who want to be treated well are the minority now, it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:57 AM
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TIL standards = narcissism
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:55 AM
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What do you think makes sex good? Lmao. Thee best sex I’ve ever had.. has been with the most caring, loving, considerate man I’ve ever met. Which is why the sex is so damn good. Most men are just really shitty in bed 🤷🏻‍♀️ is what it is. She had a bunch of sex because she wanted to. Why is it your business? It’s not. Don’t ask. Also you just said you don’t judge.. but you do judge. Not sure what the point of that contradictory statement was.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:23 AM
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You might want to tell the other dudes in this sub that. And you said it, not me. I married the best dick I ever had. Being worried about your partner having had previous sex partners beyond getting tested together is insecurity. Insecurity that she’s had better and you won’t live up to her past experiences. It’s that bad dick sickness. (Dick game doesn’t actually have to be bad to have Bad Dick Sickness tho)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:15 AM
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Your first sentence doesn’t make sense. Why are you in a committed monogamous relationship with someone you don’t know at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:09 AM
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I’m not pretending. It means nothing. You caring about it is ✨insecurity✨. That’s that bad dick sickness. It’s ok tho. Majority of people don’t mind if y’all remove yourselves from the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:25 PM
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1 in 4 us adults suffer from mental health issues. And that’s just the people who report it. But keep that bright outlook on life. Good for you. In 2020.. 52 million people used Reddit daily. 430 million people used it monthly. It received 30 billion views a month. In 2023 36.2% of users were female. What’s 36.2% of at least 430 million? Reddit is bigger than Twitter, Snapchat, and Pinterest. As of December 2022, Reddit ranks as the 20th-most-visited website in the world and 6th most-visited web…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:22 PM
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What’s my body count got to do with the current relationship? Nothing. If you’re already insecure and we just started dating it’s gonna be a no from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:06 PM
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I’m not. I’m reading the weird crap you’re saying and I’m responding to it. Idk how to make this more clear for you. That’s weird. You’re weird. And not in the majority. What a woman did before fucking you isn’t your business to begin with. And you infantilizing her is just creepy. Women like sex. Women fuck. Women are not any less awesome or great because they had sex. You’re just insecure and projecting it onto women for some reason. “You hooked up before me? But but but you’re a perfect angel…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:05 PM
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12% of American women. And 23% of American men. Don’t try to mislead me. Americans aren’t the only people on here. Also.. everyone’s mentally ill. Take a hike.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:58 PM
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Yeah. No. That’s not healthy. and certainly not common lmao. Believe it or not women aren’t your precious little perfect dolls. They’re.. people. I would be absolutely disgusted to find out my husband sees me as some perverted version of his offspring and fucks me. Pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:52 PM
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Nahhh. Thats not as common as you think it is. That’s insecurity. That’s a personal problem. And super unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:41 PM
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Reddit isn’t niche lmao. And you might not think so cuz of bias but sex workers are the same women who play video games and raise kids and go to college. You unknowingly walk by them all the time lol. They’re just people. They come in all shapes and colors.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:33 PM
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It’s not. Theyre just super insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:10 PM
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You haven’t been over to the sex worker/skin care/hair care side of Reddit, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:54 PM
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I was gonna say.. I’m closing in on 30 fast and I’ve noticed absolutely no changes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:33 PM
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I wouldn’t say without any social judgment. Not anymore. People expect women to work too these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 06:29 PM
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Supposedly it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 06:27 PM
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The people should identify as something less toxic. It’s a shame the term got stolen but that’s how language works.. words morph over time. Also therapy only works for those who actually try and want it to you. Regardless of what you identify as.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:00 PM
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I’m not particularly old. Or young. But I’d laugh if someone tried to tell me what to do lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:38 PM
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I’d argue that “incel” doesn’t mean what it did originally anymore. People use it more to describe a toxic mentality. And sex won’t cure that. They just won’t be virgins anymore. Still an incel tho.. need therapy for that, I reckon
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:34 PM
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No. I’m telling you there’s a bunch of stats and studies that say otherwise. Evolutionary psychology disagrees. Read David Buss. The preferred age difference is 2-3 years. A 27 year old prefers a 25 year old. And so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:25 PM
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I want you to keep googling this until you find the studies that say otherwise that I’m too tired to go and refind for the 500th time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:20 PM
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You dropped this —> /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:19 PM
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I assume majority of men think this is a stupid take
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 12:04 PM
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It’s almost funny to watch the various men on this sub try to convince us they’re just poor low IQ animals who just can’t help themselves. Gosh just given the chance theyd all return to their Neanderthal roots. And y’all spend so much time pikachu faced about why women don’t want anything to do with most of you. Snort. Men can control themselves. And not all men cheat. You’re just weak willed and not capable of love. Don’t project that onto other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:21 AM
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Cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:17 AM
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Perhaps the men didn’t tell them they had girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:13 AM
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How would you pursue the “mother” for child support without having to prove the child is legitimate? She’d accuse you of illegally taking her egg and you’d have to provide legal documentation of the child’s validity. You wouldn’t be able to do that. You’d be exposed immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:37 PM
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Did you read anything else I said? You cannot steal someone’s dna and illegally create life without their consent. You’d be arrested. If you got an artificial womb from the black market and illegally grew a child in your garage.. how would it have a social security number? How would it be registered as being alive? It would be painfully obvious you’d committed a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:24 PM
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How scifi can something get before it’s ridiculous? We live in a world where you can steal eggs from women during their periods and grow a person illegally in your garage? Cool. Can I shoot him with my laser blaster?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:50 PM
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You can’t just make a person illegally. So. Dumb question
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:16 PM
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I was under the impression he stole her egg outside of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:04 PM
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Potentially. But I would argue you’re overestimating the number of people one sees a day. I see one on average. In my bar going days, I mostly saw all the same people every time I went.. not many. And this was in a city. Just because you live in a city doesn’t mean you see all the people in that city. I understand what you’re trying to say, but once you combine the average number of people a woman sees a day with her disinterest in looking for a potential mate (it’s just not something we’re doin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:55 PM
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It would obviously be regulated. You aren’t going to be able to just have an unregistered child in your stupid scifi fantasy. And pursue her for support how? In a legal court system? Where you suddenly just had a child you didn’t go through proper channels for? You’d be arrested and the child would be put into the system. This is a stupid question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:51 PM
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You can’t just ask stupid fucking questions. It makes your point stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:49 PM
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Never said it was ok. There’s always a risk. Don’t wanna take the risk? Don’t fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:15 PM
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Why was he not wearing a condom? Can he not throw a bitch against a wall? Don’t have sex with people you don’t know and trust. You never know who’s gonna assault you. Don’t go home with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:12 PM
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It’s the risk you take. We all know contraceptives aren’t 100%. Don’t want kids? Don’t fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:06 PM
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Yeah? Got an artificial womb have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:00 PM
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He took the risk and came in her.. that’s consent in my book. And then didn’t buy her a plan b?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:59 AM
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Wouldn’t happen. Stupid argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:52 AM
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He came in her and didn’t get her a plan b? I have no sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:48 AM
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Lmfao. Did homie just fuckin make an artificial womb in his garage?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:46 AM
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Then no. Regardless.. It’s not her fault and she’s not responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:38 AM
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This is stupid. She didn’t consent to making the baby. A man consents to making a baby. That’s the risk you take by cumming in her. A better comparison would be a woman steals your sperm and impregnates herself somehow. Is that legal? No. Should he have to pay for a child he didn’t consent to the risk of making? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:27 AM
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Don’t have his address
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:01 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:48 AM
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Or live your life miserable. Self fulfilling prophecy. Makes no difference to me or anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:12 AM
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Not shit. All you can do is be a good person and improve yourself so that when you meet a woman who is looking.. you stand out. To the right kind of woman, a man with a good sense of humor and a smile that lights up a room stands out too.. same as a guy with a ton of tattoos. There’s more to life than height and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:03 AM
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I literally just said you notice the loud person who stands out or the person who bumps into you.. and then you immediately forget they exist. Neither you nor Chad has a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:42 AM
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Ok. It’s someone else’s turn. Im not explaining this anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:36 AM
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Let’s say.. you go to the store. You’re in a hurry. You don’t want to be stopped. You look at the floor the whole time. You’re aware you walked by people but you literally didn’t see them. Can you tell me which ones you’d fuck and which ones you wouldn’t? No. Cuz you weren’t looking. But if someone bumped into you or screamed or something you’d look up for a second and then go right back to ignoring everyone. Same concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:34 AM
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You’re not listening. Youre twisting what I’m saying to fit your narrative. Good luck out there, pal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:11 AM
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I mean ok. Don’t listen. Makes no difference to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:08 AM
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Ive only ever seen “nobody owes you sex” because it’s true. The rest I’ve never seen in normal places.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:07 AM
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Just like I said. You have to stand out to override the not noticing. But even standing out isn’t enough. She has to be receptive to meeting new people. It means I didn’t even look at you when I walked by you in the store. There’s no hidden meaning about your worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:03 AM
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It’s because people are busy and not always on the look out for sex partners. Not because you’re worthless or ugly or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:58 PM
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Where do you spend your time? Follow some fuckin puppies or some shit. Sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:46 PM
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I mean I’ve blown by guys being polite because I’m busy or in my own head. I wouldn’t take it personally especially if she approached you afterwards. I’d never talk to a guy at a gas station or a stranger at all for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:02 PM
2

Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:39 PM
2

I only see this shit here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:04 PM
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You can’t combine neutral with unattractive. Neutral hasn’t gotten an evaluation. Neutral could be the hottest man in the world. I wouldn’t know. I didn’t look. Neutral ≠ unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:41 PM
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Oh for sure. I don’t go outside anymore. Tried that. Didn’t care for it. Plus I was in New Orleans before COVID.. after the ripe age of 24 my hangovers got so bad I couldn’t really hang as often 🤣 But if I did go outside.. I don’t care for anyone’s attention unless I’m in a special mood. And I’m not often in a special mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:25 PM
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I think what these guys here don’t understand is that it literally doesn’t matter what any of them do. You could be Henry Cavill dressed as the Witcher and if I’m not feeling receptive? You don’t exist. It’s like they think we aren’t people.. just animals constantly on the hunt for Chad (who doesn’t exist). And the thing is.. if I’m feeling receptive? Damn near anyone with a decent personality, decent bone structure (I like big noses), and two quarters to rub together has a chance. If I’m in a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:16 PM
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I don’t think that’s what Misty was saying.. but it’s definitely not what I’m saying. You don’t exist. That means you fall nowhere on the scale. And even if you do stand out for some reason.. I will promptly forget about you seconds after acknowledging you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:10 PM
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Even super hot guys tho.. I’m walking through Walmart and I see a 10. I think “oh damn” and then I never think about him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:05 PM
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The majority of the theories these people have are like that. I’ve never in my life seen a super tall dude and quivered. Like yeah it’s neat that giants exist. Don’t see them every day. But I’m not gonna fuck him cuz he’s tall lmao. Itty bitty men are interesting for the same reason lmao. Rich men? Intolerable. I hate them. The guys these dudes are attracted to.. the Chads? Have you met them? Insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:55 PM
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I don’t think I even see 95% of the people that exist around me. Walking through the store? Couldn’t tell ya who I walked by. I’m not looking. I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:47 PM
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Repeated in 10 different ways.. They still won’t get it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:37 PM
5

I can only think of Sharpay from highschool musical at the moment. I remember her life being easy. Been a hot minute since I watched that tho lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:53 PM
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Im sorry you had to go through with that. It’s alright. But it definitely put a bad taste in my mouth. Plus none of the questions I asked had actual answers. I just live my life well and I’ll hope for the best. How old was he? Not old enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:52 PM
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Excuses, excuses. Men can (and do) make 6 figures on OF. So.. like I said. Get back to us in a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:24 PM
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The gay community is very generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:17 PM
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Ok. You start an OF and without using your connections make 6 figures and report back.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:07 PM
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You’re not understanding that advertising is really fucking hard. Without advertising no one is subscribing. Regardless of how much content you put out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:59 PM
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I’m betting a get an in between answer since I’m not religious and don’t want to control other people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:53 PM
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Testosterone doesn’t keep you from making friends lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:52 PM
6

This is a mind numbingly stupid fucking question
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:49 PM
2

$50 for a weekend out isn’t a career lol. That’s not a million dollars. That’s my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:47 PM
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Eh. Facebook is more my speed lol. I just wanna know if I’m a slut or not 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:46 PM
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You’re not involved. If a random woman starts an onlyfans on a random day and posts some pictures of her ass and a video of her sucking dick.. she won’t make money. You can’t just make an OF and then profit. It’s not an option women just have to fall back on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:44 PM
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It most certainly does take work. OF doesn’t advertise for you lmao. Not the same concept as a cam girl service.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:34 PM
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How many is a ton? Lmao. It’s damn near impossible to amass a following as a content creator. It takes dedication, tons of hard work, and no small amount of luck to make any decent money. Like I said.. it’s not an option women can just call back on all willy nilly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:19 PM
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The percent of successful OF creators is very, very small. You can’t just make a profile and make money lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:15 PM
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It astounds me that this sub even exists lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:09 PM
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You can’t spot promiscuity anyway. My sister damn near goes to bars in a bikini and she’s had nearly no sex because she thinks it’s disgusting. You just can’t tell 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:28 AM
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I am absolutely convinced the male idea of how women work is based off teen tv shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:32 AM
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You dropped this —> /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:30 AM
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Also not everyone even knows they’re attractive. Depends on their upbringing. Was she ugly in highschool? She’s not gonna be a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:27 AM
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No, but guys don’t talk to eachother all day Who’s problem is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:26 AM
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Instagram is the big one I’ve never understood the appeal of spending time on instagram. It’s just pictures. I have one.. I post pictures of my life now and then. It’s kinda like a diary of interesting parts of my life. Your going to have to explain My parents were/are very Christian. Fire and brimstone Christian. Homeschool your kids and teach them nothing actually useful because the end of days is upon us Christian. You’re not allowed to have friends Christian. We don’t believe in doctors Chri…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:33 AM
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You give me too much credit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:20 AM
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Depends on the mood I’m in. Sometimes it’s Disney classics.. sometimes country.. sometimes Italian opera.. sometimes early 2000s. None. Who cares? I watch TV for the characters not the actors. What counts as social media? Reddit? Plenty. Facebook? Not really. Instagram? Hardly at all. Are there more? Mostly agnostic. My parents raised me super Christian. I was definitely treated poorly in the name of god. Not a fan. I have 3 actual friends. All in long term relationships. I don’t have relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:31 AM
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This whole thread is horrific.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:22 AM
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So… a woman can’t just not be in the mood?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:22 AM
1

Inexperienced*
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:19 AM
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What type of upbringing makes a woman a slut? I wanna know if I win
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:18 AM
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I’ve seen your other comments lol. Don’t play innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:57 AM
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A little old to be so dramatic. Weird when people are purposely unpleasant as some flex. Not sure why you’re trying to pack a punch. Debates aren’t won with shock. Being bigger, louder, and meaner doesn’t make you right. It makes you a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:52 AM
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Aren’t you a little old to be acting this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:42 AM
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Yeah. You’re gross. I hope you’re single and you stay that way. No one deserves your toxicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:32 AM
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Are you not American? Stop calling everyone cunts. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:29 AM
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Copium.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:11 AM
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demisexual /ˌdemēˈsekSH(əw)əl/ adjective experiencing sexual feelings and attraction only after developing a close emotional relationship and not on the basis of first impressions, physical characteristics, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:54 PM
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What’s this “violence against women journal”? Link? Regardless we aren’t talking about violence so much as we’re talking about how fairly religious women aren’t reliable sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:22 PM
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This is precisely how I explain that it is, in fact, All Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:19 PM
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Is it Facebook gossip when she’s simply asking for prayer because he hit her again? All the posts go like this, “Pray for me. I know the lord is resting me. Jeremiah hit me again. He’s so angry. We went to couples therapy a few times after I caught him cheating, but he refuses to keep going. I’m praying for him everyday. Why won’t god listen?” That’s not exactly gossip. Regardless. The studies are all poorly done and biased. Not really a source I care to put any stock in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:57 PM
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Funnily enough.. homeless guys treat women like shit too. You’d think they’d be nicer.. for survival reasons. The first one cheated on me with his baby momma (dumb on me.. never date a guy with a baby momma).. the second was scary psycho. I kicked the first one out onto the street and the second one was so nuts I had to call in a rescue from my best friend and move out of my apartment over night. So I guess yeah. It matters in that you might as well date a guy with a job cuz if he’s gonna be shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:10 PM
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No. Had nothing to do with their homelessness tho so I don’t see why that matters?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:49 PM
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Just because something scares you doesn’t mean you won’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:35 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:34 PM
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How did you get that out of what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:30 PM
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No.. it didn’t? Lmfao what the fuck are you talking about? Ok. Let’s split the population into two groups.. homeless and not homeless. Now what? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:30 PM
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You mean why aren’t women submitting to men they aren’t attracted to out of fear? Why do people do anything they’re scared to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:24 PM
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How do incels what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:19 PM
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I did date a guy a couple years ago who came to live in my apartment because he was couch surfing. Unless you’re referring to panhandlers.. but they have their own culture so..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:19 PM
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What does that have to do with his question?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:13 PM
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Feel free to elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:47 AM
1

What’s social status have to do with anything outside of highschool?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:46 AM
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Source? This happen to you a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:37 AM
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You have blue hair?! I have purple hair! And the sides are shaved! I prefer (and have) one man tho.. hmmmm..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:36 AM
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You’re literally asking why women aren’t easier to rape if men are so scary
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:14 AM
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Ones advocating for rape are arguments no one should like, buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:58 AM
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Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:48 AM
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That’s ok. Certain arguments don’t deserve respect. This is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:46 AM
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Still counts as depending on the individuals. People need to date at their level. That’s the main issue. No grown 30 yr old man needs to be dating an 18 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:45 AM
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I wasn’t lol. You used to word wrong. It confused me for a moment because I wasn’t sure what you were trying to say. I then realized you used it wrong and copied and pasted the meaning. That could have been the end of it. But then you had to show the world it wasn’t an honest mistake and you’re an idiot. So here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:43 AM
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Ok buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:41 AM
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I was trying to be helpful, prick. At least I know what basic words mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:34 AM
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Because 17-19 is a bit off putting, but if they’ve been dating for 3-4 years it’s inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:33 AM
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The more proximity between her vagina and other men, the better. prox·im·i·ty /präkˈsimədē/ noun nearness in space, time, or relationship. "do not operate microphones in close proximity to television sets"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:19 AM
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If men are so scary, why aren’t women easier to rape? Degenerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:46 AM
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lol. Join a Christian women’s Facebook group. I don’t believe these surveys.. church propaganda. I believe what I’ve seen with my own eyes tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:43 AM
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Because no one wants to be intimidated into fucking someone they aren’t attracted to. Thats coercion and that’s rape. Also what good is saying yes to someone who’s made you so uncomfortable you’re fearing for your life? They’ll just kill you later. Might as well turn them down in public and hope for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:20 PM
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That’s.. not what that means. Turning men down can be scary. That’s why women usually try to be nice when rejecting a dude or give fake numbers. Why would a woman show up to a date she doesn’t want to be on? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:01 PM
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Damn.. someone asked every autist ever? And even found the tons of adults (mostly women) who slipped through the cracks and never got diagnosed? That’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:17 PM
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I’ll give you looks, to a degree. But social media presence? Are you guys dating teenagers? Lmfao good lord. No mature adult gives a fuck about your popularity. This isn’t Glee.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:14 PM
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We don’t even know if women have bowel movements.. let alone feelings ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:09 PM
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Can you elaborate on what it is you’re asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:07 PM
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Oh absolutely. If you told me the numbers are all fudged by the men who took the surveys I wouldn’t be remotely surprised. Particularly ifstudies.. they’ve got a religious background.. you can’t tell me those surveys are accurate lmfao. See: The FRI is part of a sociopolitical movement of socially conservative Christian organizations which seek to influence the political debate in the United States. They seek "...to restore a world where marriage is upheld and honored, where children are nurture…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:57 PM
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Nah. Ignorance gets women hurt. It’s not a blessing to not know better.. it’s a trap set by men who don’t want to put in effort or be held accountable. Especially by religion. The toxicity of Christianity is so dark it’s hard to believe it’s as popular as it is. Edit: are they happier? If they knew fulfillment is out there.. they probably wouldn’t appreciate not being given the opportunity to achieve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:46 PM
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We won’t have fair or accurate statistics. Like y’all said before.. where are the stats from the men? And also.. I’ve never been asked these questions. And if I’ve never been asked.. how many others haven’t been? It’s all speculation and means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:43 PM
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I subscribe to the school of thought that it’s a lot more simple than people on here make it out to be. Relationships are work and they end if they aren’t tended to. The number of bodies is irrelevant.. the reason for the bodies is what matters. Did she sleep about because she has ragingly severe BPD? That relationship is probably going to require extra care and without it.. it will fail. Did she sleep around just cuz and she’s stable? The number of bodies won’t make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:36 PM
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People are likely to be happy in their marriages if they’re married to someone they love who loves and respects them back. I love my husband very much, but if he started treating me poorly.. I’m out. I have the life experience now to know better. I didn’t have that when I was a virgin and I stayed in abusive relationships longer than I should have. I’d bet my left tit my narrative is more common than some biased, religious mumbojumbo from ifstudies lol. I’ll argue till I’m blue in the face that …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:32 PM
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I will die on the hill that these (likely religious) virgins get divorced less because they don’t know any better. Religious men are notorious domestic abusers.. and god won’t let women divorce their husbands even if they’re abusive. So. They’re stuck. Go join a Christian women group on Facebook… it’s heartbreaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:53 PM
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This is it. This right here is the dumbest shit I’ve seen all week. Oooo buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:51 PM
2

Eh. I’d rather be playing a video game. But my ex loved the patriots and dragged me to his favorite sports bar to watch the games. I came to enjoy it. But it was more about the camaraderie than the sport itself. I enjoyed getting excited about touch downs and eating chips. I assume that’s the actual reason men are into sports.. kinda the only time a lot of men allow themselves to have friends
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:20 AM
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You had me in the first half.. not gonna lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:56 AM
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Yeah no. India is whack with some of that shit. Abuse. Marrying off children and stuff. That absolutely is not the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:51 AM
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