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It's best to amend old posts in the context of late GenZ/ Gen Alpha and their struggle in today's job, social, and dating markets. I'd say Millenials/Zillenials and their needs have moved onto consolidation of power, as most of us are late 20s at the youngest. There should be focus on wealth, health, and other aspects of post-20s life (aging, families, and life beyond the grind). The landscape today is quite different from 2016. 10 years ago, the dating scene seemed like it was propelled by a co…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/26 09:11 PM
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Number closes, as well as makeouts, don't count for shit as a metric. A girl could make out with a guy or five in a night, and go home alone.
/r/seduction02/07/24 07:24 PM
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You should be doing the ground work in real life. Text game is more making dates and can be used for light bantering between hangouts (sending funny memes). The mistake guys get into is when they go full blown dancing monkey/ jestermax.
/r/seduction02/07/24 07:21 PM
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Just because sex doesn't happen at the end of the date, doesn't mean a girl isn't into you. I personally wouldn't fly out to meet a girl I haven't smashed yet, but you do you. In the future, learn to go with the flow and read signals from the girl. No game stuff, just be chill with her. Not trying to be woo, but I think women can sense when guys are overly invested in sex, and it drys them out.
/r/seduction02/07/24 07:07 PM
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Drop the game stuff, and read the room next time. You kissed her on the cheek at the end of the date. If things were going somewhere with her, she would be clawing to go mouth-to-mouth with you. Raincheck with no alt time/place = she's just not that into you. It happens, and no amount of game will get you into her pants. Just move on to the next one.
/r/seduction02/07/24 07:00 PM
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Take a break, and take some time to change your approach. How's your personal stats? Looks, finances, status? These matter. Are you just spam approaching? Are you listening for IOIs from the girl? Do you have wingmen, and wing women to help you out? What type of environments are you going to? Do you mesh with the environment, (i.e. if you don't like clubs, don't force yourself to go to clubs)?
/r/seduction31/03/24 05:44 PM
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I'm in the camp that physique matters alot. Frankly, there's not one reason you should not be physically active, barring medical reason, and even then, you can work with a doctor to find an exercise routine to perform. Too many guys out here want to rely on their "game"; while they look like basement dwellers. Going into the gym trains you to beat the voice in your head that compels you to just sit at home and eat Doritos on your couch. Hell, it doesn't even have to be weights 5 times a week (fr…
/r/seduction31/03/24 04:59 PM
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True. Lot of posers getting tattoos just because it's the cool thing.
/r/seduction27/03/24 01:48 AM
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If she's not feeling like going straight to your place of her own accord, there's no amount of game that will convince her. If you have girls wanting to meetup, oblige them and set up a date. Damn PUAs got people thinking anything other than a 5 minute lay is a loss. This is a business transaction, value for value. Dating is the business of people. If you've matched and she's reciprocating, she's interested, but just wants to check under the hood and test drive to make sure you don't her any loo…
/r/seduction25/03/24 07:50 PM
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Based on the competition, it's not hard to stand out much. Have a cool cosplay for starters, as an ice breaker. Dating is the business of people. We're all personal brands competing with one another. Not to trash them, but most guys in the anime community are not exactly top shelf quality. 95% of guys will probably be Resentful orbiters hoping to finally get some action. Creepy weirdos who can't talk to girls. Overweight/skinnyfat/ unhygienic/ autistic/ etc. Basically, act like a guy who has got…
/r/seduction25/03/24 07:22 PM
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Happened upon this by chance. I guess I would fit into the Old Guard category as a Seduction Sub refugee circa 2014. After a while, you see the same shit spoken over and over again, and after taking action towards your goals, the training wheels come off. I read, digested and internalized knowledge, and went out into the world with that information. I think the same thing happened for many gents here from those days. You either get it and get back into society or you stay here and rot in arreste…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/23 10:56 PM
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Women have better support systems (e.g. friends, family) and also are more emotionally healthy in that they communicate and bond with said support system. Men tend to be solitary, with few friends to really to hang with, never mind vent to. When a man finds a girl, that tends to be the most intimate relationship they have at the time. Men need to be healthy in terms of platonic/non-sexual relationships, so that they don't put all of their emotional/mental health "eggs" in one basket.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:46 PM
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She's just being a bitch for whatever stupid reason, maybe she had a bad day and decided to lash out at someone. Either way, she saved you a bunch of time. Don't stick around next time, just shrug your shoulders and bounce to the next girl. Don't let it get to you, girls who try doing that are headcases who want to get back at life fucking them in the ass by trying to bring others down. If anything, you should feel sorry for them. Most girls will be polite and just tell you "it was nice meeting …
/r/seduction10/10/22 03:23 AM
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"Chop it up" = Chat with them. Chat with like they are human.
/r/seduction08/10/22 04:40 PM
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It's possible, but you gotta a bunch lames who think they'll get their foot in the door by just liking anime. Take a look at any famous cosplay or porn star on Twitter, like Violet Myers. She's the quintessential "anime girl" a lot of these dudes fawn over. A bunch of lames hitting on her. You gotta standout heavy. Hit the gym, have a genuine interest in cosplay/anime, and just chop it up the girls. Ask about their costume, banter a bit, and see who wants to link up. If she gives you her promoti…
/r/seduction07/10/22 07:40 PM
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Outside would be more natural. Preferably during one of your hobbies or something.
/r/seduction06/10/22 11:09 PM
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Not to steal your thunder, but I might start offering something like this is the LA area.
/r/seduction06/10/22 11:07 PM
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What exactly did you change? Your pics, your bio, your text strategy? Keeping it vague doesn't help anybody here.
/r/seduction06/10/22 11:06 PM
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Check out the various subreddits available Skin r/SkincareAddiction Hair r/Hair /r/malehairadvice Clothes r/malefashionadvice r/malefashion r/frugalmalefashion Aesthetics r/naturalbodybuilding r/weightroom
/r/seduction03/10/22 05:36 AM
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If I'm in thr Uber to the club, I might just fuck around and swipe/message. girls. Once I'm in the club, I might check messages between sets, and if someone bites the bait and certainly wants to meet, I'll go for them. If my inbox is dry, I'm prioritizing the real life situation. Ideally, before Friday even comes around, I would be trying to convert OLD matches to meetups. That way, you can either have a lay set up for that night, have someone to take to the club if you want, or if things go sou…
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:29 PM
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Use everything in your disposal. OLD, cold approach, social circle. I have to argue that a real life interaction might be better for results. Think of it like a job search. OLD is like applying online, i.e. just a bunch of people throwing their resumes into the interviewers inbox. Unfortunately, unlike jobs that have ATD to better filter for the right candidate or have a cutoff date where applicants are no longer accepted for consideration, OLD doesn't have that. Furthermore, you're just a profi…
/r/seduction22/07/22 12:18 AM
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My stack I used in past was basically some combo of the following. Phenibut - Check out the subreddit to find proper dosage info and vendors. I used to slam 3.5 g every weekend(very heavy doses), but you may find you only need <1g. Racetams (Oxi-, phenyl, ani-) Weed (Find out if sativa or indica works better for you) Alcohol - A shot or two of liquor before I get into the uber. Caffeine (Preworkout,Bang, Capsules) I've messed around with things like L-Theanine, GABA, Passionflower, Ashwaghanda, …
/r/seduction30/06/22 08:07 PM
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I think that's just the nature of the game, regarding apps in general. 1.The new thing comes out 2.Pioneers discover it and spread the word. A bubble is created,and the golden age occurs. Monetization occurs.Creators try to branch out and eventually cash out. Ads come in, scammers and other opportunists try to capitalize on it. Eventually, the masses tire of it, and they move on to the next thing. Leaving the bad apple crowd. I remember Tinder and Bumble being way more fruitful back in 2017-2019…
/r/seduction30/06/22 07:57 PM
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Sounds like you had some FOMO where you thought college was supposed to be a 24/7 fuckfest depicted in American Pie or Asher Roth's music vid. It also sounds like you're overcoming the issue as well, so that's good. Take some time work on yourself this summer. -Stack some paper and experience if you're doing a co-op/ internship. -Get into a fitness program if you not doing one. Simplest thing is lifting and some form of cardio, but other avenues are good e.g. rock climbing, pickup basketball, bo…
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:02 PM
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Everything matters. Work on everything.
/r/seduction14/06/22 07:20 AM
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Bro, you're in a frat and you've atleast had makeouts. Sounds like you got clearance to land, but you just won't grab your nuts and land the plane. 20 is still hella young, and you have the right conditions to get laid, e.g. proximity, social circle, social proof. You should try to get one of your fraternity brothers to lend you a room for the night during one of the parties. Banter with a few ladies, see who is giving you signals, and try to lead her upstairs. Just ask a girl if she wants to li…
/r/seduction14/06/22 07:12 AM
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I always saw it as virtually panhandling. The London Daygame style has always been ass in my opinion. Coming off direct might seem like a good way of screening and saving time, and it fails to accomplish the goal of getting her hooked. Approaching a girl walking on the street usually isn't good practice, as she might be on the way somewhere. If she's just chilling at the park, that's probably better since she's just idling. Still, I would atleast try to open indirect and feel her out, and let he…
/r/seduction02/06/22 05:49 AM
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True. Just because the sun's up doesn't, doesn't mean it's daygame. Squattincassanova said something about not limiting "daygame" and "nightgame" to certain periods of time, e.g. a day club/pool party is "night game", a university library during exam season at 1AM is "daygame". Vegas is party city, so it's more or less "nightgame" (i.e. a setting where social interactions are encouraged) around the clock. Spray and pray is the name of the game. Still a good F.R.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 10:10 PM
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Looks matter, just like a good resume matters. It's not a guarantee to get the girl, but it gets your foot in the door. Believing they don't leaves a lot of potential matches on the table. I'd wager most dudes can get up to atleast a 7/10 if they put the work in. Skincare, haircut,teeth, muscle/bodyfat,clothes, etc.
/r/seduction28/05/22 12:57 AM
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I gotta respectfully disagree. In a place like Vegas, with a majority transient population that is refreshed pretty much everyday, you have the advantage of meeting 20 new faces every hour. 500 novel approaches is easy on a given Friday-Monday period in Vegas. Vegas is one of the few spots where mass cold approach is king, due to having the aforementioned population refresh and the added benefit that girls are coming to party and get lucky with a guy they fancy, i.e. social context has already b…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/22 02:58 AM
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Unless this is supposed to be self deprecating comedy/trolling, this isn't a good idea. Twitter a cancel culture central.
/r/seduction25/05/22 10:07 PM
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LA is very social circle heavy. That being said, you can get lucky if the stars align. Sounds like you already got contacts in the city with the models. I'd honestly skip trying to fuck them (other than as a last resort, unless they're throwing it at you) and use them as leverage to meet other women and get you into clubs and private parties. Just don't be PUA spergy.
/r/seduction25/05/22 10:04 PM
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Another one bites the dust. Most of these coaches aren't worth the money, and 99% of what they have in their vids is repackaged into their paid services. I looked up PWF on Youtube and it seems like he's trying to make a name for himself by being as inflammatory as possible, i.e. clout chaser. His Tinder advice is garbage tbh, just essentially a lot of begging for a lay, IRL game is even worse (basically relies on his dog to get traction). IIRC, he posted something about texting a 40 year old la…
/r/seduction25/05/22 10:00 PM
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I've done less than 100... So, why the hell would you encourage someone to do over 200 approaches for marginal results if you don't even follow your advice? Cold approach has its niche use, being that it's supposed to get you over the initial hump of fear of rejection. Past that, an individual should be more selective with who, when, where, and how they approach. Having a noob feel good about getting a flakely number after spending 5 hours approaching in a mall is asinine. Even if you got one su…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/22 08:42 PM
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What's the context? Is the fat guy the one making the plans in his social circle? Does he command respect from his peers or is he the perpetual butt of joke? How's his money, status, and/or mouthpiece? Rich Ross was a fat fuck, but no body was throwing him out of bed. How do you define "fat"? Skinny fat or off-season physique competitor? Is he tall/carry the fat in such a way that he doesn't look like Jabba the Hutt. Tyson Fury is built like a bag of milk, but he's a 7 foot tall, world champion …
/r/TheRedPill03/05/22 05:11 PM
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Look for other activities with cooler people. Capitalize on small talk with people, when you're out and about. Befriend girls, and use that to network to meet other girls.
/r/seduction03/05/22 01:36 AM
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Hell you don't even have to be am executive, but just being around people and getting invited to things help you in the long run. As long as you are bringing something to the table, you got an "in" into the group.
/r/seduction02/05/22 10:36 PM
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Big Man On Campus. Usually an athelete, a member of frat (if you're in the US), a student body member, or just someone who is high up in a school club social circle. Usually a guy with connections to everything from parties, drugs, alcohol, or just everyday academic stuff (networking events, test banks, etc.).
/r/seduction02/05/22 09:30 PM
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Where you located at?
/r/seduction02/05/22 09:10 PM
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Reminds me of old Squattincassanova vids. For the most part, sounds like she was DTF but she was half way sexually unavailable, as she was hanging with you, but she had to make sure her girls would be okay. Vegas is pretty much an adult playground, and women look for the one night romance fantasy with the right guy. You can assume if a girl is hanging with you in Vegas, she's DTF but just needs to get comfort from you/creep check. It's just a matter of time until you seal the deal. Good job esca…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 08:44 PM
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Closer to your spot would be better. However, if she's DTF it won't matter. She'll drive across the country to smash.
/r/seduction02/05/22 08:37 PM
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Drop the Mystery Method, and check out Strength By Sonny (he got rid of his dating articles, but you can use Internet Archive to retrieve them) and Good Looking Loser
/r/seduction02/05/22 07:19 PM
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You can date milfs, strippers, atheletes, bodybuilders, gamer girls, youtubers etc...The probability of you meeting these types of women if you're a regular guy working at an office, restaurant or from home while also having a few basic hobbies on the side is tremendously low. You can meet people who know other people who know other people. The idea that your pool of women is limited to just the ones working at your office or your hobby flawed. You meet a chick at work, befriend her, meet her fr…
/r/seduction02/05/22 07:16 PM
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Nah, OP needs to drop the com approach shit, because it's fucking with his head. His self esteem is getting fucked because he believes after some imaginary "pain period" he'll be batting .999. Cold approach is fine in moderation, but the PUA conmen and retards push it as the be-all, end-all. A sale only succeeds of someone wants to buy. OP is probably lacking in certain areas. From his other comments, he sounds like a lone wolf. He should be trying to work on his general social skills, and get a…
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:59 PM
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Better yet, try to get into a social group. 99% of the time, you show me a guy who struggles to get a girlfriend or even a one night stand, and I'll show you a guy who has no social life to begin with. On a college campus, it's all about linking social circles. OP should be trying to get a BMOC to take underneath their wing, instead of spam approaching like a maniac.
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:43 PM
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Stop. Drop the spam cold approaching. It's only useful for getting over the hump of approach anxiety. You know you can approach a girl, you should be focused on social circle, since you're in college. You need to be joining social groups and hobby groups that have events so that you meet people in a social environment. Cold approach is overemphasized too much here.
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:26 PM
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Yeah, USC is located there. Closest experience I've had to an isolated college town like that is Athens GA, and the attire was basically jean, Tees, V-Necks, casual button downs. You can rock sneaker or even Clark boots. Charlotte is a major city with college districts in it (think Atlanta with GT, GSU, Morehouse/Spellman, SCAD or Phoenix with ASU). You'll have a mixture of more college focused spots where the aforementioned clothing is appropriate and more formal spots where a blazer would come…
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:23 PM
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Ah gotcha, I thought you were still in school. If you hitting a place with a bumping nightlife scene that is focused on a post college crowd e.g. Scottsdale, Buckhead, Santa Monica, Miami, then yes. Plain Ts, v-necks, jeans. Clean sneakers (not running shoes mind you), or boots/shoes. Blazers definitely work with a regular shirt/Tee/V-Neck.
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:14 PM
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If people are rocking blazers and button ups, sure. But the biggest take away is that OP was rolling with a crew of fellow college Greeks looking for an afterparty. A group of young bulls dressed up does wonders for your status.
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:00 PM
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It sounds like it was you and your fraternity brothers in a group all suited and booted, so it's not like it's just you in a suit. You got social proof from the context clues of being with a very social, fun college fraternity. The biggest contextual takeaway is not your clothing, but your social proof. Had you walked in solo in a suit on a non-Greek Formal night, you probably would have been seen as a try hard. You could probably go out next week with the suit, and not have such luck. However, …
/r/seduction02/05/22 05:53 PM
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It's a metaphor. If a woman is highly interested in you, you basically are her own personal Brad Pitt. When that happens, she will move mountains and cross oceans to make time for you. She will break every rule for you. She'll make it very easy for you. It's a guideline that can save you a lot of trouble when it comes to telling the difference between women who are DTF and women who seem to be dragging their feet with you. e.g. trying to get a text back or a date off of Tinder. Would she forget …
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 04:46 PM
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Unless you're taking grad courses or your job requires you to be there, it's time to move on to a bigger city. Stack your paper and leave. Approaching 30, you'll just wind stunting your personal growth hanging out with kids who need to ask Daddy for money before going to Miami for spring break.
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:34 PM
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Brad Pitt rule, essentially. If it were Micheal B Jordan, Oscar Isaac, or Jacob Elordi, she'd be breaking all kinds of rules.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 06:34 AM
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Laycount is somewhat bullshit. One could be slumming it with obese troglodytes, doing pay for play in the third world, or just straight up lying/embellishing (makeout/over-the-pants handjob counting).
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:02 AM
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She wasn't feeling the love. Girls who are interested will make things super easy. They'll neutralize everything from AMOGs to mother hens to bad logistics.
/r/seduction02/05/22 05:59 AM
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I started working at a late night food spot in a college town. I'm in my forties. The place is packed with scores of half naked college girls leaving the bar. Proximity helps. Being around women atleast puts you in the running. You got age working against you, and possibly status. You gotta provide things your younger college coubterparts can't. If your physique is not on point, you're working uphill. Why would a 21 year old go for a 40 year old guy with a gut, when she can go for a 23 year old …
/r/seduction02/05/22 05:32 AM
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Vegas, Miami, or other major city, you can get away with a blazer. A suit in a college party where everyone else is wearing polos is try-hard.
/r/seduction02/05/22 05:17 AM
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Just drop her honestly. Why wait in the wings like a second choice? "Persistance" is retarded.
/r/seduction02/05/22 05:14 AM
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How old are you? If you're under 25, you van definitely fit in a college town. If you have a nicely sized place, you can host parties and shit. Beyond 25, you should be looking for a big city to reside in. Age disparity will work against you, and you will be the "weird old guy".
/r/seduction02/05/22 05:13 AM
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I'd said it multiple times, Redpill stuff is a guidebook/manual. Past a certain point where you can stand up on your own two feet and reach fulfillment under your own power, you should just walk away from this and live your life with the knowledge you learned. I know a lot of people in thrbseduction and even the redpill community would like to see you perpetually on the teat to like their pockets, but the is only so much you can teach beyond the sidebar. Reading and learning redpill is essential…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 04:45 AM
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People always talk about how "Social Circle Game" is the easiest game, and yeah it is... provided you are already in that social circle...If you look at it from a long-term scale of time, I'd argue that Social Circle Game is actually the hardest. Developing a social group is in fact much harder and requires much more effort than approaching some random bimbo at a bar/club who you mustered up the courage to go talk to after a beer or three. More effort, but it's way better in regards to return on…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 04:37 AM
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This is true. Too many PUAs always want you to act like a bum panhandling on the streets or begging for scraps on Tinder. The game community fosters too much of the lone wolf/ "only associate with other game bros" mentality. I'm a firm believer in refraining from seduction communities as a means to have a social life. Instead, find naturals and Chads who will take you under their wing (provided you bring something to the table). We always talk about gaming women, but never about gaming settings …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/22 11:29 PM
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Build up everything. Looks, money, status, game,etc and all else will fall into place. Don't leave anything on the table.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/22 05:36 PM
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Then you kill two birds with one stone. If she stays, you got a woman who thinks you're a king. If she leaves, you're already set to hit the road and start campaigning
/r/TheRedPill07/02/22 09:44 PM
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Always be improving gents. Do no fall in to beta patterns. Whenever you want to skip the gym, eat ice cream, and start giving up on your passions and goals, that's when she'll start looking for a exit strategy. When she sees other women eyeballing you on the streets, she'll bend over backwards to satisfy you in the sheets.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/22 08:32 PM
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Some do it for glory/attention/daps from other men. Your average dating coach is a emotionally stunted individual who is most likely in it for the sake of having a fanclub. Others do it to stop men from making the same mistakes they made. I did my time trying to evangelize people on Reddit, but I came to the realization that it's best to keep it to yourself or dose it out in small portions to friends and family members who need help.
/r/newTRP07/02/22 08:19 PM
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2500 euros for 5 months of training? Sounds decent. Comes out to 125 dollars a week. If he's giving you tips on fashion, Fitness, aesthestics, and othe man shit, then it's worth it. It's some one a week, phoned in meeting, than nah. Most coaches are looking for a quick payout for as little work as possible. There's too much free stuff on the internet to hire a coach. I don't really like the bootcamp model. Three days to cram a bunch of info into your brain is too short. It's like taking a kid in…
/r/seduction02/02/22 10:56 PM
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Definitely join a sports team and/or a student gov club. Football, Wrestling, Baseball, Basketball, Swimming/Diving, Track and Field should be your number one choice. Most of these sports are good for building camaderie with other guys, they're seen as high value in high school, and are a surefire way to get free access to a weightroom if your school is financially well off. You want to get into a student council/student government club to build up leadership and social skills. Not to mention, t…
/r/seduction02/02/22 10:25 PM
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Dread game. If you're highly sought after by other women, that'll keep her in line.
/r/seduction02/02/22 10:17 PM
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Wine ages fine if given the proper treatment. Men are no different. If you shirk on eating clean, staying fit, and mentally simulating yourself, you will spoil and turn into vinegar. Invest in yourself today.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/22 10:01 PM
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How bad do you have to fuck up to end up on a dating app as a Hollywood star? You have to burn every bridge to not have something to fall back on. Imagine Tom Holland or Michael B Jordan on Tinder. Even if you could clean up all the women as one of them, there's a certain decorum that would be violated by being such a high value individual meddling with the proletariat. Hollywood types are usually date within their own elite circles, they're not fucking around with some trash from Ohio. The fact…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/22 08:45 PM
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Are you me? I had to educate my girl on the concept of having emergency funds left over each month, or in my case "Apocalypse Money" for when everhthing implodes at once. For any man who's been unexpectedly hit by a barrage of bills in a short period of time, you know it's not good feeling. Car blows up, you or your family member ends up in the hospital, you lose your job, etc. Suddenly, the debt is stacking up, and you have to withdraw from everything aside from the bare essentials to pay off w…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/22 08:31 PM
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If you're balding, shave it off completely. Grow a beard and lift weights. No one would kick Jason Statham or Dewayne Johnson out of bed for being bald.
/r/seduction01/02/22 12:53 AM
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Bruh, I literally gamed at nighcubs with dudes who walked in smelling like shit. You'd be surprised how many people walk around unwashed.
/r/seduction01/02/22 12:47 AM
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I've seen some blotchy smelly ass gross men who have slept with women because they had game. What caliber of women? An LA "9" or an Ohio "3"? I'm fairly certain 99% of men here would not be down to lay with a 1/10 hairy, fat chick. If they were content with that, this sub wouldn't be here. The fact of the matter is that most dudes here want the hottest chick possible, which means they're bound to meet a lot of competition. If basic hygiene is too much for anyone reading this, drop the all game t…
/r/seduction01/02/22 12:42 AM
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I'm not usually one to take dating advice from women, but OP is literally stating the bare minimum that every man on this sub should be following. Basic grooming is too much? Have fun running "game" and convincing yourself that you're "James Bond", while looking like the r/antiwork mod
/r/seduction01/02/22 12:32 AM
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Sounds like you went in half-cocked and faltered. This is a "don't shit where you eat" situation, albeit not as potentially catastrophic as a work relationship type. You went in there trying to do some "James Bond" suave shit, when you should have bringing to the TV for Netflix and Chill, if not hiring her a tour of room and escalating. Go all in or don't try at all. She's 18, doesn't do much, and likes to party. You can. be the cool older guy who invites her to shit. Hell, you should have crack…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/22 09:57 PM
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Good to see people are seeing the light, lately. GoodLookingLoser had a really good article on sexual availability, basically stating that contrary to PUA dogma, not very girl will be down to fuck you, no matter what line you use. Alexander the Great and Napoleon suffered defeats. Mike Tyson and Tom Brady lost their champion status time and again. So it's not the end of world. It's cringe seeing "coaches" show guys how to be a dancing monkey for a chick who has them on the bench at best. You sho…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/22 06:12 PM
2

I had one about ten or so years ago. Hot and built. Sexy and would be touchy feely and all. Three dates. Dinner twice and then dinner and a movie. During the movie I figured that she had a three dates til fucking rule because she was literally all over me. Grabbing my dick. Guiding my hands to feeling her up. Legs over mine with the seat arm up and all but mounting me there in the theater. Oh definitely, they'll do that shit all day. Keep you hooked by doing everything under the sun, but they'll…
/r/seduction31/01/22 05:39 PM
2

Pretty good list. Well done.
/r/seduction28/01/22 09:43 PM
2

Phenibut is used as a sleep aid, so that might explain the fatigue. I've used caffeine and racetams in conjunction with phenibut to get a stimulant effect. Very valuable stack when going for 8 hours in the club in Vegas. Drink a Bang/Redbull and dose some phenibut before your trip to see how you feel.
/r/seduction27/01/22 07:25 PM
1

Good news: College is the perfect time for re-inventing and re-branding yourself. You're young, so you probably think high school is the pinnacle of life and it's all downhill from here. On the contrary, life is just starting. Things you can do right now -Finish strong in your last few months. -Start lifting when the summer begins. -Keep on contact with peeps from high school. Don't let those relationships wither away. That's how people end up lonely in life. Summer/Fall -Contact your future roo…
/r/seduction27/01/22 07:19 PM
1

Tinder/Hinge/Bumble have their uses. The biggest thing is maximizing your profile. No selfies, no blurry pics, etc. College is about social circle game.
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:52 PM
1

100 notices by the end of the decade is doable. That's pretty much a girl every month. You might run into dry spells, so you will have to consider slumpbusters from time to time. Not sure what your opinion on vaccines/masks are, but it's definitely possible to get laid during quarantine. Hell, I was getting action in the middle of COVID and BLM lockdowns in my city back in 2020. You'll probably have to grit your teeth until you graduate and get into a better position to date as your campus sound…
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:43 PM
2

I've used different vendors throughout years, and played around with different dosages. I might be getting older or the vendor, but I would use some pretty doses, usually 3.5g. Recently, I've only been able to tolerate around 2g, or I get spins. I'm a heavy guy as well, so that plays a part in the effects. How much do you take?
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:31 PM
4

Mystery Method, huh? Might be a bit outdated, but if it works for you, use it. Personally, I used to watch PickupAlpha, since he has infield in Vegas. He has vids on his site. Vegas is an adult playground, so you'll find someone who's looking to play provided you don't look crazy and you look sharp. Any of those clubs you listed are high capacity, so you should not be wasting time on anybody who's not feeling the love. Phenibut is good for anxiety, just don't get too fucked on it. Approach, find…
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:28 PM
3

NOLA, Vegas, Miami, Nashville, Scottsdale, Honolulu
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:20 PM
3

You’re right, you can’t know where things will go. Tho, you all have more control over that direction than you may realize. Men who lead make things happen and we love men like that. As far as control on the male side, we can set the stage, but at the end of the day, women are the gatekeepers of sex. Sex or simply the prospect of a sexual relationship can be withdrawn at any point in time. Before agreeing to a date, I vet men, so we’ll have talked on the phone a few times before the first date -…
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:08 PM
22

Although I have my opinions on bootcamps and "Instagram funneling", good to see you got what you needed from it.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 06:06 PM
1

I have to disagree. At the first date stage, both people know nothing about each other, so there is inherently special about each other in their respective eyes aside from looks. Nothing personal to the woman, but men aren't mind readers nor can they see into the future, so we have no way of knowing if she will even be into us. Aside from aesthestics, there's nothing to go off of. Would you prefer that a man wine and dine you solely because you were sexy looking to him? Seems very shallow. I'd a…
/r/seduction26/01/22 02:18 AM
1

You don't have to stay at the coffeeshop for the whole date. Once you get a vibe you guys are compatible, change venues e.g. go bowling.
/r/seduction26/01/22 02:09 AM
1

You can do coffee in the afternoon/ evening as well. Drinks or ice cream are also an option. In addition, the date doesn't have to end with the coffee. If you're both feeling good, you can extend the date and do an activity, like visiting a park.
/r/seduction26/01/22 01:50 AM
1

Instadate is priority number one. You have her attention right then and there, so strike while the iron is hot. What do you think is gonna happen if you do a drive-by interaction for 5 mins and the. get her number? You just become a set of 1's and 0's, an NPC, a non-entity. If the instadate ain't happening, then getting her number is warranted. A phone number puts you in the list of people she has vetted in her mind. Insta/Snapchat is basically the "Fan-Zone".
/r/seduction25/01/22 11:39 PM
2

Get her number, not snapchat/instagram. The latter puts you in the "Fan-zone". Honestly, you should drop her. Girls who aren't interested like to do that shit where they play dumb/hard of hearing. You sent her an invite, and she acted liked that text never got sent. Drop her. Also, for first dates: coffee, drinks, or ice cream. No dinner dates until you guys smash.
/r/seduction25/01/22 11:31 PM
2

TL;DR most coaches are looking for a quick payout for as little work as possible. There's too much free stuff on the internet to hire a coach. I don't really like the bootcamp model. Three days to cram a bunch of info into your brain is too short. It's like taking a kid in floaties and throwing them in the middle of a stormy ocean, and telling them to swim. Not to mention, the exorbitant price for such a short period of time, they're basically robbing students. If I were to get a coach, it would…
/r/seduction25/01/22 08:14 PM
2

"Date" is very polarizing, but it will help to filter out the people who may want to date you. I imagine you're asking people out in your social circle. Nothing wrong with that. Obviously, you have to kind of feel it out with the girl to see where her mind's at. Does she touch you alot? Do you hangout together alot? However, at the end of the day, you'll have to take the leap of faith and cross over from friends onto being man-to-woman. If you're afraid of fucking up the vibe with asking them ou…
/r/seduction25/01/22 07:25 PM
15

TLDR: She was probably interested, and gave you an audition at the bar. You didn't take her, so the deal's off, but she's given you beta orbiter role as consultation prize. Move on from her. I texted her about setting up a date and she said she was busy and wasn't sure if she would be free so I just assumed she wasn't interested anymore and ignored it, I then saw her in person randomly when I went to a bar with some friends and I asked her about the date and if she was still interested and she s…
/r/seduction24/01/22 08:08 PM
3

Yes, you absolutely should define the meetup as a "date". It's polarizing, but you want things to be polarizing. With dating, it's either a "fuck yes" or a "hell no". That being said, she's giving signals that she's not into you.
/r/seduction23/01/22 02:00 AM
11

TL;DR Drinks, coffee, or ice cream. Move the date to another venue of she's feeling the love, and then try to get her to either your place, her place, or set up a second date. First Dates can be seen as multiphase, imo Phase 1 is the initial meet. It should be light, and just a means to feel each other out. If goes well, you can move onto to Phase 2, but if she's not feeling the love, you can easily cut the date short. Your choices should always be one of the follwing three. No exceptions. Drink…
/r/seduction23/01/22 01:50 AM
28

Since your post got deleted, I wanted to reiterate what I commented on. A good physique and aesthestics are like a resume, it'll get you in the door for the interview/date. Alphadestiny and Jeff Nippard have great content on aesthestics. Check out the bodybuilding/naturalbodybuilding and weightroom subreddits. Classic Era type physiqes are GOAT (Frank Zane, Bob Paris, Steve Cook would be a contemporary equivalent) That means Y-Frame, so you should be prioritizing giving sweet love to the followi…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 08:20 PM
13

A good physique and aesthestics are like a resume, it'll get you in the door for the interview/date. Alphadestiny and Jeff Nippard have great content on aesthestics. Check out the bodybuilding/naturalbodybuilding and weightroom subreddits. Edit: I want to add a bit about what a goal physique should be. Classic Era type physiqes are GOAT (Frank Zane, Bob Paris, Steve Cook would be a contemporary equivalent) That means Y-Frame, so you should be prioritizing giving sweet love to the following muscl…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 09:07 PM
2

If I'm going to be frank, you're gonna have to just try stuff. You're the driver. All we can do here is give you the road map. What might work for some, might not work for others. At the end of the day, you gotta do something. There's plenty of subreddits to help you. Inner game: See a therapist/psychiatrist, get hobbies Outer game: Lift (r/fitness, r/weightroom, r/bodybuilding), improve your clothes (r/malefashionadvice), improve aesthestics (r/skincareaddiction for starters). Social Skills: r/…
/r/seduction11/01/22 06:54 AM
1

If you're doing manual labor, that's already something to use towards getting lean. There's a hell of a lot of subreddita that can get you to your goals. r/Fitness r/GettingShredded r/naturalbodybuilding r/weightroom r/loseit r/gainit I recommend seeing a therapist and r/getdisciplined for your :inner-game", so you speak. Too many dudes in the Seduction/TRP circles have too much baggage that needs to be unloaded before they start getting into dating.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/22 12:08 AM
1

I would say use it as a slump-buster, and then rebuild yourself. Just don't become addicted to them and/orbuse them for emotional validation. That's how you become the lonely old guy in the strip club who comes in on a daily basis It you had a girlfriend in the past, then you have hope. You need yo start building up a social circle, as it sounds like you don't have peers around your age who can help you get girls. What are your hobbies? What's your life like outside of work?
/r/ExRedPill11/01/22 12:02 AM
5

Befriend the men, and the women. Men who are social and good with women will take you under their wing and bring you into their circle and provide social proof. Women give a boost to social proof when they're hanging with you.(e.g. other women will see you as a non-creeper type). You should not be going to a hobby activity to game. People will pick up on the vibe that you're not intrinsically invested in the activity, and will brand you a predatory interloper.
/r/seduction10/01/22 07:54 PM
4

Like many, he has his pros and cons. Pros- He doesn't try to be psychiatrist/therapist. If you don't have any hangups and just want to get laid, he skips through a lot of woo bullshit. Cons- He substitutes woo bullshit for broscience bullshit. Meaning lines that sounds very forced to push the interaction where he wants.
/r/seduction07/01/22 05:23 PM
1

Why?
/r/seduction07/01/22 08:28 AM
1

Where do you live? LA/NYC/ATL will yield you better results than Missouri/Montana.
/r/seduction07/01/22 08:19 AM
3

Nightclubs inherently are difficult. They're not for everyone. It just plain might not be your scene. That being said, it's not impossible to get laid from nightclubs. As a fellow brother, black men are highly polarizing. Women are either 200% on our program or not. We automatically get swag points off our skin alone. Of course, we also get the rap for gangstas, drug dealers, and hypersexual athletes. We usually have to up to sophistication to counteract this. Think Tupac in a Suit. You're expec…
/r/seduction07/01/22 08:17 AM
1

Shirtless outdoor pic during an activity, volleyball, surfing, swimming. Preferably with a smile on your face to take some edge off of the fuckboy vibes.
/r/seduction07/01/22 07:52 AM
1

Not sure what is the deal is with getting them to your place first thing. $20 happy hour at the bar to grease the wheels shouldn't be a problem for you. It'll help to ease her worries. Not to mention the benefits of vetting a girl before you bring her to your spot. There have been a lot of stories of men getting setup and robbed from dating sites. You could potentially have a Balcony Brah situation on your hands.
/r/seduction07/01/22 07:50 AM
1

Considering LinkedIn has gone to shit regarding actual Profesional network building and become FacebookLite, I'd go for it. This is a decent message that won't land you on the proverbial SummerJam Screen. That being said, this is essentially an Instagram DM slide-thru, so it'll probably be a long shot. If she messages back, try to meet up for coffee and go from there.
/r/seduction07/01/22 06:44 AM
2

Let me start off by saying Hollywood movies are a fiction. James Bond and Tony Stark are no more real than Gandalf and Darth Vader. Do not try to model your game off of scripted events that have gone through a strainer of rewrites and improvs. Not saying you need this advice OP, just want to make it clear to any noobs out there who think interactions be as smooth as the lines in movies. That being said, take a salsa or bachata class. If you want to be able to lift girls up, find a gymnastics or …
/r/seduction07/01/22 06:08 AM
1

Like most of these companies and coaches, the free stuff is pretty good if you have the critical thinking to parse through the bullshit in the hours long vids. I, like many, went in deep towards the latter part of the 2010s, saw the culty nature of the movement, and left.Frankly, I felt more aligned with the more bro-culture coaches (e.g. Squattincassanova, Sonny Arvado, Goodlookingloser) than the non-threatening, trolling weasel antics Tyler and Julien. The former skipped straight to the meat o…
/r/seduction07/01/22 06:05 AM
3

If she wants you, she wants you. Girls who are into you will move mountains and cross oceans to be with you. If it were Tom Holland or Michael B. Jordan she were texting, I highly doubt she would lose interest because they didn't text her enough.
/r/seduction07/01/22 02:13 AM
1

Dating coaches and their rackets. I'm surprised she didn't charge $3000 for a single weekend like most coaches do. If I ever did coaching at that rate, it'd be for no less than 6 months, and would target everything. Fashion, fitness, finances, goals, etc. You need to ask yourself why are you scared to go for the girl you want. See a therapist as well, as you are already getting laid and they'll be cheaper.
/r/seduction07/01/22 02:12 AM
5

Sounds like nightclubs aren't your scene, which is not a problem at all. Too many dudes drink the Kool-Aid from companies in the past like RSD telling you that spam approaching all night is the be all, end all. Lot of these cats out here are the ones fucking up the vibe and poisoning the well with their magic tricks and other tactics. Thus, you end up with a bunch of chicks pissed off by the time you get your chance to mack. Some people thrive in nightclubs. Me personally, I always thought they …
/r/seduction07/01/22 02:03 AM
16

What you're describing is how this whole game/Redpill/PUA thing should go. It's basically therapy/ medicine/rehab for guys who never got the crash course that many of their peers got early in life. If you get cancer, you get on a chemo regime up to when the cancer is in remission. Optimistically, the cancer could come back (or in this case, your inner beta starts to bubble up to the surface, but for the most part, once you're in the clear, you're good for the rest if your life so long s you main…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/22 05:39 PM
1

Beta Bait. Loads of women nowadays get a validation high from knowing a dude is potentially spanking the monkey to their pics. Take a look at Gonewild or Onlyfans. Often, these nudes serve as a funnel to other platforms, like the aforementioned OnlyFans, where monetization can be established. Rule of Thumb: If you haven't fucked her yet and she's sending out nudes, you're most likely getting played.
/r/seduction21/12/21 09:43 PM
1

Most pickup coaches don't even have their own shit together, believe me. I've come to realize that majority of them come from a place of trauma, constantly trying to prove something to the world. Most of the time, they are in it to get a fanclub of dudes who'll see them as some sort of "pickup god" and pay them. Otherwise, why not do it for free? It's not like the knowledge that's been regurgitated is some esoteric secret cheat code after being spewed out the 100th time. Basically they're valida…
/r/seduction29/09/21 09:28 PM
5

The issue started when you gave her your number, and you guys didn't transition from Tinder to text. A clear lack of compliance on her part, aka signs that she is not willing to play ball with you. When I give a girl my number on OLD, the ball is in her court to text me. You're giving her mixed signals by giving her your number, and then remaining to chat in Tinder. Makes you look indecisive. She simply might be an attention whore, or have a lot of options. From where I'm standing, this is an up…
/r/seduction29/09/21 09:01 PM
2

Keep it clean and keep it working. Fix any cosmetic damage. You should not be hearing shit like alternator belts screaming when you start it up. Other than that, a car is better than no car.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 03:50 PM
1

Everyone wants to cash in, simply put. Whether it's money, or having a fanclub of ass-kissers. Everyone Joe Schmoe out there watches a Kevin Samuel, AMS, or Richard Cooper vid, racks up a lay, and thinks they're a pro (or atleast have the self-awareness to know how to show a semblance of knowledge to newbs).
/r/askTRP26/04/21 02:08 PM
3

Everyone of these guys in the manosphere is a grifter. Every book, bootcamp, video stream is rehashed material that dudes have been learning for free.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/21 06:23 PM
20

I've seen the same in conservative circles. Fat trailer park, Honey Boo Boo types, and dorky military/Meal Team 6 types who think they are saving the girl from the creepy and cocky jock.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 02:17 PM
1

I (23) met her (33) online. We flirted heavily for a few days, some sexual talk, constantly teasing & belittling her. She mentioned numerous times how she "would've fallen in love with me had I been older", shit like that. No push for a meetup in those few days from either of you? Strike one. But then she asked me to help her cheat for an online exam I could easily ace (she went back to school for her masters). I said I don't know if I have the time & asked her for a meet-up this weekend. She wa…
/r/askTRP22/04/21 06:04 PM
3

This is the endgame of the TRP phase in my opinion. Treat the lack of pussy in your life like physical therapy, meaning once you learned how to become outcome independent and slay a few chicks move on to something else in life. Don't stay in the hospital when your ailments are already healed. Look at what you wrote OP. You're looking for a sense of accomplishment, like you're some pencil-neck geek who went against the odds, when you fail to realize you're Chad now. Chad doesnt need to pat himsel…
/r/askTRP20/04/21 02:03 AM
2

Yes, they always are. Don't waste time on these chicks, drop them. Dates are for getting to know someone. How the hell do you get to know someone through text? You could be texting for months and still not know them. If the issue for the girl is safety, you can go to a public place in the day time for coffee. If it was Michael B. Jordan they were chatting to, would they want to "get to know him" before going on a date?
/r/askTRP15/04/21 01:56 AM
14

As long as it gets you from point A to point B and it's not banged up looking/well maintained, invest the money in something else. Luxury cars end up requiring luxury maintenence, so you'll be paying much more than you think. The fact that you say your friend have "better" cars than you, but are in debt should tell you it's not a good idea to invest in a depreciating commodity. Invest the money, and then in a few years look into leasing a Porsche.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:25 PM
1

Hell no. Unless you're a deformed freak, LMS and reading some TofuTofu/ Billy's Guides (the only resources I would recommend from the seduction sub) is all you need.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 05:01 PM
1

For free? If he's as good as he claims he is and he's charging, you're better off going to bodybuilding or weightroom sub for advice and save some money.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 04:20 AM
1

Hinge is better (for now atleast). The way they have you fill out the whole profile before swiping is a string deterent against bots and attention where's who just throw up six blurry pics and an insta handle. Sounds like you live in Methville, Midwestern America, and/or your profiles not good enough to attract better women. Tinder's just also plain shit nowaday for the aforementioned reason.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 12:01 AM
17

You'd be surprised. I've seen many PUA types go into depth explaining concepts like "alpha, beta, sigma" or try to psycho-analyze a girl's LMR in an attempt to appear sophisticated. All you really come off as is a dork. Magicians don't reveal their secrets. LeBron James doesn't show you the 8 hours a day he spends on the practice court.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/21 05:07 PM
1

Could a normal, average engineer get a gig at FAANG or JPL? Could a normal, middle of the pack Joe Schmoe get a walk on position for Alabama Crimson Tide? The answer is yes, but with a lot of work and a lot of luck. You want an Insta model, but so does everyone else. What the hell makes you the ideal guy for her? Fact is, you're gonna have to standout a helluva lot and be in the right place at the right time when your competition is Michael B Jordan who's only a DM away.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:33 AM
1

I did a 90 day "reboot". Felt more virulent, so to speak. Could get erections on demand. Day 83, I met up with chick off Hinge and the aftermath was explosive lmao.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:21 AM
1

Not really, but they like the idea of being in the running for a high value man's affection. They'd rather being Michael B Jordan's plaything with the chance of being promoted to girlfriend/wife than Joe Schmoe Small Town Mechanic's main girl. Just like someone will jump through hoops and compete with other candidate for a FAANG job that potentially could go to someone else, when McDonald's will hire them on the spot as a fry cook.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 07:40 PM
2

Tinder desperately trying to rebrand itself from the Hookup App to the New Age Wholesome Dating Platform. They really should just stay in their lane, as that ship sailed long ago. Reminds me of when YouTube went from Wild West video hosting site to Wannabe Influencer Central.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 05:50 PM
2

It's not about money, it's the representation of the power money can buy. Money opens doors, make no mistake. Money allows you into circles you wouldn't ever be allowed into without. Money can get you a gym membership, better attire, hobbies. Money can get you a penthouse in downtown, instead of a trailer in Methville, Arkansas. Basically, money greases the wheels. I don't understand why guys here want to make life difficult for themselves. If something can help your ability to get a date, why w…
/r/seduction13/03/21 09:46 PM
1

Grit your teeth and just hit legs once a week. Squats, straight deadlifts, extensions, curls, calf raises is all you need to not look too top heavy. Plus it'll help when smashing a chick, as glutes equal thrust.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 09:14 PM
1

Has no effect on my life. Be the guy she let's fuck her for free is all I can say.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 09:01 PM
2

I'd argue leverage is key when you have a written job offer. Interviews don't mean jackshit, especially in the pandemic-stricken economy where even offers are getting rescinded at a moment's notice. OP should still talk to his manager, but should keep his cards close to his chest but he's certain he has a branch to swing to.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 06:45 PM
1

There's no info they provide here that you can't learn from free YouTube videos and trial and error.
/r/seduction03/03/21 04:17 PM
1

Do you back to the tutorial after bearing the game on the hardest difficulty? Treat this sub like medicine. Once you've beaten an illness or injury, you need to get off of the treatment.
/r/seduction02/03/21 03:59 PM
-1

It's a shit test. Same way women say dad bods are sexy, but would jump Zyzz's bones, no pun intended.
/r/seduction02/03/21 03:55 PM
2

Strike 1 - You asked for number, she gave you her Insta instead. No compliance on her part. Strike 2 - No talk of a meetup, from either one of you. Strike 3 - Ignoring your DM on the same platform she just posted on. Cut and run, my man. If it was Michael B. Jordan or Henry Cavill, she would be wouldn't be counter-offering with her Instagram, nor would she let this amount of time pass, nor would she ignore a DM.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 04:35 PM
1

One grappling and one striking discipline. Striking Boxing Muay Thai (the best IMO as you use just about any hard point on your body, e.g., punches, kicks, elbows, knees. Clinches and throws are an added plus) Western Kick Boxing Grappling BJJ Wrestling (Greco-Roman, Folk, doesn't matter) Judo (good for throws)
/r/askTRP26/02/21 07:02 PM
6

Another bites the dust... Charge it to the game. Just about every coach I've seen peddling their services on here are sleazey and repeat the last thing they heard in order to pass it off as their own knowledge. 99% of coaches and "experts" are dorks who learned how to portray an image of "coolness" to fool other dorks out of money. Majority of the time, it's all about relishing in their newfound fame, having a circle of sycophants and ass-kissers praising them, and being seen as the "cool guy" t…
/r/seduction26/02/21 03:32 PM
1

First and foremost, meetup request? Everything else looks good, but just remember that this is all supposed to lead to a meetup in the near future. Keep the banter playful and your cards close to your chest until the date.
/r/seduction24/02/21 08:42 PM
2

The general idea is that texting is used primarily to schedule dates, but it can also be used to fill in the gap until the meetup comes around. You can't text too little, especially in the online dating realm, as she has little to go off of in knowing you before the date. You can't text too much, as you might land yourself in the text buddy zone. A few texts here and there to wet her pallette is good. Just don't go overboard and do things that should be reserved for the date(e.g., sexual convers…
/r/seduction24/02/21 08:39 PM
1

If you just joined Hinge, it's normal to only see abysmal chicks, as the algorithm has no info on what your ELO is. Just left swipe/remove every ugly chick for the next two weeks, and you'll start seeing better matches as better chicks start right swiping you.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 09:24 PM
1

Good enough to have SNLs. I don't know what you want to hear from me with that question, my dude. Raise your SMV, said SMV on your profile, and filter for DTF girls.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 04:21 AM
3

Good Looking Loser had a post about Club Game. https://www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/index/an-introduction-and-misconception-about-party-club-game The basic concept is that club game, while success is possible, is usually inefficient. Getting invites to pre-games and house parties that transition to the club/bar/main event of the night lends to the advantages of having an "in" with girls who are DTF. Most of the time, when you see a mixed group at the club, the men and women already have an idea…
/r/askTRP18/02/21 04:47 PM
1

That's when you should be asking her out on a date. Banter a fit to fill in the time between meetups, but that's it.
/r/seduction18/02/21 03:04 PM
2

Everything matters. Looks, money, status, mouthpiece, frame. I never understood why people advocate doing the bare minimum. A couple of days in the gym a week will definitely improve your chances of getting women.
/r/seduction18/02/21 03:03 PM
1

You're not gonna find a lot of high value guys on here, as most high value are born with it. As for the rest of us, we have learn to steal a steak from the devil's plate. We get what we need and leave the sub, meshing the knowledge seamlessly into our lives. The seduction "community" is a peculiar idea when you think about it, similar like Alcoholics Anonymous. With any community comes by-laws and dogma, something that doesn't really jive with meeting women on an individual case (i.e. what one w…
/r/seduction16/02/21 06:37 PM
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It works provided to abstain for a few days, drink a gallon of water a day, and edge beforehand.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 10:08 PM
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Don't be a PUA sperg trying to hit on women in niche environments. Everyone will see it a mile away, and shun you. Pick up activities you enjoy, and make friends. From then, the social circle will do the job for you by giving you social proof and allowing your network to grow.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 10:02 PM
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She is she puts skin in the game, aka sex. She'll never initiate anything so it's on you to get her to the bedroom. Only then will you know where you stand.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 10:00 PM
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We can't rate your hobbies and interests for you, unfortunately. One man's treasure is another man's garbage. If what you're looking for is an "alpha" hobby, then you should understand alpha is a mutable concept. Combat sports and guitar sound good, as they would give you the ability to defend yourself and be creative, respectively. Just make sure you've got a gang of boys to hang with. No man is an island.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 09:57 PM
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Physicality is important to humans. Men are less likely to punk you, and women will desire you. Honestly, it makes life a whole bunch easier.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 09:51 PM
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Your SMV is probably too low or your profile is not good. I've had a good amount of dates that lead to sex with women who were concerned with COVID risks.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 09:49 PM
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It's generally a waste of time. Sure, you may meet a few receptive women out there, but more often than not, you're just bugging someone. I'd rather take up hobbies and be social. At the least, I'm having fun, meeting people, and you'll see that people are social and want to hang out with you if you do your own thing without an ulterior motive.
/r/seduction04/02/21 09:47 PM
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You should focus on building a social circle that will facilitate meeting people in a social environment. Dance class, rock climbing, art lesson, etc. Even if you don't meet women directly, you'll be able to network and meet more people. Warm approaches are so much better than cold approaches.
/r/seduction04/02/21 09:43 PM
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My broad shoulders in a tight v neck shirt, my cheeky smile, eye contact, and her seeing me having a great time with my boys. If you need a line, go with a situational opener.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 06:28 PM
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Why lose the war to win the battle? There's a reason why I go on coffee and drink first dates? -Low pressure for both you and the girl -If you or the girl have a to bail, there's easily an avenue of escape as opposed to a movie or dinner. Even better, if she's DTF, she's gonna want to wrap things up and smash you ASAP. -They are cheap enough that if she's not feeling you, you won't take a massive to the wallet. How much is a cup of coffee? Five bucks, at most? How much for a drink or two? 10-30 …
/r/askTRP21/01/21 06:16 PM
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Check out Strength by Sonny as well (you'll have to use web archive as he deleted his game related content).
/r/askTRP08/01/21 06:34 AM
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Did the 1918 Flu stop the the Roaring 20s? Did 9/11 stop people from flying out to Ibiza? The pandemic will end at some point. Men and women still want to fuck each other. So there's a need for game. Is the PUA industry dead? With one-two punch that was the YouTube ban of 2019 and the subsequent lockdown in 2020, I'm sure there are many coaches who took a hit. The community is going back underground, where it thrives. Instead of massive companies that can easily be decapitated as seen with RSD, …
/r/askTRP04/01/21 02:48 PM
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Something like MMA has a certain brand image to it, usually barbaric, ultraviolet, and possibly even edging on homoerotic in the eyes of mainstream media (think two dudes rolling around in their own blood and sweat). Basketball has a more palatable image, tied to household names like Jordan, Bryant, James, Curry. With any ultra niche hobby, you'll have a portion of the female population being turned off for whatever reason. Keep doing it, but learn how to use euphemisms when talking about it if …
/r/askTRP04/01/21 02:42 PM
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I don't look at porn myself. In my mind, I'd rather be the guy fucking the girls. I don't usually jack off, as I keep my days packed (Work, lifting, thai boxing/BJJ, studying for grad school, pilot training) and I have no time. Frankly to each their own. If you can consume porn and jack off without disrupting the flow of your life, have at it.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 04:18 PM
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Good Looking Loser Strength By Sonny PickupAlpha AlphaMaleStrategies Mack Lessons Look up Billy's Guides and TofuTofu's Above The Game on here. Take the meat, practice it, and leave the bones. Don't be a pickup community member. This shit is like rehab for your former beta self, at some point you have to take the info you get and get back into living like a normal person with the new revelations.
/r/seduction31/12/20 04:16 AM
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I just don't get why these PUAs overcomplicate pulling chicks with all this technical game stuff when it really just boils down to improving your SMV and playing the numbers game. You don't need to be a dancing monkey spitting out pickup lines to pull chicks you need to be a guy that lifts weights and has an abundance mentality. Because many of these guys either from technical background (Todd was an engineer apparently, ironically Squattincassanova was an chemical engy and can amog him with his…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 06:05 AM
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Like the one poster said, if you're having to ask, you're either lacking in experience or lack the cunning/killer instinct to see this through successfully. Given that, Redpill was never really much good for keeping with morality, so if you are compelled to do this, keep it somewhere where you have control of the environment. A motel/hotel or your place. Make sure she doesn't have some sort of Snapchat or Find My Phone feature on in case hubby starts looking. Fuck her and then leave it. Don't co…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 05:13 AM
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Having done the whole "sarge with lair members" every weekend, I'd argue that having a group of actual friends, whom are also high SMV, will be your best bet rather than going out alone or sarging with PUAs. My nights that were the greatest were when I was hanging with non-manosphere affiliated men and women with no expectations other than just to chill. My worst nights were when I was playing the ego game with pickup dorks trying to mass approach every chick on the strip instead of just having …
/r/askTRP30/12/20 05:00 AM
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You're on the money. I've had issue with guys like Playing With Fire (dude texted a 30 something year old woman for 3 months to get a lay, while living in the hot girl Mecca that is Miami) and Todd V (too damn technical to a fault). You shouldn't have to "ping value" into the void, in the first place. Any chick who's into you will make life easy for you to fuck her. The best resources I learned from understood that SMV goes with game/banter to close the deal on girls who are already into you. Go…
/r/askTRP29/12/20 11:38 PM
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You'll have women who won't mind the skinny fat look, and you'll have women who would appreciate a bit more musculature. I wouldn't say you are ugly, as you don't even have any face pics to judge off of. Let's just stick with discussing your body. You are skinny fat. You're not bone thin, and you're not obese. You have an average build, with some fat on you, that can be improved on with good diet and some sort of exercise routine. Start from there and stop overthinking.
/r/seduction26/12/20 08:31 PM
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Guess we're having a merger with r/Fitness now. You're fine, albeit you can always improve. r/naturalbodybuilding is a good place to start (r/Fitness rides the powerlifting/Starting Strength/GOMAD that'll just get you T-Rex mode). Right now you're skinny fat. You have minimal muscle mass, and a beer gut. Not a deal breaker, but it'll make close the door on the door on a good percentage of women. Start a PPL routine, hit cardio, and get a meal plan set up.
/r/seduction26/12/20 05:11 PM
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You don't have to be a bad boy, just ve principled and stand by your convictions.
/r/seduction18/12/20 04:08 PM
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I'm sure plenty other guys have answered this by now, but I'll add my spin on it. Perception is reality. The allure of a magician is that he never reveals the trick behind his illusions. The spectacle of LeBron James is that he makes his shots look effortless. The key component is that you miss the 90 percent of training done behind the scenes. If you saw that same magician fail his trick or LeBron missing shots during practice, you immediately de-pedstalize them in their minds. Suddenly, they'r…
/r/askTRP14/12/20 12:07 AM
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Archie as usual, giving solid advice.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 09:39 PM
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There are Alphas in every subculture. The Alpha of the Hipster culture may not fit in with the frat/jock aesthetic you would assume with the stereotypical Chad image, but they are still the dominant force in their own domain. That second pic you posted, would probably be one based off of his looks and dress style.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 06:59 PM
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You'll see on Friday how game she is. Frankly, you should be cautious. Most girls who are DTF show covert signs of interest, in order to not trip their internal ASD. Overt signs of interest before smashing are usually Beta Bait, and are a means to acquire orbiters.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/20 07:03 PM
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Compliance testing. You ask for a girl's number and she counteroffers with a snapchat or Instagram. She's either hard of hearing or she's trying to push your boundaries. 2.Phone numbers are still the most direct and intimate way of contact. Snapchat and Instagram falls into the "fanbase" acquiring zone. Are you a fan? Snapchat is usually seen as the OnlyFans-Lite, aka Beta Bait. You may be getting nudes, but you'll soon come to see is that nudes is all you're gonna get from her.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/20 07:00 PM
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I agree with this. I can't stand the amount of "experts" on YouTube peddling "text game". I actually got in an argument with one such "coach" passing what was 3 months of badgering and "gaming" a post wall chick as advice. Why the fuck should be having to "ping value into the void" and resuscitate so-called leads in order to get laid? Do Michael B. Jordan, Drake, or Jason Momoa have to ping value into the void? Yes, you may not be one of the top 0.01%, but even if you're improving your personal …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/20 06:52 PM
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I used it when going out. Stacked with caffeine, phenylpiracetam, and a few drinks. No inhibitions.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 07:26 PM
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None, tbh. You'd be better off audio recording your sets, and posting them up here for review for free. I went from zero lays to being able to pull in the same night just from reading FRs and guides posted on here and watching vids and trying stuff out. The concept of a bootcamp would be fine, were it not for that the extremely high prices these coaches demand. $3000 for a guy to tell you to approach women for a few hours in one weekend? No way in hell do you manage to get any worthwhile informa…
/r/seduction30/09/20 09:33 PM
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I think the answer to this thread is more nuanced. OP asks for a number or Whatsapp, and gets counter offered with snapchat/Instagram. In the context of a dating app, that's putting an additional buffer between you and the meetup at best, and a red flag signaling defiance/non-compliance/low investment at worst. If she's DTF, she's going to streamline the process as much as possible (with some ASD thrown in for her own psyche). If you give her instructions, e.g. "Text me and we'll set something x…
/r/askTRP14/09/20 03:28 PM
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Oblige her, but you pick the place to meet up at. Pick you battles wisely. Stop trying to be "Alpha". Think about logistics, too. Five minute train ride back to her place, or a 20 minute walk in the middle of summer which will leave her sweaty, uncomfortable, and with a low buying temperature. Hell, if you've got a car, make life easier and pick her up. She's already down to meet, which is high investment. You just need to grease the wheels.
/r/seduction25/08/20 07:24 PM
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Keep it simple. Coffee or Drinks. Don't do anything extravagant on a first date. You can do mini golf on the second date once you see if you are both vibing.
/r/seduction25/08/20 07:00 PM
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That's usually a good sign that's she's heavily attracted to you, in my experience. She's mentally placing you in the "sexual male" box. It's her way of qualifying you. I usually do a pressure flip. A girl I smashed asked me if I kept all my fuckbuddies during quarantine, to which my response was to ask her if she was accusing me of being a fuckboy. Kept the mystery about me, and made her find out herself if I was actually a fuckboy later that night. You could A&A, but I personally like the more…
/r/askTRP14/08/20 04:58 PM
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Los Angles, Labor Day Weekend. Was sitting in the lobby of my hotel at 2AM after hitting up the clubs waiting for pizza to arrive, when a tight bodied Latina cougar came up and started a conversation. Some 20 minutes later, we were in my room upstairs. Returned the favor by being a gentleman and walking her back to her hotel down the street and supplying her with a slice of pizza for post romp sustenance.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 07:19 PM
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Stick to a 4 day Upper/Lower split if you want three days to yourself.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 07:16 PM
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Overmonetization of the subculture. Everyone and their brother has some sort of pickup/daygame/dating coach "company" that they bombard forums with links to their respective YouTube/Instagram/Snapchats/Blogs. Every one wants to be the next RSD. All for the purpose of luring you into a $2000 bootcamp where they tell you to mass approach for a weekend, with no guarantee on ROI. Your sole solace is that if you manage to strike gold, you'll have the state pump of finally "making it", until you need …
/r/askTRP30/07/20 01:14 PM
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Back in my Seddit day when I was trying to "keep up with the Jones" with the RSD spergs I was sarging, I would put up with a lot of bullshit to not fuck up a possible lay. Nowadays, I think it's a better exercise in willpower to walk. In my experience, a date that's going down hill is 100 percent going to trend that way., either because she's self-sabotaging or your own anxiety coming up to the surface. Paraphrasing Sonny Arvado, game, dates, and leading up to sex should be as easy walking acros…
/r/askTRP26/07/20 05:48 PM
2

Throw in Billy's Guides.
/r/seduction24/07/20 07:20 PM
1

Ask him to hangout.
/r/seduction24/07/20 07:13 PM
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Money doesn't help explicitly, but it makes life and dating easier. Monetary resources will help grease the wheels in regards. -Better clothes -Better living arrangement, e.g., a single bedroom apartment in downtown vs sharing a place with roommates. -Hygiene products, e.g., hair and skin products -Access to gyms and higher quality foods -Access to an automobile or uber -You won't sweat over a buying a girl a drink or coffee on a date -Improv/comedy class, dancing classes, hobbies that will enri…
/r/seduction20/07/20 04:23 PM
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Read the room and put yourself in her shoes. Subway stations for a meetup is hella weird. Just meet at a public (read: safety net for her in case she feels threatened) place like a bar or coffee shop.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 09:45 PM
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There's a sizable population, but the population is pretty mixed especially around Midtown and Buckhead.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 07:09 PM
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Atlanta, Scottsdale/Phoenix LA and Austin if you can afford it
/r/askTRP17/07/20 07:02 PM
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This. Idle chatter leads nowhere. How is a girl supposed to become invested in you if you talk about mundane things like the weather. What's the content of the interaction? You say to talked for a bit, but about what? This is why I say having an audio recording is essential. At the least, it will provide you with the means to review the interaction if you aren't willing to write out a descriptive field report. Interaction one could have been instadated. Getting a number to plan a date instead of…
/r/seduction17/07/20 05:42 PM
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I'm a first believer in the concept of SMV and it's components being all aspects of one's life. Your lifestyle and tangibles (LMS) are your "product" and your game is what "sells" the product. So in regards to seducing someone, it starts from first glance aka your outer game. Once you get past that barrier, your game/mouthpiece delivers the pitch to the intrigued target, filling in the gaps in her mind about your life as well as giving your "game" an opportunity to display itself. To be honest,"…
/r/seduction17/07/20 01:08 PM
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Everything in relation. Some nerdy doctor, yeah, Victoria Secret models ain't feeling that. A doctor with a mouthpiece who's shredded, has a social circle of high value men, and flies his King Air on the weekend. Yeah, now we're talking.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 04:18 PM
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I'm partial on the race aspect. Minorities are going to be polarizing in White Centric locations. You're either going to find girls that are 100% into you or not. No different to when you go to a ice cream. You have regular, well known flavors, like the tried and true Neapolitan trio,and then you have flavors that are out there like Rocky Road. In this case, OP is Rocky Road. He'll miss the girls that are not adventurous enough to try Rocky Road, but he'll catch the ones who have an expanded pal…
/r/seduction16/07/20 03:55 PM
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I think you’re brave to do this bro, *but either your looks need work or your openers and conversions skills need work. Maybe both. Could you record a conversation for us so we can help you? *Also, women don’t like to be approached when they are literally walking to go somewhere. They have a place to be by a certain time. I don't think he cares, to be frank. We're a month and a half into this, and so far it's been the same approaches at a bus stop, while walking somewhere, etc. If something was …
/r/seduction16/07/20 03:38 PM
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You're on a subreddit where people have to study how to simply walk up to a girl. You really think critical thinking is in their wheelhouse?
/r/seduction15/07/20 11:55 PM
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This is a bad idea, especially for a newbie. He's better off meeting her for drinks at a neutral place, instead of what I assume to be her place of employment. All he is going to do is fall into a customer frame with the chick.
/r/seduction15/07/20 11:48 PM
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Ain't it the truth. Too many chiefs.
/r/seduction10/07/20 06:12 PM
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Fucking this. Best strategy is one where you don't have to fight at all. I'm 6'0 feet, 200 lbs. I've been lifting weights for 6 years now, recently joined a Muay Thai/BJJ gym, and looking to start training with knives and firearms just for the hell of it. I still avoid certain areas in my city, because I'm not about that life and don't intend on doing life in prison/end up in the hospital/dead. I train my cardio, not just for health, but also because I witnessed the importance of it in real life…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 08:07 PM
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You'd probably pay them to fuck you.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 03:41 AM
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Same clubs those LA 9's and 10's you love swing by when they get a craving for chocolate. Careful kissing your girl when she gets back home, she might have residual jizz in her mouth.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 03:27 AM
1

Lol you must be going to some podunk venues. In every major cities, top shelf girls are giving even average, non-celebrity black men their best years. They just do it on the down low to avoid getting shunned by whatever beta buck coming to wife up the leftovers. Trust me, those 9's and 10's are getting on some "Soul Pole" in their youth.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 02:34 AM
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Hell even video games can be redpill if it's making you some money, e.g. MLG, YouTube Streaming. The important detail is that it should be beneficial to your life. An hour a day for stress relief, fine. 10 hours a day in the weekend, when you could be doing something else, and we've got a problem.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:23 AM
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As long as you can separate fiction from reality and give your brain time to build skills in the real world, no problem here.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:46 PM
1

SquattinCassanova, AMS, Todd
/r/seduction09/04/20 09:26 PM
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You've probably outgrew the sub. Nothing wrong with that, at some point you have to take off the floaties and be comfortable swimming on your own in the deep end.
/r/seduction01/04/20 05:31 PM
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Social circle and Social Media Game. It's about who you know and how many degrees of separation you are from the movers and shakers. That's the only way to get an edge on the Faceless Horde of other dudes. Get to know the people in the scene. Nowadays, getting a girl's number gives you access to her Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, and any other platform linked to her phone. Of course that goes both ways, so you better assume that she is looking at your shit too and you should make an effort to ke…
/r/seduction01/04/20 03:26 PM
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Top 10 based on what? What are judging off of here? Most edited videos? How many spray-and-pray approaches before getting kicked out of the club? How long to keep pestering a girl before she lets him fuck because her main rotation was out of town? I don't go around ranking these "masters" off of something so subjective and fluid as attraction.
/r/seduction01/04/20 03:19 PM
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Inb4 that IceWhite fag comes in here with his spam bullshit. ​ Find one fits in with your style and life. Everyone is pretty much saying the shit anyways, no matter how many ways you wrap it.
/r/seduction01/04/20 03:15 PM
1

No need to go to prison over some old man on the decline trying to cling onto what little power he has left. Don't listen to the dorks here talking about alpha-ness. Unless you're backed in a corner or defending someone, de-escalate the situation. ​ Edit: I wanna also add that in the fact that if you were in a Stand-Your-Ground state here in the US, the fella could have also been packing heat on him, which would explain the boldness on his part. With the Coronavirus hysteria going on, people are…
/r/askTRP17/03/20 03:18 PM
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Men age like wine...if the wine itself is being taken care of properly. Don't expect to fall back into bad habits, and still look like an Adonis. No smoking Minimize alcohol consumption (a little bit can actually be healthy according to health experts) Drink a gallon of water a day Shower twice a day Groom yourself Keep exercising Have a nutritious diet. Get enough sleep every night See health providers on a routine basis
/r/seduction14/03/20 02:40 PM
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Well said OP. This sub fell way off when money came into the picture. When people started realizing they could make a quick buck off of know-nothings, then all of a sudden, everyone became a Dating/Pickup/Lifestyle/Game/Success With Women coach complete with links to their YouTube/Blog/Instagram/Snapchat/Patreon. I'm a guy who started here back in 2012, so I can say with certainty that there was a more genuine vibe to the community at large. Field reports were commonplace, and served as a means …
/r/seduction11/03/20 07:59 PM
1

Or I could just have a beast life of my own displayed on my own Instagram.
/r/seduction09/03/20 05:19 PM
1

I'm a firm believer is LMS, but it would benefit you to have the game skills up to par. Even if you've got your life stats up to par, you've got to be able to banter with the girl, ease her friends' anxiety, and manage to her attention and guide her to the bedroom, aka closing the deal. Just putting a "For Sale" sign ain't gonna cut it, you're gonna have to hit the pavement somewhat to get leads. Obviously, don't be an approach machine just throwing yourself out there, but tailor your approach f…
/r/seduction08/03/20 07:18 PM
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Most of the major players read up on the field reports and theory, and then take off when they got what they need. Leaving the new guys to flounder about and the wannabe gurus/YouTubers hustlers to flood the sub with their links and prey on aforementioned newbs.
/r/seduction05/03/20 10:21 PM
0

Lol is this 2009? Who uses Facebook nowadays?
/r/seduction04/03/20 02:45 AM
1

Total bullshit.
/r/seduction03/03/20 11:10 PM
1

Lol contact your OBGYN. You're not going to get any information here that won't land you in a hospital.
/r/seduction03/03/20 07:14 PM
1

Sounds like you just didn't really maintain your hairstyle. Girls go for The Weeknd types all the time, even when he had the rooster looking fro.
/r/seduction03/03/20 07:13 PM
1

Canada's got a pretty multicultural society that values Asian guys, so I wouldn't put it on your race. Sure, you're not 6 foot 2, but you're also not 5'0. There's something you're not telling us here. Do you lift weights and have a sizable amount of muscle on you? How's your style? Do you wear clothes that are tailored? Are your facial aesthetics up to par (clean, straight teeth, no acne, no bad breath, good hair) Do you have a life outside of meeting up with other guys in the PUA community? Do …
/r/seduction03/03/20 07:03 PM
2

If the girl liked you, why would you need to call her every two weeks? If she were really down to meet you, it would be HER who would be calling YOU every two weeks.
/r/seduction03/03/20 06:58 PM
2

Anecdotal, uncalibrated, and liable to have legal action taken against you. Elon Musk is a very logical, smart guy, but in regards to sexual relationships, he fallen quite a few times. He's the type of guy to watch a rom-com and think a grand statement of affection is the way to woo a girl. Grant Cardone is often seen as a snake oil salesman (ironic to say while in this subreddit). He most likely was using this example as a means to further a sales pitch. These two examples are the exception to …
/r/seduction03/03/20 06:02 PM
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There's nothing a coach is going to show you that you can't do on your own. Most of these jokers get lucky a few times, and self appoint themselves as experts. Do yourself and your wallet a favor, and read up and watch some vids. Go out with a wing, and have him observe you in the field. Talk over observations, and form new hypotheses to test out the next night.
/r/seduction03/03/20 05:39 PM
1

Suspension of disbelief and the writer himself. Understand that the books and movies are no less fiction than Lord of the Rings and Star Wars. It's all fantasy. Instead of trying to be James Bond, upgrade your life and be the best version of yourself to the point where girls might actually think YOU are 007.
/r/seduction01/03/20 06:07 PM
1

I’ll never go anywhere a girl invites me for the 1-3 months and whenever the girl asks I’m polite and friendly saying I’m busy and wondering if we could catch up tomorrow or the next available date that I have Can you elaborate? this doesn't make sense to me. Depending on what you two are doing I'd be down, if she's inviting you, that MEANS she wants to see you. Pretty retarded for you to ALWAYS DECLINE because of some stupid rule you made for yourself. If you genuinely have plans you already ma…
/r/seduction28/02/20 01:42 AM
2

It's unfortunately become ground zero for every shithead who managed to get lucky at last call to offer "coaching services".
/r/seduction27/02/20 09:16 PM
1

One of the worst ideas I've seen on this sub. Most dudes here lack the frame to be able to contend with what is essentially the female version of a PUA. Most chicks who've been in the industry for some time have heard the whole "lemme just talk to you" schtick from everyone ranging from potential pimps to dorky wannabe PUAs emulating what they read from a forum. The one's who who are about maximizing their earnings for the night will walk as soon as they see what's up, and the one's who stick ar…
/r/seduction25/02/20 09:40 PM
5

You see something you like, walk up and go for it. Daygaming for the purpose of daygaming is a bit lame. I gave the whole "hanging out in a mall with wings" thing a try and it always came off as unnatural and made it seem like I had no life. Ditto with nightgame. Nowadays, if I "daygame", it's usually during an errand i.e. not out of the way
/r/askTRP23/02/20 07:14 PM
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Coffee, drinks, dessert bar, etc. All ideal dates to most men and women who don't obsess over the tenets TRP and FDS. You can keep it short and sweet to test the waters, and cut the date short if you're not feeling the love. Not to mention most girls would feel a obligated to sit through a dinner date. A lot of FDS followers argue that it's low value and that guys are just looking for a quick meetup before sex, but they never mention that they have the ability to veto sex at the end of the date.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 01:48 AM
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Congratulations, you've finally reached the point most guys should get to. Contrary to what every guru says, you're not going to be the fancy of every girl you meet. Pickup is just having the ability to sell yourself and close the deal to girls who are willing to buy. Anyone who tries to sell it as some foolproof algorithm to magically bed any girl is a liar.
/r/seduction16/02/20 12:12 AM
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A blatant shit test at that meant to push your boundaries and your principles. A lot of guys say to run with cocky funny, and there's a time and place for that. This isn't it. You gotta learn when to dead these things in their tracks. If a girl wants to meet in a sexual premise, she ain't gonna do some shit like bring a friend. Girls make dick-appointments to random guys' places in skidrow all the time. Unless she's trying to do a threesome, nix the plus-one. If she gives you pushback, be ready …
/r/seduction12/02/20 06:12 PM
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Financial stability is one of those things where having it keeps you in the running, but doesn't really add much value past that. Is it nice to have your own car and place? Definitely. Is it the basis for sexual attraction? Absolutely not. As a matter of fact, leading heavily in the premise of giving a girl value through monetary means sets a man up to be seen as a provider, which most men on this sub are trying to avoid. There are women who'll fuck a jobless man on pissy mattresses in skidrow o…
/r/seduction12/02/20 05:52 PM
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People have long since become wise to PUA. So long as men and women are fucking, there will be a need for game. What're you're seeing isn't so much the death of PUA, but rather it just returning to the underground, where it belongs.
/r/seduction05/02/20 06:03 PM
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Fair enough, you might be on the right track there, but I'm not sure if there's a time limit for that kind of thing. Can you be 30+ and a guy who just ain't serious? Not sure about the looks/height working enough in my favor for this end, either. You can rock the DGAF attitude into pater stages of life. Not so much being not serious, but actually valuing your time as a man. You'll be doing less chasing than younger fuckboi types, and less tolerant of time wasters. Looks can be improved by proper…
/r/seduction30/01/20 10:25 PM
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A big part of sales (and seduction) is presentation. Take a look at the Superbowl commercials this weekend for any tech company with a new product line coming out. You're going to see sleek and sexy presentation. The same goes for pickup. When you hit up the club, you and every other guy are essentially a whole bunch of Christmas gifts under the tree waiting to be unwrapped. Which one do you think the girl is going to want to tear into first? The immaculately wrapped gift with a fancy bow? or Th…
/r/seduction30/01/20 06:40 PM
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The interaction before the number/insta/snap close is the basis for how things will continue. Was it a drive-by close? Any compliance, time bridges, and/or venue changes? I'm in the camp that Insta/Snap can help her remember your face, but don't be too quick to become another orbiter. Bonus points if you can get you and her together in a few insta/snap stories. Of course, every woman's memory runs a bit different, especially after a long night, so she may or may not even remember.
/r/seduction27/01/20 05:07 PM
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Looks, Money, Status have their purpose to ensure a comfortable life. However, for the sake of getting an easy lay and not looking like a mark, you're better off refraining from giving off Provider Signals like job status. Not saying you shouldn't have a high status job, but don't make it your trump card to getting laid. The women on FDS are the type to do some digging to see what kind of monetary and status value they can get from a man. Most dudes who aren't aware of this will take the bait an…
/r/seduction27/01/20 04:50 PM
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The fact that they are teaching a skill, kind of makes the whole "natural" angle an oxymoron. Like most of the guys here are saying, it's a waste of money to essentially have someone just tell you to approach girls for 2 hours. Every Joe Schmoe has a program or booklet out there that says the same thing in a different wrapping. Read a bit, watch some vids, go out, apply some critical thinking to your approaches, and apply new hypotheses the next time.
/r/seduction25/01/20 04:09 PM
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Pretty sure they've been doing this since the dawn of their business. Matter of fact, most influencers with a following nowadays do their damn best to stamp out voices of dissent in their comment section. Takes away from the celebrity status, or in RSD's case, brings skeletons out of the closet. Tyler's not your friend, AMS ain't your pal, Todd isn't your hombre. Any of these dudes you see with something to sell don't really give a damn about you...unless you give them access to your wallet. The…
/r/seduction25/01/20 04:03 PM
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A lot of guys found that RSD had valuable content that they learned off of, but now that RSD rebranded into general self help and a lot of PUAs got shut down because of that BBC documentary thing, the sub feels a little different. If we're going to be frank,most guys in the seduction community have never had a sense of agency to think for themselves, or as most would put it here, lack of frame. That lack of frame leads many down the road where they seek an impromptu father to guide them. See, RS…
/r/seduction24/01/20 07:59 PM
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You meet people how you meet people. For all the talk of not wanting to be bothered, do you really think most girls would have an issue if Chris Hemsworth or Michael B Jordan walked up to them? When people discuss something like PUA in a mainstream society frame, it's always the worst case scenario that's described, aka a guy in a furry hat spitting out lines and routines (fun fact: just about everything that everyone does conversationally can be considered a routine ot a line. Your coworker ask…
/r/seduction09/01/20 06:29 PM
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If it has brought you success, then all power to you. From my viewpoint, just having some guys around you for the SOLE sake of social proof comes off as disingenuous and mildly sociopathic. I see this a lot in the community, as most guys only ever socialize with other people in the frame of "game". With women, it's the ones they're trying to smash, and with other guys, it's in the frame of wings who share no common theme than practicing game. Outside of those two scenarios, they have not much el…
/r/seduction09/01/20 06:03 PM
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Sounds like a hella unbalanced way to live. Social circle isn't the "be all, end all", but it helps to have social proof and not appear as the "lone wolf/ PUA who only ever hangs out with other guys from the Lair". I would advise anyone here to make sure to make friends with people outside of the pickup community, as they will serve as a societal barometer and help keep you grounded.
/r/seduction09/01/20 05:41 PM
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Theyre talking as if the gym is somewhere that you can't hit on girls. As if brad pit could come up to them in the gym and theyd tell him "sorry im working out maybe some other time". "Girls don’t generally like being hit on at the gym...we’re there to work out lol and it’s distracting" put any fucking location here "Girls don’t generally like being hit on at the SCHOOL...we’re there to STUDY lol and it’s distracting" "Girls don’t generally like being hit on at the BAR...we’re there to DRINK AND…
/r/seduction12/12/19 11:36 PM
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How many times are people going to ask this question? This has been happening for almost a year, and was pretty much initiated by Juliengate. To be frank, pickup reached an apex a long time ago, in both knowledge base and mainstream notoriety. Everything there is to talk about has been discussed ad nauseum, so you're pretty much going to run into coaches talking about the same info someone already talked about 15 years ago. It doesn't that RSD, along with the pickup community in general, got too…
/r/seduction03/11/19 06:20 PM
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I've been on Seddit since 2012, and I can tell you that there's been a shift in the posters who come here and drop knowledge. Alot of guys from the Mystery era like TofuTofu left the community to do other things, or got what they needed and went on with their lives, leaving the game theory "enthusiasts" and the information hoarders who compulsively absorb guides and posts without actually throwing their own field experience into the pot. Check out Billy's Guides, TofuTofu's Above the Game posts,…
/r/seduction03/11/19 05:29 PM
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There's only so many scenarios you'll run into in the dating world. Everything under the sun has been written about, which is why you hear all these coaches saying the same thing ad nauseum. After consuming enough theory, it's really about putting the theory into action.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 04:27 PM
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I never really meshed with the image many of these coaches portrayed. It's a constant image blast of parties and other wild shenanigans that's been fostered by the prevalence of "flash game" content and guys buy into it without much thought as to the context of the content. In my opinion, I doubt I'll be hitting up crazy parties into my later thirties and fourties, so it's always funny when I hear these guys talk about "self-development" and "living the best life", but their world's still revolv…
/r/seduction18/08/19 10:35 PM
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Validation makeouts That's probably where you're messing up at., and you're not the only one I hate the trend that I see in pickup vids where it's all flashy makeouts, as it tends to be misleading. A girl can easily makeout with 10 guys in a night, and still not go home with anyone. Hold off on the makeouts, and use them strategically. This is good for several reasons She doesn't get her sexual gratification immediately. If you leave her wanting more, she's going to be more willing to take thing…
/r/seduction12/08/19 06:06 PM
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Your error is in trying to fuck the girls in your immediate group, instead of using them as a pivot for other girls. Don't shit where you eat, as people talk, and talk travels fast. The no-talk rule should be extended to the girls you reach via pivoting, as you don't want gossip to poison the well. It would be wise to completely friendzone the girls in your immediate group and keep them as wingwomen to bring you in proximity with other girls.
/r/seduction12/08/19 05:02 PM
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Could be the location, or your ELO score (another reason to drop online dating as a primary source of ass) that's fucking up who you see. If you're adamant about using apps, delete your data and take a month off, and then start using again. Better choice would be to start approaching in real life and use either cold approach or social circle.
/r/seduction12/08/19 04:52 PM
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I should also add; for we black men, real life is better than apps. For minority guys, they already have to deal with racial/ethnic prejudices that girls soak up from media. Throw in the fact that you're competing with hundred and even thousands of other guys on Tinder, and you have a recipe for dry dick. For minority guys, it's all about personal branding. Are you just the "black guy", an empty slate on which she'll throw her prejudices on to justify not sleeping with you, or are you the Canadi…
/r/seduction12/08/19 04:37 PM
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Tinder is bust in 2019. Personally, if you have to use an app, stick to Hinge and/or Bumble. For minority guys, the strategy is all about personal branding. Girls might be looking at you as the stereotype black man, so try to make sure that you have attributes that show the contrary. What are your pics and bio like?
/r/seduction12/08/19 04:19 PM
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For the impatient 1:15 - Skip Intro 2:15 - How to get aesthetic before vacation 2:40 - How to run a 1 week water cut before vacation 3:50 - Essential Items and Attire 6:55 - The 4 things you need to ensure you pull a girl back to your place 9:58 - Vacationing a foreign location 12:05 - Using Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge to get leads before vacation 13:39 - How to efficiently run vacation game 15:45 - Which cities to go to in order to run vacation game/ Hotel and Airbnb locations
/r/seduction24/07/19 12:08 AM
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