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HumourPoolOfAlpacas/r/MensRights08/08/21 07:58 PM
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"it's not about you" They'd say that to my dad, a cis, white, straight male. It's not about the DV he endured at the hands of my egg donor. It's not about the fact DHS gave custody to my egg donor a neglectful family after she almost fucking killed me. It's not about how my dad was literally their last resort for custody. It's not about the fact they awarded her unsupervised visitations after she killed me and continued after she kidnapped me during one of them. It's not not about the fact my eg…
/r/MensRights08/08/21 08:53 PM
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Totally agree, I used to be like her. But I think it comes down to having your common sense and maturity wake up. Mine did, I saw that I said I believed in true equality and that men are in this patriarchy against me and other women and that I should be scared of all men because of this societal system. Then I grew up and found out no one really gives a fuck about society or follows these societial structures but people who are immature and can't think for themselves. Unfortunately people have l…
/r/MensRights08/08/21 08:40 PM
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Ah, you beat me to it. I came here to post the same thing. This is the typical feminism mentality I see honestly. It I frustrates me, it's so stupid and contradictory "Feminism fights for equality of all genders! 💁‍♀️✨ But men 😡 can't be equal 🙅‍♀️ until women are 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️ Feminism is not an "anti men" movement (like that exists 🤣) we are simply asking that you ✅♀️ Believe ALL women 😡☣️♂️ DON'T have TOXIC MASCULINITY (which honestly, if you aren't a soft, sensitive, and unmasculine- sorry! 💁‍♀️ …
/r/MensRights08/08/21 08:29 PM
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I did it. lets see how it goes. If they reallt care about equality they wont ban me.
/r/MensRights20/06/21 06:37 PM
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Im sorry, what???? The??? Fuck????? WOAH MEN HAVE WILL TO LIVE WHEN THEY ARE ACTUALLY ALLOWED TO LOVE THIER CHILDREN???? Who woulda thunk it, men are human, social creatures too!! Did we really need to waste the time, money, resources, time, and assets to do a whole a study to show men do better when they are actually loved because MEN ARE HUMAN?
/r/MensRights19/06/21 03:54 PM
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Oh hello! I am a MRA who happens to be a woman, i mainly advocate for Fathers Rights and Parental Alienation because I try to stick with what I have personal experience with. My father lost custody and was completely alienated from me after a misandrist affair with family court and dhs, and it tore us both apart for 12 long. Long. Long. years. I was horribly abused and saw horrible abuses done to both boys and girls that has given me a (sadly) unique perspective on male victims. I see that male …
/r/MensRights18/06/21 04:54 PM
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Where tho Where do I say a man needs to get a women This was about what I would need from a partner
/r/MensRights19/04/21 02:37 PM
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Correction: you should be your best for yourself. So your special someone can love you too, and you can love them. Love you for yourself. Tend to your own wounds all you can, and work on being the healthiest you you can be. Then you can truly be healthy and happy in a functional relationship. "Opening your heart- it hurts! Does opening your heart always just hurt?" "No, it doesn't always hurt, but when it really cracks open, it hurts. You know? And it does. Even the hurt transforms, because if y…
/r/MensRights19/04/21 02:16 PM
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Fuck dude, what are you looking to get here? I get it it could have words things better and added a few clarifying words but my heart's in the right place at least. I wanted it to come across as "Love yourself, so I can love you, so you can love me, we can love each other, and so we can function." I'm not trying to say how a man should only love himself because a women needs it. I'm obviously not trying to put men down. I'm on your side of the fence here! Attacking the whole post and my intentio…
/r/MensRights19/04/21 01:45 PM
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I never said anything like that. I thought I made it clear I meant equality in a relationship
/r/MensRights19/04/21 07:22 AM
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I do have something to offer, but it ultimately comes to company, love, support, and good vibes. I can be someone you can run to in the hard times, I can be a rock. I can offer all I am, all I have, all I can. I can be here and provide all I can. I can love and support all I can.
/r/MensRights19/04/21 04:42 AM
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1- Putting logical reasoning to this kinda thing doesn't work. This is a Pathos argument, I'm appealing to emotion here. It doesnt matter my analogy doesnt make logical sense, it got my emotion across, right? 2- That's not what I meant at all, I apologize it came across like that. But its more of a cycle type thing. If my boyfriend doesnt love himself, hes not going to accept my love for him, not fully. (Ex, he wont accept my compliments towars his body) Then I doesnt feel like he loves me, he w…
/r/MensRights19/04/21 04:39 AM
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Because that's what its mocking. It was impossible to completely eliminate that element. It was more about how men to love and care if themselves first before a women.
/r/MensRights19/04/21 04:30 AM
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Yeah, I wish I could avoid that with this parody, but it was impossible. I was parodying the whole "I need a man to be this is, is, is, is, is, and is for ME and MY PLEASURE." and at least trying to send a message of "I need you to love yourself, so I can love you, because if you you dont love you, you wont accept my love, I cant love you like you deserve, you cant love me, because I love you. We cant be happy if you dont love and put you first." I want the man in my life to love himself over me…
/r/MensRights19/04/21 04:19 AM
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For me I'm just dyslexic i dont see a difference lmao
/r/MensRights19/04/21 01:05 AM
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Support. Tell y'all to love and respect yourselves.
/r/MensRights19/04/21 12:14 AM
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For example: my ex boyfriend and I met at the park. He came with flowers and a picnic. I noted he gave to me, and consciously made a candle lit dinner for him to give back. It comes down to noticing they did something for you, and mindfully doing something for them too. But at the same time, dont show boat. If they got you flowers, dont buy them a Rolex in return. That's nice, but it shows your partner that their gift wasn't enough. I tend to give more than I take, which can be really healthy if…
/r/MensRights12/04/21 02:44 AM
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As a woman, I totally agree with this sentiment. In general, men are expected to do the heavy lifting in the relationship. That's why in my personal relationships its give and take. It goes something like this when planning a date. (You know, when I'm ready to do that again hahhaaaaa) I'll figure out what time we can both do, is there any certain place you wanna go? I like [this place], how about that? Do you wanna go Dutch with the check? I can pay for me, if you need, I can pay for you too. Yo…
/r/MensRights11/04/21 03:42 PM
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Hello! I am a female Egalitarian advocate, I focus of Men's, Father's, and Children's rights. I can't say my advocacy is very big right now but right now I'm working on personalnthongs as well as advocacy in the background, but I plan to do more as my own issues resolve. My best advice is to be a voice for men rights. Share numbers, statistics, information, articles, all you can about it. There are certain topics that commonly come up, such as: Male Domestic Violence Victims, How homelessness ma…
/r/MensRights10/04/21 04:15 AM
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I'm a female victim of sexual abuse and sex trafficking. This whole "it only happens at night" thing is bullshit. Even if a trafficker does approach you, which happens quite a lot, it happens in broad daylight. It happens in normal spaces that make you feel okay with going with them. They're smart, they'll gain your trust long enough to knock you out. Sexual assault is almost NEVER from a stranger though. It's so so rare that it's from a stranger. Most cases are from a person in a position of tr…
/r/MensRights21/03/21 09:13 PM
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Ah yes. Because only men hurt women Female predators dont exist No such thing.
/r/MensRights21/03/21 01:38 AM
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I'm not a man, to clarify! I am a woman mens rights advocate. I advocate for fathers and children's rights as well in the fight against Family Courts, Child Support Enforcement, CPS, and DHS. I fight for my dad, who unfairly lost custody of me and was alienated from me. So now I speak out against parental alienation and men exclusive issues. I am an anti feminist, I hate that feminism has just become man hating. I try my best a women to spread awareness about men exclusive issues, but I try to s…
/r/MensRights21/03/21 12:47 AM
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No harm done? That's not true! Just because you're a man doesnt mean discrimination isnt harmful!
/r/MensRights14/03/21 12:41 AM
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All men matter! You all matter! The world isnt the same without you all in it!
/r/MensRights13/03/21 11:22 PM
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THIS. YES. Honestly if a dude said he wasnt comfortable with me because he had a fear if being falsely accused I'd totally understand and agree that's a valid fear. I would never ever make a false allegation, and trust me I can make some very serious accusations. I dont understand the "only men are rapists" thing. I've been a victim of a lot of pedophiles, and I can tell you THERE ARE A LOT A LOT OH MY GOD, THERE ARE SO MANY PEDOPHILIC WOMEN.
/r/MensRights13/03/21 10:10 PM
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Thank you! I know I'm not the only women who will never stop fighting for change and progress forward. I wish all my fellow female advocates a lovely March 8th
/r/MensRights08/03/21 11:35 PM
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Its not specified, so I dont know. But it doesnt matter. That's still a horrific thing to experience.
/r/MensRights20/02/21 12:36 AM
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Let me make this clear since the article didn't That man was raped. That wasnt only rape, but it was sexual torture. Those women assaulted him with goddamn batteries for fucks sake! They beat his body and head, the court has the evidence to prove it. Attempted murder charges should be pressed. Those women not only did all this to him but robbed him too. On top of this horrible, torturous event it happened inside his own home. The women didnt even show up to the court hearing, having their lawyer…
/r/MensRights19/02/21 11:47 PM
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Ah yes, because all MRAs are sexist incels right? There are not any women or good men behind this movement, no good motivation behind it. It's all about dominating women and putting them down for not having sex with men. Totally. Ugh, "incel".... can we call that a derogatory term yet? An incel is a man that is so sexually undesirable he is involuntarily celibate, and is associated with creepy, abuse men. And yes, there are men like that, definitely agree. But guess what? THERE ARE WOMEN LIKE TH…
/r/MensRights19/02/21 01:31 AM
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Poetically put. You're absolutely right, society has reacted to male suicide by saying we need to let men be more emotional but the majority arent addressing what's distressing men to the point of suicide in the first place. No, it's not because they need to be more emotional. It's because the issues that men exclusively face arent being addressed. Male suicide isnt going to stop until the discrimination against men does.
/r/MensRights18/02/21 04:53 AM
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Heres a link from the CDC talking about ACEs and their health effects Heres a study showing the people with ACEs are at risk for premature death.) Here is an article from the APA about the damage of corporal punishment Dude I dont wanna co parent with you, I dont need you. Have you actually been a parent yet? I actually have been a mother as well as the caretaker of many kids. And I will tell you, HITTING DOES NOTHING. When you hit a kid now they wont listen. They're just scared, confused why th…
/r/MensRights17/02/21 04:30 PM
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Okay but pick any of these role models that suffered abuse. How many of them turn to drugs, are depressed, have self esteem problems, or have some form of mental illness/disorder? I can't think of one who hasn't. I'm not saying we need to never expose children to the harshness of the world, that we shouldn't be hard on them sometimes. What I am saying is there shouldn't be children being admitted to the hospital because they were so beat up from abuse related injuries. Providing a safe space for…
/r/MensRights17/02/21 12:42 PM
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This comment made me squeal, that was too cute. Thank you
/r/MensRights15/02/21 07:02 PM
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Yeah, my view on this has since changed and I no longer wish to associate with feminism in anyway. I'd actually be more comfortable calling myself a mens rights activist or humanist activist than anything because you're right. Modern feminism helped destroy my life
/r/MensRights15/02/21 12:31 PM
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Its unfortunate how common this is. But its seen as okay because it's a woman doing it.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 05:25 AM
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I get what you mean. The military is just sexist to both parties honestly. To the men you have to MAN UP and be MANLY because you're a MAN, TAKE IT LIKE A MAAAAN. You're expected to sacrifice your mental health and physical health because some politicians said "let's go to war!" Aw hell no! Why??? You're expected to put your life on the line and even if you make it out you cant erase everything you've seen and experienced. Why is this considered a normal thing? You shouldn't have to be subjected…
/r/MensRights14/02/21 05:22 AM
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We're planning on having the picture of the bite mark compared to thundercunts teeth. Thundercunts teeth and the relative who supposedly bit me 's teeth are very different. Without much examining you can tell that's not the teeth of relative who was accused of biting me...
/r/MensRights14/02/21 12:19 AM
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I asked why I was banned They said "We ban trolls. Say hi to r/MensRights for us!"
/r/MensRights13/02/21 11:19 PM
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Ack, I dont know. I dont know if traditional feminism is a real thing or not, I just mean what feminism is at its core. But I hate feminism. I really do. I hate what it's become and a lot of what it's been. I believe in equality, I advocate for men and women. It doesnt matter who you are, I'll advocate for your happiness, wellbeing, and safety.
/r/MensRights13/02/21 10:58 PM
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Just so the record shows: I posted this onto r/TwoXChromosomes and I got PERMANENTLY BANNED. Goes to show what modern feminism is really about. They're not willing to stand by men facing the same issues because they are men.
/r/MensRights13/02/21 09:54 PM
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As I said, I was recently reunited with my dad. Now I'm living with him. Something that everyone noticed very quickly is that I am very very damaged from what I was put through. I have nightmares almost every night and have flashbacks a couple times a day. But hes been so kind and loving through it. It's been so healing. I'm getting better much much faster and easier now.
/r/MensRights13/02/21 06:12 PM
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I can't stress this enough. When we think of pain coming from the family court system we think of the lonely dad who had his kids taken away. But what about the kids? People assume that DHS and CPS has the child best interests at heart. While some of their social workers genuinely do, the system doesnt care about the children. A perfect example of this is is how parents who have visitation with their children are often told they cant be emotional. The professionalism is misplaced in this situati…
/r/MensRights13/02/21 06:08 PM
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Agreed. People ask why I use the term "traditional feminist" and its because I dont agree with modern feminism. No, men are not the cause of all our problems in the world. Yes, a lot of the systems and people that make problems in the world happen to be men but the issue isnt the fact they're men. The problems are corruption, alternate motives in authority, division between the people and things like that. If the roles were switched and women were the more dominant sex, wed have a lot of overlap…
/r/MensRights13/02/21 04:51 PM
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I'm a "traditional feminist" who believes in equality for men and women. I advocate for BOTH men's and women's rights because feminism is just a fight for equality. So I hope that other feminists would look at this and agree that this is a serious, men exclusive issue
/r/MensRights13/02/21 03:46 PM
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