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There it is, the childish behavior. Knew it was in there somewhere,
/r/seduction10/02/25 07:28 PM
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Do yourself a favor, and stop giving advice. Men are brainwashed enough to take bullshit from women.
/r/seduction10/02/25 06:10 AM
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A woman that's shy can come off like they're disinterested when they're actually not, it's up to you on how you want to go about it. When she cancels the date once, sure, give her the BOD, but 3-4 times is NOT shyness. That's game-playing. If you cut her off, she'll probably be upset and try to flirt with other guys in front of you to teach you a lesson for not doing more to pursue. That was the pattern I saw. ..So you internalized women playing you as a punishment for not giving into their dema…
/r/seduction10/02/25 02:07 AM
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She's playing games, and knows she's playing games. Women use this "yo-yo" tactic with online dating to bait for emotional attention. It's the female equivalent to guys telling women anything they want to hear just to have sex. Tell her you're not interested anymore, and let her wail. Find another fish.
/r/seduction10/02/25 01:48 AM
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Wait, she's at your place, or dorm? She may not feel comfortable if you share a room. Other than that, she's looking for you to giver her the green light. You have to make her think sex is her idea, not yours. Step back a bit and let her cool down. Watch a movie or something. In the middle of the movie, slowly escalate again with light touches. I like to caress the back of the shins, to the back thigh, to the inner thigh. It has to be a gradual build-up or she will stop you. Imagine if you're at…
/r/seduction10/02/25 01:40 AM
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Experience in what? Doing what you already know how to do? When you were a little boy, did you not approach the girls with no fear? Did you not share your snacks or show them your impressive dinosaur collection? As far as escalation, did you NOT get mad and try to fight little Tommy when he decided to assert himself as the "daddy" when playing house? I sure as hell did. Socializing and escalation has always been with you, albeit in a crude state, but it was always there. It's the calibration whe…
/r/seduction08/02/25 03:21 PM
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Here's a cheat code: Every man has "game" built into him. You just have to find your instruction manual and follow that. Following another man's instruction manual is how we get in trouble.
/r/seduction07/02/25 05:03 AM
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This situation can go either way honestly, It all depends on how you show up in every interaction with her. If you get upset and express that verbally or through body language, you're fucked. She's going to mirror whatever you give her, particularly at such a young age. Your first step is figuring out if you want a full-time commitment from her or not, and you'll have to watch her actions to see if she's ready for that. At 18, I highly doubt it. If you do and she doesn't, she's going to pick up …
/r/seduction07/02/25 04:57 AM
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Her: "Do you want to date other girls?" You: "Yes." If she stops there, them you're good. If she gets upset, or tries to argue her defense, that's her trying to rationalize why you won't commit , and they will throw everything at you. I had a girl once take me out to a fancy restaurant just to ask that question, audibly, in a room full of couples, thinking it would make me fold. They can be pretty bold when they want something from you. If you've already explained your "entanglement" is strictly…
/r/seduction07/02/25 04:30 AM
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-They act as if nothing can hurt them (because you are there), their survival instincts are at a ZERO. They will not look at the street twice because you’re there to do it for them. Truth. I've personally found that the women who exhibit this are the most fun, but you'll pay for it with the burden of being responsible for EVERY decision, and I mean single every one. You're basically dad. If I have to constantly remind you to look before you cross, I'll savor those 3 serendipitous months we share…
/r/seduction05/02/25 03:10 PM
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How do you know CIA teaching body science like it’s seen on TV? Because there’s “an ex CIA agent” revealing it on tv series or on youtube? Because I've read their books and personally took a few classes myself. Your analysis is correct, and I wish you would have said that in the beginning, instead of making the blanket statement that "The science of “Body language” is pseudoscience at best".
/r/seduction02/02/25 07:25 PM
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Good write up, but body language is most certainly not a pseudoscience. If the CIA is teaching their agents how to look for cues in posture to indicate moods, I'd think the millions spent on the training wasn't based on a made up science.
/r/seduction02/02/25 05:51 AM
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It's nice to plow through when you see something you like, but in advanced game, you learn to look for the cues so you don't walk into an interaction and waste your time with a woman who clearly isn't interested in you. You can take the shotgun approach, but think about all the wasted energy you put into women who weren't interested that could have been saved for those who were if you take a couple seconds just to gage her interest. It's not a strat for every guy, but I personally like to optimi…
/r/seduction02/02/25 05:48 AM
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1.) Be Not Fat (This is easy) 2.) Learn how to "Rizz 'em with the 'Tism". It's your God-given advantage. 3.) Go pay for a night with an escort so you can get the "virgin" BS out of your head. 4.) If you work on 1-3, and your mental, everything else falls into place. Being 30 will maximize your hard work, as most women are looking for older men with their shit taken care of. The 18 YO's won't leave you alone.
/r/seduction02/02/25 04:05 AM
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You don't even have to travel abroad. I've had more success when I went state-to-sate for work/conventions. Idk what it is, but women can intuitively tell when you're not "from" there or traveling. All the effort was on their part, I just had to approach and prove that I wasn't a creep. They opened up quick. Got alot of numbers, comped meals, invitations to events I'd never get by myself and stays in hotels I could only dream of affording.
/r/seduction30/01/25 09:26 PM
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Likewise, wise words. 🤜🏽🤛🏽
/r/seduction30/01/25 07:25 PM
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Translation: "I suck at day game, but I gotta be an "alpha" about it so the boys won't think I'm a pussy" Bro, this is the internet. Stop it 😂. We're here to learn, not dick measure.
/r/seduction29/01/25 09:28 PM
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This comes with practice. Assert your boundaries with respect, and don't put much excess potential on the girl. If you set the intention early on what you want from her in a respectful way, she will pick up on it. Women will straight up abandon their safety for a guy they're really into (Don't do shady shit with that info, it'll backfire on you). Lukewarm responses should be met with indifference, and eventual departure if she hasn't bought in. If all of that passes, any guy/woman that takes her…
/r/seduction29/01/25 09:18 PM
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Reread what you just wrote. On a scale of 1-10, how much power do you think you're giving away to "higher value men and women" when you operate this way? In addition: Why do you think the value of being authentic and comfortable within oneself is only reserved to those "higher value men"? Do you not realize you're putting them on a pedestal?
/r/seduction25/01/25 05:47 PM
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Hit the nail on the head 🔨 Game tactics were meant to be training wheels for guiding you into your confident, higher self. Once you get there, the tactics and cheat codes turn into knowledge that you integrate into yourself as a man. You learn what you prefer and don't prefer, and the confidence to tell the world what you think, regardless of their reactions. My theory about game/seduction tactics is similar to how women view the "love potion/spells" gimmick: These people want to generate genuin…
/r/seduction25/01/25 05:43 PM
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Golden Rule: If she's into you, she won't let ANYTHING stop you from booking her, including sharing contact details. Lukewarm women aren't worth the effort it takes once you've been with women who genuinely desire you. Guys have a hard time believing this because 1.) They haven't had the experience of being genuinely desired. 2.) "Chasing" has been drilled into their heads from decades of conditioning by chodes who follow the herd. 3.) Their minds are soo dead-locked on the sex, that they can't …
/r/seduction24/01/25 08:42 PM
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I've had something similar. Sometimes I chicken out and another guy comes in to sweep, or I'm just not in the mood to be social, but the attraction is there. In those moments, I try to remind myself that I should approach, even when I'm not battling at 1000. The biggest cheat code I've discovered is being upfront about what you're feeling atm. "Hey, I'm having a rough day, but I saw you and wanted to introduce myself". Most women will be delighted that you're being vulnerable from the jump, part…
/r/seduction20/01/25 03:15 AM
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Right? Even I felt disgusted when I read them. I can only imagine how the girls feel. We still have to have empathy though, I remember when I used to say similar shit. I see why I never got what I wanted..
/r/seduction18/01/25 05:17 PM
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If you need a community, there's tons out there.. But then again, if you're good with seduction, you don't need them, hm? 😂
/r/seduction18/01/25 11:32 AM
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"when I get beautiful girls like the ones at comic and anime conventions who are dressed like anime and video game characters in my bed I'll forget about it." Lmao, con thirst is def real. Seriously tho, your friends are right. The more you worry about how to get it, the less of of it you'll get. Pulling at cons is EASY when you're solid with yourself authentically. Learn how to talk to the girls in your community/school first, then apply what you learned to the con scene and you'll make many fr…
/r/seduction13/01/25 01:06 AM
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Jezzies. They love the attention. Get your 5 mins then leave them be, or you'll regret it.
/r/seduction12/01/25 09:57 PM
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Dude gave some sage advice, and of course the chronically online willfully chooses to focus on his body count 🤣. Damn, now I know how the girls feel..
/r/seduction11/01/25 07:10 PM
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You're going to get varied answers for obvious reasons. The answer is that it depends on the girl. Some women don't mind a guy that wants to wait for sex, while others think you're a pussy. The REAL question should be: "Which guy am I comfortable being?"
/r/seduction18/12/24 04:15 AM
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This is good. As far as the advice given, I think there should be more talk about knowing when to leave for guys. Too often, I see guys trying to come up with elaborate ways to get attention from women who refuse to put the effort in, including myself, and it only brings frustration. I'd say talk to her in a way that makes you feel comfortable and stop trying to impress women. If she's not giving you anything to work with, that's her problem. Normalize guys not wasting their
/r/seduction11/12/24 02:22 AM
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You really going to argue with me about the semantics? Do you not want to improve? Now I see why you have trouble.
/r/seduction05/11/24 03:42 AM
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Fair enough, but that's two outliers compared to the millions of women out there. If it happened as much as guys like to say it does, men wouldn't approach at all. Also, as a guy, you're going to run into bad apples from time to time. Don't let that discourage you.
/r/seduction05/11/24 03:13 AM
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Unless you're trying to stick your tongue down the poor girls' throat or snatch her panties off her ass, the chances of it happening are slim to none. The women you are thinking of are in the fringe minority, trust me. They spend more time online than off, for good reason. If anything, most women just want to be approached, particularly the Gen Z girls. They are hurting BAD for real, authentic connection and are turning to pop culture trends as they're tired of waiting and are even willing to pr…
/r/seduction05/11/24 03:01 AM
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Let her wonder whether it’ll happen or not. This is such a guy thing to say lol. Women are not stupid. If you're inviting them over under false assumptions, they KNOW you want to get close. Some will even withhold sex intentionally just to see how you'll handle being being pressured in the pocket. That's their game, not ours. Just ask her straight up, but don't be vulgar about it. She'll either say yes or no. If she starts pulling that, "Oh, so is this what you do with all the women you meet?!" …
/r/seduction10/10/24 10:42 PM
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the ones that do have that ulterior motive for romance are cast to the "friend zone" as platonic friends to keep on a string for attention and resources. There's a bit more nuance to this. It's not necessarily the romance, but the way you're showing up. If you're afraid to escalate and let her know you're interested, you get labeled as a "Chode". If you are romantic and take risks with her, you're "Prince Charming". That being said, some are not turned on by romance at all and will see you as a …
/r/seduction10/10/24 04:57 PM
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True. This post to inform you on how to stay in the "fwb" camp and not the "friendzone" camp.
/r/seduction10/10/24 04:54 PM
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reading "Oh OP, they're not going to get the nuance with this.." reads comments "See? They dont get it. They never do. Some just dont know how to play poker."
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:20 PM
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To add to that: Reflection does NOT mean "ruminate over possible worst scenarios if you decide to take a risk with interaction". Some guys use false allegations as a buffer for their fear of simply letting a woman know what they think about them.
/r/seduction29/09/24 06:07 PM
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🎱
/r/seduction28/09/24 12:52 AM
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I'm not your gf, and no you can't have my number. Your priorities are all out of whack, focus on getting better at the girls, homie.
/r/seduction21/09/24 01:53 AM
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Proly I HIGHLY doubt that 😂
/r/seduction21/09/24 12:59 AM
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Except seduction has little to do with the "right" joke, flirt, or game, it has more to do with how comfortable you feel within your own body and how that translates to women psychologically. We as men, believe women go through a logical process when they're attracted to us. Couldn't be far from the truth. They take in body language, posture, hygiene etc. before the thought of attractiveness hits their consciousness. Watch the guys videos like I said, and look up a book called "The Alabaster Gir…
/r/seduction20/09/24 11:36 PM
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Oh..you're young. You wouldn't get it.
/r/seduction20/09/24 11:26 PM
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I skimmed through that shit to find the meat, so I can only imagine how the women react. I would tell you to stop watching videos and just go out, but you're going to do it anyway, so start watching videos from this guy. Logic will get you no further, it's time to learn how to VIBE. Get in your damn body!
/r/seduction20/09/24 08:39 PM
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True, but if you live by the sword, you'll eventually die by the sword in a way that's going to absolutely crush you. Mark my words.
/r/seduction20/09/24 06:02 PM
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Bro, you're a redditor too. Calm down, sticky keys..
/r/seduction20/09/24 05:59 PM
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It could go either way honestly. Most will think you're a snobby douche, but I guarantee there will be at least one or two women who will see it as "mysteriously suave". Personally, I'd rip off the band-aid and just let people see you. If you're allowing other people's perceptions of you dictate when/how you'll have a fun night, that's an insecurity to tackle. I have it as well, so don't think it's just you. You're going to have to do it anyway, so might as well get over that hump now while you'…
/r/seduction20/09/24 05:57 PM
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More fish out there
/r/seduction20/09/24 02:37 PM
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What if I accidentally sent 43???? 😳
/r/seduction20/09/24 02:37 AM
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Hard to tell. She could have been faking to save face, or maybe she genuinely was excited to see you. Either way, I would always respond warmly, even if I knew she was being a social snake. Only way to find out is through time. Have you asked her out on a date yet?
/r/seduction19/09/24 11:24 PM
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That's just how it goes sometimes. The hilarious part is when you find a girl that you're into, and like clockwork, all the girls that flaked or ghosted you suddenly start popping back up simultaneously. Idk what it is, but women have this sith sense in knowing a guy they passed up on is suddenly getting attention. The vibe gets real desperate lol.
/r/seduction17/09/24 12:44 AM
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Lol
/r/seduction17/09/24 12:42 AM
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Overthinking. You let her know you were thinking about her sexually. If she didn't respond, chances are the sparks that you thought were there, weren't. Check back in with her to set up another date next weekend. If she doesn't respond, or comes off flaky, you have your answer..
/r/seduction16/09/24 11:25 PM
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It's not particualry you, it's the people you're around. I had the same issues from being raised by an insecure mother. She indirectly taught me how to be a doormat for her feelings. Whenever I was around people that had the sane overbearing personality, "There's mom", I would say to myself. I had to learn how to speak up for myself, which is a good thing to learn, but you realize those types could care less and will drag you down to the mud just to be right about petty shit that has no value. F…
/r/seduction16/09/24 07:16 PM
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There is no such thing as "false attraction". You're either attracted or you're not. You can sit there and pretend that woman across the row from you with the big tiddies is not attractive, and that you're on your "personal development journey" and need to be "pure", but that's not going to stop the other men from approaching. That's your loss and another sock wasted that night.
/r/seduction15/09/24 09:06 PM
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This particular type of shit-testing is to see if the guy will fold under the pressure of her hostility. It can be conscious or unconscious, which is why the plausible deniability is strong here. This could have easily been her letting off steam from a bad day, or can be her intentionally trying to give him shit, and the situation gets amplified too fast to be able to consciously decipher between the two in enough time. Most guys who aren't trained in understanding how this mind game ensnares th…
/r/seduction14/09/24 07:05 PM
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I see where you're coming from, but is that not also a passing assumption based on you being a woman? You can have a similar circumstance, but there is a chance you were more level-headed about it. We're both spit-balling based on our own experiences, and I've definitely had fair share of women who shit test like I've explained.
/r/seduction14/09/24 01:18 PM
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That was a shit test. She KNOWS the men she secretly admires are approaching every day. Probably caught her on a bad day, or she saw an op to make him the emotional tampon. Hope he told her to kick rocks if she's going to make an attitude of it, this is life lady.
/r/seduction12/09/24 02:27 AM
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Have you been called a creep by that "one" girl? And why?
/r/seduction12/09/24 02:24 AM
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I stamp this 💯. There's this weird, simpy attitude with most men in that they think it's their "responsibility" to make women "feel something", as if we dont already have enough on our plate in approaching. How little do they really understand women.. She already felt something the moment you both locked eyes, but she's either sold already and is waiting on you to open, or is unsure whether she likes you or not and needs more data. Regardless of the case, If you're 5 mins deep and she's still gi…
/r/seduction11/09/24 03:52 AM
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She could have a billion messages. If she likes you enough, literally none of them matter. The problem is, she doesn't like you enough to ignore the others, and that's OK. That's what the "Next" button is for.
/r/seduction11/09/24 03:41 AM
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I double dog dare ya!
/r/seduction08/09/24 06:13 AM
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Good, now I dare you to do it again lol
/r/seduction08/09/24 03:41 AM
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Saltch3ck 🧂
/r/seduction08/09/24 03:38 AM
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Ok 1.) Whats is considered "realistic"? An amalgamation of other people's opinions? That's good for maximizing SMV, but that's about it.. 2.) Personally, I'm speaking more on internal state. You should always believe you're a ten, even if you don't feel like it. Looks don't really matter as much at the end of the day, even to the hyper materialistic. Ive I've witnessed butt-ugly men create vibes woth confidence that got them laid. Ive also had people tell me I look chadish and others say I look …
/r/seduction07/09/24 04:07 AM
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As they should. I'd be skeptical if she said anything less than an 8. Assuming a high number is not the issue, and should be normal. The crazy, self-absorbed behavior is the real issue. Would you really let other people convince you you're less than a 10?
/r/seduction06/09/24 09:53 PM
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Chads being generalized as these strictly power-hungry sex faucets is hilarious. Even chads are more complex than that. I've witnessed a few turn down easy sex just because they didn't care about it atm, or because they were bored and wanted to see how the girl would react. There's also a good sum of them that want monogamy, but are constantly orbited by bitter femcels and sex-hungry women. I could say there's more to life than looksmaxxing, Chad behavior, and the whole alpha/beta dynamic, but I…
/r/seduction06/09/24 03:32 AM
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Step 1: Stop calling yourself a pu$$y. The mindset is the first thing you must change, and that requires you to look at yourself differently. So what if you didn't approach So what if you choked So what if she thought you were weird Those are all platitudes that are outside of yourself. No wonder we're always worried. Also, stop taking advice from other people and just do what comes to mind. You'll figure out the steps without redditors critiquing your every move. Once you get a baseline for how…
/r/seduction05/09/24 12:44 AM
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Middle ground is cool guy intentionally asking dumb questions in a playful tone to elicit feelings
/r/seduction04/09/24 11:38 PM
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Bingo
/r/seduction04/09/24 10:55 AM
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Please say /s, lol
/r/seduction04/09/24 10:50 AM
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When it comes to humans, there will ALWAYS be games. There has to be a buffer for both sides to save face. What do you think is going to happen when the guy/girl asking gets told "no", directly, one too many times? You think mass shootings are bad now..
/r/seduction04/09/24 10:49 AM
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Most men aren’t hot enough to have a hookup in the first place Bruh, you haven't been out to venues much if you truly believe this. You don't have to be "hot". You can be an ugly mf and still pull if your confidence and social skill are on point. That's some incel shit bro, let that mindset go.. It can affect their self confidence and never see a positive outcome despite going through that much rejection. Simple answer: THEY CARE TOO MUCH. Approaching, let alone game itself isn't something you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:01 PM
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The numbers game is not about getting to know women. It's about finding the quickest lay, and it works when you're with a woman who's looking for the same thing. Not every woman wants you to "get to know her", some just want to fuck and go about their biz.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:24 AM
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Yeah, that sounds nice and dandy, but you forget a good portion of women see most men as "the collective" and not individuals, hence the stance comment. There are some women who will let an athlete book her with no resistance, but will make an average Joe "work for it." Then there are women who don't care and just want the guy that's in her general vicinity to just come over and say hi. They usually let you say/do whatever,as long as you're respectful and aren't playing games, as she won't be. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:18 AM
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..You obviously don't have many women reaching for your dick then to not get this. Only men who stand out get this kind of attention, while the rest wonder if this is real or not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:47 PM
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Hardcore fems are always looking for opportunities of power (perpetual victimhood), so it makes sense she'd take advantage of literally being in the driver's seat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:42 PM
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Bruh, that example is not fat, not even chubby. She is what the kids call, thicc. See women walking around looking like this that catch the male gaze all the time. This is chubby Most guys won't even turn her down. She'd have to be Lizzo/Honey Boo-Boo's mother type of obese to get the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:33 PM
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That's respective to how attracted she is to you, which varies from person to person. I've personally said some outlandish shit just to see if I could get away with it, and the girl was slightly perplexed, but still interested. There are some women who don't care about your game, they've already decided they like you, though you won't find many.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:07 PM
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