| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 182 | Are we dating the same guy groups - Potentially very harmful | False Accusation | PoopBlimp | /r/MensRights | 06/05/23 10:04 PM |
| 33 | I have an idea to counter the Are we dating the same guy? Facebook groups. | Social Issues | PoopBlimp | /r/MensRights | 10/05/23 08:34 PM |
| 22 | This is why those toxic Facebook groups exist. | Social Issues | PoopBlimp | /r/MensRights | 09/05/23 01:35 PM |
| 17 | These Facebook groups (awdtsg) | False Accusation | PoopBlimp | /r/MensRights | 07/05/23 12:01 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Why men get so few matches on dating appsI have never had women ask me those questions, lol. They ask my occupation, but that's a pretty standard question. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/23 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Posted on "Are We Dating The Same Guy", stressed and scared.As someone who has had photos removed from those groups due to copyright infringement - you are wrong. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/23 01:37 PM |
| 2 | I have an idea to counter the Are we dating the same guy? Facebook groups.Facebook. I'd love to see the excuse they'd have to shut that down. 😂 | /r/MensRights | 11/05/23 12:52 AM |
| 1 | I have an idea to counter the Are we dating the same guy? Facebook groups.I am 100% willing to do the screenshotting if someone else wants to create the group. I just don't want my name associated with it, but I'm happy to do the leg work. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/23 12:20 AM |
| 3 | I have an idea to counter the Are we dating the same guy? Facebook groups.I'd just screenshot posts going forward. Not the entire group. Honestly it would take about 10 minutes a day. It would be super easy. The hardest part would just be getting men aware and to join the group. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/23 12:19 AM |
| 0 | I have an idea to counter the Are we dating the same guy? Facebook groups.Once all my photos are completely gone, I do plan on finding/messaging people who are on there. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/23 11:52 PM |
| 5 | I have an idea to counter the Are we dating the same guy? Facebook groups.Well..men aren't going to give a F if other dudes see their photos. This would just allow them to see that they're posted and respond appropriately. And yes, they should be, but they aren't. Facebook isn't going to remove them unless there's a massive effort to do so. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/23 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Posted on "Are We Dating The Same Guy", stressed and scared.It just requires a DMCA. Facebook is obligated by law to take the post down if you own the photo. I just had it work for me and I'm trying to spread awareness about it on here. Also, I assume FB will eventually get tired of reviewing DMCA's as a result of this group. There has to be a breaking point. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/23 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Posted on "Are We Dating The Same Guy", stressed and scared.To be honest, it doesn't. People should be judged on who they are now and have the opportunity to be better. Both men and women. This is just another extreme example of cancel culture. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/23 08:54 PM |
| 14 | I have an idea to counter the Are we dating the same guy? Facebook groups.I think that's a good option as an informational source. However, if you take away the anonymity of these groups they will collapse. The women on there get super pissy when the information gets back to the guy in question. Well imagine if EVERY post they did was easily accessible by any guy who joins the group? Game over. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/23 08:47 PM |
| 6 | Posted on "Are We Dating The Same Guy", stressed and scared.See this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/13dz2sb/tools\_to\_remove\_your\_pics\_from\_awdtsg\_facebook/ | /r/MensRights | 10/05/23 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Posted on "Are We Dating The Same Guy", stressed and scared.Oooh, I like that! It would be pretty easy to do since members are plainly visible if you're in the group. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/23 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Posted on "Are We Dating The Same Guy", stressed and scared.These are the two links you need. Just go through the process. You need the original photo and then the url's from the group. FYI - DMCA.com is $200. Although, you can also find people on Fiverr who will issue a takedown for 10-15 bucks. Not sure if there's any difference in effectiveness. https://www.dmca.com/ https://www.facebook.com/help/contact/copyrightform | /r/MensRights | 10/05/23 07:50 PM |
| 3 | Posted on "Are We Dating The Same Guy", stressed and scared.Take action, dude. File a DMCA and submit a copyright form on Facebook. Even if you don't care - the more people do this, the more of an effect it will have and help future guys. I just had my photos removed via this method. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/23 07:12 PM |
| 29 | Posted on "Are We Dating The Same Guy", stressed and scared.You don't actually have to be on a dating website to get posted here. Hell, you could be married. I've seen women post about their husbands, I've seen them literally ask if other women will "test" their husband to see if they're loyal. It's unimaginably fucked up, and this goes way beyond online dating. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/23 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Are We Dating The Same Guy does not go against Facebook's Community Standards for harassmentLove to see more women bashing these groups. We need you in this fight. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/23 03:54 PM |
| 10 | Posted on "Are We Dating The Same Guy", stressed and scared.lol, yeah you're probably right. The fact is - women are just as toxic and shitty in relationships. If you only see one side, that's all you'll see. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/23 03:48 PM |
| 38 | Posted on "Are We Dating The Same Guy", stressed and scared.Yeah. Aside from a few legit posts on there of people with criminal background. I don't believe 90% of the shit posted on there. It's THEIR perspective. Women always think they're the ones being emotionally abused, when it's just as often the other way around. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/23 03:44 PM |
| 12 | Posted on "Are We Dating The Same Guy", stressed and scared.If you have access to the group, copy the url's of the post and submit a DMCA takedown. Then, submit a copyright infringement report via Facebook. The DMCA is what will get the post removed, but the more people submit reports related to these groups, the more likely FB will take notice. If they keep posting it, they can potentially get banned by Facebook due to the DMCA. And FB should continue to remove it. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/23 03:43 PM |
| 1 | I just got posted on Are we dating the same guy.It's a Facebook group where women post screenshots from dating websites asking if anyone else has information on the guy. And then women generally pile on and shit all over the guy if he so much as sneezed without covering his mouth. They are hugely popular and some groups have nearly 100k members now. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/23 03:37 PM |
| 4 | I just got posted on Are we dating the same guy.I frankly love that I'm seeing more of these posts. It just means more guys are becoming aware. But yeah, if you're single and dating, you've been posted on there. And even if you're not, you may have. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/23 02:31 PM |
| 10 | This is why those toxic Facebook groups exist.Stop, lol. I don't need a jabroni on reddit telling me what's manly. And that is the whole point of this sub. Spreading awareness. Being vocal. This subreddit wouldn't exist with that attitude. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/23 02:28 PM |
| 3 | This is why those toxic Facebook groups exist.I have no idea what you're talking about. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/23 02:25 PM |
| 7 | This is why those toxic Facebook groups exist.Lol. Well, the mods removed it and I'm banned from their silly subreddit. Worth it. I will not stop being vocal about this and advocating for men's rights. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/23 02:24 PM |
| 19 | This is why those toxic Facebook groups exist.And this is exactly why men's rights are getting trampled on. We aren't vocal enough. We don't stand up for ourselves. It's quite depressing. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/23 02:01 PM |
| 3 | A girl on Facebook Dating app told me she recognized me from a post someone made on a “Are We Dating The Same Guy” groupI recommend every guy attempts to get access to their local group somehow. Then if you're involved in online dating, you can scan see the list of members and if you see someone on a dating site you're interested in - cross-reference it with the members of the FB group. Is she on there? Then block her. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/23 01:05 PM |
| 5 | A girl on Facebook Dating app told me she recognized me from a post someone made on a “Are We Dating The Same Guy” groupI recommend every guy either gets access to these sites via a friend or uses a dummy FB account to get in. I'm in my local group and it's quite eye opening. You don't even have to be in the online dating scene to get posted here. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/23 01:03 PM |
| 2 | A girl on Facebook Dating app told me she recognized me from a post someone made on a “Are We Dating The Same Guy” group100% this. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/23 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Are we dating the same guy?Yeah, except some people are being accused of being a rapist, spreading STDs etc. And it's all hearsay. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/23 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Are we dating the same guy?100% this. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/23 02:02 PM |
| 6 | Are we dating the same guy?Because men are being lied about and slandered on there. Bitter exes, women simply out for blood. One post on a group can completely ruin someone's reputation. And it matters when they have 50,000 members in one and area (and growing). | /r/MensRights | 08/05/23 01:39 PM |
| 21 | Are we dating the same guy?Tbh, the focus needs to be on getting these groups shut down, not emulating them. They are ruining men's lives and they will only get worse if we don't do something about it. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/23 02:49 AM |
| 3 | These Facebook groups (awdtsg)I hope you're right and we're able to turn this into a positive. Right now it feels completely out of control. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/23 06:25 AM |
| 4 | Are we dating the same guy groups - Potentially very harmfulI literally just found out today. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/23 03:18 AM |
| 8 | These Facebook groups (awdtsg)Yep. Everyone deserves privacy. If these were groups with 40,000 men doing the exact same thing, they'd be shut down immediately. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/23 01:05 AM |
| 13 | Are we dating the same guy groups - Potentially very harmfulThe friend is actually a co-worker who my wife hasn't met. I get what you're saying, but this could still go poorly and cause a huge amount of emotional distress. Hell, it already has. I do plan on talking to a lawyer on Monday, but not sure if that will help. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/23 10:38 PM |
| 6 | Are we dating the same guy groups - Potentially very harmfulIt's still there. It's only a matter of time. And no I haven't told her because technically..how do I prove I didn't create the profile? Best case she never trusts me again and like I said who knows who else has seen it that she or I knows. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/23 10:20 PM |
| 23 | Are we dating the same guy groups - Potentially very harmfulIt's still there. It's only a matter of time. And no I haven't told her because technically..how do I prove I didn't create the profile? Best case she never trusts me again and like I said who knows who else has seen it that she or I knows. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/23 10:20 PM |
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