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| 2 | I need help figuring out how to handle our separation as I don't want to be forced to divorce her. | Dealing with the Ex / STBX | PoopyStinkbutts | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/26 09:27 PM |
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| 2 | Do I have to pay for the lawyer?Sorry bro, it's hard to be sure without much context, but if you and her are splitting amicably you probably don't need a lawyer. People divorce all the time without one when no kids are involved, and you don't have anything she needs and vice versa. Good luck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/26 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Wife says she loves me like a brotherDamn bro I'm heartbroken for you. What the hell. Yeah, lawyer up and make sure she doesn't take advantage of you more than she already has. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/26 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Shitshow finally improving - recommendations on how to communicate with a 3 y/o?Your kid is too young to really know what's going on. Just keep doing you. Daddy makes them happy. Just be daddy | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/26 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Grey DivorceWell, not a divorce story, but my grandmother died in 1999 and it was devastating for my family. We struggled for a while to keep my pop busy. But around 2001 he met a woman, and while there's family drama there about it, they ended up getting married. When they passed away from Covid in January 2021, my grandfather passed away and minutes later she did, too. If death does that for true love, you can find that through divorce. Just don't force anything, man. If a cool lady near your age comes ar… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/26 12:49 AM |
| 1 | In need of some probably basic adviceI'm sorry I'm late to give helpful advice, but if your kids are that grown you should be grown with them. And I don't mean by having the hard conversations giving details, I mean the opposite. The restraint. Don't disappoint your kids, mate. Mom's gonna do what mom's gonna do. The important part for them is what you're gonna do. Don't be overbearing, or overprotective, or over-explanatory. Just be dad. Your kids are always better off if you're not putting your own baggage on them. EDIT: So you c… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/26 12:11 AM |
| 1 | I need help figuring out how to handle our separation as I don't want to be forced to divorce her.It's a nickname for my three little guys that stuck lol As for your other message, not a bad idea. I'll think about it for sure, thank you and ditto, my friend! | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/26 11:08 PM |
| 1 | I need help figuring out how to handle our separation as I don't want to be forced to divorce her.Yeah, I think she could change. Occasionally there's a glimmer of her old self, but it usually disappears at the first inconvenience (which can be anything from a kid doing something she doesn't like to me not thinking to do something before she thinks of it, or not initiating something she wants me to do, but doesn't communicate it). I just want my wife back, man. And the lack of communication from her is also kind of haunting me atm, because I haven't the faintest idea what she's going to do. … | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/26 10:24 PM |
| 1 | I need help figuring out how to handle our separation as I don't want to be forced to divorce her.Thank you for the kind words, I hope things get better for you, too :( As for staying together for the kids, we discussed that possibility a long time ago when we were pregnant with the first kid. She said she wouldn't want to do that "if things were bad." Idk if her opinion has changed on that, but I also don't even know if she's upset at the separation. Maybe she'll talk to me someday, idk. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/26 10:06 PM |
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