Poopybuttholeman1 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	I’m just bored.		Poopybuttholeman1	/r/askTRP	27/09/20 03:14 PM

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2	Why do sexual fantasies seem to deeply follow gender norms? I’m a switch, but with every sexual encounter I’ve been in with another switch who’s a girl, at least 70% of the time, I’m the dom and they’re the sub, 20% of the time we’re on equal playing field and they’re challenging me, and about 10% of the time they’re being dominant and actually winning or I’m feeling submissive or at least acting that way. I think that’s a pretty healthy assumption of an average vibrant sex life. Also I have quite a few (socially dominant testosterone fuelled) male frien…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 04:34 PM
1	What to do when having good looks but no game Follow the golden rule - Act Beta around your bros Alpha around your hoes Guys are in a constant battle trying to outrank and tear each other down The problem is that most guys can not accept being each other’s equals, they have to be the best. Find a core group of men who you value and bring each other up through collaboration, make sure that they have similar boundaries and traits as you do. But make sure that you’re not all there to squabble and in-fight; you have a goal (mutual success) and …	/r/askTRP	30/09/20 08:39 PM
1	I’m just bored. My life is far from shallow, however, I am starting to believe that the trivial pursuit of chasing women for purely short term pleasure is shallow	/r/askTRP	30/09/20 08:28 PM
2	What to do when having good looks but no game Add this to the fact that it threatens other guys and reduces your ability to make male friends even while being respectful and courteous towards them and their women. Being good looking is a net benefit, but I think being an 8/10 is the sweet spot, you get the benefits of being attractive while also getting the benefits of male-male beta-style collaboration I’m about a 9, and I wear clothing choices around my male friends and their gfs that brings me down to a 7.5-8 so as to make it clear that …	/r/askTRP	30/09/20 05:12 PM
1	“Don’t want sex till I have a bf” Deny sex for her, get partially physical and then pull back when it intensifies. Works nearly every time. People want what they can’t have.	/r/askTRP	27/09/20 04:53 PM
3	I’m just bored. Fair, I think that perfecting love has been a mission of mine for quite some time now, whether or not I’d like to admit it I have a growing company because I’m skilled and smart, but it’s not currently my mission.	/r/askTRP	27/09/20 04:05 PM
1	I’m just bored. My company’s growth and skill/knowledge acquisition But probably most, just my ability to love another person	/r/askTRP	27/09/20 03:39 PM
2	I’m just bored. The natural extension of the theory is that the longer the relationship is with the girl the less beneficial it is for the guy. But you’re correct that there is no hard-fast rule against this from what I can glean	/r/askTRP	27/09/20 03:26 PM
2	Girl confessed her feelings to me, I’m not interested Tell her that you find her attractive, but do not want to ruin the friendship as you aren’t each others’ typical types and you don’t see anything transpiring with her. A little validation goes a long way in terms of rejection.	/r/askTRP	27/08/20 06:06 PM
7	What do you think men are talking about when we question women’s view on personal responsibility/accountability? If you choose to whine over social media in the hopes of manipulating people into trying to help you while you fully well know that you won’t change your tactics, then that is your fault also.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/20 07:01 PM
3	What do you think men are talking about when we question women’s view on personal responsibility/accountability? People are animals, the fault of women is a tendency towards hypergamy, the fault of men is a tendency towards polygamy. The “asshole” in mention probably isn’t a huge asshole - he probably just doesn’t really invest all that much about any one girl. He could rationalise that by saying, there’s so much out there to experience, I want to explore, and monogamy is counterproductive in that respect. The girl in mention is flooded by so many options that she’s gonna naturally choose the best one, but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/20 06:56 PM
2	What’s the most beta shit you’ve ever done/said to a girl? If this was a more general question, probably spending 15 minutes reading these comments. In all seriousness though, When I was 17, I literally bought a girl (18) a flight across from New Orleans to LA with money I had saved up. She made it abundantly clear that she was going to stay with me etc and flirted with me non-stop for a year, made all those soppy valentine’s posts etc. Since she was initially the one pursuing made me feel safe. She landed, immediately treated me ice-cold, saw her for a…	/r/askTRP	14/06/20 04:05 PM
5	Mid 20s. Don't give a shit about much They are related. In some circumstances, I’d rather have 20 weaponised drones than 10 billion dollars, in other circumstances, I’d rather have the money. Money is a tool, and a very effective one, but it is not tantamount to power.	/r/askTRP	14/06/20 03:36 PM
2	Is calling / FT the superior method of contact? Depends how accomplished of a writer you are ;) And, in turn, how great of an orator you are. I’m a better speaker than writer, so calls tend to play out in my favour. If you’re a better writer, this could be reversed...	/r/askTRP	18/05/20 06:15 PM
1	Halfway Stuck in a Rut You’re an ENTP, go have some coffee, get off reddit and actually do it. That’s as simple as it is. Just start. Get caught up in it. Just force yourself to START. Don’t even think about finishing it, just focus on starting it.	/r/askTRP	18/05/20 05:09 PM
1	My LTR of 6 months has a male "best" friend. She hasn't told him about me. They text daily . She has commented that he used to be "obsessed" with her. She has announced that she is meeting him for a walk tomorrow . Immediate hard next ? Love blinds things, if you want to know how your lover will treat you one day, watch how they treat those around them that they don’t have feelings for. Right now he is BB, being used for validation, she will use you just the same in the future if you don’t play your cards right. However, why on earth would you break up if you don’t have plates? That’s 101 of moving on. Wow nice, awesome, woo I just broke up with a girl who was valuable enough to LTR!! I feel free as a bird... look how alpha I a…	/r/askTRP	18/05/20 05:06 PM
3	Looking to learn from my mistake I think this happens sometimes with high SMV guys tbh. Since girls give you a lot of leeway to let yourself slip, it can be confusing and you can get caught in that rhythm of being submissive without immediate consequences. I’ve never gotten tinder gold, so my like list usually hovers around the 100 mark, but that sounds quite high even for gold users, so go through and get talking! What I’ve always been curious about is when an appropriate time to allow those beta behaviours in is in a FWB/LTR.…	/r/askTRP	18/05/20 04:11 PM
0	If men stopped using women for sex, you'd find the connection you're really looking for I wish that I could flick a switch and make every man stop using women for sex, that’d be awesome: no more hypergamy, all of us finding our equals and no one unfairly having a harem. Unfortunately, that will not happen without massive sociological upheaval and stigmatisation of casual sex. The red pill is about how to survive in an unfair world, not about building the blueprints for a fair one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/20 08:47 AM
3	How to tell bro to move on from imaginary pussy Why can’t he have an LDR and local plates on the side here? Sex means different things to men and women - act accordingly. I have three girls in seperate countries who I talk to, one of which I consider an LTR or more accurately, LTR worthy, as I’m still letting her prove that to me. Two girls that I can get with locally, and an ex I could call up if absolutely desperate. Simply make him understand that sex is not what it is to men as it is to women. Make him realise that sacrificing his local s…	/r/askTRP	16/05/20 04:58 PM
1	Is there a problem with the marriage and birth rate dropping so low? No, unless everyone else’s is increasing at a rate that overwhelms yours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 04:24 PM
5	Is there a problem with the marriage and birth rate dropping so low? I prefer to draw things along cultural lines rather than racial, while acknowledging a large overlap. Having said that, perhaps you shouldn’t care, but white people should.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 04:19 PM
1	LTR Lied about something stupid Eh, people lie about stupid shit sometimes. Do you have a back up in the pipeline? If not don’t break up. If you do, increase frequency of talking with the back-up, decrease frequency of talking with your LTR. Rash movements and emotional responses are not the most ‘alpha’ way of dealing with this situation. All the guys on here who just say “blah, BREAK UP” are not thinking clearly and are overly fearful of being hurt - clouded by emotions. Look at the situation objectively, she has shown that …	/r/askTRP	15/05/20 11:53 AM
9	Have you LJBF'd a girl? How she reacted? Do they even give a fuck about it like we do? Yeah, tbh, some can take it, some can’t. Most will try to still hook up with you. It also depends how you do it. If you basically say to them, hey, I really value our friendship - but I also find you attractive, but I think hooking up would jeopardise this... and I don’t want that... then you’re still providing validation, and a motive behind your actions. That is the best way to actually remain friends if that is your desire. If you are just using it as a tactic, say something along the lines o…	/r/askTRP	14/05/20 02:42 PM
1	Ugly men who want sympathy for having to date ugly women are fucking retarded To rage against things that you can’t change is pretty futile - granted Maybe they think that in enough numbers they can change it? I’m still surprised we haven’t seen any political move to put restrictions on highly superficial dating apps like tinder and bumble - given the rapid cultural and family structure change it is creating...	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/20 05:13 AM
1	CMV: The swagger that women are attracted to is typically displayed in men who aren't very intelligent. Harsh environments lead to K selection - abundance leads to R. What point in history are we currently at?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/20 07:04 PM
1	CMV: The swagger that women are attracted to is typically displayed in men who aren't very intelligent. You learn, eventually. It’s like that moment when you want to go for a swim but don’t want to experience the icy cold water on your unacclimated skin. You just do, you don’t think for that second, you just let your lizard brain act. It’s about setting yourself up for that moment - did you bring the towels, did you wear the right clothing, pick the right location? ...etc The intelligence should be used in the preparation, not in the act. In the moment, instinct and intuition will always be more e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/20 06:50 PM
9	TRP was meant for Average Frustrated Chumps not Bottom Tier Omegas If you want to go via the wolf/chimpanzee pack hierarchy - I’m pretty sure what you’re describing is a sigma, aka a strong competitive male who lives outside the pack but still has sex with females of the pack. And omega is more like an exile or runt that is excluded from the pack/tribe whatever	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/20 03:17 AM
4	What boundaries do you have? Yeah that’s a good strategy, alcohol helps You have to think about the core motivations behind how a girl views a friendship with someone she also finds attractive. A) Will this ruin the friendship? B) Will this be worth ruining the friendship for? If you make it clear non-directly that you’re capable of taking it to a sexual level while still having normal friendly interactions you provide an answer to A. If you build up a certain amount of increasing tension through increasingly brazen touches…	/r/askTRP	03/05/20 08:30 PM
3	What boundaries do you have? Similar situation to what I have. With me it’s a lower n count, but 1 while she was a plate with me. My recommendation, keep going with her, see how things go, but talk to women; talk, talk, talk. Do not engage with them sexually; do not go beyond flirtatious banter. Do not mention the seriousness of your relationship to them. Keep women at friend level. Create a large ecosystem of female friends who you have some sexual tension with. And keep it rotating. Strengthen your other social ties. If s…	/r/askTRP	03/05/20 07:45 PM
1	Men, do you date women with the goal of settling down, or with the intention of having a good time for as long as it lasts? Amass as many connections as you can and find the best fit out of all of them and strengthen it. I imagine my social connections like a neuron forming a memory, at first it’s connected to all these other brain cells, but as time passes by, it prunes the unimportant ones and strengthens the important ones, all while sending out new branches. All of these things are happening at once. It doesn’t just find one connection and lose all of the others immediately. That’s not how nature works. Connect w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/20 07:29 PM
10	Anyone else always beta out of relationships intentionally? Depends on how holistically attractive you are, the strength of your bond and the relative time scale you act like that for. Tbh, she’d probably say “you’ve changed” or “for some reason I just don’t feel that way about this anymore” - which is actually pretty fair In either circumstance, she’d be more inclined to cheat or branch climb if someone else came her way	/r/askTRP	03/05/20 09:52 AM
13	Anyone else always beta out of relationships intentionally? This is probably the kindest way of ending a relationship. It’s willingly and knowingly giving them the power. Just make sure you have plates on the side. I’d personally say that if they stay during this, then it’s a good test for how much they care and how much the attraction was based on you playing it Red Pill versus actual substantiative bonding. Maybe even give it a chance if they stay while you act beta af	/r/askTRP	03/05/20 09:39 AM
3	CMV: It is a myth that society is anti-male and anti-masculinity Women generally look at the pinnacle of men (the top 1-5% ish) and relate their advantage over the top 1-5% of women to the bulk of men and women. That is the ONLY demographic where men have an advantage though. The vast majority of society places women with higher value than men. Tinder is a way of seeing this There are other examples. Being male is a high risk, high reward venture Being female is a low risk medium reward venture tinder Gini coefficient	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/20 09:30 AM
3	CMV: The manosphere greatly underestimates female-group preference and intra-male group aversion Men are more sociopathic on average (by quite a large margin) - probably due to harsher childhoods and more ingrained shaming of emotionally available men over emotionally available women. Sociopathy isn’t exactly what its colloquial definition might imply - it’s more just a fancy way of saying deeply internalised trust issues. Sociopathy basically means you only care about people you have formed deep connections with and yourself. And since care is somewhat finite, you have to remove external c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/20 06:16 AM
3	CMV: Physical attraction is more problematic that most people make it out to be Dolph Lundgren - probably Also me ;) But yeah I’ve read competing studies that link attractiveness to intelligence. I think that the jury is still out on that one. Also, Elon Musk is a prime example of mystery/bit of a bad boy/ decently smart and strategic/ some sociopathic traits trumping physical attraction. NDT is not a genius imo, he’s a relatively smart guy who makes science more accessible to the masses in a fun personable manner, similar to say Bill Nye. I’d also venture to say they’re bo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/20 03:16 AM
2	Are most people who can only imagine fucking young girls (18-24) around the same age bracket? I’m 25 so that’s my bread and butter, but even 18/19 is getting a bit low for me, I see the perfect male/female age gap as the girl being say 20% younger than the guy up until age 40 or so, where that should stabilise at a decade max. Can other age gaps exist? Sure, but that is the ideal imo. For myself, sex is a psychological pursuit, I don’t wanna fuck someone if I’m not at least minimally interested in their mind. If a 20-24 year old girl can psychologically interest me, I’m in (bonus). If a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/20 05:15 PM
4	Women don't like sensitive men. But rather men with a sensitive side. Idk, I just cried to a girl about how I really felt and then had 2 hours of phone sex starting 15 minutes later - which also involved crying. People are varied. One size doesn’t fit all. Having said that, yeah if you are sycophantic and weak, that acts like silica gel for pussies. You can cry and still be a man. You can remain constantly stoic and be a massive pussy. What makes someone a man is not opening up about their feelings. It is about not holding fast to principles and having boundaries.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/20 12:58 PM
2	Dating very attractive girl with high N-Count and many male "orbiters". Seeking advice on handling jealousy. Agree with this also - keep doing this - but remove feelings.exe for this girl - keep fucking her - get a hobby	/r/askTRP	29/04/20 03:32 AM
10	Maintaining frame when plate complains (declined plans) Depends on what her humour is like: If she’s fun and witty, I’d send her something like this If she’s a bit less accepting of internet culture I’d send her this Girls eat that shit up ^ and it doesn’t give anything away and keeps things light hearted Again, depends on the girl, depends on your relationship, depends on how smart you are and if you are capable of keeping things funny. If she’s really dry as fuck, then I’d go with something like: “I guess you’re just gonna have to wait ;)” or “too …	/r/askTRP	28/04/20 03:19 PM
10	Maintaining frame when plate complains (declined plans) You should have teased her, but still made it clear that you were busy with work and given her the strong hint that you couldn’t break whatever flow you had. Just saying ‘sorry I’m busy, can’t tonight’ and then leaving it will make that plate break eventually. If you want to retain a plate, then you need to strike a balance (otherwise that plate will fall and break). This is too ‘red pill’ even for this stage in the relationship. It will peak and plummet fast if you’re too harsh.	/r/askTRP	28/04/20 12:28 PM
1	When your Career=More Interest Idk man, is the career YOU or is it just some shit you do to pay the bills. If you are passionate about your career and you find it to be a core part of your life (as it should be) then no. If you’re a bored Tax Accountant or just have a job that has no growth potential and that you’re unenthused about, then yeah, she’s interested in the benefits of the career, not the actual career itself; which is where the actual problem is... For me it’s a plus if a girl is interested in the future trajector…	/r/askTRP	26/04/20 04:14 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (19 April 2020) Partially agree, women are attracted to attractiveness, and what they cannot attain (as it is deemed to have intrinsic value by its coveted nature). Women don’t like assholes - they just like men who don’t reciprocate feelings and affection, or do so less often than they do... if that makes someone an asshole... well, that depends on the motivations behind withholding intimacy etc, but I wouldn’t outright call someone an asshole for just not caring as much as another person. The whole point of t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/20 01:55 PM
2	We are lonelier then ever because everyone is disposable To anyone who wants to understand this without joining a rowing club and laughing like this Poisson / normal in dating	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/20 08:35 PM
1	They say it takes a village to raise a child but do you consider it moral/fair for society to ask men to provide for children that aren't theirs? I very much doubt that has been their choice or preference given the high libido most men have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/20 04:37 PM
1	They say it takes a village to raise a child but do you consider it moral/fair for society to ask men to provide for children that aren't theirs? This seems eerily similar to a comment on a post I made recently, If so, cheers for turning it into a thread: Since I’ve already stated my opinion there, I’ll just say this. Reproductive rights, just like money, land and food are all commodities when you look at large populations, and an unequal distribution of any of those will put stress on the society. SMP instincts make sense when you really pan out, all the weird stuff people do within relationships (special bluepill love stuff that DOES ex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/20 04:31 PM
1	They say it takes a village to raise a child but do you consider it moral/fair for society to ask men to provide for children that aren't theirs? Yes, but more women than men do how agricultural revolution changed mating dynamics effective population size differences in men and women	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/20 03:58 PM
2	They say it takes a village to raise a child but do you consider it moral/fair for society to ask men to provide for children that aren't theirs? That might change if the west starts practicing communal child rearing	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/20 03:50 PM
2	Why does it matter if a woman “sleeps around in her 20s” and marries in her 30s? I’m not basing my attractiveness purely on dick size, I’m looking at it more holistically. Also, I’m comparing myself to the actual population of men, not just the female perception of what the average man is. Tbh, I think most women are happy with something somewhere between 5-8 inches, even if they’ve been around. Depends if they get off primarily on clitoral stimulation or not tbh. I remember reading something that said the perfect dick was something like 6.4 inches (perfect one night stand m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/20 10:28 AM
1	When women criticize men, they are only referring to the top 20%. When men criticize women, they're referring to all women. Hmmmmm two people with differing viewpoints... based in anecdotal evidence! Time for some statistics! I’ll dig a bit and see if I can find a study I remember that linked perceived kindness and character traits to attractiveness. I’d love to see the relative gender sway. I’d imagine it’d be stronger in women, on average. This study found that perceived achievement correlated with attractiveness in men, and the opposite with women... does that imply unattractive women are perceived to have better …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/20 09:28 AM
1	Men who are bothered by the fact that women can’t truly love them for who they are: isn’t that hypocritical? Most men want a combination (probably the same with women, but more picky on the looks part). If the hottest girl in the world with average intelligence and many character flaws approaches me. I’ll probably fuck her, but won’t marry or commit to her (male advantage). If a 6/7 with great character and high intelligence approaches me, I’ll fuck her and be more likely to commit to her (female advantage). If the hottest guy with average intelligence and numerous character flaws comes to a girl she’l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/20 04:36 PM
15	Why does it matter if a woman “sleeps around in her 20s” and marries in her 30s? Same, literally just got off the phone with a reasonably attractive girl (top 30%), I made a joke about creating an off grid micro-society during this corona nonsense. She asked me how the interpersonal relationships would function in such a place - I told her the best option would be that the most attractive males would be fit with the most attractive females and the least attractive males fitted with the least attractive females. She asked why they wouldn’t be allowed to simply have free choic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/20 07:00 PM
1	How knowledgeable are the people on this sub actually? STEM is a negative (think nerdy engineer/scientist connotation), money it provides is not. Being the director or a tech company and dealing with the business side is a turn on, I haven’t dealt with medicine directly, but I imagine that being a doctor would be the most beneficial out of all of STEM. Biology and Medicine degrees also provide the biggest halos in terms of women who are in classes etc. My engineering degree had a total of about 5 women in it, and all relatively introverted- hard to …	/r/askTRP	05/04/20 06:19 PM
1	How knowledgeable are the people on this sub actually? I don’t frequently post on this sub, but I do often drop in to read and lurk. Based on Tinder/Bumble/Hinge Experiments I’ve conducted (fuck I guess my science/engineering degree was good for something) I’m in the top 3-4%. Is that THAT great? It means in the average nightclub, there are about 3-4 guys who are considered as attractive as me. That’s awesome, but, it’s not CRAZY. And it’s even less crazy to extend the idea that quite a few of the people on this forum would be in that zone. Think ab…	/r/askTRP	05/04/20 06:00 PM
2	How knowledgeable are the people on this sub actually? Completely agree, I never understood why people ever listened to PUAs who looked good, if nothing else it includes a factor that completely biases the results. However, what works for a less attractive guy may not work for an attractive guy when it comes to seduction. A girl is going to feel more secure with a less attractive guy than an attractive guy, and therefore his optimal negative-game will be much higher than an extremely attractive man.	/r/askTRP	05/04/20 05:40 PM