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| 1 | The last posts about intimacy and standards show how disconnected women is from the average men reality and how discussion is mainly a pointless effort100 years ago it was women complaining they had to be wives. Today it’s men complaining they can’t be husbands. Neither collective Male nor collective Female can be happy as separate Male vs. Female. Pendulum will swing. For now, men should get off tinder, stop paying for porn or onlyfans, stop fucking ugly and fat women for free, and fuck attractive prostitutes instead. That’s the only solution. It will change the market. And marketplace. Its sex positive capitalist feminism put to action in a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 07:31 AM |
| 0 | The last posts about intimacy and standards show how disconnected women is from the average men reality and how discussion is mainly a pointless effortI think this is the only comment I’ve seen so far that actually extracts what he’s obviously saying, talking about, pointing out, instead of attacking the literal things he said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 07:27 AM |
| 3 | How are bigger women improving their dating game if even?The thing you and the other women are ignoring is the reason men have issue, have denigrating words, negative feelings, is because whether it’s women ignoring them entirely (most mens experience - invisible, not touched, not loved, told they are attractive, worthy, appreciated) or telling them straight to their face like homie above they’d be datable IF they weren’t fat…is because they aren’t getting any. And maybe they never will. Sex or romance. And that doesn’t seem apply to women. I’d bet my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 07:00 AM |
| 2 | Being monogamous does not benefit a man in any way except oneThe key is to have baggage that’s been dealt with. And any baggage that needs dealing with is saved for friends and family or trusted sources. Too many times did I have to learn the hard way that love doesn’t mean the same thing for women as it did for me. No matter what they vocalized. Find out who you were in her eyes when she fell in love with you, including who she thought you’d become, and be that, and exceed that. Anything less and the love is only going to last as long as the honeymoon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Men are becoming less masculine and women are to blameNo one gender is to blame. We as a society have collectively failed. We have diverged from long-standing moral norms, whether they be cultural or universal, in favor of a more relativistic & all-accepting modernity than opposes the dichotomy of gendered division and praises the rainbow spectrum of infinite OK-ness. This is not a bad thing in theory. It’ positive to embrace myriad forms and facades as there are as many types of people as there are people on the planet. But as statistical analysis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex?Because that’s how it works. If this were a subreddit about Pokémon some people would talk shit on Bulbasaur and others on Pikachu, because either Bulbasaur or Pikachu is who they are interested in catching but their damn pokeballs aren’t holding up. Then others will chime in and say well there’s Charizards. And some others even Mewtoo. But Charichad’s got enough fans and Mewtoo movement lost its steam so whats one gonna do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 06:55 AM |
| 4 | Q4ALL: Why do you only attack one sex?What if that is actually the case? What if average men becoming unhappy with what status quo society says is ‘normal’, that is not achievable for most, or the promoted behaviors that should result in what society says said behaviors result in doesn’t happen, and this loss of purpose for men is driving society to a collapse? If enough people are claiming there is a fire or a broken electrical wire is gonna spark a fire soon since it’s snapping, shouldn’t one check and see if there’s a danger? May… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 06:53 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Alpha Fucks/Beta Buxx is projection because it’s men who don’t want to settle down until their 30sLol sooo what? Men who want relationships, and can’t get them, don’t know what they are doing, but the women who don’t want relationships know what they are doing - if the right man wanted a relationship with them? Where the men who know what they are doing, are not choosing monogamous relationships, because the rest of women who know what they are doing are sleeping with said men who the other women want relationships with, without commitment. This seems pretty circular to me. Men that want com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 05:22 AM |
| 1 | What are the dangers about the red pill?In other words the main danger of TRP is not growing beyond it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 05:12 AM |
| 0 | What are the dangers about the red pill?Without action, without going out into the real world and putting into practice what you learn, and without testing the validity of its tenets, you’re just wasting time on useless if not damaging theoretical speculation and intellectual masturbation. Red Pill should ideally lead to a Stoic philosophy and a positive, active lifestyle that builds on your strengths. Red Pill is most successful when what you learn from it is what moves you away from it, and you ascend beyond behavior driven by lust … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 05:11 AM |
| 0 | Stabilize the dating scene by making men as comfortable being single as women.I figure leaving a comment up serves that very purpose, not directed at you. But for those who wander here The way you describe your support of sex workers however sounds like you deny the benefits of men using or being convinced to use such services, since your opinion is any man using an escort is unable to get sex elsewhere. This is far from the truth. And on that note since I have time to waste while I walk the dog I’m gonna leave this up here as well (not for you, who I am replying to, so y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Stabilize the dating scene by making men as comfortable being single as women.Damn I had a long response but I accidentally deleted it. I think men should definitely pursue using escorts more. And should do so confidently. Knowing their release of sexual frustration on a regular basis with a woman out of their league can do nothing but boost their confidence, being and becoming less thirsty, regularly satisfied, having the “this guy fucks” energy, and in turn becoming more attractive to women as a whole. Nothing is more repulsive as far as I’m aware than being clingy or t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Stabilize the dating scene by making men as comfortable being single as women.Haha that actually made me chuckle. Well why can’t they just go see an escort then? What do women have against men who they don’t want to sleep with sleeping with other women that will sleep with them? This should be the message spread instead of shaming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 07:33 AM |
| 3 | Stabilize the dating scene by making men as comfortable being single as women.It makes sense historically speaking that there would be more derogatory terms for the gender that has one role, and less for the gender performing all of the other roles. This would shame said gender into performing the only role provided. Ie don’t be a “whore”….because you won’t have a family, will be alone, won’t have a home, husband, children, and will only be able to get by by…being a “whore”. But times have changed, have they not? What was once considered inappropriate is now the norm. Sho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 06:35 AM |
| 4 | Stabilize the dating scene by making men as comfortable being single as women.Because if “these” men were regularly having sex with multiple women they obviously wouldn’t be looking for a relationship, nor asking how to deal with being single. Dense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Stabilize the dating scene by making men as comfortable being single as women.Why is it so hard to believe OP means what he said he means? I trust if he meant he only wanted and felt like men were pressured to only want and have casual sex he would have explicitly said casual non-relationship sex. Furthermore, being in a relationship implies having sex - with the person you’re in the relationship with, both before and during (and often after) said relationship. So following any train of though, when women, or men, say relationship, they really mean sex. But if they say re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 06:26 AM |
| 1 | I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date?That sounds like a normal, healthy approach. I’ve known and dated, remained friends with after, women who had lists and I never understood it. I always thought, and knew, and have had confirmed by experience, if I am attracted to a girl (not just, i think/know a girl is attractive), I can learn to love just about anything about her, (given it excludes untreated BPD/NPD, active heroin/meth struggles, or any number of obvious non-starters that apply to most men & women), and what it is I like abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 10:41 PM |
| 2 | I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date?I wasn’t implying this is a bad thing, or abnormal, I am just wondering if people stick to their lists when they actually meet those they fall in love with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Online Dating's Significance Has Been Somewhat OverstatedI think when it’s not a man sending a woman a DM the reaction & trajectory is a little different. And this is true across any platform or offline as well (as in a woman approaching). Also keep in mind when I was doing this, it was 15 years ago, and people were all equally fresh on these platforms as the platforms were made. So maybe I shouldn’t have said all younger folks but from what I’ve seen friends younger male siblings share, and what female coworkers in their early 20’s show & tell me, it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Online Dating's Significance Has Been Somewhat OverstatedYes Happens…all the time. I’ve been around since MySpace came out, at which time I was in high school. I certainly wasn’t using it to chat with dudes. The moment my best friend at the time and I learned we could chat with girls from nearby schools we had a competition to “friend” the most girls. 2 months after MySpace came out and we had that competition start I lost my virginity & had a gf. 2 years later and I “went” to Prom and homecoming (which in my day meant told parents you went to the dan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 07:20 AM |
| 4 | Most men would have sex with women they find physically attractive regardless of their personality. But women don't always want to have sex with men they find physically attractiveI think women overestimate the importance of “personality” to them; I don’t think many could even accurately describe what a personality is, or how someone they’ve fucked in the past had a better or worse personality than the next guy. It’s not a “good” or compatible personality that matters to women for casual sex or arousal as much as it is what type of personality is presented at a given time in relation to the overall package. Just like men care less about personality with an increased level… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 05:26 AM |
| 1 | I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date?What is “ideal”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 05:12 AM |
| 0 | I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date?When you date or look for a partner, do you exclude or give men chances based on the equivalent of a checklist of criteria? Edit: I wasn’t implying this is a bad thing, or abnormal, I am just wondering if people stick to their lists when they actually meet those they fall in love with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 05:11 AM |
| 7 | Online Dating's Significance Has Been Somewhat OverstatedThis is the longest post I have ever seen on Reddit. I read a couple lines. You say “met elsewhere like social media.” Bro, if you’re single, Social Media isOLD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 05:06 AM |
| 2 | What predispositions a guy into becoming red pill?Ya I don’t disagree with what you’re saying at all, and believe those are very positive take aways from RP. I was more referring to the ‘dark triad’ related stuff some red pill authors used to push. I don’t even know if that’s a thing in red pill as much as it was 10 years ago, but it used to be very easy for RP to lead one to becoming an immoral human rather than a self-protective one or one grounded-in-realism. I think what you’re describing, which is essentially: do not disrespect yourself, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 10:11 AM |
| 3 | What predispositions a guy into becoming red pill?For sure. I should’ve added he may not even be aware of this, his pain may be buried or covered up by his TRP Mysterious Dark Player Ass Mask that keeps him safe. I’m not proud of it but I’ve been in a similar space when I was younger. I had been hurt by a girl, again, and was sick of it. I found red pill. I was an alcoholic & drug addict, it made sense, the darker things. I set out to just have women want me and to get what I wanted from women, including getting that girl back (which I did, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 07:04 AM |
| 2 | What predispositions a guy into becoming red pill?“Terrible personality” is very subjective and a “good personality” is often merely a result of being attractive, exciting, tall, handsome, talented, etc any number of non-personality factors can easily make someone have a “good personality” in the eyes of women. Just like being fat and ugly will automatically give you a “bad personality” or “incompatible personality” or label “nice guy” with a lot of women There is no rhyme or reason to any of this. Women have fallen in love with me while I was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 04:33 AM |
| 1 | What predispositions a guy into becoming red pill?The thing is a lot of people do know this. But they don’t internalize it to a certain extent until that unfairness shows itself to them. And often the type of unfairness that leads men to red pill is not obvious. even as someone who has experience with women, it wasn’t until a certain break up that went down in a certain way that I started to question certain things about women/dating/love/life in a manner that wasn’t really addressed as directly related to what led me searching for answers at t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 04:22 AM |
| 2 | What predispositions a guy into becoming red pill?Can you summarize what you think you learned from those books that’s too tedious and long to commit to? Curious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 04:14 AM |
| 2 | What predispositions a guy into becoming red pill?Why….hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Well you’ve got his ex complaining to you about him. And you know he has multiple exes. And that he’s been able to cheat on them all. That’s why. he’s doing what women find attractive until they wake up & leave him. He’s taking advantage of unaware women. Sounds sociopathic. He probably was cheated on or hurt by a woman, ie fell in love & was rejected brutally, and is now taking the dark route, taking out his hatred and sense of loss on others. He is hurt so he’s hurting p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Single Men vs Single WomenHumans are animals. Human men are violent predators - murderers and rapists. Human women are innocent hapless creatures that have never and will never do anything wrong. The problem with comparing how men respond to being single vs how women respond to being single is that the experience of a single man is not the same as that of a single woman. If women experienced being single in the same way men do, emotionally, socially, physically, hormonally, spiritually, etc…perhaps their reactions would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Relationship with the " Bad boy " is labeled as toxic only cause the woman invest more in the relationshipThank you for a solid, thought-provoking response. I agree for the most part. But I’ve watched the manosphere since around 2011(?) and been through many stages, witnessing its effectiveness (or non) and societies response as well as ‘feminist’ influence, reaction, & direction. I see the problems that plague men & women as beyond sex. But, it being the most basic driving factor for just about anything and everything I suppose it, and related matters, should and will come first. As for the analogy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 07:56 AM |
| 1 | How much do glasses hurt a man's attractiveness ?I used to wear glasses, be heroin-addict skinny, and avoid all things masculine. And I had women all over me compared to when I got lasik and could deadlift 435 lb weighing 180 of lean muscle at 6’0”. There’s a strange grey area and age range where certain qualities make you “cool” if done right, that would otherwise make you uncool if done wrong. Just look at hipster dudes in New York and their hot girlfriends. If they put down the analog synthesizer and Nietzsche book and picked up a laptop an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Relationship with the " Bad boy " is labeled as toxic only cause the woman invest more in the relationshipYea people are dumb and would rather walk off a cliff than avoid death were there a line long enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Relationship with the " Bad boy " is labeled as toxic only cause the woman invest more in the relationshipWell then maybe instead of fighting about who should be fucking who and when and why they should be fucking and how to fuck those that don’t want to fuck those that want to be fucking, we should be asking why our countries taught and regurgitated narrative pushes a gender divide, markets unrealistic expectations, contradictorily sells sex and self-prostitution via onlyfans as a feminist right while denigrating prostitution, or promotes women’s sexual freedom SIMULTANEOUSLY denying men’s sexual d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 10:01 PM |
| 8 | Relationship with the " Bad boy " is labeled as toxic only cause the woman invest more in the relationshipThis was in reply to someone below but I lost where the comment is. Two people were attacking one another as per the norm. This is the funniest bullshit on PPD. “Women - what do you even offer but your beauty which fades!?” “Men - what do you even offer but a dick!?” “Wahhhh women are sluts that waste the best years of their life being fucked by bad boy chad til they marry Jeff who they cuckold or cheat on with Office Chad! What’s the point!? Why won’t women just LIKE ME FOR WHO I AM!?” “Because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 05:17 PM |
| 1 | I believe going to the gym is overrated for attracting womenIf you’re not fat lifting won’t make much of a difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 06:00 AM |
| 2 | It’s male projection that women will at least EVENTUALLY want to settle down with an Average Adam eventually. No relationship IS better than a bad or monotonous relationship, this cannot be stressed enoughWhy does everyone jump to Not Prince Charming = Painful Boring Hellish Torture? You’re born, you wake up, you do shit, you sleep, then you die. You’re here, then you’re not. Surely we can find a way to overcome the illusion of value that shifts with the tides as civilizations crumble and rise, sway from liberal to conservative sides, and and new generation is born, lives and rebels, then dies? Like, fuck. How do women not learn to appreciate Human company in a totally pointless existence where t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 05:57 AM |
| 1 | It’s male projection that women will at least EVENTUALLY want to settle down with an Average Adam eventually. No relationship IS better than a bad or monotonous relationship, this cannot be stressed enoughThis is the type of comment that is the equivalent of me, a male, saying “all women are dumb sluts,” and perpetuates the idiotic gender divide that’s preventing a plethora of normal, healthy, god-forbid I suggest attractive & biologically fit specimens that aren’t GQ models, who live morally upright and honorable lives, that DO have trouble finding women of equal caliber if any at all, from being recognized as having valid qualms with their current dating situation - one which would be remedied … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 05:40 AM |
| 0 | What does Average Adam have to offer for ANYONESure when you look at a Single Human they become a complex entity, but when you put together 100 Humans they become a more generalized entity, 1000+ even more basic. The larger the sample the easier it is to reduce Human down to certain traits or behaviors. It’s why we can psychologically profile people, why stereotypes are born, how companies market & sell their products, etc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 03:29 AM |
| 8 | Just a personal observation, I’m noticing more and more above average and good looking guys with chubby and overweight or below average girlsMost women are financially secure already. They don’t care. Most attractive women can get any guy they want, resultantly many also don’t really care about super “hot” dudes as much as they do about exciting dudes. If all you wanted was pussy and you had to choose between being an accountant or being a drug dealer, you’d get more pussy slangin yayo than managing hedge funds. Almost invariably imo and experience attractive women will choose who is sexist (edit should say “sexiest” but sexist works… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 06:40 AM |
| 14 | Just a personal observation, I’m noticing more and more above average and good looking guys with chubby and overweight or below average girlsFaces do not matter one iota when the extra 300 lbs below them exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you want to work?I would absolutely be ok with an arrangement like this. I would prefer this were it an option. And I would spend all my time doing what I love (which is work, in a way) - art, music, research, writing. I‘be never cared for money. If I could live in a shack in the woods with a dog and woman I loved I wouldn’t need much else beyond necessities to be happy. In fact I probably will end up in a small abode with a dog. A loving partner would be a welcome but unlikely addition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.I’m not saying you should I’m just wondering why. I didn’t mean to upset you. I’m happy you found something that works for you. At its most basic level the idea of commitment is that an already existing healthy happy sexual relationship won’t stop being one because someone else shows up. It’s a promise of mutual desire and generally meant to be a sign of “I am happy now so I want to agree to make this happiness last through hard time should they arise”. Or “this is a good thing we have, let’s ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.This is making me think of this escort friend of mine, who isn’t necessarily representative of the standard woman, but she’s incredibly gorgeous and could have her pick of the litter. And she sees clients that pay $1000s of dollars for a few hours of her time, which opposed to many peoples perceptions doesn’t always mean sexual activities. But when she chooses to date men, I don’t know where she finds them, but it’s basically like..describe the worst type of stereotypical bad boy you can that is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.Everything you said makes sense to me re: FWB. Why ruin something good, right? my only concern in that situation would be when/if the other person wants something more. I guess for me, if I’m seeing someone that regularly for a long period of time, and neither are pursuing other people, I’d wonder - as I did in my prior FWB - why am I enough for everything but commitment? Or why does coMmitment mean all the bad things have to happen? As for looking for other demisexuals, I wouldn’t know where to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.Thanks for the thorough reply. interesting hearing a woman’s perspective. I am curious if you tried to casually have sex, knowing it wasn’t for a relationship (like your current FWB), with more people, if you’d become more comfortable with earlier sexual experiences that could lead to future attraction on par with your demisexual nature. Like, say you approached it clinically as an experiment in self-pleasure & comfort around sex, rather than reinforcing it with your continued FWB relationship, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.I’m curious. I’m naturally demisexual which is very unnatural as a male. As such I found that behaving in a demisexual manner was detrimental to my dating life. It was better to deny my natural state in order to retain attraction from women. In other words if I didn’t sleep with women fast enough or “act like a man” I wouldn’t be treated as one. It’s not useful to be demisexual as a man. I imagine being a woman affords you more opportunities where demisexual “behavior” (or lack thereof) is more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 07:17 AM |
| 18 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.Indeed the reason most “toxic male” traits exist are because women respond positively to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 11:26 PM |
| 0 | Your mother didn’t “lie” to you. Women didn’t lie to you. They genuinely thought they were telling you the truth….and that most girls were not they themTotally…no men want to be fucking in the heat of a passionate moment. Like, gross. As a real man I only like to have sex with my delicate princess in a bed of rose petals I picked and placed carefully by hand after we spend hours talking about the perfect hormonal timing in her lunar cycle calendar we’ve been planning for a month for me to penetrate and ejaculate my science juice into her Jesus hole. I’d never want to be the guy that grossly gets aroused in public and acts so shamefully on such … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 08:27 AM |
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