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| 2 | It seems that after the breakup, women are with a new guy almost instantly, while guys have to go through a crazy long dry spellYou’re basically asking why gravity exists, or why the sky is blue. It’s always been easier for women since the beginning of time. Just the way biology wired us. Also in my circle of friends the men did not go through long dry spells. Some chose to not date for awhile, the ones who wanted to be in a relationship got it in a few weeks. Lastly women just seem to be more resilient towards breakups and tend to have more robust emotional support circles, as compared to men. This also explains why the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 06:39 PM |
| 4 | Women who get the ick = porn brained menThe ick thing is real: my gf’s sister is incredibly sensitive towards icks-she once ghosted a guy because they didn’t like the way he moved his hand as he was eating, it was too “wristy” and presumably effeminate (she didn’t say this but it’s strongly implied). However, she is also possibly BPD with a lot of difficult mental health stuff going on that she is currently undergoing treatment for. In contrast, her sister who I am with is almost tomboyish and very easygoing, and has a high threshold … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 08:01 PM |
| 5 | Men really need to stop dating women who can't have orgasmsI sort of agree in the sense that I want a woman who can enjoy sex as much as me, and is in touch with her own sexuality. I’ve been lucky in this regard, my ex, as well as my current gf, all can orgasm multiple times, mainly from PIV only. I realize that this flies in the face of most people’s experience, but hey it’s just what I’ve been through. Also, I’ve been with women who cannot orgasm at all, and even when masturbating, it’s very difficult for them. The sex was never that great, and they a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 07:05 PM |
| -1 | Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superiorYes the last scenario you said should be the goal, becoming that guy who is sexy but also seen as long term mate potential. Men on the forum think too black and white in terms of either/or, makes me question their real world experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 07:53 PM |
| 0 | If sex is the universal "carrot on a stick" for women, what would the male equivalent be?In my observation. A woman’s libido and mentality about sex will greatly dictate her ability to weaponize it. A high libido woman where sex is literally a need that she has to have often, is going to have a much harder time using sex as a bargaining chip, in fact she may find herself hunting for the “carrot on a stick” herself. The Deadbedrooms subreddit is full of such examples Low Libido women who don’t need sex to be happy, can have an easier time utilizing it strategically, because the drive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 07:48 PM |
| 23 | Women give bad dating advice for MenI think men who are successful from the start give bad advice bc they never had to struggle, obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 05:13 AM |
| – | Women give bad dating advice for MenFor the most part I agree. The advice is often contradictory, filled with empty platitudes. For instance, telling a short ugly man that he needs “therapy,” if he is ever to find dating success. As if therapy will fix the fundamental issues of height and lack of facial attractiveness. Gaslighting at its finest. Or telling guys who are struggling to work on their personality, as if there was no shortage of guys with nice personalities that get friendzoned left and right. Don’t listen to what women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Being a good person has nothing to do with how much a man is able to attract womenLOL Water is wet. It was never about how “good” a person is. Being virtuous doesn’t make the pussy wet. It never did and it never will. You can be of average virtue and morals, but if a girl is sexually attracted to you, she will see you as much more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 07:02 PM |
| 5 | It’s important to party/date/socialize in high school. Those people are more successful than the nerds who studied all 4 years.You’d have to experience it to see how difficult it can be to navigate ultra strict Asian parents. I’ve seen even some people in their 30’s get bossed around as if they were still children. A very different dynamic from mainstream America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 12:23 AM |
| 69 | It’s important to party/date/socialize in high school. Those people are more successful than the nerds who studied all 4 years.I mostly agree. Tho I would say you should balance it with doing reasonably good/ok in school, you most certainly don’t want to be a D/F student. But fixating on a 4.0 at the expense of dating/socializing is the kiss of death. This may partially explain why men of certain cultures struggle in dating—they obsess over grades and GPA due to their tiger parents. And are left wondering how to navigate the opposite sex in their late 20’s, when many of their peers have been doing it much earlier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 06:31 PM |
| 3 | What are some examples of "What society tells you vs. The reality" about gender relationships?Society used to tell me that women don’t care about a man’s looks. That’s it down to status and what you can provide. In fact my own parents told me this. Didn’t realize that society was a machine that was great at pumping out beta bux | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Doing household chores do not make men sexually attractive, but they're still important for a relationship“Entitled cunt” Or 4th wave feminist. Best post on this shitty thread. I also notice the same thing as you in real life. The women who’s spouses greatly outearn them are happy to do the work. This is not to say that the men are lazy fucks who do nothing at home. It’s just that they have a tacit agreement that if the girl wants to live a millionaire’s life, she’s gotta put in the work and not expect her man who makes millions a year to split the house work. Alternatively she can easily find a man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Would you break up with your partner if she put on 25-30kgs/55-66lbs?66 lbs is a lot. If she refuses to lose it, and/or seek help, instant dump. If I become super broke financially and was homeless, I’d expect her to dump me too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 03:42 PM |
| 6 | Are there any men that actually want to be sold providers?Any successful attractive men who happen to read this post—this is an example of the type of woman you want to avoid. Too many red flags | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Not everyone is capable of being in a healthy and monogamous relationship because of their family background due to being part of a dysfunctional or broken home and that is completely fine.If a person can put their ego and pride aside and acknowledge they have shortcomings that have arisen from their dysfunctional family, then they can take steps towards changing and improving. The ones who are perpetually stuck and incapable od having normal relationships are those who think they can do no wrong, and are the “bestest evarrr” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 08:30 AM |
| 14 | Making women feel safe around you is apparently the biggest factor in attraction?It just so happens that all the ugly, unattractive men all happen to make women feel unsafe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 09:10 PM |
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