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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Reddit, here's the story of your least typical college grad who's 55% along the way to being a 40 year old virgin... Another way of putting this is that "intimacy" is a euphemism for sex for a reason; you don't really know a person until you're lying in bed post-coitus talking about things you've never told anyone else. For all the awful things you might believe about the dating game from 40 year old virgin, the idea of "practice makes perfect" is not one of the bad ones. You need to stop making excuses, because having some mediocre sex with someone just for a fun time with no other strings attached is a prett…	/r/seduction	25/11/12 06:56 PM
2	Sarging/Approaching in loud environments There seem to be only a few real options that work in loud clubs; immediately start dancing up on them (prepare to blow out at least 9/10ths of the time, and don't even think about starting a relationship with the 1/10), talk to people waiting on lines (to get in, or at bathroom) / smoking outside, or build a connection over the night with multiple disparate moments (smile and upward head nod, walk by, raise glass to say cheers, walk by, look taken aback and say 'you again?', smile and talk). Th…	/r/seduction	25/11/12 06:43 PM
1	How to re-initiate with former leads you suddenly find on dating sites? Text if you can, FB message if you can't, but definitely don't POF message. Just say hi and exchange a few pleasantries back and forth, or give an update on something new with you / ask for an update on something you remember about them. Invite them to join you and your friends to do something out that you're already planning on doing (or make it up and invite your friends afterward) for the low pressure re-intro. Rebuild rapport, etc etc etc.	/r/seduction	25/11/12 06:38 PM
1	"Will you take a picture of us?" A shit test? Both answers are right here; it is not a shit test, in that they just want you to take a picture, but it is a shit test in that you're about to be that creeper who uses any excuse to start hitting on a girl. They see it all the time. There's too much focus here on immediately overcoming the obstacle. Here's what you do: smile say, "sure thing." Take the picture. Put your finger up as-if to say "hold on, one more". Let them awkwardly pose for a second, then snap the second shot. Hand it back, smi…	/r/seduction	25/11/12 06:30 PM

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