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Keep doing what youre doing and you'll find that chemistry. Seems like she was being honest while trying to also be nice. Its tough to reject someone like that. I'd give her the "yeah maybe we can meet up again sometime" line and leave it at that.
/r/seduction23/12/25 05:31 PM
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Depends on the woman you're trying to attract. I've talked to some that love them and some that don't. One of those things that's different for each girl.
/r/seduction25/07/22 10:38 PM
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I didn't start to figure things out until I hit my thirties. The thing I struggled with was confidence for sure. I wasn't confident in what I could bring to the table, so I ended up viewing the few girls I was with as superior rather than equals. Something clicked and I started to just not care and sorry as much and boom, girls started becoming more attracted. I began to build more and more confidence.
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:27 PM
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Definitely watch a video and find out haha.
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:20 AM
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The best message is no message!
/r/seduction05/07/22 03:45 AM
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Your post is against the rules. I get that you're frustrated but your comments show you're clearly only here to vent and not seek advice. When you're ready to accept feedback and stop crying about your situation, come on back
/r/seduction03/07/22 01:19 PM
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You're in your 20s so no you're definitely not too old.
/r/seduction03/07/22 05:51 AM
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The eyes and hands give good indicators ... neck too, but you're never really going to know until you talk to them!
/r/seduction02/07/22 03:53 AM
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Looks aren't everything. Depends on the type of person you're trying to attract.
/r/seduction30/06/22 11:15 PM
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It's going to be hard to succeed when it seems like you've already accepted failure. Just talk to them like normal people. Try to avoid putting them on the defensive by poking fun at them and don't be self deprecating. Hang in there.
/r/seduction30/06/22 11:03 PM
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Report - being an incel is not a good thing.
/r/seduction30/06/22 10:04 PM
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Not in the context to me, but you clearly have an opinion so I'll leave it at that! Agree to disagree.
/r/seduction30/06/22 12:44 PM
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Better comparison would be "I've been with girls with huge tits, but I prefer smaller ones". Also he said they were talking dirty things so why was this info out of bounds for her to speak about? I don't understand.
/r/seduction30/06/22 12:10 PM
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You don't necessarily need money to have a girlfriend, but whatever money you want to use for things like going out, you'll need to set aside. Prostitution may be illegal depending on where you're at and it could be unregulated so there's that. I feel like your post is disingenuous as it doesn't seem like you're asking for advice but rather venting your frustrations around your preconceived notions of women and money.
/r/seduction30/06/22 07:27 AM
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Ok to be frustrated, but work on being a better person and don't go the incel route. Your claims that an average woman can have lots of partners are grounded in your frustrations and not facts. Don't overgeneralize everything because you're upset.
/r/seduction30/06/22 07:15 AM
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Um is she real? I'd be cautious of a scam. Best not to interact with someone you don't know.
/r/seduction30/06/22 06:48 AM
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Not one for criticism huh ... While you clearly didn't flat out state that people who do hookups are bad people you sure did pass out a lot of judgement about the girl making mistakes and not being worth the time compared to someone you'd need outside of the club. And what's with the political reference?
/r/seduction30/06/22 05:46 AM
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I saw that one earlier! I don't understand why people have a problem with other people having sex in the past and it usually a huge double standard for men and women.
/r/seduction30/06/22 05:37 AM
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I used to feel that stuff a lot and it was only when I stopped worrying about not being in a relatthat it improved. I would say it changed more or less when I started putting value in myself and what I brought to the table. Then, I had a surge of self confidence that ultimately led me to a current 10 year relationship. Couple of things that helped also were talking to lots of people in general and having a bunch of plutonic friendships with all sorts of women, which indirectly gave me more insig…
/r/seduction30/06/22 04:18 AM
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You've already put it out there that you want to go up there so I would leave it up to her to invite you. Ball is in her court so her decision to ask you up there at this point. Keep enjoying your extra time with her and it'll happen!
/r/seduction29/06/22 07:47 PM
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One of those things you will learn over time, but best not to date where you work. Also might run the risk of it being an HR issue as well. Lots of fish in the sea!
/r/seduction29/06/22 07:32 PM
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Lol there's nothing wrong with enjoying attention from someone you find attractive, but I would be careful and mindful of your curiosity, depending on your relationship with your wife and how much your u value that.
/r/seduction29/06/22 12:33 PM
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Talk about what you enjoy. You'll know you have a good one in front of you if she has fun talking to you about the stuff you like and if she likes the same stuff too. Think about it this way, would you want to be around someone who thinks that what you say is boring or that what you like is stupid?
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:17 AM
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You're 100% right. Women in general don't want to be bothered by some guy while they're out doing their business. For someone who's trying to build up their confidence, the worst thing they can do is walk into a situation where they're almost guaranteed no success.
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:12 AM
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This 100%. The fact that you already had her number in your head and were passing judgment on the guys you said she was with doesn't paint you in a good light. Just because she's been with other guys that you think you're better than doesn't give you an easy in with her. Doesn't seem like you think highly of this person you have feelings for.
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:05 AM
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Women in general love being bothered by some stranger in the mall, especially when already in the company of someone else.
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:51 AM
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Reach out for advice from friends, or look up style tips and try something that you think you like, but key thing would be to do it for yourself and not to get more women. Key thing is being confident, bc that will literally transcend anything else.
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:30 AM
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Exactly my question. If you're not looking it wouldn't matter, but seems like you are more than a little curious.
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:26 AM
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If you're not the flirtatious type, then may be best to talk to her. Be confident and don't be discouraged if she doesn't feel the same way.
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:19 AM
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If she's interested in you she'll text you. There aren't any rules about waiting to text people after a date. If the chemistry is there it'll continue. She may have just lost interest or maybe the chemistry wasn't there in her opinion. Doesn't make her a princess or some complicated woman. Things sometimes just don't work out the way we want them to The good news is that there are lots of women out there!
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:17 AM
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A little late here but best not to text her. She indicated she's not interested and that's all you need to know. You're not entitled to a why or need to know what happened in the trip, or if there's something you could've done differently (worst thing to ask) so best to move on. There are lots of women out there and you'll find the right match for you!
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:07 AM
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I disagree. Each woman has different tastes but the general consensus is that they're more attracted to men who are confident in themselves. I think finding a look that makes you feel confident and comfortable in your own skin is the way to go.
/r/seduction29/06/22 03:57 AM
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Agreed ... Don't ask her.
/r/seduction29/06/22 03:51 AM
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