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| 1 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Yeah. Says that I dont wear rose colored glasses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 03:07 AM |
| 0 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.And I bet you'd say I was lying if I saw the opposite happen more. I observe thats how you move in this sub anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 03:01 AM |
| 1 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menNot irrelevant, and def not "shouting" into the void. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Right. Just her reading off them traits already gave me an image of these dudes and they aint what women want. At least, women who know their worth lol. Jeez, the guys sound exactly like the "basement dwellers" women keep making fun of hahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 02:58 AM |
| 1 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menRight. That would be true under certain circumstances. But not in the context we're talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 02:52 AM |
| 3 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Right. Okay. Well, theyre your clients so I understand you wanna see them in a good light, and by extension, yourself. But, I think I'd stick to my own opinion lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 07:49 PM |
| 1 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menWho cares about a "good" reason. Nobody does. This sub doesnt. Its all about me me me and the individual self. And most individual men seem to think like I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Right. So... almost exactly what I said in my comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 07:45 PM |
| 4 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Well, maybe women should stop saying thry can "smell" or "feel" men's BS from a supposed "mile" away. Yall are the ones spreading that shit. Hell yeah we give space for women to grow and learn, doesnt mean we want that kind of women. The previous generation and the internet has opened yall to a shitload of women's bad experiences, yet you still repeat them regardless. Its your right to change, a privilege to be accepted for it. Then maybe start pushing the "looks matter more" narrative than "per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 07:44 PM |
| 4 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity."Kind of guys women really want". Sure, a guy that books escorts is a guy women really want lolol. The fact they booked an escort at all most likely means they in fact arent guys women want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 07:33 PM |
| 0 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menI agree. Thats why people who had casual sex should pair up with someone who had casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 06:59 PM |
| 1 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menDoesnt matter. Even if you had sex with your BF a thousand times, he still had to wait and the casual guy didnt. Cant erase something by trying to cover it up a thousand times with something else lolol. Thats cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 04:22 PM |
| 1 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menRiiiiiggghhhtt. Well, yeah youre right. Waiting is way better. Only if the you made every guy wait, and only had sex once in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 03:50 PM |
| 1 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menUhh... just because you said so doesnt make it so lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 03:31 PM |
| 1 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menHigh standards or not, casual sex still rips off the good men lolol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 02:59 PM |
| 1 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menIt depends. Did you make relationship guy wait and casual guy not? Then yeah, casual is alpha. 100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 02:52 PM |
| 1 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menWell, if yall had sex with casual sex guy first, then its not a compliment to be the relationship guy lol wut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 02:51 PM |
| 0 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Sure, a real person. But not a person Imma be with if shes like that. And like I said, better be the hookup or ex shes wild for rather than the one she "settles down with after her fun". Yall (universal) really like that last one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 05:11 AM |
| 0 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.And dont be settled for. I agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 03:15 PM |
| 0 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Right. So now thats shes done experimenting, I now jusy have to be done too? Or that shes "done with those things now" Im supposed to be done too? And this one I've also read and heard IRL, "it doesn't feel right with you". Sure, hope it finally feels right when I leave you lolol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Thanks! Def much happier now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Most definitely, because I aint gonna be the chump that accepts womens lowered or deprioritized sexual desire for the justification of emotional intimacy wnd love and all that other BS. Yeah, relationships arent all about sex, but goddamn if Im gonna accept a version of her thats "settled" or done exploring or "selective" and Im on the short end of that. Hell nah. Keep that same energy you had with all those other guys you went wild for, or miss me with that shit. And yeah, I will keep fucking a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Thats fair. I'd actually respect her more cus she can stand by her own convictions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 05:02 AM |
| 0 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Yeah, because those dudes almost always gets her at her wildest and most open. You think I havent lived this, lol? Ive been the guy on both sides. And sure, plenty. But "plenty" doesnt mean the majority. And I bet its not to the degree as she was doing prior to them. Eh, treating her badly may be a stretch, Im not that kind of degenerate. But I sure as dont wanna be the BF these women are shortchanging lol. So yeah, barf ahead. All I know is Im getting exactly what I wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Right. So most. I guess you agree with my sentiment then lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.It was me on the losing end, for a time, and yeah I did eventually leave. Thank god for that. Being the other dude is def more satisfying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Hey, glad we could agree. Leaving is a very valid choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.No, it means if she wants commitment by week 3, then yeah I'll give it to her. The key here is her wanting it. Just like the key is men wanting to do the acts she wont. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 08:39 PM |
| -1 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.No problem with me. If I like a woman, I like a woman. No difference if we commit now or later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Just saying. Women shame guys for leaving when the reason is sexual, especially if its something sexual they WONT partake in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Only if theyve never had sex early before. If they did, then if they can call me an asshole i can also think they just dont desire me enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 08:07 PM |
| 0 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.If theyve always waited for committment, thats cool. Not if they've moved fast before then suddenly its "wait for a connection". They can take those lessons theyve learned with the simps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 08:04 PM |
| 0 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.I am. And usually the one who gets the short end of the stick is NOT the hookup or the no good ex. They get the wild and experimental side. Trust me, I know lol. Ive been on both sides. I aint never being the BF again with how most women move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense."Hangups" and "no more experimentation" === learning for most of yall and done with randos or the toxic ex. Hence, baggage. Hence, better be the rando or the ex she experiments with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 08:00 PM |
| 0 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.I know. Just cant seem to escape getting called an asshole when I leave these women when theyre not able to give me what I want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 05:49 PM |
| 0 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense."Hardly". Sure, whatever makes you happy lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 05:48 PM |
| 0 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.I know, why'd you think I said what I said lol. I've been privy to the sex life of some of the women Ive been with, and Imma just say it makes me laugh and sad at the same time. Their men are getting shortchanged in the bedroom department, aint no doubt about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Agree, cus women seem to like being sexual in hookups and with their toxic ex than in their own current relationships based on what I read here and IRL gahdamn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 05:36 PM |
| 0 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Yall dont wanna compare cus then your partner knows theyre being shortchanged lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.So the dudes after her "learning" phase gets baggage and hangups and no more experimentation? Better to just be the hookup lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.I mean... they dude can dump her lolol. And women dont seem to have any problem giving their best to some rando or a red flag ex. Cmon now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.And if the guy does leave, he gets called insecure and that he never loved her if hes going to find somebody else that'll engage in what he wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Just dont call the guys who leave insecure and assholes for getting what they want elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Damn, if #1 and #3 aint proper deterrents to get in relationships. Might as well just fuck around, seems more likely to get a woman who actually wants you sexually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 05:21 PM |
| 0 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Exactly. Dont date woman who had to learn not to put out before commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 05:16 PM |
| 0 | Leaving a woman is not trying to control a womanHows that personal lolol 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 02:47 PM |
| -3 | Leaving a woman is not trying to control a womanYup. And what comes after realizing? Leaving. But you give your partner a heads up. Tf is wrong with giving a heads up. Pathetic? Pathetic is a person whos afraid to come off offensive to others and would rather be placating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 05:33 AM |
| -4 | Leaving a woman is not trying to control a womanSo fire without warning? Yall bend over backwards to be so accomodating amd inoffensive. Its called letter her know your intentions. If you consider that a threat, yall are being obtuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 04:44 AM |
| -2 | Leaving a woman is not trying to control a womanRight. So kowtow to the wife getting a tattoo is the solution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 04:42 AM |
| – | Leaving a woman is not trying to control a womanHusband Material. Figures why thats your answer lolol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 04:40 AM |
| 3 | Terrible assholes can come in all shapes and size. They dont have to be hot jocky badboys.This is why looks > personality. You can override shit attitude with attractiveness, but good personality cant override being mid or less than mid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 12:15 PM |
| – | Red pill men: does a woman's virginity/sexual past matter to you and if so why?Okay? I dunno how you got to that conclusion from me saying I want a GF who doesnt want NSA sex, but you go ahead and think that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 07:47 AM |
| – | Red pill men: does a woman's virginity/sexual past matter to you and if so why?Virginity not so much, she could have sexual experiences so long as she had no hoe phase. No ONS, no casual setups. I wouldnt want a woman who treats sex like a throwaway when I treat it as the highest form of physical intimacy partners can partake in. No toxic exes as much as posdible though. So past matters, but with context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 06:33 AM |
| 1 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Just had to make up that last part huh lololol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 03:40 PM |
| 1 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Had to make up that last part to make you feel better, huh auntie? Lolololol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 03:39 PM |
| 2 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Retarded because I use slang? Relax auntie. Im sure you used some slang back in your heyday lolol. I dont think Ive ever commented on any shoet subreddits. Even had to check my own comment history. Care to post those comments here? Id love to be reminded lolol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 11:52 AM |
| 2 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Do you not use slang? So uptight lolol. We may both be adults, but you sound old as heck. Hell yeah its going great. I dunno what you were trying to imply with that comment lolol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 10:15 AM |
| 2 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Yeah, but if shes willing to give the peak physical intimacy to a casual encounter, then I aint waiting. Why would I wait build emotional intimacy to have physical intimacy if the other dude didnt. Nah, I dont buy it. If she considers me a potential romantic partner and I her, then theres no reason to make me wait when a rando of fubu didnt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 10:13 AM |
| 1 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Oh yeah I want sex, and I also want a romantic relationship. They can come seperately or in a package to me. Sex is the ultimate form of physical intimacy IMO. If shes willing to have that immediately with a hookup but not a potential partner like me for example, then I dont want her. I aint waiting if another aint. Sex is an aspect of the physical aspect of a relationship after all. What Im saying is also a really easy concept to understand as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 08:06 PM |
| 2 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Im grown, thank you for the sarcasm. Still, 60 days and no play even after I assume all the dates in between? Nahh. I get being busy as an adult, but the average single adult aint that busy bruh. Unless youre living on paycheck to paycheck and a low libido woman, shes definitely been with him when shes supposedly horny at least once in 2 months. Nah. Miss me with that BS copium. Other dude got the goods without all the safe and emotional mumbo jumbo the supposed better guy has to make a time dep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 07:55 PM |
| 1 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?So there was no day in the month or two shes been seeing this supposed potential BF dude that she was horny enough for him? Damn. Lost to a hookup. Feels bad for dudes in this situation. Wouldnt wanna be them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 07:38 PM |
| 1 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?A 2 day difference is nothing. What usually happens is one get gets it within 24 hours and the other in a month or 2. Thats where it gets ridiculous and women come up with a lot of mental gymnastics to justify it. Valid for women, not for a lot of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 07:31 PM |
| 2 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?So she romantically likes the 2nd dude but makes him wait? That kind of woman aint worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 07:29 PM |
| 2 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Treated better but other dude got the physical aspect of a relationship immediately lol. She got herself physically vulnerable with a supposed pump and dump but waited to "feel safe and connected" to a the potential serious candidat3. Aint no way thats "better". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 07:21 PM |
| 0 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Its a realistic thing. I wouldnt disparage a woman who sees my POV, because I do think it happens to them as well. They just see how their fellow women speak to men like them and feel that they just have to keep it to themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 09:22 AM |
| 1 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?It is worse. Within 24 hours and 2 months is a 1416 hour time difference give or take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 07:59 AM |
| 9 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?I dont get why women find it so hard to understand how some guy gets play within 24 hrs and a supposed "serious partner" needs a time deposit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 07:57 AM |
| 8 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Yeah, the way these men push for others to accept some degree of cuck mentality is insane. And their numbers and brazen attitude keep growing too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 07:54 AM |
| -1 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?A woman can genuinely feel and do all those things for her current man and still in her heart of hearts desire him less than some previous partner. Worse, it could have been just a fuckbuddy or an ONS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 07:53 AM |
| 1 | “We want consistency” is a lie. If it wasn’t about immediate sex, you would never require it.Eyy if you gound you guy you found your guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 08:23 AM |
| 1 | “We want consistency” is a lie. If it wasn’t about immediate sex, you would never require it.Then thats cool IMO. If you only have sex within a relationship, I can get behind that. Problem arises when a potential suitor has to wait and the hookup guy gets the express lane. All because of "gotta build emotional connection first" shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 08:22 AM |
| 1 | “We want consistency” is a lie. If it wasn’t about immediate sex, you would never require it.Ive done so. Im just engaging in conversation. Its a "debate" sub after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 07:38 PM |
| 1 | “We want consistency” is a lie. If it wasn’t about immediate sex, you would never require it.And I wouldnt be with a woman who has sex with a rando or FWB faster than she would with a potential romantic partner. If you can have sex with the former w/o "emotional connection", then it stands to reason you also could with the latter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 05:43 PM |
| 1 | “We want consistency” is a lie. If it wasn’t about immediate sex, you would never require it.Agree to disagree then. Will never understand the different waiting timeframes. Does not vibe with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 04:09 PM |
| 3 | “We want consistency” is a lie. If it wasn’t about immediate sex, you would never require it.By asking and initiating and progressing physical intimacy. If youre someone like me who knows quite a bit of people, you put feelers out. Its vetting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 03:02 AM |
| 1 | “We want consistency” is a lie. If it wasn’t about immediate sex, you would never require it.Sex is just sex though. I never differentiated anything between casual and the relationship kind. In both scenarios, its the highest form of physical intimacy both sides can engage in. So if a man supposedly only for one night gets it faster than the one supposedly for romantic purposes, we get the ick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 02:57 AM |
| 1 | “We want consistency” is a lie. If it wasn’t about immediate sex, you would never require it.I wasnt assuming all, only the ones that do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 02:53 AM |
| 0 | “We want consistency” is a lie. If it wasn’t about immediate sex, you would never require it.For men, sex is sex. Sex with a hookup and a potential GF is the same. The only difference is the GF candidate is treated better. Thats why women who convolute the sexual aspect and make men wait to build connection irks us. Sex is as important to us as the other things in a relationship. Its most often the highest level of physical intimacy for us. If you withhold that from us and let a guy hit with thr quickness, then ofc were gonna go ahead and think "dafuq". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 08:23 PM |
| 1 | “We want consistency” is a lie. If it wasn’t about immediate sex, you would never require it.I was only referring to the risks part. Men dont really face the same risks in hooking up with a stranger, amirite? You did say that. So yes, applies to a shit ton of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 08:04 PM |
| 1 | “We want consistency” is a lie. If it wasn’t about immediate sex, you would never require it.Ahh well, my comment doesnt apply to you then. I assumed based on your wording. Still applies to a shit ton of women though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 07:58 PM |
| -1 | “We want consistency” is a lie. If it wasn’t about immediate sex, you would never require it.All those risks you laid out and yet hookup dude still hit. Guess the risks are worth it for mr ONS and not for mr BF candidate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 07:42 PM |
| 9 | “We want consistency” is a lie. If it wasn’t about immediate sex, you would never require it.Well, if a woman I see as a potential partner who also considers me as such decides to delay sex compared to another dude in the name of "building emotional connection first", then hell yeah the next thing Im asking is "Wanna just hookup?". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 07:40 PM |
| – | “Choose better” until that means women wont fuck a stranger.Sexually? Hell yeah. I think I made that clear in the final sentence of my second to the last paragraph. Well, in that scenario Im the BF right? Hell yeah Id feel great. I continue to have sex with her while shes committed to me. Shes my GF so presumably I do get trested better than the hookup, WHILE getting treated as a hookup sexually. Also, I think you purposefully misinterpreted, or outright ignored, what I wrote in my second to the last paragraph so you can drive your point down lololol. Do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 07:58 PM |
| – | “Choose better” until that means women wont fuck a stranger.I do, but sexually I dont treat my hookups and my potential partners any differently though. No prerequisite to have sex with either, just that they have to be attractive to me. I do treat a potential partner better in other aspects though. Whether or not I want relationships, sex doesnt change. It just doesnt make sense to me personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Men severely underestimate how bad they actually are.Good men, bad men. All I know is I get what I want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 07:25 PM |
| – | “Choose better” until that means women wont fuck a stranger.Hell yeah I wanna be treated like a hookup sexually too. A potential partner is supposed to be someone with all the + traits of a hookup and none of the - right? If hookup is a basic package, a supposedly upgraded package gets all the perks youd assume. And yet one is still behind a time lock? Idk bout that. Might as well the woman pump and dump me bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 07:20 PM |
| 1 | What responses from men do you really long for, when expressing your beliefs, opinions and experiences both here on PPD and in the offline world?Uhuh. Well mate, hope youre having fun with whatever it is youre doing lolol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 01:23 PM |
| 1 | What responses from men do you really long for, when expressing your beliefs, opinions and experiences both here on PPD and in the offline world?Ive read it a few times but I cant quite grasp if youre sarcastic or not lolol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 07:46 AM |
| 1 | What responses from men do you really long for, when expressing your beliefs, opinions and experiences both here on PPD and in the offline world?You cant stop neuroticism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 07:44 AM |
| 9 | Women being interested in friends with benefits prevalent or no?Really? I know lots of 40 year olds with hella friends, and I only started my 30s. Still have a considerable friend group. I mean, those arent excuses but if thats your situation then it is what it is. In fact, business owners I know are the ones with huge social circles. They need the network after all. Id wager you already only had a small group since HS/college? Might be wrong but it could the a reason Idk they still seem relevant to me. Not for dating, sure, but I thought we were talking abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 02:54 AM |
| 4 | Women being interested in friends with benefits prevalent or no?I see what you mean. It makes sense to be fair. Seems like I'll have to mentally reorganize a bit lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 02:49 AM |
| 1 | What responses from men do you really long for, when expressing your beliefs, opinions and experiences both here on PPD and in the offline world?Yeah, most guys here often cant argue well enough to defend their point. Either that or they lose track along the way and devolve the argument into the same tired talking points. Its sad cus a lot of them make sense, just cant back it up well. And as a man who just cares about the sex, I agree that lashing out doesnt really help anyone lol. Not everybody gets what they want after all. Just a fact of life. I would however challenge that depending on certain factors, be it looks or the situation, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 02:37 AM |
| 1 | What responses from men do you really long for, when expressing your beliefs, opinions and experiences both here on PPD and in the offline world?Luck as the main factor only applies to those average and below. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 02:30 AM |
| 21 | Women being interested in friends with benefits prevalent or no?Friends. Friends of friends. Apps. Any social setting where its casual and fun, especially those with alcohol involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Women being interested in friends with benefits prevalent or no?I always thought FWBs and FUBUs were interchangeable. Guess some people apply different meanings to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 02:19 AM |
| 11 | Is sexual enthusiasm behaviour that's for Chads only?Heck yeah. Personally, I do just want sex. Lucky to be able to have them in relative abundance and ease too. Guys gotta stop being neurotic about this stuff. Not everyone is meant for casual though, as sad as that is and I empathize with my fellow dudes. Just gotta accept it is what it is and either for what they can get, be it relationship sex or with a hooker, or just be content being celibate. Getting angry gets people nowhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Is sexual enthusiasm behaviour that's for Chads only?Sex without all the unnecessary hoops. Thats what Ive been doing since I got outta college. I wanna nut? I call someone. They wanna nut? They call me. Its great to be picked when women are horny and just wanna get down. Then, I live my life the way I want. No BS "emotional connection" stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 02:03 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I know. The post can describe the dick explicitly though. And women en masse thirst for it in the comments. Often disparaging "shrimps" or average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 02:33 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Women wanna be seen in a positive light. They wanna come off as enlightened and mature. But that just comes off as virtue signalling and condescending IMO. This is just an example of that. Fuck being husband material if youre just gonna end up opposite women like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 02:06 PM |
| 5 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Instagram. Women there are definitely less "politically correct" than here on Reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 02:03 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵100%. And they always say average and below average is adequate and enough, like that makes things any better lolol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Do men actually prefer if their girlfriend is a virgin?Not really. What I dont want is my GF having a history of being a hoe though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 08:26 PM |
| – | The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not womenFucken simps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 02:12 PM |
| – | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Cant exactly choose what was determined for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 07:52 PM |
| 1 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Eh. Lets just say both my and your scenarios happen often enough. Second in the bedroom. Still aint having that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 10:16 AM |
| – | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:19 AM |
| – | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Its reality for a lot of men though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:18 AM |
| – | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Sure. Still wont be second to a dude like that, who could make a woman endure shit just because he could dick her down well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:00 AM |
| 2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADNot saying youre wrong, but Im also saying that the inverse of what you said most definitely exists. And in some of those its the dude who cheats and the mistress is a fucking downgrade to the actual partner. And these out of their league women genuinely love them too. So the other side of the coin definitely happens just as often IMO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 04:17 AM |
| – | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Eh, not what Ive heard IRL or read online. Its usually because the sex is too good to let go despite the red flags. Because sex and raw sexual compatibility seems to in some ways bypass all this "emotionally positive" and "safety matters" mumbo jumbo. Thats why love and sex IMO dont go hand in hand. And if I cant be what she sees in her mind when she thinks of sex, then I dont want that relationship. A man can literally be the worst, but still the pleasure he gives would be enough to override a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 04:10 AM |
| 1 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.You keep forgetting to add "great to best sex" is "often" difficult, not just sex itself. You omit the key words that better define what I mean. I explicitly say what kind of sex and thats a case by case basis. And if its easy for you, great. Maybe youre just easy and straightforward to please. Thats not every woman, maybe not even most women. I certainly wouldnt speak in absolutes. Some women need a certain anatomy or disposition that certain partners would never be able to meet to become great… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 04:00 AM |
| 1 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Hmm. I dont think so. Reddit aint real life so I'll be taking the opposite of what youre actually saying. So yeah, its difficult. I notice you like to speak in absolutes. Is it because youre so sure your right or is it because youre playing some sort of devils advocate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 08:27 PM |
| 2 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Sure, I'll give you all of that. But if they stayed longer than they should have cus the sex was godlike, then Imma head out still. Im not gonna play second fiddle sexually to some dude that Im supposedly better at being a partner. If get to be some womans best in bed cus Im toxic, then I'll take it. Sounds like a compliment to me despite that. Her current partner will never be able to take that away from me if thats the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 08:21 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI mean, I also believe some dudes just dont pass the bare minimum looks wise, and no amount of personality will change that. But yeah, if you arent physically blessed, better work on your charisma and confidence as much as you can. Strategies for good looking dudes wont work for average dudes, so you have to take that into consideration as well. Especially the initial contact, if you arent already acquaintances to begin with. Also, just gotta deal with being rejected. Its just reality. Theres re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 08:16 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAs much as I would love to disagree with takes like this, I've seen far more beautiful women end up with average to less than average men and these dudes aren't even loaded with money which sometimes is the reason they end up with these women. So while I agree that looks get your foot in the door faster, personality ain't really that far behind. You just gotta bridge the initial connection that looks give first somehow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menThis is why I filter out women who have sex outside relationships. Mitigates instances of differing behaviour towards average dudes like me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 06:35 PM |
| 2 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Sure, Im more willing, though begrudgingly, to concede to being lesser sexually to a decent guy. But a toxic, red flag dude? Hell naw. Women go on and on about emotional connection and love for their partner enhancing sex but then a lot of them turn around and admit it pales in comparison to just the raw sexual desire they feel to that guy who was an asshole. I wouldnt wanna be anywhere near that relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 05:52 PM |
| 2 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Not automatically, but it happens anyways. These BFs/husbands just gotta take what they can get. Excitement and adrenaline >> stability and peace when it comes to sex it seems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 05:44 PM |
| 4 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Guess all this talk about sex being better with someone you connect emotionally and love is BS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 05:42 PM |
| 2 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Not "only" toxic guys, but an awful lot of women's best seems to come from them. Reddit may not be "real", but its a peek into what is. Apply your initial logic to your arguments if you think Reddit isnt real life. Wouldnt it make what youre saying not reflect whats reality? Yes sex aint mysterious. Its also not "difficult" to get decent. Whats difficult is being great at it. Even more so to be the best. As is with most things in life. Its naive to just boil it to not mysterious === easy peasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 05:35 PM |
| 3 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Like love is enough to keep the sexual longing for that toxic dude at bay at all times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 02:42 PM |
| 5 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Nah. I saw most say their husbands managed to work their way towards being good or great. Still couldnt match up to that toxic dude that didnt need years to be their best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 02:40 PM |
| 3 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Men 9/10 times orgasm/ejaculate regardless. Its so easy to make men cum. Women claim to have a more complicated route to orgasm and cite that orgasm isnt possible some times when being intimate even if their partner is doing all the right things and theyre aroused. Yet their abuser can somehow get them to orgasm regardless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 02:23 PM |
| 3 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Currently not with anyone at the moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 01:49 PM |
| 2 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Never disputed that. Its the easy part thats highly debatable, if even plausible at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 08:50 AM |
| 4 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Good sex I'll give you that. But anyone can cook an edible dish that'll taste good. Post says the best sex though. Doubt that can be recreated willy nilly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 08:05 AM |
| 6 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Mostly can mean 51/49. 49% is still a lot of not the case lol. Thats like saying its very easy to recreate a particular scene done by an amazing actor. Yeah you can try to imitate movement, facial expression and tone but it wont be 100% the same. Saying its very easy is kinda naive. Sure. But not always lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 07:32 AM |
| 5 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.That aint always the case, and it isnt as easy just trying to imitate what another did 1:1. And sadly best sex isnt always with the one you love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 06:24 AM |
| 8 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Personally, Id leave if I get a whiff of my woman thinking sex with some toxic dude is better than with me. And I wouldnt hold it against her if she did the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 06:19 AM |
| 7 | For women with sexual experience, it is more probable that their best sex would not be with their partners but with some toxic guys.Poor husband cant even match up to an abuser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 05:46 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADInclude in your answer for women to be honest when asked too. God knows yall love to hide it in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 08:12 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADSure. But it sure as hell aint a hypothetical for a lot of guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 08:01 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThat changing a detail may change how you see a loved one? Hell yeah. Doesnt mean you dont love them, just means that you may have fundamentally changed something about them that you loved, and is an important trait to you in a partner, in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 07:50 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADShe wouldnt have been my wife in the first place. Its about not fucking someone who isnt a partner. I love sex, and I love women who do too. I love them even more when they save that energy to be released when in a relationship. Easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 07:46 AM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIf my wife hid that she had hookups in the past Id be gone. Dont want a wife who fucks outside of relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 07:41 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵And they always seem to have such intense physical and sexual chemistry with these hookup material men and just have "its alright" chemistry with their husbands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 07:31 AM |
| 2 | What do you think about talking to multiple people all day and even planning different dates during the early stages?We could most likely go for argument after argument and still not be on the same page except for people are different. Id rather just focus on one and move on if it doesnt work, than split my attention and risk putting it on the wrong basket cus I wasnt paying enough attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 08:16 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about talking to multiple people all day and even planning different dates during the early stages?I understand that love isnt in the equation yet. Doesnt mean it isnt off putting to me and guys like me that it aint a 1:1 ratio of the attention were giving them. Its just as likely that youll miss out on a great connection because you felt a good one early on with somebody else. Numbers game, multiple shallow interactions if you ask me. But as Ive said, more power to those who brute force their way through dating. It aint me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 07:37 AM |
| 3 | What do you think about talking to multiple people all day and even planning different dates during the early stages?Dudes like me and OP just dont want women who arent giving the same attention and time that we give them. It gives me the ick that after we're done tryna build something youre doing the same with somebody else. Even worse, simultaneously lol. Miss me with that. More power to being methodical in yalls approach, but I thought you cant gamify and apply math to dating was the accepted mindset here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 06:39 AM |
| – | The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter.To correct myself, I was meaning to say "where women arent expected to be politically correct" in my previous comment. It ties directly to your last statement about honesty, because women seem more inclined to say what should be said rather what they actually feel. Hence the "bigger isnt more desired" spiel. And on evidences, idk I dont really take peer reviewed paper as divine doctrine when it comes to a lot of stuff. Lived experieces and anecdotal accounts feel more unfiltered to me. To give a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 04:09 AM |
| – | The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter.Which evidence are you taking? Anecdotal, peer reviewed or a blog post survey? Lolol. Because lets be real people disregard any one of those in favor of the narrative they push anyway. Me included. Plus, Id rather look at responses where women are expected to be politically correct, for a lack of a better term, anyway. Those are the real answers IMO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 03:41 AM |
| – | The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter.Those women, like you, are the minority. Guys here are just saying women generally like it bigger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 03:29 AM |
| – | The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter.I think a couple more years of women repeating this is needed to undo the years of women repeating size doesnt matter lolol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 07:07 PM |
| – | The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter.And they throw shade or express disappointment when its average or small. At best theres no clamor over it. Tough out there bruh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Females Use Good Guys For Bailouts From Bad DecisionsIm talking bout girls who prefer/preferred the "bad" boys. Or maybe boys with delinquent tendencies is more appropriate. Not talking bout girls who skidaddled outta there once she found out, but ones who know but still pursue. Thats the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Females Use Good Guys For Bailouts From Bad DecisionsUhm, no? Im talking bout them because it aligns with the post? Not that theyre my only options. Back to my broccoli example, would you think broccoli is on my plate everyday if I say how much I dislike broccoli on a post discussing foods you dislike? Cmon now, you called me low income based on how I write so Imma call you low comprehension cus you cant seem to follow anything I say lolol. Im not concerned. Im sharing what I think. Theres a difference yo. Cmon now. Dont get tunnel vision thinking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Females Use Good Guys For Bailouts From Bad DecisionsI mean, I did say I socialize. You dont have to believe me but thats the life I live yo. My friend groups are varied, and they know other people. First and 3rd hand stories. Dunno why you think Im lying but cant nothing be done about that. Im around cool women too. Ive dated them. Didnt work out for other reasons besides the topic at hand. Again, dunno why you think Im just in an ocean of party/bad girls lolol. You keep assuming things bout me and ignoring what Im saying. Then you outright think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Females Use Good Guys For Bailouts From Bad DecisionsWoah woah. Didnt know you could figure out my tax bracket based on my writing style yo. Pray tell, howd you come to infer that conclusion? Sadly, Im pretty middle class. Maybe a bit upper but not by a significant margin. Most of the crowd I hang are about the same, though with a few exceptions who are a class above middle. I find partying is pretty standardized across the board, no matter the social/income class. There are outliers on the extreme ends for sure, but theyre outliers. And Im referr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Females Use Good Guys For Bailouts From Bad DecisionsMy environment is varied yo. As I said, I socialize. I meet and see people in different social settings. Plus conversation and 3rd party accounts of experiences. Dont misunderstand pls. I know people from one end of the spectrum to the other, though none on either extremes. Could be close though. Bottom line is I just dont like these party/bad girls. Doesnt matter if theyre past that or reformed. Theyre attractive foe sure, but their behavior and types in men aint for me. Plenty of women who are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Females Use Good Guys For Bailouts From Bad DecisionsIve never smoked nor do I want to, and yet Ive got friends who smoke a ton. Party girls arent rare yo. I socialize. You meet people. Im not a recluse lol. As I said, Ive partied, but only on rare occasions. Im not upset. I hope you dont misunderstand me. Im sharing my opinion using words and tone that get my point across. Id speak the same if were talking about broccoli. Youd think Im upset but in reality I just dislike broccoli that much. Same as the women Im describing that I dont want. Im not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Females Use Good Guys For Bailouts From Bad DecisionsSo what are you implying then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 08:02 AM |
| 1 | In certain cases husband material is better than hookup materialWhat if I dont wanna be an acquired taste? That just seems like a lukewarm attraction to me at best. Husband material is fine so long as it came from a non promiscuous woman, or if the woman considers the man both hookup and husband material. If not, I agree with most men here. Rather be hookup material than husband material. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 08:00 AM |
| 0 | Females Use Good Guys For Bailouts From Bad DecisionsIm not jealous I didnt live like them. Nah. And its not like I havent partied, just only on a few rare occasions. Hardly considered a "party goer". Never slept around or desired a party girl too. And I could have. Just putting it out there just in case you think Im some kinda pity party redditor. All I want is a women who didnt do a full 180 on both their lifestyle and partner preference. Cus to me that reads like "this what I need to be/have" rather than "this is what I want" Miss me with that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Females Use Good Guys For Bailouts From Bad DecisionsYou can have amazing memories and be a well rounded person without having been a train wreck. By your logic, we all should break the law a few times and snort some coke to get that adrenaline rush that makes life worth living. Conversely, people who enjoy the quiet life have shit lives. Yeah. Most have carry on baggages though. Those women in general have check in baggages. Max weight each. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Females Use Good Guys For Bailouts From Bad DecisionsEh, Imma pass on a woman who needed that much of a change in preference and lifestyle. A person that does a total 180 just makes me doubt things about her, idc how genuine she feels. Im not settling for a woman whose current criteria is what it is because she made a buncha stupid decisions when she was younger. Theres a whole lot of women who were never walking red flags, so why choose those with baggage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Why do women give bad advice to men?I agree. But maybe to them it isnt worth it? Im just looking at it if I was in their shoes with their mindset and emotions. Like, its got to be a fucking blow to ones confidence and self esteem to know youre downright ugly and unwanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Why do women give bad advice to men?Why should we prevent it is the problem. Its their right to do what they want in life. If they find themselves lacking in areas they feel are important, then they should be allowed at least euthanasia to ease themselves painlessly out of this world. Its just a fact of life that sometimes no one is attracted to you cus youre not attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Would you have hooked up with all your past boyfriends?Idk about myself or others since we all have different reactions, Im just talking about what happened in the repost. Now I do believe a relationship should trump any hookup on every level, but I do understand if a person would want their partner to consider them eligible for a night of purely passion and lust on a random encounter. And feel slighted if the answer was basically "needed more time to see your more attractive qualities" while on the same breath sleep with randos in the same scenario… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Would you have hooked up with all your past boyfriends?Thats where the divide comes from I guess. Women and men view things differently. And Im coming from the POV of the BF in the repost. Difference in perspectives can cause hurt and conflict after all. They value being hookup material because men want to be physically desired as well. Most men are only attractive because of their non physical traits, so men desire to be desired physically and sexually. Women are the opposite, so women desire to be desired for things that arent physical and sexual … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Would you have hooked up with all your past boyfriends?I mean, its not an absolute thing that hookups lewd to heartbreak if tons of anecdotes are the complete opposite. Why is "wife material is also hookup material" a dumb proposition? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Would you have hooked up with all your past boyfriends?If she wasnt into hookups prior, then it wouldnt be an issue. But if she did, why exclude him from being a hookup since relationships are also often formed from that encounter. Its the difference between "I wouldnt just, but also" and "I wouldnt, but". If I were to wager a guess it might come off to her BF that he is missing physical and sexual attributes needed to be considered as one, if they both were strangers meeting for the first time in the hypothetical scenario. That yes, he has husband … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 03:44 AM |
| 3 | What is the motive behind telling men to be kind and it will improve their dating chances?They are. But two things can be true at the same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Would you have hooked up with all your past boyfriends?I guess guys just wanna be eligible for both. I wouldnt say its dumb, but Im a dude lol. I want my GF to wanna hookup with me if we hypothetically were randoms meeting for the first time. I know I would lol. Wife material to me includes hookup material after all. Hm, youre the first woman here and in some other posts Ive read that hookups standards arent low. Interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 08:00 PM |
| 3 | What is the motive behind telling men to be kind and it will improve their dating chances?Yes, it wasnt the bad behavior that made them attractive for sure. But thats why I said women indirectly reward bad behavior because of attraction. It perpetuates the idea that one thing is okay because of another that justifies it. It kinda deadens the "be a good man" dogma women like to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Would you have hooked up with all your past boyfriends?Could you expand on why its dumb? Both sides are reasonable, tbh. Having filters is reasonable, feeling slighted for being excluded in one if you fit another in this case I find is reasonable as well. Lots of anecdotal evidence as well from women whose relationships started as hookups though. Why cant she, in the hypothetical scenario, hookup and start a relationship with him if she found him husband material? Maybe it doesnt, maybe it does. I agree. I also relate to the slight if my GF wouldnt … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Would you have hooked up with all your past boyfriends?Sure, but I would wager to say that these men are still attracted and view their partners just as if not more attractive than these OF girls/porn stars/mistresses. They are also just assholes if theyre cheaters and I guess cant control their libidos enough to not pay for content. The point is the physical and sexual attraction is still there for the partner, other women notwithstanding. Its not special to women that men find most of them sexually attractive, sure. But to men it does though, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Would you have hooked up with all your past boyfriends?Guess thats where generalizations come in when talking about broad topics, and not individuals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Would you have hooked up with all your past boyfriends?Well, I guess the BF in the repost wanted to be a viable hookup option for his GF in the scenario and got offended that he wasnt. If we assume the GF does hookups and it excluded the BF hypothetically, then I do see how it would seem like a slight to him. Like, she would sleep with these randos and aquaintances but not him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Would you have hooked up with all your past boyfriends?I dont disagree. It might depending on if the hookup is with a random or with an aquaintance or friend. For the latter attraction likely wasnt immediate, but more often than not from what I personally have heard IRL and read online is that for randoms the tipping point was mostly because there was immediate sexual attraction. Now mandatory not a monolith disclaimer here, but if it happens regularly enough it could be a valid generalization. Now if the scenario in the repost was that the BF was a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 04:27 PM |
| 6 | Would you have hooked up with all your past boyfriends?I think this is how it should be. In the repost however, the GF wouldnt hookup with her BF who she considers husband material. So it indicates that in a random encounter, he lackes the necessary physical or sexual attributes that made him attractive to her. IMO it should be that a boyfriend is both husband and hookup material, not just or the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Would you have hooked up with all your past boyfriends?I feel like with both women, they hookup and the wife, theyre still very much attractive to the guy. He would still hookup with both of them immediately though only be with the wife material for longterm. In the repost the GF wouldnt hookup with her BF although he is husband material, indicating that attraction wasnt immediate unlike for a hookup. And that I think is the difference between how men and women perceive the scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 03:57 PM |
| 3 | What is the motive behind telling men to be kind and it will improve their dating chances?Theyre indirectly rewarding bad behavior though. It shows bad traits dont matter if youre attractive enough. Kinda like junk food. Yeah, theyre bad for you but theyre tasty though. So junk food keeps getting pumped out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Do you actually lower sexual attraction when it comes to a guy you see as relationship material?Eh, Ive heard and read enough to know its definitely not uncommon for women to think fondly on the sex despite a rocky breakup or relationship. And those kinds of thoughts are even more of a pass for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Do you actually lower sexual attraction when it comes to a guy you see as relationship material?I mean, I would bet that fantasizing about your best sexual partner often doesnt happen voluntarily. And if I aint that best, then it would be safe to infer that Im not included on that involuntary fantasizing. Thats where asking if Im the best comes in to help with the inferring. Eh, I can accept celebrities and people she hasnt had sex with. You cant help that. It may not be good to hear but thags being human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Do you actually lower sexual attraction when it comes to a guy you see as relationship material?Hey, I never said I wouldnt try at first. Should have stated that from the start lol. I just wont give my continued and lifetime effort for someone who has someone else she couldnt help but lust after in her silent horniest thoughts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Do you actually lower sexual attraction when it comes to a guy you see as relationship material?I dont see it as insecurity or mistrust when it comes to my personal want of wanting to be my partners best. Its a want, because I want to be the person they see when thinking about the peak of their sexual experience. Yes, when youre together youve "won". But winning could have been for numerous reasons, not all positive. And I think competing to be the best, in whichever way an individual wants to be the best, isnt IMO detrimental. Im ok with not being the best overall, I care about being the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Do you actually lower sexual attraction when it comes to a guy you see as relationship material?It important to me though. I guess we just see things differently then since this desire to sexually be the best doesnt come from being upset. I just want to be. When my partner thinks about the height of her sexual experiences, I want the person that pops up in her mind is me. If it isnt, I accept that and move on. Theyre in her past because they or she wasnt great in some other area, not because they were necessarily bad in bed. Thats how your last sentence sounds to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Do you actually lower sexual attraction when it comes to a guy you see as relationship material?Eh, I thought communication was supposed to be important in a relationship? How is it not healthy to ask? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 03:49 AM |
| -1 | Do you actually lower sexual attraction when it comes to a guy you see as relationship material?Might come as a surprise, but I see where youre coming from. However, Im fine with not being the best overall so long as Im the best she had sexually. Genuinely asking how any of what I said is a pity party? I feel like I never said anything out of self pity but rather what I wanna be for my partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 12:35 PM |
| 0 | Do you actually lower sexual attraction when it comes to a guy you see as relationship material?One would have to be naive to think it needs to be said aloud to know its being reminisced. And so long as its not me being reminisced, aloud or otherwise, then I dont want that woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 11:50 AM |
| 0 | Do you actually lower sexual attraction when it comes to a guy you see as relationship material?I wouldnt wanna be with someone who reminisces about that time she was blown away by a random who no one could ever compare with in the bedroom, even if reminiscing only happens every blue moon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 11:19 AM |
| 0 | Do you actually lower sexual attraction when it comes to a guy you see as relationship material?Asking them is a pretty good way to know where you stand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 11:09 AM |
| 2 | The fixation on “purity” in women is often rooted in male insecurity, not morality.Always thought the conversation on purity meant being a virgin. Well, insecurity or not, I dont think theres anything necessarily wrong with wanting a "pure" partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 07:52 PM |
| 3 | The fixation on “purity” in women is often rooted in male insecurity, not morality.Is this just about being a virgin or having a low body count? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Women’s Dating Problems Are 100% Their Own FaultWhat about women's often used line of "We can smell insert bad trait here from miles away"? That doesnt actually work irl? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Being hookup material is much better than being husband material.It depends on who you ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Being hookup material is much better than being husband material.Well, thats not how I meant it. I meant it as that hookup material are those who trigger immediate sexual desire from women, while husband material requires some time or certain actions to trigger the same reaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Being hookup material is much better than being husband material.Why is mistreatment the thing that came to your mind? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 02:52 AM |
| – | Being hookup material is much better than being husband material.Agree. Hookup material is like getting on the VIP express, while husband material is lining up on a regular queue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 06:57 PM |
| 3 | The majority of "penis shaming" occurs in male centric groups, not female ones.Heard from a female friend who had a messy breakup with her BF say in person that "he had a tiny dick anyway". Like it somehow makes everything ok just cause he supposedly had a tiny dick. Whereas if the dude was huge, theyd say that theyd miss the D. Idk but small/average D never seems to get the outward desire Big D gets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Delaying sex strategy really works well for women. That's why men in this sub hate and despise this strategy so much.Im all for delaying sex. As a man, I prefer that as well. What Im not all for is waiting when others didnt. Im gone as soon as I get a whiff of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Straight women in relationships, how do you act around men who are a lot more attractive than your partner?I mean, you said it yourself you'd give them subtle signs that youre into them and the only thing stopping you is the ring on your finger. Theres a difference between thinking it and actually acting on it. 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 07:53 AM |
| 2 | Straight women in relationships, how do you act around men who are a lot more attractive than your partner?So you lust after other dudes and act on it? Damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Men need to stop asking women about Penis Size preferences because it's a completely pointless discussionIts pointless because women do prefer above average in general as you said. It aint satisfying, but its the answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Size doesn't matter to women until it's their own partner who's small.Because women live to sugar coat. It is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.I agree that she wouldnt care about my dick if it wasnt attached to me, but thats likely because it wasnt her preference to begin with. Theres anecdotes about women reminiscing about D that was exactly their preference, and the dude attached to it was of secondary priority. Even D attached to toxic men are remembered fondly. D can absolutely be desired seperately from the man its attached to. I know that clitoral stimulation is the primary driver of female orgasms. I also know a bigger than aver… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 11:27 AM |
| 1 | The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting menI agree. I still stand by what Ive said in previous comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 08:45 AM |
| 1 | The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting menAnd I agree with you. I never said you lied when you say you like his penis, attached to him or otherwise. It is a fact that you have a preferred size though, similar to most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 05:30 AM |
| 1 | The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting menNot all size queens are rude though. You can dismiss someone as a potential partner in a civil manner after all. Those women shouldnt be bashed for having that preference. If a man asks, or on posts regarding penis size. Just lead with bigger is preferred since these posts almost always revolve on generalities. Yes you should lead with that if its the question asked. Let the man then feel how he feels and let him do what he does but thats the answer he should hear. It doesnt necessarily have to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.Satisfaction doesnt mean its her preference though. Im satisfied by a good salmon, but I would prefer steak if I got to choose. Replace salmon with a smaller size and steak with the bigger than average general preference of women. Observed preference probably just means that a certain range satisfies her from and upto around her preference number. Stated is what she says if asked what her preference was. Are womens word not supposed to be believed now? Sure proper research has weight, but their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 04:51 PM |
| 1 | The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting menQuestion is, should they be scorned? As an average dude, I dont think so. If thats what makes them satisfied in a relationship they should get after it. Yes,.its to make her man feel better. Nothing wrong with that and they should as should the man to his woman. Is it genuine? Never said is isnt, though a few arent. Now if I or another man asked if the D is her preference, answer with honesty. Thats it. Be upfront, drop the "I like it cus its you" tactic. Its a yes or no question. It isnt "do yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 03:56 PM |
| 1 | The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting menYeah its shallow. But people dont look down on them because of that preference though. Theyre honest, so long as theyre not assholes about it. So why cant dudes do the same? Should size queens stop being size queens so they dont become "shallow"? Should women date people they arent physically attracted to to avoid being "shallow"? All Im saying is be honest when you prefer bigger, if prompted. Its the general trend already with women. Dudes know the unspoken preference. Women, and some men, just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 06:22 AM |
| 1 | The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting menCus thats one that matters to me though, and to lots of other dudes here I think. She prefers 6ft? Thats cool. She prefers a buff body? Thats cool. She prefers a beard? Thats cool too. She prefers around 7 inches? Thats cool too, Imma feel some type of way about it and thanks for being honest cus that matters to me. Also, size queens filtee by size. Do you call that shallow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 04:42 AM |
| 1 | The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting menPersonally I wouldnt. Id swallow that truth and try to move on and hopefully get over it one day. But at least Im not living in ignorance from the complete truth. If others do choose to break up though then they should without getting lambasted. Its the standard they put on themselves. The penis is special to lots of guys, I dunno what to tell you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.Well, we are talking about dick size though. Why the need to include other aspects of sex when dick size is the topic? Sure its a survey, that doesnt mean it doesnt hold weight because it isnt necessarily a study. Those are still people giving feedback when asked a question. Some films are considered critically acclaimed because fans liked them. No one did a study on those yet the label is accepted. "Whats you preferred size?" "Bigger than average". Enough women answer that and it speaks for its… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 04:02 AM |
| 1 | The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting menYes on both. I wouldnt necessarily feel happy, but I would feel relieved she was honest. Whether I leave or not, I have the agency to choose because she gave me an upfront answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 03:26 AM |
| 1 | The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting menThe thing is some traits have function though. The dick has a function when it comes to sex that directly affects a womans pleasure, be it the from length and/or girth of it. It wouldnt be this highly debated if it was just some aesthetic feature, though height could be that other thing but thats for another topic. IMO youre not lying when you compliment him. Ive read your other replies and you seem to genuinely like his package. Thing is though, you prefer one 2 inches longer. The sugar coating… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 06:39 PM |
| 1 | The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting menMaybe I have, maybe I dont. If I did have, either those can be improved upon (personality) or doesnt really have any function other than aesthetics (eye color, facial structure, beard, etc). Theres the gym if she prefers a good physique, skin products for good skin and you can learn sex skills too. Our dick is all we got, and it cant be changed. Maybe in the future once procedures are safe and consistent hopefully, but Id probs be dead by then lol. So yeah its important to me that she wants my m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.I mean, women preferring bigger also has studies. I dont have any links but Im sure its there if I google it. Its also been referenced by other redditors here and in other posts I assume. There are studies that back whateber claim anyone has if they look for it. Not really good with math so Im not gonna attempt to argue with your computations. Plus it as you say women will give other reasons aside from admitting size was a problem, so maybe even then those numbers are skewed. Idk Im not that sma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.Im not really gonna argue with most of your points cus they are sound and valid. And I agree to some extent. But I mean generally speaking, bigger is preferred though. Why all the long essays trying to say otherwise or contextualize it to soften the metaphorical blow. Yeah quality of sex has a lot more factors other than size, but if in general women prefer bigger, then of course all those in combination with bigger elevates the quality. And lets face it, lots more dudes have been broken up desp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 01:53 PM |
| 1 | The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting menWhat I mean to say was Im fine with not being her preference/ideal overall as a partner, which includes all the physical/personality traits. I want my package to be her preference/ideal though. Thats my point. And I guess other dudes are same? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.No, im fine with not being the best in other areas. I want my dick to be her preferred size though. Its great that shes chosen and is fine with my package. I just want that she prefers it even if you take the emotional aspect out of the equation. I am aware that theres such a thing as too big. All Im saying is women prefer bigger and they stop skirting around that general truth. Say it plainly without making a damn disclaimer bout it. Guys can then do whatever based on that info. Just be open bo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 09:09 AM |
| 1 | The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting menNo. Im fine with not being the ideal overall, but Id like my penis to be her preference. Thats it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.Well, at that point in time her preference for mine was the truth. If that truth changes after the relationship then Im not too concerned about that anymore. If her experience with skilled average was great, it would be safe to assume her preferred bigger size that was just as skilled is a better experience. If in general women skew bigger, then they would also prefer bigger if there was an absence of skill. In the absence of emotional connection bigger is also preferred. Average and below is on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 07:36 AM |
| – | The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting menSure. I can value a nicely cooked salmon if the steak I would have preferred wasnt available. Its nice and fine, but that steak would have just hit different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.Im not arguing bout previous exes though? Dont know where you got that from. Im talking bout the man in question specifically. Im arguing about my dick being her preference because thats what she innately wants sexually when it comes to dick, regardless of if she had partners or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 05:01 AM |
| – | The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting menMen wanna be valued for who they are and their penis valued for their penis. Its both. Each aspect of the man valued independently. Idk bout you but it hearing its fine or you like it because its attached to you isnt that great to hear. Meanwhile big guys get desired by both aspects of themselves, to the point where even after the relationship ends theyre still desired because of their size. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.Im not really into comparing about anyone in her past life. Im just talking about the dick men have to be their partners preference, not just that its fine cus they like him. Is it so bad lots of men want to be desired for themselves and their dick respectively? I dont think so. If you think thats stupid, thats fine. We all got opinions bout each others outlooks after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.Thats for him to decide. Is it dick worship for our dick to be preferred? Maybe youre right. Is my partner worshipping me because she desires me as a person? Didnt know that. If a person can be chosen as the sole partner of another out of four billion, whats to say they cant desire to be the best of whatever they want to be the best to be in. Entitled rather than settled IMO. And plenty of men get broken up by normal libido women that loved them because their dick wasnt big. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 03:18 AM |
| – | The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting menPretending it isnt doesnt help either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.Then let them destroy it. If thats the response they feel would appease them, then why not. If they arent personally satisfied in the relationship, why stay and settle. They have a right to want to be desired for themselves, and for their body respectively. Its not entitlement IMO, but if thats how you see it then I wont argue with you. Maybe, or maybe they are that way because of actual experience or from anecdotes they have come across. Ita more likely and more often to hear that a woman left … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.Im not saying you implode the relationship. Dunno where you got that. Might be somebody else youre interacting with. Not once did I say to bitch about it in real life, only that when asked be honest and let the man decide what he wants to do with that info. All my intent was when I commented here was that women stop tryna argue against bigger is preferred when thats the general preference of women. The other user already agreed with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.I personally didnt say the ideal partner though, but rather the preferred penis. We're ok with not checking all the boxes, but we at least would want our dick to be there. Youre also stamping your feet and throwing a tantrum arguing with us against something you didnt even bother to debunk, which is bigger is preferred in general. Yeah, we got the ego. Women got the virtue signalling part covered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.If you think thats wallowing thats fine. Some do wallow, while some just recognize reality. Its the women who seemingly want to keep this an unspoken truth, which is what I find weird. No doubt most will find a partner. Most partners likely would be fine with it, a few that actually prefer it. But fine ans prefer arent the same, and thats the kicker since most men range average to below. And women trend towards bigger than. It doesnt mean she hates it, just that shes either neutral about it or t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.Idk about others but Im not saying having a less than desired penis wont make your partner attracted to you, just most likely not as attracted if you did have one. It wouldnt evoke that desire if lets say I would get to eat my fave meal, regardless of who cooked it because its my fave, compared to when I eat something nice even if its cooked by my grandma or whatever. Sure I get that. And I think this is where the divide lies in the imperfect parts our partner has. For men, we most likely dont c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.You can look at it that way. We look at it as just accepting reality. It is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 09:26 PM |
| – | The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting menThis. Just stop with the pretending. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 06:41 PM |
| – | The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting menTrue that. I dont really know why they defend so hard against just saying they orefer bigger. They just have to offer such long explanations but still arrive to the conclusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.Exactly. So give the dude asking, however they got to that point, an honest answer. Dont cop out by saying "its fine" and just say it if you truly have that preference. Then let hime decide with what to do with that info. And also lets just stop beating around the bush with all the mental gymnastics. As the other thread Im engaged in already said, bigger may not be necessarily better but it is generally preferred. Just lead with that whenever threads like this come up. Saying otherwise is just s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.The advantage of a womans physical attributes are that they are mostly visible without getting naked. So the preferences are more likely to be applied without even actually talking to the woman, meaning the guy isnt forced to be happy since they likely chose their partners with physical features already considered. The penis doesnt have that luxury. Bigger is preferred in general wheb it comes to penis size. I dont know why all these additional questions are necessary since we, in a way, already… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.No one is saying you should go around saying it. Just that when "bigger is preferred" is said, dont argue against it. There will be outliers but its the general truth. Lots of guys are forced to pretend theyre happy about it. Not saying your BF is one of those, but who knows what truly goes on in another persons head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.As you did state that youd pick bigger when presented with disembodied penises and that women are skewed to prefer bigger. Logic would assume that on a person you like and an average dick you already love, him having a bigger appendage that you prefer would be better in terms of satisfaction in aspects of the relationship that benefit having a penis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.No. Id call it sugar coating when women argue that bigger isnt preferred. Youre free to love your BFs average appendage. Just dont fight till your last breath to avoid saying "youd be better if you had 2 inches more". Thats it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.Yeah thats a more accurate way to say it, thats its more desired. We arent asking women who love average to stop, we just want women to stop arguing against "bigger is preferred" everytime its said. Cus women who seem to "prefer" average seem to exist only in the internet. All Ive heard IRL are women mostly wanting bigger, and anything smaller is fine since they like the person. And then there are those that just shit on anything not big. Thats my experience anyway. Big is great and less is fine… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.Bottom line is men are able to compartmentalize their body parts from their being. We ideally would want women that prefer our dicks for no other sole reason other than its the dick they prefer, not because its attached to us. But thats only reserved for bigger and thats reality. Smaller is worse. Doesnt mean its bad, just compared to bigger it is. We're not asking women to think hard. We're asking them to stoo sugar coating things and acting so politically correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 04:58 AM |
| – | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.Idk bout other dudes, but I just want the whole "bigger isnt generally better" to stop. Cus it just aint true and its sugar coating reality. Men have no problem being diminished to their physical attributes it seems, especially if its seen in a positive light. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 08:15 PM |
| – | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.Its not unsatisfaction thats questioned. Its whats better. And clearly, if a guy is great, then bigger is better. Its just that women use all kinds of loopholes and gymnastics to avoid flatout saying it. Thats the goal of this post and others similar to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 07:58 PM |
| – | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.Great guy with average dick = great Great guy with big dick = better This is what I gathered from your comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average.Dont bother. They wont give a straight answer regarding the "all else being equal" scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Modern Women Are Incapable of AccountabilityHow bout you tell your gender that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 07:02 AM |
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