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Because it is a huge problem. Few decades ago there was given a medicine to pregnant women that made them and their female offspring way more likely to get breast cancer. (DES) The side-effects were published, but since it was so widely endorsed, there was an effort to not make it an issue. So it's my hypothesis this way was a great method to take responsibility.. also the statistical likelihood that a woman gets breast cancer in the Netherlands is 1 on 7. A lot of things are about women getting…
/r/MensRights26/10/21 06:12 AM
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I don't think that's the difference. Women are more likely to judge others that show socially undesirable behavior, which kids do. That's kind of the point of raising them. Women are also pretty sucky at handling conflict. Also, less likely to get repercussions after they show undesirable behavior.
/r/MensRights24/09/21 09:15 PM
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Actually rape does happen because people don't know what consent is. Both men and women feel entitled to someone's body when they are in a relationship. I can assure you, a lot of rape happens in friendships and relationships. People are genuinely not too stupid to understand that yes means yes, but don't understand the concept of no means no, for our individual comfort often comes before anything else.
/r/MensRights21/08/21 03:17 PM
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Why is the obvious being ignored. Women were often referred to as Mrs. Man's name and that's why it was registered like that. I would honestly feel honored if my partner went out of his way to support my stuff like this to support our household.
/r/MensRights12/08/21 06:54 AM
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Re-read my original comment and confirm your rephrasing is actually correct. I think we're having a cute Internet argument, but so far you managed to actually interpret words incorrectly, a lot. I'm saying feminists/sexists should ignore social media ran by women (for clarification with that I mean accounts). My argumentation is that women have to big of a political and economical platform. The people who get influenced by that narrative should be encouraged to boycott that narrative. Women ofte…
/r/MensRights24/07/21 10:12 AM
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Social media doesn't imply a whole company should be ignored. Also, as much as I enjoy being called a cunt on the Internet, your intellectual rebuttal didn't mention a solution. You don't convince people by saying they're wrong, but by presenting them a better solution. I take that you switched out 'problem solving 101' for 'least creative insults ever'. Also, you're naive to believe that you should play sweet. There is literally a war against men's rights going on. Oppression, psychological war…
/r/MensRights24/07/21 09:48 AM
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Correct, it is. There is a huge power imbalance. Men might run companies more often, women dictate the economy. Because the run the economy they have a political voice. I'm in favor of everyone having a voice and a vote, I'm not in favor of women creating a narrative where they believe to have a lack of rights. A narrative that gets condoned because of their influence, caused by economic power. In order for equality to happen, discrimination either has to stop or you have to offer men the same b…
/r/MensRights24/07/21 08:51 AM
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Boycotting social media ran by women helps. That's what I stated.
/r/MensRights24/07/21 08:12 AM
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Logically there will be less women than men. Women in general are less into politics, men's rights are politics, as to where feminism is just fiction. Also the reason you see very few women shy away from feminism. Unless they find a decent partner. Then all will be forgotten. Men's rights as well. Also, to answer the question. Yes, I'm woman. But to answer the implication. Me being pro men's rights won't help you a bit. Encouraging feminists/sexists to ignore social media ran by women will help …
/r/MensRights23/07/21 12:54 PM
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I think we are missing the point. India is a rape country, I think the perpetrators of violent, public rape crimes, are mostly men. How do you think they end up there? The last government research in India to touch on the issue was carried out in 2007, when 53.2% of children reported having experienced some form of sexual abuse. Of those, 52.9% were boys. And Insia Dariwala is investigating links between unresolved male trauma and its impact in later life, after an online survey of 160 Indian me…
/r/MensRights09/07/21 06:48 PM
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Well of course you tell your kids not to rape. When they are like of the age of the talk, you sit them down. You go like: vjayjay and peepee, but only if you both want it. And also.. Use a rubber. Instead of talking about rape parents should talk about healthy boundaries and consent. In every aspect and not just sexually.
/r/MensRights09/07/21 06:31 PM
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Boys don't get discriminated because of immaturity, even though people would put it like that. Girls hit puberty earlier, which (as I have experienced in my surroundings) results in a different relationship with physical activity and desire to be perceived as more mature. Which makes them imitate older girls/women. I don't think they are more mature. Their interests just shift to what is a big part of adult womanhood (sexual market value). For guys that shift seems to be more gradual, as well as…
/r/MensRights09/07/21 03:29 AM
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New study says men are normal humans that experience trauma symptoms as a result of abuse.
/r/MensRights06/07/21 05:49 AM
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I wonder about fictional problems all the time. My relationship goes like this (I work, hubby is my housewife-man): "hey, I have a busy day today, I'm not doing anything, I would like you to make dinner, if you can't, you should order me take out." I come home, get dinner and we watch a movie. And some days he's exhausted and I take shit of his hands. I seriously think people suffer from communication problems and keep score all the time.
/r/MensRights03/07/21 05:30 PM
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I sometimes laugh at the fact that women's rights and feminism became a thing after centuries of men being forced to sacrifice themselves for country and family. Now that men have slightly better living conditions (meaning: not dying at 16 because war and slave labor) women want to draw a comparison.
/r/MensRights02/07/21 07:53 PM
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As a 30 year old woman I'm just thinking two things. intercourse with kids: gross im glad i take skin care and health seriously
/r/MensRights01/07/21 08:01 PM
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This post is OPs response to literally denying rape. Guy doesn't want sex. Girl rapes him for 15 seconds. Revoking consent and not giving it are two different things. The post in itself is good. If only OP didn't consider 2 completely different things the same. By that logic anyone who is content with 10 seconds of intercourse can just.. rape.
/r/MensRights26/06/21 04:05 PM
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I agree, BUT all the men are borderline psychotic too. Keep watching :).
/r/MensRights26/06/21 03:05 PM
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He can't start healing until he moves away. It's goed that he hasn't, because the worst is yet to come. Create a stable household. You both need it. Positive interactions; compliment each other every day. Structure; no alcohol, drugs, unhealthy food or too little sleep. Lead by example. When the PTSD really hits hard this will save his mental health on the long run. Don't encourage him to be the breadwinner. Healing from a lifetime of abuse is a fulltime job. I as a woman pushed through it and I…
/r/MensRights26/06/21 02:12 PM
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I think it's pathetic that the worth of human life became a point of argument. We are not talking about inavoidable casualties or whatever. We are talking about the right to have access mental healthcare. Reminds me of Hitlerthings and KKK things. Arbitrary reasoning why someone isn't worth enough to save or let live. If half as many people would argue for mental health care, we would be looking at a bright future. I hope everyone, suicidal or not, has access to a good support system.
/r/MensRights26/06/21 09:24 AM
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As a woman who has been abused as a child and adult, I find this statement ridiculous and offensive on every level.
/r/MensRights25/06/21 11:17 AM
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Everyone is entitled to an opinion. Wouldn't touch her with a ten feet pole. She doesn't seem too bright
/r/MensRights06/06/21 08:33 AM
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If anything it's the positive promotion of women also serving their country. Dying for your country shouldn't be a man's sole responsibility.
/r/MensRights05/06/21 06:28 PM
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That's a fascinating statement. I'm not in the business of changing your opinion. I'm just against learned helplessness and sexism against both genders. I consider some worldviews morally wrong considering my framework. That's not the issue here though. I'm having issues with the statement that you don't seem mind the animal testing for cosmetics. Look, I'm not even against animal testing, depending on the cause, but for cosmetics? You'd buy from them for their social agenda even if that's pro a…
/r/MensRights26/05/21 08:20 PM
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Also is it really true that 97% of women have been sexually assaulted? I think everyone in their lives (male or female) feels violated or unsafe, emotionally, physically, both. Feeling unsafe doesn't mean that you're objectively unsafe and that lack of differentiation is driving me nuts. I've been raped, as a woman, a guy I know was also raped. I can tell you, we developed similar mental health problems and even though I would feel unsafe at times before it happened (I was 16 when it happened), …
/r/MensRights26/05/21 10:01 AM
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Conclusion: relationships are all about compromises, from both sides. Stupidity gets rewarded with unhappiness and divorce. If you have this dynamic going on in your relationship: communicate and/or seek help.
/r/MensRights17/05/21 12:50 PM
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Shaming is a big word. I'm childfree by choice due to a beautiful range of mental disorders running on both in my family as well as my partner's family. I think it's a morbid curiosity for other women to push the topic. It's weird, it's not relatable and given I'm still in my fertile years yeah I could change my mind. So of course people say: "you'll change your mind," or "you'll see in a few years," I think that's kind of normal. As long as you're fertile and having sex you can have children. S…
/r/MensRights07/12/20 01:24 PM
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You chose to do something dumb at 14, being pressured by friends... You weren't manipulated into it by anyone older who might hold a position of authority. Both are objectively bad, but the impact of abuse to great extent is about mental trauma. Which often entails a power imbalance. Also actually women are more 'vulnerable' (read: physically less strong), than men, physically. Boys are more vulnerable than girls, physically. They are more likely to fall victim to violent abuse.
/r/MensRights02/12/20 03:24 AM
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One of the most attractive guys I know is 5'3 (160 cm). Also next time. Bluntly you would definitely not be the side hoe of her. In certain circles sex might be a topic used jokingly, but she's literally mentioning I would have sex/not have sex with this person because of this. I think that's slightly inappropriate. So even though I get that you're hurt, you should definitely put it in the right perspective and decide if you really want to let idiots hurt your feelings. Because it's seriously an…
/r/MensRights20/11/20 06:20 AM
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Women choose to work part-time from an earlier age. Women are also more likely to get a degree. Getting a degree > working part-time.. in many countries schooling is state funded. So women needing social support after not taking financial responsibility would be actually women's fault. No matter what kind of social support we're talking about.
/r/MensRights04/11/20 06:35 AM
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They're not seperate beasts. They are connected and horrible and women are to blame for it. My father-in-law is an antisocial drug dealer. Let's say he's an antihero. My mother-in-law, while he was already a criminal, dated him, married and had children with him. So my partner grew up with the conception that violence was power. He's too timid to be violent, but still.. Who'd be to blame here? My partner for being morally reprehensible or his mother who is mentally 'normal' who has exposed him t…
/r/MensRights02/11/20 08:27 AM
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I’ve always wondered, what exactly makes some people disregard the obvious and overwhelming negative qualities of these characters and think of them as personal heroes? Now you proceed to assume that men have this trait more often than women, despite women being the overwhelming majority when it comes to romanticizing and/or glorifying serial killers. Also violent criminals often don't have a problem getting pussy. Well, I personally believe that the idolization of the male anti-hero is what hap…
/r/MensRights02/11/20 06:37 AM
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It's normal to ask the person who is distressed if they are okay. Regardless of gender. That's not progress, that's normal if the situation allows it, as long as you don't get hurt in the process.
/r/MensRights02/11/20 06:11 AM
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Nah, she's not saying that, she's saying that despite having money, she prefers being a prostitute. Which means whoever she ends up with, they'll deserve each other.
/r/MensRights02/11/20 06:03 AM
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Domestic abuse by men, imagine: "well, women chose that partner." Signing up for something doesn't mean you sign up for lasting negative consequence. Point out that men have less choices because they tend to cover the extreme ends of intelligence, so career prospects are poorer. Point out as well that normalizing workplace deaths is therefore a negative consequence because of how they've been raised.
/r/MensRights16/09/20 06:17 AM
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That's actually because she wasn't his biological mother. It was a poor choice of words nonetheless
/r/MensRights16/09/20 06:12 AM
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Generalized statements; the best advertising for a nuanced problem.
/r/MensRights14/09/20 08:10 AM
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Nah, that's crap. I express my opinions strongly and people still think I'm nasty. And I'm not horribly weird, just horribly pragmatic. People just hate opinions, except for their own. ​ Edit: I don't scream hysterically or get emotional, most of the time, unless I have PMS. PMS sucks.
/r/MensRights14/09/20 08:06 AM
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You also get that reaction when you get murdered, well, right before. Don't get murdered.
/r/MensRights14/09/20 08:04 AM
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Well, it's not mansplaining, but the guy had a dumb opinion. And they were both dumb enough to actually take an irrelevant argument that far. I feel they are quite a good match. Stupidest thing I read all day, and it's 10 AM.
/r/MensRights14/09/20 08:01 AM
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Depends on your country. Over here having kids with your GF puts you at a higher risk to lose your kid when you break up. See a lawyer about a good prenup and what you can do to protect yourself and what you won't be able to protect. From there you can make the best decision. I'm a woman and I'd never marry without a prenup. No matter who has the money. No matter your gender. Always get a prenup.
/r/MensRights31/08/20 02:54 AM
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Sex sells and men buy it. So maybe you should put the blame where it's due. I think men are oppressed, but men are a huge reason women have this much economic power. Women are often not capable of financially supporting themselves independently, yet dictate a majority of the consumer market, on every level accept for 'on paper'. So maybe both men and women should start boycotting the power imbalance that favors women, we're all financing and supporting it. Start reading up on the companies that …
/r/MensRights17/08/20 08:19 AM
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I'm baffled that people are stupid enough to forget that a prenup is a thing.
/r/MensRights17/08/20 08:08 AM
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The fact you're blindly agreeing with me makes me worried. I hope it's just trolling, but looking at your history you seem just.. young. I'm sorry for being too harsh on you. You don't have to support men's rights, but there's more places out there for you than just blindly following the feminist movement because you feel alienated from the general public because of your sexual identity. Looking at your post history I can see why you struggle. I really hope you understand that you need to put yo…
/r/MensRights12/08/20 01:59 AM
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Yeah, men had more power and women had more protection. Historically speaking life has been without much rights for women but has been absolutely brutal for men. Men fought wars, men were often sole providers for their families; many working and dying in mines, men had the power to abandon their families, but rarely did, despite that meaning they'd forever live in poverty. Only after the industrialization the average man generated more economic power and had better work conditions. Until then no…
/r/MensRights12/08/20 01:41 AM
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It's more about how men's displays of 'normal' emotion expressed in an extreme way draw an abnormal amount of attention if you compare it to women's. For example. Many women will recall exactly what I mean when I mention Tom Cruise at the Oprah show. In which he claimed to be madly in love with Katie. I've seen women acting crazier than that though and that's not memorable, it seems. Mental illness is often met with humor, because people can't relate otherwise, nor can they take it in. But menta…
/r/MensRights10/08/20 10:04 AM
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Countering every argument with an unrelated counterargument. Men die more often in the workplace. Yeah, but women get discriminated in the workplace.. the inability to make accurate comparisons is so.. lame
/r/MensRights10/08/20 09:55 AM
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Yeah.. that's because fat women were once fat children. As a fat woman I remember that trauma of being bullied. Difference is that I do remember it was mostly girls excluding me... Not boys.
/r/MensRights10/08/20 09:53 AM
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They do have that. Mostly I'm on board with this sub. But most of these documentaries, also about men, are simply about the insane system the US has in place. Netflix has a series called: 'I am a killer', which is about people on death row or long sentences, mostly men and how they got there. In case of the jail system in the US I don't care about gender, I care about the failures of CPS, mental healthcare being inaccessible, exclusivity of education, large scale addiction and poverty. Most of t…
/r/MensRights10/08/20 02:42 AM
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I can't lobby enough that victims of rape should be not blindly believed.
/r/MensRights08/08/20 09:24 AM
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Even though it resonates, I do find it pretty hilarious that the profile picture is an anime character. It feels like a joke.
/r/MensRights19/02/20 10:46 AM
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I say partner instead of boyfriend to make people question my sexual orientation. It's fun.
/r/MensRights14/02/20 09:52 AM
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There's a huge problem in feminism and that is the logistics of thinking. They get on track, pick something they want to change, think about it and then run themselves into a mental wall of stupid. For example workcultures. Women dominate the workforce through economic power, because they on average spend more money than men. Also traditionally speaking women are more active in raising children. That means that through economic power they can change cultures by boycotting the companies they don'…
/r/MensRights14/02/20 09:05 AM
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Funny thing is that the entitlement act reflects badly on qualified women. Discrimination based on gender shouldn't be a thing. Employers should invest in a culture of equality, where both genders can excel (if they want to).
/r/MensRights14/02/20 08:24 AM
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Or they have libido problems caused by the patriarchy.
/r/MensRights07/02/20 11:27 AM
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Every woman knows and that is the problem. Psychological research suggests that people who feel they'll get away with something are more likely to commit the act. Identities of the accused (famous or not) should be protected until they're objectively proven guilty. I'm not saying women are bad, but it's getting easy becoming a 'bad woman' with society backing your every (immoral) move.
/r/MensRights06/02/20 11:13 AM
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So what about abusive lesbians?
/r/MensRights06/02/20 09:11 AM
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Let's redefine "toxic masculinity" instead. I propose: '(arbitrary) behavioural patterns that are completely natural and are either likeable or dislikeable, just like one would see in women.'
/r/MensRights30/01/20 10:56 AM
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I have PMDD and going to work and going home and even fucking existing sucks 10 days a month. It's like acute borderline (not a joke). Glad I found the part of the internet that doesn't deny science (like r/twoxchromosomes).
/r/MensRights17/12/19 09:15 PM
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"Behind every great man stands a strong woman." A woman who doesn't know how to lift up a man, to encourage him to be his best self, doesn't deserve a good man. So, I see no problem here.
/r/MensRights11/10/19 08:42 AM
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That's horrible, not to mention the message you give your kids as a mom, by throwing a tantrum when you don't get your way. It's sad when people try to take more than they deserve, or feel entitled to things. Especially at the expense of someone they love. It's pretty nasty for someone to just assume their partner is avoiding the kids. And yeah, you're right about a harmonious relationship. It means that you stop assuming that someone has ill intentions, until they actually prove they do. Very n…
/r/MensRights28/09/19 06:44 PM
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I hope you never ever break off a friendship again for your partner. It's almost at all times the starting signal of emotional abuse. I'd like to say a cat is a small price to pay, but it isn't. It was your cat. I hope that she miraculously dumps the cat on your doorstep one day. I hope noone ever has babies with that woman. Wouldn't want them to end up in a basement.
/r/MensRights28/09/19 02:47 PM
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I'm tempted to believe that this is a joke. I hope this is a joke. You can even do Zumba at home. That would be the weirdest priority ever.
/r/MensRights28/09/19 02:43 PM
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It must have really hurt nonetheless. I'm really sorry to hear that.
/r/MensRights28/09/19 02:42 PM
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That's brutal. I'm glad you kicked her out. Noone deserves a (ex-)partner that tells them to go kill themselves. That's disgusting. That shows what you're worth to her when she messes up/doesn't get her way. It's absolutely unacceptable to say something like that, even in the heat of the moment. I hope you never have to experience someone like that again, whether that would be romantically or platonically.
/r/MensRights28/09/19 02:41 PM
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I really enjoyed this discuss, until it took a little bit of a childish turn. I'm wondering about something though. In the beginning was mentioned that a lot of MRA 'influencers' are females. I in no way actively look up information about the issue, because every day life gives me all the examples I need. I'd would like to ask who you'd call the biggest MRA influencers? Both male and female. Personally I believe that there's very little female activists in general who are appealing and I avoid t…
/r/MensRights23/09/19 04:58 AM
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Because guys are taught from a young age to accommodate women and to always play nice with them. Then they grow into horny teenagers that will do anything for pussy. Then they grow up into nice adults and still believe in the values they have been brought up with. And with that, we raise woman to expect that treatment. Being a housewife has never been this easy. Everything is pretty much automated. But women are still twisting and turning like it's the heaviest thing in existence. Yes, it's diff…
/r/MensRights20/09/19 11:09 PM
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This is bullshit. Those little men have often been abused by their fathers or mothers, with either of them as bystanders. The fault is in individualism. The lack of community standing up to abusers, both male and female abusers, and victimizing children in the process. The isolation of an individual that often is already there before the abuse. Most men don't go out and think 'let me go abuse a woman'. Most men don't know when they abuse. In very many cases rapists don't even know they raped a w…
/r/MensRights26/07/19 06:06 PM
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My partner is extremely privileged, on paper. He comes from a rich family, extremely social/charismatic, is white, attractive and has a high IQ. At the moment he's sitting at home with PTSD and the possibility of a brain injury that has never been diagnosed. His family consistently went for the 'he's a guy, he's wild, he's reckless, etc. His sister is the only one with a problem'. Despite them having the same symptoms (PTSD) plus my partner shows all the symptoms of either ADHD or brain damage o…
/r/MensRights26/07/19 02:54 PM
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It's not even emotions over logic. It's the neglect of considering the basic structure of society as a whole while trying to influence one part. The worst thing is that there is no arguing stupidity.
/r/MensRights26/07/19 01:05 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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