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Social IssuesPorpoise555/r/MensRights20/03/23 11:02 PM
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8

I'm desperate and still wouldn't date a girl with OF. It's like nothing is really "yours" to begin with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/23 10:23 PM
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I would say they are both preferences and shouldn't be shamed.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 02:24 AM
29

That's not necessarily sexist? not anymore sexist than a real man should have a six pack and be six foot.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 10:32 PM
2

Thanks :) And I don't mean to say that women are bad. It's like how men would cheat if they were allowed to, women are allowed to play the field essentially, it's become socially acceptable and even encouraged. Maybe one day I will find a girl who is fine with my looks and income and can show me that but I'm not holding on to hope. It's better for my mental health to accept my situation.
/r/MensRights05/04/23 10:27 PM
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Same reason I don't play the lottery lol, I'll most likely lose. But beyond that not interested in dating. I believe most women tend to always seek to "upgrade" their man and their lifestyle, and I don't want that kind of pressure to retain a partner. I end up getting emotionally attached to people so I feel like I'd be setting myself up for heart break.
/r/MensRights05/04/23 08:55 PM
6

I agree I would probably even attack the dude honestly. Even tho I won't ever approach women for any reason ever again, I still don't want anyone to get away with that bullshit.
/r/MensRights05/04/23 07:50 PM
1

Totally agree, I think its attempting to shame male sexuality than it is to empower women.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 06:16 PM
1

Lol based
/r/MensRights21/03/23 06:15 PM
1

I agree it is actually about a person's character not their gender or sex. Well said
/r/MensRights21/03/23 06:13 PM
2

I'm curious how that applies to women characters in TV, or video games. So because a fake character doesn't consent to being objectified we need to make her ugly..
/r/MensRights21/03/23 11:48 AM
1

It's dm me on tinder or insta and if your rich and handsome I'll let you buy me dinner and go from there. That's it, the only REAL option we have. Maybe college parties are still acceptable but once you graduate, good luck.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 12:52 AM
10

There are angry guys here no doubt, most of us aren't. We just want compassion like anyone else. The problem with feminists I've found is they don't want compassion unless you completely agree with them. For me I never throw insults but have been insulted A LOT just for starting my opinion. I think feminists want to incite men, get them very mad so they can point at them and say "see he's toxic" well of course he is, he has emotions that people purposely exploit.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 12:46 AM
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That's why angry men need to be approached with compassion first. I do the same to feminists. I never throw an insult, unless someone seriously attempts to hurt my feelings in a big way. You won't change a person's mind by attacking them, that will only reinforce them. You also won't ever be able to change everyone's mind.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 12:43 AM
15

Yeah well said, delusional men are our worst enemies. I am confident that one day these men will realize their delusion. They will become a victim or they will be neglected and they will look for someone to blame. Then hopefully they can grow beyond just a victim.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 12:35 AM
5

Your post is too. Thank you for the support
/r/MensRights21/03/23 12:31 AM
6

For a long time I wasn't good. I reached a point in my isolation where I just don't care anymore. Men are 50% of the world, women need us more than we need them unless you want children. I personally don't. I think giving the world my child especially if he is male, would give the world another slave and help the system while hurting the child. I got my dog. Dogs understand what loyalty means, what love means. I live life in my little bubble. Kind of like watching a dumpster fire except I'm insi…
/r/MensRights21/03/23 12:28 AM
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Yeah like let's just be honest everyone is an object to everyone else until we get to know the person. I mean I walk into a coffee shop I am instantly profiled. Nobody is thinking, "don't profile him he's a guy and probably a great guy with lots to offer!" An attractive woman without any context is just that, a sexually attractive woman. As a man we would have to undue millenia of evolution for that to change.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 12:02 AM
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It seems these people are just scared of human nature. Our biology, how we've evolved, our primal urges... these people are in denial of what being an animal on this planet means. I mean sure we can all work to keep ourselves in check, but even exploring a fictional artform that exposes parts of the human experience makes them uncomfortable. It's a delusion that makes them feel safer. Like religions asking parents to ban violent video games
/r/MensRights20/03/23 11:55 PM
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They couldn't explain anything. I try to understand but they just say things like "found one" and "this old argument again.." Like they are just so sick of explaining it.. well ok then don't expect people to agree with you if you can't eloquently explain your point of view.
/r/MensRights20/03/23 11:24 PM
48

They just give the stupid.. Men caused the wars so why should women fight men's wars. I don't think they understand that power causes warlords and if women had all the power there would still be war.. Also the men fighting also didn't start any wars.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 05:40 PM
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80% of divorce is initiated by women. It's not cheating necessarily and it could mean the husband cheated but that is a high figure and I think it does have something to do with loyalty.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 03:33 AM
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Yeah if you were looking around for a seat I'd give you one. I'd feel like an asshole if I didn't lol. Then again nobody has a conscience anymore.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 03:22 AM
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Are you? Look around you. There are tons of people who aren't in relationships. Whether u perceive as good or bad the fact is humans are evolving apart. I refuse to mope and be sad. I am a good person I have a dog and I have God (more in a spiritual sense). If someone wants to be a part of my life fine but I'm not gonna stress about it.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 12:08 PM
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Relationships aren't worth it for me. Too much hastle. If one forms naturally I'll consider it. Don't wanna catch feelings and be replaced later on. It would be nice to split costs but that's not a good reason to seek one out. I don't believe people actually care about each other but rather what the other person provides to them. Relationships have become too transactional. I actually am perfectly content.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 10:09 PM
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I do agree except a "quality" man is a pretty large accomplishment these days because of what the average woman expects from a partner. Men have expectations to, but most men cant be choosy. What ends up happening is women climbing the totem pole and leaving the average man behind. I don't hate women I don't have disdain for them but if you want a relationship right now, you need to be aware that even if you choose to be faithful and loyal, there is a good chance when the relationship goes throu…
/r/MensRights07/03/23 11:54 PM
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I didn't see any hate here? Relationships are extremely challenging for men these days as women hold all the power, another man is always a dm away.
/r/MensRights07/03/23 11:11 PM
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Nah just be tall muscular attractive and rich
/r/MensRights07/03/23 11:07 PM
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I'm borderline disabled. I have an autoimmune condition and got covid back in May 2020 and have lingering nerve pain and fatigue (long covid). I'm 35 and barely have energy to work full time. But I'm content, I'm fairly introverted. But in my lifetime I do feel had I been a women I'd have had more opportunities but yeah... not gonna make excuses for any bad choice I made. I'm trying to find a way to make some income but my brain is fried from covid and just have no motivation. The same things th…
/r/MensRights05/03/23 10:30 PM
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I have made a poor decision or two, but most of my issues are because I am somewhat unattractive and a man. I honestly believe that. I have no motivation because I can't see myself being happier with a lot of money or a girlfriend. I think that says something. I am not trying to play the victim here, I am honestly just all set with participating in society.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 08:15 PM
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I have digestive problems since I was 26 and while I have always been pretty skinny, it's now incredibly more difficult to put weight on. Otherwise i am tall, handsome, hygienic, employed, down to earth etc.. I can tell you dating apps for me have become a literal waste of time. I swipe yes on probably 70% of the women too. At this point I feel I need to get actually rich. But inside I'm thinking why bother? I am happy as I am and how I choose to live, what purpose should I put in all this work …
/r/MensRights05/03/23 07:36 PM
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Gonna go with yes. Most porn watchers are insecure men, insecure men often don't even bother putting themselves out there. But take away the escapism, coupled with an insanely competitive dating scene due to social media and dating apps... that's a lot of horny guys who have no choice but go out and try to get laid.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 06:57 PM
1

Women hate being cat called or approached in public, well let's just say that won't get any better.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 06:48 PM
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Jeez bro relax I'm generally happy
/r/MensRights05/03/23 03:45 PM
1

I'm not even technically opposed to unrealistic fights where a smaller women beats up a guy depending on context. The issue for me is that while this is becoming so common, there are no strong male characters for boys and men to appreciate. They are "phasing" those out.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 11:02 PM
1

Eh I disagree. Porn is also an outlet. Without it, sexual frustrations will be higher and thats not a good thing.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 10:57 PM
1

Quality of human interaction these days is more of the problem than the porn. I challenge anyone to argue that. Relationships these days are baseless, utilitarian, transactional, functional. People will fake love and affection as long as their material and physical needs are met to the highest standard. As soon as you can be replaced. Poof. Nobody stands by their partner anymore. Everyone is disposable. You may get lucky, but for many its not worth the hassle. Human nature is overcoming our sens…
/r/MensRights04/03/23 10:54 PM
2

So does literally anything we consume. Social media, food, drugs, alcohol, video games, Netflix. Banning fun is always the solution to a problem
/r/MensRights04/03/23 10:48 PM
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Cut the porn off. Your ED will resolve itself. I wish this common knowledge but it seems like people forget that it works. Stop stimulating your dopamine constantly so that when sex happens your dopamine works correctly. People treat porn like opiates. Like once you watch it your hooked for life.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 10:45 PM
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Explain then why custody battles favor women, women get less jail time for similar crimes, men take the most dangerous jobs, only men register for draft, boys are falling behind in schools, majority of homeless are men, majority of suicides are men, nobody cares about these issues because if you start to care about these issues, people believe you are taking away from feminist issues. Meaning it's only equality they are after when it benefits women. If equality stands to benefit men, it becomes …
/r/MensRights04/03/23 10:26 PM
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Objectification is literally human nature. Are we really saying that people don't see men as tools, but only see women as objects..? Please. Men are strong bodies, money trees, or if they have neither they are disposable. Nobody cares how good of a person you are as a man. Nobody cares about your soul, your heart, your goodness. If you out of shape, ugly, poor, you are worthless to society, in general. Thats not my view obviously, but the results are easily seen with male homelessness, lonelines…
/r/MensRights04/03/23 10:14 PM
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That red pill documentary was just wow... real journalism.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 02:08 AM
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If he's anything like me he'll put up with it for too long because even just getting another date is really hard for me let alone another relationship. It's better to be single but it's hard to admit that
/r/MensRights01/03/23 01:19 AM
1

Yeah I've tossed the idea of another relationship in the trash. I can live with just me, I won't betray myself and I don't have to look after anyone. Of course I want to look after others but I want to be appreciated for it and I just feel like the second I make a mistake or don't understand the woman's feelings correctly or something, I'll become the enemy, replaceable.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 02:58 AM
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I understand that. They are also dictatorships. So I think ultimately the country has to create value however I do think citizens need to be taken care of. In reality as a whole corporations do want people to have money and so does the government. More to tax, more to spend on goods and services.... however individual corporations and businesses want to be able to pay their employees as minimum as possible. So what we have is almost all the businesses paying employees as little as possible, even…
/r/MensRights28/02/23 02:42 AM
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It's amazing what can happen when you get people to unify with a common purpose. Things the media, government and the corporations absolutely do not want.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 12:56 AM
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Same thoughts exactly.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 12:53 AM
5

Me too. I still think right wing economics is going to kill the planet and society eventually, so I am more leftist when it comes to unions, and regulating unchecked capitalism and exploitation of workers (mostly men) However, most other topics I've slowly gone more conservative.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 12:51 AM
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Feminine nature is beautiful, it's motherly..and nurturing It's purposely being destroyed and twisted.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 01:03 AM
1

No as it stands now, we live in a very integrated society. I think it would be better for a more even ratio. If you have too much of one and not the other it's just gonna get ugly. Thing is we do we want to become a race of giant muscular Chad's. I mean sure it would be cool I guess, but the world needs other things now too. I guess it depends on how you think humanity should evolve.
/r/MensRights23/02/23 11:02 PM
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Nah bro it's probably because your personality needs work or you don't have good hygiene /s. Def couldn't be any other reason...
/r/MensRights23/02/23 10:58 PM
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Not talking about you personally, this isn't a personal issue it's a societal issue. For instance had men not married and committed to a woman in the past the women would basically be poor or die. Yes society was stacked against women due to evil men, I get that, but the good men protected women who were vulnerable. Most people had relations. Right now, many men are being "left out to dry" now that woman have taken up a massive part of the work force. But women aren't dating them or helping them…
/r/MensRights23/02/23 01:21 PM
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There may be some who would. But it's so risky to fall in love because the chance that someone sees you for your superficial utility is super high. What are relationships even based on anymore... its too risky. I have trust issues.
/r/MensRights23/02/23 01:10 PM
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Women absolutely hate when you bring this up, like they are trying so hard not to believe they do this. And not all do, but majority probably do. It's why we don't see couples where women make more, and often this is blamed on the man not wanting to make less which might be true for "alpha" dudes but most men don't care, I can almost say that for certain.
/r/MensRights23/02/23 01:08 PM
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Criticism and hating aren't the same thing. And at least this op knows his bias isn't real and needs to change.
/r/MensRights23/02/23 01:05 PM
8

They shame rich handsome men for being picky but completely average looking and non working mothers of 2 think they deserve a rich and handsome man.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 05:53 PM
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Society grooms them to be straight. Are we sure that isn't biological? You know.. for the sustainability of the species?
/r/MensRights10/02/23 09:00 PM
1

Gotta love echo chambers
/r/MensRights06/02/23 05:18 PM
5

I am skinny and honestly not attracting any women here either. Seems to me it gets harder everyday for normal guys without perfect body types.
/r/MensRights06/02/23 01:19 PM
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Hahah sheesh them women on there are cold as ice. Change men to any other group and watch compassion levels rise exponentially
/r/MensRights05/02/23 10:42 PM
6

Venting as a man is seen as weakness to most women. Even if they aren't aware of it. Fairly sure it's instinctual as a man with problems usually ends up dead in nature, but we aren't in the wild anymore, we are in a society now with multitudes of complexity.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 01:54 AM
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Agree. You get the worst advice on reddit too like "find a different therapist, try a new medication.." It just makes me feel like I'm failing at something else. When in reality, paying someone to listen to you is really only as effective as you think it is, if you believe it will work, good chance it will, but I think most men will be unable to convince themselves that it's working. Men seek comradery, not emotional venting.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 04:07 PM
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Nope just want a world where I am not assumed to be a complete asshole and have to climb uphill to prove I don't hate women or look down on them.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 12:00 AM
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Yea
/r/MensRights13/01/23 01:36 PM
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Women don't like skinny guys either. I'm 6 foot and like 140. I don't have a belly you can see my abs. I don't have much muscle but what I do have you can visibly see due to low body fat. I have a tough time attracting girls and I ld consider myself handsome.
/r/MensRights13/01/23 01:03 AM
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I think you could say that about something less serious but if we look at men and women as equals this is still a much much larger issue for men. And its just as "startling" how tipped the scales are. This post only brings attention to one gender. And imo it's still the wrong gender to point attention to of you are going to point at one in particular...
/r/MensRights31/12/22 06:15 PM
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I dont see a lot of women hating but more complaints about modern women. Nobody is hating on their mothers or grandmothers generations. In fact many here look upon older women much more positively.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 02:54 PM
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I was in a bad spot and honestly the "help" is just bad. Women can vent to many more people in their social circles. Men just... can't. Nobody wants to hear it. So you get a therapist, which is a professional relationship, not a personal one. Most men are depressed due to unfulfilled personal relationships. I feel like the certain men are not going to find an additional professional relationship rewarding, nor are many men going to find mental gymnastics a replacement for a purpose and fulfillin…
/r/MensRights22/12/22 01:16 PM
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This is my problem, I want a loving relationship with a women but I have been burned so bad and I see the way they treat my friends and people online and I just don't trust that woman can love a man for anything other than the lifestyle ($) he provides and whether or not it makes other women jealous.That isn't real love though..
/r/MensRights22/12/22 01:07 PM
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Winner. Men are explorers and we go whichever way we want. If we find people on the same path then great, if not than so be it. As long as we put the ones we love first and stay honorable, I think a true man will sacrifice for his family. Other than that a "real man" title is meaningless.
/r/MensRights17/12/22 11:44 PM
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They come back at you with "nobody owes you sex" despite that being a core concept of intimacy and connecting in a relationship. So basically the woman is threatening to leave you over whatever small insignificant complaint of the day. I can see a woman withholding sex if the dude is being a complete asshole. But not because he didn't fold the towels.
/r/MensRights16/12/22 12:33 AM
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I used to clean up after my wife before she left me too.
/r/MensRights16/12/22 12:31 AM
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I wonder if those kind of women know what love actually is. I think they only love themselves.
/r/MensRights16/12/22 12:25 AM
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Women didn't used to be. The problem with many modern women is they only date guys that make more than them, so they are primarily interested in money, this is basically a fact provided with evidence. In return the woman generally would mother the man's children and remain loyal to the man. This is also not happening in general. Men are to blame here in many ways, but women are the ones with all the power. Women have displaced many men in the workforce yet won't provide for a man. Men get sent t…
/r/MensRights21/11/22 03:23 AM
2

I hung out with my friend and his girlfriend, who both are great people. I do trust both of them and only get positive vibes from her. We were talking about sexism towards men because something on TV prompted a straight white male comment. I said "that's honestly a bit offensive to me" and she says "no you're a good person this isn't directed at you, it's directed at incels and radical sexist men." I tried to make her understand that well, no, it's not specific like that, I mean that's literally…
/r/MensRights21/11/22 01:12 AM
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Women shame each other like this lol
/r/MensRights21/11/22 01:04 AM
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Yep, there is no harm in it because there is CLEARLY no ACTUAL prejudice against being a straight white male, so it's OBVIOUSLY all snarky jokes to get the patriarchy riled up. It will have NO effect on the youth or mens mental health. It's FINE.
/r/MensRights19/11/22 02:53 PM
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They represent the enemy, and they are not attractive. They can't provide anything in these feminists' mind.
/r/MensRights19/11/22 02:48 PM
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If you truthfully allow your boyfriend to be vulnerable sometimes you are a treasure but I'm my experience it's turned people away. I have serious instincts now to bottle everything up.
/r/MensRights19/11/22 02:32 PM
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It's that or be alone. I don't think being a man is healthy lol
/r/MensRights18/11/22 09:20 PM
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Who hurt me? Fuckin women did lol.. Yet here I am. Not sexist at all, I even understand why they did what they did and my part in it as well, however i am just trying to spread awareness and gain some compassion... that's literally all.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 01:20 PM
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I can respect the intention behind this. Kind of sucks I have to hear it from some guy I don't know vs the people "in my life".. while I am home alone on a Friday night wondering why nobody texts me.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 01:16 PM
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If I ever get another relationship again. I am not making the same mistakes. I am going to bottle everything inside. I will be stoic all the time and I know my soul isn't what is important, it's my work and ability to provide. I won't be fooled again, but at the same time, it's almost a curse being male. I mean I wouldn't want to be female for various reasons, I don't identify as a female. I know my soul is male, but damn.. i would love for my soul to be nurtured by a human rather than my faith …
/r/MensRights18/11/22 01:11 PM
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100%
/r/MensRights18/11/22 01:20 AM
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It's become so boring now.. i just finished game of thrones and its crazy to me how nobody finds breann of tarth a strong female lead? Is it becomes she's honorable, respects the traditions of men, respects her teachers and opponents, And is grateful when she EARNS the respect of other knights? These new SFL roles don't have a humble or likeable bone in their body.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 02:55 AM
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Being motherly is a gender role. She was so brave by breaking the mold /s
/r/MensRights16/11/22 02:46 AM
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Women fuck the men they despise and then continue to despise men and wonder where all the good men are. You called them incel because they said they are sad they don't have a girl to love and cherish.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 02:36 AM
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It's what nobody will ever directly tell you and will go out of there way to deny... but it's the truth as it's proven through actions of women everywhere
/r/MensRights16/11/22 02:33 AM
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You sound like you date some winners
/r/MensRights16/11/22 01:53 AM
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Yeah like the guy postponing their vacation because his work demands it or the guy spent too much of the weekend playing a new game on his ps5. I'm kidding of course, but it can many times be petty dumb shit. It's the guys fault too in that situation if he's interested in women like that.
/r/MensRights14/11/22 11:16 PM
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Yes but generally the men wants it more often. Women also commonly withhold it to punish their man if they feel they wronged them. Women withhold sex all the time as a form of manipulation. Very less often do you see this the other way around.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 06:49 PM
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JustPearlyThings hosted by a woman and she is amazing at scrutinizing other womens' arguments because they feel they have to at least hear her out.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 11:24 PM
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Yeah funny thing is though, that women choose the winners, and they choose men who are "alphas' and kill there feelings. Lol they prop up the very thing they hate.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 11:20 PM
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Here in the US, women don't date men who make less than them, even though women make up a huge portion of the job market.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 07:11 PM
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By give, I mean sex does not occur unless the women wants to give it, women control the sexual relationship. Men only recieve sex as a gift. I meant nothing of it being forced or expected.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 03:06 PM
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Funny though before women entered the work force men provided for women who didn't have a large income or any income. Women aren't providing for men, so not only do many men not get relationships, they are being pushed out of the job market. Have you seen the movie the Joker? It's a good indication of where society is headed when men are lonely and forgotten. They begin to resent society and resentment in men leads to rebellion.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 03:02 PM
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Society tells men they aren't good enough and are to blame for all the problems in the world. Women give sex to only the attractive and wealthiest. Call anyone who fights for Men's rights an incel to make them feel awful for not attracting women, which is often a man's most vulnerable weak spot. Shatter a large portion of mens pride by attacking their sex life and wonder why the crazies get pushed over the edge... Then men will still take the blame for it.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 11:18 PM
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Depends on what you value. I think society throws away a lot of valuable people simply because what they bring to the table doesn't make someone money. Friends, lovers, free thinkers, people with wisdom, creative people, true leaders... Society can many times filter these people out simply because they are uncharismatic, unattractive, or they can't find their niche. But truth is they might be extremely valuable to the right person or society at large if given a voice.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 11:59 PM
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Most men see youth as attractive just like women find taller men attractive or any other metric of attractiveness that is superficial. Who cares? We are all judged and selected on things we can't control. Men with average bodies and average salaries are not married men in long term relationships.. unless maybe you are thinking about older generations where dating took place in the real world. And men felt comfortable speaking with women in public or at work. 1/3 of men haven't been with a women …
/r/MensRights23/10/22 03:48 PM
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Men like tate are the ones getting women, as unfortunate as that is its the truth. Women are attracted to muscles, money, and power. Women almost always date a man who makes more than they do, even if the woman does really well for herself. This is of course leaving men without perfect bodies and average incomes, lonely and sexless. Giving tate his audience. Now.. you can have all three and still be a good person sure. But if you do manage that, you'll be an "alpha" and will have multiple women …
/r/MensRights23/10/22 01:40 AM
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I think a good degree of awareness is healthy. I wouldn't want my sisters putting themselves in bad situations. However, it's gotten so bad, you can't even ask suggestive questions like asking a girl "you seem cool, wanna get a coffee after your shift"
/r/MensRights23/10/22 01:33 AM
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The financial yes. If you don't trust your woman, It gives her the opportunity to nit pick the relationship and find herself coming away with assets and just finding a new guy. A common thing I hear, and this isn't all women but there are some gullible men.. is that once a guy gets married the whole relationship paradigm changes, it's like the woman got what she wanted and so doesn't contribute to the relationship as much. Kind of like how men will lie to get laid, women will act differently up …
/r/MensRights23/10/22 01:26 AM
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Unfortunately I'd say that's the reality for being a man. You are only worth what you can provide, and a weak man is seen as lesser. It's actually biology. However this is why humans have spirituality, to transcend our biological instincts. For instance... its not "natural" for you to steal and feel remorse. The fact you feel remorse for stealing is because of our spirituality. However compassion for men has always been in short supply and I think that is because a society with weak men, is a so…
/r/MensRights23/10/22 01:12 AM
3

Thank God the only ones really left in gaming that still try to bring up sexism and gender themes at every turn are gaming journalists.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 01:01 AM
2

We are biologically inclined to, and while religion and family values used to be a way to live outside of our biological tendencies for the good of society, we are slowly casting those types of values aside.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 01:10 AM
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Humanity really needs to have more compassion for everyone. When feminism is correct, it's correct, you feel it in your heart to be true. When it's spouting hate or division, the people that try to disseminate it as truth i feel must have some level of hate inside.
/r/MensRights14/10/22 02:04 AM
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Welcome to clown world. Where everyone who sucks control everyone else's opinions through propaganda censorship.
/r/MensRights12/10/22 02:39 AM
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They use delusion as a shield and think we are taking rights away from them. They literally see it that way.
/r/MensRights12/10/22 02:25 AM
3

The whole world will tell you not to be toxic masculine but as soon as you do people will actually respect you. Funny how that works.
/r/MensRights12/10/22 02:18 AM
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Banned because they "obviously" are.
/r/MensRights12/10/22 02:16 AM
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I agree. Most men see women as people. But it's just natural to understand that the more options you have the less likely you are to commit. So men who can have every girl they want tend to cheat or dump them. Fairly sure this is statistically proven
/r/MensRights09/10/22 10:38 PM
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All I know is I am a 5 or 6/10 guy looking for my 5/10 girl. I'll accept single moms, any body type except super obese, large age range and at least mildly attractive. You'd think I'm asking for Kim Kardashian
/r/MensRights09/10/22 02:25 AM
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Yep or the guys who downvoted me "found their perfect match" after putting the hard work in and developing social skills.. blah blah.. wait a few years and tell me if your girl is still around or whether she decided this dude in her dms is more rich and handsome and "actually listens to her". Lol
/r/MensRights08/10/22 09:49 PM
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Well said. You need to be keep hate out of the equation, because when you meet an actual strong positive woman you will know it.
/r/MensRights08/10/22 04:55 PM
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I agree it's bad to blanket stroke a group like that. In fact many older women I find quite endearing and strong. Much more so than younger women. It seems that women are being told they are perfect and all of their flaws are constantly forgiven and looked past so they never really learn a lot of life's important lessons.
/r/MensRights08/10/22 04:45 PM
2

A man never stops improving himself and never abandons those he loves.
/r/MensRights08/10/22 04:41 PM
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I just got banned from dating reddit for saying that women date top 15% of men thinking they are going into long term relationships but most of these guys will leave them as they have so many options, most of the girls are just used for quick flings. Somehow that is controversial and women hating despite it both true and detrimental and the fault of both genders.
/r/MensRights08/10/22 04:30 PM
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I probably eat more than you, and I do lift. I don't gain wait, period. I eat all the time and I spend a lot of money on food. I don't even eat out.
/r/MensRights01/10/22 07:48 PM
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Yep. I have an autoimmune disease, so I'm skinny. I am tall and handsome tho. Salary is average. If I cold approach to women you'd think I was Quasimodo. Even girls I am friendly with are not interested at all. I am not perfect nor do I claim to be. But I am not shooting for the top % of women here... I would gladly accept a woman with flaws and baggage. And yet here I am, an "incel" because I say things like "if women want to find love, they need to look at other qualities in men and not judge …
/r/MensRights01/10/22 02:48 PM
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If they were I wouldn't play those. They are fine, just because crazy feminists disagree. There might be a small percentage that are sexist but not the majority at all.
/r/MensRights01/10/22 03:53 AM
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I'm banned there too lol
/r/MensRights24/09/22 09:44 PM
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I agree :)
/r/MensRights15/09/22 11:04 AM
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True a lot of earlier feminist literature I agree with, a lot of it had male readers in mind actually. Nowadays you'd have to be a masochist to visit the feminist section as a self respecting man.
/r/MensRights15/09/22 01:24 AM
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No I agree with what you stand for, I'm saying the UN page on suicide, you can't expect an international agency to put a spotlight on one gender on a generalized suicide page. Imo they should make a separate statement on all of men's issues, as it is a subset of that. That's all I am saying. I will say, if the UN has a page on rape, I don't think they should go into highlighting female victim only statistics either.
/r/MensRights15/09/22 01:20 AM
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I wouldn't say ops question is sexist, even I am concerned with random dudes on the street but viewing a girl as a potential false accuser is definitely something you should also be weary of.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 11:44 PM
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Eh... nah. Especially when, as a man, I tend to do the same.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 11:42 PM
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Lol that thumbnail... Men have no expectations to be perfect, yet like only 1/3 or 4 men is having sex. What the fuck
/r/MensRights14/09/22 11:41 PM
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This isn't an informative piece on men's issues though, it's a human issue.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 11:39 PM
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I know it looks bad but hear me out. If you are perhaps a suicidal woman reading that, and they say most are men..and it has this sympathetic lean towards males.. might make you feel even worse. Now that isn't rational, I know, but you have to think about everyone who reads it. I think there is a time and a place to bring up that statistic. I've personally known a female who committed suicide and when you are that depressed, you are equally deserving of sympathy.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 11:36 PM
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I think its good you have empathy but most women find weakness completey unattractive. I've confided in females but that makes them unattracted to me, this isn't a myth...the men who attract the most women admit to never showing weakness. It works because it does. And once they find a guy, I'm chop sliver.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 11:30 PM
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Just bring a sign with #killallmen and tell them to explain how it's not misandry and watch the gymnastics. Ask them how are small boys growing up supposed to feel when they see it? Are they supposed to understand the supposed "snarky " humor? Why is no other group allowed to be the subject of even lighthearted jokes, but your allowed to joke about literally killing men.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 11:25 PM
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Honestly.. I've felt this recently. Women seem to have lost their empathy. I feel like the only time you will get empathy out of a woman is if someone you were close to dies. I feel like women view any problem a man is having as weakness. I'm not sure if it was always this way or is this way in other cultures, but I'm just speaking for America. Women always seem to looking for greener pastures rather than cultivate and grow with their current partner. Even the way a lot of women talk about their…
/r/MensRights13/09/22 12:33 AM
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18 to 24 is when I had sex all the time tho with multiple women, after 30 I've had almost none
/r/MensRights13/09/22 12:20 AM
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Just like feminism needs men to push it forward we need compassionate women.
/r/MensRights13/09/22 12:19 AM
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This is straight messed up. With my job, I think I did get some privilege because I have to go into dirty apartments by myself, I have to scold and write violations to tenants, I put myself in a lot of riskier situations and so I think they were happy I was a man. But thats just it, men are chosen to do the jobs that often suck ass to do.
/r/MensRights13/09/22 12:13 AM
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Seems sketchy. She should spend her time trying to get on assistance or maybe get a job that pays enough to afford a car and a babysitter. I mean you could just crush up a regular advil in a thing of applesauce? Instead you gotta meet some random off the internet and use whatever inherent value you have by virtue of being female? What a wierdo, definitely not wife material
/r/MensRights12/09/22 01:02 AM
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He's saying the argument is stupid all around. You can use statistics and twist them to make a statement sound convincing
/r/MensRights07/09/22 11:33 PM
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Its spreading hate, except this kind is socially acceptable
/r/MensRights07/09/22 11:31 PM
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The media, the school systems, the judicial systems are all feminist
/r/MensRights07/09/22 11:16 PM
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I'd say it's honorable if you choose to but I'd still say it's not your responsibility to deal with it as a customer. Or maybe it would be if you saw the whole thing and it was looking like the guy was in some serious trouble. But I'm not going to guilt trip OP for not jumping in on a whim especially since I wasn't there.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 02:28 AM
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Better question is what is Lawful assault?
/r/MensRights06/09/22 12:57 AM
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The way i personally view things, and i don't expect everyone to agree, but in combat scenarios I would say I am OK that men are viewed as expendable. Traditionally this also earned us some respect and was seen as honorable and noble, now not as much... In general though, for instance government aid, men's mental health, the perception and treatment of men in society we should not accept being viewed as expendable just because we are men.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 02:00 AM
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Yep, "just treat her right" in actuality this comes into play after many more hidden requirements are met.
/r/MensRights03/09/22 09:41 PM
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Hopefully you make more money than her in the end.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 03:27 PM
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Yep same. I must have shown "weakness" too many times despite basically full on supporting her financially and emotionally. For 12+ years.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 02:18 PM
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I think I have a better chance of getting struck by lightning
/r/MensRights02/09/22 02:14 AM
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Which is all I really want in a relationship so why bother? I can get a realitic sexdoll online lol I don't need one as my partner.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 02:00 AM
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Good advice except I haven't been given the chance to treat anyone well since my marriage ended. So this is great if you can even get a two sided convo going on a dating app.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 01:57 AM
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You might be right. You probably are the further back we go, however I'd say the average man got with the average woman and the below average man got with the below average woman all the way up to like 2010. After that it's just become the below average woman gets with above average man, and the very above average man gets all the other women.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 01:53 AM
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It's a bad time to be a man. We aren't getting drafted into wars anymore (in the us at least) we are just being left alone and exiled. Our value is the sum of our wealth and labor.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 01:42 AM
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I was in a long relationship and while the honeymoon period at the beginning is great she quickly became deaf to the rare moments when I really needed support. It was like I was just another problem in her life. Imo women have so many choices now that any negative aspect of yourself is amplified by ten in their eyes. I feel lonely maybe slightly more often but nothing is worse than feeling lonely when the person you care about doesn't care about you, only what you provide.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 02:38 AM
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Lol you might be right
/r/MensRights29/08/22 06:57 PM
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I wish more people valued natural social interaction. I think OLD has hurt both genders and can many times highlight the person who you definitely aren't going to be compatible with past first impression of attractiveness.
/r/MensRights28/08/22 11:59 PM
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I can't understand how there are people like this. What message are you sending to white youth, that they should be ashamed? Subservient to whatever hand society deals them? It's just going to cause resentment and more racism.
/r/MensRights28/08/22 11:33 PM
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I feel for you, I am an attractive guy too, semi introverted but I can hold a conversation. I am 6 feet but im skinny I'm like 145lbs. I have an autoimmune disorder and I pound my head against a wall trying to gain weight, I eat until my stomach hurts for like a week straight and then lose the motivation it sucks. I have a decent job, I'm hygienic, got a nice apartment, just a normal guy looking for a friend...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:27 PM
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Interesting perspective. I actually wouldn't mind going a long time without sex if it meant I was hanging out and meeting more women for potential long term partners. Better than my current circumstances and honestly probably better for women, since I honestly feel that women's struggles with dating involve dating men who are very attractive and have many options..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:21 PM
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I appreciate the insight. I am not sure if my family members actually love or care for me, same with my one or two friends I have. Ultimately my relationships in general are pretty shallow. I've done everything i want to do in life, no cap, I am actually pretty satisfied with my life story. Thanks for listening and chiming in, have a good rest of the weekend
/r/MensRights27/08/22 08:59 PM
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It would be an honorable death. Better than my expected reality of being forever alone and dying of a heart attack in my sleep. Now maybe not every woman but if I get the vibe she is a nice person and innocent and has her whole life ahead on her. Yeah I'm gonna do what I can. Might even do it for some men.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 06:42 PM
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I have autoimmunity issues, I do lift but it's tough for me to above 2000 calories some days and my metabolism is high to begin with. I honestly would take a bullet for someone. If that means I have self esteem issues then whatever. I'd feel worse watching someone die and living with the regret I could have done something. I would also bust my ass for the right woman and not expect anything but companionship. I don't think I have esteem issues, though I wish I didn't have my health condition. I …
/r/MensRights27/08/22 06:31 PM
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Women believe online dating is the best thing ever. No personal interaction, They get unlimited attention and they can pick and choose the guy like it's a drive thru date store. They will defend it up and down, but they don't realize they are all choosing the same type of guy, the high value man who has many options, and then they can't understand why the guy isn't serious and then apply the notion that all men suck at relationships.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 03:57 PM
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This is the most hotly contested point I make about men's issues. An above average desirable man, can not get many dates with even below average women. Online dating has moved us into a more polygamous society, where the alphas get all the women because they believe the guy actually intends to be in a relationship with them, and while he may or may not have tossed the idea around, he is doing to women what women do to most guys, comparing to all the other options they have. The hierarchy is comp…
/r/MensRights27/08/22 03:48 PM
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Yea that's fine. I said it MAY lead down a path to unhappiness. Just be careful of every choice you make to spend your time. I wish I could have told this to my past self when I was 17.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 03:40 PM
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Bro my requirement for a girl is be nice, funny, and be at least somewhat cute, she can be thin, thicc, chubby idc. I barely judge on appearance. Can't even get that. I have a decent job but I'm skinny and I feel like skinny is the new obese.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 03:35 PM
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I'm borderline disabled as well. I have autoimmunity issues which are brutal. I have an extremely hard time gaining weight and am skinny and tall. I have a decent job, but its so stressful and I only make about 50k a year. I feel completely invisible to the world. Everytime I try to interview for a better job or dating I just feel like people think I'm a skinny guy so I have no self respect and don't feed myself and don't lift weights or work out... even though I do both. I am also a musician. I…
/r/MensRights27/08/22 03:22 PM
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Problem with society today is that they will tell you to follow your heart and do what makes you happy however this may ultimately lead you down a path where no women want to date you. I would say if that is a priority, you need to prioritize money and fitness. Everything else comes second. It's sad because for many men, this will be an all encompassing endeavor, so much so they never really have the time or energy to get to explore other interests.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 03:15 PM
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I wish they saw it this way
/r/MensRights26/08/22 12:43 AM
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What do you think reality is? I mean.. sure maybe in school you have the appropriate circumstances to meet someone organically but after that... yeah I'd say if you are a single man right now, it's tough to even find a date. More people fall into this category. Then there are the guys that go on date after date. Score after score. I mean look at all the places this is accurate to. Clubs are mostly dudes looking.. girls even get in free (to attract more dudes), even below average looking girls ha…
/r/MensRights26/08/22 12:01 AM
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The same group of guys (80% of women get with top 20% of men)
/r/MensRights25/08/22 11:43 PM
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Yea it's like comparing porn to drugs.. some are worse than others, and they effect everyone differently. I think a lot of men struggle to perform because less men are getting sex overall and most female partners have had more experience. It's like getting up on the biggest stage ever without auditioning. Porn doesn't help but there are many factors affecting men's confidence in today's society.
/r/MensRights25/08/22 12:33 AM
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I never felt like porn was a bad influence on me and any time I've had sex I never went "porn mode" unless the situation called for it. People also say it skews your perception of beauty but imo just being exposed to different body types and different looks it actually made me appreciate more women. When I was a kid I had a "type" now i really don't.
/r/MensRights24/08/22 11:10 AM
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Tru bro. I learned this and while of course I feel lonely sometimes it hurts less than when I had a relationship and felt lonely. Women can't usually even handle their own problems, let alone mine on top. And when your partner is completely unreceptive to you when you go to work and buy food and rent. Fuck I even cleaned and did the dishes every day. And yet when I am sad there is resentment. Now.. you can say I just had a bad woman. But she wasn't always like that, this world does something to …
/r/MensRights24/08/22 02:19 AM
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Know this well. We are expected to be professional at all times.
/r/MensRights24/08/22 02:07 AM
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I just watch anime if I watch anything. Strong males and females in both. No cringe unless you watch in English or watch tropey anime.
/r/MensRights24/08/22 01:58 AM
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I do agree but some people are doing all they can to put a roof on their head and food on table.
/r/MensRights24/08/22 01:53 AM
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Going to HR gets you fired.
/r/MensRights24/08/22 01:51 AM
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Hate was never exclusively right wing
/r/MensRights24/08/22 01:50 AM
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The only good advice you get on dating us be yourself, be caring, be considerate, and girls will notice. In reality that might get you friend zoned, but won't get you a relationship. Only being attractive and having money does that. They attack the same type of guy they fuck.
/r/MensRights24/08/22 01:48 AM
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Damn sorry to hear that man. Up where I am, black people are generally super cool to me actually, so I hope you won't let your bad personal experiences cause prejudice but again easier said then done. Where I am, crazy white women and hipster white males are the ones who give me a super cold shoulder vibe. I can tell when someone judges me for being me, they make it quite obvious but no overt, they want me to "get the hint" without directly stooping to the low blow callouts.
/r/MensRights22/08/22 10:09 PM
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This is true unfortunately. Men are just used to provide these days. You would think women entering the workforce would change this, but it made it worse. Now jobs are more competitive and women still look for a man who makes more money than them. So not only do you need to make money you need to make MORE than your female SO. And then when you have a problem and show weakness she will love you less, and start thinking about one of the other guys in her phone. Women essentially can not provide m…
/r/MensRights22/08/22 10:00 PM
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Imo other men of other races don't hate white men as much as white women and other feminist white men.
/r/MensRights22/08/22 09:50 PM
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I believe I am fairly handsome, a bit on the skinny side and enough money to take care of myself. I can't even get a date these days. I don't hate women, so why is it women can hate me when I am willing to date anyone who isn't a cave troll or something.
/r/MensRights22/08/22 09:48 PM
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I generally feel extremely well liked from everyone. They also tell me how amazing, masculine and white I am. /s
/r/MensRights22/08/22 09:45 PM
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I got rejected once brutally. This girl who I used to work with years ago, approached me at the store. She talked to me for 20 mins, I even was like starting to continue to shop because I didn't want to seem too into her.. last thing I want to be is creepy or overstay my welcome. Well she finally leaves and I'm like "dude she totally wants me to ask her to hang out or get a coffee or something.." so I find her again and spring the question, fairly confident but still humble because I just assume…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:41 PM
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You were banned because the people who say all men are trash or should die are obviously kidding and you obviously hate women and trans people. /s
/r/MensRights17/09/21 03:51 AM
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I was just called one today because I didn't find something offensive that apparently was (basically revolved around a guy having a choice of what he finds attractive in female video game characters.. yes I know... horribly sexist). I argued calling me an incel is dramatically more sexist and offensive than the post.
/r/MensRights17/09/21 03:42 AM
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True I won't claim to understand the different problems of someone else. Women probably have a lot of fake support too.
/r/MensRights15/09/21 01:27 AM
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Like everything else, the mega rich. When we fight amongst ourselves, for whatever reason and whichever way, violence, political, cultural, they win.
/r/MensRights14/09/21 01:27 AM
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I'm a disabled man with a autoimmune disorder and not much wealth. I feel completely disposable. None of my friends who I've had forever talk to me, family barely even talks to me. All things considered, and I don't say this lightly, if I was a women this probably wouldn't be the case. Though I have seen some lonely sad women in my line of work, they are usually emotionally disturbed, an addict, or elderly. I am just a guy who used to feel like I had everything, then one day it was gone.
/r/MensRights14/09/21 01:18 AM
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