PortAltepa Archive

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1	Men are not monsters: Last week three of my four boys were herded into school-sponsored assemblies and asked to stand, raise their hands and pledge to never, ever hurt a woman. Their female classmates weren’t required to make a similar pledge. Well, if you're not in imminent danger, I'd just suggest not doing anything. Again, this is more technical about self-defense doctrine, I just wanted to explain why people advocate restrain over strike from that perspective. You're right though that neither is ideal; I mean if you don't have self-defense training it's completely moot, because you're not going to know how to put yourself out of harm's way in a physical altercation with another human being. In that case, the optimal solution if no…	/r/MensRights	21/10/16 09:36 PM
1	Men are not monsters: Last week three of my four boys were herded into school-sponsored assemblies and asked to stand, raise their hands and pledge to never, ever hurt a woman. Their female classmates weren’t required to make a similar pledge. I am simply stating that if an adult hits another adult, then you can expect that other adult to hit back. Seems fairly reasonable doesn't it? I am unsure about how technical of a discussion about self-defense we want to get here, because there are clearly layers (legally and morally). But the sense that I had is the reason for advocating "restrain" over "strike" is that self-defense means performing actions that removes yourself from imminent harm. "Restrain" accomplishes this by preventing the…	/r/MensRights	21/10/16 08:14 PM
18	Is this subreddit only for guys? Attraction for a girl is as much of an art as attraction for men. There is an excellent woman out there who goes by the handle "Hitori" who wrote a "playette" FAQ, which is a very analytical look at how women can attract men. Here you go: http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/search.cgi?action=retrieve&grp=8&mn=1261566993592678&refine= She has a bunch of posts over the web; you just have to find them. As far as this subreddit goes, ignore the assholes (like the "show your tits = success" guy), an…	/r/seduction	04/04/13 04:46 AM
2	I'm a girl, and I think some of the PUA techniques are bad news. Hear me out. While the self-esteem issues you raise are correct, reading this, I can't help but think that this is more personal for you than theoretical.	/r/seduction	18/08/12 02:40 AM
10	Girlfriend gets me jealous. I don't know how to handle it/respond. Well, if you do decide to keep her, it's pretty important that you do not make a deal of this at all. Basically, the only thing you should say to her is: "have a great time!", genuinely, with a smile on your face. No passive aggression, no insecurity towards the other guy. And then you should be making plans with friends and going out and talking to people. That's really all there is to it. At the end of the day, she either comes back to you or you break up with her. Don't be reactive.	/r/seduction	21/05/12 04:38 PM
1	[FR] Slept with HB7 by utilizing logistical pre-selection Well done. I don't think it was a breach of ethics, but if you hadn't owned it like you did, it would have come across as creepy, perhaps. What kind of party was this? Sounds like my kind of crowd, but I have no idea where to hunt down people like that.	/r/seduction	21/05/12 01:25 PM
14	How do you initiate sex with a guy? At some point you do need to be able to face rejection, it's part of it. That said, I don't think GRAB HIS DICK is good advice. Mainly because if a girl I weren't attracted to did that to me, I'd be scared. Brush against him, make eye contact, and occasionally look at his lips. Smile a lot and laugh, act like you're having fun. If you've been that intimate before, I don't think it's unacceptable for you to put his arm around your shoulder and later waist. Keep looking at him a lot, keep smiling,…	/r/seduction	16/04/12 11:20 PM
0	Looking for a bf, a date, or almost anything... I know it's hard, but just be calm about all this. High school is nothing compared to the rest of your life, and when you graduate, you'll see how much complete nonsense it is. The whole notion of "popular crowd" and all those things is completely useless. The most important thing is to feel satisfied with yourself and your goals, and at this stage of your life, you should concentrate on who you want to be when you grow up, raging hormones be damned. Focus on school. Do well. Look towards colleg…	/r/seduction	06/04/12 03:03 PM
1	Yet another inspirational example for those of you starting literally from scratch [huge story] I'm thinking of seeing a therapist as well. Would you feel comfortable describing what that was like?	/r/seduction	26/03/12 03:04 PM
1	Yet another inspirational example for those of you starting literally from scratch [huge story] It's left horrible scarring for me. Get to a dermatologist, and stick with it until they give you accutane to nuke it. The scarring will heal slightly, but before you think of a surgical option, you need to have the outbreaks treated.	/r/seduction	26/03/12 03:02 PM
5	Ladies/gentlemen of seddit: I'm a woman who would like your advice on how to get asked out more. Start with eye contact and smile. That automatically makes you real in another person's eyes. Usually there's the awkward accidentally meet your eyes and then quickly glance away deal. Hold their gaze and they will smile back, and then you can say hi. In conversation, you can show interest beyond light conversation by punctuating it with light touches to the hands and forearms. I'm not too big on the whole dressing "attractively" thing like cocktail dresses and heels and whatnot. Dress according…	/r/seduction	06/03/12 04:29 PM