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| 1 | How much your parents have influenced your current views?It’s spelled abusive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/20 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Success its a convination of external factors.Government support is getting by. Not some sense of financial freedom that comes with true wealth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/20 07:52 PM |
| 4 | Success its a convination of external factors.Being depending on welfare and being depending on family wealth are not the same. The first one fosters a sense of failure and defeatism but family wealth doesn’t at all. Plus only one of them affords real financial freedom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/20 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Success its a convination of external factors.There are so many ugly actors | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/20 07:49 PM |
| 27 | Help me understand the psychology of why some women feel so "violated" when they catch men checking them out in public?It’s not. But they don’t want to stop so they’ll pretend it’s confusing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:56 AM |
| 3 | Help me understand the psychology of why some women feel so "violated" when they catch men checking them out in public?Ew | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:54 AM |
| 3 | Did porn raise men's standards?I say I say boy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/19 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Why do you get upset that men don't continue being your friend if you don't have sex with themI’m answering the OP. Also I thought we were discussing organic friendships, obviously someone going on tinder or any environment where you know everyone is on the prowl, would be weird to pretend they only want friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/19 02:43 AM |
| 4 | Why do you get upset that men don't continue being your friend if you don't have sex with themI am trying to explain the female perspective which is valuing friendship. They see your attitude as a turn off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/19 10:23 PM |
| 27 | Why do you get upset that men don't continue being your friend if you don't have sex with themThis is just a perfect example. The concept of actually being her friend for real isn’t on your radar at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/19 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Why do you get upset that men don't continue being your friend if you don't have sex with themWell because first of all he lied to you, second of all he’s lacking the balls to just make his intentions known from the start. Not attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/19 07:14 PM |
| 1 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.I am not pathologizing it, I am 100% for healthy harmless flirting when the people are single, it’s garbage and horrible and shows zero honor or loyalty to do it to other people when you’re married, unless you explicitly both agree it’s cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Sociology researcher Alicia Walker: "Then I saw another study that some high 80 percent of folks never get caught cheating and that number is even higher if you’re a woman."You have nothing to support your ridiculous statement, you just want women to be wrong. I refuted it elsewhere, but I can’t take anyone seriously who thinks that when one group does a bad action it’s always objectively worse, anyone with reason knows how illogical that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/19 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Sociology researcher Alicia Walker: "Then I saw another study that some high 80 percent of folks never get caught cheating and that number is even higher if you’re a woman."They were logical points following your words. Just grow up realize cheating is always harmful and stop giving men a special pass while condemning women for it. The ability to just make everything women do worse is just astonishing. How anyone can earnestly claim such absurd things about men cheating? How are you not embarrassed to have such an obvious bias and specious claim? And then the whole women cheating is worse is obviously just to make men feel less embarrassed at having hurt feelings. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/19 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Sociology researcher Alicia Walker: "Then I saw another study that some high 80 percent of folks never get caught cheating and that number is even higher if you’re a woman."Can you please skip the irrational insults, it’s after midnight where I am so no I’m not retyping my comment you can easily find and there is no deductive reasoning needed here, do you even know what that means? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/19 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Sociology researcher Alicia Walker: "Then I saw another study that some high 80 percent of folks never get caught cheating and that number is even higher if you’re a woman."I did elsewhere in the thread. Oh and you are hamstering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/19 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Sociology researcher Alicia Walker: "Then I saw another study that some high 80 percent of folks never get caught cheating and that number is even higher if you’re a woman."I’m just pointing out one of many ways you’re hamstering to male cheating seem less wrong than female cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/19 05:22 AM |
| 1 | "Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid of being killed." Is this truer than ever now?Great | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/19 03:37 PM |
| 1 | "Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid of being killed." Is this truer than ever now?Ok? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/19 03:21 PM |
| 1 | "Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid of being killed." Is this truer than ever now?Cool thanks for sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/19 03:08 PM |
| 1 | "Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid of being killed." Is this truer than ever now?Both those comments are stupid. Trauma doesn’t define your judgment. Many people have been raised in a bubble and every dangers don’t get driven home until they experience it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/19 03:08 PM |
| 3 | "Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid of being killed." Is this truer than ever now?Just don’t start. You have no idea what you’re talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/19 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Sociology researcher Alicia Walker: "Then I saw another study that some high 80 percent of folks never get caught cheating and that number is even higher if you’re a woman."Yes of course men cheating is so great and maybe even helpful. As we all know a man impregnating a woman always means he’s going to help her and the kid. Hamster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/19 12:58 PM |
| 2 | "Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid of being killed." Is this truer than ever now?Don’t forget guns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/19 05:17 AM |
| 4 | "Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid of being killed." Is this truer than ever now?A lot of women think this way just because nothing has happened to them so far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/19 05:11 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: Do you know anyone in a "dead bedroom" situation? Why do you think their bedroom is dead?That’s sad. Even being a beautiful women is no guarantee of a happy love life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/19 05:08 AM |
| 4 | Q4All: Do you know anyone in a "dead bedroom" situation? Why do you think their bedroom is dead?I’m surprised I have seen medication or addiction mentioned here. That’s affects both sexes. A man can easily dead bedroom a woman too if he’s on substances that make him physically unable or just not want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/19 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Just curious, are there any non-RP guys out there who are at least open to the idea of marriage (with a prenup, of course), or are men universally across the board just outright turned off by the idea of marriage, period?Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/19 04:51 AM |
| 1 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.My feelings aren’t hurt just because I encounter and speak out against injustice and idiocy. But whatever helps you sleep better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/19 04:38 AM |
| 1 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.You can’t hurt my feelings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/19 04:30 AM |
| 1 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.No speaky speak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/19 04:24 AM |
| 1 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.lol don’t speak | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/19 04:23 AM |
| 2 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.Lol whenever someone on the Internet gets in an argument that wasn’t their business and adds the value able contribution of name calling, I always assume loser | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/19 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Where Does This Belief that Men Would Benefit if Women Had "More Empathy" For Them Come From?Wat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/19 01:40 AM |
| 8 | Where Does This Belief that Men Would Benefit if Women Had "More Empathy" For Them Come From?I’m already seeing comments in the general Reddit subs that that girl who was killed probably set the guy off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 11:14 PM |
| 3 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.K. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 11:13 PM |
| 7 | Where Does This Belief that Men Would Benefit if Women Had "More Empathy" For Them Come From?Do you not have female sisters, cousins? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 10:56 PM |
| 11 | Where Does This Belief that Men Would Benefit if Women Had "More Empathy" For Them Come From?They think the women will sleep with them if women just learn to understand how bad it feels for them to be attracted to a woman and not be able to bang her. To be clear this is not a thing with most cool and normal men, I’ve never seen a normal guy care at all for women’s opinion to such a degree. I only see it said by romantically frustrated men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 10:19 PM |
| 3 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.Don’t make idiot straw men. Stop being a troll. In normal marriage You shouldn’t be hitting on women commenting on how good they look this is not hard. Not “not talking to anyone” Hey look you’re delusionally thinking you create reality again by saying words. As long as you SAY you won the argument then you DID, right? Except no, I won and you’re just mad you got called out. A bunch of other comments were disgusted by your behavior, and if you were in good faith you’d have said you have an under… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 08:05 PM |
| 2 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.This isn’t a court of law this is a Reddit post. Don’t use legal stuff you don’t understand here. If you have a partially open marriage to a degree just SAY THAT, I’m clearly not the only woman commenting here who feels bad for your wife. I don’t care about your ranting, I most certainly expect my man not to “let me” do many things and it’s disgusting to me you think honoring marriage vows to the exclusion of all others is WRONG when the woman wants it and is “exercising authority.” That is marr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Sociology researcher Alicia Walker: "Then I saw another study that some high 80 percent of folks never get caught cheating and that number is even higher if you’re a woman."Uh ok by all means repeat yourself but that doesn’t make it true. This theory is just excuses for men. IRL men and women both have true love affairs and shallow affairs, not gendered. I’ve encountered married men with girlfriends they were madly in love with, and married women who thought fit college boy mover was a night of fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 07:41 PM |
| 3 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.Okay, so you and your wife explicitly agree it’s ok to directly hit on attractive members of the opposite sex, openly saying how sexually attractive they are, and it’s understood? You’ve granted her permission to do this? Then just say that to begin with. If it’s one of these weasel words you’d be fine with it because in real life she wouldn’t do it, you’ve never told her you think about hitting on workers, that doesn’t count. At face value, I’m sorry that this is so confusing for you, but at fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 07:29 PM |
| 7 | Do You Like Being Hit On at Work?If it’s not pushy, it’s natural, and there’s a clear respect for my choice to say yes or no, just fun respectful interest, and if I don’t like you, you leave me alone? Probably tolerable, but definitely better if I like you back. That’s your risk. If it’s in any way refusing to take no and clearly exploiting that I’m on the job, can’t leave, and have to be professional to you, that’s uncool. It helps to have social skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 07:19 PM |
| 3 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.Care to translate your words for people who aren’t attached to your brain stem? Are you saying that if you call hitting on someone not your spouse “innocent” that magically makes it so? You still think your lack of intent to act on the pickup line makes it ok? Is this comment actually that thick, or is it one of those guy pretend to be dumb comments to get away with bad character actions? So if your wife sleeps with some hot college construction worker but says it’s innocent, that makes it so? W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 07:12 PM |
| 5 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.Lmao stop talking and insulting my intelligence and you read without an irrational bias. I told you I read it, stop gaslighting, your comment should be deleted. Those paragraphs don’t mention a wife at all, just a delusion that he thinks the girl doesn’t get hit on at work (lol) and that he’d totally make her day being an old married schlub saying a stupid line (lmao) and then he didn’t say it because “society.” If you read some noble loyal to his wife thoughts into that it’s something you made … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 07:03 PM |
| 4 | Sociology researcher Alicia Walker: "Then I saw another study that some high 80 percent of folks never get caught cheating and that number is even higher if you’re a woman."I’ve heard feminists say that, yes. Which is a bad excuse, sure it happens but it doesn’t make it ok. But I’ve mostly seen specifically the dichotomy that men cheat to get their dicks wet but come home and don’t break up the family / women only cheat because they’ve abandoned their spouse emotionally and love the new guy, in the manosphere. Often to justify male affairs, and yes to feel better about being hurt. Either way, manosphere men or feminists justifying cheating isn’t cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 07:02 PM |
| 3 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.Yes. You’re saying I didn’t read it and saying there were words written that weren’t actually written. That is gaslighting. I took everything you wrote AT FACE VALUE, you’re mad I didn’t assume you’re a great guy and fill in good intentions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 07:00 PM |
| 3 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.Shut your mouth and don’t ever command me No. He mentions he’s married. Nowhere did he mention that had anything to do with why he didn’t hit on the girl. Read it again. YOU filled in that blank yourself. He only indicated his brain thought he should blurt it out, but didn’t because of society or something. There was a blatant lack of thought about his marriage vows at all. He thought since he didn’t plan to follow up on the pickup line that it was “innocent.” Don’t try to gaslight me saying I d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 06:57 PM |
| 5 | Sociology researcher Alicia Walker: "Then I saw another study that some high 80 percent of folks never get caught cheating and that number is even higher if you’re a woman."That’s completely false. It’s a meme guys tell each other to justify male cheating as less harmful than female cheating, and to give an excuse for why they, the men, get hurt by a woman cheating. They don’t want to admit they got hurt easily, so they make up a narrative that women cheating is so much worse because she had to love the affair partner, which they think makes them less weak for being hurt and betrayed. And then of course conveniently, male cheating is just meaningless so it’s not th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 06:54 PM |
| 2 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.Excuse me, where did he mention that he shouldn’t be thinking of “innocent” pick up lines to begin with, since he’s married? He thought it was ironic and bla that he held back, he said it would have been fine to use the bad line since he had no further intent. He only held back because “society.” You people are delusional. Nothing in there says he didn’t say the line because he’s married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 06:43 PM |
| 3 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.Nope don’t try to gaslight me. You just can’t admit you’re wrong. I read what you wrote. I feel bad for your wife. Your title just makes it worse, you think the line was innocent because you only thought how it would affect the young girl and you. No hitting on someone is ever innocent when you have a spouse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 06:40 PM |
| 4 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.No don’t even bother with your irrational woman hating psychobabble. All I did was read your post in which you lament and muse on the fact that you didn’t hit on this girl. Zero comment on your wife. Maybe you did think of her, but I’m not connected to your brain stem. Your post was thoughtless, I took it at face value. It’s obviously your intent but just inhibited, you spent a huge amount of thought thinking hmmm I should tell this chick a totally original line, I just don’t because society. A … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 06:33 PM |
| 3 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.No it’s not my perception you never said a word here about how holding back was because you remembered you were married. It’s just about your “we live in a society” solipsism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 06:20 PM |
| 8 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.You are writing this silly navel gazing about how it’s so crazy society won’t let you use dumb pickup lines on teen workers who don’t want married men hitting on them, and your whole post is how it was women and society that inhibited you, not that you would be decent and save the flirting for your wife. Honestly gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 06:15 PM |
| 13 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.Why is this comment so far down? The level of solipsism that OP can do this bullshit navel gazing about why he didn’t thirstily hit on a teen, but never even thought about his wife at home and gee maybe saving the flirting for her and not acting like a sad third life crisis weirdo and still acting single. What a douchey post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 06:11 PM |
| 7 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.Why not, he didn’t even have a thought in all this that he has a wife at home and should save the flirting for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 06:08 PM |
| 7 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.What is wrong with you? Not once did you consider that you have a wife at home and shouldn’t be hitting on young girls or other women at all. JFC. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Can we discuss "men are more visually stimulated than woman"?So this sub in a nutshell? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Getting dating advice from MenI used to think this before going on PPD, you guys have no chill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 03:48 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "Why won't the girls I want fuck me" is no more "entitled" in character than "why won't the guys I want relationship me"You do know that some men feel literally entitled to fuck a woman just because he wants her? This OP is a straw man. People maybe other than extreme feminists don’t care a man vents that he’s struggling, although it doesn’t make him look cool. They care about men demanding the government provide a wife, or just the less extreme ranting that society should still be set up so women are dependent again and more likely to choose some ugly guy. If women started demanding the government force Chad to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Is the Sexual Marketplace Crashing?Do you actually want to have children with a woman and provide for them? Why do men lament the loss of women wanting children who themselves are petrified of getting a woman pregnant and don’t seek marriage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/19 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Is it better for women to make all the first moves?Well they have to show very strong interest. Men won’t approach a very hot woman too easily. They hover around her but aren’t direct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/19 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Who is the most charming person you know, and how does it translate to their success in dating?The people I find most charming are friendly and sparkling, but with some social insecurity, or some trait that makes them a little nerdy or awkward, but they are not afraid to be that way or perhaps don’t realize it. Or they show small emotions / vulnerabilities, no don’t act like an emotional wreck, but think of showing vulnerability as like adding spice to a dish, a little helps a lot, the whole bottle ruins it. If they don’t have some qualities like these, I find them too charming and perfec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/19 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Who is the most charming person you know, and how does it translate to their success in dating?Whenever I ask people questions they act like I’m nosy and want to get away from me, that’s definitely not always great advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/19 02:25 AM |
| 2 | [Q4W] What's "cute" and what's "hot"??Cute is about looks and means I find him good looking objectively regardless of if I’m physically attracted at that moment. Hot is usually cute with a badass confident attitude. But I don’t usually say “that’s a hot guy” but a guy can be hot to me in a moment. The most attractive guy is a cute guy I like doing something sexy, which makes him hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/19 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Why, or rather WHEN is ‘male thirst’ a turn off?There’s this really disturbing gap in reality where the guy clearly thinks with his penis and thinks it is some noble magic GPS that points to the true goddess he’s meant to be with, and then he’s “in love” with her, except she can see he’s so blinded by his obsession with his sexual wants that he legitimately thinks he cares for the woman when everyone else including her can see that he can’t even try to get to know her because he’s so blinded. It’s frightening to deal with a man completely out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/19 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do you worry about all of the TRP stuff? If you follow the basic rules of getting lean, getting a career, and getting your shit together, you will be fine --- almost regardless of your personality.I thought BPD stands for borderline personality disorder, you might want to clarify. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/19 01:33 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: Why do you worry about all of the TRP stuff? If you follow the basic rules of getting lean, getting a career, and getting your shit together, you will be fine --- almost regardless of your personality.I took the test and got zero matches if that helps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/19 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Online dating is damaging to relationships due to grass is greener effect on majority of women and a small portion of men.How is that not relevant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Online dating is damaging to relationships due to grass is greener effect on majority of women and a small portion of men.Care to share the craigslist story? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Online dating is damaging to relationships due to grass is greener effect on majority of women and a small portion of men.What it gave is was getting all that in your living room without getting up off the couch. It gave us the ability to look at all that while your spouse is sitting across from you even. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 07:45 PM |
| 5 | Online dating is damaging to relationships due to grass is greener effect on majority of women and a small portion of men.Seriously? there are articles out all the time about social media causing depression, to the point I thought it was common knowledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Men respond to women who are bitchy and unattainable to an extent just like how RP theorizes women who chase / want assholes. Humans will try harder and feel more accomplished after they get things that they had to work for, even if that means ignoring red flags on the way.Exactly, they want Em Rata to chase them. But the type they want to chase then will never ever have to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (09 June 2019)Yes but isn’t it all amoral? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/19 07:17 PM |
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