Portgas Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	What are your unpopular opinions about dating, relationships, manosphere, or/and genders? Relationships don't save people from depression, and relationships with people with depression aren't worth it for anyone involved. If you aren't happy already, you are unable to love truly, and they deserve better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/24 10:36 PM
–	Reddit has worst dating advice, which setups men for failure In my experience, 99% of women don't buy you anything. Lol. If they are into you, they'll buy you things if you actually use your mouth to tell them that buying you things, treats, whatever makes you happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 02:33 PM
1	Does men need to pay the bill? Yep, this. Immediate red flag. I used to be dumb and naive and thought that was alright, but now the "I'll pay" privilege is a bf/gf territory for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 12:17 PM
1	For the men,would you rather be bachelor for life having sex with whoever you want but no relationship/kids or would you rather have a marriage and beautiful kids without any sex? I'd rather have everything or nothing at all	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/23 02:52 PM
18	AI for companionship, escorts for sex. Is this the future of relationships? Can't take an ai on a beach date, get into adventures together, being intimate in a way that no escort can provide, etc. Many guys will for sure masturbate mentally and physically, but for most it won't be enough and they'll seek human connections because it's what our brains are wired to do. In fifty generations? Maybe nobody will, who knows.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/23 01:43 PM
2	CMV: Red Pill dating strategy for men is effective but unfulfilling It's basically emotional porn. What people find attractive in fantasies often has nothing to do with what they find attractive in reality. I like huge breasted mature porn stars, but in reality only get attracted to college-aged plain girls. It is what it is	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/23 09:03 AM
1	It's exhausting to make female friends Online chat rooms and stuff. I've never had a problem finding female friends. Finding good friends is hard, however.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/23 12:38 AM
1	Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating? As a guy, I'm also only extremely attracted to a very small percentage of women	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 06:08 AM
1	CMV: Dating for hetrosexual men isn't about getting a girl it's about finding someone who you are compatible it Every successful relationship I've seen among my friends and family has the partners being Extremely similar to each other, some even look like brother and sister. Never discount good compatibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 04:06 PM
3	Anyone feel like shit after coming home and realizing you could’ve approached your gym crush?? I don't. Missed opportunities aren't opportunities. You can talk to her later.	/r/seduction	02/10/22 10:04 PM
2	I'm using my dog to hook up with girls Nice creative writing	/r/seduction	29/09/22 11:11 AM
3	Good recommendations to increase my texting game Every relationship I ever had started with no kiss on the first date lol.	/r/seduction	22/08/22 12:25 AM
1	What beliefs that you hold would you like your partner to also have? That there's more to life than work, and that nothing truly matters except your dreams and close ones.	/r/seduction	21/08/22 11:18 PM
21	Good recommendations to increase my texting game When do you think it's a good time to escalate Just go with the vibe, but I've never had a cheeky side hug or a "Thanks for the lovely evening,it was really nice meeting you, and I really want to kiss you" received badly. Also remember that if a girl doesn't agree to kiss you on the first date, doesn't mean she won't kiss you many times in two days on your second date. Second date is for kisses and handholding - if they don't want to do that, they are not interested at all or shy to an absurd de…	/r/seduction	21/08/22 11:12 PM
47	Good recommendations to increase my texting game Now there's still some skills to be gained setting up a date and using text for that. Like 0 skill or thought. I've used this template to set up dozens upon dozens of dates. Works in 99% of cases, unless they are stuck up or weird. Match. Small talk for about a day or two. Ask them about what they do and stuff, be interested (if you just act, it's noticeable). After they say something interesting, say "Hey, can I just ask you out on a date right now? You seem interesting, and I'd love to get to …	/r/seduction	21/08/22 10:54 PM
51	Good recommendations to increase my texting game It's ez - don't. Use texting to set up the first date, and just call them after the first date. Texting is for internet friends.	/r/seduction	21/08/22 10:15 PM
14	The quality of photos of girls to boys in tinder is DISPROPORTIONATE No selfies. Ez. Buy a tripod, use it so both ur hands are in the picture. Usually best to set the height at the eye level. Selfies are ok for instagram and stuff, but a bit borang for tinder. No gym. Not if it's a gym selfie or a changing room pic cuz it looks bad cuz bad lighting and shit. If you can take a great pic with good lighting in the gym, do it 100%. Everyone loves fit guys, assuming they present themselves well. Nothing posed. Posed is ok, unless it looks like something out of model m…	/r/seduction	21/08/22 10:08 PM
4	Not one man, of any caliber, would reject an attractive woman because she was “socially awkward” or any number of other frivolous reasons. This is often mistakenly attributed to differences in selection criteria, but ultimately signifies women’s privilege and abundance. I have personally rejected several women for being super cringe and awkward. I'm a man of some caliber.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/22 01:59 AM
1	Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women? Because being awkward and nervous isn't normal. You don't often encounter awkward or nervous people, right? You talk to people who feel comfortable around you: your friends, family, workmates, and so on. So when you meet a person who's visibly nervous, you notice that this person is behaving outside the norm and is socially maladjusted. And women are very attuned to everything that could be a threat to them, and awkward and nervous people are not predictable, and they don't behave 'right'. Spitt…	/r/seduction	03/08/22 08:46 PM
-4	Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women? Because they trust no one. Awkward and nervous people are untrustworthy.	/r/seduction	03/08/22 02:41 PM
1	CMV:When dating women, It's better to be an asshole than nice even if ugly If you are handsome, rich, and offer money, you will be confident naturally. Looks in the mirror: When confidence? Money and handsomeness have jack to do with confidence on their own. It's all about how you grew up, your personality, and your life experiences up to that point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/22 10:37 AM
1	If you aren’t successful in dating, then you’re simply not attractive Even Henry Cavill would have problems finding girls who stick around if he was as cringe as I am. And I certainly rejected very hot girls myself before just because they made me uncomfortable, and never once did i think I'd have been with them if only they were hot enough. This is a very black&white view on dating, and in my experience it is wrong. Hotness only opens doors and lubricates the process, the rest is up to personality and compatibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/22 10:24 AM
1	If you aren’t successful in dating, then you’re simply not attractive I get women to kiss me and date me and stuff but not stay with me cuz I'm so fucking insecure that I sabotage everything. Working on it tho.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/22 01:14 AM
1	Not sure what to make of this She'll let you know. For now, just forget about it.	/r/seduction	22/05/22 10:12 AM
1	First date went well, planned a second one, but she made didn’t make that much eye contact. Could it be nervousness? People usually don't look each other in the eyes when they're talking, so that's normal. I find it hard to maintain eye contact if i'm telling a story or talking about anything serious.	/r/seduction	20/05/22 06:10 PM
1	Cold Approaching is most of the time extremely ineffective Yeah lol. Means you're doing something right.	/r/seduction	27/02/22 12:46 AM
9	Cold Approaching is most of the time extremely ineffective 1/10 matches result in a dates Dude, that's a really good ratio.	/r/seduction	26/02/22 10:40 AM
-1	Cold Approaching is most of the time extremely ineffective Meh, I wholeheartedly disagree.	/r/seduction	26/02/22 01:35 AM
8	Cold Approaching is most of the time extremely ineffective It can lead to some fun interactions, but overall, yeah. Dating apps are already a sort of 'cold approach'. You match with a rando (you see a rando on the street), you say hey (you come up to her), you start chatting. Dating apps are even more beneficial because you already passed the most basic of shit tests,so you already have an in to say hi.	/r/seduction	26/02/22 12:55 AM
2	I met this nice woman, and we have a first date tomorrow, but some recent events made me question my job and my finantial stability and I just don't feel confident anymore Dude, worry about it once you're exclusively dating or whatever in like half a year. For now, enjoy the date.	/r/seduction	25/02/22 11:43 PM
3	I met this nice woman, and we have a first date tomorrow, but some recent events made me question my job and my finantial stability and I just don't feel confident anymore how less of a man that makes m For what it's worth, the only person who ever gave shit about the money I make was the shallowest, most mercantile girl I've ever dated who literally told me that money buys her love. The rest couldn't care less about my money or how much I make, as long as I'm not a hobo and can afford going out once in a while. And no, money doesn't impress anyone mature, really. Imagine being on a date with a girl in your situation. What would you feel? You wouldn't really care …	/r/seduction	25/02/22 11:36 PM
5	Why do we get needy with girls ? And how to fix it ? fail to send your genes to the next generation. Which is absolutely based, and a right thing to do.	/r/seduction	13/02/22 01:21 PM
6	Hitting it off with a girl, feeling you could kiss her, but just can't find a right moment? Try this line. I need another update	/r/seduction	30/11/21 09:32 PM
22	Can men actually achieve the required standards or are they a little unrealistic? I've never actually met a woman on apps or irl who claimed to want that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/21 01:06 AM
1	Are truly platonic friendships between women and men common? I have two truly platonic female friends. They're awesome people, great friends, and I love them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/21 12:34 AM
1	Dating and masks Do you think it would be weird if I asked her out? It'd be the most normal thing in the history of normal things. Just do it, but don't expect anything.	/r/seduction	08/02/21 01:02 PM
1	Straight men and women cannot be "just" friends I'm friends with quite a few women. Some I tried dating, some I never even considered, but I've got no ulterior motives towards any of them. friendships with women do not last long and usually will end or be significantly weakened once both of them get partners/married Friendships in general don't last very long, and "bros before hoes" is a myth.	/r/seduction	08/02/21 12:58 PM
1	Whats a good flirty one liner/comeback to a girl who says “you noticed😏🥰” when I commented about her necklace on instagram? "Was hard to look away from your eyes" or something.	/r/seduction	07/02/21 05:25 PM
5	What does it feel like to have a dating/social life? what is it like to have a dating/social life? Feels fun, I guess? It's something to do to spice up the routine. What do friends do? Hang out, crack jokes, shoot shit, discuss common interests, etc. What do people talk about? Anything and everything under the sun, from deepfried memes to stoicism. What is it like to be in a romantic relationship with someone? You kinda feel warm and fuzzy. Also anxious. What does it feel like to have someone love you for who you are? To have someone who has your …	/r/seduction	29/01/21 10:12 PM
1	Are male friends even possible in 2021? Omegle. For reals.	/r/askTRP	27/01/21 04:50 PM
1	Dates are not as difficult as I thought I only found my first few dates hard, but I genuinely love going on them now, without any expectations or anything. It's just a very, very fun way to spend an evening out.	/r/seduction	30/11/20 02:42 PM
4	I just got asked if I'm a model in the parking lot by a woman. I still have a hard time with dating like all of you. Lmao. People tell me I'm quite good-looking all the time, and that my social skills are great (funny, charming, interesting, whatever), and I still find it hard to get past the first date with most people. It's very hard to find anyone good enough to date, and my life is a bit too different from most people's for them to find me compatible as well. I've rejected a lot of good-looking girls just because I didn't feel it, and they are supposed to play the dating game on easy mode. Dating is frustr…	/r/seduction	22/11/20 03:48 PM
1	IS ASKING A GUY HOW THEIR DAY WAS BORING ? Only if they're boring. Personally, I love this question because it means you care.	/r/seduction	18/07/20 10:26 AM
2	After having sex with a girl. Why do they suddenly chase harder. Oxytocin, my dude.	/r/seduction	11/05/20 10:23 AM
1	Am I too skinny for 6ft tall male? Get stared down often Eat more, bench more. You're skinny, but nothing special.	/r/seduction	10/05/20 11:48 PM