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| 23 | Guys who can convert cold leads with no IOIs | Fundamentals | Positive-Mix-7691 | /r/seduction | 26/03/26 05:13 PM |
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| 5 | Do you have to be good looking to use Tinder?(Straight) men are bad at judging attractiveness fwiw. | /r/seduction | 26/06/26 08:06 PM |
| 1 | PSA: "Game" is not a "numbers game" of running around looking for women who like youDo you know who Thomas crown the somewhat blackpill dating coach is? He’s the embodiment of this attitude and it’s like why would I pay you lmao | /r/seduction | 02/06/26 05:24 PM |
| 1 | PSA: "Game" is not a "numbers game" of running around looking for women who like youHonestly man it’s inspiring to hear your posts and stories and winning over a girl who isn’t attracted initially is tough. I fall into that trap of thinking if I approach a girl who seems disinterested (we lock eyes and she looks away without seeming interested) it’s a lost point. I’m in a group chat and several of the lay reports are a girl who gave an IOI (eye contact) as the start of it. I think the truth is for most people that’s how game works and their lays work. Sometimes I feel hopeless … | /r/seduction | 02/06/26 05:22 PM |
| 1 | What are the most distinctive signs of interest women show?Theres no skill in seducing women who are already very clearly interested in you. It’s called not fucking up and is incredibly easy. It’s the middle zone where seduction comes in. | /r/seduction | 23/05/26 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Realized I don't actually know how to hold a conversation.Did you ever game with Neil Strauss in real life? Agreed about his advice in the truth but it does seem like he genuinely did well. His wife was out of his league and his ex too. He was clearly dating some pretty hot women and not coasting on his looks which puts him in the top percentage of coaches/coach adjacent ppl | /r/seduction | 23/05/26 01:07 AM |
| 0 | What are the most distinctive signs of interest women show?If you only limit yourself to girls who immediately think your hot your limiting yourself a lot. If she’s giving you NOTHING maybe dip but she shouldn’t need to be immediately “high interest” that’s overly limiting unless your super good looking | /r/seduction | 23/05/26 01:05 AM |
| 3 | What are the most distinctive signs of interest women show?Really? Feel like you can convert here if your good enough | /r/seduction | 23/05/26 12:39 AM |
| 1 | The Magic PillAh that’s interesting. Yeah I bet some girls who’d left swipe you on an app would give you a chance irl too if your charming enough | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 06:12 PM |
| 1 | The Magic PillMan this is hopeful to read and I hope it’s true. Sometimes if feels like a girl was bound to flake on you no matter the approach, she just wasn’t attracted. Even if you’re advanced it happens right? Think there’s a middle ground in some of these comments. Maybe no matter what certain people won’t be attracted. I can imagine even with top 1% social skills girls who don’t think your at least won’t give you much to work with. But I do know people flip and maybe some of this is true. Question for y… | /r/seduction | 05/05/26 05:34 PM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?Bruh some of the questions on this thread are so dumb I swear | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 05:49 AM |
| 2 | how much do you guys 'plow', if at all, with girls who don't seem attracted?Too many people here saying game is about finding girls who are into you lol. It’s about making girls interested in you in that maybe zone. If she doesn’t like you at all and is a “no” girl then nothing works. But yes, in that maybe some you need to persist | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 04:03 AM |
| 1 | To The Guys Who Like To Push Through Resistance With Women. Why do You Do It?Feel like this is a backwards mindset man. If she’s clearly NOT interested in you then yes, not worth your time. But don’t just wait for “yes” girls. It’s going to limit you significantly | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 12:13 AM |
| 14 | To The Guys Who Like To Push Through Resistance With Women. Why do You Do It?Idk if it’s binary about into you or not. There’s a spectrum with no on one end and yes on the other. My rationale is that there are some pretty attractive girls who may not give you much to work with that are worth working for. If you’re not satisfied with what’s easy to you work harder. And the process of converting someone is more fun than just going for something easy for you. I’m not even that good at game and I’ve had multiple instances where I kissed a girl, she rejected and I stayed cool… | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 09:03 PM |
| 1 | The limits of looksmaxxing to an unhealthy level as witnessed by the suspected overdose of ClavicularI feel like you need to be at least a 7 if girls are giving you the attention your talking about | /r/seduction | 18/04/26 07:41 PM |
| 1 | The limits of looksmaxxing to an unhealthy level as witnessed by the suspected overdose of ClavicularDamn is this really true? That’s wild. Hard to believe almost but damn | /r/seduction | 18/04/26 07:40 PM |
| 1 | The limits of looksmaxxing to an unhealthy level as witnessed by the suspected overdose of ClavicularHonestly straight dudes are terrible at rating looks (despite what looks maxers think) but you’re pretty decent looking honestly IMO, you have a kind face (no homo haha). The real question would be based on online dating results and women checking you out and how hard you need to work vs if she’s dtf right away based on appearance. I will say I think ethnicity and height as factors are overrated. Think face is most inportant | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 06:48 PM |
| 1 | The limits of looksmaxxing to an unhealthy level as witnessed by the suspected overdose of ClavicularIdk if an average guy can really become a 7. Facial aesthetics are a real thing for sure and some women won’t entertain the most possibly optimized version of yourself. I also don’t know if it’s a strict line, maybe it’s more of a spectrum line where if you’re completely on one side it’s easier completely on one side it’s harder approaching impossible. Because you can convert women who actively probably think “he’s not my type” — maybe not he’s super ugly. | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Guys who can convert cold leads with no IOIsYeah that makes a lot of sense. With apathetic assuming the strat is to try to provoke an emotional reaction? Even if you get a negative one that’s better? | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Guys who can convert cold leads with no IOIsI’m curious man - the girls you have converted are they usually completely unreceptive, or somewhere in the middle? Or some of both? I’ve heard stories of some guys gaming girls who have them absolutely nothing (no asking questions, or seeming interested at ALL) — it seems like it’s kinda on a spectrum. Have you pulled that at all? | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Guys who can convert cold leads with no IOIsDon’t think dating apps count as game hot take — think only cold approach does | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Guys who can convert cold leads with no IOIsI do think at a narrow place that story of pulling people who showed zero or negative interest happens but it’s not easy and pretty rare. And think things like preselection and being unphased here are necessary. | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Guys who can convert cold leads with no IOIsI’ve heard stories of some guys pulling girls who showed no interest — my college roommate hooked up with a girl who told me to my face he kept hitting on her and he wasn’t her type or something. And he ended up smashing lol. She was a party girl who told me about other guys who she was attracted to and not him so it’s not like she was being coy. But to be fair he was a decent looking guy and had a lot of preselection. Wouldn’t be surprised if the preselection changed her mind | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Guys who can convert cold leads with no IOIsI’m basically maxed out already unless I turn into someone who get surgery lmao for marginal returns. This comment seems like this may be the wrong idea | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Guys who can convert cold leads with no IOIsYeah I don’t really get those often. There are a few times in my life I’ve gotten blatant IOIs but it’s rare and even rarer that the girl is very attractive — think people usually will IOI people out of their league (just as I do, I’d be ogling Margot Robbie knowing damn well she’s much hotter than me). When I think about my friend though it’s lingering of the eyes, often multiple times or laughing excessively and touching. Telling them their friend thinks he’s cute, etc. Girls have been very di… | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Guys who can convert cold leads with no IOIsRespect man — definitely establishes you as elite if you are dating girls who weren’t initially attracted to and were preselecting you but you used wit and personality and all the tools at your disposal. This is gold standard of game w lot of guys don’t have. I’ve tasted this a little but want to get here more | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Guys who can convert cold leads with no IOIsLike for the guys who cling too much is something in their body language not establishing them on their own enough? Or what are the factors? | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Guys who can convert cold leads with no IOIsIt’s not compete just to clarify — its more of a win win situation where we each pull. It’s just if there are like 5 chicks each who think he’s hot it’s in both our best interest (and assuming you have good friends in general applicable to you too) for both of us to be successful. | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 10:14 PM |
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