PositiveApricot8759 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Introverted men are boring to most women (even introverted women) Being well-read doesn’t work one-on-one at all. Most women don’t want you to be well-read to have intellectual conversations with you. They want you to show that you are well-read while hanging out with her friend group and impress them so that she can brag about her boyfriend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 10:27 PM
–	Men need to wake up, women were never truly attracted to you like you thought Also didnt man prevent woman from having resources for the 1000s of years of womans exsistence? No, they didn’t. If anything, men have always been the driving force in cultures becoming increasingly resourceful, and they happily shared the new resources with women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 05:17 PM
5	Women preach “confidence” but get annoyed when average men think they have a chance with them One must not confuse these two aspects. Women do not admire "confidence" as an abstract concept. Women are drawn to sexually attractive men who display confidence (possessiveness, strength, sort of aggression, you name it) in their relationships with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 06:18 PM
1	If women are kind of disgusted by male sexuality by default, then they really shouldn't be so shocked that men too have negative feelings about theirs. I doubt we will ever find out the actual reason for: * women’s double standards * the „women are wonderful” effect We live in a time when questioning anything feminine results in instant ostracism. This is getting worse and worse because it has become politically incorrect to criticise women's “natural” behaviour at all, while it is entirely okay to tell men they have to keep their instinct behaviours in check.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 09:56 AM
1	The “everyone gets a wife” experiment lasted about 50 years and failed. Now it’s back to normalcy No, this isn't. Rape has always been exception rather than the rule. Women seek to reproduce (in fact, all life on this planet does), but they are willing to reproduce primarily with the male who got on top of the hierarchy after fighting and competing with other males for resources, status and access to fertile females. “The winner takes it all” is basically the rule amongst all species. Monogamy in mammals is rather rare, only occurring in 3–9% of these species, so it cannot be evolutionarily …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/25 03:24 PM
3	The “everyone gets a wife” experiment lasted about 50 years and failed. Now it’s back to normalcy But that’s the point. Men have always fought to gain access to women, just like most other species do. Losers don’t get a wife, whereas winners get many wives. The social experiment that even losers can get a wife is doomed to fail, leading to social tensions. Let me quote Wikipedia, for that matter. In social living groups, members are likely to compete to access limited resources and mating opportunities. Rather than fighting each time they meet, individuals of the same sex establish a relativ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/25 07:08 AM
18	The “everyone gets a wife” experiment lasted about 50 years and failed. Now it’s back to normalcy In many animal species, nearly 90% of the females but only 20% of the males reproduce. Humans are no different, as genetic studies, notably those by Jason Wilder et al., show that about 70% of women in history managed to reproduce, whereas only about 30% of men who ever lived left traces of their genes. So, yes, we’re getting back to the norm, I’d say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/25 05:23 PM
–	When a man asks, “What do you bring to the table?” I immediately get the ick. Women, on the other hand, are natural-born princesses, full stop.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 06:08 PM
6	Women want men who are kind , Emotionally available , considerate but they will throw away all of that for a guy thats just tall , funny and good in bed He didn’t say that these things are mutually exclusive. He stated that women tend to prefer funny guys that are good in bed over those who are only kind, emotionally stable, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 09:24 AM
2	Size doesn't matter to women until it's their own partner who's small. It doesn’t matter—until it does. (Read: when it affects her). The same for height. So long as her partner isn’t on the shorter side amongst her friend group, she’s fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 09:47 AM
10	If you had a son and had to choose between two futures for him, would you rather he be tall & good-looking, sexually successful, but misogynistic, OR short & unattractive, romantically unsuccessful, but respectful toward women? Isn’t this approach simply universal amongst women across all cultures? Their actual views become naked when it comes to their son’s life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 09:39 AM
2	I’m a man and I can see it. Why are women’s standards considered problematic and isnt it hypocritical for guys to complain about them ? Lol, sure, let’s account for 0.001% of cases to justify imaginary fear. Following this logic, I shouldn't even leave home because so many bad things could happen to me, such as a lightning strike.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/25 08:28 AM
2	Women can be attracted to you but until they see another girl interested have no interest in pursuing or being receptive to engaging with you I wouldn't say it indicates whether one is "safe" or "not dangerous”. This kind of narrative suggesting that every woman is fearful of men in general is pure misandry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 07:53 PM
-1	A large portion of women are hypocrites when it comes to their dating preferences My tip: listen to what women tell you and assume exactly the opposite. Works in the majority of cases.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/25 03:08 PM
0	How have women evolved with hypergamous selection if they haven’t had a choice in their mate until modern era? Have you maybe read Pride and Prejudice? It was like the early 19th century, but still, Darcy had to be the tallest and the richest one in the county.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 09:27 AM
4	What is the dating experience like for an average man? How did you get to experience being above average, average and below average, if you don't mind me asking? I suppose that you got better looking with age, but it made me curious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 09:16 AM
1	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women I mostly agree with everything you wrote. You started by writing about breakups, and, in fact, men seem to have harder times than women. I know many guys who couldn't get over a woman for a few years, only to suppress their feelings by finally getting to date someone else. On the flip side, I have never known a woman with a similar issue. I don't mean that women don't suffer, but it's a much quicker process for them in general.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 12:19 PM
-11	What can men genuinely expect from women in a relationship? But women have a stronger drive for procreation and, therefore, will be with men only because they want to have children. Men have an easier time suppressing this desire, though, after all, the purpose of all life on this planet is procreation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:51 AM
-10	What can men genuinely expect from women in a relationship? This is yet another time when the question of what women bring to the table is raised. When you exclude sex, there is not much, really, for the majority of guys out there. If men weren’t motivated by sex more or less on demand, they would see no point in chasing women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:17 AM
3	Q4M: Would you date an attractive "loser"? Because she’s kind-hearted, feminine, cooperative, in amazing shape, easy to get along with, low n, and 8/10. In real world, I wouldn’t even have a chance to date her, so if you ask hypothetically, I would absolutely love to date her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 09:33 PM
2	Q4M: Would you date an attractive "loser"? I would, absolutely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 07:25 PM
–	AI girlfriends are going to completely change the dating game, and it's going to happen very soon. OMG STOPPPP 🥹 what a BRILLIANT idea awww I'm melting right now lol !!! let’s gooo—u just made my dayyyyy	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 03:24 PM
9	Why men must never open up to women. As a man, it's okay to feel sad and cry when your dog dies or something similar. That's an acceptable show of emotion. However, you shouldn't express that you are depressed or can't handle your work, as that makes her uncomfortable and she feels threatened by such situations. Therefore, that's unacceptable vulnerability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 07:59 PM
2	Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality women Former BPer checking in	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 04:11 AM
2	Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality women To me, what you suggested rather sounded like acting distant and not confident.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 04:08 AM
9	What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era? This is not universal, though. There was a woman I knew for about two years whom I considered to be of average appearance (definitely not ugly, though), but we didn't speak with each other very much back then. Then, after those two years, I got to know her a little better, and something clicked inside me, and she suddenly became beautiful in my eyes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/24 01:10 PM