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As mentioned before I am aware of famous scholars in the past who were not married. But they were in the minority and they are humans who can make mistakes/faults/ their choice etc. They are not infallible. We must take the prophet saw as our role model and he advocated for people to married like himself. Also I dont agree with painting all women the same. There are good women out there and iA we can find them. Likewise there are many bad men out there too. You mentioned about ungrateful women. …
/r/MuslimRedPill04/06/20 08:31 AM
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I understand some of the concerns and many brothers I know that are married have similar issues with intimacy. However the brothers that have read up on red pill ideas alhamdiullah and they have been able to reverse the female sexual agency power dynamic with intimacy in their marriages. Along with using competition anxiety in a subtle way ( not in a way that causes pain on their spouses) the brothers have been able to have better intimacy with their partners and preventing what is known as 'sta…
/r/MuslimRedPill03/06/20 10:32 PM
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Honestly dont think its feasible to be muslim and not try to get married. Theres no halal outlet otherwise. We know men on average have 12-17x more testosterone than women. Testosterone is the primary driver for libido. A mans sexual desire is very high and imo its very unnatural to suppress those natural urges Allah has given us a halal way to release it and provide tranquility with our spouses.Its interesting reading up about oxytocin and its effects on the brain/love and bonding helps illustr…
/r/MuslimRedPill03/06/20 09:44 PM
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Sollipism. Rollos in the rationale male explains this concept in the war brides chapter. Makes a lot of sense and understanding this concept will help in our marriages iA.
/r/MuslimRedPill03/06/20 09:28 PM
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I think you may have missed the point about why they are protesting. Its what that killing represents. Police brutality/institutional racism/ systematic dehumanisation of non whites/ systematic bias and non action of the prosecutors/ the proximity of the other killings like Ahmaud Arbery and could go on and on. They are fed up and a lot of them have got nothing to lose now. https://m.youtube.com/watch?feature=youtu.be&v=6_uYWDyYNUg Malcom x speech about 50 years ago. Still very relevant today. T…
/r/MuslimRedPill03/06/20 08:57 PM
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Think its important for men nowadays to understand if we don’t actively seek a woman that wants to prioritise family life/raising kids over their careers. Then the guy should not start complaining about his ‘modern’ wife. He made that choice. He has to live by it and some of the decent points you mentioned in post will happen to the mans determent. The point about intimacy is good because we know that female sexual agency is the biggest powerplay women have in the power dynamic within marriage. …
/r/MuslimRedPill02/06/20 11:25 PM
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Yeah heard with male rape in prison is a power player for dominance rather than sexual desire.
/r/MuslimRedPill02/06/20 08:09 AM
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According to Rainn, there are 213,000 victims of sexual assault in the US every year. More than 9/10ths of those victims are women and girls. Correct me if im wrong. So in the normal population women get assaulted more. But include the prison population men get raped more? Theres huge issues to fix on both genders no?
/r/MuslimRedPill02/06/20 08:08 AM
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Do you have a source for the more men get raped than women in the west? I want to read up on it a bit more. Thanks
/r/MuslimRedPill01/06/20 11:44 PM
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Jazakullah khair for sharing your experience and insights. Frame is key.
/r/MuslimRedPill01/06/20 10:46 AM
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Jazakullah khair for your in sights and understanding especially the last point of the prophet making a point ask why didn’t he marry someone young. The point about wiping over the top though, could argue logically that wiping the bottom with it being exposed to sand, dust and dirt would make the hands unclean and being the last action of wudu But yeah 100% take your point that the quran and sunnah is the ultimate source and if science, logic or some red pill ideas goes against islam then I reje…
/r/MuslimRedPill01/06/20 01:57 AM
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Jazakullah khair for the beneficial reminder. Need to focus more on the quran - 100% So is there a resource linking red pill ideas and quran/sunnah sources directly? Or do we have to connect the dots as we read the quran
/r/MuslimRedPill01/06/20 01:32 AM
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Yeah some stuff I agree with what you said. Disagree though why most women hate the red pill. Imo its some of it is how brothers act towards them after they develop very negative views and project those views onto all women as myself I did when I first became aware. Eg solipsism - can cause brothers to think of woman as shellfish. The war bride chapter in rationale male is controversial but from psychology it make sense. Also the concept of ‘shit’ testing - I see it as a benefit for men because …
/r/MuslimRedPill31/05/20 05:00 PM
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Any tips on implementing the red pill theories into your marriage? And why do we have to do it covertly? I remember reading the rationale male and rollo talked about covert and overt communication but would be good to hear from your perspective
/r/MuslimRedPill31/05/20 03:51 PM
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Jazakullah khair bro for the links
/r/MuslimRedPill31/05/20 12:49 PM
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Jazakullah khair bro a friend recommended me that book too. Yeah im not looking for red pills as we hold the quran and sunnah has number 1 for all knowledge. So if some red pill ideas go against the islam we reject them. Its simple as that. Its a danger ive come across when brothers first get exposed to the red pill. Just looking for links/ connections between the two
/r/MuslimRedPill30/05/20 09:56 AM
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Jazakullah khair bro Got that on audible so planning to listen to it soon.
/r/MuslimRedPill30/05/20 01:40 AM
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Fair enough but theres loads you can improve on. Have you read a book called atomic attraction? The author uses studies to explain key fundamentals of how attraction works. Investing in yourself ie working out being in good shape, good fitted clothes, perfumes, oral hygiene etc which will help create high internal value are proven to be highly attractive according to studies. Plus they are emphasised a lot in the sunnah. Plus quite a lot more - especially the internal side of high confidence and…
/r/MuslimRedPill30/05/20 01:38 AM
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Thing is, we should help the ‘average’ guy become the best version of himself iA, be on his purpose and mission in life like the prophet saw. As guys we should strive to be better than average, have the growth mindset. Question. if you had a daughter surely you want her to choose best guy in terms of deen, physical and mental traits instead of an ‘average’ guy?
/r/MuslimRedPill30/05/20 12:45 AM
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Alhamdiullah, agreed the deen aspect is number 1 and hopefully if the brother is following the quran and sunnah then he will be the best of husbands and fathers IA From my experience of talking to my friends that are married. Chose someone that has a balance of being strong/assertive and kind/caring. Either extremes as some brothers can be, will lead to issues. They will get angry quickly or be too soft and weak. Jazakullah khair for your list.
/r/MuslimRedPill30/05/20 12:08 AM
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Is there any current islamic books on inter gender dynamics Ive read all 3 of rollos books but nothing from the islamic literature. If any brother can reccomend any good books. Jazakullah khair
/r/MuslimRedPill29/05/20 10:40 PM
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Emotional intelligence is key. Someone that knows when to be assertive (not in a controlling way) and lead the way and also at the same time when to be comforting and caring. Someone that leads by example rather than just instructing you what to do. Ie a postive influence on you and the family. Someone that is emotionally centred that doesnt get angry nor someone too soft and weak with his emotions like the prophet saw Someone that has features of a high value man. Confident in himself, values h…
/r/MuslimRedPill29/05/20 10:35 PM
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