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| 1 | It’s ok for straight women to only want to date straight menAutistic men are different (sometimes more difficult to tolerate) than autistic women, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 08:17 AM |
| 1 | It’s ok for straight women to only want to date straight menOh wow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 05:44 PM |
| 1 | It’s ok for straight women to only want to date straight menWhat do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 05:44 PM |
| 8 | It’s ok for straight women to only want to date straight menThis is valid and as a bi guy I feel like I feel more comfortable with bi women and it makes me feel like they’ll hold me to less, if any, gendered standard. I feel like they’ll see me more as a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 08:58 PM |
| 4 | Female Sexuality is innately SelfishEsther Perel says female sexuality is narcissistic and she isn’t a self loathing misogynist. Most psychologists agree that narcissism is healthy and the dose makes the poison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Female Sexuality is innately SelfishI wonder if you mean “ravished” not “ravaged” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 09:42 AM |
| 1 | We should not call men lonely, or talk about the male loneliness epidemicDo you find that annoying or an inferior type of conversation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 01:25 PM |
| 1 | We should not call men lonely, or talk about the male loneliness epidemicYour original comment implied that people cannot handle isolation because they can’t go without validation, which is not true. I am being scientific. Your brain atrophies in isolation. A person needs social stimulation regardless of how secure they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 01:13 PM |
| 1 | We should not call men lonely, or talk about the male loneliness epidemicYou don’t know that. And that is real. They’re not bots. I never said it was optimal. Having online relationships first can give you the strength to branch out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 12:47 PM |
| 0 | We should not call men lonely, or talk about the male loneliness epidemicI never assumed that. I said your brain literally atrophies in isolation. You need social interaction for your health. You can’t replace it with anything else. That is not the same thing as saying other people owe you something or that other things aren’t stimulating. You sound really young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 12:24 PM |
| 1 | We should not call men lonely, or talk about the male loneliness epidemic“Men are hardwired to be more competitive and less agreeable.” What is your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 09:26 AM |
| 1 | We should not call men lonely, or talk about the male loneliness epidemicNo, I have found online friends who lived in other countries whom I have never met. Some I interact with daily and it has utterly transformed my quality of life and my brain chemistry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 09:23 AM |
| 1 | We should not call men lonely, or talk about the male loneliness epidemicI am shocked at how often people make relationships about validation rather than stimulation. An erroneous modern cliche. Your brain needs interaction or else it atrophies. It isn’t a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: choose a life: bad boy with 5 baby mamas or mild mannered virginLife B. It is chill and not totally devoid of prospects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 07:17 AM |
| 1 | We should not call men lonely, or talk about the male loneliness epidemicNo. I don’t want to be friends with an animal who doesn’t know what “vivacity” means. So no trouble there. Friendship isn’t the goal. It’s the enjoyment a friendship would bring. I don’t enjoy the company of illiterate people with no personality, which is most men. I’m glad to have them out of my life. That’s like dating someone you’re not attracted to or kissing someone you don’t want to kiss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 07:10 AM |
| 1 | The female orgasm is a mythWhat is the motivation being posting this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 05:38 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Deal with the Constant Hatred Towards Men Online?All my friends are women, so I don’t feel that affected by it or that it is representative of reality. But I think guys with no female friends and male friends who are affected by it and try to commiserate with them, might be likely to be affected by it. Personally, in my mind, the internet just doesn’t feel that real. These platforms are echo chambers. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/25 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Men, how do you feel about female teachers getting away with sleeping with underage male students?I love camille paglia and her take on what she refers to as the vampirism of the heterosexual female. I’ve experienced this and been stalked before by women and been disgusted by individual women at one point. I am against women sleeping with males under the age of 18. I am disgusted with female predators. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/25 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Losing your virginity "late" is far better than with the wrong personRegret isnt always something you can just make go away, though. Regret with regards to a specific experience, for me, is more uncomfortable than regret with regards to not doing something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 03:51 PM |
| 1 | We should not call men lonely, or talk about the male loneliness epidemicMen everywhere, dude. I am Gen Z. A lot of guys my age are boring! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 07:04 PM |
| 1 | We should not call men lonely, or talk about the male loneliness epidemicMost men have to have intelligence to have social skills but a lot of dumb women seem to have it inbuilt, so it’s even possible to have a conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 04:33 PM |
| 6 | We should not call men lonely, or talk about the male loneliness epidemicSame here but also men annoy me. They make more social faux pas and there is an autistic autogenerated quality to their speech, I find. They burn out much faster conversationally and lack vivacity or dynamism - what Camille Paglia referred to as the controlled vitality of the charismatic individual. She also said charisma was an androgynous quality. I think verbal content overwhelms them. I am not one for excursions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 12:36 PM |
| 2 | The shift in why men don't read anymore (high iq megathread)I meant video content like podcasts and video essays | /r/MensRights | 06/02/25 05:34 PM |
| 4 | The shift in why men don't read anymore (high iq megathread)I wonder if they just get it from another format, like YouTube? A lot of social media is brain rot but sometimes I truly wonder how different it is from mainstream fiction. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/25 03:59 PM |
| 1 | You Can Never Trust a Woman Who Doesn't Have Intense Lust for You Nearly ImmediatelyA lot of women are unfulfilled by their relationships with men and would rather be celibate than stay with someone they don’t like? Do you actually not believe this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 08:52 AM |
| 5 | Why do men believe virgin men are unattractive to women?I think they tend to do that because they think that is what men care about. I am bi but come across as masculine and have been made fun of before by women attempting to taunt me by calling me “gay” when I say something that is pretty gay in sentiment but inexplicit. With regards to their intent, sometimes it is hostile, sometimes it is not. They just want to get under your skin, if you’re a guy. I truly wonder if it pertains much to their own values. It probably does, but a strong component is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 04:56 PM |
| 2 | The true RP position is that male friendships, not romantic relationships, are the answer to the male loneliness epidemicIt is a valid question. I said I was bi in a previous comment but I don’t even bother dating men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 08:02 AM |
| 0 | The true RP position is that male friendships, not romantic relationships, are the answer to the male loneliness epidemicRural America fascinates me. But I do have some female online friends who are from urbanised America and they’re simply nicer and less socially useless. Men seem quite thoughtless, boring, non-verbal and uncomplicated, to me. The women I interact with know a bit about mental health, self-care and relationships and how adversity reverberates. We don’t talk loads about it but just having that common ground makes me have faith in them. They are more mental health focussed than men, who seem totally… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 05:15 PM |
| 1 | The true RP position is that male friendships, not romantic relationships, are the answer to the male loneliness epidemicIt is funny that has been your experience. I genuinely only am friends with women (with rare exception) at this point because I constantly meet men who have nothing to offer, friendship-wise. I thought everyone thought this. Women go into more caring professions. The guys I meet have main character syndrome and are almost autistic in their lack of theory of mind. I am an English bisexual man, for what it’s worth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 04:58 PM |
| 1 | The true RP position is that male friendships, not romantic relationships, are the answer to the male loneliness epidemicWhy is it always either romance with women or friendships with men? Why can’t it be friendships with both males and females or even a job working with kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Is it common for women to have had a negative experience with an autistic man in their life?Do you mean you dont bother as in you wouldnt date an autistic man again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 04:21 AM |
| 15 | Is it common for women to have had a negative experience with an autistic man in their life?I can speak for a girl who overheard an autistic male friend (regrettably, of mine - though I did not know him well… more like friend prospect) make a rape joke when we were 16, at school. She hated him (and by association, me) thereafter. He said endless offensive things about minorities and said women had a duty to reproduce. He was a nice guy, just a really weird disconnect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Curious what women view as "good guys"All good 🤝🏻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Curious what women view as "good guys"I am defending you? I said you weren’t contradicting yourself, albeit my comment was a bit convoluted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Curious what women view as "good guys"She dumped him cos she lost attraction. She is living and acting in accordance with what she said of herself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Why do straight men seem to hate Sex and the City so much?Oh right thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 02:11 PM |
| 21 | Women making excuses for a child murdererVery weird that women sympathise a lot with mothers who murder their children and call people who are less sympathetic ”misogynists”. It is literally a case, to them, of women’s feelings being the centre of the universe and the last word on everything. They think of themselves as eternally complex and of valid whims. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/24 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do straight men seem to hate Sex and the City so much?Sorry, what? I have no idea what you’re saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 01:07 PM |
| -2 | Why do straight men seem to hate Sex and the City so much?What do you believe women want, then? And do you consider yourself depressed? How do you differ from red pill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 09:31 PM |
| -1 | Why do straight men seem to hate Sex and the City so much?Ah. Okay. I don’t know if it is honestly a falsehood. There are plenty of ugly guys who’ve dated hot women. https://images.app.goo.gl/TBNG7a2xnHsbkEdf9 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 09:21 PM |
| – | Why do straight men seem to hate Sex and the City so much?Ah. Okay. I don’t know if it is honestly a falsehood. There are plenty of ugly guys who’ve dated hot women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 09:19 PM |
| -4 | Why do straight men seem to hate Sex and the City so much?The amount of ugly loser men on that show who get laid is gargantuan. I would expect blokes to rejoice at that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 08:57 PM |
| 9 | Why do straight men seem to hate Sex and the City so much?Wasnt it aimed at middle aged women? Arent they middle aged in the show? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Why do straight men seem to hate Sex and the City so much?It is just boring and as someone who has seen it, it is very repetitive, albeit entertaining and educational and I do find 3/4 the main women likeable. I don’t have a vendetta against it, but it is a bit boring. I like that the experiences depicted were real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 08:49 PM |
| 13 | Reflecting on his past experience: “I really, I feel uncomfortable right now,” Justin Beiber replied, “why do you want to know the sex talk from a 15-year-old boy? That’s pretty weird.” The article also talks about the groping he was subjected to by older women. MeToo didn't help Justin Beiber.There is a very interesting video on his wife’s stalking him for a decade prior to getting him to marry her. https://youtu.be/wi5khawZC_o?si=2oPStBJncJpltj5k | /r/MensRights | 31/10/24 06:26 PM |
| 4 | The popular advice "Happy wife, happy life"I am not trying to be rude but are you sure you’re not black pill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would seeing your SO catch a beat down make you lose respect for her?Intelligence is attractive to me, therefore running away as fast as possible would make me wanna wife her up. Taking punches = unattractive (for me). She’ll have brain damage and it will make me not want to date her. It is inconsiderate to your partner to run knowingly towards a situation that is guaranteed to give you brain damage, when you took those vows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/24 12:14 PM |
| 2 | To women, how would you feel if your partner spent a lot of money on his past partners but is relatively frugal with you?That’s brilliant to hear. There is an angry gay guy I follow on social media saying men need to be paying and giving princess treatment etc and I don’t like his take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 04:14 PM |
| 10 | To women, how would you feel if your partner spent a lot of money on his past partners but is relatively frugal with you?Mature take. You find grand gestures and lavish gifts off-putting and distasteful? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 04:08 PM |
| 1 | As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism?I don’t mind healthy feminism in the least but the only thing that drives me potty is if I get scrutinised or accused of being a misogynist or red pilled when I am not, or someone insisting I call myself a feminist when I don’t feel comfortable. I want to be allowed to make mistakes and change my view on the spot - which is the right thing to do - rather than be punished. I do not feel comfortable calling myself a feminist because it is a political term and it sounds like a can of worms. I also … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 04:32 PM |
| 0 | Are female virgins past 23 typically very desirable?Not unattractive in the least. Sometimes it is about self respect. However, I don’t mind if she was an ugly duckling. Other people not desiring her has zero bearing on my attraction to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 07:27 PM |
| 10 | UK: Elderly man attacked in bus queue after 'letting women and children on first'Isnt it fair game not fair gain? | /r/MensRights | 15/10/24 06:56 PM |
| 6 | My Experience with Domestic Abuse as a Male: An Important Story to ShareIt plagues me, too (with regards to my past situation) and it part of the reason victim blaming is so rife. But it’s like blaming the elderly for getting scammed. People have an idea of what an abuser will be like and the real life instance is always more human that they’d have expected. Until you encounter a psychotic, perhaps Cluster B person for the first time, you’ll never be able to guess what they’re like because people like that are crazy. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/24 04:01 PM |
| 10 | My Experience with Domestic Abuse as a Male: An Important Story to ShareI don’t know what to say bro but that is a nightmare experience. Hopefully you have learned what the red flags are so you feel confident that it won’t happen again. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/24 02:55 PM |
| 8 | How can men keep safe from womenThe post included his fear of false allegations, my man. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/24 02:52 PM |
| 12 | How can men keep safe from womenFalse accusations though bro if everyone knows you’re desperate for this chick they will be more inclined to believe her. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/24 01:35 PM |
| 35 | How can men keep safe from womenIf you play desperate, they can accuse you of being a stalker 😭 | /r/MensRights | 12/10/24 11:19 AM |
| 6 | What advice would you give to women outearning their partners?I’m not bothered by it in principle but awareness of statistics surrounding it makes me wary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Why is that in a relationship, going 50/50 (splitting bills, chores and work) is considered bad or 'feminine'?Yeah she is a coach | /r/MensRights | 07/10/24 05:27 PM |
| 23 | Why is that in a relationship, going 50/50 (splitting bills, chores and work) is considered bad or 'feminine'?You know her? All her content is “men should stop apologising for: being aggressive, competitive, etc” “What a depressed man looks like” “Workaholic high performing men have a hard time finding a partner who is smart enough to keep up with them” Then just randomly throws in that she expects men to pay. Ugh! They’re so unprincipled - these female content creators that pretend to empathise. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/24 03:43 PM |
| 50 | Why is that in a relationship, going 50/50 (splitting bills, chores and work) is considered bad or 'feminine'?There is a lady called elise michaels on instagram whose whole account is about building men up but even she says men who don’t pay rent for their girlfriends aren’t real men because it is not a woman’s job. She is a phoney! | /r/MensRights | 07/10/24 01:42 PM |
| 5 | Attractive men don't have better skills when talking to women, they often never had to develop themDo you watch The Authentic Observer? I ask because https://youtu.be/G7ZAYgTd0Z8?si=-uqJ_RQDG8bKZvlN | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 09:55 AM |
| 6 | 'No men allowed' ladies lounge founder says feeling of exclusion felt by men constituted part of the artworkNever once in my life have I intentionally tried to upset a woman, especially not on the basis of her gender. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/24 08:49 AM |
| 4 | Reactions to boys falling behind vs girls falling behind in educationYou don’t have to reply to this, but can you name a few, just so I know? It might be easier for me than listening to her talk for hours. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/24 08:45 AM |
| 3 | It seems like males slow to commit AND slow to break upI remember thinking our problems were solvable so waited for her to mature. She and other girls I’ve known have also hinted at suicide or weaponised mental health issues to manipulate the other person onto doing what they wanted which sometimes included not arguing about something or staying rather than breaking up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 03:05 PM |
| 3 | The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women areYour swearing is crazy, honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 12:35 PM |
| 6 | The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women areNeedless comment? Just tell me why you want a virgin. You shouldn’t be on this sub if you haven’t got the energy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 11:52 AM |
| 3 | The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women areIt is a decent point you make about women being obsessed with virginity, but I do think, especially if you look at the prevalence of retroactive jealousy in men vs women, I think there is something in men that makes them more obsessive about virginity. I don’t quite understand the ins and outs of it, yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Men of reddit would you have a problem if your girlfriend was a Cuckquean?I don’t want to be with anyone else because I am wired like a monogamous person. I don’t enjoy the thought of other people having access to me, so I am a minimalist when it comes to number of sexual partners. I would find it frustrating not knowing if my relationship were going to implode as a result of me doing that, even if she insisted she wanted it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 01:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Hitting "the wall" as a woman should be embraced!You’re all allowed to grieve but certainly try to find the good in it that you can. And if you really can’t accept it, the term “milf” exists for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Men, what negative dating/relationship experiences have you personally had with women?As a Gen Zer, for me it has just been dealing with mental illness: reactivity, love bombing then pulling away. I dated a woman with a disorganised attachment style among other things. Even my friends with anxious attachment styles drive me a bit nuts because it strains the friendship when you disagree with how they handled a situation, etc. Attachment issues pervade the quality of every relationship you have. A lot of Gen Zers seem relatively stable when single but everything becomes explosive w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 09:40 AM |
| 7 | Why do men who clearly dislike women still want to date them?What specifically are you referring to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 01:03 PM |
| 12 | Why do men who clearly dislike women still want to date them?I will say that wishing they were different isn’t the same thing as misogyny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 12:56 PM |
| – | CMV: Having no friends is NOT a red flag, especially in the modern dayIf they’re of average intelligence, having no friends is a red flag. If they’re highly intelligent, it is not and is likely to be expected. It depends on how naturally introverted they are, also. But I knew a BPD (borderline personality disorder) woman who had zero friends, and that was honestly a red flag. She was quite normal in her values and interests, and she was also very pretty - she was just so intense and easily upset by everything. I heard her on the phone angrily threatening to cut so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: You're alone in the woods... Would you rather be vulnerable with your SO or with a tree?You kind of have in calling him cowardly. Most men dgaf and don’t attribute that much meaning to their relationships anyway. I think men are generally just less reactive and hopeful than women; and have more to lose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 09:22 AM |
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