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Hmm.. yeah realised this from other comments
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:19 PM
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The whole point of this post is to ask the people who were in this place earlier. I DO NOT have any motive to hurt feelings. I neither have intentions to hit on her. I just want to ask others if it’s wise to do it or not And if so, what would be the consequences if things wouldn’t go as I expected etc..
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:58 AM
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What’s wrong with that? I haven’t started hitting or anything. Ofc I do that if I feel she has that burning desire to be fit.
/r/seduction06/02/22 07:44 AM
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You 😭😭
/r/seduction06/02/22 07:43 AM
10

Ok sir. Now please gtfo
/r/seduction06/02/22 07:41 AM
2

Ok.. thanks for your time. If you have more time read post again and read my replies on comments. After that gtfo
/r/seduction06/02/22 07:39 AM
3

Yes
/r/seduction06/02/22 07:38 AM
2

Okay
/r/seduction06/02/22 06:52 AM
-7

You don't watch movies or what? I saw what she would look like in future and I am attracted to that girl.
/r/seduction06/02/22 05:28 AM
2

Yeah I thought the same after reading another comment
/r/seduction06/02/22 04:03 AM
3

Yeah I thought the same after reading another comment
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:58 AM
2

I see.. maybe I should have framed the question properly. And for what you asked, I don’t know. I thought posting here would give me some perspective from others if they were in a similar situation and how they handled it. Morally speaking, It would be cruel to reject someone after dating them due to their weight. I would never do that.
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:52 AM
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I see.. maybe I should have framed the question properly. And for what you asked, I don’t know. I thought posting here would give me some perspective from others if they were in a similar situation and how they handled it. Morally speaking, It would be cruel to reject someone after dating them due to their weight. I would never do that.
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:49 AM
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True.. maybe I can talk to her and get to know more about her. Then I can see what level of desire she has to be fit and that helps in deciding if I should move forward or not. Thanks
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:24 AM
2

I can see where this is coming from. I never imposed myself more than her in the post, but you seem to read it that way. If I didn’t mention that she’s fat, and asked for a generic flirting suggestion, you wouldn’t have asked (1) That’s the point of the post. What if she doesn’t lose that weight?
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:22 AM
1

I don’t mind, honestly
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:20 AM
1

@Aooooie That’s the point of this post 🤦‍♂️ You are asking my question in return to me
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:19 AM
2

I can see right. And you are right, I don’t know if she’s single. But if you question yourself whether she’s single or not everytime, nothing can be done
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:09 AM
1

Go for it Go for her
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:07 AM
2

What?? No this isn’t
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:02 AM
1

Take it easy
/r/seduction26/01/22 10:26 AM
1

All I’m saying is empathy is a universal emotion. It can help two ppl to be friends, lovers or bff or whatever you call it. Op’s question is how to stay in friendzone. All I’m saying is empathetic listening won’t give him that
/r/seduction26/01/22 10:04 AM
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I’m not saying op shouldn’t listen empathetically. But I am saying that won’t help him to be friends. Empathy is kinda of showing care. It can be displayed on friends, family or anyone.
/r/seduction26/01/22 09:53 AM
4

Empathetic listening had nothing to do with any zone. It’s just displaying care
/r/seduction26/01/22 09:15 AM
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Just do it. When I did for the first time, I was literally trembling. But contrary to what I thought, the girl I approached blushed like anything. You are not doing something odd or awkward, you are making her day. If you know what you’re doing is not wrong, anxiety gets out of the way
/r/seduction23/01/22 07:16 AM
0

This looks like some serious friend zone to me. As others said, do ask her out But don’t do it directly. Drop some hints before that and let her know that you’re interested. Gauge her interest and act accordingly
/r/seduction22/01/22 11:06 AM
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Lost 30lb of fat and gained 9lb of muscle Learning martial arts, dance, Gym, Reading books, Meditation Finally enjoying life that I missed until now. By god’s grace I have a good job, so I don’t have to worry about that
/r/seduction15/01/22 06:07 PM
16

I do still care, but now I am working on myself because I wanted to, not to impress girls. I guess that would come as a sweet side effect of what I am doing now
/r/seduction15/01/22 11:09 AM
67

Mmm.. initially I too thought the same. But when I started working on myself, I found it soo good that now my complete focus is improving myself. I am loving it to be confident. Somewhere in the way, I kinda lost interest on chasing girls and improving myself full time now
/r/seduction15/01/22 09:09 AM
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Move on my brother. I know each and every bit of it
/r/seduction08/01/22 12:07 AM
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I would love to meet ppl like you :)
/r/seduction30/11/21 05:55 PM
3

This is also true. I would probably approach before going to a different gym. Thanks
/r/seduction30/11/21 06:26 AM
1

This makes sense
/r/seduction30/11/21 06:25 AM
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Any specific reason? I think everyone likes a compliment
/r/seduction30/11/21 06:11 AM
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I see. Thanks for sharing this
/r/seduction30/11/21 04:19 AM
1

Yeah definitely
/r/seduction27/11/21 09:30 AM
1

After she left, I started getting all those convo starters in head :(
/r/seduction27/11/21 09:08 AM
1

You don’t shit where you eat. Telling with experience. You have entire world to pick up hot chicks. Just spare work for god’s sake. It makes everyone extremely uncomfortable
/r/seduction03/11/21 07:08 AM
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I thought this is a joke from r/jokes. Lol it’s not
/r/seduction02/11/21 12:45 PM
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I guess you’d have known what you wanted by making a move like trying to kiss her rather than asking straight on face.
/r/seduction31/10/21 09:33 AM
2

Don’t take it to heart
/r/seduction28/10/21 04:42 PM
2

How are you holding up? When I asked my crush out she stopped talking to me
/r/seduction28/10/21 09:52 AM
8

Hope this is not some sixpence advertisement
/r/seduction27/10/21 02:43 PM
2

This is epic. Keep rocking
/r/seduction26/10/21 06:35 PM
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Seems to be true. I don’t have intentions to tell her anyways. I thought she’s provoking me with all that’s saying, perhaps that’s her guilt of putting me through that phase. In any case I won’t say anything. I expressed my interest, if she feels the same there shouldn’t be much awkwardness to tell me
/r/seduction30/09/21 04:52 AM
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Thanks for the comprehensive reply. I am not ready to do this, I mean saying her directly about it. At least as long as I am working with my current employer. I can’t handle that depression of not talking to her again
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:35 AM
1

Yeah, true
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:21 AM
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True, I too thought I should wait a lot of time to get full clarity. I would let her to open up and remain silent. Thanks for the suggestion
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:20 AM
1

Sometimes I too feel like this, but I never met anyone who’s this close to me
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:16 AM
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Actually, the right lesson for that act would be to use less words. There might not be anything wrong in seeing other women, but saying it to her with "words" is wrong. You could've done the same with your actions, and would've got what you wanted. Had she confronted, you could've just told you're talking to a friend and she would get the hint anyways but you wouldn't be losing your LTR.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/21 02:07 PM
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You don’t need to allocate time for hobbies. For example I also read lot of self help books, but while having lunch I strictly watch some sitcom. Now that’s a hobby for me
/r/seduction30/08/21 07:05 PM
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I think it entirely depends on how you enjoy your free time. If you are able to have fun with yourself you can try giving the same to others. For example if you really enjoy playing something, you’ll know so much about it. You can just talk about it. These are just my thoughts. I am no expert in this
/r/seduction30/08/21 06:52 PM
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Lol people are virgins at 30 or until they marry whichever is early in India
/r/seduction30/08/21 02:03 PM
1

I bet you’d not say this if op wants to ask their colleague out at her workplace
/r/seduction28/08/21 07:40 PM
3

I gave no advice 🤷‍♂️. Just said potential consequences lol
/r/seduction28/08/21 07:22 PM
1

What’s so funny here
/r/seduction28/08/21 07:18 PM
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While everyone else are giving you tips to ask him out, I hate to say this. Don’t shit where you eat. Given your shyness and anxiety, there’s a chance that you may mess up things. In that case be prepared to go to a different gym
/r/seduction28/08/21 07:13 PM
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I didn’t downvote but I guess it’s due to OP not putting minimal effort
/r/seduction28/08/21 07:08 PM
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I get you. The root of your problem comes from your loneliness. Didn’t you think she’s the only person who understood you very well? You might have also fantasised a beautiful life with her. This level of attachment can’t come if not any of those. It’s easy to say there are lot of girls, but you should really move on. Trust me, you’ll find someone exactly like her. There are billions of people on earth. Don’t distract yourself by playing games or not thinking when her thoughts come to you. Rathe…
/r/seduction28/08/21 02:10 PM
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Not worth it man. Don’t do it. It’ll land you and her in unnecessary troubles. I ruined my life doing this shit
/r/seduction26/07/21 09:37 AM
3

Oh I see. I was wondering why women in early to mid 20s want relationships. This makes perfect sense for those in late 20s or early 30s
/r/TheRedPill16/07/21 10:53 AM
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But how is that related to having relationships? Is it locking someone with them ? Feeling so dumb lol 😅
/r/TheRedPill16/07/21 10:20 AM
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Why do women look for relationships and not sex like men? Sorry if it’s a silly question
/r/TheRedPill16/07/21 07:29 AM
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I don’t deny that. But that’s not my point
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 10:27 AM
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Let me tell you, there’s no one in this world who could be more anxious than me on seeing a hot girl. Even I don’t meditate. I get crushes or I just suppress. And I do meditation every day but why would I do that to approach a woman?? Either you don’t know what makes people do meditation or you are just bluffing
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 09:53 AM
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Your definition of line between these two makes little sense actually. Why would any sane person do meditation when they see an attractive woman ? They either approach or suppress that feeling or just forget Seems like you posted something just for the sake of doing it
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 09:28 AM
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So what makes it red for you? Clearly he realised his shortcomings
/r/TheRedPill03/07/21 06:49 PM
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It felt like someone wrote about me. I ran a lot of races alone and won lot of them. This seems to be the toughest of all, since you’ve to start wayy behind the start line and it’s like running two races. One to be normal and other to win. But I know what it takes to win a race and how it feels after winning it Having no one to teach you anything in the childhood is the biggest punishment anyone will ever have for no mistake of them.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/21 11:06 AM
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Terrible advice to date colleagues. Telling from experience
/r/seduction15/06/21 11:41 AM
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