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| 1 | Are women who live in developed countries more picky and more careful about casual sex and dating and marriages than women from poorer countries?It depends on context. Like yeah there are some like that were she literally just sees you as a ticket out. But generally speaking, many also are looking for compatibility. Just like in the USA, having money just helps getting access. It just changes the status hierarchy. In the USA if you’re rich, you can find a hot chick who also loves you. But if you’re middle class you need to bring a whole lot more to the table, like being really good looking or a huge dick or whatever. When you go to these… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 12:38 AM |
| 4 | Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate?Yes because once you flaunt it, you’re just attracting people who want free rides and it makes it impossible to not feel used. Some people like to do that as they want any attention. But I don’t like that kind of attention | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 12:05 AM |
| 9 | Are Reddit women's sentiment regarding male attention reflective of women in real life?I think the women who say shit like this online are losers irl trying to make themselves feel like men actually see them sexually. It’s a sour grapes thing. They come online acting like they hate all these horny men seeking them out, which is why they are so so against it, when in reality they are probably so unattractive, men don’t even realize they exist. But that won’t stop them from making up some fantasy of whenever a guy so much as glances at her, she thinks “eww he is a gross disgusting m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 09:35 AM |
| -5 | Women shouldn’t complain about the current dating/relationship/sexual landscape when this is everything they wantedWomen are free to vote for whoever they want. The way you word and frame things are exactly one of the reasons why people support trump | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 11:37 AM |
| 5 | What can a man do to become more sexy and provocative "instantly"?!lol instantly just get into shape huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 06:40 PM |
| 3 | You've just been appointed "Minister for Relationships" and have UNLIMITED political/economic/financial power to make any changes to the dating world EXCEPT obligating anyone to date anyone else.The USA actually used to be very social. Incredibly social. It’s just that we had a massive cultural shift due to technology. But we were so social we’d literally just get into cars with strangers to meetup with people we barely knew several states away. You can watch home movies from the 70s to 90s and it’s like an entirely different culture. Everyone was just so much more interactive. We may not have had a pub culture but we’d also always be out and about at least on the weekends and nights do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 06:18 PM |
| 3 | You've just been appointed "Minister for Relationships" and have UNLIMITED political/economic/financial power to make any changes to the dating world EXCEPT obligating anyone to date anyone else.The USA is on the forefront of technological digital collapse through commodification of every aspect of our lives. It hasn’t become fundamental to Europe yet. I mean they exist and people use them. But it’s not even close to like in the USA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 06:04 PM |
| 4 | You've just been appointed "Minister for Relationships" and have UNLIMITED political/economic/financial power to make any changes to the dating world EXCEPT obligating anyone to date anyone else.I mean I’m a nomad so I’ve lived all over Europe. It’s all generally the same in this regard. Everyone is always going out and you’re always socializing. The USA is very lonely in comparison or at least if not lonely very closed off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 05:50 PM |
| 8 | You've just been appointed "Minister for Relationships" and have UNLIMITED political/economic/financial power to make any changes to the dating world EXCEPT obligating anyone to date anyone else.I live in Europe right now. Dating is soooooo much easier. When there is a culture of everyone going out to different local spots every night (or at least the weekend), you just meet so many more people. It’s more natural and human living in a culture where socializing is a normal part of day to day life. And since there are no dating apps where every chick just lazily swipes through hot dudes all day the attractiveness of women I’m pulling in person is massively higher than in the USA where app… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 05:45 PM |
| – | When You’re Single, Half The Women You Date Already Got A ManLast two girls I went on a date with, I sort of figured out that there is technically another guy they are branching out swinging from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 05:42 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Do you think it's understandable if a guy is celibate simply because he doesn't like his gender role in dating?Yeah. If he doesn’t want to hunt, that’s on him, but he’s not going to eat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 09:07 PM |
| 1 | The popular advice "Happy wife, happy life"Pick your battles. Often, just weigh how much X matters to you, versus how much it matters to her. Often, men will argue and fight just for the sake of being right, and create unnecessary friction. Instead you just go, “okay is this stupid decor she wants in the living room really that important? Do I really give a shit at the end of the day? Does it actually bother me? Because she seems to REALLLLLY want this stupid decor.” So instead of fighting trying to argue how stupid it is, just let her h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 03:43 PM |
| – | Why do some men care so much about body counts?I think deep down it has to do with sexual comparability and status. First, I think deep down men don’t like the idea that multiple men with huge dicks and tons of experience fucked their partner. Like if she was a slut, then you just know she was chasing after every hit dude wit hung dude who came knocking at 3am. So deep down you know you’re just not going to be sexually as valued in her eyes as these experienced hot men she’s used to having crazy good sex with at all hours of the day of. Her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 10:42 AM |
| – | Why do some men care so much about body counts?Yeah I never understood this. Women are always complaining and guys are like “well if you want to care you can. We literally don’t care if you have standards for anything.” Like yeah sure some guys care that women care about money but you rarely hear men complaining about women liking rich dudes and having those standards the same way women complain about male standards. Like guys are just “yeah no shit, women like guys with money…” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 10:32 AM |
| – | Why do some men care so much about body counts?No dude. It’s an analogy to make sense of something. If a woman goes “hot men who can’t hold a job are like the perfect shoe that’s too small” doe you scream “reeeeee men aren’t objects!,” It’s a fucking analogy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 10:30 AM |
| – | Men of reddit would you be okay with your girlfriend cucking you by letting her have sex with women?This is the most pathetic and weird fetish out there. Who wants to be humiliated and treated like that? Something is deeply wrong and weird and I want nothing to do with that person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 03:48 PM |
| 3 | In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating Market*overvalued | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Do men still prefer to be the main breadwinner? And what would the ideal wife be in this scenario?I don’t inherently care. But it does statically create a major friction point of failure. Further, when we have kids, that income we’ve adjusted to is going to end, which will create problems. It just makes more sense that I focus on the monetary game | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 01:06 AM |
| – | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isGenerally speaking yes, but men are more willing to go further down overall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 04:43 AM |
| – | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isThere are also women in that tier as well. He’s not going to get a hot Stacy with perfect teeth and skin, because it’s a different social class. But he can still get women. It’s just that men of higher status don’t mind going down so there is more cross competition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 02:08 AM |
| 5 | There are going to be very bad social consequences of women making 6-7 figure salaries via sex work.Sure. But some chicks are money driven hoes who enjoy this shit. I definitely wouldn’t want my daughter doing it, but running a successful OF as an attractive woman is way easier than starting a real business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 07:00 PM |
| 6 | There are going to be very bad social consequences of women making 6-7 figure salaries via sex work.Most don’t try. They just post and hope money falls on them. If you know how to use places like Reddit to spam your pics and engage people, you can quickly build a following of goners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 06:57 PM |
| 2 | The normalization of "Homie head" is wrong and should be stoppedDo you really think sex is just some “fun” casual activity? Holy shit. Maybe the conservatives are right. You guys are just socially removing all the intimacy and passion from sex and turning it into just some normal no big deal behavior. “Hey just some fun. Let’s fuck real quick like a bunch of hedonistic animals and go about our day!” It’s supposed to be intimate and you wanna treat it like a casual activity friends do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 08:34 AM |
| 0 | Does Pete Davidson prove that size actually does matter?USA average is 6-6.5 The internet always cites the outlier studies from ages ago, because using the lowest range makes dudes feel better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Does Pete Davidson prove that size actually does matter?Girls always insist their current sex partners size is best. But I have noticed the correlation outside relations women coincidentally think their best past partners just so happened to be hung. But swear it wasn’t his size, it was his confidence that came with size! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Does Pete Davidson prove that size actually does matter?There’s a correlation. Same with men and height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Does Pete Davidson prove that size actually does matter?That’s seems to be the consensus with larger men. They’ll admit to you that once they are in the bedroom nearly all admit to it. The ones who go “oh no too big!” Are the rare ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Does Pete Davidson prove that size actually does matter?Everyone knows size matters. Except online where people virtue signal. Reddit will upvote the 3 chicks who insist they prefer a small penis and if a woman admits she likes it big she gets conditioned to stfu because dudes will attack her. But every guy with eyes knows size matters. We all notice how the hung friend just so happens to get women casually all the time. How girls talk about “tee hee he was a bit of a big dick. But he has a big dick so we can’t booking up after I caught him cheating … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 07:29 PM |
| 10 | Passport Bros victims being forced to justify American expat behavior on social media nowOkay? How does that make them victims? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Why might women be so averse to using female (internal) condoms?🤣 if that was the case I think it would be more popular with the ladies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Why might women be so averse to using female (internal) condoms?Yeah I remember being taught about the infamous female condom back in sex ed like it would be a normal thing. Yet decades later I’ve still never seen one. Is the female condom Bigfoot? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 04:40 PM |
| -1 | Virtually 0 women get in trouble for sexual misconductBecause it’s not even in the same ball park of trauma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 01:10 AM |
| 12 | Passport bros are a symptom of a problem men did not createA lot of passport bros are just mad they can’t get someone thin, young, and hot in their own country so they go to other countries to find thin, young, hot women. They don’t want the husky lady who is their age and who is average looking with a mid career. I see nothing wrong with this. I mean, American women are only hooking up with the top 10% of guys because "Well it's easy sex with hot men, wouldn't you hook up with hot people if it was easy?" Sure... But I see guys going abroad for women as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 01:23 PM |
| 1 | The cold reality is that men "settle" for women who they aren't madly in love with tooThis matches with American birth rates. Late summer and early fall is when the most people are born. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 05:00 PM |
| – | Why legalizing prostitution is good for societyYeah. People who visit prostitutes generally aren’t incels who can’t get laid. It’s dudes addicted to sex or super busy high testosterone types. Lonely losers aren’t a big market. Those people want love, not a vagina who wants you to hurry up already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 10:52 PM |
| 6 | Which pill has had the most success in dating?Dude, dating advice from men has always been generally red pill whether they use the term or even realize it. Go listen to any comedian talk about relationships and it’s essentially red pill stuff. Blue pill is just the anti thesis feminist version that conflicts with reality. The dating advice that doesn’t pass natural selection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 01:47 AM |
| 19 | American Men have Normalized dating multiple women to speed up the process of finding ‘the One’ but instead they use this as an excuse to waste time dating multiple (and perhaps getting laid by) women that aren’t even their typeAre you a chick? Maybe the men you’re dating are like this because they are the top 10@ Most men don’t do this. But when I did, it’s true I was wasting their time and leading them on. I just wanted the sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 04:05 AM |
| 13 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADDude virgin standard is ridiculous. It’s one thing to be not into a slut that men routinely just use as a sex toy…. But she’s going to have bfs and have sex at the very least. Expecting virgin is absolutely unreasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 03:23 AM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADOld fashions don’t count | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Why do people say Tinder doesn’t work? It’s just an interface that mirrors real life dating preferencesIf you pay you get way more quality matches. That’s how the incentivize you to keep paying. If you were paying and getting nothing you’d stop paying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Identical twins shows blank slate equalism is wrongIt obviously does but it doesn’t mean they are 1:1 identical. They’ve shown this is twin studies with math specifically. People raised with Chinese or Japanese exceed in things like math due to the language structure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Identical twins shows blank slate equalism is wrongThe gender theory people have been fighting this for ages while also defending it. It’s a very complicated philosophy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Identical twins shows blank slate equalism is wrongIt’s suspected Asian cultures have higher IQ because the way their language is formed allows for longer chains of the thought and math retention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Is cold approach worth it in 2024 as an average guy?Yes. Don’t listen to these bitter losers. Never be afraid of challenges and self improvement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 02:36 AM |
| -1 | The gender wage gap is caused by men not doing enough parenting.Oh I agree. I think it’s just feminists insist this is some sort of sexism when in reality it’s just logical and practical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 01:58 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: You have 5 points. Build your dream dateYou have to manifest it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 02:52 PM |
| 4 | The gender wage gap is caused by men not doing enough parenting.I mean I rather stay at home. I just know reality. She wants it more and will win that fight. Relationships require compromise and evaluating each others needs. Trying to win that fight will just create more strain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 02:41 PM |
| 4 | The gender wage gap is caused by men not doing enough parenting.Pick your battles. I know who wants it more. Sure there are options other than being a stay at home parent, but when given the option not to, people aren’t going to choose a third party raise their kid. There is a reason why the more wealthy you become the more likely there is a stay at home mother. When given the option, it’s just the logical thing to do. And it manifests in lower classes the same way which is why women in average pause careers more. If men staying home more was more beneficial… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 02:37 PM |
| 2 | The gender wage gap is caused by men not doing enough parenting.Yeah my partner isn’t having it. She’s seen all the research on child outcomes raised with third party child care vs family so she’s not having it. And since I can support us both, she gets the privilege of working from home at a much easier gig so she can care for the kid. If I asked her to swap roles with me, it would not go well at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 02:34 PM |
| 4 | The gender wage gap is caused by men not doing enough parenting.Men do. Have you had kids? Helping out around the house and watching the kid is one thing. But when it comes down to the brass tax of who’s taking time off work, the mother is going to always fight for that and send your ass to work. Even if the guy wants to stay at home and slow his career, she’s going to fight hard for you to keep the income flowing while she prioritizes the kid. Women become much less feminist once tire meets the road. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 02:30 PM |
| 7 | The gender wage gap is caused by men not doing enough parenting.Also I’m sure many men would love to do more parenting. But good luck winning that fight. The other is always going to win the argument of who’s going to take more time from their career. They are just way more bonded and rather see your ass at work than you spend more time with the kid. It’s just the reality of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is the difference between having sex with a hot woman NOT striving for marriage and a hot woman who charges (time, energy, money) for sex?Yes these women orgasm. The trick to amazing sex is to make the guy feel like a sex god who is irresistible. That’s their talent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 11:40 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What is the difference between having sex with a hot woman NOT striving for marriage and a hot woman who charges (time, energy, money) for sex?They don’t care if you like them or not. They have that at home. They just want to have insanely good sex. They have women throwing themselves all day every day and can easily get sex from hot women who want to fuck them. But they don’t want that. They want the he most intense and incredible sex money can buy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is the difference between having sex with a hot woman NOT striving for marriage and a hot woman who charges (time, energy, money) for sex?According to a relationship therapist who deals with rich people all the time, it’s because they can buy anything and everything. They don’t need a “wife” to take care of kids, or clean, or support role in anyway because they can just buy it. So often if they get a wife they get one based off personality and confidence trust. But sexual compatibility isn’t important. They instead just buy women who can fuck their brains out and achieve what they want that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Have you experienced mental illness in your dating life?Why the fuck are you still dealing with the guy? You’re also crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Hidden competition among women?It doesn’t matter. It takes men away from other women during those moments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Hidden competition among women?Who said they don’t? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 01:21 PM |
| 14 | Hidden competition among women?These things aren’t often even conscious. But it’s true. It’s emergent and happens through game theory. Women will see women using sex early and view it as an unfair advantage they are using to get a leg up on men. Most women don’t want sex quickly and casually so when they see some woman deploying a mating strategy of quick sex, they’ll intuitively feel like she’s using sex too strongly to compete with the available men and thus try to cut them down in other ways. These things aren’t talked abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 11:02 AM |
| 5 | Does clubbing automatically mean being sexually active?She’s basically wondering about his sex life and who he’s seeing if anyone. Considering he clubs she figured it could be a number of possibilities. So she was digging for info. In fact I think she’s still into him which is the reason for the inquiry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 05:04 AM |
| 1 | This is worth a watch, maybe the outlook on dating for men is perhaps too pessimisticVery few people are forced unattractive. Most are unattractive because they are out of shape and lack fashion sense and grooming skills | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 08:07 AM |
| 0 | This is worth a watch, maybe the outlook on dating for men is perhaps too pessimisticIt’s literally always been like that. That’s a solvable problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Ever feel insulted by the caliber of women who show interest in you?There it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 11:12 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: Ever feel insulted by the caliber of women who show interest in you?Yeah I think it’s called bragplaining or something back in the day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 10:19 PM |
| 0 | Men below 30, would you date a woman who used to be a sugarbaby? Maybe she used a sugar dady thrice her age to cover law school fees or somethingNor is it publicly addressed. He’s just realized when he helps pay her rent, she fucks him. No one is ever upfront about the terms. It’s just one day she’s with him begging for help with the tent, teasing sex, he says okay, he gets laid, then next month comes and she’s asking for help again, and then before you know it, it’s routine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 09:13 PM |
| 14 | Q4M: Ever feel insulted by the caliber of women who show interest in you?All those chicks in the Threads comments who are clearly hyper focused on their looks are all like “uggg I hate that all these men find me attractive and want to sleep with me.” Stfu, no you don’t. That’s the whole point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Why are people (mostly men) obsessed with relationships/sex/gender?Men were still given purpose and quite enjoyed it. Most men who were lonely incels went on to become explorers of some sort. Some pirates, some go on conquest, others went to new lands, etc. in the past the lonely man was still given a purpose in life they quite enjoyed where they’d only bother with prostitutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 01:04 PM |
| 4 | Attraction to money and status is NOT real attractionStatus is literally a fundamental trait everyone human seeks and is core to our survival and development. Money often reflects status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:57 PM |
| 1 | What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era?It doesn’t matter which side has it the most. If a hot chick finds your unique features higher in value, then you can get an attractive chick outside your league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 02:33 AM |
| 9 | What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era?Let’s say one time you lived at a place next door to a pub. It was considered trashy and low brow so it was cheap. You had tons of fun and loved the place though, but realized you need to be more responsible and go live in some better places. Over time, you realized the quality of life at the house next to that pub was amazing… you just long for those days at that house right next to a pub where you can just call and they’ll hand a beer to you over the fence. Later on you’re looking for a new pl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:25 PM |
| 0 | The Hard Truth: Frequent Partners Harm Vaginal TightnessYou have a large dick so you won’t notice. Women love it and it feels better for you. It’s when they go back to regular guys that men can notice. They adapt to going wide and wet when aroused and it starts feeling like banging a wet cup. I’ve had three partners who I’ve personally noticed changed after having their “slut phase” where they suddenly felt too loose to feel enjoyable for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 08:08 AM |
| -1 | The Hard Truth: Frequent Partners Harm Vaginal TightnessDesigned to get that wide very rarely and with tons of preparation. And every man who’s wife gave natural birth will tell you that they notice the difference forever after | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 08:04 AM |
| -3 | The Hard Truth: Frequent Partners Harm Vaginal TightnessYes. He’s missing the part of the partner being large. Women who get a large frequent partner eventually adapt and “get used to it” and then learn to love it. Generally speaking of course. I know this sub has tons of women who read things like this and want to complain “not me! I used to have a large boyfriend and actually prefer small!” For the most part. Women who get frequent sex from large members guys tend to adapt and learn to significantly prefer it. Not only do the far less enjoy regular… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Do lesbians expect to go 50/50 in their relationships?Yeah that’s the capacity part. If I make a lot more money than her, I’m paying for the more expensive dates since the marginal value of money to me is different than hers. She can pick up the In N Out tab and I’ll pick up the fine dining… because if we had to split it, she’d never afford it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Do lesbians expect to go 50/50 in their relationships?Oh yeah. I guess the answer is, whoever offers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 11:34 PM |
| -1 | Do lesbians expect to go 50/50 in their relationships?I think most women do expect their man to pay for most bills during the courtship phase. But after that it depends on capacity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 11:15 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men need to lower their standardsI dunno. Most actresses are fit and in shape. I’d don’t think there are many fat females in entertainment. How about fat Adele? That’s too fat. Hillary Duff? But she’s just got a bigger frame | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 03:03 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to lower their standardsAnn Hathaway is healthy There aren’t many fat actors so I can’t comment on that of who’s fat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 02:47 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to lower their standardsWonder if they are 🚂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 02:28 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to lower their standardsNot skinny. BMI is a good indicator but I like the lower end of healthy if I’m being picky | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 02:27 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men need to lower their standardsWhat terminology? Nothing at all I said implies being under age. What term are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 01:58 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men need to lower their standardslol what? Mam that is illegal and an age gap larger than the legal drinking limit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 01:50 PM |
| 3 | A lot of men need to lower their standardsNo. It’s just a low supply of heathy normal women in America. Meaning it’s super competitive just to get a basic female that’s not fat. Supply and demand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 01:21 PM |
| -1 | A lot of men need to lower their standardsI’m a 7/10 dude, so I will continue complaining about the lack of supply of not fat women. I will until I die or Ozempic is state funded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 01:19 PM |
| 3 | A lot of men need to lower their standardsI wish I got horny and excited for fatties and ugly chicks. It would make life amazing. But sadly, I do not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 01:14 PM |
| 1 | How do the logistics of a "100/0" relationship even work? What value would the non-working partner bring to the relationship?It’s a status symbol the same way as it was back in the 50s. Having a house wife is what the Jones want. No one WANTS two people working. This is why most rich dudes get with hoes. They don’t need anything from woman other than a mother and or a sex goddess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 03:41 AM |
| 0 | Most men are not friends with their girlfriends/wivesOp is speaking in general. He said most. Not all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Online dating will not decline in popularity because women aren’t receptive to approaching or being approachedAlso there is just too much money in it. Capitalism has a dark side and it’s shit like commodifying fucking dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 07:52 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADNo of course not. Do your thing. But I’m looking at them from a dating perspective. And I’m going to judge them from that angle. And I would discourage other women to not do that if they don’t want to limit their options to just super open minded progressives, sex pests, and desperate dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 08:43 PM |
| 3 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAgreed. As with most things. The people who get offended and fight you on it are the ones you’re talking about. One chick here was like “date conservatives then!” As if it’s a conservative thing to think fucking a new dude every few months is weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 08:37 PM |
| – | All men are ephebophiles and I'm tired of pretending they're not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 12:19 PM |
| – | All men are ephebophiles and I'm tired of pretending they're not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 12:15 PM |
| 4 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADOkay? First off, I’m just arguing how that’s an insane number. Second, it’s not just conservative women who would think a new guy ever 2 months has is insane. Most liberal women would find that as like a sign of mental health issues and poor life choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 01:33 AM |
| 10 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI am well grown up. I’m sorry if you think 20 people at 22 isn’t an outlier, you’re in a far left overly sex positive bubble. That’s not normal and not attractive at all. There’s a reason why most women would never admit a number like that. That’s crazy. Knowing your girl is okay with just banging new dudes in every group she encounters is a mega ick Call me prude all you want. I like women with a little more standards and hedonistic self control. Good long term women know their value and aren’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 11:31 PM |
| 9 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADNo that’s pretty fucking gross. Just being passed around banging dudes from every social group. I don’t want a partner who’s the known hoe people are banging wherever she goes. Being that girl is not a status symbol at all. And she has no self respect if she’s just burning through guys and wants to be a long term partner material. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 11:02 PM |
| 17 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI just lost all interest in a really hot 22 year old who had a hicky where she admitted to having sex with multiple guys at the moment and has a body count of “only” 20 dudes. She tried to insist that this is normal for women her age. lol… nope. To the streets with her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 07:46 PM |
| – | Women's attraction based on career and income is weird.I’m speaking in general terms. People also don’t like eating poop, but many fine ladies on PornHub would beg the differ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 11:52 PM |
| 6 | Women's attraction based on career and income is weird.You find that disproportionately more at the top. Sure. But still. As a whole they are much more disciplined and capable than those not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 10:38 AM |
| 5 | Women's attraction based on career and income is weird.Exactly. Competency, success with risky endeavors, social skills, and a whole slew of things. Losers rarely can have a good career. The top is usually filled with people with a whole lot of positive character traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 10:04 AM |
| 9 | Can refusing sex be a valid reason for breakup or divorce?I mean you’re free to go, but you really really should treat a partner more than someone you casually swipe on. Successful marriages mean sticking it out even when you do want to go because times will always have very rough patches and you need to see it through. You shouldn’t be getting married if you have such low standards for leaving a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 02:17 AM |
| -2 | Women enjoy sex, but is it ever mentally "fulfilling" to them?This is one of the reasons why I think people have an isssue with women with a high body count. Like, ewww… so many guys were just using you for easy sex and pleasure and you let them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Women dominated spaces are heavily thought policedIt’s most train enthusiasts who run those places too… which makes it more weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 12:23 PM |
| 2 | Women dominated spaces are heavily thought policedIt’s most train enthusiasts who run those places too… which makes it more weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 12:22 PM |
| 0 | Is there any real proof that women are sexual beings or is it just hearsay?Yes in many relationships women have a higher sex drive. What’s your point? When talking about averages no one gives a shit about outside the bell curve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 04:56 PM |
| – | Do younger women (18-24) actually date older men (25+) as people in the manosphere claim?I see it every now and then but it’s rare. I’m casually seeing a 20 year old at 35, and it’s hard to avoid the Freudian elements to it which make it awkward. Like she’s cool and fun to hang out with but it’s hard to avoid feeling like a parent in her eyes. She’s looking for security, wisdom, cool, and male anchoring, while also having sex. It’s basically a scenario where I’m a friend and father figure she can have great sex with. I didn’t expect it to happen. Wasn’t looking for young chicks but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 01:23 PM |
| 15 | Do people really go to clubs primarily to get laid?I go to take drugs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 09:53 PM |
| 1 | A 40 year old woman switches bodies with her 20 year old daughter. Which of them do you think more men would want to date?It’s a debate sub lol. Of course they’ll read what you just wrote. If anything your Socratic questioning just creating more noise than signal. Lessons learned I suppose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 12:06 PM |
| 0 | A 40 year old woman switches bodies with her 20 year old daughter. Which of them do you think more men would want to date?Then say that. Because I know that was your point. When you just start asking Socratic questions like this without making your purpose clear it’s intellectually insulting. Make your statement and purpose for the questioning up front rather than have people running around getting pushed and dragged into your direction. Just state your purpose and that will be the focal point of discourse and people won’t need to waste their time with Socratic questioning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 11:03 AM |
| 2 | A 40 year old woman switches bodies with her 20 year old daughter. Which of them do you think more men would want to date?This is such a stupid question. Seriously. What sort of retarded question is this and why does it even involve body swaps. You’re basically asking which body would men choose the 20 or 40 year old. And the obvious answer is most men will want the 20 year old based off looks, and especially now with the added maturity and intelligence from the swap. Why are you asking dumb questions with obvious answers? What sort of retarded sea lioning is this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 09:10 AM |
| 1 | What is required for women to really enjoy sexMore positions, deeper thrust, hits more spots at once. It’s overstimulating and intense as I understand it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 08:21 PM |
| – | What do you think of this definition of femininity and masculinity?This conversation is incoherent. I just said that I believe in masculine and feminine isnt socialized and you refuted by saying it’s not absolute so somehow refutes me. Which didn’t make sense. This whole convo makes no sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 08:17 PM |
| 3 | What is required for women to really enjoy sexI think most chicks lie about it because it makes guys insecure and IRL they don’t want to hurt feelings or make guys feel inadequate thus not want to peruse them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 07:56 PM |
| 4 | What is required for women to really enjoy sexOf course. That’s why women prefer it. I’m glad youre honest about it at least. Most chicks will insist it’s not preferred and use worst case extreme examples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 07:45 PM |
| 1 | What is required for women to really enjoy sexThat’s true about everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 07:42 PM |
| 6 | What is required for women to really enjoy sexI always love how women will insist up and down size doesn’t matter. But sooner or later they’ll admit it in some capacity. Very few women actually prefer average and below. You only see it on Reddit because they are young and inexperienced. But once guys get experience it’s always preferred to be larger because they know how to use it. I know dudes who are really hung and they basically all say yeah women will admit it in bed and sometimes feel bad about lying about it. There is also a reason w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 07:42 PM |
| 9 | What is required for women to really enjoy sexThe problem you’ll then face is keeping the erection. The death grip makes their pussies all feel loose so you get no sensation. That’s why it’s hard to finish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 07:39 PM |
| – | What do you think of this definition of femininity and masculinity?Yes I said that. No one ever claimed them to be absolutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 05:01 PM |
| – | What do you think of this definition of femininity and masculinity?Stereotypes don’t mean they are absolutes. They are generally true. Nothing in social dynamic is ever absolute. It goes without saying, a truism, that stereotypes are general truths, not absolute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 04:55 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of this definition of femininity and masculinity?I don’t believe they are stereotypes. I believe men and women aren’t identical with the only difference being their genitals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 11:06 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of this definition of femininity and masculinity?I absolutely disagree. These things are talked about and embraced throughout all of human history as an innate gender ethos. Generally as powerful elements of the gender that works best with an equally strong/weak counter balance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 09:48 PM |
| – | CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause.The answer is a joke answer and not serious. Calm down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 08:04 PM |
| -1 | Why are men like this?Serial rapists can look at photos of women walking and figure out which were raped, because there is a “type” predators look for. If I had to guess, you have some vibe to you that creeps think they can move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 01:02 PM |
| – | What do you think of passport bros?It’s weird this person arguing with me doesn’t understand this. He keeps insisting I’m lying and it doesn’t work like that. It’s like talking to an LLM that doesn’t get basic math. If market X has 10% skinny women, and market Y has 70% skinny women… market Y is better for finding a partner This person is trying to frame it as if I give up on trying to farm in Las Vegas and move to California to farm, it’s somehow a failure or “predatory”. Nah dude, it’s just going to a better market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 12:34 PM |
| – | What do you think of passport bros?wtf is fantasy about that? That’s not even an argument? It’s fantasy that there are less fat chicks in Europe? Really? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 08:23 AM |
| – | What do you think of passport bros?I think you’re using an extreme outlier example of it. You’re thinking of dudes who are unfuckable losers going to find some poor foreigner who can’t speak the language. I’m think of PPBs which is literally about just moving to other countries where there average woman is much more attractive, making your chances to finding a decent woman much higher. When the average American girl is obsessed with wealth and status while being 5’4” and 170 pounds, it makes dating chicks outside that average muc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 12:00 AM |
| – | What do you think of passport bros?It’s not chance, it’s supply. For instance, here in the USA it’s filled with fat chicks. Skinny chicks that I like are much less common… those who are single and average attractive are rare, leaving me with little options and a lot of competition. But when I go to Spain or Germany, everyone is skinny so finding attractive partners is wayyyyyy easier. Guys are going abroad to get gf’s they like where here is higher supply of them so higher chance of getting a quality partner. The amount of attrac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 11:14 PM |
| – | What do you think of passport bros?Yeah that’s what I said. Nothing wrong with that. They are traveling to better dating markets because they have better odds at landing a good partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 11:06 PM |
| 5 | What do you think of passport bros?If it’s okay to move to a better job market why is it wrong to move to a better dating market? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 06:19 PM |
| 5 | Is renaming Boy Scouts renamed to “Scouts” another example of institutional misandry?I get that it has inherent value as a boys only fraternity. But my point is that it simply can’t sustain with such low amount of children. I don’t see how they can continue as an organization when local troops simply don’t have enough members to fund it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 12:35 PM |
| – | Generally speaking, to women love means power, and to men it means enslavement.It’s just my experience that when people try to deny the science and insist that they are an outlier special snowflake, they are very very very rarely correct. I’m sure it’s “sure we may end up doing what my wife suggests to do 75% of the time, but since we both agree on it and talk about it, that means it’s 5050! No head of couple!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 10:11 AM |
| – | Generally speaking, to women love means power, and to men it means enslavement.Okay if that makes you feel better because your ego is so tied to this idea that there is no head of the relationship, fine. That’s something you need to work on. But researchers have done this enough times to vomit. It’s not even up to debate. It doesn’t make you less progressive and woke just because one party tends to head the relationship. It’s okay. You’re not bad people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 10:01 AM |
| – | Generally speaking, to women love means power, and to men it means enslavement.If a third party were to look at your relationship they’d definitely be able to decide who they think leads the relationship. Leading a relationship isn’t comical. It’s not someone who’s like “that’s my decision and it’s final!” But more who tends to end up forming the direction of the couple. Everyone has one. It’s almost impossible to have a balanced non leader relationship. Humans are social creatures with hierarchies. You may not see it yourself, but if a relationship counselor saw it, they’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 09:51 AM |
| 11 | Is renaming Boy Scouts renamed to “Scouts” another example of institutional misandry?Boy Scouts is dying and they need more recruits and numbers. They are all tiny these days due to low birth rates. So I see no problem. Times change and it’s not like scouts is some pivotal male experience. At that age boys and girls aren’t that different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 09:18 AM |
| – | Generally speaking, to women love means power, and to men it means enslavement.Every relationship has a head of the relationship. There are rarely any egalitarian relationships. Generally men lead them but if I were to guess it’s 75/25 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 09:16 AM |
| – | Q4W: Should teachers face disciplinary action for having adult content on OF?I don’t think it matters. What matters is a teacher choosing to put porn of herself online for people to view. If fakes exist of her, that’s not the same. That can already happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 12:06 PM |
| – | Q4W: Should teachers face disciplinary action for having adult content on OF?Okay but that’s fake. I don’t think parents will care as much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 12:01 AM |
| – | What's your dating hot take? Something you believe from your own dating experiences that this sub would typically disagree with?I think it's more about social spaces, which are decreasing, are more for couples. Single people just seem to be less present. I also noticed how meeting someone randomly out is very rare. It still very much seems to happen through peer groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Should teachers face disciplinary action for having adult content on OF?Okay well... I'm just saying, men are fucking gooners and degenerates. If you have porn online it's next to impossible that it doesn't get out. I've yet to hear of a person talk about how they did OF porn and no one found out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Should teachers face disciplinary action for having adult content on OF?Okay maybe .000001% chance lightning strikes, and somehow she isn't uncovered by someone and spreads. I've known/met several people in my life who did as little as a single scene of porn and it got back to them. I knew a girl who was just in a solo cam video banging her BF, and that shit caused her to leave the country to get away from the stigma, and it followed her abroad. Men are degenerates and watch a lot of porn, and are bound to come pass it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 10:40 AM |
| -1 | Q4W: Should teachers face disciplinary action for having adult content on OF?It's absolutely 100% inevitable. Without a doubt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Should teachers face disciplinary action for having adult content on OF?You don't think it's an issue that INEVITABLY it'll get out that the teacher has an OF and kids and parents will both find a way to access the content, creating a complicated and problematic working environment? I'm just trying to imagine a school where people knew a teacher was posting porn of herself online, and the type of craziness that would emerge from that. If I ran that school, I'd want absolutely NOTHING to do with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 04:06 AM |
| -1 | Women are as likely, or more likely, to be physically aggressive in relationships compared to mendismissal/downplaying whenever the topic comes up. Because a woman getting violent isn't NEARLY as a concern as a man getting violent. It's the difference between a cat and a gorilla. Most men may be "afraid" if a woman is getting violent, in the sense that it's dramatic and disturbing... But a guy getting violent is terrifying for women. Men aren't afraid for their literal lives for the most part (yeah yeah I Know some guy here knew a girl that was crazy and tried to stab him or whatever). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 11:10 AM |
| 0 | If women are the sexual selectors, why have I as a man broken up with and turned down women?Yeah dude.... cool story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 11:00 AM |
| 1 | If women are the sexual selectors, why have I as a man broken up with and turned down women?Okay then you clearly don't understand what selection means in the biological sense. You're just seeing the word "selection" and think "HErrrr derrr so you mean to say men just sit by passively and women pick the men?!?!?" No dude, that's not what people men. Men are the ones reaching out and competing to find a mate, and women are selecting the men to get with. Obviously men play a role in selection because they have to make the effort. Anyways, the mere fact that you interpreted it the way you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 10:55 AM |
| 1 | If women are the sexual selectors, why have I as a man broken up with and turned down women?No, the way you just give single line responses, and then ignore the rest of what he said. He actually answered you but you just ignored it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 10:27 AM |
| 1 | If women are the sexual selectors, why have I as a man broken up with and turned down women?Humans ARE animals, whether you like it or not. Our sophistication doesn't uproot our core fundamental drives. Those drives ARE key to our survival. We may dress it up in sophistication and sophistry, but it doesn't change the reality of what we are. Again, if you want to see it in action, just look at a dating app. Women are presented with endless men dropping them DMs where men are constantly trying to find ways to get attention. People that act like we still aren't animals in our nature, are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 10:24 AM |
| 1 | If women are the sexual selectors, why have I as a man broken up with and turned down women?Based on nature... Women are the ones with finite limited reproductive ability, and house most the burden. Naturally, women are the ones who have to be selective, whereas men, who have little responsibility and endless reproductive capability, can spread their seed without any regard. It's literally just nature, and our behaviors as humans reflect this. Yes, obviously men do some selection, but we are speaking in general terms. Men generally (I hate that I feel like I have to remind you we are s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 01:22 AM |
| 1 | If women are the sexual selectors, why have I as a man broken up with and turned down women?Lol so you are intentionally being obtuse. Why are you people like this? It's so annoying to read, and baffles me that this is the type of behavior people intentionally engage in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Covert Narcissism and the Red Pill ManI'm not denying that.... I'm just giving an observation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 06:09 PM |
| 11 | Covert Narcissism and the Red Pill ManWhy do women absolsutely obsess over narcissism? It's crazy how deep in female culture it is to analyze people as narcissists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 06:06 PM |
| 4 | If women are the sexual selectors, why have I as a man broken up with and turned down women?I'm so confused... Do you think people are saying 100% of the time it's X way? Obviously, there is variance. People speak in general terms. Obviously it's not absolute. I too have broken up with women, but overall they are the ones who sexually select. It doesn't mean men don't do it neither... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 03:56 PM |
| – | Around 1 in 50 fathers are unknowingly raising children that are not theirs. Should we normalize paternity tests?Generally it is with children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 11:14 PM |
| – | Around 1 in 50 fathers are unknowingly raising children that are not theirs. Should we normalize paternity tests?This has more to do with Germany's right to privacy laws. When it comes to breaking privacy of a minor, in any regard, it requires BOTH parents to consent. They have a post war culture of extreme privacy laws. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 09:36 AM |
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