| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 333 | Guys want a strong independent woman until... | QUEEN SH*T | PossiblyJennay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 04:37 AM |
| 314 | “Boost your confidence by humiliating yourself and subjecting yourself to constant male rejection.” | PICKME CULTURE | PossiblyJennay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 01:51 AM |
| 121 | Meg Thee Stallion ‘Thot Sh*t’ music video director claims the video is a “horror” show for men. No. It’s a nightmare for women. | NAH, SIS | PossiblyJennay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 01:57 PM |
| 115 | Woman calls into a talk show after finding out her new husband hid $100,000 in UNPAID CHILD SUPPORT. Male host tells her she needs to COMBINE FINANCES with him. | MALE DEPRAVITY | PossiblyJennay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Approved Commentor | PossiblyJennay | /r/askFDS | 04/04/21 03:35 PM | |
| 1 | “Boost your confidence by humiliating yourself and subjecting yourself to daily male rejection!” | PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAME | PossiblyJennay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 01:46 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 80 | Meg Thee Stallion ‘Thot Sh*t’ music video director claims the video is a “horror” show for men. No. It’s a nightmare for women.I’m sure the man in the video and the majority male staff who filmed and directed this had a great time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 03:03 PM |
| 104 | Meg Thee Stallion ‘Thot Sh*t’ music video director claims the video is a “horror” show for men. No. It’s a nightmare for women.I’m sure that all of these scenarios are among the most searched queries on porn sites. “coworker” “waitress” “nurse” So now all of a sudden, the things they search online are scary to them? Make it make sense! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 02:27 PM |
| 58 | How could any woman sacrifice this much??Makes me think of this story sadly. https://www.nbcnews.com/news/crime-courts/state-alabama-took-his-gun-away-when-authorities-gave-it-n1269234 Cop abused his wife. Shoots her once. Charged with domestic violence. Gun taken away. Gets a restraining order. Cop buddies help him get the gun back. Two weeks later, shoots her dead in a parking lot in the middle of the night. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 02:12 PM |
| 189 | Meg Thee Stallion ‘Thot Sh*t’ music video director claims the video is a “horror” show for men. No. It’s a nightmare for women.The premise of the video is that a hypocritical male politician consumes porn while leaving hate comments on music videos like WAP. We obviously know these men exist. Men who consume porn and go to strip clubs but hate women. But here’s what I don’t get. Meg tries to create a “nightmare” for this man by…. bringing his sick porn fantasies to life? This is no horror show. It’s their depraved dreams coming true. The idea that a misogynist who consumes porn is afraid of sexualized women isn’t close … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 02:03 PM |
| 4 | This is one reason female only spaces are important. There will always be men who get off on women’s traumadepraved | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 01:53 AM |
| 2 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 14 - Dr. Gail Dines & the Queens Rage Against the Porn MachineY’all just keep crushing it every episode | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 01:52 AM |
| 5 | Post title says this queen asked for a proper date, but his description then labels the request as a demand. Why is this man outing himself as low effort?As she should | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 10:45 PM |
| 95 | DO NOT fall for a man claiming to be "traditional".And he’ll do it with a SMILE. A lot of husbands with stay at home wives absolutely resent them and think they’re mooching off of them. A traditional HVM wants to be a provider and protector and will do it well and happily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:46 PM |
| 76 | DO NOT fall for a man claiming to be "traditional".This reminds me of Anna and Josh Duggar. A traditional woman married to a porn-addicted, cheating, child molester and stays by his side because she was never raised to believe she had a chance to be anything in life other than a wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:42 PM |
| 1 | GOALS 😩❤️SO MANY of the rich couples or even singles I know are rich because they don’t have kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 02:38 AM |
| 25 | Apps promised to revolutionize dating. But for women they’re mostly terribleBumble is pretty decent for friends. Everything else is trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 02:37 AM |
| 121 | A little wisdom that was passed down to me from my aunt, “Never have children with some one you are not married to.”Don’t have children with men you’re not married to and don’t buy property with men you’re not married to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 09:03 PM |
| 44 | When I talk about FDS concepts with other women, I don't even acknowledge that what I am saying is controversial at all. I just act like it's normal.Same! I teach my friends FDS without ever calling it FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 09:02 PM |
| 19 | What is everyone’s thoughts on Billie Eilish now “showing skin”? What does her defense make you feel?My biggest problem with it is how aggressively cinched and photoshopped the waist is. That’s not empowering no matter how you slice it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 06:36 PM |
| 38 | ‘Delete it right now’: TikToker confronts ‘creep’ who took photo of her working out at Planet FitnessSadly all of the female gyms by me have been closing and are being replaced by 24 hour fitness and planet fitness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 08:02 PM |
| 4 | The Vetting Process: A List of Minimum QualificationsOh certainly wouldn’t put someone in the LV category because of debt. Everyone has a different experience but I think to a certain extent, debt is a reflection of responsibility. Car debt and credit cards in particular are generally very avoidable debts if you don’t fall for lifestyle creep and begin financing things you can’t afford. So I definitely think there should be some provision for debt. I think we should be cautioning women against dating men who have debts that far exceed their abilit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-inWhen are the girlies gonna do a Clubhouse FDS chat? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 12:59 AM |
| 6 | The Vetting Process: A List of Minimum QualificationsUnderstandable. I usually categorize mortgage debt as it’s own thing but you definitely don’t want to walk in a situation with a guy who runs up credit cards with frivolous purchases. Should be an added caveat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 12:54 AM |
| 7 | The Vetting Process: A List of Minimum QualificationsAlso, muy importante: Adulting 201: • DEBT-FREE (unless he’s a doctor or lawyer) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 10:46 PM |
| 8 | The Vetting Process: A List of Minimum QualificationsI would move investing and credit scores to the 101 category. If you start investing after 30 and wait til 30 to fix your credit, you’re setting your financial independence back by literally $100,000+. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 10:45 PM |
| 6 | The Vetting Process: A List of Minimum QualificationsWorking on leveling up. Is it important for HVW to have an intermediate knowledge of home maintenance and car maintenance? I can read instructions and follow along, but I do not know how to do this off the top of my head. Where should I be prioritizing this as a level up? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 10:42 PM |
| 21 | How to talk to men“Ayooo pa! What that mouth do?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 10:36 PM |
| 14 | New report on violence and sexual violence against women, using better methodologies, show that 51% of women have been raped, 99.7% have been abused.Stuff like this makes me lose hope. I mean how do we even improve from here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 07:56 PM |
| 35 | Mainstream "women's empowerment" is a lie.Just look at cheerleading. Men tumble in long pants and vests. The girls tumble in cropped tube tops and mini skirts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 12:45 PM |
| 12 | Mainstream "women's empowerment" is a lie.Or Adele | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 12:44 PM |
| 38 | Mainstream "women's empowerment" is a lie.Mainstream “women’s empowerment” is for porn but against chivalry. Holding a door for me = sexism Me stripping for you = empowerment Make it make sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 12:44 PM |
| 13 | Some nonsense, and people calling it out lmaoShe’s a LVW and he’s a LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Some nonsense, and people calling it out lmaoWhen I talk about the unwashed, THIS is what I’m referring to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Vanilla is a word created by men to shame women for not wanting to re-enact porn and be degradednewbie gang! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 01:53 AM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InUhhhh... did anyone else get invited to the “Pick Me’s Anonymous” sub someone made to poach people from here? Here are some of the FDS things they disagree with: Wait At Least 3 Months Before Having Sex. Do NOT Move In With A Boyfriend. Reject Low Effort Dates. Don't Date Men Who Watch Porn. Like, sis if you want us to fail in relationships, just say that. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 02:47 PM |
| 29 | A first in Aoetearoa (New Zealand): Man convicted of rape after he removed a condom partway through intercourse without a woman's consent. 👏🏼👏🏼Can I share something? I once overheard a man bragging about secretly doing this to a woman. She has absolutely no clue this happened. His friends laughed along as if it was nothing. It really weighs on me that I overheard someone confessing to an assault with no way to help get justice for that woman. I wish I would’ve picked up something identifying about her so I could find her but I didn’t know the man and I didn’t know anything about her. We really need to crack down on this form of abuse. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 03:36 PM |
| 19 | I'm so proud of you ladies for sharing and normalizing FDS concepts on tiktok, Instagram, and other social media 😂I was just watching a YouTube video and saw someone call someone a Pickmeisha. Brought a tear to my eyes :’) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 03:44 AM |
| 51 | My cousin was molested by her stepbrother and his friends. The proliferation of "stepbro/stepsis" porn is something we should all be very, very worried about.Goodness gracious. I’m so sorry you experienced that. Just know you have a community here that cares for you and can side with you to see that was WRONG. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 03:42 AM |
| 11 | Best post in the history of reddit. Not for the audacity of this POS, but the backlash he got from the replies. He really thought he could use this baby to control her and it backfired HORRIBLY. Love to men getting a taste of their own medicine. I hope this woman is great and doing well 🎉🙏🏼She’s thriving. The baby is alive. And he’s getting 125% of child support. I see absolutely nothing wrong here. Good for her. Good for the baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 03:39 PM |
| 5 | Is not asking for a ‘got home safe’ text a bad sign?Yes. One of my friends has been with a guy for over three years. After they were already exclusive, he, his girlfriend (my friend), and a couple of his friends were hanging out at his place one night. When it came time to leave, he chose to stay with the friends at his place, let his girlfriend walk home late at night by herself, and didn’t even text her to see if she got home safely. Mind you, he was FULLY sober and this was after he was her boyfriend. I wish I knew FDS back then because I woul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 10:31 AM |
| 13 | Would also love to have more conversations about how we can be more intersectional and open to discussions about race and feminism ❤️Don’t agree with all of what she said but the pro-sex work crowd always tends to reveal their hypocrisy when you ask them how they would react if their young daughter told them they wanted to be a stripper or a prostitute when she grows up. If they say that’s okay, then they are either A. lying or B. crazy. There’s no middle ground. So when a privileged, college-educated Buzzfeed feminist says that something is empowering, ask how they would feel if the most important people in their lives did s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 02:12 PM |
| 21 | Why comparing small dicks with small boobs is a massive false equivalenceGood Lord that’s horrible. I’m sorry you had to experience that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 12:24 PM |
| 6 | A little late to the bandwagon, but...💍Gonna make that last slide my phone background lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 12:02 AM |
| 78 | WHICH ONE OF YOU QUEENS DIVORCED THIS LVM LMAOThe unwashed are back at it again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 12:00 AM |
| 5 | Woman calls into a talk show after finding out her new husband hid $100,000 in UNPAID CHILD SUPPORT. Male host tells her she needs to COMBINE FINANCES with him.Not me thinking this is kind of a good idea 🙈 I’m hella picky about my finances and I’m super strict on my budget lol. I’m certainly not going to mess up my finances for any man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 11:59 PM |
| 3 | Woman calls into a talk show after finding out her new husband hid $100,000 in UNPAID CHILD SUPPORT. Male host tells her she needs to COMBINE FINANCES with him.Wait whatttt? Link me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Most Toxic SongsMillion Reasons- Lady Gaga (When I bow down to pray, I try to make the worst seem better. Lord, show me the way to cut through all his worn out leather. I’ve got 100,000,000 reasons to walk away, but baby I just need one good one to stay). Pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 06:47 PM |
| 34 | David Dobrik apology video and controversyThe problem with the apology is the refusal to admit that he knew it was wrong at the time. David Dobrik is not a child and he’s not an idiot. To me, the issue is quite similar to James Charles. These people don’t become this rich and successful by mistake. They’re quite savvy. They both knew in the moment that they were operating within a massive power imbalance. To pretend the didn’t realize at the time is feigning faux ignorance. Now, I understand that saying “I knew this was wrong and I didn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 04:48 PM |
| 274 | Second self aware man I've seen in that thread. And all the angry scrotes downvoted himThe average man has an unwashed ass and legs. The unwashed don’t like when you point that out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 12:18 AM |
| 30 | If you are curating your social media feed for a guy, STOP!THANK YOU. I did this when I was a high school freshman and A. He didn’t comment on it. B. He didn’t respond when I DMed him about it and C. He got arrested for beating up an old man a few weeks later. A complete ZVM and I still beat myself up about it to this day because it’s so embarrassing. You’ll drive yourself crazy if you monitor his social media activity to increase your chances he sees it. It’s so not worth it. Post your pics and share your memories with your friends because you want to.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 06:38 PM |
| 7 | Pick Me Hall of Shame Inductee: Monique from the Netflix Show The SerpentI haven’t seen this yet. Can you loop me in? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 06:33 PM |
| 12 | Apparently struck a nerve with my last post. Dude chose to ignore the “FDS Humor” flair lmao...There’s a difference between being an incel and being celibate because the men around you are too low value to be with lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 03:27 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check InWhat was the biggest aha moment when you were leveling up? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 01:15 AM |
| 2 | FDS Podcast Episode 2 is HERE!!! FAQs about Feminism, Double Standards, Being Friends with an ExGahhh this episode went by SO QUICKLY. Can’t wait for the next upload! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Saweetie demonstrates how you clear a fuckboy and his attempted gaslightI’m glad to see this from her. She stood for herself proudly. Taking a stance like this is the right message especially in contrast to Cardi B, who stood my Offset as he publicly humiliated her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 03:12 AM |
| 5 | Men that do chores wrong on purposeThere are men who are doing chores wrong intentionally? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 03:11 AM |
| 1 | FDS Newbie here. Wanted to share this. My ex used to respond like this to the point where I ended up crying while he tried to debate with me.Red flag: If someone centers themselves and their experiences when hearing about someone else’s trauma | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 03:10 AM |
| 2 | This is a great list but don’t ever stop vetting!I’m printing this out and putting it on my fridge | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 03:10 AM |
| 8 | Tragic Example of The Mask Slipping AFTER Marriage and Baby. Always be willing and ABLE to LEAVE Sisters!!Here’s the tl;dr... Affair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 03:04 AM |
| 29 | I deleted Tinder. This time for good, thanks to FDS.My lowest Pickmeisha moment was when I downloaded Tinder and paid for the premium version just so I could feel validated by the men who swiped right. Not proud. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, don't forget to heal your own wounds before entering into relationships. Sometimes, Pickmesha behavior is a symptom of unhealed trauma. Take care. 💙Whew. I have so many girlfriends this applies to and I don’t have the heart to tell them. Girls who are deeply insecure, who seek validation from men, and are left even more hurt and broken every time they get ghosted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 03:41 AM |
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