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I dated a red pill dude for about 2 years. Long story, special circumstances, I don't think I would have dated him except that we were both living in a place where very few people spoke English as a first language. I was very alone and vulnerable in a foreign country. My best friend went home and he was all I had left in terms of social support. Anyway, dating him was super confusing and it sucked. He made it a point to try to show me that I wasn't special or important. He wouldn't meet any of m…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/22 06:48 AM
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I've spent a great deal of time in red pill spaces, and I think woman-hating is such an integral part of red pill that you really can't separate the two. Even the red pill guys who are married to women seem to hate them (see married red pill, at least from 5 years ago, I haven't checked in lately). In that way, I think it's very different from feminism. But maybe we just have different definitions of red pill. You seem to be conflating red pill with "hard truths," and that's where I think you're…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/22 06:41 AM
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"Woman will sleep with horrible partners and ask where did the good men go" Just so's ya knows, it's actually very hard to know that someone is a horrible person when they are actively trying to sleep with you. Even bad guys are usually sweet, charming, kind, attentive, and fun when they're trying to get laid. Most people can keep up this act for months, even years. "Now I don't believe in my own experience that I have seen hypergamy as a biological drive as much as a sociological drive that wom…
/r/ExRedPill26/02/22 06:59 AM
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Hey, thanks for your thoughtful reply. I've actually lost interest in having a long-term male romantic partner. The research shows that single women are the healthiest, happiest, longest-lived cohort. So I guess you could call me something of a wgtow, except I'm not super bitter against men and I still try to be kind to them. I also don't have much of a problem getting guys to fall in love, even when I don't want them to, even now at age 40. For example the guy I'm "seeing" now (I just thought w…
/r/ExRedPill23/02/22 04:19 PM
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When I was 29 (11 years ago now!) I started dating a guy who was into red pill. I, of course, had no idea. I probably wouldn't have dated him except we were both in a different country - there were few men there who spoke English well, so, at the time, that was kind of my biggest requirement for a partner at the time. I did fall in love with him, though. But I just couldn't figure out why he acted the way he did. It felt like as soon as a little love took root between us, he'd find a way to stra…
/r/ExRedPill19/02/22 07:30 PM
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I just think it's interesting that you're using red pill language to describe the situation in the first place, saying "She left him because he stopped being a leader" which sounds a bit like the red pill idea that men are supposed to lead women, and women like to be led, so if a man isn't the leader, she'll leave him - very red pill stuff. I'll tell you right now that when a man "tries to be the leader" just by virtue of his genitals, I'm out as soon as I recognize his ridiculousness. Red pill …
/r/ExRedPill17/02/22 07:47 PM
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So if I'm a woman and I want an attractive partner who's monogamous, kind, and caring, then am I a lesbian? So confused!
/r/ExRedPill09/02/22 10:51 PM
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A tongue-in-cheek, but with real citations for my claim. Excited to read this. My take has always been that evo psych mainly involves a dude (probably white, definitely male) sitting in a chair, thinking real hard about things then telling people the things he thunk were science.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/22 10:48 PM
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It's almost as if women are individual people with individual wants and needs in a partner, so there's no one-size-fits-all solution to attracting women. Confusing indeed! But if it makes you feel any better, men are ALSO individual people with individual wants and needs in a partner. Turn about's fair play mother fuckers!
/r/ExRedPill09/02/22 10:45 PM
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They had a pretty beneficial marriage but only left when he stoped being a leader. What are you basing the leader thing on? Did his ex wife say, "He stopped being a leader, so I left him."
/r/ExRedPill09/02/22 10:31 PM
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I'm so sorry. Even as a woman, knowing I didn't believe it, extensive reading of red pill stuff fucked me up. Therapy is helping. I think you've got to just fill your head with examples that refute red pill. There's so much out there that shows it's not true.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/22 04:40 AM
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Hey, I'm not sure I have anything helpful to say, but I just want to let you know that someone out here in internet land is listening. Some of what you're saying (dissociation stuff) sounds sort of like a trauma response. You say you've done therapy, so I assume you've explored that. I struggle, too, with feeling very activated when a potential love-interest arrives, and I don't represent myself the way I wish I would. I feel threatened, and as a result, I act weird. Anyway, best wishes to you, …
/r/ExRedPill06/02/22 04:31 AM
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Hey, I'm not sure I have anything helpful to say, but I just want to let you know that someone out here in internet land is listening. Some of what you're saying (dissociation stuff) sounds sort of like a trauma response. You say you've done therapy, so I assume you've explored that. I struggle, too, with feeling very activated when a potential love-interest arrives, and I don't represent myself the way I wish I would. I feel threatened, and as a result, I act weird. Anyway, best wishes to you, …
/r/ExRedPill06/02/22 04:29 AM
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You know, every once in a while, speaking to an attractive stranger in public is probably fine. But having a goal to "speak to 5 women a day..." You're not seeing those women as human people - you're seeing them as a number, a goal. It's shitty. I lived in San Diego (or MAN Diego) circa 2007-2008, right around when Niel Strauss's The Game was gaining popularity. I couldn't leave the house without several guys talking to me. It started to feel like a part time job, brushing these guys off. I star…
/r/ExRedPill17/12/21 06:56 AM
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If what you want out of women is sex, then(this might be controversial) then do you feel shame in seeing a sex worker? You shouldn't. Can i just add to this: please make sure she is working for herself and is allowed to keep most of the money she makes. Please avoid women who don't speak your language, aren't in their home country, are very young, or anyone else who belongs to a vulnerable population. Human trafficking is a real thing, and it can only stop if consumers demand ethical sex work. B…
/r/ExRedPill05/12/21 08:50 PM
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Here's what I want you to do.. Talk to 5 women in public per day - if it's a small town be more covert. Dear sir, Please stop giving this advice. Women in public are trying to get things done - grocery shop, get to or from their place of business, going to visit friends - and we would like to get our things done unimpeded by opportunistic men. We're busy, and it is not our job to entertain you, or be kind to you. If you're going to speak to 5 strangers a day, make it older, lonely people who cou…
/r/ExRedPill05/12/21 08:46 PM
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Heyo, 40-year old woman here. It is weird aging. People do treat you differently. For 20+ years, you inhabited a very specific niche in the world, and now, you don't. That takes some getting used to! It's also hard because society's narrative says that a woman is at her absolute most successful when she is young and beautiful (which is ludicrous), so even if that's not how you define your own success, it can wear on you that other people define your success like that, so now they see you as less…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/21 10:27 PM
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DiscussionReader, you're kinda wearing me out. So I'm just going to leave this here. I've never met this guy but I have a deep and residing crush on him. So like, to get interest, be like the primitive skills guy (have a passion, work hard toward it, be interesting) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-cgQUrdBoaM
/r/ExRedPill26/10/21 11:47 PM
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I'm pretty sure my red pill ex wasn't interested in relationships when he met me, either. Came for the sex, stayed cause I'm fucking awesome, got booted to the curb because he thought he had to manipulate me to be loved? So, so sad. I do feel for him. Anyway, yeah, that was a shitty experience so you can probably understand why I take a dim view of your current quest. Women aren't computers, it's not like you just need the right key to break the code. "I don't think there are behaviros that turn…
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 11:44 PM
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Hey love, listen up, it's not going to do anyone any good for you to transfer your loathing from women to yourself. The negativity is the bigger problem - who it's directed at is a periphery issue that will be solved when you address the negativity. Hating yourself is not going to help you love others. Therapy, gratitude journal (I fucking know, such an embarrassing cliche, but that shit works), seeking out happy, positive media, working out, spending time in nature, learning new things, etc etc…
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 11:32 PM
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Lower sex drive =/= hypergamy And no, I can't tell you the difference between steak men and sandwich men. I think trying to hack that system is a fool's errand that will leave you more frustrated and unhealthy than anything else. I imagine that, for you, the answer is the same as for the rest of us: become the best version of you that you can be. Develop your talents. Cultivate an interest in the world and in other people. Get and stay physically healthy. Read books, not just internet forums. Ta…
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 12:45 AM
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Ah, girl, I grew up Mormon, I feel what you're saying here! (also, I don't know how you ended up here, but do you think red pill men prey on us women who had a religious background? My red pill ex was always going on about how I was wifey material - I think it was because of habits I picked up from mormonism)
/r/ExRedPill20/10/21 04:42 AM
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I'll answer your last question first - I don't know what it is, but it's not looks, money, and status (though those can help). Confidence helps, but it's not always that, either. It's attraction. It's highly individual. It's not a puzzle, you can't solve it. I don't know myself what it is that draws me in half the time. But isn't that part of what makes it fun? And Jesus Christ, do you think male attention is equally spread among women? I know the stats say men's attention to women is a bit more…
/r/ExRedPill20/10/21 04:39 AM
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Also, thanks for giving me the heads up about OP. I have a terrible tendency to poor a lot of heart into responses to people who aren't actually interested in heart-felt answers! Such a waste of time!
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 09:18 PM
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Agreed. And maybe it would take a bit of the pressure off men and help them be able to feel fine about masturbation as a substitute for sex most of the time. After so much time reading the manosphere, I was finally able to get past all the scary anger toward women, and see the pain, and it makes me feel for men.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 09:17 PM
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Oh, girl, a thousand times yes to what you've written. So much of it resonates! And I think it's very hard for real desire and real shame to co-exist - I mean some people have a shame fetish, but I think that's a different type of shame. And I've decided the same thing about my sexuality. I haven't had sex since january, and I'm like, meh, who cares. Why should I do it if I don't feel like it?
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 09:16 PM
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Hey, full disclosure, am a woman - I'll spare you the story of how I came to this sub, let's just say I'm pretty familiar with red pill stuff. Men and women are different, but not in all the ways red pillers say we're different - I think mostly we're just different when it comes to sex (and it's nearly impossible to tease out how much is nature and how much is nurture). Red pillers will consistently offer the darkest, most convoluted, relentlessly negative explanations for women's perceived diff…
/r/ExRedPill17/10/21 06:24 AM
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Translation: I want to push women back into traditional gender roles because it's nice for me when someone else does the things I don't want to do, and it's even nicer when I feel justified by some arbitrary "rule of nature" that I came up with.
/r/ExRedPill17/10/21 05:32 AM
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