PotatoFruit123 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	How are men supposed to meet women? getting a ton of daily interections with women who i am not compatible with is not that good, once i get out of uni things will surely be better, i have more success in my home city than at uni, but obviously i can sympathise with being over 40 as well, thats why i got to maintain social connections and expand my circle after uni	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 10:51 AM
1	How are men supposed to meet women? thank you for that idea, ill try that	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 01:10 AM
1	How are men supposed to meet women? this is all stuff im working on, but i know a few guys who are likeable and have good social skills and have a social circle, some of them have very big social circles and they are all looking for relationships but only the attractive ones find relationships, thats why i need to try other sorts of strategies, this sort of advice is not that simple when you have so much stacked against you	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 12:43 AM
1	How are men supposed to meet women? yes, thats why as a guy you need to be one step ahead	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 12:26 AM
1	How are men supposed to meet women? im a smart guy, it may be possible for me to be happy alone but the risk is that if i try and go down that route and i discover that i cannot be happy alone despite my best efforts, i would ended up in a worse situation which i cannot afford to be in, i wish to survive and it is simply a matter of survival, if i lose hope in the idea that i wont be alone forever, i fear i may spiral into a situation where i go somewhere i cannot come back from, the hope i have now is everything for me, i cannot …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 12:25 AM
1	How are men supposed to meet women? thats why i dislike all this advice given to men, go outside, approach girls, wear good clothes, go gym, get new hobbies, like there arent 1 million guys my age also doing the same thing, and women arent aware of every new strategy a guy uses to try and get ahead, its a race to the bottom of how low a guy would go	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 12:14 AM
1	How are men supposed to meet women? i dont really care about pills tbh, but unfortunately this is the only discussion about the problems relevant to my life	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 12:03 AM
1	How are men supposed to meet women? so you have no answer	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:55 PM
1	How are men supposed to meet women? im not from america, where im from is known to have a very reserved culture, so count your blessings, i swear hopefully i can do my masters in america, approaching would be easier	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:53 PM
–	How are men supposed to meet women? i have joined clubs, still doesnt change the demographics, i joined volleyball club, 93% male, like how, then you also have to consider the fact that at the uni i go to most girls aint even looking for a relationship, they would rather focus on their education, im tired to be honest, girls that do wanna date dont wanna date someone from a lower socioeconomic background like me, im just tired	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:50 PM
2	Today society is PERFECT for men there are multiple types of pain as well	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:44 PM
2	Today society is PERFECT for men at least the non sex related problems are endurable	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:41 PM
14	Today society is PERFECT for men studies disprove that, especially for younger guys	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:39 PM
1	Women discomfort to reject men seems to parallel the discomfort men have to approach women if you found nothing that met your eye, should you still try and comment about something ingenuine or just remove the blank	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:35 PM
–	Women discomfort to reject men seems to parallel the discomfort men have to approach women im black, people use the same logic, they just dont say it	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:33 PM
1	Women discomfort to reject men seems to parallel the discomfort men have to approach women survivor ship bias	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:32 PM
1	How are men supposed to meet women? thank you for your rationality	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:29 PM
–	How are men supposed to meet women? social venues are all sausage fests in my city so the women are defensive and closed off	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:28 PM
1	How are men supposed to meet women? maybe cause some of us have no love from their community or family	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:26 PM
1	How are men supposed to meet women? most decently smart guys know this, but unfortunately looksmaxing has its limits, despite doing everything i rarely get looks from girls, my face is a disadvantage	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:24 PM
–	How are men supposed to meet women? not all social circles are built the same unfortunately	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:22 PM
1	How are men supposed to meet women? everywhere i go, parties, clubs, hobbies, to is either full of older people (im 19) or are sausage fests which lead to defensive, closed women, i have no opportunities unfortunately, the environment i live in is really bad	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:21 PM
–	How are men supposed to meet women? imagine stringing a women alongn for a conversation just for her to realise your just trying to get her number, i dont know where you live but where i live most women are smarter then that	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:20 PM
–	How are men supposed to meet women? sausage fests which leads to defensive women	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:18 PM
–	How are men supposed to meet women? if you cant get a house when there are 50 million houses in the country, the problem might be you	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:14 PM
1	How are men supposed to meet women? i wish there were bars with 50% women in my city, i swear everywhere i go it is a sausage fest its ridiculous	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:12 PM
–	How are men supposed to meet women? this is a very ridiculous comment, since it completely relies on the demographics and culture of the specific area you live in	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:11 PM
–	How are men supposed to meet women? depends which area you live in, where i live women (and some men) are closed off and are cold and rude if you try and chat with them	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:09 PM
–	How are men supposed to meet women? the area where i live has a very closed-off vibe so people dont talk to people, you are speaking from a priveledged place	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:07 PM
–	How are men supposed to meet women? as an average man you are either seen as the bad guy and try and get what you want or you are condemned to remain single	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:05 PM
1	How are men supposed to meet women? yes unfortunately this is what i have learnt as a man	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:01 PM
–	How are men supposed to meet women? imagine going to a top university like me, full of rich people and asexual nerds, my university is shit	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:01 PM
–	How are men supposed to meet women? if your proactive and unlucky what do you do	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 10:58 PM
–	How are men supposed to meet women? if u do this your success rate will still be very low unfortunately	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 10:56 PM
–	How are men supposed to meet women? how was your success rate tho, the reality is that if you are approaching a lot of women you naturally will start to see every women as a number or opportunity instead of as someone you are having a conversation with, which means you will start modifying your approach to be more efficient and tactical instead of genuine to optimise success	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 10:53 PM
–	Feels like everyone is in relationships people that want options cant get them and the people that dont want options have them	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 10:49 PM
–	Ideal Scenario for Men and Women dont you think your husband has already earnt your respect tho	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 12:18 AM
–	Feels like everyone is in relationships what a delusional take, its like a billionaire telling a poor person he is better off without money, because that billionaire finds having a lot of money stressful	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 12:16 AM
–	Feels like everyone is in relationships im 19 its tough out here	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 12:13 AM
1	Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it? i know, my point still stands	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 12:09 AM
1	Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it? yeah maybe, although sometimes the main sentiment isnt hatred	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 12:07 AM
1	Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it? i understand	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 12:05 AM
1	Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it? id be interested to know what those circumstances are	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 12:04 AM
–	Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it? devils advocate but isnt it better to release the emotions on this forum then let the emotions come out in real life	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 09:35 PM
–	Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it? guys that cannot get sex cannot get relationships either	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 09:29 PM
-1	Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it? its probably not that fustrating when u know you can remove the fustration any day	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 09:27 PM
1	The things I've learned from 3 years of online dating from my own lived experience. What things have you learned? if being nice is sexually attractive to a girl it says something about that girl	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 09:23 PM
–	Which one is more likely to get you a girlfriend online or in person? yes you could although i cant imagine the success rate would be that good compared to persuing something on the night	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 09:18 PM
–	Which one is more likely to get you a girlfriend online or in person? yeah clubs are very blackpilling for me, since most guys leave clubs with nothing except the top few guys, and when i go to clubs i am a 19 year old competing with guys close to 30 years old, but clubs help me with improving my confidence and flirtation skills	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 01:38 PM
–	Which one is more likely to get you a girlfriend online or in person? but arent most of the girls there drunk?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 01:34 PM
1	Male Creepiness is about context most of the time but a few times it’s it’s about attraction. if you have little options you must take every opportunity you find	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 01:25 PM
1	How do the women who are always aloof and dismissive towards men’s approaches expect to meet someone? why would you assume guys that go bar/club are all heavy drinkers, some are just drinking cause they are at club or bar	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 01:14 PM
–	Women's "entitlement" to men's nonsexual attention and company is a byproduct of their objections to unattractive men trying to get sex and sexual attention ok maybe i was a bit too harsh, dont be angry at yourself but at the same time an intelligent person acknowledges the fact that the situation somewhere along the line was preventable on their part, even though they didnt consciously choose for that to happen to them the worlds a harsh place, and from this reflection you can grow as a person	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:32 PM
1	The men are better looking at pool parties than women cause it only distinguishes between "normal" weight, overweight and obese, while OP focuses on those in shape vs out of shape, not everyone with normal weight is in shape, not everyone with normal weight has a flat stomach, therefore the obesity rates cannot be used to speculate about the rates of those in shape vs out of shape, more importantly bmi doesnt take into account the muscle and bone mass of the person	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 12:54 PM
3	"just be skinny" doesn't work men find average women attractive, so you are projecting	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 12:07 PM
1	Women base their entire dating lives on a dodgy initial sales pitch, while dismissing men who would make better long term partners because they are no good at that im sure theres nerdy women with a high sex drive but statistically guys have a harder chance of finding them, many girls have high sex drives but are to avoidant to act on them, which is why if you are a nerdy guy you should stop being one because getting a nerdy girlfriend may be unfeasible	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 12:02 PM
–	Is it harder for a man or a woman to be considered attractive? i am not saying if you are tall you will have sex and if you are short you wont, i am saying there are guys who dont have sex who would be if they were taller, and im a tall guy myself, because its a numbers game and being tall statistically improves your chances and opens doors to more girls, and when your chances are small in the first place, this could make all the difference, and people get hung up on illogical things all the time, its called being human	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 11:54 AM
1	Q4Men: If you’re not Chad, why should you be treated the same way as Chad? true	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 11:48 AM
–	Q4Men: If you’re not Chad, why should you be treated the same way as Chad? im a guy so i dont only want to fuck 10/10, my standards go low. guys tend to fuck anyone even girls they dislike while girls only fuck people they see as special in some sort of way	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 11:46 AM
–	Do you think straight men are dehumanizing/objectifying you just because they aren't interested in platonic friendships? If so, why? maybe, never thought of doing that i guess	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 11:42 AM
–	Do you think straight men are dehumanizing/objectifying you just because they aren't interested in platonic friendships? If so, why? its more that women put more investment into relationships and expect their friendns to do the same back, while some men just wanna put less investment in and not expect much in return	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:59 AM
1	Is it harder for a man or a woman to be considered attractive? anyone interested in dating would find this irrelevant	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:46 AM
1	Is it harder for a man or a woman to be considered attractive? a "disadvantage" could be the difference between no sex and some sex for a guy, a big difference, thats why people are so hung up on it	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:44 AM
1	Is it harder for a man or a woman to be considered attractive? 5'9 is defenitely short if you go clubbing	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:39 AM
1	Is it harder for a man or a woman to be considered attractive? fat and the face are connected since fat makes the face more unnatractive, therefore you cannot separate the 2	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:37 AM
3	Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible? but there are a lot of average women complaining they get approached to much, which is why guys approach less	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:25 AM
1	Women base their entire dating lives on a dodgy initial sales pitch, while dismissing men who would make better long term partners because they are no good at that they should not have to settle but its still suggests that some social improvements/changes can be made in society to alleviate the issue	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:11 AM
1	Women base their entire dating lives on a dodgy initial sales pitch, while dismissing men who would make better long term partners because they are no good at that this is the problem, the women that are compatible with nerdy men have lower romantic/sexual interest than other women an average and tend to shy from the opposite sex, making the numbers game that guys have to play even harder	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:09 AM
1	Women base their entire dating lives on a dodgy initial sales pitch, while dismissing men who would make better long term partners because they are no good at that most introverted girls tend to spend more time by themselves or in same-sex spaces	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:04 AM
1	Women base their entire dating lives on a dodgy initial sales pitch, while dismissing men who would make better long term partners because they are no good at that women who are also nerds tend to put less energy in seeking relationships in general, more content with being single and they go out to places where the opposite sex can approach them less frequently than other girls, from my personal experience, which means the nerdy guy has a harder time finding compatible girls if the guy doesnt change themselves and expand their options, nerdy women are also a smaller percentage of the population, it is not really a question of whether they exist as it is of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 02:01 AM
2	Women's "entitlement" to men's nonsexual attention and company is a byproduct of their objections to unattractive men trying to get sex and sexual attention i dont think guys would care that much cause we tend to not give/take much from relationships with each other or expect much, the relationships are lower investment, if someone treats you like a doormat, basically scams you, and you let them get away with it you need to be angry at yourself cause it is a reflection your inadequacies and who you allow into your life and the fact that you cannot stand up for yourself	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 01:44 AM
1	Women's "entitlement" to men's nonsexual attention and company is a byproduct of their objections to unattractive men trying to get sex and sexual attention who deserves it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 01:35 AM
1	Women's "entitlement" to men's nonsexual attention and company is a byproduct of their objections to unattractive men trying to get sex and sexual attention finally some rationality	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 01:33 AM
5	Women's "entitlement" to men's nonsexual attention and company is a byproduct of their objections to unattractive men trying to get sex and sexual attention unfortunately statistics and evidence dissprove your point	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 01:14 AM
3	Q4M: Would you date a mediocre woman? its the truth	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 01:02 AM
1	Q4Men: If you’re not Chad, why should you be treated the same way as Chad? just cause u lack options doesnt mean you should accept anything	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 12:49 AM
–	Q4Men: If you’re not Chad, why should you be treated the same way as Chad? why would it being casual sex make it different?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 12:47 AM
–	Q4Men: If you’re not Chad, why should you be treated the same way as Chad? where are the younger generations trending tho	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 12:41 AM
1	Q4Men: If you’re not Chad, why should you be treated the same way as Chad? do you blame them	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 12:40 AM
–	Q4Men: If you’re not Chad, why should you be treated the same way as Chad? is that true for most women tho, do they fuck people they dont love	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 12:29 AM
1	The men are better looking at pool parties than women bad data	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 12:25 AM
1	What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon? no, you just need to show some actual evidence that they are statistically more violent than the average population of men, instead of throwing around irrelevant statistics and a few relevant anecdotes, because people on this same thread have shown you studies to show that the opposite is in fact true, so maybe reconsider whether you are misinformed about this subject	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 01:56 PM
1	Rule One: There are no unlucky men, only unmeritorious men. not all of them, you can figure out which ones im talking about	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 01:25 PM
1	I see a lot of posts on this sub about what women think about autistic men in the dating landscape. What is the consensus on the reverse of that? So like question for the men on here: would you date a woman on the spectrum and do you think woman on the spectrum have it easier than men with ASD? ok thats you then	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 01:24 PM
0	Is it more difficult for guys to get sex than it is for a relationship? no one said anything about treating people like consumable items	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 01:23 PM
3	What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon? i dont know what you are tryna show me with them comments, ive read them? you are using general crime statistics which includes all men/women to argue about a subset of men/women	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 01:11 PM
1	Rule One: There are no unlucky men, only unmeritorious men. if you are not having your basic needs met then doing self improvement lacks meaning	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 01:28 AM
3	What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon? no one is debating that men commit more crimes than women, obviously	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 01:23 AM
4	I see a lot of posts on this sub about what women think about autistic men in the dating landscape. What is the consensus on the reverse of that? So like question for the men on here: would you date a woman on the spectrum and do you think woman on the spectrum have it easier than men with ASD? it is better to have an ingenuine connection than no connection	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 01:12 AM
1	What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon? if you are committing s isnt your anger turning inward not outward, do you know what s means	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 01:10 AM
1	The problem for all of us is sex itself. i can explain everything	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 01:01 AM
1	Rule One: There are no unlucky men, only unmeritorious men. self improvement with no reward is self cruelty	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 12:59 AM
1	Rule One: There are no unlucky men, only unmeritorious men. false	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 12:56 AM
2	I see a lot of posts on this sub about what women think about autistic men in the dating landscape. What is the consensus on the reverse of that? So like question for the men on here: would you date a woman on the spectrum and do you think woman on the spectrum have it easier than men with ASD? its better to not be understood then to be without a women	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 12:53 AM
1	I see a lot of posts on this sub about what women think about autistic men in the dating landscape. What is the consensus on the reverse of that? So like question for the men on here: would you date a woman on the spectrum and do you think woman on the spectrum have it easier than men with ASD? do you not think men and women have different personality traits on average	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 12:52 AM
3	You have three wishes, what dating behaviors in men/women would you change? how much patience should one have	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 12:35 AM
3	What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon? u have no understanding of statistics clearly	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 12:33 AM
2	What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon? u have lost this argument, you were wrong	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 12:32 AM
3	What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon? they are all talk no bite, they are just looking for a reaction	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 12:32 AM
1	What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon? why do incels commit s at higher rates then	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 12:29 AM
1	What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon? nah it doesnt kill the sex drive for me	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 12:17 AM
1	Being bisexual and embracing redpill is very difficult once you experience what women do false	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 12:09 AM
–	Female women, how would you feel if most men did not desire you at all? even if you are a good match with someone, it doesn't mean if you "talk to them like normal" you will end up dating them, as this largely depends on the people involved and context, talking to people normally will work for some people in some contexts/cultures but it wont work for others being single isn't the worse thing in life *for some people, in reality its a spectrum, some people want to be single, some people dont mind, some people really mind, you are just talking from your personal view…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 10:35 AM
1	Given that all first world countries will soon have below avg birthrates, what is the end game of modern dating culture? it will fall, over time natural selection will occur to the point where the rate of decrease slows down as you select for the cultures/genetics with a higher reproduction rate, the decrease will then dissappear and population will start increasing as the majority of people left have cultures/genetics which lead to them having more children then replacement rate, so population increases again, the idea the birthrate will drop to 0 is an unintelligent idea and is fearmongering	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 10:28 AM
–	"Touching grass" is unuseful well if you do some research it is pretty much the scientific consensus and common knowledge and you can find evidence at this point that personality is partially genetic, which does not mean that children will have the exact same personality as their parents necessarily, it just means that due to genes passed from their parents they are slightlymore predisposed to certain personalities/behaviours than others, then environment influences the rest and personality can change over time, if you thin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 10:17 AM
0	Is it more difficult for guys to get sex than it is for a relationship? dont see how thats shallow still	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 09:58 AM
2	Female women, how would you feel if most men did not desire you at all? if you hit on people u may still be single, also im english technically	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 08:07 PM
1	Given that all first world countries will soon have below avg birthrates, what is the end game of modern dating culture? thats not true because resources is not a limiting factor into the rate of population growth, we have enough resources to have more children we just dont cause of other excuses, and why would countries want to grow exponentionally faster, even if they did want to grow exponentionally faster and resources was a limiting factor for the rate of population growth, the solution of shrinking men would barely lead to the men using less resources, 4'4 men do not eat that much less than average height me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 08:02 PM
1	Female women, how would you feel if most men did not desire you at all? i thought crush just meant someone like you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 07:50 PM
1	What would not having a "defeatist mindset" actually change if we are being honest? OP is saying that they cant get any female attention and under their comment you are saying that you didn't get any male attention and you are not miserable, but here u admit that you dont really want to seek out/obtain male attention, do you think your struggle is the same as OP's?	/r/AllPillDebate	02/08/23 07:48 PM
1	Online dating is not an accurate marker for your dating success read the rules again	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 07:28 PM
–	"Touching grass" is unuseful do you not agree that personality is partly genetic, genes are passed down, and personality partly influences political position? this is basic science	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 07:26 PM
1	Is it more difficult for guys to get sex than it is for a relationship? ur a woman tho??	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 07:23 PM
0	Is it more difficult for guys to get sex than it is for a relationship? what has shallow got to do with anything	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 07:23 PM
1	Given that all first world countries will soon have below avg birthrates, what is the end game of modern dating culture? ur wrong because through natural selection the humans that do reproduce will reproduce children that are more likely to reproduce, due to passing on their genetics,personality and culture	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 07:20 PM
1	Given that all first world countries will soon have below avg birthrates, what is the end game of modern dating culture? why cant they date?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 07:15 PM
1	Given that all first world countries will soon have below avg birthrates, what is the end game of modern dating culture? nothing lasts forever, unfortunately	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 07:15 PM
1	Given that all first world countries will soon have below avg birthrates, what is the end game of modern dating culture? ur wacky, we are not running out of resources and no parent is gonna want their sons to be shrunk	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 07:13 PM
3	Given that all first world countries will soon have below avg birthrates, what is the end game of modern dating culture? their population growth is slowing down fast actually	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 07:08 PM
2	Most problems in this subreddit are caused by people not knowing how men/women really are yeah people always tell me to join clubs like they arent filled with older people	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 07:04 PM
1	“Overwhelmed with messages” is NOT an excuse for women’s awful online dating behaviour yes these people are delusional	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 07:01 PM
1	“Overwhelmed with messages” is NOT an excuse for women’s awful online dating behaviour its not that hard but it still has a low success rate, how many women can you ask out at one gym	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 07:01 PM
1	“Overwhelmed with messages” is NOT an excuse for women’s awful online dating behaviour im envious	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 07:00 PM
1	Female women, how would you feel if most men did not desire you at all? so you do get attention from guys then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 06:46 PM
6	Female women, how would you feel if most men did not desire you at all? if you dont hit on people regularly you will stay single	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 06:43 PM
-4	Female women, how would you feel if most men did not desire you at all? if you are a guy you dont need to be unattractive to be called gross	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 06:39 PM
–	CMV: Men should looks-max/career-max for the highest overall success i agree then	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 06:34 PM
1	What would not having a "defeatist mindset" actually change if we are being honest? if you wanted attention you would have sought it	/r/AllPillDebate	02/08/23 06:16 PM
1	What would not having a "defeatist mindset" actually change if we are being honest? false	/r/AllPillDebate	02/08/23 06:14 PM
1	CMV: If the only reason you’re improving yourself is to get laid, you’re making it more difficult to get laid If your lack of happiness/confidence is primarily from your lack of dating success, then anything you do other than directly working towards that dating success will feel slightly unsatisfying. Also happinness/confidence is not the only things you need to have dating success.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 08:55 PM
0	CMV: If the only reason you’re improving yourself is to get laid, you’re making it more difficult to get laid tbf i liked playing sports a lot cause i was energetic and competitive but i was also very uncoordinated so i was shunned from playing so i regressed into videogames, but other than that, in life i dont find doing "cool" things that interesting, id rather just think about things in my head, by chasing sex i made my life more difficult but not more miserable, its given me a purpose, and life has taught me to abandon my values when it comes to pleasing others, getting a job and getting women, sinc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 08:31 PM
1	CMV: If the only reason you’re improving yourself is to get laid, you’re making it more difficult to get laid i guess we will never understand each other	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 04:27 PM
1	[Blackpill] [Redpill] A major point that even most blackpillers/redpillers don't see its not someone, its anyone	/r/AllPillDebate	01/08/23 04:18 PM
3	What would not having a "defeatist mindset" actually change if we are being honest? apples and oranges	/r/AllPillDebate	01/08/23 04:09 PM
5	What would not having a "defeatist mindset" actually change if we are being honest? false	/r/AllPillDebate	01/08/23 04:07 PM
1	CMV: If the only reason you’re improving yourself is to get laid, you’re making it more difficult to get laid yeah thats my problem, ive self improved to wear i can get the women i wanted to get before easily, but now i dont see those women as being on my level anymore	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 03:57 PM
1	CMV: If the only reason you’re improving yourself is to get laid, you’re making it more difficult to get laid but thats exactly what their evolution designed them to do tho?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 03:55 PM
1	CMV: If the only reason you’re improving yourself is to get laid, you’re making it more difficult to get laid i agree with you, before i developed a sex drive i was happy playing video games all day, wearing shitty clothes and having no ambition, and i was satisfied	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 03:54 PM
1	CMV: If the only reason you’re improving yourself is to get laid, you’re making it more difficult to get laid do they get laid cause they dont care or do they not care because they get laid?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 03:51 PM
1	CMV: If the only reason you’re improving yourself is to get laid, you’re making it more difficult to get laid some people get gratification from unproductive stuff like videogames tho, some poeple have no gratification for actual acheivement	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 03:50 PM
1	CMV: If the only reason you’re improving yourself is to get laid, you’re making it more difficult to get laid theres guys that play guitar/piano to get girls, you dont need to be that good at it just know a few decent songs	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 03:49 PM
1	CMV: If the only reason you’re improving yourself is to get laid, you’re making it more difficult to get laid people want what they cannot have	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 03:47 PM
1	CMV: If the only reason you’re improving yourself is to get laid, you’re making it more difficult to get laid are u asexual?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 03:46 PM
1	CMV: If the only reason you’re improving yourself is to get laid, you’re making it more difficult to get laid getting laid has evolutionary been a matter of life or death, not a bonus	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 03:44 PM
1	CMV: assuming all else equal, the only important determiner in life is neurotypicality genetics i agree with you but there is a flaw in your argument, since people with very mild undiagonosable autisim can pass on autistic genes	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 03:41 PM
1	Men aging like fine wine is a myth and women "hitting the wall" is overstated broke guys that are attractive...	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 03:31 PM
1	Is there a point being tall starts to become unattractive to most women? do you like muscle?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 03:22 PM
1	There is a huge disparity between what young&attractive girls want and what PPD girls want and that's one reason for misunderstanding. what do you mean by meditation?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 12:13 AM
1	There is a huge disparity between what young&attractive girls want and what PPD girls want and that's one reason for misunderstanding. i think sexual experience is more important than "character" when it comes to her satisfaction, and the ig guy will proabably have plenty experience, and he will communicate this experience to the women through confidence. Also the halo effect will mean he is perceived as having a better character than he actually has	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 11:05 PM
2	"I see unattractive guys with girlfriends and wives!!1", well what about unattractive guys having ONE NIGHT STANDS and HOOKUPS? silliest thing ive heard today	/r/AllPillDebate	31/07/23 10:58 PM
1	Women are not entitled to a relationship just because a Man promises one consent can be revoked at any time i can agree with that	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 10:51 PM
1	Women are not entitled to a relationship just because a Man promises one consent can be revoked at any time what experience, in my experience guys that do that get friendzoned or just bore the women, a strategy useful for making friends with women is not as effective in dating a women	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 10:49 PM
1	Women are not entitled to a relationship just because a Man promises one consent can be revoked at any time it doesnt suggest anything about the quality of the relationship tho? why assume they have bad relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 10:47 PM
1	Women are not entitled to a relationship just because a Man promises one consent can be revoked at any time i think there is a difference between lying to get a job, in which no one directly gets harmed, and "using people", almost everyone person i know, including family, would have no qualms with lying if they feel like they are using it to "game the system" and not necessarily to fuck over people, however, day to day these people are generally honest	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 10:23 PM
1	Reminder for guys if you aren't 8/10 and 6ft women literally hate you. he is speaking from a place of pain	/r/AllPillDebate	31/07/23 04:31 PM
1	Women are not entitled to a relationship just because a Man promises one consent can be revoked at any time the free food thing is common enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 04:03 PM
3	Women are not entitled to a relationship just because a Man promises one consent can be revoked at any time do the guys who have a lot of dating success treat women just like people? have you approached women	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 03:48 PM
1	Women are not entitled to a relationship just because a Man promises one consent can be revoked at any time why does narcissism and pyscopathy lead to higher attractiveness in men	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 03:43 PM
1	Women are not entitled to a relationship just because a Man promises one consent can be revoked at any time but why are psycopaths more successful than the average person? you can call them "conman" but these are people we celebrate in society	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 03:40 PM
1	Women are not entitled to a relationship just because a Man promises one consent can be revoked at any time most people are like this tho?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 03:36 PM
1	What do you women think of a man who at the moment doesn't earn a lot of money but has a promising future? my point is that many guys tick the boxes on paper but in reality they will still have a hard time convincing the woman to date them	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 12:58 AM
1	There is a huge disparity between what young&attractive girls want and what PPD girls want and that's one reason for misunderstanding. i just think that guys that are attractive (looks,fashion,social) with red flags gets into a relationship easier in reality than a guy that is mediocre and has no red flags	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 04:52 PM
4	What do you women think of a man who at the moment doesn't earn a lot of money but has a promising future? it is a literal competition tho?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 03:48 PM
5	What do you women think of a man who at the moment doesn't earn a lot of money but has a promising future? its not a question of would girls date you, its a question of do girls want to date you	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 03:47 PM
1	There is a huge disparity between what young&attractive girls want and what PPD girls want and that's one reason for misunderstanding. theres a difference between just liking something and being turned on by something, most guys are looking for the body type that will turn women on	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 03:39 PM
4	There is a huge disparity between what young&attractive girls want and what PPD girls want and that's one reason for misunderstanding. do young girls care about all that tho, hes attractive so he ticks enough boxes	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 03:22 PM
1	why do women hate us so much? the situation is worse for younger guys tho	/r/AllPillDebate	29/07/23 05:05 PM
1	Women, what makes you notice a guy? as a guy if your clothes are too out there people think you are gay or they dont take you seriously, guys arent allowed to wear many colours	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/23 04:51 PM
1	Women, what makes you notice a guy? halo effect	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/23 04:50 PM
1	Women, what makes you notice a guy? what if you never meet that person, its better for you to change yourself for general appeal	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/23 04:47 PM
5	Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it is im 6'3 and when i go to the club its full of guys bigger and taller than me	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/23 04:38 PM
0	Ageism ruined my streetworkoutmaxxing and how u gonna get women if your speaking like this, or are u trolling	/r/AllPillDebate	28/07/23 10:02 PM
2	CMV: It's not necessarily that women lie. It's just that questions are interpreted differently based on people's experiences. Ok thank you for your answer but i was thinking more in terms of approaching a women at a social event, like what would make a guy stand out if there are lots of guys there and they are all put together as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 09:59 PM
1	CMV: It's not necessarily that women lie. It's just that questions are interpreted differently based on people's experiences. what is the answer then	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 05:13 PM
1	How does the ideology of "gender roles suck" mashes with stuff that women can do but men can't? are men too thirsty or are women not thirsty enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 04:40 PM
1	Ageism ruined my streetworkoutmaxxing ok you do you but id rather go gym i just think its quicker	/r/AllPillDebate	28/07/23 04:20 PM
2	CMV: Men should looks-max/career-max for the highest overall success the doctor only has status when he is close to 30 and has a lot of money, the whole time the doctor was at university the doctor was a broke, low-status, student and probably struggled to attract girls, DJ and drug dealer didnt go college and they have been earning money right from their teenage years, therefore they have more dating experience and life experience, and they live an exciting lifestyle. which one is better?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 04:17 PM
1	CMV: Men should looks-max/career-max for the highest overall success What do you mean by accomplishing interesting things, many people travel countries and go climb a mountain or something but thats the sort of "interesting" thing normal, everyday people do, hardly going to make you stand out. Surely your life being exciting means you are doing something risky but how can you do risky things without harming your career. The people in life who are actually living exciting lives tend to be taking risks with their criminal record or they work in entertainment where …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 04:04 PM
1	Ageism ruined my streetworkoutmaxxing oh so its calisthenics, how are you suppossed to meet women doing this its only guys that do this, i avoid calisthenics cause its not good for tall people	/r/AllPillDebate	27/07/23 05:50 PM
1	CMV: Men should looks-max/career-max for the highest overall success most of these things are basic and common sense, i do these things and dont stand out, a lot of guys go gym and girls seem not to notice, most guys have drip as well especially at clubs and bars so i just blend in, i also take care of my face and hair, so what is actually going to make me stand out that girls actually care about, also is there anything that whitens teeth that is not a scam	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 04:46 PM
1	Ageism ruined my streetworkoutmaxxing what is this and how do i start im 19	/r/AllPillDebate	27/07/23 04:33 PM
1	What do I do? if you are an inexperienced guy you do not have a lot of time unfortunately	/r/AllPillDebate	27/07/23 04:32 PM
1	CMV: Men should looks-max/career-max for the highest overall success so if someone is working a high paying job that is boring, what would you suggest to them, can they do a side hustle?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 04:16 PM
1	CMV: Men should looks-max/career-max for the highest overall success fashion and making more money is needed if you want to get women tho, i dont care about fashion and im not materialistic but thats what attracts girls	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 04:14 PM
1	CMV: Men should looks-max/career-max for the highest overall success how would you suggest people stand out	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 04:11 PM
–	I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time" its not like most people are born average and are not doing any improvement, if most people are improving themselves then it takes effort to be average, if more people are going gym these days, it will become an "average" thing to go gym, we live in a competitive world	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 07:20 PM
–	I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time" women are choosing neflix and social media over sex, while many men are still trying, thats why when you go outside its still thirsty guys chasing the few girls, at social events guys always outnumber women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 07:17 PM
–	I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time" i dont think women are rejecting guys because they are not nice and affectionate	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 07:09 PM
2	"Just learn social skills". thats the real challenge innit, i was lucky i found a social circle that was social but non-judgemental at 17, but I cant give advice on how to be lucky	/r/AllPillDebate	22/07/23 02:46 PM
1	"Just learn social skills". ReportSaveFollow is it better or worse?	/r/AllPillDebate	22/07/23 12:03 PM
1	"Just learn social skills". if you wanna solve the problem you can befriend guys who are already in a social circle with girls in it	/r/AllPillDebate	22/07/23 12:02 PM
0	"Just learn social skills". child or at least only have it happen once Be up to date on pop culture and such, and not be judged if you missed something; some friends would even fill you in Be allowed to pursue certain hobbies and extracurricular activities. Be allowed to mess up a bit and embarrass yourself when socializing without harsh judgement. Easily fitting in and socializing with a new group Actually looking forward to the prom and going to that Having an easy time socializing in college and getting invited to parti…	/r/AllPillDebate	22/07/23 12:01 PM
2	Most discussions of overweight women are disingenuous because they reference women with desirable pear shaped bodies, but the vast majority of overweight women do not look like that. you are delusional	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 12:59 AM
3	I'm confused on the overall stance women have on approaching If they weren’t playing the numbers game most of those interactions wouldn’t have occurred	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/23 02:17 PM
1	Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their place Unless you ain’t getting any attention	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/23 02:04 PM
8	CMV : Your parents could mostly buy houses easily, you can’t. Your parents found partners and had families, you can’t. It’s normal. In order to have confidence you have to achieve something or have a quality about yourself that stands out, which not everybody has	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/23 01:40 PM
1	This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept" All my guy friends say approaching women in public is creepy and they aren’t even woke	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/23 09:55 AM
0	Is it true for most guys that there are more dating options in their 30s as pointed out on here? I’m a 19 year old and a few girls my age are dating older guys around 25-30	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/23 11:51 PM
1	Do you guys even like women? Why? Yeah u can plz	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 11:15 PM
1	Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests? We are not getting anywhere with this, I see ur point, I refuse to change my opinion, let’s leave it there	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 02:22 PM
–	Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests? I don’t know what else to say other than that staying single is too depressing and painful of an option to even consider	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 01:38 PM
1	Men also have a ticking clock until they become undesirable to women. That is why men should do anything to gain experience with them especially in terms of sex. Ok thank you for your help	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 01:29 PM
1	Do you guys even like women? Why? For context I’m 19 years old therefore I can only date 18-19 year olds in general, I’m not even that unattractive, I just have a problem finding girls my age in any social context, and I am incompatible with a lot of girls due to being introverted. It’s not that I’ll never find a girlfriend/ get laid, it is just that the possibility is still low and I am already close to turning 20	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 12:58 PM
2	Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests? Well that’s the point, before high school I was a loner I had very few friends I talked to and we would just play video games, but entering high school I expanded my social circle, quit video games, wore better clothes, started going gym, going to parties all for the sole purpose of getting a girlfriend	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 12:33 PM
–	Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests? I admit what I suggest is immoral but unfortunately I don’t see any other prospect of succeeding in dating without making these immoral decisions, dating seems like a dirty game until you win	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 03:21 AM
1	Men also have a ticking clock until they become undesirable to women. That is why men should do anything to gain experience with them especially in terms of sex. bro im planing to lie for my first time can you teach me some tips, what should i research, how do i come off convincingly	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 01:55 AM
–	Theory: Most guys (and girls too) that are struggling, are just not in the correct circles that match their personality. i wanna know as well	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 01:52 AM
–	Theory: Most guys (and girls too) that are struggling, are just not in the correct circles that match their personality. at the start of uni i tried to join the volleyball club to meet women and it was 90% male	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 01:42 AM
–	Theory: Most guys (and girls too) that are struggling, are just not in the correct circles that match their personality. guys dont have standards tho	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 01:41 AM
1	Do you guys even like women? Why? but what do you do when you go and socialize, gym, hobbies, looksmax,fashion and do everything right but still cant find a girlfriend, you say nothing in life is free but what if the shop aint selling nothing even if u have money	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 01:36 AM
1	Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests? u can argue that choosing to wear a certain fashion is a behaviour and not an identity	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 12:51 AM
2	Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests? if you're a young guy you may not have many options so you may have to compromise with whatever you can get, if u reject one girl that girl may have been ur only option	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 12:49 AM
0	Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests? the only thing worst than being alone is knowing there is a good possibility you will always be alone forever and you will forever miss out on the human experience	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 12:44 AM
1	Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests? im a guy and if i was asexual and aromantic i honestly would have no social life, no fashion sense, i wouldnt be at uni and would just play video games 24/7, there wouldnt be any motivation	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/23 12:41 AM