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The problem is, that i know it. But i don't feel it. Was in the gym last night. She happened to be there. I felt motivated when she was there and when i was walking past. But as soon as they drove away, i felt completely gutted, no energi and no focus.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 10:45 AM
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I think you are right. But NC is nonetheless the only way to cut the losses and move on? We still have a shared flat for min 3-4 months, before the lease is oust (But she lives at her fathers now) We still has a lot of commitment regarding pet, mail, and other money stuff, which we would have to work on together. If we didn't live together or hand any commitment to eachother, i would have deleted her on facebook and everywhere i could stumple in to her. That has help previously.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 02:55 PM
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She definitely doesn't. I made it very clear to her, than if she didn't want to work on the relationship, then we are compleltely over, and i would only focus on getting forward. She asked me, if i was going to sleep with other girls. I said " That's not what i want right now, but i cannot guarantee it will happen, and i can't guarantee it, because it could happen, and i do not want to lie to you" The two reasons why she moved out is: To get some space and think about wtf. she feels. She didn't …
/r/askTRP01/04/16 02:53 PM
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Think you missed something :) - It was kind-off a mutual decicion, but i had to do it. I wasn't happy with the relationship, aslong as i wasn't 1st priority, and since she couldn't give me that, i ended it. At the same time she said, that it might be her feelings that held her back and stuff. She didn't expect me to want her back on facebook. It was the day after the break-up, while she still kissed me before work, but before i told her, to sort out if she wanted to work on this and if not, then…
/r/askTRP01/04/16 02:49 PM
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Because I don't want to feel like the 14 months has been a complete "waste of time", without giving it the slightest chance. She's doesn't know weather it's her feelings, or because of her past, and she won't know until she is away from me (Why i told her to move to her fathers) Ofc. It most certain will be the feelings that has gone away, but i still want to be sure, before just throwing it away. We still lived together, she still pays rent since we can't get out of the apartment for 3-4 months…
/r/askTRP01/04/16 01:03 PM
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I'm not trying to negotiate any desire. I know that i've been far away from the man she fell in love with around 14 months ago. I lived in Malta, but moved back to Denmark, put all eggs in one basket, to a city i didn't know, wasn't social and spend a lot, lot, lot of time infront of the computer. Tried to change myself in the good way after reading TRP, get more out, be more socail, and i did. After the break-up before she moved out, i didn't feel comfortable sitting infront of the computer, an…
/r/askTRP01/04/16 12:56 PM
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I do see how that would remove fear of getting rejected, but how would it help me not overthink other situations, or over-analyze every word my LTR text me or say to me? :)
/r/askTRP13/03/16 02:16 AM
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Fantastic post! Even though it has been only two days, it has worked. First of all, i have been smiling and setting up a frame. I'm happy, full of confidence. I'm the type who always has to listen to phone-sellars, because i can't say no. If they call today, i'll honestly say. I'm not interested, good bye. But i've put of the frame, i went out with a buddy last night, ate, played some pool. Went home, smiled, asked about her day, she came with a shit test or two, i put them down immidiatly, but …
/r/askTRP09/03/16 10:45 AM
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It's very true. I always feel like giving, has always been like that. And that needs to be changed as of right now!
/r/askTRP09/03/16 10:29 AM
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I strongly disagree. I might have exaggerated. The relationship is good in many ways, she treats my good, is not trying to make me jaloux, doesn't nag on me in public and stuff. The biggets upsets is the more os less sexless and the fact, that she doesn't try to arrange thinks with me, but with family/friends instead. I see two solutions after reading the red pill. I need to grow some balls. Be more in charge, Get more out (currently home and avaliable most of the time, so why should she want to…
/r/askTRP09/03/16 10:26 AM
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I still need a lot of guidiance and advice, because i make a lot of mistakes. If i did really good, i wouldn't have sex only 2-3 times a month at age 25 with my LTR that i'm living with. But my body is definitely one think i'm working on. Running, Jump-roping HIIT, to get the fat burning, and also doing boxing and different weigh-lifting, to boost the muscles. Couple of days ago i trained legs at home with a slammer ball. She saw my thigh muscles and saim "Uuhm, they look so good" - Didn't reall…
/r/askTRP08/03/16 02:00 PM
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It definitely make sense. And the "problem" is, that i really do know, that their is a lot of other girls out there, and i have confidence, not the best at picking up girls, but i have my fair share of fucks, and most of them is in the higher numbers. So i'm not affraid to be single again, and not affraid ending up without someone else. But at this state, is still appreciate her more than any other LTR than i have been in, the beginning and mid of our relationship has been fantastic, but the las…
/r/askTRP08/03/16 01:57 PM
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Thanks! Exactly what i was looking for. Will take a look right away! :)
/r/askTRP08/03/16 12:01 PM
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I'm not sure i follow 100 %. She is still, kind, fun and nice to me. But it's the most essientiel things, that are missing. The "attraction" i would guess. A couple of days ago, i struck gold, winning big on betting. I bought her a Fitbit watch, because she loves to work out and keep track of things. The watch had problems with battery, so i called support, and they ended up giving her a new one. I could see, and feel the attraction from her. It turned her on. She went to me, kissed me deeply to…
/r/askTRP08/03/16 10:49 AM
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