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| 1 | Do women really approach guys at bars?I lost my virginity when a girl, on her 21st birthday party, asked to go up to my room to fuck. I'm 20. | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 08:14 PM |
| 1 | My 8th grade crush likes me nowSmash and Dash | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 04:51 AM |
| 3 | What's worked for meeting girls in college?Join orgs. Go to a coffeeshop. Class. | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 04:50 AM |
| 37 | I want a BADDIEGotta work for one brotha. Work out. Start investing. Get a "sexy" hobby like cooking, guitar/saxophone, or dancing. Also, you shouldn't want a baddie. You should want someone who's right for you. That emotional connection beats having a baddie other guys are jealous of. Keep your mind open and work on yourself. | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 04:46 AM |
| -3 | [deleted by user]You ask her for her number, not the other way around. That way, you're in charge of the interaction. Keep it going regardless. | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?You're running an AirBnb for free my man. Start charging her for the night. HIMYM has a segment on this. | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 04:42 AM |
| 1 | (19M) How can a loner freshman in college with no experience with women get girls?Rush or join a org. | /r/seduction | 12/10/21 10:00 PM |
| 6 | Balding attraction killerGet buff if you're bald. Buff bald guys are pretty good looking to women (the Rock for example). | /r/seduction | 12/10/21 09:56 PM |
| 3 | All of this rejection is making me depressedFocus on yourself and make yourself the product. You get to to do the rejecting, which is a lot more fun. | /r/seduction | 12/10/21 09:55 PM |
| 2 | I get hit on by gay dudes a lot but rarely by womenThat's because girls don't approach bro (well 95% of the time). They want YOU to approach them. They want the man to be confident. They want to BE approached. | /r/seduction | 03/10/21 11:57 PM |
| 1 | I get hit on by gay dudes a lot but rarely by womenMaybe you look good? | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 04:53 AM |
| 31 | For guys what piece of advice has always worked with you?It's not as long as you don't have feelings for the girl. I become friends with one and ask to hang out with her friends. That social proof factor works. As soon as you're running through her friends, she may even want to try you out. | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 08:43 PM |
| 12 | [deleted by user]Don't JUST talk to women then. Mix in a couple men and make some homies out of it too. They have a term for it. It's called being social. | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 03:33 AM |
| 1 | I’m invited to a party and a girl who rejected me is going to be there what should I do?Make out with someone hotter there. | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 05:08 PM |
| 2 | How to KEEP a guy seduced?Learn to give him the Gawk Gawk 9000. | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Signs when she is not interestedNope. Just be honest with her make it clear. Tell her you're interested and ask her to go out. Make it clear that you're going to ask someone else if she doesn't give you a clear yes. Don't have time for this bs. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 02:35 AM |
| 17 | Signs when she is not interestedI give up after the first 3 signs of flakiness. I don't have the time for flaky women. | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 02:42 AM |
| 33 | Signs when she is not interestedMove on. They want attention from you. If you give it to them, you're an idiot for it. Don't waste your time with those people. | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Guys please help i have zero gameI have this problem. It's a slow process getting over it but we just gotta keep putting in the work. | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 08:25 PM |
| 5 | Is my lifestyle a problem?If you like to read, go to a fucking bookstore and start to talk to women about books they're holding. Libraries may not be as good since the girls might be at work. Take a fucking dance class for God's sake. You have an easy excuse to break the touch barrier and you can up your style game too. | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Guys please help i have zero gameIf you like her, ask her out and kiss her (with her consent) dumb ass. Don't bitch if another guy does your job for you. . If you don't feel confident enough, knock out 50 push ups, then do it. Copy and paste this message and send her a text or do it in person next time you see her. "Hey, I was thinking we could go get ice cream/coffee at [blank] place at [insert day and time in late afternoon here]." (Notice how you set the time and date. You da man so take some fucking initiative.) Being respe… | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 05:33 PM |
| 1 | I think I found the one but…Move on brother. I thought I got the one when I was 18. Then I got 15 more "ones" in college. | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 04:36 PM |
| 2 | How do i hint to be more than friends?Women drop hints that are difficult to understand. We don't. Flirt and let her know you see her as more than a friend. | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 05:01 AM |
| 1 | How do I break out of the nice guy vibe?Movies are a bad first date. You're trying to get to know the person, and a movie isn't the place to do that. Coffee/Ice Cream/Picnic is good. Painting class may be fun too. Dinner is too formal. | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 06:28 PM |
| 1 | How do I break out of the nice guy vibe?If you're getting to the 2nd or 3rd date, you're at least progressing in the sequence. You may not be kissing or initiating something more intimate. First date is a casual open public place get to know you. Get a bit fancier second. Go for something more private and intimate by the third. Make sure you try to get a kiss in by the second date at latest. | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 02:35 AM |
| 1 | How do I break out of the nice guy vibe?Be assertive, not nice. It's good to be kind, not nice. You don't have to be a douche to get laid. Read up on what I said. I cannot recommend the website, Art of Manliness, enough. You just simply have to be less boring. Have something exciting in your life like a hobby, a passion, or a cool job. Dress well. Get in shape. Also, learn to flirt. If you don't escalate and let her know you're interested, it won't work. Also, figure out what type of man you are and roll with it: are you a shy but coo… | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 08:26 PM |
| 1 | If you have a 4 to 5 inches length junk you are perfectly fine don't worry about it!Also, if you're on the smaller side, learn to last longer. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 04:02 PM |
| 1 | If you have a 4 to 5 inches length junk you are perfectly fine don't worry about it!My God, all I hear is excuse excuse excuse. Stop reading those posts and live your life goddam it. Work on yourself. Get a better career, get a new hobby, or something like that. Try online dating with an area that has more women in it. The problem isn't your dick, it's the fact you have no confidence in yourself, which is way more of a turn off. Go talk to real women goddamn it. Work on yourself first and get more confident before even worrying about the dick size problem. I have a 4.5 inch pec… | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 04:01 PM |
| 7 | If you have a 4 to 5 inches length junk you are perfectly fine don't worry about it!ith experience with larger sizes are exclusive to any venues You only need your tongue and your fingers to get her to orgasm. Women love mystery. If you're on the smaller side, keep it hidden in a fun way until you've already made her orgasm with your tongue or finger. She won't mind if she's already reached there. You're probably rushing through foreplay. If you're at least 3.5-4 inches, you have enough to keep her satisfied. Besides, size queens are gonna be dissatisfied with something else so… | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 06:50 AM |
| 1 | (Q) Developing your lifestyle - what is attractive?I speak from experience. Italian food and wine is hot af. I have a cook strip routine prepared. Heating up old ramen is not cooking bro. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 06:49 AM |
| 1 | (Q) Developing your lifestyle - what is attractive?You're cooking wrong then. Cooking is one of the sexiest hobbies in men. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 06:37 AM |
| 7 | If you have a 4 to 5 inches length junk you are perfectly fine don't worry about it!You're looking for women in the wrong places then (bars/clubs). Lesbians have sex just fine. Get good with your fingers or tongue. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 06:11 AM |
| 1 | I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice?Step 1) Join a salsa or tango dance class. Yoga may work too if you're in shape. Step 2) Profit Easy easy excuse to break the touch barrier, which can be the most daunting thing for men | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 06:07 AM |
| 2 | When approaching a group of equally attractive girls, is it better to force a choice on one to flirt with, or you just interact equally with everyone?Go ahead and good luck! | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Virgin at 24od advice, dancing is a great way to meet people and think it would get me out of my comfort zone. I did used to do journalling but got out of the habit and this has made me want to continue again, so thanks again No problem. Just have fun doing this. Girls hate bullshit lines and PUA crap. They love a guy who can have fun. Have fun exploring! | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 05:21 PM |
| 2 | 16 Commandments of Poon by Chateau Heartiste: Tips for MenJust did. My method sounds harsher than it is. Manipulate is probably too strong of a word. Toying is closer to reality. | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 05:19 PM |
| 1 | 16 Commandments of Poon by Chateau Heartiste: Tips for MenI think my wording was a bit strong with "manipulation." I meant be challenging. | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 05:03 PM |
| 5 | 16 Commandments of Poon by Chateau Heartiste: Tips for MenBoth. It's fun when you do it. Don't be an asshole but don't be too available. I speak from experience. It sounds harsh but that's what works. I went from getting 0 numbers a week to between 4-6 just by being emotionally unavailable. Make the woman put in effort and get her intrigued. Don't give away your emotions too soon. Maybe the phrasing could be less blunt but yes, women love emotional challenges. It's why the confident douchebag gets girls while the yes man "nice" guy doesn't. It's also w… | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 07:41 AM |
| 1 | I just got rejected by the girl I was building up my courage so bad forSteadfast rule: There's always another one. | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 06:06 AM |
| 2 | When approaching a group of equally attractive girls, is it better to force a choice on one to flirt with, or you just interact equally with everyone?Easy, call one of them pretty but don't tell them which one. Look closely at both of them and flirt with all of them. Gets them thinking. They'll be chasing for your approval. The naughty and the nice question is also a good one. Ask them which of them is "naughty" one and which one is the "nice" one. Better yet, give them your impression of them. Make the girl you're interested in the "nice" one, and she'll want to prove to you she isn't. Also, ask them their names but don't tell them yours too… | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 06:03 AM |
| 2 | To be interresting you have to be interrested : don't over do itI think it's a 70/30 her/you stoichiometric ratio for the chemistry to work. | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 05:56 AM |
| 2 | I (m28) pussed out on kissing my date (F27) on both our first and second date. Did I fuck up my chances?Go for it. She's probably already starting to cool on you bro since you're late. What you NEED to do is get her excited again. Once the flame is out, you're not gonna re light it again. Take her somewhere private like a picnic for the third date (which is when many people have sex), look at her eyes, her lips, and her eyes again. If she does the same, it's go time. Don't be a wuss. | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 05:54 AM |
| 1 | How do I get girls as a conservative white maleTry to pick up chicks in Bakersfield? | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Guys who travel a lot, do you make more than 85K/year?Take a Frontier flight to a National Park, backpack/camp, and come back. Take a day trip to a park. | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Ugh. Girl curious about my size.Keep in mind how long you can use it matters a LOT more than how long it is. A 5 incher that can go a long time is a better tool than a 7 inch that lasts 3 minutes. | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 05:45 AM |
| 3 | Virgin at 24Wear nice clothes and take a tango/salsa dancing class. Also, practice *gasp* talking to women. This takes confidence. My trick has been to write down everything that's been going well in life on a list. Internalize this list. If you get rejected, then move on. Swallow your ego since you WILL screw up at least once in the dating game. That's just the nature of it. You still have the items on your list going for you and nothing changes. You have the options of neutral and positive. | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 05:06 AM |
| 5 | Successful guys; what hobbies or interests do you have?70% Success is passing. Not bad. | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 04:50 AM |
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