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Potential_Finger_181/r/ExRedPill16/07/25 09:36 PM
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There are plenty of women who’ve been hurt in the past, but most don’t turn into people who hate all men, claim men are inferior, or excuse their own cheating while condemning others for the same thing. I’m sorry your friend went through something painful, but if he speaks positively about his infidelity while calling women “sluts” for identical behavior, that tells me he is a shitty person. That kind of double standard shows a lack of basic empathy — one that seems to apply only when he is the …
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 03:05 AM
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Could you share what your experience was with him?
/r/ExRedPill19/11/25 09:02 PM
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Not all men are red-pilled. It’s important to learn how to tell the difference between red-pilled and non-red-pilled ones. The red-pilled types are actually pretty easy to spot once you recognize their tactics. You can easily learn those tactics — for example, by reading The Rational Male. Also, pay attention to whether someone comes across as insecure, unempathetic or unintelligent, because those kinds of guys tend to buy into that ideology. You already have firsthand experience with one. You k…
/r/ExRedPill02/11/25 09:19 PM
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Look i understand you but those who never came across probably won't. It took a serious toll on my mental health even though I was not in relationship with any of them, I just happened to meet someone at work who used it at me. It's pure abuse tactics and now as you know and can recognize it, you just stay away from them
/r/ExRedPill02/11/25 03:38 PM
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A man who really likes a woman and is sure that she is the one won't be stopped by other dude being around her. Read about how Richard Branson met his wife. If you really want something in life you, just go for it.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/25 06:52 PM
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How his red pill ideology affects them? And what was your experience?
/r/ExRedPill17/08/25 03:56 AM
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That makes sense. Honestly, I still can’t wrap my head around how someone who’s empathetic/kind could go deeply into red pill ideology — so much of it is outright abusive and harmful to others, and clearly stupid. So either they’re being willfully cruel, ignorant, or mentally/emotionally underdeveloped.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/25 12:52 AM
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I wonder what makes those men to change. Was he loving and caring before? Or was something in his character that made him predisposed to this? I can't believe someone can just drastically change. Did you have any problems in relashinship? Did he cheat on you after going red pill? This is really heartbreaking, i really wish you to find a better man.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 07:56 PM
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This is narcissist cult, women should run away from them. I could understand how someone could fall for that who haven't had any relationship, but those who do that in relationship are just ungrateful asssholes.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 03:55 PM
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Why do you care what most women think? Or how many did you interview for that matter? Find the one that likes you with bald head lol. I'm a woman and I can tell that this thing doesn't matter to all women
/r/ExRedPill04/08/25 04:53 PM
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Why do you have trauma if it wasn't abusive? Please feel free to dm me with details.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/25 11:06 PM
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Red pill men use tactics that are qualified as abuse. And remedy here is the same as for victims of abusive relationships. See if there are hotlines for people like you in you country, those should be free. And cutting ties with abuser should be the first thing to do. This step alone will bring you releif
/r/ExRedPill30/07/25 07:50 PM
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honestly don’t get why it should matter. Everyone has their own unique type — and that’s shaped by a mix of genetics, upbringing, and life experiences. For example, if a girl had a loving relationship with her bald dad, she might subconsciously find bald men attractive. Or, if her early experience was traumatic, she might be drawn to a completely different type. On top of that, charisma plays a huge role. Being bald doesn’t suddenly erase someone’s attractiveness — there’s so much more to what m…
/r/ExRedPill29/07/25 01:18 AM
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Omg 5'9 is not short, even for a man. And boldness also doesn't matter that much, remember Bruce Willis. You problem must be psychological. Personality and character matters more than looks
/r/ExRedPill26/07/25 07:14 AM
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Absolutely agree — negging is abuse. It’s not playful, it’s not harmless — it’s a calculated way to chip away at someone’s confidence until they become easier to control. When you look at the full set of Red Pill tactics — negging, gaslighting, push-pull, dread game — it’s literally textbook narcissistic abuse. What makes it so insidious is that it's covert. You're not being screamed at — you're being subtly degraded, questioned, devalued, and trained to doubt yourself. And over time, that kind …
/r/ExRedPill25/07/25 05:33 PM
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Wow, girl… reading this gave me chills. So much of what you shared mirrors what I went through with a guy I worked with — and honestly, it helps validate what I experienced, because I still sometimes doubt whether I interpreted everything correctly. I used to be friendly with him, even though a lot of his behavior threw me off. He was emotionally detached from everyone — barely talked to anyone unless it served him. I noticed how he judged people purely by their achievements, skin color, nationa…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/25 02:40 AM
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And you are obviously one of those red pillers. Victim blaming at its finest.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/25 05:26 PM
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You mentioned he had an elaborate plan to get you to date him — what exactly do you mean by that? I’m really sorry you went through this. Sending you hugs and all the best 💛 I had a similar experience — the only difference is, I didn’t let myself fall for them. But I completely understand what you’re saying. One thing I’ve learned: always pay attention to whether a guy shows real empathy — how he talks about others, how he treats people when there’s nothing to gain. Look for consistency - a good…
/r/ExRedPill21/07/25 12:53 AM
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How did it work for you?
/r/ExRedPill18/07/25 02:42 PM
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Yea, same way you don't poop into your pants, even if really needed. It's just dumb to expect a woman following basic instinct without making a conscious choice.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/25 11:03 PM
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As a woman I can tell you that I loved a guy who was "below me" in trp terms. So theory about hypergamy is bs. Go for love if you can, it's the best experience you can get and remember life is short
/r/ExRedPill17/07/25 03:24 PM
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Why "keeping the girl" is the objective? Is it like keeping a sex doll kind of mentality? If you don't really love her and your own beliefs are telling you she can't love you - what's the whole point?
/r/ExRedPill17/07/25 02:27 PM
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Maybe because I want to know counter strategies ;) or maybe I'm interested in men's psychology. Translation of what you just said : “You’re crazy for noticing a pattern in male behavior. You should stay ignorant and passive to what is going on in the world." Imagine being more disturbed by a woman recognizing manipulation than by a man using it
/r/ExRedPill17/07/25 04:54 AM
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I don't have his number, but he is around me every day due to work
/r/ExRedPill17/07/25 12:13 AM
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We are in same work environment every day
/r/ExRedPill17/07/25 12:11 AM
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It doesn't matter if I like him or not, I don't deal with manipulators. The question is how to deal with another manipulation
/r/ExRedPill17/07/25 12:11 AM
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Any updates on this?
/r/ExRedPill07/06/25 01:14 AM
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Actually he was his true self at that time. A guy with red pill beliefs, and he acted accordingly 😉
/r/ExRedPill06/06/25 07:58 PM
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If you want advice from a woman , avoid this red pill trash at all cost. I have had experience with the shy guy like you, whom I geniunly liked despite him being socially awkward, closed up and overweight. I also consider myself attractive more than average, but I have had a very few men in my life romantic wise, since I'm somewhat picky and looking only for genuine connection. So I fell hard for this guy for some reason, but could not really connect to him due to him acting cold, superior, and …
/r/ExRedPill01/06/25 06:24 AM
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