PotentiallyAnts Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	How to maintain the confidence and masculine frame beyond the first approach?	Conversation	PotentiallyAnts	/r/seduction	20/09/24 02:00 PM
2	Asked to sit down with them, but they got up and walked away	Conversation	PotentiallyAnts	/r/seduction	08/01/25 03:00 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
97	Complete lack of validation from women in Toronto as a tall black dude has me depressed af ngl Too much time online. Get out there and talk to girls in real life. And I mean talk to them. Don't wait for them to come to you.	/r/seduction	14/07/26 04:37 PM
1	Miami exposed how bad validation seeking really is. AI slop	/r/seduction	11/03/26 12:59 PM
3	Job Hunting Has Made It Very Difficult to Date Don't have any advice to share, but I'm in a similar situation and wanted to let you know that you're not alone!	/r/seduction	08/03/26 02:30 AM
148	As a woman, here’s what actually makes us want you — and it’s not what most guys think Thanks ChatGPT	/r/seduction	09/06/25 12:05 PM
1	Asked to sit down with them, but they got up and walked away Thanks, this is a very helpful response! I have a hard time with thinking on my feet so I ended up on auto-pilot and asking the questions I asked. I can’t think of good responses like that in the moment.	/r/seduction	08/01/25 05:19 PM
2	Asked to sit down with them, but they got up and walked away Thanks for the advice! I agree, adding value to the conversation would help. I’ll try adding humor. I see, I need to build enough rapport before asking for those personal questions. I usually start with asking for names when meeting new people (usually dudes), but I see with women they have their guard up. I was trying to figure out a way to leave but I wasn’t sure of how to do it. At the time, I was thinking if I left then I would be communicating to them that I messed up the interaction and th…	/r/seduction	08/01/25 04:16 PM
3	How to maintain the confidence and masculine frame beyond the first approach? Appreciate the great response! In the past, I used to have long convos because I thought building rapport over a long period of time was good, but I realized how fallible this strategy is and never got anywhere with them. But now I’m better at quickly striking while the iron is hot and suggesting we continue our conversation on a date. I’ll work on being more direct and practicing that masculine frame constantly so it becomes ingrained in me.	/r/seduction	20/09/24 03:42 PM