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Potz666/r/seduction16/05/14 07:56 PM
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Irrespective of sex/gender, for the vast majority of people masculine is attracted to feminine and vice versa. If a man you are interested in gives of masculine vibes you need to play the feminine role. Some men are submissive/feminine in which case you would need to change your approach to be more masculine.
/r/seduction24/05/22 07:32 AM
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Men often need to hear harsh truths rather than being coddled, this is one of those times
/r/seduction25/04/22 08:30 AM
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Of course it's okay, as long as you do it ethically like in your example, be open and honest about what you are looking for, you may loose some girls along the way because they are not looking for that and that's completely fine and normal.
/r/seduction04/02/22 12:52 PM
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In my experience, asking someone to kiss them is pretty unsexy and will kill the vibe unless it's done perfectly. It's far easier to read the situation and her body language, and go for the kiss. Better to be shot down than to go through the pain of regret.
/r/seduction27/01/22 03:01 PM
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Body fat % is by far the best metric, weight and BMI only tell a small portion of the story
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:15 PM
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Luckily not, I dropped the weight slowly over the course of like 5 years, have some gynocomastia from (probably) years of high body fat and low testosterone but it's getting better as I lean out, might end up getting surgery but too early to tell if it will be needed, will have to see when I hit like 14% around May. Dating apps are pretty shit, not going to lie, they are all round bad for men and women IMO but for different reasons, I have a much higher success rate in real life! Good luck on yo…
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:32 PM
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Male, 5'9, gone from 114kgs to 78kgs, putting on muscle and getting lean, shaved head, dress well. Can confirm your experience exactly but from the opposite end of the spectrum. Used to get a very low number of low quality matches when I started, been grinding away at the gym and cleaned up my diet a lot. Now I get a larger number of low quality matches and some decent ones. Still at 19% body fat but it's given me hope that when I hit sub 15% or so the trend will continue. Gym is a temple!
/r/seduction21/01/22 10:23 AM
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Classic shit test, betatization by a thousand cuts, she is testing your frame to see if you really are who you say you are. You only should change if it's actually good for you.
/r/seduction21/01/22 06:27 AM
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Great advice, cuts through a lot of the internal BS we tell our selves, thank you! I live in Johannesburg, South Africa and in my demographic we have a huge tendency to drive everywhere (not exactly safe to be walking due to the crime rate here), so approaching while walking somewhere is pretty much out of the question. I have tried going to shopping malls but the vast majority of women walking around there are with boyfriends, the single ones I'd say 1/5 is attractive enough to approach. I thou…
/r/seduction12/01/22 01:43 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/ Fairly basic introduction, but effective
/r/seduction22/12/21 03:38 PM
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Thanks a ton, yeah I've noticed a definite increase in female attention even where I am now so gives me a lot of motivation to break through that 15% goal so thank you!
/r/seduction15/12/21 10:33 AM
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Heya my dude, in a very similar boat to you, 36, introverted, lost my wife in September 2020 we were going to start a family too but life had other plans. I'm just starting to get back out there these last 3 months. Spent the months since it happened hitting the gym 3-5 times a day because it was the best thing to help deal with the grief. Turns out it was the right call for dating too. I'm down from 96kg at 34% body fat to 79kgs @ 22% body fat, still a ways to go. The dating world has changed a…
/r/seduction14/12/21 12:33 PM
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Nah, 90% is body, girls will sleep with tall ugly mofos who are lean and have some muscle
/r/seduction12/12/21 06:32 AM
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Don't try build a connection over text, you are not a human to the other person at that point. A connection is built in person, I aim to setup a date same day we match, set it up for less than 7 days in the future
/r/seduction07/12/21 06:54 AM
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A good point, I guess it is different for different women and the delivery in how you ask influences how it comes across
/r/seduction19/11/21 07:20 AM
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Don't offer a time, ask her for her availability this week or next, you are a busy man and can't waste time with back and fourth, find out when she is free, decide if it suits you and then make concrete plans
/r/seduction18/11/21 06:20 AM
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Dating another person of any age/sex/gender can have negative consequences for anyone's life. The age gap isn't what makes a relationship predatory or not. Both sexes can be predatory in how they date. It depends heavily on what each parties intentions are going in.
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:17 PM
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So long as you are open about your intentions there is nothing wrong with this and the relationship can be mutually fulfilling and beneficial to both of you. Don't let other people tell you how to live your life, go after what you want and try to help others along the way. Society will always try to push you to fit into its box if you are a man and it doesn't give a shit about you or what you want, you are a utility. It's more beneficial to society for you to date a single mommy your own age and…
/r/seduction02/11/21 12:58 PM
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Is this because having sex right after the fight provides motivation to fight more in future to have that intense post-fight sex?
/r/TheRedPill01/11/21 11:59 AM
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I suspect that he felt you were pulling back when you took longer than usual to reply and the appropriate reaction for a man when this happens is for him to pull back as well, otherwise he will seem over eager/needy and you will loose interest. He will reply, when he does, don't escalate things by waiting just as long as he has, reply when you see it and it is convenient for you and the conversation will get back on track. He most likely doesn't want to loose you which is why he is waiting to re…
/r/seduction27/10/21 11:54 AM
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I totally get that, I'm the same, I love having deep philosophical discussions with my partner and yeah shared interests are great. There are so many interesting women out there to meet, I like to think of the Bill Nye quote: “Everyone you will ever meet knows something you don't.” So go out there, meet them and find out what is interesting about them and if you have chemistry
/r/seduction22/10/21 02:13 PM
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You are young and it sounds like you have an idealized version of what you want in your head (this will lead to pedestalizing a girl you do meet who is intellectual and will tank your relationship) , get out of your comfort zone a bit and date different types of women to find out what you actually enjoy in a person. The person you date doesn't have to fulfill all of your various needs, they can't be everything for you, it's too much pressure. You can get your intellectual needs met by your frien…
/r/seduction22/10/21 02:02 PM
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Next time you see her, make a playful joke out of it, show her you are a man and ask for her number, the call her to set something up
/r/seduction22/10/21 01:56 PM
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If she makes you wait two months for sex, she is attracted to you but not aroused by you and you are going to have an incredibly vanilla sex life with little passion
/r/seduction20/10/21 11:21 AM
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Sex is the glue that holds a romantic relationship together, if she doesn't see it as valuable and de-prioritizes it at this early stage you are not going to have a fulfilling relationship with her long term. It is 100% okay to want sex, don't let anyone shame you for that.
/r/seduction20/10/21 11:17 AM
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Solid advice right here, disentangle yourself, assume nothing is going to happen and move on (to someone else if you would like). She will either realize what she did wrong or she won't, that's not in your control.
/r/seduction20/10/21 11:15 AM
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I have to agree with you, it's a lot easier to do the "prep" work than to take action which is the actual work. I recently found myself single and while I know a good way to learn game is through trial an error with real women out in the real world, I would love to know what resource(s) you recommend to help augment this? Books/courses/audibooks etc?
/r/seduction18/10/21 12:01 PM
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Tough love: Don't wish the game was easier, put in the work and be better. the game isn't going to get easier, be the best version of yourself. Get lean, put on muscle, learn intersexual dynamics and female nature. You don't want to end up an incel
/r/seduction26/09/21 03:00 PM
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Thanks, do you have a link to Uncle V's guides/work? my google foo is failing me
/r/TheRedPill25/03/21 08:04 AM
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Fellow South Africa, can confirm!
/r/TheRedPill25/11/20 12:27 PM
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"The more I practice, the luckier I get" - Gary Player That being said, sometimes things are just out of your control, don't dwell on it and just keep making opportunities for yourself.
/r/seduction07/06/14 10:43 AM
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Look dude, if she makes you happy then why worry? If you want to keep her, then never stop working on yourself and never stop dating/seducing her.
/r/seduction29/05/14 10:26 AM
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This ^ You look like an ass if you AMOG other guys, just give value to everyone in the group/set you are talking to, it makes them happier to be around you and in turn raises your value. In addition being good to other people makes you feel good which raises your mood and can put you in "state"
/r/seduction27/05/14 09:41 AM
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It sounds like your mind is coming up with rationalisations about why you shouldn't try to date the vast majority of women. It's a defense mechanism to prevent change. If you found these women attractive you would have to face the reality that in order to get them you actually have to try, causing effort which your brain doesn't want. It's funny since it's often the flaws we find in other people that end up being part of the endearment or attraction to them once we get to know them. I often find…
/r/seduction26/05/14 07:52 PM
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A pleasure! I know what you mean, that's your brain trying to maintain the status quo. We use these things as excuses for why we don't just go out and approach, we are either scared of failing or succeeding and needing to change our world view. I'll have to check when I get home, but if I remember right, Paul Janka is one of the PUA's that focuses on Day Game, I imagine he would have quite a few tips. Just google and you should find some decent info From him. Personally I just go to the mall, do…
/r/seduction20/05/14 07:33 AM
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Sometimes we have to put our current wants on hold so that we can get what we really want down the road. It seems to me like you have realised this but are having a bit of a tough time sticking to it at the moment. This is normal! I don't think you arent "doing a fucking thing" with your life, rather look at it this way: You are working on improving your value as best as you can given the current situation. You can't always change the situation but you can decide how you react to it. Here are so…
/r/seduction18/05/14 03:51 PM
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To be honest, I wouldn't, not be cause it is needy (you have already struck out, what do you care if she thinks you are needy) but because even if she does tell you it's unlikely to be useful. At the end of the day, attraction is subconscious, she will know she isn't interested but her conscious mind is unlikely to know why. Asking her why forces her logical mind to come up with something to justify her rejection of you, hence the "I'm not interested in dating right now" or "you're just not my t…
/r/seduction13/05/14 10:40 AM
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You completely missed the point. Social traumas in our childhood, when we are developing our personalities, can continue to affect us and thus our actions long after they happen.
/r/seduction10/05/14 09:54 AM
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This article came out just in time, read the linked 6 unhealthy habits too: http://markmanson.net/6-healthy-habits
/r/seduction08/05/14 07:48 PM
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There is an audiobook, but it's not free: http://markmanson.net/books/models/add-to-cart?pid=49
/r/seduction06/05/14 01:52 PM
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I think a lot of guys see being in a relationship as the destination when in reality it's just a part of the journey. Keep focused on self improvement / inner game - If you are constantly upping your value/self worth then the woman you are seeing will be more likely to stay interested. Worst case if the relationship ends you won't need to dig yourself out of a pit of low value. You often hear about people "letting themselves go" when they are in a relationship, they put on tons of weight, stop e…
/r/seduction29/04/14 09:43 AM
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Not sure about your background but I would suggest you be honest and own it, tell her you were focusing on other aspects of your life and never really had time for girlfriends in the past but that now you have those things sorted you are open to the possibility and seeing what's out there. I would then follow up with elaborating a bit on one of those aspects you were focusing on that you think she would find attractive or that you want to talk about.
/r/seduction23/04/14 11:00 AM
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