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What’s the point of living longer without coochee? Oh, I dunno. Everything else in life. Unlike you I don’t allow myself to be controlled by women. Instead of only caring what women think, I have things that I enjoy. Simply because I enjoy them. My whole life doesn’t revolve around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:33 AM
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Would a well rounded person seek advice from people who regularly demean women, and place themselves above them. Saying women shouldn’t vote, women are stupid, and talking about how to get women obsessed with you. Not in love with, not want, not care for, but obsessed. Evidence: https://youtube.com/shorts/ejdIyW2rQUs?si=Qo_NnWbP0r6LMts2 https://youtube.com/shorts/o-PNfOF6hXw?si=RTKWV9oJWEKpn0XQ https://youtu.be/pfknw42Pt0M?si=Pt73wDTgXXwDJNfe https://www.youtube.com/live/dTH3lYvW4t0?si=EXLLoVYV2…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:30 AM
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But it’s also important to remember that people who seek out specific types of content often have special motivations to do so. I’m skeptical to say the least. It seems much more likely to me that lost young men are finding these creators and watching in an attempt to find role models for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:11 AM
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What motivates you more a) being healthy, happy, having more energy, seeing yourself grow/progress, building strength and… LIVING LONGER b) coochee Working out is literally a matter of life and death. If you are more motivated my pussy than you are my not dying, you have deeper issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:07 AM
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I can’t tell if you meant that as a positive or negative. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:00 AM
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I think the exact phrasing most commonly used would be “do put women on a pedestal” there is also “push, pull” game in pua circles. This video breaks down why you shouldn’t put women on a pedestal, and how to get her to put you on one. https://youtu.be/n93QuQWemBw?si=zoGQ9ic9LI19KpYi Is this what you meant u/grillopie?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:00 AM
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I understand your point. But I feel like it needs to be made clear to these young men that “becoming a high value man” or “building a rotation of girls” isn’t a way to achieve fulfillment. To use your NBA example, if an NBA player neglected social connection (shown in peer reviewed research to be the best predictor of life satisfaction) or took PEDs (seriously hurting their body) in order to win more, in hopes of than bringing them happiness, I’d do my best to explain to them that this won’t get…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:55 AM
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Teenage boy takes drugs as well as deals them Blame women -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:49 AM
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They can be put on child support though Yes, they can. But child support doesn’t make permanent changes to your body. And paying child support is much easier than having to RASIE A CHILD. Yes, many scumbag women will use child support as a way to suck a man dry. But the average woman still has to fear getting pregnant because they still have to raise that child, which means paying for anything the child support doesn’t cover (and often quitting their job). I’m not trying to compare the difficult…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:58 PM
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I think it depends on what you like. I don’t you should do something on a date you wouldn’t anyway. For example, I love hiking, so for me it makes perfect sense to take someone on a hiking date. If she likes hiking, that’s a sign we’ll probably get along.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:17 PM
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Also the pregnancy/safety thing is kind of a red herring. Those are also risks for men Neither pregnancy or safety are an issue for men. Men can’t get pregnant. Women are at a disadvantage in physical confrontations, therefore they have to worry more about safety. “stealthing” is literally considered rape in some states. Yeah. That’s her point. It’s awful and women are at a high risk of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:06 PM
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These women might be having casual sex because they can’t get into a relationship/find a man willing to commit. Women might be trying to fill the loneliness with sex the way many men fill the loneliness with porn, or other self destructive habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:59 PM
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So if you don’t wanna date a fat girl, don’t date a fat girl. The problem is that nowadays any guy who says anything besides “Lizzo’s size is the pinnacle of feminine beauty” is raked across the coals. People wouldn’t lie if they could tell the truth without getting ripped apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:27 PM
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If you want to be taken seriously, you will have to justify major conflicts in your beliefs. If you say a man who has tons of sex is high value, and a woman who has tons of sex is low value, you’ll have to reconcile these beliefs one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:35 PM
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I understand why it was in place thousands of years ago. But thousands of years ago we slept outside, shit on the floor, and kill others whenever we felt like it. I understand we still have these drives today, but we can’t give into every single whim and expect to have a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:17 PM
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Just because you had to work for it doesn’t make it valuable. Women could still be apprehensive of high body counts because she feels like it shows things like: lack of sexual discipline, no interest in ltr’s, lack of priorities, etc. Here’s an example. It really hard to be addicted to meth. If you’re addicted to meth you have to: get money for the meth, avoid being caught with the meth, stay safe while going to shady places to buy meth, and many other things. Yet, I don’t want to date a meth ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:13 PM
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Saying women do the same thing isn’t a valid justification. It still makes no sense for a promiscuous man to only want to date modest women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:04 PM
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“I am so curious where this trope that every woman wants a tall man comes from” There’s a grain of truth in it, but social media (especially manosphere spaces) blew it out of proportions. I personally know couples where the man is shorter, and they’re perfectly happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:02 PM
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Preface: This is a genuine question Women don’t want strangers to approach From what I’ve seen, when a guy approaches a girl respectfully, is kind, isn’t pushy, and is socially aware, the consequence is rarely bad. Worse case scenario they say they aren’t interested and move on. I understand that women get lots of (for lack of a better term) “bad approaches”. Ex: Catcalling, not taking no for an answer, being rude etc. But will women really get mad if a relatively good looking man politely walks…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:16 PM
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Can’t pinpoint an exact date when it happened, nor the definitive catalyst That’s because there isn’t an exact date when this started. Hypergamy is biologically wired into women. It’s always been an fact of life. Women didn’t randomly start wanting to date up, they always have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:43 PM
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First of all, that’s not how you spell self-improvement. Just for the chance to be mabye not invisible to the masses of women This seems like and exaggeration. I know tons of average guys who have female friends and even girl friends. Lots of Blackpill/incel creators will try to convince you that all women are inundated with attention from 10/10 millionaires, and won’t settle for less. But if you just go and ACTUALLY TALK TO WOMEN, you’ll see this isn’t true. When is the last time you spoke to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:45 PM
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I think OP has a point, but only in certain situations. If one person is providing 100% of the family finances and their partner has no job, it’s unfair to expect them to do the majority of the house work also. On the other hand, if she is working also (as many women are) why shouldn’t you be involved in the housework? Mabye you make 10-30% more than her. An argument could be made you should do slightly less work than her, but if you are both working 40 hours a week, does it really matter that y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:10 PM
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They are right here https://youtu.be/qzGCORlWlwI https://youtu.be/Q6FoME4PvsY https://youtu.be/vHhCsiXkB6s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:52 PM
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Man cited his sources on a Reddit post. Not the redditor we deserved, but the redditor we needed. tips hat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:32 PM
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It’s also nature. Women consistently (across time, and across different cultures) score higher in neuroticism- sensitivity to negative emotion. As a result women are much more likely to be anxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:30 PM
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Homeboy got bars
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:51 PM
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There is no reason for you to improve as a person the AI will always be attracted to you no matter how you behave. I agree 1000%. Saying an AI robot is better than a real girlfriend because she won’t leave you so can “be yourself” doesn’t sit well with me. Sometimes you need to change. You’re not some perfect person who should stay exactly how you are, no matter what. We’re flawed, all of us. And we should be constantly changing, for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:43 PM
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Not a fair comparison. All money is equal. Not all sex is equal. That was the point made the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:25 PM
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but I believe straight men are the primary perpetrators of homophobia. I don’t think this is true, especially when it comes to bisexual people. Of the people I know (biased sample, I know) I don’t really see a difference in homophobia towards gay people. But bisexuals is are different story. Many straight women will preach pride and inclusivity, but are turned off my a man who is bisexual or has experimented. Whereas the inverse is not the same. Most heterosexual guys could care less if their gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:27 PM
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Do or do not, there is no try
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:39 AM
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Or, “be you, if you were better.” As in, be the best version of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:17 PM
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Yes, of course. The the first ones to have sex are those who develop skills and attributes that create attraction. These skills and attributes (social skills, physical attractiveness, humor, etc.) are what give you options to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:12 PM
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The camping and casino options were examples. The point OP was getting at (I assume) was that you should look for people where you have interest in common. What common traits will you find in common in a Dive Bar. You guys both wanna get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:27 PM
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Yeah, but if your looking for a relationship, you should start off looking for that. Not hooking up and saying “hopefully this becomes a relationship”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:24 PM
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It’s not a lie, it’s just not the entire truth. Sounds like something a liar would say ”I hope he gets put away for a long time” Never will she realize that I’m rooting for the brother to beat is cases/charges. LITERALLY LYING!! This could be in the dictionary as an example for the word lying Did you even read the post, VehementlyDrawn??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:52 PM
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Unless you can find me an example of one https://youtu.be/Plpb4HMCMoM https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/mfup9z/im_an_atheist_and_want_to_wait_until_marriage_so/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1 https://amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2012/jul/01/believe-sex-saved-until-marriage https://www.quora.com/Would-most-intelligent-atheist-men-be-willing-to-date-court-a-woman-who-was-waiting-until-marriage-to-have-sex It took me less that five minutes to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:34 AM
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I don’t think you read my post at all Yes I did, but I’m not sure you read mine Many men see no point in improving if it doesn’t guarantee women I know, but (as I stated in my post) I disagree. Because your life is objectively better when you improve yourself. By definition. If your addicted to porn/social media/video games, and you quit. That might not help you get laid. But you should still do it, because living a life addicted to a screen is a miserable life (speaking from experience). If you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:27 AM
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A sane girl isn’t dating a religious person who’s that extreme. Really, because in many Muslim countries waiting till marriage is still the norm. And even in the US and Europe many women wait till marriage, for religious and non-religious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:57 PM
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Uh, yes it does…it means that your extrenally perceived value was high enough to sleep with you… Getting laid doesn’t make you high value. Being high value gets you laid. If a high value man (doctor/lawyer/CEO/athlete) decided to stop having sex, they would still be high value. If a high school kid doesn’t have sex because he studies all day, and then gets accepted to Harvard, he is higher value to a kid who flunked out because he was chasing pussy. The virgin in this scenario is a Harvard stude…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:54 PM
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False dichotomy. Sure, even if everyone agreed that Fuckboy was worse than incel, it’s better yet to be called neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:47 PM
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Men who have lots of sex, are very attractive. Men who do not have sex, are not attractive. I don’t disagree with this. But having sex is not causing them to be attractive. In fact, I believe the opposite is true If you are attractive that causes you to be able to have sex. And vice versa If you believe virgins can’t have sex, riddle me this: If it’s hard/impossible for virgins to get laid, how did they lose there virginity. Every Giga-Chad was at one point a virgin, then he became attractive, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:45 PM
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more men on dating apps are looking for LTR than a casual encounter. This is just a statistical fact. I was not aware of this. I was under the impression that the people on dating apps were predominantly looking for hookups, especially men. Where did you find this data? (I know some app post it, or will work with researchers at colleges and the data gets out that way) I would love to take a look at it, it seems like it would be interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:37 PM
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1) If don’t think people should work on themselves, what’s the alternative? Live off of your parents your whole life? Never leave the house and eat junk food? Get stoned and game 10 hours a day? Just keep beating off whenever you get horny? I can’t imagine how actually trying to better yourself could possibly be worse than that. 2) If you are a porn-addicted, unhealthy, NEET, lonely, gamer, and then you work on yourself to become a college grad, with a job, a 401k, hobbies, and a friend group yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:29 PM
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If you need to go from one company to another to find a job. That’s a guy with no option. If you interview at ten places to try and get a job, and four say no, and six say yes, you now have six options. If you expect no one to ever reject you, you’re delusional. Even super rich, attractive guys get rejected. Mabye the girl he’s talking to is in a relationship, or not looking to date, or gay, or not interested in him specifically. Just cause you get rejected, doesn’t mean you don’t have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:51 PM
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A lot of men give up early because of this If you give up on dating at the age of 14, no wonder your not having success. Plenty of people have horrible HS experiences, then go on to live normal lives. It’s like a video game, if you quit after level 1 because it was hard, you can’t complain when you don’t get the loot from beating the final boss. No one makes you give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:16 AM
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But women don’t want them of course. Yeah According to Nicholas Eberstat, 7 million men aged 25-54 are unemployed. They report 2000 hours a year of screen time (w/ pain meds). I assume these would be the 35% of men your talking about. If you have other statistics feel free to share them. As a man, I don’t see unintelligent, rude, and incompetent women as an option. Its not PC but it’s true. If I was a women I’m sure I wouldn’t see and unemployed gaming addict as an option either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:12 AM
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True, but imagine that you had to go to 100 restaurants to find the filet minion, and when you ordered it, the waiter brought out a burger.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:06 AM
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False dichotomy. I’d drink spoiled milk than eat shit. I prefer neither though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:04 AM
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We are not at the whims of evolutional programming. I’m emotionally programmed to want to pick fights with anyone who bothers me. But I don’t, because I have self control. If you make your one goal in life to satisfy your evolutionary function you won’t wind up happy. For example, if you died homeless, alone, and didn’t contribute to society at all in your life, but you had 100 kids, would die happy? No? But you achieved your evolutionary function Furthermore, men act in ways that go against the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:02 AM
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it’s most likely that you have to be higher than her in some kind of status Exactly, status is almost entirely subjectively defined. This is a long example, but I think it makes my point well. In America, Brazilian Jujitsu (BJJ) athletes are far from famous. The best in the world have some niche recognition, but nothing close to fame. And therefore BJJ skill doesn’t really help you with the ladies. Whereas a NFL player (even a benchwarmer) could walk into a club, and walk out with whoever he wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:53 AM
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You okay man? You can reach out to me if you need to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:37 AM
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I agree wholeheartedly. Everyone should have the OPTION to to eat 1,000 hot dogs… but ya shouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:34 AM
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I was not referring to particular situations but life in general. I’m confused by this. Men don’t suddenly change their standards when the go online Where do you draw the line between “particular situations” and “life in general”? Life is just a collection of “particular situations”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:33 AM
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I’d getting laid meant more LTRs, why are women complaining they can’t find men who’ll commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:29 AM
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Imagine you go to a restaurant, the following happens: Waiter: Your options today are dog crap, bird crap, horse crap, and bull crap You: All those options seem like crap Waiter: Your just not vetting them properly. You need to weed out all the ones you don’t like. You: But I don’t like any of them Waiter: Listen man, kids starving in Africa would love to be in a position where they can qualify the foods they eat. You should be grateful. End scene audience applause I never said women didn’t have…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:27 AM
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“most” is a bigger word I see that now, I shouldn’t have used it if you think going from one girl to another and getting rejected many times till you finally get a date. If that means an option for you then you are wrong. I disagree, if you are looking for a job you have to interview for many places till you find one that fits. If you are buying a house you look at tons of houses till you find one in your price range you like. If your buying pants, your have to try on a bunch of pairs till you f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:22 AM
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Rather than what???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:12 AM
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If you depend your happiness on whether or not random women want to have sex with you, your weak. Plain and simple. Any man who thinks twice what random girls -who he will never see again- think of him, needs to Grow. A. Pair. Happiness doesn’t come from within, self respect does.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:11 AM
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You have to be crushing it in some area relative to the girl I agree, I’m trying to do away with the idea that there is an objective “high value” or “low value”. Everyone defines it themselves. Your idealizing one side to focus on the downsides of the other side. I could say the same for you. No one has a happy marriage? No single men get lonely? Playboys never spends days alone? The fact that you had sex and someone accepted you for sex is baseline here and many would argue that that is better …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:05 AM
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You don’t need survey data to say some people value certain things. But some people value others, and I’m not trusting your anecdotal experience to compare the prevalence of each.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:16 AM
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Touché Please allow for this adjustment. Man A’s aging mother passes. He takes time to grieve. But after a few months he has come to terms with his mothers passing. Man A is efficient doesn’t want all this time to go to waste, and decides to start dating with his newfound spare time. However, man A is waiting till marriage until he has sex, due to his theological convictions. The ball is in your court, hiddendance tips hat and winks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:07 AM
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1) Plenty of married couples still have sex. 2) You would really sacrifice a committed intimate relationship, with someone who loves you more than anything in the world, and who will stand by you no matter what, for marginally more sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:30 PM
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“Women have options to choose from” Yes, but: 1) Most men have more options than they think, if they actually started talking to women and trying to get dates/sex, they would do better then they would think. 2) Many of these options are awful. “Oh, BuT aT LeAsT ShE hAs OpTioNS” A woman’s ability to have short, lackluster, sex with someone who only sees her as an object, isn’t the gift from above many think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:26 PM
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I agree, that was an imprecise use of words on my part. I will edit my comment to be more accurate. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:20 PM
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Who called you that? And did they mean it as a compliment? (Genuinely asking, since I’ve never seen anyone give it take fuckboy as a compliment)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:18 PM
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You make a very good point, a man who is successful with women(or at least has the ability to do so) will largely be viewed better than one who is not. I see your point now and wholeheartedly agree. My pint is m, you can “get women” without having tons of casual sex, it’s called a relationship. And if you do want to have casual sex (which you can, it’s your prerogative) don’t slander women for doing the same, and the justify it by saying “it’s harder for guys”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:17 PM
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“When they realize that being unable to find sexual partners means that they are biological failures, it would impact their mental health in a negative way” I would like to make it clear, I take no issue with men having sex. I just think it would be beneficial to refrain from doing so in the form of hookups. Your comment (along with others) made me see that this was not as clear as I thought it would be, in my original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:09 PM
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Please allow me to present a theoretical situation in order to prove my point. This may be a bit long (my apologies) but I believe it’s the best way to make my point. Man A is a heart surgeon. He works long hours at the hospital, and as a result most of his friends are coworkers. He has very little spare time and spends most of it caring for is aging mother, and working out to keep fit. He regularly volunteers with Doctors Without Borders treating people in poor countries, who can’t afford healt…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:03 PM
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That depends on who your talking too. You can’t make broad generalizations about what sOciETy values. (Especially without survey data) Certain groups of people will judge someone based off of how many “chicks the bang”, but are these really the people who’s opinions you care about. Then again other groups will see a man as high value because of the decades long marriage he’s had. And a third group might see a high value man as one who ignores women entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:51 PM
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I’d be upset if someone called me one, and I know plenty of other men who would too. Also, I’ve NEVER ONCE heard a women use it as a complement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:46 PM
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Thank you for your input. You made me start to regret putting the “waste of time” line in there. While I still agree with it, it no longer seems as black and white as it once did. It detracts from the main point of the argument (the second point about the double standard, where we agree). Thank you for the point you made, Reddit needs more thoughtful well spoken people like you. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:44 PM
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This is not the argument I made. You are blatantly putting words in my mouth, and I do not appreciate it. I am perfectly willing to say things that make women seem unvirtuous. For example: - many women (especially attractive ones) will string along men they don’t find attractive, for pure enjoyment, or at best a safety net. (Like a cat playing with a captured mouse, it’s disgusting). - many women (especially attractive ones) expect men to pay for everything for them, without so much as a thank y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:32 PM
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I’m sorry if my post came across like that, please let me know what specifically I said that made it seem like that. (I’m genuinely asking, so I can be more articulate in future) I assume (correct me if I’m wrong) that you are saying men’s higher sex drive leads them to want more casual sex. And that men cannot be expected to have the same sexual restraint as women, do to lower sex drive. (I believe that this is your argument) But this argument is rendered invalid when you realize that if a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:21 PM
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“Most women will never be able to comprehend what it feels like when the opposite gender wants absolutely nothing to do with them simply due to how they look.” I think these videos give a better counter argument than I ever could: 1) https://youtu.be/vgJCKvgSlgk 2) https://youtu.be/qzGCORlWlwI 3) https://youtu.be/Q6FoME4PvsY Being invisible to the opposite sex based off of looks, is not a uniquely male experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:08 PM
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Thank you for letting me know, I was unaware of this. Do you know if there have been any such allegations against the PAUs linked above (genuinely asking). I can only hope that my other two points are strong enough for my argument to stand on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:02 PM
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I completely agree LoopyPro. Many men base their entire self worth on there ability to bed women. However, this is an unbelievably fragile sense of self worth. And it’s horribly mentally unhealthy. Wouldn’t it be better to feel comfortable in your own skin, without needing women to have sex with you. That way your self worth wouldn’t be dependent on the whims of other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:00 PM
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“All these things are associated with being a man women don’t find attractive” Hot guys can be school shooters. Hot guys can be mentally disabled. Sure can you tie these things back to being sexually unattractive, sure. Being a school shooter makes you unattractive to women, I don’t disagree with that. Being a school shooter also makes it so you won’t get invited to any family reunions, but that’s not what it’s about. “School shooter” is an insult because they MURDER CHILDREN, it doesn’t involve…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:56 PM
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Yes, to an extent ltr vs hookups are personal preference. But, if you read Harvard University’s longitudinal study of human development (the longest running study in history); you will see that the strength of your social relationships is BY FAR the best predictor of happiness. You can still be happy without an intimate relationship, because you can compensate with other social connections. But the evidence does not support this as an optimal strategy. Just because people are choosing it doesn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:47 PM
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My post is not an attempt to provide a conclusive argument against all casual sex. (Such an argument would be far to ambitious for a Reddit post written by a 17 y/o) I was simply attempting to provide a counter argument to the argument that men who have large amount of casual sex are to be heralded, whereas the same does not apply to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:36 PM
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What about all the insults where men are insulted for the amount of sex they have? Have you never heard a man called a fuckboy? Man-whore? Sleazy? Creep? Also, plenty of men get insulted for things that have nothing to do with having sex with women. I know a kid at my school, who gets bullied ENDLESSLY. He’s gets called: social reject, possible school shooter, weird, ret**ded, just to name a few. AND HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:24 PM
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1) I don’t think that men suck for having casual sex, I just don’t think it’s beneficial to your life as a whole, and your time would be better spent elsewhere. The same goes for women I might add. 2) I do care about men (I am one). Men want the same think that women want, a fulfilling and meaningful life. And casual sex doesn’t help you get there, in fact it might even get in the way. 3) I’m confused by what you mean by “if the genders were swapped”. Men are the only ones who justify promiscuit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:03 PM
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I’ve seen a lot of comments about number six, mostly women saying that they are happy with their “common man”. But I want to draw attention to something a little different. OP says that women won’t be happy because they’ve “had sex with better men”. This isn’t necessarily a given. Having spent A LOT of time listening/watching red-pill/manoshpere content (more time then I’d like to admit) there seems to be this misperception that the average women gets flown out and railed by 10/10 millionaire gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:47 PM
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I agree, and the same thing goes for women. There is a certain type of girl (we’ve all known girls like this at one point or another) who would love nothing more that a wild, unpredictable, “bad boy”. But when your talking about respectable, mature, intelligent women, they wouldn’t tolerate a man like that for a second.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:25 PM
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I don’t know what to say, other than I think you are on the right path. Men who can’t delay gratification or be in a committed relationship aren’t the ones you want to spend your time on anyway. When you meet a HVM. He will respect your discipline and chastity
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/22 07:44 AM
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